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TheUpbeatMillennial

TheUpbeatMillennial

3 жыл бұрын

So many of my friends had this question of why and how we decided to move back to India from the US. A few I got to talk to, others I didn't get a chance to talk to, and that's why, HERE I AM with a video of WHY WE DECIDED TO MOVE TO INDIA.
Initially, the above was the inspiration to work on this video, but later I thought why not extend it to people whom I might not even know, but who are on the verge of making the decision, or have even decided to move back, and want to hear someone else's story. Hence, I decided to not limit it to one video, but make a mini-series, to share our experience, making good use of the time in lockdown, and hopefully helping someone while doing it :-)
Hope you enjoy watching it.
P.S: I am new to youtube, so please excuse the rawness in setting up the frame, lighting, sound, editing, make up, thumbnail making. Phew!!! No one told me, it's going to be so difficult. BUT, I LOVE challenges, and being a one woman army, I am teaching myself ALL OF IT! You are very welcome to offer suggestions. Please leave them in the comments below. Ciao!

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@karthitamilmusic7959
@karthitamilmusic7959 2 жыл бұрын
We also moved to India from US after 13 years in May 2019..feels content seeing your video.. we are so happy in India too…
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 2 жыл бұрын
After getting US citizenship?
@shivanshusharma6549
@shivanshusharma6549 2 жыл бұрын
@@rohanutep81 obviously no !
@jaspreetmodi
@jaspreetmodi 2 жыл бұрын
Did you surrender your Green Card or revoke US Citizenship ?
@ladusingh2141
@ladusingh2141 Жыл бұрын
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
@vanshbhardwaj5064
@vanshbhardwaj5064 Жыл бұрын
@@ladusingh2141 leave india go to Islamic country try to burn their national flag ? Go to any other country try to ruin that country’s native culture u will get to know what going to happen to u If u are so disappointed with india simple solution move to Pakistan Vande matram 🇮🇳
@noselfnoproblem
@noselfnoproblem Жыл бұрын
I returned to India as a US citizen after being abroad for 20 odd years. One thing I would recommend is that don't judge others, make your own decisions. One place is not better than the other. It all depends on multiple factors and where you are in life, what is your priority etc. Above all, have courage to take decisions. Don't sit on the fence for too long otherwise, life will pass by. I moved back primarily to spend more time with parents and experience India's rich spiritual traditions. It's so worth it. Jahan bhi raho, khush raho....and don't compare. You are unique and you need to make your own decisions.
@indirachandra4329
@indirachandra4329 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree 100%
@raovs4666
@raovs4666 Жыл бұрын
Did returned to India after 22 years in USA...Now, enjoying SINNY life in INDIA..( without snow, no cold winter)
@jaspreetmodi
@jaspreetmodi Жыл бұрын
Can it be called "returning" or just making the best of all the worlds one can get ?? Atleast one can appreciate you revealed you are not an Indian. Others like this video maker and several in comments are creating a false sense (i say fooling) of "returning" without telling if they surrendered GC and citizenship or not. Hiding this can only be for one obvious reason, otherwise they would have shown Indian passport from a roof top.
@eversunnyguy
@eversunnyguy Жыл бұрын
Well said...each situation is unique
@amarjolly7483
@amarjolly7483 11 ай бұрын
@@raovs4666 bhai florida aa jata.. no snow no winter :)
@Neelsworld2022
@Neelsworld2022 2 жыл бұрын
"Seeing their reaction we almost made out decision "is the most important line in your video. The best thing u could do for your parents is return home. They dont want your expensive gifts they just want you around
@anitacohen8753
@anitacohen8753 2 жыл бұрын
My cousin and her husband moved back to India from the US and live in Goa. It will take brave people to move back to India, after living in a society which is so different. Indians have too many children and their culture does not change much wherever they go. It is about money. Most Indians who manage to immigrate have language, skills and money.
@ganes152
@ganes152 2 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best justification I've heard out of so many videos !
@pjazzz353
@pjazzz353 Жыл бұрын
Love your story. I lived in US for 40 plus years and decision to go back home (Thailand) is very difficult. I went to school in India too for 10 yrs and love India too. I am glad you make up your mind. Most of our relatives are here in US and we live in the same town. We visit Thailand every other year for vacation. As we get older traveling like that will end soon. Glad to hear your story.
@Joe-qv2jo
@Joe-qv2jo 2 жыл бұрын
The way you speak is so clear and have a connect… looking for more videos
@sadhanapatil6388
@sadhanapatil6388 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent Prerna.idea of sharing this experience is itself a great 👍. It’s a mejor decision. It is definitely useful to many people thinking of shifting . Very nicely explained
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@bhushan558
@bhushan558 Жыл бұрын
I moved back India in 2018 after spending 6 years in US, I lived in India for 4 years and returned back to USA. I feel usa gives you better job opportunities, great weather, quality of life
@YM-ch5no
@YM-ch5no Жыл бұрын
USA may give u all these things in life. But u willn’t have the sense of belonging when u live in a foreign country. U are missing out on living with parents, among your own people and above all that divine energy that you experience in India. At the end, it is a matter of priorities.
@shaheensultana9927
@shaheensultana9927 Жыл бұрын
True
@vecna7523
@vecna7523 Жыл бұрын
India gives u better opportunity if you are from top colleges, India doesn't tolerate mediocrity. So, if one is from average college it's better to move out anyways
@musafir123
@musafir123 Жыл бұрын
You do what you like but everything has a pros and cons
@savanthkumarnaidutrichinap1914
@savanthkumarnaidutrichinap1914 2 ай бұрын
Welcome to India. We are happy that you joined us. You have taken right decision at the right time. There is lots of happiness, joy hidden in your life which you will explore in near future. I know you can' t go back to US the situation will be worst then. I an sure you have shared some of your experiences in US but not all the negative part. Thank you so much.
@romanslays3317
@romanslays3317 2 жыл бұрын
आपका अनुभव बाटने के लिए बहुत धन्यवाद। अंत में देश वही है जहाँ लोग अपने हो, अपने देश का जाना पहचाना खाना हो और जहाँ भाषा भी अपनी हो।
@rahulchinchane6784
@rahulchinchane6784 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back to India Ma'am 🇮🇳❤️ I hope you and you're family are enjoying back here in India! 😊 So glad to know that people are returning back to India happily! 😊🇮🇳
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😃Excitedly!
@mayankindian3750
@mayankindian3750 2 жыл бұрын
But hame India ko banana hai just like china ☺️😊
@pranjalupadhyay6024
@pranjalupadhyay6024 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously underrated but highly informative
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much @Pranjal Upadhyay. This means a lot to me :-)
@mehul42
@mehul42 Жыл бұрын
I am glad that you moved BACK to India. And it's good that you are a KZfaqr and making money. Keep it up.
@ramask31
@ramask31 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and you presented the reasons for you to move back to India very well. I have to admire the bold decision you took rather than wavering. As a working woman, I have to admire that you are bringing up two children and thus you give importance to family values. Most married Indian Professionals are limiting to one child these days. Hindu TFR going down to 1.5 or lower shall adversely affect demographics like in China and Europe in a decade. I had health and career problems in my late 20's to 30's as I finished PhD only at age 34 and then children's births were delayed but we still have two children. We could not relocate to India as I settled down in life only by late 40's as I had additional burden to financially support my parents and siblings in India but we are able to bring up our children in USA with Hindu values and family values.
@ladusingh2141
@ladusingh2141 Жыл бұрын
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
@bengaliexplorer9472
@bengaliexplorer9472 2 жыл бұрын
so glad to hear ths....more love to u n ur family ....
@chaitanpednekar
@chaitanpednekar Жыл бұрын
Subscribed, I don't know how I ended up here, may be universe is helping me to take the right decision at right time, I am glad that I watched this video. Love from Dubai
@rishabhshah2256
@rishabhshah2256 2 жыл бұрын
great decision.i feel everything you said .. I am a student here, your personal life becomes easy but you sacrifice mostly everything.
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
@Rishabh Shah, thank you! You are in a different phase of life right now though. I'd say enjoy it to the core, learn new things, go out, explore the world, explore the people, explore the culture. When you're done doing these, and the pull toward the motherland becomes stronger, you can always make a decision at that time. Good luck!
@dollychauhan3857
@dollychauhan3857 Жыл бұрын
Hey, are you still in us?
@asmit_si
@asmit_si 2 жыл бұрын
Your story is so much inspiring, leaving a settled career and lifestyle of 11 years and suddenly transition to different lifestyle. You need courage to do something like that. Hats Off to you. I also lived in US . But, I wasn't able to adjust myself there. After 2-3 months of moving in US, I started feeing lonely. I didn't had any friend and relatives there during my bad times and my health started deteriorating. One day I called my maa and said I am coming back to India. She was like happiest person on the earth. And, then after 6 month living in US I came back to India. For me life in US was good but not the life I wanted to live. Now I am really happy with my decision.
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, @Asmit Singh. What you did also needs immense courage! I am so glad you are happy now and have no regrets about coming back. Good luck!
@sachinchaudhary1441
@sachinchaudhary1441 2 жыл бұрын
I can imagine the happiness of your mother when she heard that you are coming back.. Mostly it's the old parents who suffer the most when young children leave them for settling in Canada, australia, usa etc... In my area (Haryana and Punjab) people are crazy for leaving India to go to Canada, Australia .. It's so depressing to see their old parents left behind crying most of the times specially mothers when they miss their sons daughters... Even if parents go to foreign after 4-5 years most of them come back after spending 2-3 months most of them saying " Wahan mann nhi lagta" because there is no one to talk with them ... It's a kind of disguised slavery specially in Canada which noone talks ( I know these thinks because my brother is there )😔
@asmit_si
@asmit_si 2 жыл бұрын
@@sachinchaudhary1441 True
@prashantchaudhary7273
@prashantchaudhary7273 2 жыл бұрын
Bro same with me feeling depressed and sick in uk dil he nhi lgta
@AAM725
@AAM725 Жыл бұрын
Great decision brother..
@RKB105
@RKB105 Жыл бұрын
Good for you ..u r lucky to have such a great family and friends back home that gave u reason to go back..I don’t have any so despite deep feelings I couldn’t make this move..but I know that we have to live with our fortune:) best wishes to u for sharing
@kutzchik
@kutzchik Жыл бұрын
God bless your Family . Wish you the best in your journey forward. I went thro your stage , and made the best of the space of time.
@vidyadharjawadekar535
@vidyadharjawadekar535 2 жыл бұрын
Explained very nicely madam. Considering future of kids its good decision as bonding with family members is important.
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@raghavarao2439
@raghavarao2439 3 жыл бұрын
Good video. Enjoy. Be strong.
@png161958
@png161958 2 жыл бұрын
Good decision Madam! Who knows better about family and future !
@AryansWorld21
@AryansWorld21 Жыл бұрын
You have shared some great insights about life.
@pavanguru1
@pavanguru1 2 жыл бұрын
nice video and congratulations!!
@bharatvaidya10
@bharatvaidya10 2 жыл бұрын
We are both uk citizens and have one 6yo son. We are happy in our life. But Hume always india attracts karta he, especially our indian lifestyle, food, morning evening walk, weather and functions. Me gujarati hu. Cralwey city me hamre bahot se relatives he lekin unki lifestyle bahot hi struggled and below the basic rahi he. Matlab logo ne whole life ek hi kaam karne me nikal di. No outing, no restaurant, no function, no gathering, bas kaam kaam kaam and sit home when get retired. Muje esa nahi karna. Muje apne logo me rehna pasand he. Hum 2019 me one year ke liye ahmedabad move huye the. Acha raha one year lekin kyu bas vapis aa gaye. I want to live in india.But sochta hoon kese himmat kare. Ghar he, business he, sab leave kese kare. 😊
@hirenshah6694
@hirenshah6694 2 жыл бұрын
I can resonate with your reasons. Thus, me n my wife toodecided to move back from UK to India...
@amishachudasama2031
@amishachudasama2031 Жыл бұрын
It’s so surprising that all the people in the comment section hating on her seems so negative and sad while people who are supporting her decision seems so welcoming and loving! That explains a lot
@shatakshisharma9791
@shatakshisharma9791 3 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you Prerna.... 👏 Okay... I got more clarity on moving from Germany to India after watching this video
@sonikasoni8691
@sonikasoni8691 3 жыл бұрын
Good decision..
@largefan1
@largefan1 2 жыл бұрын
So you enjoying now..
@yasardal2595
@yasardal2595 2 жыл бұрын
@@sonikasoni8691 back to India
@radhikasharma4669
@radhikasharma4669 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story me and my husband just recently moved back from USA to India in 2023 January this year. It was also tough decision for us as I am in middle of my pregnancy and so we moved because of my health not being well there and had no help from parents or anywhere else. But seeing your story makes me feel that we will also settle down nicely in India slowly as time moves and will be happy
@ladusingh2141
@ladusingh2141 Жыл бұрын
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
@jontyrhodes4155
@jontyrhodes4155 Жыл бұрын
Caught you .....means right now not happy and regretting the move 😂🤣😆
@jontyrhodes4155
@jontyrhodes4155 Жыл бұрын
@@ladusingh2141 its getting worse better dont come bk or we all will rape your wife multiple times a day and make viral videos So yes better stay abroad annd be safe man
@avinash0072355
@avinash0072355 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely moving back!
@SanjayPawar-hh9ku
@SanjayPawar-hh9ku 3 жыл бұрын
Well done Prerna! We miss your plays and movies here. Good luck with your YT channel.
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much @Sanjay Pawar! Your support means a lot every single time 🙂.
@amazingyou9703
@amazingyou9703 Жыл бұрын
we recently moved to US at the age of 45 for our sons education. And its been very hard for us. One advantage I got is I found a job here .My parents are dead so I am not missing India .I miss Indian food and weather.
@MyTechniqueWorks
@MyTechniqueWorks Жыл бұрын
You can get indian food in restaurants living in USA and cook also.
@Hey_hi44
@Hey_hi44 10 ай бұрын
u forgot forefathers who shed blood in india so selfish desicion i am so proud to be indian i wana die here❤ our forefathers fought so much for this land kindly broaden your view and come back happy to your native country
@rahulgokhroo6686
@rahulgokhroo6686 Ай бұрын
Amazing video. Thanks for sharing.
@prabhakarsoni5476
@prabhakarsoni5476 2 жыл бұрын
For next generation...good
@dpp186
@dpp186 4 ай бұрын
AWESOME DECISION 👌
@dontTalkBullshit
@dontTalkBullshit Жыл бұрын
India is rising slowly slowly that's why people are returning
@vasudhadamle4293
@vasudhadamle4293 11 ай бұрын
Love and admire your decision...may god give same inspiration to all NRIs!!
@boejiden1524
@boejiden1524 2 жыл бұрын
YES ITS COMPLETELY OK TO MOVE BACK TO YOUR HOMELAND
@nanda5079
@nanda5079 2 жыл бұрын
We got a chance to move to US. Initially like every other person we were also thrilled to get such an opportunity. But we thought and worked it out a lot in our minds. Finally decided not to go. It was really tough to take such a decision. We wanted to be close with our parents and families whenever they needed.
@fars1d3s
@fars1d3s 2 жыл бұрын
:Consider yourself lucky: the US is overrated, a sham that exploits the uninitiated.
@tintunbirha
@tintunbirha Жыл бұрын
..same here. Children in school. Retired parents would have been left alone. I sometimes still regret it.
@cooknology4808
@cooknology4808 Жыл бұрын
Here my husband left to US in nov, we will be joining him in a month or two . My bro left to US in feb 1st week. I lost my father during my graduation..my mom has been living alone from past 15 yrs coz of our studies, marriage and jobs...this guilt is killing me
@ladusingh2141
@ladusingh2141 Жыл бұрын
But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?
@tintunbirha
@tintunbirha Жыл бұрын
@@ladusingh2141 India is very much safe. This is the reason why BOTS and Pakis like you are able to spread carnad. Never heard if a church being burnt. Yes, heard of a Hindu girl child ( in Andhra Pradesh) committing suicide when her matron, Christian nun was trying force her to give up Hinduism and adopt Christianity.
@priyakarthik5287
@priyakarthik5287 3 жыл бұрын
👍good decision
@lovelight4850
@lovelight4850 3 жыл бұрын
Prerna awesome video!
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@agniveshsathe4243
@agniveshsathe4243 2 жыл бұрын
You took right decision due to concern for parents as this is very rare to see nowadays. Family bonding can be of great help . Though there are many families in USA who enjoy such great bondings although they may not be a relative. Gujaratis and Patels are such community there who live like in India. All the best..
@abhilashshettigar9002
@abhilashshettigar9002 Жыл бұрын
Patel's are not Gujaratis ?
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
@@abhilashshettigar9002 😂😂😂
@jnanakshatriya668
@jnanakshatriya668 2 жыл бұрын
How did your 6 year old manage with school? Wondering how kids at various age react/adjust to moving back to India.
@manasagavini
@manasagavini 2 жыл бұрын
We are also planning. But thinking of jobs . How did you find job in India. And how are you adjusting with indian work culture?
@Hanumanji246
@Hanumanji246 2 жыл бұрын
I too came back here in india after 5 years abroad!!!
@rocktv6228
@rocktv6228 Жыл бұрын
Be happy in India
@striker44
@striker44 2 жыл бұрын
"X+1 Syndrome". Kids of my friends who returned to India after 10-15 years moved to US for studies and work as they were US citizens.
@pvasir
@pvasir 2 жыл бұрын
Because kids are subject to parents comsent. Once 18 they have a choice.
@hariram7840
@hariram7840 2 жыл бұрын
You took amazing decision otherwise most of the people I have seen to cry for US visa and really hate those guys.
@johnmathew8269
@johnmathew8269 Жыл бұрын
Very good ❤️💯
@suchitrashenoi1925
@suchitrashenoi1925 Жыл бұрын
India is the best place to be in always.that is for people who no matter what are loyal to India and love her for all that she is in spite of all immense hurdles placed in her path by selfish,cruel plunderers of India.these who go abroad go to enjoy the benefits these countries have made exploiting India Africa etc etc! Best to study live and work hard for your own country,India who gives you so much as against these western countries which use abuse discard you! Ask not what your country can give you,ask what you can do for your country what you can give your country,India!
@padmapriyavinoth9667
@padmapriyavinoth9667 5 ай бұрын
Just a year a the UK already making plans to move back home just to provide better for the future generations 🇮🇳 nothing like our Bharat ❤🙏🏽🌸💗
@Neelsworld2022
@Neelsworld2022 2 жыл бұрын
Even the greatest migratory birds return back home..You can't live in a luxury hotel forever
@adityasingh1657
@adityasingh1657 Жыл бұрын
Yuup
@piyu992
@piyu992 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for such motivation video. can you suggest some pune areas where US school going kid can easily adjust ?
@Allah_is_gay
@Allah_is_gay Жыл бұрын
Hinjewadi, Magarpatta or Deccan
@truereviews1981
@truereviews1981 2 жыл бұрын
thankyouu so muchh
@kanikahasija3537
@kanikahasija3537 2 жыл бұрын
The comment section is filled with so much haters and critics like who the hell are these people to judge someone? Its her life. Leave her alone. If she wants to live in India great and not wanted to in USA it is her right and her life. I have many family members who live abroad. I know domestic help is not an issue for anyone. My uncle even purchased this huge property, yet he moved back because his mother died last year in February, he got into three brain surgeries, then lockdown in India happened and his dad has to move to his sister's place who herself had a newborn grandchild and let just say his father and his brother-in-law could not adjust under same roof. Look long story short his parents never wanted to move from India and for approximately twenty five years he stayed abroad now that their were family problems arising he moved back this year to India. I am saying that everyone has personal issues they don't want to share. Some people are happy to let their parents stay in elderly homes some don't.
@deveshkumar4223
@deveshkumar4223 Жыл бұрын
Castism is major problem uncle... All the upper caste eat and get wealthy from West ... And after being Rich... Reminder of India struck to their Mind... Can't you see discrimination cause Racial abuse, Castism, gender bias mentality
@deveshkumar4223
@deveshkumar4223 Жыл бұрын
India at top because of inequality... All the rich people sewer even today get cleaned up by Dalits... Even today.. and you think people should take lightly comments on maid etc...
@prblsoni
@prblsoni 2 жыл бұрын
Would you share how did you plan on schools and house? Video is great btw
@sanskruti8556
@sanskruti8556 4 ай бұрын
Thank you mam for this video I m also move back India and my younger kid is 12 years older so think very penic but after your watching your video I m so happy thank you 🙏
@devadattaindia5989
@devadattaindia5989 2 жыл бұрын
Home is where the heart is!
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
@Devadatta India, You summed up the video in one sentence! :-)
@indirachandra4329
@indirachandra4329 2 жыл бұрын
Money mula honey rest is BS
@psangawar7130
@psangawar7130 10 ай бұрын
After 41 years in USA, will go back to India and move into my new custom made house currently under construction with all modern facilities including solar panels etc! Spend retired life there!,
@srikanthpadava3834
@srikanthpadava3834 5 ай бұрын
how about your children sir, they must be grown ups now and most likely will not come to india. This is also my plan, but in a dilemma to stay away from children (who will by then will not move out of US)
@bharatikoni77
@bharatikoni77 Ай бұрын
Many plans this way, coz it’s difficult to survive during old age, it’s difficult to drive during health emergency. Your kids won’t be around…. Difficult to manage your household in your 80s, moving snow, move your lawns, payment towards mortgages etc etc ( just to pay home tax people work in their old age in US) . list goes on. So few r smart enough to move back to home country so that they get to live life like a king n queen size. Coz they can afford all workers. 😂 Many hidden stuff which we never know. 😅 I worked, stayed here n got relatives who lived many years and they don’t want to move back but they know the reality of their old age. Still America is fantasy to so many. But as a women I feel our kids must grow in our country and learn our culture more than being behind money all the time. It’s the fact….
@bennetrajendran1145
@bennetrajendran1145 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos to your family for this decision. I moved back to India after 13 yrs in US. You won't regret the move and you haven't mentioned the social issues of US. Second gen Indians ending up not married, late marriage, interracial marriage, too independent and getting lost, high divorce rate, step parenting etc.., our kids don't have to go through all that non sense. Think about these too if you want to move back to US. I believe Indian parents inadvertently pawned the future of their children for the sake of money and comfort in US. Sad thing is the next gen has to pay the price.
@indirachandra4329
@indirachandra4329 2 жыл бұрын
India is getting worst in that matter
@bennetrajendran1145
@bennetrajendran1145 2 жыл бұрын
@@indirachandra4329 True. But if India is bad, imagine how worse US is. It's all relative these days. Still you can bet 99% for a marriage to last long term in India verses 50% in US.
@indirachandra4329
@indirachandra4329 2 жыл бұрын
Please do not put words in my mouth I did not say that India is bad you misunderstood me. This is 21st century it is about Freedom. About marriages In India also dating living together so what is the different between US and India divorces happening India changed a lot in that aspects.
@kanikahasija3537
@kanikahasija3537 2 жыл бұрын
@@bennetrajendran1145 What most them won't share is the term called "woke culture". Mostly these people think they have been woken from dream and now can rise and tell other what is right and wrong.
@banklootful
@banklootful Жыл бұрын
@@bennetrajendran1145 Find peace Bennet
@rahulgokhroo6686
@rahulgokhroo6686 Ай бұрын
@nehaamin7981
@nehaamin7981 Жыл бұрын
Thank you prerana
@dipzdes2480
@dipzdes2480 2 жыл бұрын
i m planning to go back to india after living in toronto for 25 years ..thnx for sharing your experience 🙏👍
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it helped 😀
@amishachudasama2031
@amishachudasama2031 Жыл бұрын
Hey ! Did you move yet ? Me and my husband are also planning and we live in Toronto as well
@sanskruti8556
@sanskruti8556 4 ай бұрын
I m also moving from Brampton Canada and so happy after watching this video
@anonymousfellowindian
@anonymousfellowindian 3 жыл бұрын
No domestic help in US. Extremely expensive medical treatment. No freedom to change employers or do own business. Sometimes, racial abuse, especially children in school. Folks file litigation on flimsy grounds. Too many folks carry personal weapons. Moving around without own vehicle is expensive. Vegetarian food not readily available in restaurants. House rent quite high. Loneliness. If you make reasonably good amount in India, life is very comfortable for family. More comfortable than even an American earning a million dollars an year, because even that American cannot afford to hire a full time chauffeur, cook, domestic help. In India, very common for reasonably well off families to have one or more domestic help. An Indian family earning 150,000 dollars yearly is likely to hire 3 or more full time domestic help.
@mulay1rv
@mulay1rv 2 жыл бұрын
Agree with you on some issues you’ve mentioned; but there are few other things to consider. As you’ve said: 1) Yes, there is no freedom to move jobs or start business on H1/L1 visas, but with GC, that is possible ! Yes, I understand the waiting time for India born citizens for GC though, technically impossible under the current system which sucks ! 2) India has its advantages like domestic help, but if you see closely, getting one also has become increasingly difficult or expensive too 3) Needless to mention, major Indian cities and physical infrastructure sucks, especially in Mumbai/ Thane area and mainly in monsoon. Air pollution is the major problem here. 4) Agree about the family bonding issues as she has mentioned, but there is no way to predict that kids will continue to maintain forever when they grow( even things in India like family values are bit declining). Madam, Please do not take this as an offence or like; my personal observation. 4) Again education in India ( as per current era) is fine till grade 12th; again rat race starts post that ! Yea , her kids can circumvent that since they are American by birth! Even good quality education from KG in India is an expensive thing 5) Other issues which matter most to me are corruption, filthy roads , unregulated traffic, hooligans etc. Certain things also exist in the US or other developed nations too; I’m not denying but too minuscule to consider.
@musqitonebeats2129
@musqitonebeats2129 2 жыл бұрын
Apna kaam khud krna sikho uncle
@meetmeinva
@meetmeinva 2 жыл бұрын
"Chauffeur, cook, domestic help" is not a valid reason to move back to India. It just reveals how people want to keep people working in such roles and refuse to bring them out of such professions. How about learning to drive and make your own food so that the chauffeur and cook can get an education and come up in life??
@musqitonebeats2129
@musqitonebeats2129 2 жыл бұрын
@@meetmeinva these boomers are conditioned, just like white privileged karens, they have no empathy for low income people
@saterdraj6768
@saterdraj6768 2 жыл бұрын
That's because America considers them humans and offers them a basic minimum wage. You have all the labour for cheap here because they have been traditionally oppressed. Funny thing is that you you don't even realise it.
@davidclarke10
@davidclarke10 5 ай бұрын
Muchas gracias senora
@lubnazeer-cb8ds
@lubnazeer-cb8ds 2 жыл бұрын
Hi preranajee, hope you will be prerana for many others in US.
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
@lubnazeer 1966 haha. Honestly, I do NOT want to be a 'Prerna' for this reason. I am not telling anyone to come back or NOT go at all. My video series is honestly only for those who're considering moving back but are on the fence, or for those who've decided to move back and can use some extra information and assurance of how to go about it. :-)
@lubnazeer-cb8ds
@lubnazeer-cb8ds 2 жыл бұрын
@@theupbeatmillennial i know dozens of parents who are waiting for their children to see for many years. I feel the pain of the parents and pity for them. Those who go US dont come back Unfortunate for their families back in India
@VikSaw11
@VikSaw11 Жыл бұрын
For me, USA life is boring, lonely. Money can't buy happiness. Now i am doing WFH from my village. believe me, i am enjoying.
@akshatshah4770
@akshatshah4770 2 жыл бұрын
Ma'am , is it a wise decision to go abroad for just earn money....for 5-10 years .... From chemical engineering background....recent graduate
@hemantaneja8467
@hemantaneja8467 2 жыл бұрын
M bhi yhi soch k aya tha .. 2 mahine m .. soch khtm hogyi .. paise kamane ki
@user-sy7mk9hf7k
@user-sy7mk9hf7k 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome home 🏡 prerna ji ,m y sister & jija ji also came back to india from Austin Texas after 3 years just because they didnt like the lifestyle. They were deeply missing india & their loved ones
@jsmkumar2916
@jsmkumar2916 2 жыл бұрын
In most cases wife objects going back to India even though husband is willing to go. This is my opinion as I heard many cases . Any way welcome back to India. Now with the knowledge you gained in USA ,you can start a new company which can provide lot of employment.
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
@Jsm Kumar, is that true? I've never heard of such a scenario. Why would that be in your experience?
@jsmkumar2916
@jsmkumar2916 2 жыл бұрын
@@theupbeatmillennial 3 of my very close relatives & my friends experience is what I have mentioned. Reasons are 1. Wives want to escape the responsibilities of their mother in laws. 2. False prestige feeling. (They receive lot of respect as NRIs) 3.They don't want to lose comforts of developed economies. 4. Strongly feel their children will be spoiled in India. 5. They will not get good jobs back home.
@siritachighibliuchiha7617
@siritachighibliuchiha7617 2 жыл бұрын
@@jsmkumar2916 true 👍 two of my neighbours are in deep shit , but don't want to come back. I am looking after one of thier lonely mother, who is a widow too, my next door neighbour. What to say 🤔. Dollars are more important 🤔
@adityasingh1657
@adityasingh1657 Жыл бұрын
@@jsmkumar2916 NRI are not getting respect in Indian society anymore
@adityasingh1657
@adityasingh1657 Жыл бұрын
@@siritachighibliuchiha7617 yuup , they are worthless, sold their soul for dollars
@viveklall698
@viveklall698 2 жыл бұрын
You moved from usa to india I'd too good
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 2 жыл бұрын
Did you move back after getting US citizenship?
@pvasir
@pvasir 2 жыл бұрын
Was your Green Card application rejected??
@writeramitabhaneilrayofusa6037
@writeramitabhaneilrayofusa6037 3 жыл бұрын
Valo
@prakashrao8077
@prakashrao8077 2 жыл бұрын
In simple terms Home is where the heart is
@ragoup5519
@ragoup5519 3 жыл бұрын
hi Prerna, how did you plan about the financial side of your relocation
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 3 жыл бұрын
Hey @ragou p, I'm going to cover that eventually, but did you have specification questions re. the financial side? Those'll help me while making the video. Request you to comment here. thanks in advance :-)
@kirandevi3228
@kirandevi3228 7 ай бұрын
WE MADE OUR COUNTRY BEST ,WE NEVER WANT TO GO FAR AWAY FROM OUR MOTHERLAND ,WE DONOT WANT TO WASTE MONEY ,LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL EVERYWHERE ,SO WE INVEST THAT WHICH IS FOR TRAVELLING OTHER PLACES OF WORLD AND FOR ENJOYMENT ,WE SAVE THAT MONEY FOR OUR FUTURE STAYING HERE IN INDIA ONLY ,BECAUSE WE ALREADY KNOW THIS FACT BY LOGICALLY ONLY THAT WE DONOT GAIN ANYTHING MORE WHICH IS THERE IN INDIA ,SO THANK GOD TO MY DESCION , SOMETIME HUGE SEARCH AND LOGICALLY TAKING DESCION ATLEAST GIVE US SOMETHING ,THANK GOD I WAS RIGHT ON MY DESCION THAT "LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL EVERYWHERE " I DONOT THINK SO U.S.A OR ANY FOREIGN COUNTRY GIVE EVERY INDIAN ANYTHING MORE WHICH IS NOT HERE IN INDIA ,THANK GOD AGAIN AFTER SO MANY GREED OF SETTLING IN U.S.A I STICK TO MY DESCION AND DONOT WASTE MY MONEY ,AND INVEST THAT MONEY FOR MY FUTURE AND FOR MY FUTURE CHILD ❤️❤️ALWAYS I AM LUCKY PERSON 🙏THANK GOD 🙏❤️❤️✌️✌️✌️✌️
@adamale5451
@adamale5451 Жыл бұрын
I just move to us planing to move india after retirement
@Atifjsr
@Atifjsr Жыл бұрын
I hope yoy are happy now in PUNE
@akshaygodase8067
@akshaygodase8067 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Prerna, Thanks for your detailed video! I (26 Age) am also Maharashtrian Punekar who earns better salary here as a software engineer. Just married with slightly better together family income. We dont have plan for kids for next 2 years. I have an offer from Ireland and I am still thinking on it. I wont earn good money there in Ireland but would get a chance to explore abroad with work life balance. Plus point is Ireland gives PR after 2 years. I am thinking on decision, where I will stay for 3 years there in Ireland, if everything suits there I will take my parents or comeback after 3 years with PR in hand. Why I am considering PR of Ireland is because I strongly feel that future/schooling of kids is far better there than in India. I don't have very extended huge family with us here in India, where we celebrate festivals largely. Flights from Ireland to India are also faster than US. But parents in India are heavily dependent on me. What is your thought on this, I would like to know your opinion (based on experience) if you are ok to share? Is there any medium I can discuss with you?
@eshantgarg401
@eshantgarg401 2 жыл бұрын
I am exactly in same shoes as you. But my offer is from Germany. My Indian salary is higher than Germany with great lifestyle.
@akshaygodase8067
@akshaygodase8067 2 жыл бұрын
@@eshantgarg401 I made my decision to go to IE. Good luck bro
@5123karan
@5123karan 2 жыл бұрын
@@akshaygodase8067 yeah same to you :-). I am staying back in India.
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
@@5123karan why take the German opportunity
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
@@akshaygodase8067 😂😂😂I knew
@vikramdoshi6890
@vikramdoshi6890 Жыл бұрын
By 2026 Salary cuts will be 60% By2029 1 INR = 3 USD By 2025 Majirity NRI have settle inUAE / INDIA , but it's a Gradual process Madam , Good your destiny u came back quite early Madam
@subarnaray4096
@subarnaray4096 2 жыл бұрын
I can see a lot of despair , regret and hopelessness behind that smile. That smile is just a fake one and definitely must have faced some problems otherwise one simply doesnt come back with these reasons.
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 2 жыл бұрын
Rightly said
@manojshah-
@manojshah- 2 жыл бұрын
I also agree with you. Because i had been twice in USA on visitor visa. My son is there. I would prefer USA little bit on higher side. See there is no reservations . If you are capable you have a choice for good job there. Most things liked is, 1) Self discipline. 2) Cleanliness. 3) Respect to senior citizens. 4) Respect to pedestrian . 6) Everybody is living their own lives. No interference to anyone's personal life. 8) Very good support of Police. These are some of them. This is my personal opinion. See there are always two sides of every things. One is good for me may be not good for others and vice versa. We are waiting for immigration. I would choose to move there but at present not in a position due to some responsibility of family. In fact she has taken a bold and very wise stap because her family situation and bonding. It is very very hard to come back from USA. It's require a strong self confidence.
@kumarmanjeet6704
@kumarmanjeet6704 2 жыл бұрын
@@manojshah- 10 percent reservation for forward caste...
@gauravrawat8959
@gauravrawat8959 2 жыл бұрын
Dude seems like you had not been outside India. It depends on individual to individual. I had seen the whole world but let me tell there is nothing like home. The kind of satisfaction and freedom I get roaming with my old friends and sitting in the winter sun on roof in my hometown is unmatchable. Now whether you are eating beef steak in mooresville or drinking beer in nuremberg, nothing can replace the aloo ka prantha and white ghar ka ghee.
@rupamtiwari8031
@rupamtiwari8031 2 жыл бұрын
@@manojshah- if u are capable then u will also be self satisfied in India itself
@sonikasoni8691
@sonikasoni8691 3 жыл бұрын
Bravo... plz make one more video in hindi.. u would be able to express your emotions in better way...
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks @Sonika soni. That's a great idea. I'll definitely consider it. :-)
@MDKHAN-od1hk
@MDKHAN-od1hk 2 жыл бұрын
Your smile is like dew on the leaf...keep smiling and shining...from where are you originally??🤗🤗🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️💃💃
@kshitij7777
@kshitij7777 2 жыл бұрын
Bohto bada ehsaan ho gya aapka... Please aap jaise aatmagyani logon se ek guzaarish ki please aap US mein rahein. Hamare pyare bharat ko dushit na karein
@amishachudasama2031
@amishachudasama2031 Жыл бұрын
Bete faltu me aap itme emotional Kyu ho rahe he ! Jaye apna kaam kare 😂
@pareshdave8800
@pareshdave8800 2 жыл бұрын
india has more batter and...advance life then US...now...banking ...infra..jobe....vary fast then US...our Economy...is vary fast...too
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
Gujju bol raha hain😂
@vijayadurgam7980
@vijayadurgam7980 Жыл бұрын
Good decision Keep aside the relationships.what is your individual feeling. For me no social life .medical attention. Climate specially winter depressed climate.
@shivasiva9392
@shivasiva9392 Жыл бұрын
Well I am from NY have no kids still living in NY I am here for 35 years I visit india a lot my parents not living in india I wasn’t close to any of my relatives I love staying in USA
@erroldcruz
@erroldcruz Жыл бұрын
I wonder whether children of returning families would be happy returning to India
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
No
@radsub
@radsub 3 жыл бұрын
Prerna did u Buy a house there or rent? Did u look for jobs in the area where ur parents live?
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
Hey again, @Laxmi! Iyer We rented initially to figure out what area we liked and were comfortable in; then decided to invest. No. Both - my parents and in-laws live where there are no software companies, so we didn't look there.
@viveklall698
@viveklall698 2 жыл бұрын
How ru
@Tubemith
@Tubemith 2 жыл бұрын
Madhuri dixit also moved back to India may be America is not as much glittering as it is seen by us
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 2 жыл бұрын
She is a US citizen so can travel back anytime
@nc541
@nc541 2 жыл бұрын
She selfishly returned to India to join film industry for fame and glamourous life she was used to live...I Bet her Son gone to study and will not come back.Also I feel whattt a waste of her husbands qualification.He is a Top Doctor/Heart Surgeon in US and now running behind her to Awards nites and cooking Pohas in his Vlogs😅😅 is a joke .Its their choice anyways but can do charuty work in India with his expertise in his field
@jnanakshatriya668
@jnanakshatriya668 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, some of them here never been married to understand family dynamics. They think whats shown in bollywood movie or saas bahu serial is truth.
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
@@nc541 😂😂😂😂
@viveklall698
@viveklall698 2 жыл бұрын
Hoi prerna il8ve in nrw Delhi you are the best friend we dhak vety surely meet
@globalcitizen8465
@globalcitizen8465 Жыл бұрын
Hi Mam, is a person eligible to get social security pension after completing 40 points and currently living in India after 58/62..
@sskisku7284
@sskisku7284 Жыл бұрын
Nice Video Mam, I just want to know that if your children born in the US so they are considered US citizen? And can they stay permanently in India? Please explain this one, I want to know. Thank You 🙂
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
Yea if they have oci
@rajnaik4192
@rajnaik4192 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Prerna. India is also moving towards nuclear families. Sad but the festivals are not as grandeur as they were before.
@theupbeatmillennial
@theupbeatmillennial 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you @Raj Naik. 🙏🏼 True about nuclear families, but these are the realities of the changing times, we have to make do and do our best with what we are offered and what we have 😊
@rajnaik4192
@rajnaik4192 2 жыл бұрын
@@theupbeatmillennial The race for money, money , money has killed all the good factors and this race will not stop till we completely destroys this plannet. The destruction is inevitable. Another 2 to 3 years. In India if you have money, you are treated like god, if you are poor the tables turn.
@sunderiyer7484
@sunderiyer7484 2 жыл бұрын
India life is miserable now days . If get green card no one will come back u can sponsor ur parents to stay in usa 🇺🇸 because in usa u have cook and do alone . We cook forgrand children we help them usa is not bad .
@rohanutep81
@rohanutep81 Жыл бұрын
@@sunderiyer7484 perfect 👍
@bryandsouza9905
@bryandsouza9905 Жыл бұрын
This moving back to India to be close to one’s parents is so overrated. One can always visit your loved ones every now and then and that is also a good thing
@YM-ch5no
@YM-ch5no Жыл бұрын
Your parents are unfortunate to have a child like you. It is your moral obligation to be there for them and take care of them. Visiting isn’t enough. They are the most important people in life who have given you unconditional love. Nothing gives them more joy than having their children around hem. Your thinking is pathetic.someday you will eat your words.
@deepthipriya2725
@deepthipriya2725 Жыл бұрын
Do your children have Indian passport now or you still hold on to US citizenship for them ?
@2187rose
@2187rose Жыл бұрын
Is this a consolation for herself ?kids ka to future ab struggle karne me hi nikal jayega
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