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I had a couple of women ask me for some advice on how to deal with a problem they're having. They are both successful, they make their own money, they're loyal, and they both support their men. Yet they are not being treated the way they should be treated. One of these women has been in her relationship for over ten years and still is not married. Not only will he not make her his wife, he cheats on her and makes her feel like it's her fault. The other woman has been in her relationship for a long time as well and her husband disrespects her and is verbally abusive. He even threatens to kick her out of THEIR house when he gets mad! It's obvious to me that these women need to remove themselves from these relationships, but I want to address something so that they don't find themselves in these situations again.
You must understand that you teach people how to treat you. Over the years these men have crossed boundaries that should have never been crossed and these women allowed it. These types of things don't just happen over night. They usually start out small and gradually get worse as the man gets more comfortable and realizes that you will allow these things to happen as long as he says the right things or does the right things to make up to you. it's important that you set boundaries from the beginning of the relationship and never waiver. Disrespect in your relationship should never be tolerated! Always remember this... If you tolerate it, you're going to have to maintain it and eventually you're going to be trapped in the misery that you co-created. Teach your man to treat you the way you want to be treated. That's the bottom line.
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