Women "Exposing Men" For Attention Needs To Stop

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8 ай бұрын

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@qb4428 8 ай бұрын

Also, how much do you want to bet that this woman will complain about men no longer approaching her?

@jmorales6539 8 ай бұрын

It's clockwork at this point.

@kc270352 8 ай бұрын

seriously aren't you guys tired of this redundant bullshit 🙄

@AlexanderSkinnerVids 8 ай бұрын

Let’s be honest, if these women were *actually* afraid of wearing spandex in public, they wouldn’t.

@TRUTHaintHATING 8 ай бұрын

@@AlexanderSkinnerVidsfacts

@rizennsunn 8 ай бұрын

She will always have men gawk at her looking that good

@drip369 8 ай бұрын

How can you feel self-conscious wearing Spandex out in the middle of public stretching knowing that people can physically see you. That's called being fraudulent

@michaelrivera8360 8 ай бұрын

My dad always told me if you don't people to see you as a clown don't dress like a clown.Like Courtney said a while back if you don't people to stare at you or get certain view of you,don't dress a certain way.

@Bombadil-ez9ns 8 ай бұрын

As another commenter said: "If you're not in business, don't advertise."

@michaelrivera8360 8 ай бұрын

@@Bombadil-ez9ns which grandparents used to say a lot my grandmother and mother used to tell my sisters that a lot.

@toddtaylor6506 8 ай бұрын

The fact she spent time setting up her phone to record it. Who records themselves stretching in workout clothes on a city sidewalk? Some asshole seeking attention, that's who.

@robsolf 8 ай бұрын

There are literally porn scenes that start like this. If you're bending over in spandex in the middle of a public street, you should expect to be looked at. Catcalls or inappropriate propositions? NO. But people are gonna look. Reminds me of the youtube "pranksters" that walk up to a stranger and ask, "You wanna die?", then act all shocked when they get chucked into a dumpster. When you fish for a reaction, don't pretend to be shocked and appalled when you get it.

@MarvelMTs 8 ай бұрын

Toxic women: “Men are inherently creeps. Born a male, born a creep.” Also Toxic women: “I haven’t dated in 3 years, what’s men’s problem?” Me: *DO YOU NOT HAVE 1 MIRROR IN YOUR RESIDENCE!?*

@Jerome-zc2cw 8 ай бұрын

Amen

@theguynextdoor4978 8 ай бұрын

She's probably also calling men she doesn't deem as hot, or good enough creepy simply for having the confidence to talk to her. These girls must understand that when they make such untrue accusations against men, it can ruin a man's life. Sex offenders are hated by even the worst criminals in prison. Making such stupid accusations against innocent men can actually make people question the truth when a real victim of harassment occurs.

@alb12345672 8 ай бұрын

Very important to be very attractive today.

@WriterProfessor 8 ай бұрын

Good point, Courtney: She feels insecure about a single stranger looking at her, but she posts something on social media for thousands to see. There is no logic here.

@kamrudkd 8 ай бұрын

Muslim women wear the hijab in public, but they also shop at Victoria secret for their husband at home. There are others that wear Victoria's secret in PUBLIC and at home tell their partners to go.....

@tnasburypl 8 ай бұрын

It's because she is a young immature girl trying to keep up with the Tic Toxics.

@tophat2115 8 ай бұрын

Likely a schedule B personality disorder, histrionic or narcissistic personality disorder

@rcmunro22 8 ай бұрын

Honestly I would be more concerned if he didn't glance for a moment while driving a Commercial Truck on the Job, if he hits somebody because they are out jogging or whatever that's his job gone, probably his license too, a potentially fatally injured person and that's not to mention lawsuits and financial costs of such an incident. This stuff does need to stop, because if you want guys to at least notice you as a Woman they need to be able to at least glance at you. Yes, if a Man is flat out standing there staring you down awkwardly for a long period it's typically not good, but posting a guy for glancing at you briefly while driving... this is why I hate the Culture around Social Media and I am glad I grew up before it because it's immature.

@lesseirgpapers9245 8 ай бұрын

She is also an American woman and will turn on a dime to hate men.

@Gutch220 8 ай бұрын

the woman on the sidewalk was intentionally going out looking for any confrontation and this is all she could manufacture.

@stevejenson2161 8 ай бұрын

god only knows how long she had wait till someone glanced her way.

@lamar310 8 ай бұрын

Her video and trying so hard to be a victim is pathetic and embarrassing. We all look at people so using that to hate on men is weak smh

@Sleepy4213 8 ай бұрын

It really says a lot about how far this #metoo stuff has altered male behavior. She had an entire camera setup and was stretching on the street corner like a moron and this was the most egregious interaction she had??? Well done men in her town. You did it!!!

@mix7893 8 ай бұрын

Deeply saddening for her, but but ironically a good sign for humanity and society for not taking the bait.

@szn1580 8 ай бұрын

Social media has poisoned chicks

@darrenskjoelsvold 8 ай бұрын

I look at pedestrians when I am driving to determine if they're likely to end up in the street. I look at men too. The guy just drove by. He didn't harass her. He barely even noticed her. He was just driving. Would she prefer if he ran over her? Thank you for this video. Things have gotten so ridiculous.

@greyrock9747 8 ай бұрын

The reason women like this are not embarrassed is that they get positive reinforcement from other women when they do this. Few women speak out, and those who do are called a pick me. The faction of feminism that currently has the microphone uses shame as a weapon against men or women who don't perfectly agree with their ideology.

@bhart3321 8 ай бұрын

Misandrists that's the term you're looking for. They can call themselves "feminists" all they like but the they're really just misandrist femcels.

@donaldmackerer9032 8 ай бұрын

You got that right

@bryck7853 8 ай бұрын

this will last as long as disco

@cecil3602 8 ай бұрын

And no wonder us “men “ won’t date anymore . We are just done with this nonsense .

@YassuYasen 8 ай бұрын

it's for the better good, don't forget that men also running from commitment, if you treat women, like you want men treat your sisters, aunties, mom things won't escalate until this far.

@venomking3602 8 ай бұрын

@@YassuYasenwhat commitment giving away half there stuff men are not afraid of commitment they just cant aford to lose there shit

@YassuYasen 8 ай бұрын

@@venomking3602 you have a point there. the solution writing all your wealth in your mother name your relationship with your mother, family need to be strong. the best you could, money isn't everything. other small things also matter. ... also know what to look for we need to stop giving only fan women attention spend your time on working of bettering yourself then when the time comes to settle down the right woman will appear, have faith in that just be serious about women love serious men, men who not looking just for one night

@exothermal.sprocket 8 ай бұрын

Just be careful that a few online examples don't become your beliefs about the country or the world. That's using presumption to form the basis of a belief that limits you.

@GabrielXDrums 8 ай бұрын

Can’t speak for all men.

@bradtaylor7265 8 ай бұрын

Courtney at 6:25: “are men not allowed to look at you?” For this creator, they’re allowed to look at her but only when she can monetize the attention via a social media platform.

@michaelrivera8360 8 ай бұрын

Exactly they hate they are not paying for it😂😂

@bhart3321 8 ай бұрын

Oh I guarantee you that chick has OF linked in her bio. It's not exploitation if she's exploiting herself. That's what Mia Khalifa says anyways.😂

@lyianx 8 ай бұрын

@@michaelrivera8360 Then she should work at a strip club.

@doug1863 8 ай бұрын

Or if the guys is one she is hot for

@soliniv1411 8 ай бұрын

She mad they got a freebie

@cardinalsfan9610 8 ай бұрын

"I think some people are so desperate for attention that they go out of their way to make someone look bad, who didn't actually do anything." Yep. The dance of "I didn't want attention, look at this guy being a creep!" takes away from women who experience actual harassment and stalking, among other things. There are far better ways to handle it than a case like this.

@SinCityVillain 8 ай бұрын

I'm surprised she didn't file a report about being sexually assaulted and raped. LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME! Nowadays as a man I'm not even allowed to drive my car w/o being accused of something. In a few years she'll be complaining men don't look at her, talk to her, approach her etc. Someone told me once " I'm not worried when they look at me and talk to me, I'll worry when they' stop"..lol

@user-mr1ku5iz8l 8 ай бұрын

Women at 25: 'Ugh. Men need to stop undressing us with their eyes. Wherever we got they constantly check us out." Those same women at 35: "You know, would it hurt for Men to maybe look our way once in a while?" Those same women at 45: "We're completely invisible to Men."

@allenjackson2846 8 ай бұрын

Circle of life

@user-mr1ku5iz8l 8 ай бұрын

@@allenjackson2846 Yep. Logic-and-Reason.exe was never installed at the factory. It's all about those feeelz!

@GabrielXDrums 8 ай бұрын

We want them in their prime, not when they’re raisins.

@wanyelewis9667 8 ай бұрын

Reap it.

@paulcosta8297 8 ай бұрын

You got that VERY wrong; try subtracting 10 years. 25 year old women are hyper aged and hideous nowadays compared to when they were 16.

@go4adventure4k 8 ай бұрын

My sister and I were with my mom at the grocery store a few years ago and this guy, about her age, kept looking at her. My sister made a comment to my mother pointing him out. My mother was thrilled! It was too funny. My mother then told us that she doesn’t get the amount of looks from guys like she used to and missed that. She was 87 at the time. I can guarantee when this girl is 87, she will wish guys still looked at her.

@stevejenson2161 8 ай бұрын

I'm pretty certain that the men that she would want, do not in anyway find her attractive with her over stuffed buttocks. she is trying convince her followers that she's desirable as if that will increase her ranking with the guys. It wont do this one bit.

@samp6645 8 ай бұрын

The guys in the van should sue for defamation.

@leydimoralesATL 8 ай бұрын

And women wonder why men don’t approach anymore…

@CourtneyRyan 8 ай бұрын

Accurate

@oliverpetroski4205 8 ай бұрын

A toxic attention seeker. Flashes her rear for free validation, but pretends to be a victim if some random dude drove by, seeing her face and her flashing the "girls" in front of him for free validation. Different situation if he had stopped and shouted inappropriate comment (which he did not). It is true, in driving school we were taught to look everywhere to make sure no accidents are caused by us, or to make sure you don't run over someone or someone jump in front of you for whatever reason. There were even people who would deliberately jump in front of your car to scam money from you, or just because she liked your car.

@nathanielalderson9111 8 ай бұрын

And she's being weird in public. As a driver id be thinking "arms are up. Is she throwing something? Pointing at danger? Waving? Need help? Is there a message I need to be aware of? That's VERY LOUD body language." Her shaming people for looking, in a driving situation, is heading towards creating high risk driving and high risk society. Due to false accusations and the potential to ruin a mans life it's very possible to conclude ," ok i wont look at any woman while driving either" creating a set of traffic that DOES NOT SEE YOU AND DOES NOT STOP.

@vegbeg9170 4 ай бұрын

People in moving vehicles shouldn't have to justify looking in some direction. I will always give the benefit of the doubt here, rather than live in a society where I have to be worried about cars that are afraid of actually looking around

@IronmanV5 8 ай бұрын

To quote my eldest sister about a friend of hers from High School like this woman: "When her looks go she's screwed"

@zanesalvador7787 8 ай бұрын

Shout out to Courtney for giving Joey a shout out. Thanks for keeping it real and unbiased from both perspectives. You’re both spot on for exposing her narcissism. I would only add that her NPD is at a whole new level, dare I say predatory.

@tsepheletseka5115 8 ай бұрын

Love Joey Swoll. The man's a GOAT. He's doing such an amazing job calling out these narcissists and bullies.

@bhart3321 8 ай бұрын

He's also given me some great tips for the gym. Helping me get those gains. A true bro.

@josephbrown9685 8 ай бұрын

Joey is performing a much needed service for society. Calling these women out is the only way to combat this insanity.

@PredatoryTeeth 8 ай бұрын

Starve those "trolls" of that attention they seek. It's a TERRIBLE way of seeking attention, and says a lot about those doing it.

@andrew6815 8 ай бұрын

"how are girls like this not embarassed" Why would someone be embarassed if theyre never held accountable for their actions, are incentivised to do it with attention and financial benefit. As someone who has been assaulted and subjected to repeated instances of sexual harassment from women who faced 0 consequences for their choices, I find this type of behavior and the general state of relations between the sexes to be appalling. The solution is pretty straight forward: hold people accountable for their actions when they do wrong and leave people the heck alone when they dont do anything.

@Amaviller 8 ай бұрын

Even if the man looked at her for more than a second, there was nothing wrong with that. It's normal. These people are becoming weird. Soon we will be told not to breathe.

@xlr84XC 6 ай бұрын

Please refrain from breathing.

@BigSmoce 8 ай бұрын

Even sadder part is it probably took her like an hour to get those screens hots. Also, it's funny how women use the term "projecting" against men when in almost all they do is project...she is guilty of everything she accused him of.

@stevejenson2161 8 ай бұрын

woman believe their desirability from men is greatly increased if she can somehow prove to you that other man are after her. this does in reverse work when a man has other women checking him out, and giving approval, she will rate that man much higher on the scale and desire him. sadly for stupid women, they believe we as men think the same way, when in fact we can see a woman sitting alone in a night club and rate her beauty on a scale and that number will not change on bit, if the mans friends think she's the hottest looking woman alive. I wish someone would tell these women this so they could trying convince the world that they are so highly desirable.

@Bombadil-ez9ns 8 ай бұрын

She probably even feels "victimized" by pushback just like Courtney is giving here. People like this are most terrified of accountability. Or, they think it only applies to others. It's kind of a brilliant strategy, because she gets all the attention she wants under the guise of not wanting attention.

@michaelrivera8360 8 ай бұрын

We are living in he narssisistic generation currently

@cardinalsfan9610 8 ай бұрын

The whole "I get attention while claiming I don't want it" thing is really aggravating. If someone really doesn't want attention, there are far better ways to handle it than shaming a guy in an instance like this.

@BookOfWorms 8 ай бұрын

They did this in the Gym, men left the gym. They did this in the office-inclined lines of work, they stopped all forms of association. Takeaway: the chasm between men and women is growing fast. Truthfully, I think only hard karma will be the teacher that does it, when we start losing generations, if we haven't already been. Both sides will have to stop fighting each other.

@maskedcolector7640 8 ай бұрын

Worst part about it, because more woman are doing this, they trying to call Joey Swole a misogynistic even though he calls out men and women the same..

@AnonymousProPublicaHakr 8 ай бұрын

lol right. My mom always say women just say things before they think.

@ADD1-zv1nt 8 ай бұрын

Sure the guy glanced at her, she was doing something that probably 99% of the people do not do in that area, and it is human nature to be curios when you see something new or unusual/out of place. Would love to see one of these so called exposers of men sued for defamation/calumny 😂

@northcashhh 8 ай бұрын

love how courtney has been showing her sense of humor more in recent videos

@CourtneyRyan 8 ай бұрын

😂 I’m getting too comfortable

@imtiazahmadwattanyar3736 8 ай бұрын

@@CourtneyRyanMay GOD make you more & more confortable .

@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 8 ай бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan. My humor is a bit over the top so I apologize and will try to learn from Courtney on this too!! ❤

@Marsch928 8 ай бұрын

@@CourtneyRyanNah Courtney, you're good.

@p.o.p.presents 8 ай бұрын

These women that record themselves exercising while policing stares are weird .I'm over it. Many of their behaviors are obnoxious, self absorbed and self important. It's great to see a woman like yourself and others call it out. It's beyond ridiculous at this point. This addiction to attention is an epidemic in this country. It's like she's saying watch and worship me online but also look at these creepy guys looking at me. Young lady, get over yourself. He looked at you for a second because you were there. Then he proceeded with his day. Relax.

@stevejenson2161 8 ай бұрын

@ilia2178 8 ай бұрын

I live in that area. There is a small park 10 meters away from her and larger ones all around her. Instead, she setup on one of the busiest roads that's usually packed with people. You never see anyone working out there.

@lisaaustin4561 3 ай бұрын

Good point!

@edelweiss5411 8 ай бұрын

I was recently on a family trip with a sibling, and my parents. At the airport, in a waiting area, a woman decided it would be a good idea to stretch out, and do a dance routine in front of hundreds of people. She wasn't a performer. Just looking for attention. In a different airport (and country), a young woman with no bra, and a low cut top kept bending over in front of me, to the point that my sister asked me why the woman kept flashing me. I enjoy attractive women as much as most men, but when I pick up on over the top attention seeking from women, it makes me determined to ignore them. Self absorption, and ridiculous levels of attention seeking are a scourge of the western world.

@paulymac5513 8 ай бұрын

Men need to start suing those types of women then maybe it will stop.

@martinnielsen5805 8 ай бұрын

Women always win these cases because they know how to be the victim.

@2410jrod 8 ай бұрын

Not a bad idea to be honest.

@Falstaff-mr8fk 8 ай бұрын

Funny thing is that her setting up a camera to film herself shows that she is the narcissist.

@rathscendance 8 ай бұрын

I'm really glad that you pointed out that he noticed her in order to potentially not hit her. I live in Colorado and people actually get hit a lot when people are making a right hand turn at stoplights who look left and start to press on the gas without actually looking right because once they can go they go and don't have that much situational awareness.

@cisium1184 8 ай бұрын

"I was so self-conscious that I posted it on the Internet so that the rest of the world would also be conscious of me."

@stevejenson2161 8 ай бұрын

and she just like everyone of these women with over sized buttocks are sure to show their backside directly to the camera. hardly ever will you see woman of a truly attractive size do this. they are all weighing in about 145-165 and rest assured those spandex are lifting more weight than most of these woman can lift in the gym. they are not attractive in the least. they just want others to think men are desiring them left and right

@kevinmorrissey9709 8 ай бұрын

‘The math ain’t mathing’ 😂 Never heard that one

@CourtneyRyan 8 ай бұрын

Hahaha

@kevinmorrissey9709 8 ай бұрын

Courtney replied to me 🤩

@philipseymore3498 8 ай бұрын

@@kevinmorrissey9709 gave me the lols :)

@templargfx 8 ай бұрын

OMG seriously with that second message of hers. I can guarantee, absolutely guarantee that she has been sitting in a car driving down the road and she's seen some fuggly odd looking dude doing something weird on the sidewalk and she has stared at him as she drove past and probably laughed and said something humorous to herself at his expense. "it shouldn't matter what youre wearing, what your doing, whether your with someone or alone, you should be able to feel safe to go about your life" She has broken this rule of hers many times I guarantee it, and you all know she has too. Every single person does When you are out in public. you lose your right to not be offended. Its a price we all accept when we step outside our homes. I learned that in school. apparently kids arent taught that anymore

@khukri_wielderxxx1962 8 ай бұрын

This will only stop when society goes back to the days when women were held accountable for their actions. Like my grandfather used to say: "If you're not in business, don't advertise"

@michaelrivera8360 8 ай бұрын

My mom used to tell my sister that all the time and my dad too😂😂

@jameslay1489 7 ай бұрын

Women - "I wish men would quit looking at me as just a sex object." at the same time wearing as little clothing as possible and provocative lingerie.

@WriterProfessor 8 ай бұрын

People need to stop treating life like reality TV...period.

@Demancer2 4 ай бұрын

I've been a victim too. I was walking to my car on a college campus and this car slowly drives by, then I hear a *wolf whistle* I wasn't sure where it was coming from until I looked to my left. It was a college girl sitting in the passenger seat. I thought nothing of it BUT then she did it AGAIN. I was so embarrassed, like really?!

@AbdulHameed-bw4cg 8 ай бұрын

Wearing these so called dresses should be declared as harrasment of HEALTHY MEN

@tastefullys 8 ай бұрын

She should just not leave her house then if she truly believed she is constantly uncomfortable and not just doing this for attention

@stevejenson2161 8 ай бұрын

what makes her more uncomfortable than anything is that men are not looking at her, and she's trying to convince others that they are looking at her left and right. most men I know would rate her about a 4 at best. when she turned around and you seen that over sized rump on her and knowing it's being lifted high into the heavens that is a total turnoff for most men, unless your black. not sure what is about black dudes liking fat buttocks but many do

@waynekerr4220 8 ай бұрын

I also regularly feel like I’m being stared at when I do my stretches on a street corner in my underwear. Those toxic jerks

@runski802 8 ай бұрын

Glad to see a classy woman standing up for us that don’t have a voice.

@toddw14 8 ай бұрын

It's mind boggling how narcissistic & attention seeking these women have become nowadays. I'm a proud Leo & even I don't crave this level of attention.

@WriterProfessor 8 ай бұрын

The man was being an alert and considerate driver. The problem was the person making the video.

@JacoWium 8 ай бұрын

Yep. It's a crossing and a driver is supposed to be aware of any traffic coming from that direction. It's quite possible he barely noticed a person on the corner while glancing down the road. A good thing is that he's probably completely oblivious about the stink that some self-obsessed girl kicked up on social media while he earns his daily bread in the real world.

@bluecollarbuilds 8 ай бұрын

And they wonder why men don’t approach anymore

@matthewward3918 8 ай бұрын

Man after Courtney read all that text I was expecting the guy to yell or beep the horn etc… but when the truck just drove past… and that was it… I burst out laughing 😂

@bobross1829 8 ай бұрын

Yep, the women who do this kind of stuff are either diluted or gaslighting. You are literally stretching in the street with a camera person filming you. Literally anyone would glance over. And even if she was not filming, so what? A guy literally glanced at you for a second. If you hate men so much that you cannot stand a guy glancing at you while you are wearing sexy workout outfits, the problem is 100% on her. Maybe she should stay home indoors all the time and interact with nobody.

@kevinc1593 8 ай бұрын

They've chased men out of the gyms because of these types of video clips, now their doing it on the streets... Their preying on the fact that men are visual creatures.

@Captain_Insano_nomercy 8 ай бұрын

A lot of social media is directly aimed at taking advantage of men being visual

@KJ-md2wj 8 ай бұрын

As if women weren't visual. Who buys all those magazines with TV stars, etc.???

@neodaltiair8624 8 ай бұрын

Literally a normal glance as he drove by lol

@hotsauce1556 8 ай бұрын

This needs to become a crime

@KJ-md2wj 8 ай бұрын

Haven't we had enough of these "crimes" so that you can't speak freely anymore, express yourself w/o getting into trouble and expensive legal cases for turds?

@xipingpooh5783 8 ай бұрын

It’s par for the course these days. I’m so over all the women begging for attention and then calling men out when they do get the attention. I go through my day with blinders on.

@ky7299 8 ай бұрын

So she setup a camera recording a sidewalk and a public street and then proceeded to stretch in front of it and caught someone glancing at her from a van and then proceeded to accuse him of what? sexual harassment? She obviously staged the whole thing. I don't know the legislation in that country but in mine she would get a lawsuit for illegally recording in a public place without a permit, recording my face without my consent which is a privacy violation and publicly accusing me of a crime I hadn't commited (libel/slander).

@GoldenMushroom64 8 ай бұрын

The fact that she actually went out of her way to set up a camera and do this is even more pathetic.

@qb4428 8 ай бұрын

If you are dressed like a streetwalker on a street corner of all places, don't be surprised when men look at you like a piece of meat.

@drip369 8 ай бұрын

Yeah she's wearing Spandex and she's stretching out in public knowing that anybody and everybody can see her. This is why gymnasiums have walls and women used to have to go to their own gym and not only be more safe but to be out of my way

@ozzycortes 8 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@deannilvalli6579 8 ай бұрын

I hate it when I deliberately set up a situation that is guaranteed to make me look like a victim, and make sure I just happen to film it and later edit the film, and then I show it so I can cry about it.

@BKFan342 8 ай бұрын

This was done en masse to young men in the 2010s. Now there are less men who will approach women and the only ones who do are more likely to hustle or have little regard. One of the most damaging psyops from that decade

@nobodysperfect06 8 ай бұрын

One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way, women however since they play a passive role that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating

@kelseyk530 8 ай бұрын

I'm shy and introverted. I enjoy being by myself. Yet I feel pathetic because at 33, I've never been on a date, been kissed, or slept with a guy. I got life-altering sick at just age 15 with what quickly amounted to 20 different rare complex incurable and intractable chronic pain diseases and health problems that span over a dozen fields and subspecialty fields of medicine, 600+ doctor, specialists and actual scientists and whom are pioneers in their fields and had experimental testing, and traveled literally around the entire country my 20s to all the top ranked hospitals (in America/worldwide), some 2-3x like Mayo Clinic and Cleveland Clinic. All my hobbies and passions like photography, traveling the world, 20+ years of horseback riding (jumping), exercising at the gym, and attending university, which turned into stepping down in academic prestige and forced to attend a local college close to home instead of the planned top Big 10 or SEC universities I got in to with earned academic scholarships and was going to go to one top SEC school as I finally had a break in the form of a connection that the director of my private college prep K-12 school had a daughter that was an assistant coach of their NCAA equestrian team and I knew I was good enough to walk on and maybe even get some of the NCAA scholarship money in addition, but that was taken from me as I needed to be close to my doctors in two states. My rare eye pain plus the fact that I was going to doctor's appointments at least once if not twice in a schoolweek forced me to stop college after 2.5 years. I never liked partying or going to bars and getting so drunk that I'm throwing up and feeling horrible...don't see the fun in that...but at least I would've been more noticeable and "accessible" going to football games and being in class, etc. I never had a chance to even get started in life. My teens, 20s, and now my early 30s were stolen from me. It's been utter hell. And while I'm not a stunner at any means, I think I'm barely average with some make-up...maybe I'm underestimating myself a tad...I had a body that was incredible and a somewhat decent face. Maybe I'm too much "masculine energy" or whatever the dating/relationship podcast b.s. is spouting as I have logic and common sense. Do I feel lonely and pathetic. Absolutely. I have no boyfriend or friends; the latter is okay as I found out early in life during Sophomore year of high school that kids I knew since Kindergarten are careless unless it directly affects them and that people in general are fake and don't care, especially if something or someone has something complicated going on in their lives beyond their control. And what guy would want to put up with a woman like me who now can't do much of anything like I used to...they wouldn't. And I wouldn't feel right dating or if I somehow got in a relationship to burden a guy down with a useless mess like me.

@nobodysperfect06 8 ай бұрын

@kelseyk530 a woman who is 33 and never dated, never had a boyfriend? What is your medical condition?

@michaelsantangelo7997 8 ай бұрын

woman when a man is looking at her: ugh, why is that guy looking at me? woman when (the same man) isn't looking at her: ugh, why is that guy not looking at me?

@Snarge22 8 ай бұрын

We all need to give pedestrians at intersections a good looking over to read their body language to see if they're going to cross the street. That lady was dressed as a jogger and could have been ready to cross the intersection at any time. Add in the really thick A-Pillars on vehicles these days that can completely block vision to the opposite corner and this becomes a real issue. That driver wasn't ogling the woman, he was insuring he didn't hit her if she all of a sudden started running across the intersection. Note too, she positioned her camera with her in partial view in advance knowing drivers would look.

@droningup8218 8 ай бұрын

Social media has a lot to answer for… 🤦🏻‍♂️

@MattiFront 8 ай бұрын

She is trying to get attention. Then one guy just look at her a second then she complaining. Where is world is going to?

@GoldenMushroom64 8 ай бұрын

Hell that’s what

@gloriahavland9844 8 ай бұрын

She got the ick because he drives a van

@davidduff9871 8 ай бұрын

Your rants are so beautiful, so poetic, and they show so much compassion. You elevate the genre to a new level. Breathtaking.

@PeterWhite7 8 ай бұрын

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

@PeterWhite7 8 ай бұрын

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

@bevedale 8 ай бұрын

Not to mention she turns towards the van as it's driving by! I guess she wanted more "staring."

@KJ-md2wj 8 ай бұрын

Of course. She staged it to be able to put her feminist rant on the internet.

@ozzycortes 8 ай бұрын

The way how she is dress says it all. Clout is one hell of a drug.

@russellhobbs1356 8 ай бұрын

And women wonder why men don’t approach them anymore . Need I say more. Be careful what you wish for !

@Kevlar0718 8 ай бұрын

That girl looked like she was staring at them, her head even turned as the van passes then stares after they were long gone.

@marathoner43 8 ай бұрын

IMHO this woman is definitely overreacting. She's standing on a sidewalk, dressed like she might be out for a jog or a run, and she's facing the street. If I'm driving along, I'm probably thinking "She wants to cross." I'm going to glance as I approach so that if she starts across, I don't hit her. And for what it's worth, I would do the same for a man in that situation. As a runner myself I would HOPE drivers do that while I'm out running. Does it make me a creep if I glance to make sure she's not crossing? If it does, well then, I am a creep. I'd rather be a creep than run her over.

@AutopilotAndChill 8 ай бұрын

Reminds me of the South Park episode of the prince and princess of England. They claim they don’t want attention but are doing Oprah, books, podcasts interviews and a plethora of other stuff and go through town yelling and posting signs “we want privacy!” It is hilarious. These women are some of the worst human beings.

@UniversalConscript 8 ай бұрын

Either she knows what she is doing, or she actually believes that the man who just glaced in her direction was intimidating/harassing her, which is way scarier, because that means she is delusional and those type of people don't care about facts, logic, or common sense. They just want to live in their dream world and nothing can convince them otherwise.

@SpotterSky 8 ай бұрын

Hi CR Again a valuable video from you with analysis! It is terrible that some women can behave like that, to get attention. The woman from Tik Tok is a blemish on the ways of her gender as HAS been out cruel harassment from cheap men! She is mean and cowardly to strengthen her weaknesses. She really needs psychologist help and courage to look inside herself!

@shashank95915 8 ай бұрын

Just amazed to see that people are being bothered by almost nothing..... even the smallest thing which should not be considered worthy are bothering them....how they are going to live a normal life.

@Eric-dd8bk 8 ай бұрын

Do you think she's bothered at all? I bet she's like "I got a mn to look my way". "I'm ganna expose the sucker". in her mind. She's not bothered. She's excited. And this whole thing was a set up by the grl so she's not bothered but she's like "gacha mn".

@shashank95915 8 ай бұрын

@@Eric-dd8bk Means you say that the thing she did makes her feels right about her....kind of borderline narcissistic.

@Js-te1sg 8 ай бұрын

“Beauty fades, dumb is forever” - Judge Judy

@wojtekzurawski5410 8 ай бұрын

Hi Courtney! Thanks a lot for all the effort you put into this channel. I've been dealing with oneitis for 14 years and already lost my hope that I'll move on one day and put myself out there, though I'm 31. Your videos are always refreshing and I'm glad that you show all of us core values and what this relationship stuff should be all about. Happy Friday 13th!

@lewisb85 8 ай бұрын

She might as well have a massive shirt with the words "avoid me" on her from now on. where she was and what she was doing looked like she was potentially about to start to run.

@aaron6622 8 ай бұрын

What are we supposed to do, not look for pedestrians while driving?

@Metatarsus0 8 ай бұрын

Not only is she late to the party but her claim isn't even believable by her own evidence. It's content like that which makes it difficult for many men not to (erroneously) generalize this kind of behavior to women. Meanwhile, there's some sweet girl out there--who would never do this kind of thing--wishing a cute guy would walk up and talk to her.

@kristopherbenner3730 8 ай бұрын

This is a absolute perfect example of why I would never help a woman no matter what was happening to her. I don't care if she was stranded or being assaulted in any way. I don't trust women. And the way that this government is, I'd probably be sued and put in prison for helping her out. It's best to just mind your own business and let everyone else screw off.

@johngonzalez4298 8 ай бұрын

The women of TikTok nowadays are making themselves famous for the wrong reasons

@VideoGameRoom32 8 ай бұрын

The problem everything is perspective. Some people no matter what they do, they're the victim and everyone else to them is the villian. When they are the villian

@kaijikhristicus8123 8 ай бұрын

The fact that he could’ve lost his job just for looking at someone for less than a second is disgraceful. And the fact that they have no shame is even more disgraceful. This is why guys stopped going to gyms and now they’re taking this to the public sidewalks? This is absolutely disappointing to me.

@KJ-md2wj 8 ай бұрын

What is even more disgraceful is that men are fired for innocuous things just because a woman "feels" something (that's a change). How about firing women who dress and walk provocatively at work? Feminist media have scared the shit out of company execs because the US justice system is so unbalanced and unfair.

@snowplow7883 8 ай бұрын

Looking forward to donating to the crowdfunding to pay the lawyers to sue the woman

@heyhawtie53 8 ай бұрын

Yikes…. hope she likes staying single cause no guy should date a girl like that

@richardlenz2655 8 ай бұрын

Avoid social media. That’s it 🤭.

@kerwynwilson 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for your fair analysis of this topic. I think we're living in a society pulled by extremes and it's impacting negatively on our social interactions. Social media sometimes amplifies this toxicity. A man may look at a woman whom he finds attractive. But some women may interpret that as being inappropriate, perverted etc. They are reacting to some of the toxic ideas about men that exist online. And while we acknowledge that there are men who behave inappropriately towards women, it's unfair that men are being painted with a board brush.

@ErickMcNerney 8 ай бұрын

They drove by and didn't slow down. When you see people, you look. And you're driving, so you want to make sure you're not gonna hit someone. What on earth?

@user-mp2xn4fs1b 8 ай бұрын

Courtney, thank you for your ongoing advice and clarity.

@lawrence31415 8 ай бұрын

Happy Friday, Courtney and Fellow Viewers! Hope everyone enjoys their weekend! P.S. Anyone going to see the eclipse because I hear it will brighten someone's day!

@drip369 8 ай бұрын

Did you know what's going on in the Middle East and that exact eclipse was written in a book over 2,000yrs ago?

@CourtneyRyan 8 ай бұрын

Have a great weekend!

@jcc9059 8 ай бұрын

This is why I don't talk to strange women, engage with female colleagues, or pursue female clients. Any single word or gesture can be interpreted as harassment. I appreciate women for their caring, awareness, and empathy, but also avoid them for their gaslighting, blame deflection, and unwarranted accusations.

@Mike-zw7fq 8 ай бұрын

As a 3.5 million mile Commercial Driver and as a long time Driver instructor. I would say from that brief set of still pictures. The Driver was doing his Job Well. He had situational awareness of his surroundings and of possible pedestrians that could cross in his path. He didn't let the trampy Chic distract him from other possible traffic situations that may be developing in front of him. From what I seen in this video. I would say that the Driver was actively engaged in Best Practice S.O.P's of the Transportation industry. If this Driver were to loose his job due to this ambush. I'm sure he could replace it in a very short time. Best Wishes! M.H.

@drip369 8 ай бұрын

Setting up your phone and then walking away from it is not minding your own business. Now if somebody was filming you minding your own business and caught somebody doing whatever you think (feel) is being done, then you would be minding your business but not the person recording. Do you even brain 🤦

@MessageInABottle869 8 ай бұрын

If someone streching on the sidewalk like that I would also take a quick look at that person. If that makes me a creep so be it. It’s one thing if the guy slow down in a obvious way and said something but this is ridiculous and Joey is totally right this takes away so much from real female victims.

@stevejenson2161 8 ай бұрын

but lets pretend for a moment that a dude slowed down smiled and looked at her and said hey babe lookin good, and then proceeded on his way. considering she's about a 4 on any average mans scale, she would be delighted but she must not ever brag about that wonderful moment lest she be considered pretentious, she would turn it into a creeper video, to show others how desirable she is without saying it.

@KJ-md2wj 8 ай бұрын

Maybe if media talked more about male victims this stuff from women would fade away.

@danpeters6874 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for posting this. I wasn’t aware that women are now doing this in outdoor public places, I thought this behavior was limited to gyms. However, it’s becoming my instinct to avert my eyes if I notice a young woman dressed provocatively. Definitely don’t need photos or videos if me circulating the internet calling me a sexual predator

@dibari22 7 ай бұрын

Do you know how self-important someone must be to think that everyone that glances at them must be a predator who is staring at them with vile intent? Man, social media is the worst thing that has ever happened to society.

@VideoCesar07 8 ай бұрын

Even though she will still get her fair share of supporters there is still a larger number of people who will call them out on this so there is hope for us yet. It's always going to be a negative for women like her: men don't look at them and they're upset cause they're not getting attention. Men give them a quick casual glance and they're a victim.

@Vortex_ICEcold 5 ай бұрын

So go ahead and tell me why these “large” number of supporters aren’t walking to include women in the drafting process? And yet they are so gung ho to march on the streets with their picket signs saying “WE ARE NOT BABY MAKING MACHINES.” How about march on the street for how politicians throw men onto the battlefield. Where’s the protests for that? This “large” number of people don’t really exist lol. It’s all in your head. I need you to think properly for a second. If they are the larger majority, why have they NOT done anything up until this point lol? The fact that women like this still exist speaks volumes of those “large” number of people.

@ednunes4000 8 ай бұрын

Men, just walk away and let society fail

@edmitch39 8 ай бұрын

great video, I can say as a 53 year old single male, this is a very complicated issue. Society is based around protecting women and children. What I have seen in my life, is that the more power a man gets, the more he can get away with things, (abusing women or children). Look at OJ, he beat the shit out of his wife for years, he would literally beat the shit out of her, throw her in a closet, then go out and party with his friends, and have sex with other women while she was battered and bruised in a closet. But he was a NFL superstar, so he could get away with it. At the same time some guy who has nothing going for him could approach a woman, being nervous, and have his behavior misunderstood and end up getting put in jail for harassment. The group that suffers the most are men who do not have social status. We need better communication so people from all walks of life understand each other better.

@edmitch39 8 ай бұрын

thanks for the response , first let me say you are very pretty. Next, I have to say I don't have any idea what the solution is. It s like a Venn diagram, with women and alpha men in one overlapping circle, and the rest of men in another circle. It is truly he one part of society that no body cares about. If there is a solution, I think it has to come from women, alpha men are sure not going to do anything to help out there less successful fellow men. Women have to stop looking at low status men a losers who deserve to be where they are in life, but instead look at them as men who have potential, but just need a little help, Some of them could really be something. Just saw a bio on Sean Connery, in 1960 he was living in a poor town in Scotland. had no girlfriend, and his life was going nowhere. He decided to audition in 1962 for a new movie that was. coming out called DR No. the first James Bond Film. He auditioned among hundreds of other actors, the moment he walked on stage, producer Coby Brochelii said "thats our guy" he is James Bond. He would go on to become probably the most iconic alpha male, and symbol of a confident male and sex symbol of any actor in the history of film. Under slightly different circumstances he would probably have never been anybody. There is always hope. @Tele.gram_Mrs_CourtneRyan