Woman Loses £170,000 in Investment Scam After Selling Her House | Real Men Never Ask For Money
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After a whirlwind romance, Carol Goodall and Gary Rogers' big day is all set. But then, after Carol has sold her house and given the money to Gary to invest, she receives a suspicious text message from another woman. Is Gary who he says he is?
This video is used for educational purposes and not for use of entertainment. By the end of this year the estimated loss due to romance scam will be 7 billion worldwide. It's a growing epidemic and women of all ages and backgrounds are becoming a victim. Most of these men pretend to be wealthy that always turns out to be a lie and scamming women is their fulltime job.
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Love Rats documentary
Promises of love and romance end up being scams, lies and deceit. They promise life-long romance, yet they scheme, scam and swindle. Some steal a fortune; others lead double lives. They are Love Rats. The victims at the center of these cases reveal how they were left with broken hearts and empty bank accounts.
Real Men Never Ask For Money is the only thing you need to remember in order not to become a victim of a romance scammer like these ladies in Love Rats.
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@laj68 Жыл бұрын
The biggest red flag was why would you give your money investment fund to someone who been in prison for fraud ?
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
The biggest red flag was he told her he was still married but she went ahead with him anyway.
@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64 Жыл бұрын
Duh? right?
@lindaname9413 Жыл бұрын
Can't make this stuff up.
@Bulletguy07 Жыл бұрын
@@SamStone1964 He told her he was going through a divorce and it was "only a matter of time for it to be finalised".
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
@@Bulletguy07 Yes, he told her he was still married.
@ramaat2731 Жыл бұрын
I have one rule. We start dating. If you ask me for money I'm blocking you. No way I'm giving away my hard earned money
@hulklikesnutella7236 Жыл бұрын
But u would ask him money for nails,hair,shopping yea?
@lauraleehenry5657 Жыл бұрын
You sound like a very smart person, damn, can't believe I'm talking about myself again....LOL that's my rule. I work too hard for my money to take it and give it away to a man.
@TheKim369 Жыл бұрын
@@hulklikesnutella7236 While dating? Most women wouldn't. The only exception might be very young women with older men.
@marciathehooligan9967 Жыл бұрын
Why are you "blocking" him?! Good Lord, doesn't anybody date in person anymore?! Where tf is people's self worth?!?!
@marciathehooligan9967 Жыл бұрын
@@hulklikesnutella7236 not every woman would
@animallover4955 11 ай бұрын
“He was nice, he was charming, he defrauded a bank, been in jail, married 4 times, yeah I like this one!😂
@HaramXL 9 ай бұрын
I'm swooning here, he sounds an absolute dream 😂❤
@dubinatub1 8 ай бұрын
Yer a true CAD
@hydrangeas_lover 2 ай бұрын
@@HaramXLyeah, an LSD induced dream! 😂😂😂
@lindakagota7543 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@marknewton6984 2 ай бұрын
Are you kidding?😮
@aussiemouth747 Жыл бұрын
My late Mum always told me 'never give a man your money'. Thanks Ma. Your advice has served me well.😘
@childrensorg856 Жыл бұрын
Good mom 👌
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
So true!
@dianakidd4219 Жыл бұрын
Same here. Common sense isn’t common,
@bambinaforever1402 Жыл бұрын
Why would anyone need a mom to tell that. The woman in the video was quite not smart to give her money to a man she was not even married to
@dianakidd4219 Жыл бұрын
@@bambinaforever1402 Because she was that desperate for love.
@gina3498 Жыл бұрын
Im 51,been single for 4 years after a 18 year relationship with the father of my last born.i DO NOT plan on getting involved with anyone ever again.ive had enough of men to last me a lifetime.im single and happy.i put all my energy on myself,my children and grand children.i do things to keep me busy,you dont need a man to keep you occupied.at my age i dont want to deal with a moody difficult man.make yourself happy ladies.we are all responsible for our own happiness🤗
@Venus-gn5oi Жыл бұрын
You don't need a man who is a lying cheating manipulative AH at any age. I too prefer to be on my own and to enjoy my freedom and have a peaceful life ❤
@auntyharry Жыл бұрын
Amen, ladies, Amen.
@rozdoyle8872 Жыл бұрын
Oh Yes , the peace and power of being alone is truly Beautiful , no more Parasites in my life , I believe loneliness is really for oneself, the real self and we jump the gun to fill the void with a Man and those Men are doing exactly the same but they and their egos need Money to fill their Void , easy peasy , get a woman with Money.
@christinawahlmuller1142 Жыл бұрын
♥️
@theinsightfulvisionary0197 Жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@shauntaylor6040 Жыл бұрын
Getting married after 3 months is crazy, even if that person isn't a scammer.
@sarahproctor9924 Жыл бұрын
Mine wasn’t an online romance, but I married after 4 months and am happily married for 14 years now. It doesn’t always end in craziness! 😅
@Xandra101-xj8ef Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right!!!
@aishadavina4426 Жыл бұрын
@@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK you brain washed him
@paulastorm3923 Жыл бұрын
Married after 4 months and was very happily married for 36 years until he passed.
@gardensofthegods 11 ай бұрын
A friend of mine married her husband after about 3 weeks and had a happy successful marriage for over 40 yrs right up until he died .
@rosejacobs8529 Жыл бұрын
Who in their right mind sells their house and give proceeds to a man she knew a wet day. The height of stupidity. He didn't take it , you gave it to him, there's a difference 😬
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
@rose Jacob. What do you mean “gave”? Pulling his gun aim her head? So unless robbing anything are “giving” special being cheated, lying, set-up, dupping,scam… are all GIVING? Your law of criminal are too wide. Under you there is NO CRIMINAL everything are giving I hate your boundless of criminal vs justice. NAL everything are giving I hate your boundless of criminal vs justice.
@ds8290 11 ай бұрын
A person who was conned by a scumbag.
@vaska1999 11 ай бұрын
Rubbish. He stole the money she had entrusted him with. The guy's a professional conman just like some people are professional burglars.
@kevinmalone3210 11 ай бұрын
It was done under a pretense, he falsely misrepresented himself, so it's fraud.
@tashamorriss8997 4 ай бұрын
what does 'she knew a wet day' mean?
@minimaxmiaandme.4971 Жыл бұрын
Been in prison, still married but getting divorced, owes loan to bank, business going under, defaulted......run....too many red flags...
@dinacap2660 Жыл бұрын
WHAT A CATCH!!!
@elliotoliver8679 3 ай бұрын
Why don't you sell your house and put the money in MY account??????????????????????????????/
@cypruscats8450 Жыл бұрын
Devastating for her, but she ignored so many red flags! Firstly don't sell your property until you have been together for years and secondly never ever put the money into his sole name!
@aussiemouth747 Жыл бұрын
Be buggered if I ever opened a joint bank account! Stupid and unnecessary these days.
@ann-mariepaliukenas19 Жыл бұрын
Don’t give him money.Let him give it to you!
@davisholman8149 Жыл бұрын
@@ann-mariepaliukenas19 ikr? I would never in a million years do what these women did! LOL - men give it to ME, not the other way around. I have never been desperate either - love yourself first. Lonely - understandable. But do NOT lower your standards to simply have a man in your life. And ladies, most desirable men in their 50s are going to date women 10 years younger. If you are in your 50s - the men you usually get are late 60s. If that doesn’t appeal to you, meet men in person during social opportunities. Dating sites are rife with liars. 95% are NOT trustworthy. Sorry - but it is the truth. If you are very attractive ,- slender & accomplished - you will meet the right man in person & have better luck that way.
@theinsightfulvisionary0197 Жыл бұрын
@@ann-mariepaliukenas19 Right on!!! She's a damn fool!!!
@Nortongroove Жыл бұрын
You are soo right, fools abound
@lindadevoy4321 Жыл бұрын
He didn’t take her kids money, she gave it all away 🙄
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
I constantly heard victim got cheated & scammed, reader comment they “gave money away”! Vice versa who would “gave money away” without any verbal cheating? So law enforcement should concentrate arrest those scammers for crimes action instead guibbling With “giving away” it directly support criminal actions.
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
Who would give money away except to church or charity organization! I hate those outsider pretentious as lawful quote victim “giving $$ away “
@og6920 Жыл бұрын
@@sabrinawang6267 Churches are scammers, too. Save your money. Donate your time instead because your hard-earned cash always ends up in the wrong hands.
@snooganslestat2030 Жыл бұрын
@@sabrinawang6267 No she GAVE it away. He told her he had been in jail for fraud! She chose to give money to a convicted fraudster ffs.
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
@@snooganslestat2030 there is no proof he said such words, he still cheat her or those women as many times he can. Who would have money away ? Scammer duped & robbery
@RJRussoVids Жыл бұрын
This is quite fascinating because the man confessed (truthfully or not) that he was a) still married and b) had been in prison for financial crimes. So this lady very quickly decides to a) marry him and b) give him all of her money. I just don’t understand, why the rush into all of this? 🤦♂️
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
Desperation.
@julieannesimms6236 Жыл бұрын
Exactly and 3 marriages is a red flag straight off
@Venus-gn5oi Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Trusting him with so much money although he confessed that his crime was about money 🤦♀
@rubbersoul4469 Жыл бұрын
"Confessing" to being married & being in prison would have been part of the scam. Portraying himself as being transparent and reformed. Flattering her that he was sincere about being with her.
@rubbersoul4469 Жыл бұрын
PS he only admitted to one marriage. And bring in prison just one time. Very manipulative move.
@Tina06019 Жыл бұрын
These folks are brave to talk about what they went through. We are listening to useful cautionary tales.
@carolflower8015 Жыл бұрын
You mean what suckers they were
@dennispagan7078 Жыл бұрын
These women need a reality check,they go in blind with out thinking
@raphaellavictoria01 Жыл бұрын
At their age, this is unforgivable. I'm sorry. When I was 28, a guy told me all the right things in order to quickly marry me, bc his student visa had expired. Obviously, he only told me this when he broke up with me. I did fall in love w him, and the red flags such as falling on his knee and talking about marriage on the FIRST date, were there. BUT, I was 28. Now, at 41, HA HA HA, is what I would say if a man started to talk about marriage or love at first sight. At whatever age these ladies are at? What is wrong w them, sorry. Grow up.
@billmiller3425 11 ай бұрын
What? Does that mean that YOU would have ever fallen for this scam? Come on!
@guinealove3744 9 ай бұрын
Yes! They are very brave. I would say to poor Carole, GURL!!! you've got Harvey Nicks, boom fish and chips, and the Buddha Bar, no need to be lonely. Cheers
@lesyaa7428 11 ай бұрын
What on earth in this day and age women want to get married asap?? We can live happily without any obligations and marriage is the last thing I would personally consider. This lady is way beyond her teenage years, what was she thinking, marrying a person in two weeks of knowing him. Shocking.
@meganhuggins7494 Жыл бұрын
She moved him into the family home after three months, and then proceeded to hand that house over to a virtual stranger? She was a willing participant in his manipulation. Wanting a partner, someone to love is one thing, handing over your entire financial security is something entirely different. Too much, far too soon.
@fionagregory9147 Жыл бұрын
Should have seen a solicitor.
@jeng8401 Жыл бұрын
the thought of being loved will make people do insane things, he banked on that
@jeanmyers1787 11 ай бұрын
I agrée but these conmen are so clever. In fact I’ve been married twice, adored my second husband who sadly died of cancer but have always had separate bank accounts.
@alsmith9853 11 ай бұрын
Agreed but the first woman was sad and vulnerable, her first husband obviously did a real number on her self esteem
@juanitamayers8889 10 ай бұрын
They was an excellent programme o the BBC about a woman who had lost her life savings and her home. Despite the presenters proving to her it was all a scam. She would not accept the help she was given. Thos woman is able to say she is lonely and want a relationship. She will be scammed again unfortunately. Women must learn to be comfortable with thembselvesanbd not be so desperate for a man. That is why scammers succeed.
@alitawibert6855 Жыл бұрын
I've chosen to be single since the age of 32. I'm now 68. I chose to be single because every relationship I had been in made a fool of me. These years of being single have been the best in my life. I've raised a daughter who has gone on to give me 4 grandchildren who love me very much. I have gotten a master's degree that gave me good earning power. I have met all kinds of interesting people. I help lonely people on a daily basis. I have gotten to know and love God. I couldn't ask for more. As a single person, I have peace. I have wonderful friends and family and none of the strife and stress I had when I was in relationships with men. Being single was difficult and lonely and terribly sexless at first, but I got used to it and now enjoy my peaceful single life very much. It was one of the best decisions I ever made.
@fionagregory9147 Жыл бұрын
God is just a man made myth like Santa. Atheists are more logical.
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
With a pleasant relationship with married is much safe
@dinacap2660 Жыл бұрын
you are awesome and fully adult
@barefootincactus 7 ай бұрын
Congratulations, enjoy!
@Daniela-Christianson Жыл бұрын
So thankful this horrible man was caught!
@inquiz-ahteev Жыл бұрын
What is worse, is to feel lonely when your partner is in the same home❗️
@carolinesmith8024 Жыл бұрын
Right yes that happened with me when I was with this guy
@dubinatub1 8 ай бұрын
Yer to wake up every morning and the person next to you has become a stranger
@mariancounsellor Жыл бұрын
I’ve worked since the age of 16 and always been good with my finances. I can’t imagine a situation where I would hand over financial control to another person whether we’re married or not. Look how much money was involved in this story- the daughter and son’s investment, the sale of the woman’s home. Why would anyone allow a stranger who you’ve just met to control everything? It’s a very sad case of what not to do.
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
A convicted white collar criminal for fraud should have been a red flag. So many women just handover their finance to strange men.
@mariancounsellor Жыл бұрын
@@goaldrivendatingstrategy yes, that was definitely a major red flag. I suppose looking from the outside, I believe it would never happen to me but I can also understand how manipulative some men are and how powerful love is as an emotion.
@belindascott2747 Жыл бұрын
They don't love themselves before a stranger. Very odd and very desperate
@MsEvie15 Жыл бұрын
It is shocking to give all your money and to sell your own home to give even more money. There is another video of a woman who gave the man she never met over $1 million.
@bambinaforever1402 Жыл бұрын
Well, actually, children were also to blame - why did they agree to let the man handle the money mom gave to them? They were all of legal age
@RacieRain Жыл бұрын
She sold her house and put the money in his name before he gave her the run around about marriage. She's surprised about him lying. You trusted him with your children's future.
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
All why knowing he was a convicted white collar criminal.
@pam164 Жыл бұрын
Same here I've met loads of men on dating sites and none asked me for money, and if they did I would have blocked them.
@snooganslestat2030 Жыл бұрын
@@goaldrivendatingstrategy Insanity!
@debbielove9102 8 ай бұрын
Such a sad story.the lady was too trusting. I'm glad she told her story.
@preciousunderwood1512 Жыл бұрын
Most of the time we ignore red flags trying to avoid being alone. If you choose to ignore them and stick around you get hurt and feel like crap. If choose to be alone you feel like crap. I'd rather feel like crap with my money in my pocket.
@marieince3239 Жыл бұрын
Don't give them your money your home your bank cards ever.
@carolecochrane8173 Жыл бұрын
Don't meet idiots on line . Don't ever marry them and give them money, and most of all don't move in with them . If you do meet someone never give up your home in case it goes wrong. 😁😁😁😁😁
@TCHARRISON1 Жыл бұрын
A man that asks a woman for money, is either a SCAMMER, LOSER, TOSSER, or all of the above. I find it repugnant that any man should ask a woman for money, no matter what his reason or excuse is, it's unacceptable and disgusting. If a man ever asks a woman for money, she should refuse and then see how long he stays around for. I bet she won't see him for dust, that should give her a good idea of his real intentions!
@Peekaboo-Kitty Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@foxonfoxy1 10 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@ralphmaver1489 9 ай бұрын
Ladies, if a guy asks you for money drop him straightaway. Likewise if you offer a man your money and he accepts it get rid of him.
@christharris3655 9 ай бұрын
What about a woman asking a man for money? Is that acceptable? Woman are the biggest scammers lol
@rachelmora6227 9 ай бұрын
As young women stating to work, we were told never to give a man money. If a man asks for money from a woman, he is a loser.
@Starlababy Жыл бұрын
I would advise women not to get serious with any man now a days. Scammers are everywhere. Take up a hobby instead.
@carolecochrane8173 Жыл бұрын
Yeah get a dog 😂😂
@eternalwanderer1 Жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@enohp660 2 ай бұрын
Or…maybe don’t marry a guy after 3 months. And maybe don’t give him your money after he’s made you aware that he served time for fraud. I know it sounds tempting but definitely don’t do those things.
@maryfeehan7896 Жыл бұрын
My children and grandchildren are they only ones I would spend my money on. I get great joy from that. I don’t understand how you could give everything away to strangers.
@dinacap2660 Жыл бұрын
my sentiments exactly!!!!
@annaclaire9927 Жыл бұрын
I'm surprised the court couldn't freeze his bank account and make an order for the ladies he'd defrauded to get their money back. It's disgusting.
@julia190 10 ай бұрын
I was wondering what happened to the money. Seems there should be monetary compensation.
@normanpearson8753 9 ай бұрын
It's not been proven in court .
@kolohe2790 9 ай бұрын
Im sure he was spending alot of $ wining and dining his new victims and for sure bought expensive clothes, watches, maybe boats for HIMSELF!
@petrajamnik3430 8 ай бұрын
@@normanpearson8753how come?
@voyaristika5673 7 ай бұрын
I think they said it took a year to find him? The money was probably gone by then. I was also wondering about that.
@sy_dianne5224 Жыл бұрын
This lady was not only desperate and naive, but she basically put him first over her own children, by accepting that her daughter move out because of him. I don't feel sorry for her, just for her family
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
and don't forget selling her house and allowing this scammer to invest their money. She was desperate she said so herself her ex emotional abusive ex husband said: You will never find someone better then me. This was a huge trigger for her so she thought he was her prince charming.
@sy_dianne5224 Жыл бұрын
@@goaldrivendatingstrategy So she is now paying for her choices, too bad the kids had to suffer as well..
@lisaballantyne8539 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you.... I wouldn't have picked a man over my child..... definitely wouldn't have had all of my money from the sale of my hous put into his bank account.... would be interested to know what he actually spent all of that money on 🤔... another red flag for me would have been immediately moving into her house.
@lmusima3275 Жыл бұрын
What annoyed me as that she got her children to invest 60k in his ponzi investment scheme. He stole their money. Craziness
@Nortongroove Жыл бұрын
No sympathy for this person, I feel bad for her daughter,,,mothers actions were shameful, no question of it
@arfriedman4577 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother's and mom had no interest in dating when they lost their partners. They found other things to do.
@eveoakley6270 Жыл бұрын
Same. My nana lost my grandad at the age of only 42. She was left with 5 children aged from 2 to 20 and she dedicated her life to them until they all left home and afterwards had her hands full with grand children and great grand children, her voluntary work and social clubs. She passed away aged 80. She always used to say to me I will always stay on my own coz there was only ever one man for me.
@arfriedman4577 Жыл бұрын
@@eveoakley6270 sorry for the loss of your grandma. One of my grandmother stated to me she didn't want to cater to another man.
@viviennepastor3188 Жыл бұрын
@@arfriedman4577 I agree with them. There is only my husband for me.
@arfriedman4577 Жыл бұрын
@@viviennepastor3188 I'm glad you found a wonderful partner.
@christinevillanueva54 11 ай бұрын
@@eveoakley6270wow, I admire your grandma!
@sunnyday6400 Жыл бұрын
She says she is lonely. Those women are mostly bad friends. When they meet a man, they forget friends and even their whole familiy. This is desperation! You should never ever date because of lonelyness! You first must be able to be alone! She should built herself a social network and have hobbies to fill that huge void she tried to fill with a fraudster! Woman, you are a mother, you have to learn to be responsible!
@jusdeorange Жыл бұрын
Very true!
@dimitrageorgiadi5087 Жыл бұрын
Lay off. Everyone makes mistakes. It could happen to anyone.
@chrischallis4348 Жыл бұрын
there is so much a woman can do, join a volunteer group, social group and make friends in real life.
@julia190 10 ай бұрын
He included her children at first. Gave a solid impression as a caring person to her daughter. Then flipped.
@normanpearson8753 9 ай бұрын
A lot of women shun their mates when men come on the scene .
@molliwilson5639 Жыл бұрын
“ Never a borrower nor a lender be”
@carolecochrane8173 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you, I would not lend him 50p. 😂😂😂😂
@novaricos Жыл бұрын
"...for loan oft loses both itself and friend"!
@robw2486 Жыл бұрын
Amen,
@juliusmaehlich3138 Жыл бұрын
A perfect gentleman does not ask a woman for money.
@trudygraham2222 Жыл бұрын
At 47 I have made the decision sanity and safety over sex
@starcatcher3691 Жыл бұрын
You are very wise
@alexxx7066 Жыл бұрын
@@starcatcher3691 and horny
@marknewton6984 2 ай бұрын
I learned the hard way.
@Veronica.A. Ай бұрын
I'm 48, but I already made that decision long time ago.
@patriciavandevelde5469 Жыл бұрын
Loneliness is killing us and those scammers know it!
@rebeccayoung6344 Жыл бұрын
I’m buying myself a teddy bear that’s all I need after this!
@ann-mariepaliukenas19 Жыл бұрын
No the scammers are more likely to kill
@ladywindrush5464 Жыл бұрын
I do not use the word LONELINESS it as a negative connotation it makes one sound vulnerable....I have replaced it with PEACE...
@ann-mariepaliukenas19 Жыл бұрын
@@ladywindrush5464 well glad you feel peaceful,being alone can be peaceful.Loneliness is very different
@jugurthanumidian4738 Жыл бұрын
French proverb Il vaut mieux être seul que d'être mal accompagné. Better to be alone than to be in bad company.
@christinebeames712 Жыл бұрын
She didn’t loose it , she knew exactly where it went , she paid for the dream ,
@marknewton6984 2 ай бұрын
She paid for a fantasy. 😮
@christinecatt8039 26 күн бұрын
She essentially paid for attention and sex.. Isn't there a nasty name for that.🤔
@monikabachmann4002 Жыл бұрын
He did not take it ,he was given it.
@changechange9972 Жыл бұрын
So a guy you’ve known for 2 weeks tells you he’s been convicted of fraud.. and then he rips you off?
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
You can't make it up.
@charlesjames1464 Жыл бұрын
Madness, I tell ya!!
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
And he tells her he is still married and then doesn't marry her.
@viviennepastor3188 Жыл бұрын
Plus he is a very unattractive man both inside and out. I don’t understand the desperation of these ladies to tie themselves to a man like this.
@kdeloris2225 Жыл бұрын
When she was all right with the fact that he been to prison for fraud he knew he had her hook line and sinker. She bought all of his red flags straight out The gate 🫣
@novaricos Жыл бұрын
If you find a man VERY charming, (especially quickly), watch out. He's most likely using your feelings to get past your brain, so he can get into your wallet or your pants! Back off fast and watch his "interest' dry up or gets angry or accuses you of 'not trusting him'! Darned right, trust is earned on a daily basis, and easily broken like all 'piecrust promises' - easily made and easily broken!!
@carolecochrane8173 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree, start asking him for money because your skint, he will soon back off. 😂😂😂
@ZetaCancri Жыл бұрын
Also known as "love bombing"
@novaricos Жыл бұрын
@@ZetaCancri right on! Wish I had known about this stuff YEARS ago! found out the HARD way, emotionally and financially, but good now!
@chrischallis4348 Жыл бұрын
not all of us have commonsense, emotional intelligence or a high IQ and wishful thinking will overrule the most blatant of red flags waving.
@gardensofthegods 11 ай бұрын
I never heard that saying before : pie crust promises .
@Swissbluemountain Жыл бұрын
Some women can’t live alone . And they need a man . I understand that . But unfortunately we must learn to live alone . There’s no man left anymore.
@darcywagoner3614 Ай бұрын
Ive been alone 19 years and im happy
@darcywagoner3614 Ай бұрын
Some people think im weird, but i dont care
@onetime7408 Жыл бұрын
So sorry that this happened, it is hard to tell your story when somebody has scammed you. I respect this woman for speaking out.....and wish her happiness and courage going forward.
@jennystanford4695 Жыл бұрын
Trust nobody ever.
@vidashammas9694 Жыл бұрын
Being lonely is thousand times better than being on the roller-coaster with a man. Charming men are always a disaster, waiting to happen because they are narcissistic and selfish.
@jacquelineross5453 Жыл бұрын
I admire this lady for telling her story
@brendarigotti843 Жыл бұрын
I admire the female police officer for her relentless work, & investigation 👍
@heavenlymajesticking 11 ай бұрын
God bless her! We must be warned the need for love and affections can cloud ones judgment of the truth! 😟🔆👀
@wlhansen2068 8 ай бұрын
I had no idea a scammer would go this far.Unbelievable.
@melody3795 Жыл бұрын
I’m almost 60 if anything were to happen to my husband I don’t think I’d ever want another man. I’ve had the best so how would I ever be able to trust that I’d ever get that again. With all the scams going around probably not!
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
Known someone gonna takes long long time & trial test. So it is hard to find another partner just stay no money involve.
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
I will never give away my precious money I was duped and promised I will soon be paid back because he said he is much richer then me! Ha I pray this scumbag get vegetables quick! for his big liar cheater thief killer….
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
These are my life time sweats hard working money how can you say I gave away not even a penny. I hate scammers so much I wish them all get serious punished. We never gave money we were duped & cheated, at the end I was panic attacking + committed suicide for how can I be such fool & stupid being cheated forced lying … if I can not get my $$$ back he+they will be punished severe very soon.
@dinacap2660 Жыл бұрын
100% agree with you--my late husband was wonderful and i'm smart enough to know that i'd never find anyone else like him
@ayamore Жыл бұрын
It's okay to give someone your love and all that good stuff, but never ever give them your money to hold or invest! Never ever sell your house. Him moving in with her, was the first sign, she was going to be parted from her money. Lets hope she is doing okay.
@kathypryor2477 Жыл бұрын
The first red flag I saw was that Gary said he had been married 3 times....and was still married.
@candyisameal Жыл бұрын
How was he imprisoned for defaulting on a loan? That isn't a crime. There's more to that story.
@dianakidd4219 Жыл бұрын
One must know one’s limitations. If you are older and not good looking, ain’t no good looking young man wants you unless you’re an ATM machine. If it’s an older man you’re either a nurse or a purse. Nothings wrong with being single when you’re older. It’s quite freeing.
@meganhuggins7494 Жыл бұрын
Does that also apply to younger women who are not good looking? Do they need to know their limitations? 🤓🤓🤓
@dinacap2660 Жыл бұрын
"nurse or a purse" i love it--and it's so true
@dianakidd4219 Жыл бұрын
@@dinacap2660 I lived in Florida for 20 years. I saw it over and over. Women and men both taken advantage of for the love they wanted so badly. People will do anything for love. Loving one’s self makes one see more clearly when a con person is nipping at your heels.
@christinevillanueva54 11 ай бұрын
@@meganhuggins7494yes for all of us, if it seems too good to be true...
@seriouslyscrapping 9 ай бұрын
Lucky I got no homes under my belt just a car not worth more them 5k Australian dollars or 2.5 k pounds
@RajNUK Жыл бұрын
Plenty of fish? Plenty of fraud
@avishill8613 Жыл бұрын
once a man ask youfor money block and Delete.
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's that simple I don't understand why a lot of women refuse to understand this.
@ramaat2731 Жыл бұрын
That's my philosophy. As a matter of fact start giving me a sob story about money and I block and delete
@rt66vintage16 Жыл бұрын
Who wants to date a broke man? No one should want to fix a man's problems either. Just saying.
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
@@rt66vintage16 He can solve his own problems. These men know exactly what they are doing. They profile these women they smell the desperation from a mile away.
@dionjaba4975 Жыл бұрын
Yes, same for men, when a woman asks for money, know that nothing good will ever come from that.
@magicfairy7805 Жыл бұрын
All these comments pointing out the bleeding obvious don't change the fact that love scams are reaching epidemic proportions. Some people need protecting from themselves sadly.
@sidstovell2177 9 ай бұрын
It seems almost a sickness. It's like how we can't understand women who allow themselves to be abused and beaten and who stay with their abuser
@voiletwhitehorse Жыл бұрын
Don't ever think you know these people ,takes a lifetime to know yourself
@julieannesimms6236 Жыл бұрын
This is why I,m staying single
@marknewton6984 2 ай бұрын
Smart move. 😎
@jeanniesabol5410 8 ай бұрын
If he asks for money or favors, he doesn't care about you. NEVER help a man. Let him ask his family or friends - not you. Lies about preposterous situations. NEVER help a man. And online dating isn't dating. NEVER help a man. RUN.
@cm1927 Жыл бұрын
After 3 failed relationships, I no longer trust anyone. If they ask me for a McDonald’s hamburger I’m kicking them to the curb.
@mariapyrc6862 Жыл бұрын
Hiring a private investigator would have cost her less..I've read some women who won't date anyone unless they get a background check and a health check too...
@HoneyQuint Жыл бұрын
@Donnell Okafor yes to see what runs thru the family n whether there are any psychiatric issues
@Nortongroove Жыл бұрын
More like STD’s, HIV. Checking for those disease conditions😃
@blissfullyme2815 11 ай бұрын
She’ll most likely be a victim again given the statement she made at the end of “being lonely”. Being single is being alone and that peace should be appreciated until someone who is fit to ADD to your peace cones along.
@marknewton6984 2 ай бұрын
She is online now. 😮
@arikalamari19 7 ай бұрын
scammers come in any age and nationality, i really feel for these women they haven‘t done anything to deserve any of that
8 ай бұрын
Selling her house to give the money to a scammer online is beyond me. There is only so much stupidity I can watch.
@marknewton6984 2 ай бұрын
Low Intelligence.😮
@marapeters9144 Жыл бұрын
I never give money to a man. They give me money
@Juliasblues Жыл бұрын
Wow, real, in person scamming ! How horrid ! Probably even more hurtful than on line.
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
A lot of people get scammed in person on a daily basis it's unbelievable. Watch out for men wanting to move in with you or ask you to sell your house to buy a new house together.
@1tarawho Жыл бұрын
I have completely and totally been done with dating and men for 5 years. It seems in my area all the good ones are taken or too young lol. I'm happy with myself and keep busy working and spending time with friends..Learn to love yourself first and choose YOU ❤️💯
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@Swiss_Girl Жыл бұрын
there are good men out there♥️
@dianakidd4219 Жыл бұрын
@@Swiss_Girl Yes, they are married or gay. Once you’re older finding a good man is like finding a unicorn,
@chrischallis4348 Жыл бұрын
you are talking as a sane sensible women with a life....
@elizabethkuchta5097 Жыл бұрын
@@Swiss_Girl agree 👍
@paulastorm3923 Жыл бұрын
Rule #1…very early in the relationship you do a background check. If there are any red flags you drop him and move on and consider yourself lucky to have dodged a bullet.
@ellieantar809 Жыл бұрын
1st massive red flag..prison for stealing money aka fraud..!!!!!!!!!!
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
1st massive red flag - he tells you he's still married.
@christinerewell9954 Жыл бұрын
People are this desperate to find someone. Some people don't want to be alone. Get a hobby, join a gym, find an art class, get a dog! You could meet someone genuine without searching them out. Why the rush to get married asap. What's wrong with just seeing someone to get to know them.
@blondecat666 Жыл бұрын
I would never give up my freedom for a dick. Ever.
@christinerewell9954 Жыл бұрын
@@blondecat666 me too
@Nortongroove Жыл бұрын
It’s called desperation, really pathetic
@user-xw1sz8hu8r Жыл бұрын
I'd say, get a brain and responsibility for your life first before indulging into an affair with someone🙌
@gabriella8797 Жыл бұрын
A big red flag is when the daughter had to move out because he was being difficult with her. The mum should have woken up then. I had a sister who didn’t recognise the signs . Her partner started being nasty early on to me for no reason. My sister blamed me and said I must have done something to upset him. He turned out to be an abuser . She ended having to divorce him. She was so blinded by love when she met him.
@gracevictorious3922 Жыл бұрын
Men know that a lot of women are desperate for companionship. They'll take advantage of you if they sense this desperation
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
Grace Victoria @ Is vice versa the same or not!? Man cheat for money, not many man can be cheated by women?
@GradKat Жыл бұрын
What a bizarre way to make a living. These poor women were not even wealthy. I think he got a kick out of humiliating his victims, as much as taking their money. Vile, vile man.
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
You have small time scammers and you have the big time scammers. There are stories galore how women have been swindled out of millions. This man was to un attractive to pull that one of because to swindle women out of millions via an offline romance scam you have to be able to look and dress the part to a certain extend.
@user-rv1wf6sd4p Жыл бұрын
Personally..I would never have a joint bank account,it spells " trouble"!
@michelle_m4446 Жыл бұрын
Everyone, regardless of age has a need to be loved and to give love. But when that love costs you $$ it's time to step back and distance yourself from the situation. Take a breather. Pause for the cause. In other words, STOP. if dude is in it for love he will understand and work with you . If he throws a fit ? Well then, better heartbroken then heartbroken and broke!
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
Yes because what a lot of women refuse to understand is that a real man will never ask you for money it is that simple. If he starts asking for money he is broke, a loser or a scammer. Real men are ashamed to even ask for cent let alone a pound, euro or dollar.
@whateverchannel22 9 ай бұрын
False. I could give a fig less about giving or receiving romantic love. I love my friends and family. Please stop speaking on others' behalf wholesale.
@avrilbenjamin6261 9 ай бұрын
Best Advice ever! 😊😊😊
@michelle_m4446 9 ай бұрын
@@whateverchannel22 I totally agree with you. The love I have for my freinds has been more fulfilling and enduring than some of my romantic relationships. Not to mention I'd pick the love of my pup over most humans any day. Im sorry if what I said read otherwise because love is love. It comes in many different forms and isxa blessing
@marciebigley1820 Жыл бұрын
I married at 22. Put our money together rt away. He was a manager at BK back then. Now he's a college graduate working on servers for 100k a year. Basically I got lucky. And it's sad that you literally have to be lucky just to find a decent guy.
@dionjaba4975 Жыл бұрын
It is neither simple for majority of guys to find a wife nowadays.
@gorgeous.akosua Жыл бұрын
What do you do?
@minimaxmiaandme.4971 Жыл бұрын
Not lucky at all, just common sense. Many women have lovely husbands.
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Жыл бұрын
I play the lottery with way better odds and win fairly often.
@dionjaba4975 Жыл бұрын
@@gorgeous.akosua lets just say I have a great.
@kathleencalhoun2225 Жыл бұрын
Even if someone you seem to be connecting with sounds legitimate, always do a background check. I think it's wise to hire a PI if things get serious because you never know who you're dealing with. Actually, whenever there's talk about financial situations (inordinate or not), if things are moving too fast like there was with this one, it's a sign things are looking bad so time to bail out. In this case, this man never went into depth about speaking about himself, and all the lovely-dovey stuff coming from him was too overpowering for it to be real. Too bad she ignored that. What's wrong with winging it alone anyway? You might be better off.
@blacksilverchair3315 11 ай бұрын
This is proof that women will rather prefer to have a wedding than a marriage. The wedding was more important than the marriage to her.
@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny 2 ай бұрын
Rubbish...Thankgod I never married you are assuming
@libusebuckova7603 6 күн бұрын
Since childhood I have been thinking (and even asking my parents) - in the fairytales, all the struggle happens before the wedding, then there is the wedding and the narratios has it “and they have lived happily ever after”. So my courious question has always been “how did they do it, that happily ever after”. Because from the fairytales it looks like that just naturally happens without any effort needed. 😮
@blacksilverchair3315 6 күн бұрын
@@libusebuckova7603 the fairy tales were feel good stories about heros and damsels in distress. They weren't supposed to expose us to the everyday hassles that we have to encounter after the wedding
@washcaps71 5 күн бұрын
That’s oversimplifying. Social engineering is a big issue.
@kuroneko7022 Жыл бұрын
Why would you marry someone you met online after only two months? You haven’t had enough time to investigate or really get to know them. You can’t be that desperate.😕
@RK-su4hs Жыл бұрын
Self righteous. We all make bad decisions, including you
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
Well I have seen a story where woman with 2 kids moved a man into her house straight after he got of the train on their first date. He left her with a mount of debt and moved on to the next woman to scam. He also pretended to be rich and waiting on a big pay out 🤣 and the other women were smart not to move him in because the reporter tracked him down living in a homeless shelter 🤣
@SanFranDentist94301 Жыл бұрын
@ymarrero23 It's desperation.
@SanFranDentist94301 Жыл бұрын
@ymarrero23 Finding a husband isn't about grabbing the first man who stumbles into your path. It's about finding the right man to be your husband. Even love won't sustain a marriage. (Dedication, patience, hope, good-will, resilience)
@SanFranDentist94301 Жыл бұрын
@ymarrero23 No she grabbed this guy from online after 90 days!
@ds8290 11 ай бұрын
What I’m curious to know is, why aren’t they able to get their money back? Couldn’t they investigate where the funds went and follow the paper trail to get some of it back? If he had any properties, sell them to give these people their money back? There should be a rule that if they scam you, you have a right to go after their assets. Freeze their accounts, if they had any.
@princebuster93 11 ай бұрын
@ ds8290, they said Gary had accumulated a lot of money from scamming women, so where did the money go, they should have got it back. The British Police have been going down hill for years. The Police woman tried to take the credit for finding Gary, but it was the phone call from the woman who gave all the information they needed, and this after they had already let him out on bail 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@tashamorriss8997 2 ай бұрын
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single and independent
@fionamckinnon1167 Жыл бұрын
He’s not even nice looking poor lady
@hulklikesnutella7236 Жыл бұрын
Yea like she is so beautifull 😂😂😂😂😂
@PompeyGirl747 Жыл бұрын
She's no oil painting c'mon
@sarahserra1630 Жыл бұрын
The victim blaming here is unbelievable…..she wasn’t desperate, she just wanted to find a partner. Most of us are hard wired to want a mate. He was an expert manipulator and liar, she was trusting and loving. It doesn’t make her stupid or desperate, she just had no experience in dealing with this level of deception, stop blaming her
@pussygalore731 Жыл бұрын
She moved a stranger in too early and chose him over her daughter , so yea she's a fool , sounds like you've been one too
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
No she was desperate and she still is unfortunately.
@Liverpoolboy01 Жыл бұрын
@@goaldrivendatingstrategy 👈yet you put a heart ❤️ on Sarah’s comment!
@jayneharris3888 Жыл бұрын
It's always the woman's fault. The problem is never the grifting male, the problem is always the woman not avoiding him.
@w.urlitzer1869 Жыл бұрын
she confused solving loneliness with giving away her financial power
@jinka6171 Жыл бұрын
These women are desperate for attention and love. They want to and need to believe the lies……
@sabrinawang6267 Жыл бұрын
Who are willing to take lie? Just she had bad luck got Voodoo met this evil.
@lisaballantyne8539 Жыл бұрын
My heart absolutely breaks for this lady ..... he should have been given 20 year's in prison... what a disgusting man .
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
These women willingly handed over their money and wanted to marry a married man.
@vaska1999 11 ай бұрын
@@SamStone1964 How did you manage to miss his repeated claims that he was divorced and the problem with his papers was purely bureaucratic?! Or the fact that she even called the registry office, who confirmed this to her?!
@christinecatt8039 10 ай бұрын
20 years in prison..what crime did he commit. ? Sorry..but she gave her money willingly...to a dishonest, manipulative slime ball. Pathetic 😣 You reap what you sow..!!
@joycegumbo2732 10 ай бұрын
Am now 60 years!! Am glad that I am not interested in a man woman relationship anymore, my husband died 5 years ago, we had a wonderful marriage!!! Iam now used to being alone...I am enjoying single life so much , I don't wanna jeopardize my happiness in pursuit of a partner no never!!! Thank you God for the peace and joy that am enjoying in my old age🎉
@orfordwolf5409 Жыл бұрын
They know something is not right and too good to be true from the very start but are so lonely and desperate that they choose to ignore it.
@FreddieIsMyMoto 8 ай бұрын
When you value and love yourself you never feel lonely. Even if you live alone and never date again.
@deedrathelibra Жыл бұрын
She has amazing children, and that’s something to celebrate❤
@medi8057 11 ай бұрын
Why would she trust a felon who basically robbed a bank to have her children’s money in his bank account? She can’t say “he took her children’s money”. She blatantly gave it to him despite knowing he’s a felon and also “marrying him” couple of months after she met him. That’s so dumb and irresponsible. And she needs a psychiatrist ASAP.
@videorocketzmillar007milla5 9 ай бұрын
Plus he looks glum in the limo. Like he is hiding something. Bad.
@rehanabeebeehassan8499 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@sharonanderson8680 Жыл бұрын
It seems the people the scammers pick on is the photos of people who are not very attractive or overweight because they know their dying for love and attention
@agyvonne Жыл бұрын
It’s sad that she told herself that she’d probably never be married again & she “wasn’t good enough” -- doesn’t she realize ANYONE can get married??? Whether Rich or poor, skinny or fat, young or old - many people “settle” & don’t look or choose quality. Look for quality only. I’ve only done that & had exceptional relationships.
@kdeloris2225 Жыл бұрын
He knew how desperate she was I'm pretty sure she told him how alone and lonely she was and he capitalized on that.
@lidialee8801 Жыл бұрын
The minute a man brings up money RUN
@DarlingWheresthecoffee Жыл бұрын
A man you barely know moves into your house and wants to then sell your house and you think that’s okay?
@gingers8457 Жыл бұрын
They said he didn't have a job. I disagree!
@goaldrivendatingstrategy Жыл бұрын
His job is scamming women and it might sound strange but it really is.
@bobinabuddy Жыл бұрын
Why did she not get any money back, he obviously had almost a million and it has to be somewhere….I hope they did a forensic accounting of this crook’s bank accounts under the 30 odd names he went by
@jblue705 Жыл бұрын
I have the same question!
@dinacap2660 Жыл бұрын
he didn't rob her with a gun--she willingly gave her money to him
@junc2191 Жыл бұрын
She still spoke of him fondly during their times together… how he opened the door for her etc. she likes being treated this way….
@jstone247 Жыл бұрын
Men mess up your lives. They take your emotional and sometimes physical energy. Learn to cultivate a life around your family, friends, interests and set personal goals. Life will be more fulfilling and safe.
@rubbersoul4469 Жыл бұрын
Women con men and cause a lot of damage too. Bad people come in many guises.
@emastanton9199 9 ай бұрын
I can begin to say how badly I feel for this good woman. May life find other blessings to send her way : /
@angelaegan7511 9 ай бұрын
What a nice lady, I hope she finds love.
@georgiehollander2199 Жыл бұрын
The 'Two hearts beating as one must be the usual line '... Geez
@cecilejoubert7933 Жыл бұрын
I have been on my own for 16 years, because I lost my husband because of colon cancer. I am 66 yrs old and I am still on my own. I do not need a man in my life - EVER!
@bonitabonita7701 Жыл бұрын
Thats why it’s really important to love yourself and be happy by your own. She was desperately looking for partner as she was lonely. Sad.
@lorrainesmith.4995 Жыл бұрын
She did not have a problem with him being married>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> end of story.
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Rule 1 Don't date married people.
@scarletlady3727 10 ай бұрын
One of the most unattractive and immediate turn off in a man is when he asks for money from a woman….it’s one thing if you have been married , and he has been providing for you for years and maybe lost his job and temporarily needs help, then yes ofcourse help him since now he is family and demonstrated his commitment to you….BUT to give a man money in the beginning of a relationship and even worse not having met them in person yet!!..well that’s just insanity
@vienogola1421 Жыл бұрын
That Nigerian accent though should always warn you when the smarminess two hearts beat as one bs starts.
@ashl8804 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mcjs8640 Жыл бұрын
That doesn't apply to this story at all.
@kazleslie6334 Жыл бұрын
Wake up !This one is not a Nigerian .Unlike most lol
@kuroneko7022 Жыл бұрын
@@kazleslie6334 I guess she didn’t see the man on this story. 😂
@rubyparchment5523 Жыл бұрын
We’re all experts in African dialects now. Alaye!
@bevanbuckwheatshea5520 Жыл бұрын
I was always told to put other people first but not any longer. Too many scammers and rip off con artists out there looking for people who put others needs/wants first.
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