I often talk about the importance of a man finding himself before marriage. If he doesn't know who he is and where he's going, then he wont know who or what he needs to bring along with him on his journey. In regards to marriage this is especially true! One of the most important relationships anybody will ever have is the one between a man and his wife and who he chooses as a wife can either make or break him. But what if a man meets his wife before he's ready for her??? That is a question that I've been dealing with personally for a few years. You see, I have a beautiful woman in my life that I have known was "the one" for quite some time and I unfortunately was not "ready" for her and what she brought to the table. This woman was everything I wanted in a wife. It doesn't even really make sense for me to have remained in the "friend zone" for so long knowing how I felt. But I did! I sat back and watched her date other men for years and I've even given her advice on how to deal with some of them. I gambled big!!! This woman is a great woman and she could've been swept off her feet at any moment. As a matter of fact she has even been proposed to a couple times during our friendship. How I could I have remained so calm during this time? I'll tell you... I knew that if I had gotten into a relationship with her before the timing was right and before I had gotten myself together, that I would run the risk of losing her anyways. So I decided to put my personal development first. That decision was the best decision i could've made for the both of us. Last week I proposed to her and we are now engaged to be married. Waiting until the time was right allowed me to level up. I have clear plan for the future, I'm much more mature, she's more mature, and we both know exactly what we want out of life. We are set to have a very fruitful and abundant life together and I attribute the foundation our relationship sits on to waiting for the right time. I made this video to get a couple different points across. One is the benefit of waiting and also I wanted to tell you what a man does when he's ready for marriage. I hope you walk away from this video with some fresh perspective and a new outlook on how to set your marriage up for success before you even meet your wife.
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