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@fastrivers812
@fastrivers812 4 ай бұрын
I appreciate the information but the legal system is a joke. My wife falsely accused me of domestic assault and I was arrested so I'm fighting a criminal case. I immediately filed for divorce because of her ongoing emotional abuse towards me and the false accusation with that. However, because of the process, she gets full custody of the children and starts alienating them from me--slowly and slowly diminishing my visits with them. Then, we go to a protection order hearing where she lied about every accusation she told the judge. Because of the criminal case, I had to remain silent so things I said could not be used against me--according to my criminal attorney. Of course, the judge gives her the restraining order and on top of that, I have to take a batterers intervention program (BIP) class. I thought the justice system was designed to protect the innocent. Upon her alienating me from my children, we had to hire a GAL who has realized that my wife has severely manipulated the children to hate me. I have been a devoted father for 16 years and my two oldest hate me? It's because me wife has told them siliceous lies and the GAL agrees with me but we have to pay for me to have therapeutic visits with my kids until we go to a hearing to give me back 50/50 custody which is what I asked for in the divorce in the first place. After that, we have to go to family counseling so a counselor can undo my wife's mind control over the kids. Then I meet with the BIP therapist and she wants to know what happened. Well, I can't tell her, per my criminal attorney, because she can be called on the stand. So, I explain this to her and she says she can't have me in the class if I don't tell her what happened. I relate this to the criminal attorney, he tells me something I can say, and I contact her back letting her know I can take the class and she tells me that now I can be forthcoming--as if I was lying or something. I'm afraid to see how this class is operated now. The good news out of all of this is that we have a hearing coming up and I have caught my wife in some blatant lies and have evidence to prove it. Unfortunately, she's already done her damage already. I'm the abused one but no one is listening.
@TeslaBoy123
@TeslaBoy123 4 ай бұрын
Bla bla.bla. bla.all this courts order rules payments for this and this are only enforcement for fathers a women can done wherever their want violated court order and nothing happens bcz simple is a poor women she can move out state line in secret with kids without a court order or father consent and nothing happens just a sample how women are protected by system not matter what's their actions
@sarahcimikoski7808
@sarahcimikoski7808 5 ай бұрын
If a partial stipulation was filed 7 months prior to a chapter 11 was filed by one of the spouses, does it become invalid? Keep in mind decree is not aigned yet.
@mylittlecoloradocottage
@mylittlecoloradocottage 5 ай бұрын
wonderful explaination of guardianship
@Miya-kj5bu
@Miya-kj5bu 6 ай бұрын
Lame
@pursuitofpurkiness
@pursuitofpurkiness 7 ай бұрын
Very helpful!!!❤❤❤ I’m going to court to day and read the invite at ion also watched the video but this is very helpful I know exactly what I am requesting thank you!!!!
@tullytully4084
@tullytully4084 7 ай бұрын
Thanks mrs from Namibian 😊
@dubblerb793
@dubblerb793 8 ай бұрын
More women are narcissistic then men. Make sure your study is neutral
@tonycoleman2184
@tonycoleman2184 10 ай бұрын
Given what happened to Anthony Leroy Snyder by their court appointed guardian any attempt to place a child under the protection of even someone in a family relation ship as a guardian should be motinored at all times by law abiding citizens to prevent abuse fiancial ruin of the one place the situation otherwise the court system should be declared sole guardian for the safety and prosperity of child involved only intense supervision of a child place in a guardian ship situation is capable of protecting that child from harm or theft of inherited resources when parents are removed from their life , I am Anthony Leroy Snyder aka Tony Coleman a previous child place in such situation
@jajanc9722
@jajanc9722 10 ай бұрын
Hi! I am from the philippines and i have a 17y/o daughter, her father is living in the US since 1980. After i have birth he never visit us and i found out he is livinf another girl in the Philippines..is it possble to file child support? My duaghter will go to college soon and i cannot be able support financially..pls helpz thank you
@Scott60077
@Scott60077 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. Will the court listen to children even more when they are 15 compared to 13? Also, if the stepfather was convicted on a drug possession felony, would that help grant me more time with the children?
@randpherigo9724
@randpherigo9724 Жыл бұрын
Custody implies you have a say in the childs life.. The LAST Thing Cook county wants. Fathers Have zero rights in Illinois. (Especially Chiraq) 93 years Democrat rule.. says it all
@user-lu3ud4xy8o
@user-lu3ud4xy8o Жыл бұрын
My hearing for the guardianship it wasn't fair I didn't have any chance to present my evidence or ev talk about
@seizuregirlllll
@seizuregirlllll Жыл бұрын
No one ever talks about parenting plan with a newborn child
@sharonvieites6054
@sharonvieites6054 Жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for the clear and concise information about the different types of guardianships. It has been most helpful and has shed light to a topic that I completely ignored. Be well.🌸
@allisonfuller7881
@allisonfuller7881 Жыл бұрын
Hello I’m in a situation where , I’m trying to get custody of my kids and the mom has pass away and I have file custody and the person I have serve , But due to the pandemic the court was close But later when the court open I finsh where I left off , But the people who has my kids been avoiding the summon and has file for guardian for my kids it’s been Two years now
@hienienguyen6766
@hienienguyen6766 Жыл бұрын
yes exactly, my father is extremely narcisstic father. then my son's father was very emotionally abusive.
@josypech8823
@josypech8823 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad to stumble across this I’m going for guardingship of my grandson I hv him from 3 dates old his mom my daughter died when he was 3 years old now 6 year old today his father is not supporting him but yet show up denying my plea for guardian to the baby thanks I’ve learn a little listing to you so I will use it Monday to fight for my baby
@barbaratouya4302
@barbaratouya4302 Жыл бұрын
Why does a guardian appointed by the mother only and died has to remain the guardian when the child is constantly running away, lying and stealing from other family members of the guardian, getting kicked out of the school and other outlandish things
@piper5618
@piper5618 Жыл бұрын
How to find out when guardianship will be considered after filing? Judge has heard case but have not been notified of ruling. Judge wants to talk with child 2 months ago, how do I ask court his decision?
@poffeetalks
@poffeetalks Жыл бұрын
As a 100% disabled army veteran would I not be allowed guardianship?
@nicoleangebrandt1506
@nicoleangebrandt1506 Жыл бұрын
When you have a hearing to terminate the guardianship for the kids to go back to there parent how long after the hearing would the judge decide for the kids to go back home with parent and not guardian?
@sydonaward9815
@sydonaward9815 Жыл бұрын
Can i use a justice of peace jp he is 16
@sydonaward9815
@sydonaward9815 Жыл бұрын
Which procedure can i go through to give my cousin legal guardian for my son they are in the states am in jamaica
@alexgina7809
@alexgina7809 Жыл бұрын
I gave my mother legal guardianship of my child since I am outside of the untied states and I sent my child to study, I’ve learned that my child is been brain washed, abuse threatened and is living in and around drunkards and drug users I want my child to return but my mother refuse to send her back I don’t have a visa to go to the USA and get her back, how can I deal with this
@debbieestrada6147
@debbieestrada6147 Жыл бұрын
I have a question I have Guardianship for a Minor, what my question is can a sister of age take him to lunch without me or do I have to be with him
@coreyanderson7424
@coreyanderson7424 Жыл бұрын
This is okay advice as narcissistic personality disordered people tend to like getting a reaction. However, if the parent is dangerous, or is a Sociopath, is Antisocial, that is something else entirely. Thanks for the video 🙂
@fasdfga4095
@fasdfga4095 Жыл бұрын
for SIJS for immigration, what kind of guardianship is the best?
@bhushananuj
@bhushananuj 2 жыл бұрын
How much do you charge for this service?
@kellygowan3683
@kellygowan3683 2 жыл бұрын
If you become a guardian does that mean that the child is then your dependent and you can put them on your insurance?
@MamiiMarine
@MamiiMarine 2 жыл бұрын
Ever say “Maybe your right” to a narcissist. It will embolden and empower them. Say instead “ I am sorry you feel that way” and walk away. Don’t ask me why it works, it just does.
@tiffanykasper9643
@tiffanykasper9643 2 жыл бұрын
The temp ex parte guardianship people who stole my children on false documents has a registered sex offender living w this man who isn't my daughter's father nor any relationship to my daughter they send her their every weekend. What do I do
@Iloveyoualldaylong
@Iloveyoualldaylong 2 жыл бұрын
THAT SUONDS JUST LIKE MY SITUATION
@tiffanykasper9643
@tiffanykasper9643 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry.. it truly sux when their no biological to the children. Means they were stolen
@dany1441
@dany1441 2 жыл бұрын
Why would a person have children with someone who has a mental condition? And don't say they didn't know. Don't have children with someone you don't know well enough to rule out things like that. It makes you equally responsible.
@mychildrensdad1483
@mychildrensdad1483 Жыл бұрын
First you make 100 baseless assumptions, followed by telling us how to answer and ending with some hurtful judgment. Well done! If you're an a-hole. If you have something constructive to share, please do so. Otherwise, be quiet. In my case, I married someone who was sane and then as a result of changes in her body chemistry she no longer was. We dated for three years, waited 7 years following marriage to have our first child, and were married for 14 more before she went off the rails. Is that enough time or will you continue to judge?
@ThomasDoubting5
@ThomasDoubting5 2 жыл бұрын
If you man or woman have procreated with a narcissist or any of the cluster b people then so so selfish it's staggering.
@tommyboy1653
@tommyboy1653 2 жыл бұрын
She described Trump.
@alinewright1093
@alinewright1093 2 жыл бұрын
Only text, so you have written proof. When you go on a outing take your phone but turn it off.
@iloveyoualldaylong3656
@iloveyoualldaylong3656 2 жыл бұрын
I need help
@nallelyarroniz2038
@nallelyarroniz2038 2 жыл бұрын
whats the best way to go about getting guardianship /assistance for my nephew whos been with me ever since my sister(his mother) passed away in 2017 unexpectedly, leaving her 10yr old son, and there is no father on birth certificate..
@two9s649
@two9s649 2 жыл бұрын
So if you have 50 50 you dont need consent?
@robhenry4197
@robhenry4197 2 жыл бұрын
Disclaimer: I havent watched the video yet and im certain I will agree with it entirely, but the best thing to do is probably really get to know your potential partner before you have children so you don't have to deal with that mess your entire life. I know in reality things happen and its rarely that cut and dry, but I can't even imagine having a child with someone I didnt already know is narcissistic... that stuff shows signs pretty quickly, best to pay attention before a child comes into the mix.
@pauljackson112
@pauljackson112 2 жыл бұрын
Hindsight is truly a wonderful thing in my case. All of the signs were there from the very beginning, but I was totally unaware that NPD was even a thing. On the flip side, once you know... hell, you know. I shan't be making that mistake again. A lot of personal growth has come from the ordeal, and one thing I always remind myself on the dark days is, as relayed to me by a psychologist, these folk target you because you are the opposite of them - a decent human being.
@susancraigo8218
@susancraigo8218 2 жыл бұрын
When the courts enforce this its like a middle finger to the single parents. It's hard enough to financially support your kids as a single parent let alone being able to save. Especially when one parent takes you back to court 3 x since the time of the divorce for a change in custody.
@annaalvarez4464
@annaalvarez4464 2 жыл бұрын
Simplemente GRACIAS
@FaithfulandTrue949
@FaithfulandTrue949 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent please also see H G Tudor knowing the Narcissist, one mom's battle Tina Swithin and The Surviver Diaries regarding dealing with the unhealthy narcissistic parent. The Courts are beginning to understand 🙏
@kathlenedaniels9401
@kathlenedaniels9401 2 жыл бұрын
As a child with a narc parent I learned to use the tactics mentioned in the beginning very quickly, and guess what? All that did was put the onus on me to be the mature party in all conflicts. She felt that because I was level headed and reasonable, she never had to be. But somehow that attitude also meant I thought I was better than her. You can’t win, you will never change them, the only way to win their game is not to play.
@saltlifegull4091
@saltlifegull4091 2 жыл бұрын
Dang she's good! Super video, so needed and helpful to so many. There definitely risk to the child:( Irreparable psychological damage that will follow them throughout their life:(
@tedschmitt178
@tedschmitt178 2 жыл бұрын
This video came too late for me. My only kid (she’s 24) has been brainwashed by her EXTREMELY narcissistic mother; the kid hasn’t spoken to me in more than five years. My case is such that I could take it to court, however I would be considered PERMANENTLY poison in my kid’s eyes. I can’t take that chance, at least for now.
@turboboboify
@turboboboify 2 жыл бұрын
You put this message out in an easier way to understand and hear, than anyone else I've tried listening to. Please keep at it!
@bravomichelle1816
@bravomichelle1816 2 жыл бұрын
How so I go about avoiding all these legalities to appoint someone before I pass away
@oliviahausman3024
@oliviahausman3024 2 жыл бұрын
Get ahold of a lawyer and ask, you are willing....
@cjzanders5430
@cjzanders5430 3 жыл бұрын
What if a stepdad wants guardianship without the primary parent releasing that guardianship? This video only covers a guardianship in the absence of the original competent parent or guardian.
@gentleben1590
@gentleben1590 3 жыл бұрын
What about this scenario: 1) biological parent’s rights are terminated 2) current guardian is mentally and emotionally abusive 3) minor wants to move out and live with someone else that has a long established relationship with minor 4) minor is afraid of current guardian knowing for fear of conflict What steps need to be taken?
@damiendemers7495
@damiendemers7495 2 жыл бұрын
What about if I am living with my grandparents and their health is failing and they have financial issues? I also don't get along with them they always say that that I ask for basic things I am asking for too much or that I should get a job even though I I only 14.
@Meme._.3xpert
@Meme._.3xpert 2 жыл бұрын
@@damiendemers7495 legal age to get a job is 16 (California)
@dimplesharma8465
@dimplesharma8465 3 жыл бұрын
hello ma'am.am from india .my son is 15 +. and my sister is us citizen can she adopt or get my son's Guardianships and how .please help me .my sister is married had two adult children. his husband is well to do .
@mariaperic4699
@mariaperic4699 2 жыл бұрын
Do not make the mistake to put your child in guardianship; you will repent forever. Probate court act like a mafia together with lawyers, doctors, hospitals, etc. It is simple a nightmare and the worst decision to make!