I downsized and gave my things to goodwill. small town no other resale stores in my town.
@alicemoore2036Күн бұрын
Keep. I’m tired of monuments getting torn down. Keep it up. Discuss that period of history. I’m tired of nihilistic brats tearing something down to erase history.
@coachcaseychannelКүн бұрын
Thanks for the insights. Lincoln pardoned the Confederates. Bulgaria became more free. All's well in the end.
@metaljane6667 күн бұрын
Great video. Most downsizing videos don’t discuss the emotional component. I’m not retiring, I’m only 40, but I have been widowed and I know it’s going to be emotionally hard to downsize my home and move into a little apartment in a new place. I hope I am prepared! ☮️
@jtfintexas857122 күн бұрын
If you still have a china cabinet full of random items, you haven't really downsized.
@coachcaseychannel10 күн бұрын
Unless you know where we started, where we ended and the value of those random items. Thanks for your thoughts, feedback always welcome!
@yorkiemom4272Ай бұрын
Number one: health, both mental and physical.
@alienmoonmom1361Ай бұрын
Good Strong Basic advice and delivered in a caring manner
@coachcaseychannelАй бұрын
Thank you kindly. I really appreciate it.
@joycej34312 ай бұрын
Looks like you should have taken your own advice and down sized that outdated hutch and all that glass ware you obviously don't use. Along with the clutter of things on the top and middle of the hutch... The music is too distracting.
@michellestevens2454Ай бұрын
Rude! Who made you the interior decorating and downsizing police. I think the hutch is very nice.
@SweetSassyBull2 ай бұрын
You are so spot on. I don't live in the US but I do watch a lot of US videos about food and the pharmaceutical industry. It genuinely frightens me how things are and have been for so long.
@coachcaseychannel2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it very much
@barbaram52142 ай бұрын
Good practical tips! Thank you.
@lydialangfordjoiner7652 ай бұрын
Thank you-
@reflectiveCharm2 ай бұрын
Do as I say,not as I do.
@reflectiveCharm2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Addiction is a journey to say the least, and ridding oneself from addiction is the real reward.
@coachcaseychannel2 ай бұрын
Absolutely!
@vickithornley50562 ай бұрын
The music didn't bother me. I could hear you very well.🌻
@coachcaseychannel2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad! Thanks any and all feedback is very appreciated. Don't forget, if you have subjects you'd like me to cover on the channel, just let me know!
@frostykitties20502 ай бұрын
No We want to surprise the kids with hey we moving to WHERE IS THE FARTHEST! 😂
@mpsorr2 ай бұрын
Enjoyed the video which got me thinking. I'm going to downsize in the near future and your emphasis on time management being as important as money was something I haven't thought of enough. Also, btw, I like music in videos because it's a more upbeat energy. I guess some commenters didn't but I could hear you just fine and enjoyed the pleasant tone of this. :)
@unixman18913 ай бұрын
Darn, why do people feed the need to put in background music when they have narration in a video. It drives me nuts!
@nunyabeezwacks14082 ай бұрын
One Thing I Wish Coach Casey Knew Before He Posted This Video: The accompanying soundtrack is too loud, distracting and it competes with the narrator. For those reasons I didn't complete watching the video.
@joycewright538619 күн бұрын
I barely notice it but I agree it’s not needed.
@coachcaseychannel10 күн бұрын
Great advice. I took it and now minimize the audio distractions. Thanks again! Appreciate the insights.
@EddieJazzFan3 ай бұрын
Your tips are great. Leaving a place you've lived in for so long is really hard to think about. I'm about to start the process. I thought I would never have to move, but the property taxes just keep going up to insane levels.
@emc6511Ай бұрын
Eddie it is Easy -- just make the decision to GO. Then the rest of it is just "get it done". You have a lifetime of know how to "get it done" with tasks. The hard part is only the decision that you are DONE. Know what I mean, I hope😅
@isabelkassan52443 ай бұрын
Have a cabinet just like yours! Am down to a unit! Have enough trouble adjusting to a smaller bed so more thinking and planning the better!
@coachcaseychannel3 ай бұрын
Yes, we hated to part with it, so we kept it. But lots of loved items didn't make it to the condo!
@sundog31503 ай бұрын
Decluttering itself is hard to do. I suggest starting very early in the decision making process and doing it for 20 minutes at a time. It can be exhausting. But here is the most important tip, KNOW WHERE YOU ARE GOING TO DONATE THINGS. Have a box or bag labeled with the charity, church, etc. check with them to find out if and what items they take. Taking boxes of food items to a food pantry only to be told they don’t take expired items, period, is frustrating. You know that it is a suggested date on a tinned item but they refuse. What to do with it now? Take some of this anxiety and frustration out of the picture early, do your research. My hospice has a store but they don’t take children’s things. My Habitat for Humanity store will come and pick up furniture, in good condition. Make appointments, have the item, cleaned up,ready to be picked up. If family members say they want something make a firm date for them to pick it up. I had one friend that ran into problems with an adult child that wanted an item but never managed to pick it up. Finally they wanted it mailed. The cost was more than the item ever was. She said no and gave the item away. Bitter feelings as a result. Try to avoid these additional problems, making any kind of move is extremely stressful. Be kind to YOURSELF. Trust me when I say that dealing with your own health and mental welfare in a move is really only going to come from you.
@user-js3lw1tt8f3 ай бұрын
Im functioning right now
@Nilshelppi3 ай бұрын
Excellent!!!!
@JSees4 ай бұрын
If that is your China cabinet, you haven't downsized much, it is full of glasses and small stuff.
@coachcaseychannel3 ай бұрын
Not sure what that means. What's the question? You didn't see what we left behind or gave away :)
@diana68424 ай бұрын
We started dejunking and decluttering two months ago. Multiple trips to donate and just had a big garage sale, and we're still not finished! It's taking longer than we thought since we're older and slower and have lived in this house for 22 years. I can now see that preparing to move to a smaller home, in a different state, will probably take 6-9 months of work.
@emc6511Ай бұрын
Dejunking ... 🤣
@macnchessplzАй бұрын
This is what I assume it’ll be like here.I want to sell within 12 months or just a bit over (14-16,no longer). It’ll take every bit of that to accomplish it.We are in the -we both want to sell phase.Doing what you have is the next step.
@breg94764 ай бұрын
the music loud enough to be distracting and to get in the way of understanding what you're saying. too bad.
@coachcaseychannel4 ай бұрын
Sorry. Noted for future videos.
@breg94764 ай бұрын
thank you. i really wanted to har what you had to say :) @@coachcaseychannel
@snupi_nut4 ай бұрын
So you are telling everyone about your failures ? Do you need validation ? Poor you .
@coachcaseychannel4 ай бұрын
Absolutely no validation needed. It's called connection and vulnerability to positive reactions and pushback as well.
@tennesseeterri4 ай бұрын
I do estate sales, and I would like to share my best ideas: Do not throw anything away. At this point you only need to be concerned about what you're keeping. Do not donate items or give them away. Don't clean or arrange , leave everything as it sits. Believe it or not, all that junk is cash for your future. Rent a pod or storage unit and pack up all the items you want to keep and put them into storage. You can do the packing or hire someone to come in, pack and place the items in the pod for you if you need assistance. Find yourself a new place to live and have the pod moved there or put into storage, Hire someone to do an estate sale at your home. Most of the sales that we hold involve downsizing to a smaller place. you can interview several if you like. Usually they work on commission. But the most important thing is do they know prices. You want your items sold for the best amount you can get so to me that is more important than the commission they will charge you. You do not pay them,. They work on a commission, which is based on how much time and work it will take to hold the sale at your home. It is way more work than you think so don't try to do it yourself, You have enough on your plate already. Also, I disagree about the home being a family asset. The owners of the home are the people listed on the deed. It is theirs to do with as they wish and if it needs to be sold, for your well-being then do not let anyone talk you out of it. you will be making some difficult decisions, hold firm. The proceeds from your home may very well represent all the money you have to support yourself for the rest of your life. You will need every Penny of it.
@coachcaseychannel4 ай бұрын
Excellent insights. Thanks for sharing with subscribers and viewers. Your background and experience is really appreciated!
@virginiasummer26194 ай бұрын
Very good video
@e-spy2 ай бұрын
Wow sure wish I had seen this before I sent thousands of dollars over to goodwill! I hope it helps others.
@emc6511Ай бұрын
That's what I did. It works. Remove what you want. Hire the pro on commission only. And part of deal they must remove ALL the items; whether sold or not. Was nice to sit back and collect the check!
@mer58lin5 ай бұрын
Two months out from starting retirement. Right now I just hope to survive the first year.....working was easier. The aches and pains are there, they just arent physical anymore after no longer working 10 and 12 hr. days. I think I just needed to rest a bit.
@jinerykal87955 ай бұрын
Deam, nice video bro.
@coachcaseychannel5 ай бұрын
Thanks for letting me know. I appreciate the feedback🙂
@kbpgfamily5 ай бұрын
Bringing up Earl Nightengale A pioneer in listening to encouraging messages via cassette tapes in the 80’s. Thanks for your video
@coachcaseychannel5 ай бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to watch. He was quite an interesting person!
@coachcaseychannel6 ай бұрын
Thanks for your kind thoughts and great insights
@goofygirl13116 ай бұрын
That curio cabinet with all of that glassware in it would have been high on my list to declutter as I've never really collected those items. I know people with multiple curio cabinets and hutches filled with china, stemware, crystal and collectibles. All of that is very pretty but a pain to move and it takes up space. Of course, if you have room for it in your downsized home and it's important to you, it would make sense to keep it!
@coachcaseychannel6 ай бұрын
thanks for your insights! Those cabinets certainly hide a lot of treasures!
@marylut60773 ай бұрын
My rule was: if breakable, it is expensive to insure, so sell while it still has buyers
@marylut60773 ай бұрын
Put removable wallpaper on hutch back to show off your glassware, or display non glass items behind glass doors. Glass items never show well behind glass doors.
@marylut60773 ай бұрын
What to keep- photos transferred to flash drive for digital frames, daily use items, furniture and decor that that fits new spaces, clothing that fits new lifestyle.
@goofygirl13113 ай бұрын
@@marylut6077 That sounds like a good policy. The logistics and expense of transporting breakables is definitely something to consider. We really don't have many in our house.
@motivemystic6 ай бұрын
This video is fantastic! Positive thinking truly has the power to transform our lives. Casey Turton does an amazing job debunking common myths surrounding positive thinking and offers practical advice on how to incorporate it into our daily lives. I feel so inspired and motivated after watching this. Thank you for sharing these valuable insights!
@whatsupdoc58616 ай бұрын
This reasonated with me ! Overreacting to situations. I meditate but don’t practice mindfulness on a reg basis. I will be more self aware now of the need to put that into practice. Thank you .
@coachcaseychannel6 ай бұрын
Thanks for your feedback. Please feel free to suggest any other topics that might be of interest to you!
@Neil-yg5gm6 ай бұрын
I have been drinking Kombucha as a alcohol replacement
@coachcaseychannel10 күн бұрын
Believe it or not I get garlic pickle juice at Fresh Market. It'll take paint off a porch and distracts my cravings.
@darlar.90437 ай бұрын
Good advice.
@coachcaseychannel7 ай бұрын
Thanks! Appreciate the feedback
@judimantos9047 ай бұрын
Wish I had seen this BEFORE I downsized to a Senior community. Took me almost two years to adjust. Although it’s a safe place, the people are not friendly and I’ve only seen the inside of one other apartment in three years. People will say hello to you in the halls, but that’s it! In reality, although there are many activities, it’s really a nursing home in disguise! Four to six people die every month! In January our “rent “ is going up 10%
@tennesseeterri4 ай бұрын
Get out while you still can. Hope you can.
@TheDriftwoodlover11 күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that. I wonder why people aren’t more friendly? Too ill themselves?
@bcase53287 ай бұрын
You aren't getting younger. Plan to give up items that suited a younger you. Keep what you use now. You can buy something that an older you will want.
@goofygirl13116 ай бұрын
Exactly. It's time to look forward to the next phase of life and having on hand what you will need moving forward. I've been decluttering off and on for the last year and my husband has started to go through things, too. I knew that we wouldn't want to do it all at once and I also figured that we would have more than one pass through in some areas (we have). We still have more to do but we've made significant progress. Trying to do this all at once would have been a nightmare. Definitely give yourself time!
@kaystinebrink12207 ай бұрын
My husband and I started sorting and packing a year before we downsized.
@bcase53287 ай бұрын
Remember one of the good things about your new place will be wide walkways. Don't fill those walkways.
@michaelbyzewski9738 ай бұрын
Thanks. It's a journey! Patience.
@MorganJeffrey-bo4wg8 ай бұрын
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@idontknowyouthatsmypurse8 ай бұрын
Your examples for gratitude affirmations were helpful and made me smile. Thank you. It's really hard to think of any for myself when I'm feeling my lowest...
@coachcaseychannel7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome. It's very kind of you to provide some feedback!
@jackasswhiskyandpintobeans934410 ай бұрын
I don't trust people and that's downfall. I trust my hounds and that's about it.
@coachcaseychannel10 ай бұрын
Yep. Trust is hard but alcohol can make it even worse!
@jackasswhiskyandpintobeans934410 ай бұрын
3:24 I am grateful to God that he brought Gracie into my life. Gracie is my hound. Gracie and Bert were together for about a year.
@jackasswhiskyandpintobeans934410 ай бұрын
I do ruminate about my life and how I failed. "My failings," are what I call them.
@jackasswhiskyandpintobeans934410 ай бұрын
It's very odd for me. I didn't start drinking heavily until my dog died.
@jackasswhiskyandpintobeans934410 ай бұрын
I drink when I'm bored. I have no social connections. I have more money than I can spend. I collected whisky before I became an alcoholic. I started drinking when I was 50yo. I drink way too much and am drinking now. Scotch. I like the taste of it.
@coachcaseychannel10 ай бұрын
You might want to take a look at joinmonument.com It's an online AUD treatment community with lots of great groups, therapists and moderators. I've used them for 2 years and really like it.
@jackasswhiskyandpintobeans934410 ай бұрын
Maybe you could help me.
@coachcaseychannel9 ай бұрын
You may want to look into the online group at www.joinmonument.com. I am a member and the site provides therapists, a physician, and group support. It encourages each member to find out what works for them rather than a 12 step program.
@imsorry3217 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I needed to see your video. Ive been very aggravated and frustrated lately. I'm so tired. 🥺😞
@coachcaseychannel Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@donnajarvis9542 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir. I’m about to move myself and your talk about the emotional side of this was important & helpful.
@coachcaseychannel Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes, it is a important factor that often delays a decision!
@gailsmith6925 Жыл бұрын
You are the best 😙
@coachcaseychannel Жыл бұрын
Thanks. I hope to continue to provide quality insightful information for all of us.