That's a 4 show right on✊😁

New subbie.

Thank you for your very kind words, you make me feel very proud to be a black woman.

Thanks ❤

Done ✔️

No problem. Thank you for checking my channel out.

@@TheShumakeWay you make black American men look good. I thought all of you black American men were a closed case . The world is watching and even though I’m not American KZfaq really puts me off is ever dating one!!

Very rare. I had lost all hope for the bm. ALL until this channel.

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Ir sho'll is!

Thank you for being a Wise Black Man

WORD!

FACTS💙

Girlfriend u said it. Need I say more? Aint he bad? He finally saw the truth!!!

black women are taught to disprespect black men

This fool don't even have a black women as a wife.And he preaching about how much he love black woman.Why would you want a black woman who look like your sister,mom etc that's disgusting.Love you sister,mom etc those are the only black women you would be concerned about because you know them.But praising blackwomen as queens is your first mistake.Why call any woman a queen unless her name is queen.You just talking homie.Find you a black woman and making her your wife and spend by your time talking how much you love her instead of talking about how much you love black women but you don't even have one.Dont be naive.You fool for this one.

He is married to a black woman don’t believe the commentor

It’s funny how y’all submit to some d*ck but not a marriage its always something else why.

@@ts2371 I have absolutely no words 🙃

@@ts2371 🙄🙄😒😒😒😒

i appreciate you

I so enjoyed this... I just said , to another. You think women want to play 75 different ppl and roles.

We want a strong black man to come and lead but give us something to do so with. Its just sad out here... women, be happy with you first and then go find love in the purest form.

@Mason Mikey ok,lol

I’m glad I’m not the only woman who got a little emotional to hear this because of my 27 years on earth this has to be one of the most genuine non-pandering commentaries on black women and black relationships FROM A BLACK MAN ! It’s touching. We appreciate it @The Shumake Way !

I am self-sufficient and handier around the house than most men I know, not because I necessarily want to be, but because I have had no choice. I submitted to an unworthy fool once, I shall not do it again.

@@gymeni amen 🙏🏾

Well you have to act like. You can't be soft and nice for alittle bit and go back to acting like a man. Be that good woman every day and not when you feel like it.

@@gymeni I get mad when I meet a guy who can't change a tire. Understand what you're saying.

Right! But also like many flowers depending on the environment. We must adapt to the conditions but, nevertheless we are flowers that bear fruit when in the right condition.

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We Love you back Queen you can also be an inspiration to us as well💯🌷🌷🌷🌷

I love you too ❤️

@Antis Tobacco yeah, thats how it works. All black women are like u said just bc u said so.

We love you too! Women solidarity is so important. Glad you found your worth!

Facts 💯 not fair at all!

Good analogy

@@aredub6924 thank you... think about the blisters you get from ill fitting shoes... after a while they won’t be pretty

I felt this in the depths of my soul💜

Beautifully said..

Thank you ❤️

EXACTLYYYYYY

This is how a real SIMP should talk!!!

But girl this ninja said in another vid he made a blkwmn a babymama (x2). We for that now?

@@TheShumakeWay sir did u just decide to become responsible? Y did u turn a black woman n2 a babymama & now u talking about finding yourself a 'successful' black woman? Do a video on that!

NO! Black men don’t hate you..yes I admit there are some blacks men out there who are brainwashed and have completely lost their identity who oppress black women, yes I know there are but they are a minority just that those fools make a lot of noise...we black men LOVE and ADORE black women sometimes you might not feel it but we love you..I till the day I die I will always express love to my BLACK GIRLS in particular..I was raised by black parents and I have big sisters and my mum that love me with all their strengths this made me adore even black women more and I know BLACK WOMEN understand me more that’s a fact!..don’t loose hope and you’ll find that black man with whom you will build your legacy and cut the bad cycle..love you❤️

Good for u

I thought I was the only one feeling teary eyed, this message was needed!

Awww, don’t give up sis❤️😪 try dating outside your race

We got you Tori ✊🏾

Amén

Thank u

Absolutely!

Preach! Truth! Say it again for the people in the back!!

what's up with this submissive stuff? why submission like you're a broken animal..smh

Exactly,men like that are the ones who vent the MOST. They wanna demand, demand, demand,but never wanna give

Submission comes naturally to a woman when she is cherished, loved, respected, and cared for. When she feels safe with the partner she's with.

Boom!

Girl!

right....

Yes you do

We all have a lot to learn. Especially about each other.

Truth for most bw 💯

You're absolutely right. If a man treats his woman right emotionally, mentally& physically, women will be submissive to a point to where it's satisfying to love, care & support like the way God created us.

Say That Sis💯.. We too stressed out working the full load so what you get is what we go through. Let us rest and be appreciated and we will be every woman for you.

I'm older now so I don't think the opportunity to marry will happen and I think that's for the best! All this submitting is something that I didn't even hear in my twenties or thirties and who's got time for that now? Submitting to what and why? I told my mother that what exactly would I get out of marriage at this point, not biological children for sure! I'll have to do two of everything I do now like washing two loads of clothes instead of one, two sets of dishes, possibly making dinner for two three or four nights a week and picking up after a man! When I get healthier and more financially sound then I would like a good boyfriend but marriage, I don't think so! Not saying never but it's not a goal or even a real desire anymore!!

I appreciate that bro. 💯💯💯

Thank you James W, we love our Brothers like you.💖💋

God bless you, God brother.

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👏💯🙏 Stay blessed😎

I'm sorry, but I'm not wasting my time and energy raising a man.

Gtfo with that old mammy Bs Blk women moving on to where we are loved and protected

Thanks for sharing, but not only is your scenario the exception, but it lacks sufficient context for us to believe that muling for ignorant BM is a wise investment of our time.

This comment is so needed becuz we all broken sometimes with love pray submission can change him

As long as you show her love and teach her to be secure with herself, you won't have anything to worry about : ).

Love you right back, Dan Dan!!!!

Ditto!

Thank you brother ! Alot of us love and support you as well. 🥰👏

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My grandad is the same way. That’s actually who my role model is. I want to be the same way. He was with my grandma until the day she died. Only time I ever saw him cry was when she died too.

Those guys aren't dead you guys aren't looking for us. Look at my page and see some of the things I do. I grow my own food don't drink or smoke, have no problem taking care of a woman as it should be but I swear I can't get a woman to look my way for nothing. A lot of woman aren't satisfied with what a man can provide and want more than what he can do and that is a major turn off for guys.

@@diante229 The right one will find you, don't focus on the ones that are not interested in you and cannot appreciate you.

@@melliem7481 thanks but I posted that to say that those types of men aren't all gone. It's crazy because for the past several years I have dated foreigners because they actually like men like me. Also I feel like I have to add that they are black just because of the text of the whole message at hand. Black american women also need to recognize when they are not being true to character.

@@diante229 Maybe it's the women that you are attracting try dating BW OR WOMEN that share similar interests and values!

You got this 🙏🏾💖

God bless you

Blessings to you.

Stay away from black women as you are “trying your best” . Glad you are recognizing this but it’s not our job to fix anyone.

Real shit.

Amen

Facts

YES !

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Come through with the facts.

He is lifting you FOR YOUR CHANGE. Wake up for once..This is the new black hustle. Get a pretty black woman to tell black men what they want to hear JESSICA X. And they will throw money at her. Get a pretty black man to tell black women what they want yo hear DERRICK JAXN and now this player. And you will throw money at them. HUSTLE all day long.

Everyone hustling and pandering to black men and women..... ppl getting rich off black folks trauma and pain ... KZfaq pandering society.. I believe this brother speaking truth not pandering...

@@fender1000100 yet YOU are HERE.....hahaha!!!

Yes honey

@@fender1000100 what is talking about some of y’all really need to get heads out the news and just go outside once in a while.

Preach

Story of my life, I am that daughter having to pick up after the mother.

why is this so hard for black people to understand

@@CatherineCherlene cognitive dissonance at its best. Just like how so many BM think they’ll be rappers, ballers and or fall for every get rich quick scheme.

Many a time I see some of these women being extremely dramatic. I recall allot of drama my brother went thru. When he finally left allot of drama came with him he trying to be in her daughters life. I have few people that I know that keep the kid away from the father. My brother is a provider has married and takes care of his boys. and pays support for my niece. We haven’t seen his daughter in 15yrs because the drama is beyond measure. As a woman I told him always take care of her even if you don’t see her one day she will know the truth. No matter what children shouldn’t pay the price. I raised my son alone but he knows his father and any beef they have has nothing to do with me. I never kept him away because I want the best for my son. My son is like my dad and his dad in some ways because he always had male imprint. He is a strong healthy black man that will marry a sound black women who had dignity and class from what he has told me. To many sisters use their children as pawns. They are rejected and pass it on to the children which isn’t right.

I don't think you know what a simp is... but carry on

@@tonyalston4838 can you explain then? Because I’ve seen a guy call a married man a simp when it comes to his wife. The one he took vows to honor and cherish

Nice try at gaslighting and shaming language. He is a simp

My thoughts exactly. Or he’s worse… a hater that failed to become a real man.

Thank you

Thank you. Also can you make a video dedicated to men that make similar content ? I think some women loose faith temporarily because they watch a lot of these videos of men bashing women. I know there are more men out there like you. There has to be 💝

Thank you, that’s all I’m saying.

Are BW only because they've been oppressed? What about the fact that BW are confused. Thats the part too many BW have to much pride for. Fragile egos are a huge problem. You never cant admit your mistakes as a group. And you've been socially engineered to be combative, Feminist and flaunting a know it all Superior attitude.

@@bodyworkandptbykraig7609 lemme guess Becky hasnt false accused you yet ....times to king bruh 🤣🤣

@@franklyi7530 What does Becky accusing me have to do with many BW having masculine and disrespectful attitudes. Those attitudes are now a part of the culture. Its a huge problem. When you get exposed to other cultures you see it more clearly. Understanding doesn't make disrespect, combativeness and masculinity coming from a woman more tolerable. The creator of the video is giving this a pass and BW don't need the pass they need the truth.

@@bodyworkandptbykraig7609 The truth? The truth is you are public failures & embarrassments as men.

I agree

FACTS..

While at the same time, they're distracting BM so that they become weak allies. Sometimes I don't think BM understand what's at stake anymore... It's actually worrisome tbh

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Tbh a lot of women want a man like this, but don't qualify to get one. You can't get sugar when you're shit. Same goes for the men who try to get good women to make them their wife. Men usually accept this, but I think women can be in a fantasy land sometimes and think they can get a good man simply because they are a woman.

@@kelseylatham8126 How do she qualify when you yourself don't qualify

Alot of y'all don't value black men that are like this

@@fancyface9271 that's all I was saying. You're pretty much agreeing with what I just said

@Mason Mikey A real man takes responsibility

Must have started with his mother and a deep love for his mother....thank you, you're my hero and may God bless you and whomever you decide to share you life with. IJN.

You’re right and thank you 🙏🏽

You are 100% right, totally agree.

So true and the only way we get theough our trauma is being able to speak on it so we can process everything without getting shut down. I don’t think a lot of ppl understand that they seem to get angry when we bring up things. But how else are we supposed to move on?

@@amaniiexxchnge You are absolutely right, we have to be able to talk about it to process it out of our systems, but it's so difficult to find a safe "space", meaning a person or group of people, to talk with who will listen and not get angry and attack us. It's the worst when you are talking about your trauma, and it triggers someone else's trauma. They either shut you down and walk away, which hurts, or they attack you and invalidate you. It makes the trauma worse. It is so important to share these things with the right people. I wish I had a place where I could bring people together. I worked in a rehab as a counselor, fights were always breaking out, the place itself was like a jail, it was so hard for the people who really wanted help to be there with people who didn't choose to be there. It was overwhelming for me too, it was my first counseling job and I had no idea how to deal with large groups of traumatized people. I would go home sobbing and shaking every day from the things I heard and the attacks on me. I wish you much love and healing. We can get there!

@@Quantum36911 thank you love 💕 exactly right about everything you said. If we think about it black ppl have never really been able to deal with our trauma. It’s still fairly a new concept talking about it. I’m sorry you went through that i honestly don’t think you would be in that position if you weren’t able to handle it. (I don’t mean that in any disrespect) I think everything happens for a reason and maybe you found that position because god knows you’re strong enough and have something to help guide people out of their pain. You have been blessed with a gift to ease pain and that gets stronger over time. (we all have them it’s up to us to tap into it or not and sounds like you did, I’m envious hahaha) and it’s not easy to handle sometimes. I hope you have people to lean on around you. It Can really help if you don’t already have someone. You’re ability to empathize will help many I wish you well sweetheart listen to you’re signs💕 we can help our community when we are open to things like this and we will be able to help/teach generations after us. But it has to start now.

I appreciate you ❤️

Amen🥰🥰

Black women have been hated by all men and envied by ALL women. Our beauty and bodies have been stolen by the world!

@Kimmminem West You need to brush up on your Biology ma'am. Men/males determine the sex of a baby because they give either an X or Y chromosome while a woman can only give an X chromosome. With that being said, the brother is ABSOLUTELY correct!

@Kimmminem West You sound angry and bitter. Your issue with men sounds personal.

Peace and blessings to you, sista

Second this Proudlu Alone 😊

I appreciate you. I got married when I was 48 and had 2 girls. I married a man who said he loved me and he would take care of me as best he could for as long as he could and I was on board. Other men told me I had a nice job and a home why did they need to take care of me. I did not need to be taken care of, I just needed to know their intentions . He came in asking what it cost to maintain this home and I told him and he met those costs from then on, we got married 6 months after we met and have been married for 15 years. We banned together to take care of each other and love and support each other and are very happy. He never tried to control me, he supports me and I always respect him and his leadership in regards to our family❤

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Nice stereotype lmfao!

Yes 👏🏿 I always said Latina women do not play games. Try telling these men but they don’t listen.

@@lavonnealexander6936 🤣🤣🤣 low self esteem

@@lavonnealexander6936 I beg to differ, my girlfriend is from Mexico and she's pretty submissive American Latinas like this chick are not my cup of tea

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LOOOOLLLLL

He will when he does his final video... Lol!

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I agree with you

That is our conundrum. As Black women, even though Black men have been dating and marrying Yte women, we have stood by Black men and even fought for justice towards them. I believe more Black men have to understand that it is impossible for one group to be healed, if all are not healed, and also take responsibilty for our community.

Or dont want to fall into a death trap!

Or it could just be that he is not attracted to you. He has the right to have a choice just like you divester types do. When BW date out, it is celebrated.

Or maybe theyre tired of the attitudes??

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A woman should have more than home skills. If something temporary/permanent should happen to her fiance she'll have some type of work experience.

@John Williams Yeah...im allowed to have pride lol just like he's allowed to have his. Just like youre allowed to have yours?

I lived that for 30 years! Glad you found a man who appreciates your strengths!

Shut up lmao

Just abusing BW cz they're too afraid to address the elephant in the room. Kinda like a drink dad that beats his wife and kids cz at work he's nothing

Black women need to stop watching videos from these clowns. You have the black women who have the nerve to state that they love his show...and the others are wasting time arguing with these clowns. Anything degrading/negative towards black women gets blocked from my YT list...period..

BW have always been that... from black exploration movies to Rap to utube bashing.

@@chrissy1448 Oh yes, I always click not interested.

It’s going to take a lot of work to undo this mess and they don’t want to do it. They would rather jump ship because they don’t want to man up.

@@TheShumakeWay Indeed it takes a lot a work, most don't want to do the work.

@@TheShumakeWay Thank you for your efforts! B1❤️

@@TheShumakeWay Facts

@@TheShumakeWay it's truly hard when you have people constantly close to Broken human beans facilitating and in encouraging this kind of behavior. The thing is if you're always right, how do you know when you're wrong because nobody ever held them accountable. They don't know the truth stands alone for a reason.

and HEAD of their communities.

Those men didn’t have to do it in foreign land. They would do it in their own country with their own set of culture traditions.

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i appreciate you

We want true love and loyalty too.

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Wow!

Yep! That's the only man you are required to submit to.

@@RobertaS127 Right!Folks Don't Understand That!

👏👏👏 That's right.

Thoses Who SINGLE or Widows Encouraged To RAISE Healthy Guy...Don't Need A Submissive Woman Cause It's 💯 💯 FAIRNESS... PERIOD...Nor Submissive Man. A Insecure Person Need A Woman to Be Less To Be Strong.

Yep! Same!!

My father is a peer of your father ... I understand the struggle, looking around for his image and not finding it today, and having to walk on as an alpha female alone...

Malcolm X,Martin Luther king, Mohammed Ali,Steve Biko, Nelson Mandela and every other black man who fought or spoke for black people's rights would be VERY disappointed with today's black men. Instead of fighting for economic freedom,racism,police brutality, inequality and discrimination in America they're busy fighting women...and run back to the same women they insulted when they get abused. That's literally what the BLM is about,black men running to BW for help

How are bm running to be for help? They can’t even lift a barbell 😂.

It’s definitely going to be a struggle, but we don’t have a choice. We gotta change for real. Not just talk! We actually gotta heal and start taking better care of each other.

100% accountability on both sides

I wish he would black men neeedd him and Jesus!

Absolutely! Men need to be held accountable and steered back on the right path. Most are so lost, full of hate for the women that birthed them and alot women of their race. Sickening

We not paying this panderer no mind

Thank you

Hi @awele are you a guy? I'm anambra, Nigeria.

They truley are not balanced! It's just something off about a guy who talks bad about the woman he's meant to lead but fails to realize that he has no where to go and still expects her to follow but because she wont he speaks down on her in a public forum.

@@QueenLDes yeah I am I'm from delta nigeria.

@@QueenLDes Aye!! My fellow Anambra babe!! 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

Strong personality = Argumentative and masculine

@@tonyalston4838 HAPPY SUNDAY, IM NOT QUITE SURE WHAT THAT COMMENT WAS ABOUT. I WAS JUST SAYING THAT WE AS STRONG WOMEN, ARE LEFT WITH NO CHOICE, BUT TO BOSS UP. PLEASE REMEMBER, A WEAK FEMALE, CAN'T OFFER YOU NOTHING. BE GOOD MY KING.💝

Black American women have always had to woman up because that’s what America made us do.

@@leonalove336 SHO YA RIGHT😊

Love you too Queen 👸🏿👑💝💖

Every man and woman under the sun has flaws. Doesn’t matter what country you’re from or what color you are, you’ll never find a perfect person. I just want our people to understand that and start trying to fix our issues within our culture.

@@TheShumakeWay this was something my late dad Dr Morgan Job of 🇹🇹 always said in another way: he used to say "WE have messed up our space. Stop blaming history and slavery." He also used to say: "Don't tell me what a man is when he's 20; show me what he is when he's 40." He died of pancreatic cancer in 2018 and I know he would have been proud of you. He was an economist and a great fan of Dr Thomas Sowell.

Who bestowed the title queen onto you?

damn, sound like my life. i was gonna say age 8-9 also. shit is beyond overbearing.

Thay's right sis. We all need our burdens lightened!

It takes a special woman to be submissive to a man who was manipulative and abusive to his wife at home yet very gentle, soft spoken and very nice to everyone, especially other women who met or worked with him. That submissive person was my mom and that was in the 50's and 60's. Divorce was not a popular option. She wanted to keep us intact and she sacrificed a lot to give us a stable home. When we all grew up and left home, they were now left together by themselves and they were perfect strangers.Each one could not stand the other and eventually I would have her come to live with me for a long break from him. That experience marred my conception of marriage for life. Submissiveness is not the answer. If a man cannot lead by example, provide for his home and love his family, then he is a hypocrite and an imposter and while a woman will pretend to submit, deep down she will resent and secretly have no respect for her man. What a miserable marriage wee all witnessed growing up. Submission is not the answer. Take it from me.

You need therapy

Black women have the same ting but blackwomen stop the black men to provide because black women always want to take control not let the black men do what he have to do, than you have black women that say we don’t protect but when we do black men we get turn away and laugh at so what’s the purpose to do all of that for black women and not get applause for it or recognize for it

@@devonte7650 you sound like a victim

@@devonte7650 yall don't know what to do half of the time. You probably don't want to listen. Its a partnership and its things us women understand that yall don't so instead of taking her advice, you get mad that we trying to help but your ego gets in tge way. That ain't our fault

Amen..

@@devonte7650 that’s because no one is going to go without, waiting for someone to step to the plate. what is she suppose to do stand by and starve waiting so a man can get a golden star for finally providing. Nah that’s not how it works. A man needs to show and prove he can handle the responsibility once the woman knows her house hold is safe she submits to that man because he has shown he is capable of leading.

Being latina myself this holds so much truth. That said ,it doesn't mean that we still don't have issues within in our community. Its just that the comparison to the black community makes its so damn pronounced and its honestly sad. Also sidenote, the term is just Latino

alot of so called "alpha males" do all that talk about how alpha they are and then when a woman becomes ready to be submissive they don't know what to do.

@@TheShumakeWay agreed and again thank you for intentionally spreading love to us black women seeking true leadership and love in our black men❤

Exactly,do you think anyone (regardless of race) wants to submit to a jobless,wannabe rapper?

I rather stand beside my man, not behind him. We can both shine!✨✨✨🌠💯

What you said is beautiful and true... I have never allowed Society to dictate my vulnerability, softness, playfulness... I'm a black woman, but I refuse to be a stereotype, and I refuse to be somebody that I'm not because Society tries to make me feel that I need to be hard and tough and brutal. I love what you said! Keep being uses :-) you are precious and beautiful!

Powerful young sister!!!!!

@@drinkwatereatmelons7048 Exactly. The only time we need to stand behind a man is when he's protecting us from harm!

Me too I felt this so hard 😭

EXACTLYYYYYY

@@humilityiswisdom23 EXACTLYYYYYY

Because we get flack from all angles and as a blk man he shud be able to see that not hust side with u in the hope of Wednesday pussy

Cause Black women compared to black men have a walk in the park. Who comes back 50yrs on a black woman saying she molested him??? How many black women you know gotta pay for respect??? How many black women you know are gunned down in the streets by cops??? How many innocent black women you know are doing 30 plus years in prison??? How black women you know are talk down on cause she struggling??? How many black men are in prison trying to provide??? How many homeless black men out here actually trying??? Yet the black woman is excused from her struggles by society or Section 8 programs!!! I'm not providing shit until I see a worthy woman!!! She doesn't have to pay for my respect or love!!!!

Yikes. The fact that you highlight your struggles while dismissing that black women struggle at all. Is what he’s trying to explain to you. You attack your #1 ally and are shocked she now gives you the same energy you give back? With the way you victimize yourself you are not desirable and not ready to be a mate to anyone. Heal yourself. Stop blaming your struggles on black women. Stop blaming our overcoming on white programs. We are murdered by black men every 5.5 hours. We are, outside of Native American women being trafficked at an alarming rate. We are 50% more likely to die in child birth than any other race in America. Every time a black woman has been murdered by police aside from two. You men are nowhere around. If she’s left alone to raise her black children because a black man left her. It’s HER fault alone. She’s not praised for finding her children shelter. You expect them to be homeless. A black woman speaking up about sexual abuse does not mean we do not hold black women who abuse accountable. Speak up so that support can be given. Black women also spend life in prison but unlike majority of black men they have no advocates to protest their release. How many homeless black women are out there with no protection and often the children she was tricked into having. Basically I’m saying all this to say that other people have plights. Black women have been sympathetic to the black man’s hardship in America since we have been here. However as the generations of black men grow you all recognize ours less and less. This is giving yt woman energy. Victim hood is not a competition. There is no award and neither genders suffering is more grand than the other. Heal yourself so you can stop being so angry and hateful. Stop blaming black women for finding a way to live in the same environment you are in. How can you hate us for overcoming but demand love, respect. And praise for the black man overcoming? How do you put conditions on respecting black women and what she has to be. But expect us to believe all black men are worthy? If you loved all black women without her having to give or do something for you. You might be surprised how much your world view opens. We are one. Do better

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