Fuck yeah I'm sick of these so called normals judging all the time. It's funny how the judge on social media but you know they Damm sure wouldn't judge us sociopaths in person

I'm praying for you! ❤ You can be healed even though they lie and claim otherwise. Coming out and sharing your experience is insightful to me on areas I can be more understanding with people I know who have this diagnosis . I am grateful for your honesty.

Exactly

I’ll never understand how ugly people are narcissists

did one of your trauma responses have to be that eyebrow cut? cause that thing is so fugly

Someone incapable of empathy expects empathy from others? That's rich. Don't worry, I'm sure you'll still have people lining up outside the door to have a one-sided relationship with you.

Run Forest run!!!!!!

I only have empathy for those how are working on them self's so that they don't harm others anymore. Otherwise is just an excuse for being abusive.

I know this old, but you can look for non-profit hospitals and clinics. Just call them ask if they're non-profit and do free or income-based therapy. Some states offer special medicaid for certain mental illnesses.

Honestly people love finding answers to their mental illness and once they do it becomes their personality. It defines them. And its okay. No.. its not. We are telling lies to ourselves, and i talk from experience and very dark and traumatic stuff that has had happened. And only recently I've started to get healed. Not because of world reports.. but GOD. All these mental illnesses are more spiritual than people think and doctors won't tell you that.. they need to make $$ right. Get delivered from your demons. You got this. God bless

Jiggle jiggle jiggle What was she saying? She's cute im gonna go over there and talk to her -me around hot toxic women

At 2:04 , I agree its not okay to gaslight eachothers imperfections . thats not a part of healing . No one is perfect at the end of day , the important part is recognizing our issues and where went wrong and fixing it, its not easy , but can be done.

I'm getting a trauma response if you know what I mean

I think most people don't judge narcissists just for being that way, they do because of all the toxic and harmful behaviors they have with the people around them. You're right, you don't choose your trauma responses, but you choose what to do about it, and unfortunately, some people choose to hurt others. I'm not saying that's you, and actually, you seem to be in a very wholesome self healing journey.

I don't think people are hating narcissists just to hate them. Yes, once we find out narcissists had rough upbringings we tend to have sympathy. But majority of people don't know that. They are mostly hurt by how narcissists treat them. I think we all respect narcissists or those with personality disorders who admit they have something wrong and seek to improve. That's commendable and shows you have strong insight. People are just hurt by narcissists and feel the need to talk badly about them. It's not necessarily right but like you said people do not choose their trauma responses and narcissists can very well instill trauma in people. That's just how they respond to trauma. By talking about narcissists badly.

This is Boddhisatva/Aarhat levels of awareness and truth!!! Thx 4 sharing!!!!!!

The book PTSD from Surviving to Thriving explains this very well and is a great resource.

You are so right. I hope people finally understand your points. Please keep educating us. I love your explanations and could listen to you all day.

Suuuure 😂😂😂

You aren’t being judged for that, you’re being judged when you “respond” by being abusive. It doesn’t matter what you have. Nobody is obligated to negate their own personal experiences with people with PDs just because of your shitty childhood. I don’t think you have yet begun to really take the onus for your own shit, how do you not understand, if it isn’t your fault for your trauma response, it isn’t our fault that we don’t want to be abused by you and we are also responding to said trauma you are CURRENTLY inflicting. Work on yourself, quit worrying about how abuse survivors are responding to being abused, we already do enough emotional labor for you guys to last lifetimes. I have developed shitty trauma responses to childhood abuse too and I’m not sitting here trying to convince people that I’m a good person and shouldn’t be judged for my shitty responses because of my disorders. I work on my responses because it really doesn’t matter where it comes from when you’re actively harming somebody else. It isn’t some unknown fact that this crap usually comes from childhood neglect. Other people already have their own shit to deal with, get your hand holding from the professionals if you need it.

People also do not choose what is trauma to/for them. What one person can grow up with and have no problems from can cause life-long effects to another person.

Is the staring a feature? Does that translate to people?

Wednesday Addams vibe.

I see people online use "narcissist", "psychopath" etc as insults a lot. Speculating of course.

I don't judge anyone for their trauma response, I judge adults for how they choose to behave towards others, today. It's not about me feeling superior, but about me seeing people who live life unaware of how their behaviour affects others as living from a low level of humanity, regardless of their personality disorders.

but why don’t you blink?

I have BPD, and I used to hate on narcissists & sociopaths because I didn't know better. The rabit holes I went down were filled with the victimhood movement energy. I have been hurt by people with narcissism & sociopathy, but I have hurt them too. I agree 100% with what you are saying about judgment. Most, if not all, people have been guilty of judgment due to a lack of understanding. The message I push is: THERE CAN BE NO EMPATHY WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING. A psychopath wrote that! Athena Walker. So funny what you said about BPD being the worst disorder, and yet we judge sociopaths when being one would probably feel better. I have jokes about this. 😂 Most people with BPD slip into an anti-social self state when stressed. I have. It feels aweful when I come out of it because of all of the damage I cause whilst in it. And, I am not able to feel badly about what I did when I was in that state. So, I can kind of relate. I like your content the most. You're in a same-sex relationship with no shame nor fear of judgment, you're talking about healing in a realistic way, you have a quirky sense of humor, and I actually love sociopaths now. My first love was a sociopath & I learned so much from her. I don't regret any of it. Thank you for your bravery. ❤

I have BPD, and I used to hate on narcissists & sociopaths because I didn't know better. The rabit holes I went down were filled with the victimhood movement energy. I have been hurt by people with narcissism & sociopathy, but I have hurt them too. I agree 100% with what you are saying about judgment. Most, if not all, people have been guilty of judgment due to a lack of understanding. The message I push is: THERE CAN BE NO EMPATHY WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING. A psychopath wrote that! Athena Walker. So funny what you said about BPD being the worst disorder, and yet we judge sociopaths when being one would probably feel better. I have jokes about this. 😂 Most people with BPD slip into an anti-social self state when stressed. I have. It feels aweful when I come out of it because of all of the damage I cause whilst in it. And, I am not able to feel badly about what I did when I was in that state. So, I can kind of relate. I like your content the most. You're in a same-sex relationship with no shame nor fear of judgment, you're talking about healing in a realistic way, you have a quirky sense of humor, and I actually love sociopaths now. My first love was a sociopath & I learned so much from her. I don't regret any of it. Thank you for your bravery. ❤

Sounds like really healthy for someone with such an unhealthy start in life. Many people without a disorder can not see through themselves like this.

Thank you, you're very right. I've had a relationship once with someone who had a npd, he was the most troubled person I had ever met. What his parents did to him was awful, made his life extremely difficult and especially socially. He was also very lovable, just as much human as any of us.

Wow. Love every word of it. So true. A lot of people are hurt by narcissists so it's easier for them to hate. Love and hate can both be protect mechanisms, but if people don't know love, hate is the only option. I get them, but I also get you. Congratulations on surviving and trying to heal. Keep spreading the word 😊

Thank you for channeling your frustration into a well explained response. I'm always enlightened by your content.

This is so true

Thank you for this delta. I hope that you’re having a good day. Hopefully this summer is kinder to us that one’s in the past! ❤

Well said! The irony is incredible. Statements or sentiments like the ones you criticized inspire misanthropic feelings in me. Thanks for your vids! I binge and relate to them.

Thanks so much for speaking up for yourself, I have a BPD dx (in functional recovery, yay!) and know a thing that you might find interesting-- during my DBT skills training when I was learning about how I got to be the way I am, my skills trainer told me I was the opposite of a sociopath because that was supposed to make me feel good about myself, and thought it was a quirk of my extreme empathy that I objected to this framing. I'm sure I'm not the only DBT participant who was told this. I ended up needing to just agree to disagree and move on, because she was the professional. I haven't been brave enough to be out in my day-to-day life-- coming out to the people I'm close to has created enough problems for me. I'm really glad you're speaking up for yourself, your humanity and people like us.

Exactly! I have HPD and ADHD, I didn't choose it.. my father had NPD and ADHD, none would like to have personality desorders.

I can't tell you what to do but that butterfly tattoo is not a good thing. Thats a tramp stamp.

Do you still feel affected by what happened to you in childhood?

I totally agree!

I think the best if everything you just said is that it applies to EVERYTHING! Being born in poverty, rich, gay, black, Asian, western, autistic, cross eyed, colourblind, left or right handed, tall, short, prone to weight gain/loss, prone to develop disorders, straight haired, curly haired, blue eyed, brown eyed, male/female, indigenous, good in maths, language, instruments, prone to addictions, etc, etc, etc! No one chooses NONE of it and NONE of it makes one better/worse than others... just DIFFERENT! Think different! Love all! It could've been you in a slight change of circumstances before and after you were conceived! Let's be more tolerant because the ONE THING that is PRECISELY the SAME FOR EVERYONE IS: IT'S NOT FUCKING EASY!!! Stop judging others journeys... stop over and underestimating others... only THEY can tell you how it is, and applaud their personal victories in their personal battles! That's empathy! Support them! That's kindness! And help if you can! That's love! Delta, it's a thrill to watch you discovering, understanding and applying yourself into being a better person for you! I enjoy the consequences of it... one more person optimistic, happy and consequently making the world a better place for everyone else! I appreciate and applaud your efforts! I can barely imagine what it is that you go through every day! Well done! 👏🏻👏🏻

Very well said. BPD and NPD/ASPD/HPD belong in the same cluster for a reason. We're no better than each other.

Sometimes we have to admit some people just aren’t that bright.

As long as you don't deliberately date and abuse people no one should be mad... true.

Keep healing Delta 🙏 Keep setting a good example for victims of ASPD and NPD. The more such people go to therapy and learn to live with their symptoms the better.

I can really appreciate this fact

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I'm not hating anyone just the one who manipulated my childhood abuse, thank you for sharing why she may have done it as it made easy to read her response, again thank you with love a like and a subscribe ❤

I hear you. Thank you. And your hair looks great

Your blinking rate is Hella low girl, what???!!!👁👁 👀