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YOUR MASCULINITY IS NOT DETERMINED BY YOUR SEX LIFE

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The Shumake Way

The Shumake Way

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@jwc6444
@jwc6444 2 жыл бұрын
Suprised you said it's for black men and women. Honestly feel like you make great videos for all races that's on a positive path and practice maturity. Keep doing what you doing. Lazy people are always going to hate on people!!
@kizzyrock
@kizzyrock 2 жыл бұрын
💖
@debbyshark1596
@debbyshark1596 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I'm white and I listen to his content everyday!! He resonates with Anyone who wants to be a better version of themselves!! This is the kind of content that truly resonates with me and I'm a white woman lol
@PT-zz9ks
@PT-zz9ks Жыл бұрын
It is good for other races to listen to him but he is openly pro Black and makes content for that community
@jamcalpin
@jamcalpin 2 жыл бұрын
Facts! As Black men we gotta have the right standard of success to shoot for and how many women you've had sex with is not it. Thanks for sharing some beneficial content. Greatly appreciate it, bro. Peace.
@mrs.truthseekertruthseeker5973
@mrs.truthseekertruthseeker5973 2 жыл бұрын
I’m learning that some people are addicted to brokenness, chaos, conflict and confusion. Most of these people can’t be saved. They’ve don’t want to change. They have hardened their hearts. It’s sad they will die like this..
@kizzyrock
@kizzyrock 2 жыл бұрын
You aren't for everyone! Once we choose to walk in purpose, God has a specific group designed for each individual to reach and these individuals will gravitate towards us effortlessly. That's why when people ATTEMPT to come in my comment section with nonsense, i finish them and they never return. LOL!! The men your referring too has either been hurt by a woman BADLY, mother was toxic or he was rejected so until they HEAL, the will continue to attack REAL men like yourself because your confidence intimidates them. Your masculinity is where they want to be but do not know how to get there...HEALING is the answer...Keep shining!
@Africasfinest21
@Africasfinest21 2 жыл бұрын
Your message in this video definitely made my morning! In POV, these “men” who put women down utilize generalized ideals for all women. I used to feel as small as mustard seed because I would allow conflicting messages poison my brain/mindset. Now, I’m prayerful, taking care of myself in all aspects, getting to know me more and more daily, and trusting the Most High that He will Bless me with my husband in His timing. Until then, I’ll be praying for the both of us. Thank you for your candor, Shumake!
@ms.evegene
@ms.evegene 2 жыл бұрын
You are not a simp. Everyone with a right mind will know that lol! Keep doing yours!
@Yusheesan
@Yusheesan 2 жыл бұрын
Although you said that your channel is for black men and women, it is really for anyone who wants to live a good and fulfilling life. God bless.
@UniquelyVickie
@UniquelyVickie 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these messages and letting God use you. The righteous path is narrow but you will reach who you are supposed to reach. I always say beside every strong man is a good woman. 👍🏽
@TheShumakeWay
@TheShumakeWay 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@vivianwade3185
@vivianwade3185 2 жыл бұрын
The idiots that call you names, are assholes!!!! You're a wonderful man, and god made you that way!!! Those other guys are living by Satan's rules, you know his likes and dislikes. You keep doing what you're doing!!! We need good men to teach, just like you're doing!!! So my brother, keep on keeping on!!! God bless you!!!!
@Kmama801
@Kmama801 2 жыл бұрын
Love this message so much. Such positivity! Please do become a mentor for young boys I feel you could make a real difference
@baricade345
@baricade345 2 жыл бұрын
Yo bro I know exactly what you talking about I saw a livestream where a famous brother said young men in their 20’s need to just date and have fun/sex, then when they are in their 30’s go get married but women in their 20’s should get married….. I guess they should only get married to guys in their 30’s to 40’s. SMH that’s not a recipe for success.
@countrylay_d4389
@countrylay_d4389 2 жыл бұрын
👏👋🙌🙌 yes sir. Great msg! These males are all up in their emotions. Feminine emotions..always all up in women's business. Talking about women business all day. That's what women were known for! Now we have males attempting to compete with women. How can a man be a leader or Alpha, if he isn't building anything? Not contributing to community development, not a husband or good dependable man, not a father to his children, not willing to learn or grow. All things a real man/leader aspires to do. Yet they call themselves men or alpha??? There's a disconnect somewhere!!!
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina 2 жыл бұрын
alpha beta shit is lame. I'm just a man, a corny man lol but just a normal man
@countrylay_d4389
@countrylay_d4389 2 жыл бұрын
@@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina just curious, no judgement. Why do you describe yourself as normal corny man?🤔
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina 2 жыл бұрын
@@countrylay_d4389 Hmm, I guess because I'm just a regular dude. I was never the "hood/street" dude. Always into computers, anime, etc. I don't really care about being machismo/alpha. Also won't take bullshit or disrespect from anyone either.
@countrylay_d4389
@countrylay_d4389 2 жыл бұрын
@@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina Those are all solid qualities of a positive man! Doing uplifting stuff and having a mind of your own. The world is upsidedown...we call evil good and good evil. What's the benefit of hood/street Hussle ( not looking down on those who have to Hussle for survival) who/what does such persons build or contribute to the community? Family or kids? Stay on your purpose!👍
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina
@Lawrence_Femi_Ikenna_Odedina 2 жыл бұрын
@@countrylay_d4389 Thank you. I just try my best everyday
@naimarestoringdivinity7938
@naimarestoringdivinity7938 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir! you are very clear you support the black family, black love and healing of the black nation and always have been clear about this. I appreciate you for this and the fact you have an equally yoked black wife to show this reality. I’m thinking I need to expand my circle cause I don’t know black men that this is important to in a way that they walk it not just talk it nor exploit it for financial gains. I have a few other KZfaq channels that I support in this way but in case your videos get lost I’m downloading them for keepsake and to play in the background of my 2 year old son head till he’s a grownup lol!
@naimarestoringdivinity7938
@naimarestoringdivinity7938 2 жыл бұрын
And another thing I’m gonna work on is having some folks I can share your videos with to actively support this in some way.
@lisacook8589
@lisacook8589 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Shumake and everyone 👋.
@kizzyrock
@kizzyrock 2 жыл бұрын
Hi beautiful! Blessings sis!
@rhondae8222
@rhondae8222 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, Shumake. This was a great message. Keep it up. Thank you 🙂
@lisacook8589
@lisacook8589 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN AMEN AND AMEN!!!!!!!!
@zero1188
@zero1188 2 жыл бұрын
Its about reward and punishment. If they only get rewarded or praised for a high body count of course thats what they gauge manhood by. They dont get praised when they do build matter fact they get punished. Thats the real reason why
@Kmama801
@Kmama801 2 жыл бұрын
That’s interesting. Who is doing the praising and who is doing the punishing? If someone punishes you for doing the right thing, that’s not a person anyone should be paying attention to.
@tjmastermind
@tjmastermind 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kmama801 those are necessary questions that need answers. I’ve noticed that the standard of manhood is set by men and this starts in junior high/ high school. Boys will go to great lengths to maintain a certain image amongst their other male friends, regardless of what they truly feel or think. Thus, the praise and/or worship of behaviors seems to start with men determining the factors of manliness
@denesejamerson2356
@denesejamerson2356 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Shumake, keep doing your content. Those of us grown folk love it; Pay them "slugs" no mind!
@faebalina7786
@faebalina7786 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on , may this school of thought prosper in these virtual streets as there is alot of damage being done from people having a silly and basic understanding of what manhood.Some of these have been hurt and want vengeance whilst others are bad faith actors. I mean you touched on things that are really both glaring once mentioned and altogether overlooked.
@shafeeqahsmith6999
@shafeeqahsmith6999 2 жыл бұрын
Real talk from a real man!
@isabellglover5217
@isabellglover5217 2 жыл бұрын
Keep teaching Shumaker🙏🏾
@vivianwade3185
@vivianwade3185 2 жыл бұрын
Ole I could just kiss you!!!! Pittsburgh pa watching!!! Love you my brother!!!
@mahoganymuffin2628
@mahoganymuffin2628 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shumake!!
@survivorship4290
@survivorship4290 Жыл бұрын
Well said!!!!
@badassbiggirl
@badassbiggirl 2 жыл бұрын
You always make so many great points. I was just talking about this with my male friend. Thank you💜
@misswill8488
@misswill8488 2 жыл бұрын
We on the same page my Brother. That's what I'm on and about as well.
@thecount_1957
@thecount_1957 2 жыл бұрын
You're on point with this one!
@kamilahdavis1393
@kamilahdavis1393 2 жыл бұрын
💯!!!!!!!
@blacketernal7139
@blacketernal7139 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!! Me and my wife have both been with 5 partners. We talked for 4 months and THEN had sex after.
@ChaM_25
@ChaM_25 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@darknlovelyslg
@darknlovelyslg 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@kaylah714
@kaylah714 2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾
@vn7065
@vn7065 2 жыл бұрын
Ecc 8:11
@africanamerican6936
@africanamerican6936 2 жыл бұрын
Cap
@Bornagainvillain
@Bornagainvillain 2 жыл бұрын
Nah, he right.
@africanamerican6936
@africanamerican6936 2 жыл бұрын
Nah not really
@1111ScorpQueen
@1111ScorpQueen 2 жыл бұрын
@@africanamerican6936 You are a weak bandit
@IndigoWarriorAngel
@IndigoWarriorAngel 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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