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Health INTP: *on computer all day, weird sleep cycle,* Unhealthy INTP: *on computer all day, weird sleep cycle*

Makes me grateful we treated our INFJ son nicely when we raised him. Instead of trying to manipulate us, he is our family guru and we all go to him for advice. He is wonderful.

7:39 ESTJ & ENTJ 8:36 ESFP & ESTP 9:33 ENFJ & ESFJ 10:37 ISFJ & ISTJ 11:29 ENTP & ENFP 12:36 INTP & ISTP 13:37 INFP & ISFP 15:36 INFJ & INTJ

I'm an INFP with an unhealthy ESTJ dad. I was clinically depressed throughout my teenage years and it was a nightmare dealing with all his petty criticisms and lack of empathy. Thankfully, I always knew that he was wrong to treat me the way he did. I was quite "unhealthy" during those years but I've overcome a lot and I love my personality type, especially as I learn more about it (thanks FJ!). I think I'm pretty healthy now but I don't show my true colors around my dad anymore because he doesn't know how to accept me for who I am. But that's his loss.

Unhealthy INFP: I hated being so me , I have no value, there’s no meaning in life and I’m gonna give up trying. Health INFP: I love myself, I appreciate my sensitivity, I can do anything like anyone else, it is a blessing to born to be me, I deserve to be loved,there’s no meaning in life ,and that’s exactly why we can be free to create our own meaning. And I’m trying to be a healthy one, failed and failed again, but keep trying. After I watch the video I want to say when INFP loves themselves from their hearts they would be very cooperative and willing to reach outside world, when people think I’m too drown in myself is not because I don’t care about them ,it’s because I’m so depressed that I cannot handle with anyone and I really don’t trust myself, I don’t want hurt anyone so I have to shut myself off. I’m sorry for that.

As an INFP, everything you have said about them is true. I’ve drown in my feelings to the point where I isolated in my room and cut off contact with all friends. I never feel like I fit in anywhere and no one can figure me out.

Anyone INFP who is struggling in a downspiral, you can overcome this 💪, I love you all 💜 you deserve a great life ✨

as an unhealthy INTJ, this was extremely accurate.

I have a parent who is a strong ENFJ and when their unhealthy side comes out, it’s exhausting for everyone else but them. 😠😬 It drives me crazy because they also can’t take any criticism, so when I (INFP) gently try to address something small or make a request, they are immediately defensive and will not hear it. They often tell me that one of my strengths (which it is) is confronting people in a calm, gentle way but when it’s their turn to be confronted they throw it in the trash, start getting manipulative and I’m just like…wow.

When I was in high school I was a healthy INTP(I had friends and socialized with my classmates), now in college I'm an unhealthy INTP. I'm bitter, sad, hating on everyone and thinking everybody is stupid so I'm just in my mind, reading, writing poems and little stories, listening to music or sleeping most of the time

The unhealthy INFP is a clear description of me. However, in addition to self-pitying, absolutely hating myself and "bathing in my own negative emotions", I also have some serious anger issues. And when I'm in a bad mood, I tend to think and daydream about pretty dark and destructive stuff. Like, it is pretty common for me to want to see the world burn in eternal inextinguishable flame. I often imagine myself as one of the Four Riders of the Apocalypse. Such dreams bring me joy when I'm in a bad mood. It doesn't feel like sadism to me, more like desire for righteous vengeance.

Healthy: smug ENTP face Unhealthy: crying ENTP wearing smug INTJ face mask

I am an INTP, but somehow the unhealthy ENTP hitted me way harder than unhealthy INTP, yes I isolate myself, but I have way too much ideas and don't execute them afraid of failing them

Frank, the example you put that “imagine that an INFP lives in household with people that want them to be ESTJ” it’s literally me. I am an INFP whose father it’s a ESTJ and whose mother is an INTJ and they want me to be more extroverted because, although my mother is an introvert, she has it quite balance (60% introvert, 40% extrovert) while I have 90% introvert and 10% extrovert :). They also want me to be more thinking than feeling and hate how creative I am.

You hit the nail on the head. ENFP here. I feel like I have all these great ideas, but I can't get the motivation or the courage to go through with them. I'm scared of failure, and looking like a fool, and I do think that goes back to being treated like a was an air headed idiot by my dad. He was abusive and did a really good job at making me feel worthless and dumb, thus my consent daydreaming but never actually having the courage to do anything with it. I'm still trying to work on that. It's a process, but I'm doing better at it.

As an INFP, I grew up surrounded by XSTX people and I got to a point where I didn't understand myself, I felt useless, I used to ask myself why I can be normal like everyone are supposed to be. This was before I found this channel. Now I know myself better and I gained confidence, I don't feel bad about myself anymore. I have to stop saying the word *myself*

I feel like when trying to develop the different cognitive functions, the process is kind of similar to going to the gym. It's important to exercise multiple, different parts of your body in order to take care of yourself. For example, if you skip leg day because you like working on your upper body, then you might injure yourself when you need to do heavy lifting with your legs. I feel like this analogy really helps show why it is important to strengthen your different functions, because like the various muscles of the body, they are all important and serve a purpose.

As an INFJ married to an INTJ, yeah. We're both pretty healthy, but every once in a while, it becomes a weird game of manipulation chicken, and it's not fun. Usually. Lol

my way of being an unhealthy INFJ consisted of becoming an unpaid psychologist, put my problems aside and dedicate myself exclusively to others. Also I tended to"sacrifice" myself for others, basing my self-esteem on this fact (or on the false belief that those who sacrifice themselves are somehow a "better" being). Sure it happened that I was manipulative at times, but not so often. Another very unhealthy behavior that unfortunately still happens to me is to isolate myself for months, lock myself up in my mind and live in an imaginary reality for fear of facing the real world which requires to be more operational and less theoretical. Personally this has been a big obstacle to me and the reason why I feel uncomfortable and inadequate to live in our society.

The thumbnail makes you wonder: oh boy, what did he find out ?!?!? 😂😆

I love how he goes “oh man” every time.

Me, an unhealthy INFJ: *is manipulated constantly by abusive family members and therapist has declared I must eliminate all contact with them now and forever, but I don't want to hurt them, so the cycle continues* I dunno if I'd prefer acting the way you describe it in the video... Probably? But my empathy is too strong, so I hurt myself for the sake of others... 😢 And I have also become extremely fearful of decision-making. The classic having tons of plans but never executing them.

Since we're talking about health... Happy mental health day everyone! 💛🥳🎉👍🏽😄

I was a really unhealthy INFP since my childhood because of the environment in which I grew up. But thanks to the pandemic which gave me the time out I needed and now I don't think of myself as an alien like before. I am coming out of the self-hate phase and Now I really really love being an INFP ✨

I'm an Enfp who finally has some momentum in life and is putting some energy into making success out of my creativity. It feels so good! The thing is tho, I have to admit that it's a constant effort to keep that up. I take the needed breaks but still always have to make sure I don't extend them beyond what is necessary. The struggle doesn't exactly end but the key is to keep struggling to stay motivated and inspired! Keep it up and every day that the energy is there say to yourself that you will try your very best. Doesn't work every time and that's ok....sometimes might you even over do it and burn out. It happens. I've learned not to beat myself up and to brush the dust off of myself for another try. Try again to be balanced. Eventually I've managed to get more inertia in life and I believe in my fellow enfp/entp sisters and bros. One key belief that seems to help me is to acknowledge that it's always gonna be a struggle but you can either struggle uphill or struggle downhill. I also don't smoke none of that kush either so perhaps that has made a difference as well🤣👌😤🚭 and being around inspiring, refreshing, uplifting people can also give us energy to keep working and setting goals😊❤️

Frank James is reminding me of Kirk from Gilmore Girls; he has literally every job 😂

Thank you for doing this video, Frank. Ever since I got into MBTI stuff I was upset because of the INFP stereotype. Having dealt with depression myself and being out of it, I (more than anyone else) know a healthy INFP is not always depressed/fragile/emotional. I am glad you took the time to explain the difference between healthy and unhealthy types. I don't think all INFPs suffer depression, but (as I mentioned above) I did. Curiously, when I got out of it, I realized the exact same thing you said in this video: “It's not only about my feelings”. I mean, I had the right to feel pain (familiar issues), but I understood people around me were not perfect and the fact that they don't match my emotional needs doesn't mean they don't love me in their own way. They feel too, in their own language. And yes, just like you said, I overcame that alone (actually, God and my faith were there for me, but saying it in a mundane way, “alone”). I had to find it for myself. No one in my family was able to get me out of there. It took me years to be able to... be me with no guilt, with freedom. I am 96% introvert in a family full of extroverts. Not easy task. I learned to keep my most inner emotions to myself. I learned to be careful about who I trust my fragile side. I learned to be wiser. I prefer following my heart and my instinct, but I like sticking to logic too. I can see problems with perspective and understand the other side too. Also, now I don't get things too personally. I connect better with my family and even when we disagree a lot of times, I communicate with them and I fight for what it's right (not only what I feel it's right LMAO). I still have some trouble with the S, but not with the T. I can't say I am the healthiest INFP out there, but I feel I am in tune and aiming for the happiest an INFP can be. I don't have many friends (my best friends are an ISFJ and a INTJ and I am glad to say they respect and admire me as much as I respect and admire them), but that's fine for me. I don't need to be accepted by everyone. The people I know... Well, most of them come to me for advice (above all sensing of thinking types) when they don't know how to deal with a problem. Or when they are feeling pain but they don't even realize it. When I can guide them in some way, I feel really happy. I think maybe that's the fireproof for INFPs. Learn to heal yourself to be able to heal others. And healing others is such an awesome thing. Thanks again for the video, it was really interesting to watch and it will help (I hope) to clarify some misconceptions. Also thanks for the time you put into the editing and everything. Take care and hugs from Peru! Edit: sorry for grammar mistakes lol

Our boy FJ is a nice cameleon : videast, philosoph, psychologist, actor, scientist, doctor, artist, musician... 💙 Science ! & Art. Edit : Thanks, seems I am an healthy INFJ. It's difficult sometimes, but we have to admit, we can't control all the things or people, that the perfection doesn't exist in reality.

As an INFJ I don't really relate to this unhealthy INFJ problem. That actually sounds kind of cool, being a puppet master. Instead, when I'm in the grip, I feel like it's more like I get stuck in future planning and seeing connections. Sort of like how FJ describes ENTPs getting stuck in all of the cool amazing creative things they could do but don't. Except my problem is more like "Doesn't anyone realize that civilizations are like organisms and ours has entered its death phase? Behavioral sink, guys, behavioral sink! You think you're making choices but you're just a mouse in a tiktok mouse paradise, wake up! Anyway here's a short list of 47 19th century thinkers who agree with me that this is what's happening." And I have this delusion that if I can just find all of the connections, everything will make sense and I will understand the world and be able to tolerate other humans again. Really what I need is to go outside and touch grass, as the kids say.

As an INFJ who currently lives in a household of a ISFJ dad and a ESFJ sister, I can relate to the suppressing of oneself at times.

Female ISTP - I've thought for the longest time there is something wrong with me, I've been treated like that A LOT. You're right Frank, I've retreated into my own head and just had enough of everything. I wanna become a hermit and never deal with anything EVER. I'm trying my best to change that for my daughter who I do care so much for. Maybe I can buy a pillow for screaming into periodically.

So true!!! As an ENFP, I dont feel like myself when I am not ok... all my energy feels like drained. I dont even want to speak about the stuff that I love.

Note: the relation to "rarity" is merely statistical. One example would be ESFP in Dead Poets Society.

Schools started and i already feel all my unhealthy habits, as an infp, catching up to me😭 we need to be strong yall cmon✊

It’s honestly kind of amazing as I’m an INFJ, and my father is as well, so we can really just understand each other well, you know?? And as you’ve said in the beginning where it can be hard being in a family as one of the rarest personalities, it helps a lot having him with me, and I’m sure I make him feel the same way…

ENTP is super accurate seriously

16 personalities as celebrity. 16 personalities as doctor/ scientists. Bcz "science"😂 U look cool in apron ;)

It's extremely difficult to not be an unhealthy INTP bc society doesn't like our way of thinking 🙄 Edit: I'm just realizing how passive aggressive this sounds, I was probably having a bad day 😅 sorry

I believe he's right about the spectrum... because whenever I think of trying to manipulate other people, there's always that voice in my head telling me to stop and get myself together for a moment and sort this situation out in a healthy way.

So if you're an ENTJ dating an INFP and you're both in a bit of an unhealthy place, remember that you will not and you can not rely on your instinct of just bossing them into snapping out of it. The more you try, the further they dig in, and the more frustrated you get and dig in. It will not hurt to just go "that really freakin sucks yo" which is completely counter intuitive, I know, but trust me it. just. works. I don't know why, but it turns out that acknowledging others' feelings makes people put those feelings behind them. It's like magic, it's crazy, my mind was literally blown when I realised it.

I’m touched by your words. I couldn’t understand all psychological theories and philosophy but I’m bowled over that you kept focusing on the good side of each personality, admirable indeed! Thank you so much for all the videos. Your channel is one of my fav

As a fellow INFJ I'm gonna declare you one of the most handsome INFJs.

I first tested as ISTJ on the official MB in my first year of my accounting degree because I thought I was a certain way and wanted the be a certain way. I tested for a few years later as ENTJ and only recently, after focusing on being authentic journey, I am testing as ENTP. Your environment can make a huge difference on your testing. That's why being authentic to yourself is so important and shouod be cultivated

An Infp who has strict parents that are Entj and Estj, trying to fit in to everyone else and showing a different side to different people to please them.

I'm an infj. Today i had a class and i was all happy and cheered up everyone else and helped others. And then in the evening, as i walked home, i thought 'who am i kidding?'. I become a way different person when i'm around people and a way different person when i am alone. It's like i change my shape into the glass of others. I wondered why i try to make everything at peace even though it kinda upsets me. But it's true i really know how to manipulate others and it's dangerous.

As an INTP, I agree with what was said. But I also notice at times that unhealthy INTPs get reaaaaallly lazy - like poor hygiene, never clean your room or change your underwear lazy. For example, sometimes during summers when I was a kid, I wouldn’t want to stop reading, and so I would lay in bed all day long reading without even taking a shower, and I’d even eat in bed and make messes that I wouldn’t clean up. I would only stop when my mom got after me. It’s as though you almost forget you have a body - so you never exercise or eat good food or get sunshine.

Thank you so much for the insert speech about INFP & depression, you actually Totally Nailed It. I think it's also important to point out that your unconcious\subconscious personality types can be healthy\unhealthy too & if you resonate with more than one of these groups it might be worth looking into further. For example, I'm an INFP but I could most definitely resonate with some of the unhealthy examples from a few of my past actions for ENFJ, ESTJ, and ISTP.

Interesting. As an INFJ, I always assumed that everyone else was messed up! Not because I'm better, but because they don't seem to be a connected to the emotions of others as I am: they seem cold and uncaring.

INFP here: I should probably stop repetitively listening to I Just Wasn’t Made for These Times ( by The Beach Boys). 😅

The aspect of "not being able to be yourself," or "thinking there's something wrong with you" makes me really wonder why anyone would Want to be a "rare" type. I felt so alien most of my childhood, I genuinely thought I was the one in the wrong: I thought I had autism or some other form of condition that made it so my thoughts were too weird for other people whenever I tried to explain what was happening i my head. I never felt like I really fit in, and like I was just observing the "humans" when they did things I really didn't understand the purpose of (tradition for the sake of tradition for instance). Turns out I was just INFJ, and finding that out was a great help for me, but being rare isn't that great. x)

I love how on point you are with the links to your other vids popping up in the corner, and with commercials. You are da bomb, making your KZfaq channel like a TV show for comedic effect. -infp

Happy #mentalhealthday to every of the 16 personalities.

So accurate!! I can never thank the people closest to me enough who are there for me when I sink into those INFP emotional depths. The sad thing is that I somewhat enjoy being in that place, depending on the situation, while knowing I can’t stay there, so I ask for help but know I’m making it really hard for the people trying to help me. 😞 At least I have supportive people in my life who are usually willing to try. But that thing about “almost having to do it themselves” is super accurate. At the end of the day, I can hash out something I’m feeling with someone or with myself but there’s always an element of me either being ready to come out of the darkness or not and I have to give myself time and the right conditions to actually do it. It can be unpredictable when I’ll be done but when I’m done, it’s like I just know it.

Man. The beginning of this video really *spoke* to me about my type and my situation growing up. I am an INFP, and I was raised in a household of an ESTJ and ISTJ if that fits my dad and it was HORRIBLE. so I'm coming out of pretending and trying to be myself now! You really hit the nail there! Especially INFJ which is my best friends over here. Eek. Really explains a lot! Thanks for the great examples you provided! Transforming from Unhealthy to Healthy. Maybe my parents wanted me to be a ESTJ or my mom shes the dominating one but I pushed and pushed. Having my Ni (Intuition) and my F(feelings) bottled up,but occasionally coming out and unhealthy ways. T logic screws me over a lot. Thinking from my head Overly too much was not healthy for me. And I never judge myself based off of anything in the external. That is ridiculous! Thank you! 💙😇

Aaaaa thank you so much!!! I needed this and was about to request it >>> I'm somewhere between INFP and ENFP, and this explains *a lot.* My unhealthy symptoms relate a lot more to the INFP's though...idk I hate myself man I've grown up my whole life with what I believe are an ISTJ mom and an INTJ dad, and it's really not fun at times. I've been manipulated a lot, and they don't think it's their fault. yea- but thanks frank!!

I’m an ENFP and you actually just described my current situation with the unhealthy version omfg. I recently graduated college and can do so many things but I’m just kind of idling because I love living in my imagination and I love possibilities more than things that are concrete (and I love wacky tobacky, yes I feel quite called out) but hopefully this is my wake up call. I think my fears of failure, embarrassment and commitment all probably play into this 😅

I believe I am INFP, after doing some self‐analyzing and a promising‐looking test. But I'm almost at the edge of a more thinking approach which whom I find myself eager in the enviroment around me. I don't want myself to think to far ahead with my ideas because I'm 98% sure I'll get disappointed, and future would be scary if pointing only to something so hard to achieve. I believe I want to find my own stability in the real world before making my dreams and passions come true. I'm also not very determined, which kinda sucks, but I can deal with it. It's a lot of patience, but I hope I'll get my chance of doing what I care about, without worrying about the real world issues.

As an ISFP, when I was depressed and took the personality test, it showed me I am an ISTP So.. I can tell this is really accurate

man I love your videos! I think I'm warching your videos since like 2 years, atleast befor corona and I noticed how during corona you improved your quality so much! amazing! greets from switzerland!

Thank you always for all of this contents you make, FJ! I literally cry hard when you say about unhealthy one in the beginning. I start watch this channel because I always hate myself too much. I am tired of it but always doing it unconsciously, so I want to learn myself better. I always doubt about my identity. But for what I know, I am an INFJ. I dont want to be myself. It will make a world better if I am just become a person that everybody wants. Thats what I think. Sometimes, I hate if I am being an Introvert so I try hard to became an extrovert so much that every 7/10 people will describe me as an extrovert. But sometimes I also shut myself for a long time bc my battery run out (and I hate myself for that). haha I hate being intuitive too. I raised by a sensing mother and always thought that I grow wrong. I always thought that I am not even human because I cant do the sensing thing and live in reality. I hate that part of me and always think I broken. So... It reassuring when I think all of this just as simple as I prefer intuition more than sensing. That's it. I am not as broken as I think. so when everyone say they hate being an INFJ. I am grateful because I finally have tool to describe myself as an INFJ. I am grateful because I am not the worst person on earth, I am just an INFJ. So thank you very much FJ, you help me to accept myself. And I still learn to it.

Thank you very much for this. I can see I was a very unhealthy INTP for years and that I have managed to become much healthier over time, although still far from truly healthy. I'm favoriting this video and I'll come back to it in the future to check on how I'm going by then. 🙂

I'm an EXTREMELY cinic ENTJ, like really: I always score tremendously high levels of T and abyssally low in empathy/morality ecc. (both in traits tests and type tests). At the same time I also have a quite high Fi, like I'm very aware of my feelings, I'm just SO used to people walking over them that I actually don't give a fuck about almost anybody and their feelings. In general I've always been hypercritical and rational, but I just used to be curious (more like an ENTP), while know that I have to get stuff done I just think that making decisions according to feelings instead of logic is just dumb, a waste of time, especially if actually nobody will care about mine. So at least I wanna get things done right and I'm not just being an asshole for the sake of it. Sometimes I'd really like to be even colder, but those few times that I care about somebody I'll just give him/her too much importance and I get fucked up once more.

I REALLY needed to watch this. Thank you FJ!

Thank you so much for this video, Frank! I've been binging your videos recently to learn more about my personality type and the other types too. But this one really resonated with me and made me feel very heard and validated. I'm an ENFP and grew up with a single mum who is ISTJ and also quite toxic on top of that. So basically my opposite type and also not a nice ISTJ. I'm sure she just thought I was a crazy child. I've felt I had to repress my personality my whole life, like there was something fundamentally wrong with me and like I was never going to achieve anything in life, especially not my deepest dreams. I've been healing but it's been a rocky road of self-acceptance and forgiveness. And the hardest thing for me to accept is that I will never be able to reach my full potential, like I should have as an ENFP, because, basically, I've only been really living for a bit over a year. Before, I was barely surviving and I wasn't able to make decisions that would bring me closer to a place of true happiness. I was just drifting around without any sense of direction or goal. Every month that goes by with me being the cheerful, wacky, carefree ENFP I am now fills me with such gratitude and it just feels so right - I can't explain it well... Like everything's finally properly aligned. It just makes me pause in amazement and wonder. But it's hard to unlearn to pretend to be someone you're not when that was your primary survival strategy for so long. But it gets easier and easier.

INFP here. Sometime around high school I learned to "turn off my feelings", which scared the crap out of me at first because I was used to wallowing in them. It isn't actually *off*, it's just ignoring them for the sake of focusing on other more important things and I think was actually really healthy.

As an introvert with very extroverted parents, I was always forced to socialize constantly, call friends regularly, and my parents thought that I hated them because I needed more alone time than them or my siblings. This lead to me having a drained social battery 100% of the time. I also (as mentioned in the video) thought that something was wrong with me, because I didn't enjoy socializing like the rest of my family. It wasn't until after a lot of relationship problems that I figured myself out thanks to my aunt. Now, also thanks to my aunt, my parents are more understanding, and accept me more for who I am.

That's amazing that right off the bat you mentioned an infj trying to be an istj. That was me. My mom is an istj, and very fun and loving and kind, but I was just a mystery to her, and still am. My whole family tends toward t, so I felt like I was an emotional wreck all the time. Looking back, I was a pretty normal teenage girl, and even overcame some pretty nasty situations better than expected. Thank you for this!

ISFP married to an ENTJ. I used my feelings to make sense of the world around me, basically my feelings were my reality in stressful situations. After I got married, my husband helped me realize that I was backing up my opinions with feelings a lot and that I sounded “illogical” sometimes because I wasn’t backing up my feelings with any proof. And I often WOULD have proof or facts to back me up, but my feelings were so much more important to me since they had become the basis of my reality, and I would spend my time explaining how I felt instead of backing it up with logic (“illogical, logical…my husband sure sounds just like his type, right? 😂). This has made me healthier, since now when I have such strong feelings, I stop and examine whether or not I can back up these feelings with a reason for having them, and it has helped to keep me in reality instead of spiraling into a frenzy of negative emotions about something that’s actually just in my head.

When he was talking about unhealthy INFJ all i was thinking was: L O K I

your videos are awesome, Frank!

I’m an INFP with an ISTJ narcissistic dad, and an ISFJ mother who is an enabler and hyper-critical. I’ve been struggling with depression my whole life, but now I understand the “why” of my issues and can come to terms with it all. It sucks though. I can never seem to move past it permanently.

Because of everything you do, I have finally come to understand myself! I don’t feel so different or strange. And on another note I find it interesting that I have found people will sometimes misunderstand each other given their types!For example, my sister for example is an ESTJ and she insists that my friend an INFP said something very offensively to her! I was not present when this occurred so I can’t say however I do know my friend is super loving and kind and doesn’t say mean things like that but I think what did happened is my sister misheard or misunderstood.

I'm still trying to figure out what type I am and the unhealthy version of INTP and ISTP describes when I'm under a lot of stress. Since I hit puberty I became a really irritated person, and I tend to be mean when I'm like that. It's like everthing bothers me and when everybody is happy is so stupid, and I wish people would leave me alone and not even look at me. The very presence of another person bothers me. This happens mostly when I'm stressed and under a lot of pressure. When I'm in a good mood I love to talk and I'm fine doing anything, but I get mad easily. Also, when I'm at that place of being isolated, mostly when I'm trying to finish an assignment, I get overwhelmed. It happens bc I leave everything for the las minute and then I'm like "Why am I like this, I hate myself"

I love your videos Frank! Keep up with your amazing work! Thank you for making us reflect and laugh 😁💜

Hey Frank! Just thought of a video suggestion...maybe along the spookier side, since we are in October and nearing Halloween...but also just something interesting on its own...Notorious Serial Killers and which Type they were/probably were. Or something along that idea train...

Frank I just love your videos so much. You are hilarious and informative and your videos make my day better. Thank you for existing and making videos!

Lemme tell u as an infp raised in a household with an infj mom, infj sister, and estj father, being the only perceiver in a house full of judgers ABSOLUTELY aggravated the unhealthy "nobody understands me and I dont fit in" to quite a degree

Thank you very much for this video! I'm still not sure what my type is but this video helped me realize that I am between Entp-enfp and Isfp-infp (not sure if my dominant cognitive function is ne or fi, or maybe another lol), because I have many ideas but I find it difficult to externalize them as an illustrator. By the way thanks for the subtitles! I'm from Argentina and I still don't speak English well

Wow this is actually very insightful!! Thank you for making this! I always wonder why some people in my life do some certain things, and now I know that’s because they got into their unhealthy version in an extreme way. I also noticed that I might be an INFP instead of INFJ according to the unhealthy versions of them. Very insightful!

I'm an ISTJ, and my hubby is an INFJ. How we get along... it was a long struggle. Understanding the different personalities helped me a lot in dealing with his "theories" and manipulations. He also learned how to give me space when I'm on my manic mode: most common is stress cleaning and labelling everything in the house.

I am an INTJ and I’m not manipulative, but I am too socially isolated and quite close minded, too based on first impressions. I have understood now that people have different opinions (mostly politically), but people often have immense hate and disrespect along with it. I can be arrogant at times but I try hard not to show it. I hope I will be a healthier INTJ soon

16P interacting as siblings - im infp and sisters are isfj, esfj, and intj.......so frustrating!! and 16P as cats and dogs. 🤪

This video was so accurate like all your other videos. I'm an INTJ who grew up in a house full of ESFs. Since childhood i thought something was wrong with me and was expected to change my behaviour to better fit in. I even tried to copy them but failed everytime. Which led to the feeling of worthlessness and isolation. Since i started watching your videos , i've really started understanding myself better and being more comfortable. Plus they're always fun to watch! :)

Thank you for talking about this Frank! Very helpful

Such an interesting topic!! Lots to think about…

yeah, as an INTJ sometimes I can be a bit manipulative. I just hate when I lose control about something around me. I'd rather give up sooner before everything gone wild.

This was so insightful! Fully relate as an ENTP that slides between healthy and unhealthy, I think we rely on inspiration as motivation so when we don’t have it we get super stagnant…and I have an unhealthy INTP ex who couldn’t see past himself and his needs. Not a great combo.

I so look forward to your videos💜; they make me feel so much better, especially through my rough patches.☺️

oh yes , doctor frank always here to help us be better mbtis, thanks doc

Thanks God I had so many good class mates in high school, if they were like middle school ones I would be a very unhealthy INTP. I can not thank enough especially my ENTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ and ISTP class mates, they had the best effect on me! They cured my depressed and transformed my anti-social self to an introvert who yeah has problems to show his feelings, but at least is happy! Thank you my dear class mates, even if you'll never read this comment, you are still the best thing to happened to me!

im an infj with an istj dad and isfj mom, and I've never heard something more accurate than what u said

Spot on about being a feeler being raised by thinking types (at least I think they are). Criticism is harder when it comes from a thinker and it starts the spiral- especially when they’re RIGHT. I’m working on separating the message from the manner in which it’s delivered and tapping into my Te and meeting them where they are.

I'm so afraid of my present and my future which DEFINITELY WILL go in shambles if I don't do anything about it but look at me here sitting all day watching relatable mbti memes and KZfaq videos. What a Time to be alive~~

This is interesting; I’m looking forward to this. 🩺🥼

I can relate so much! I have been such an unhealthy ENTP. So many people have told me "you have a lot of potencial you know, you can start by doing one thing, just one, don't waste all of your time". I've been doing exactly what Frank said in the video, just living in my own world, far away from reality, thinking about cool posibilities and not leaving my gaming cave. Very recently I have started to move away from that lifestyle and it's going great. I saw a meme some time ago "entp after 9 years of therapy: I think I am finally in a better mental state" I felt attacked buy it was funny af. Btw it's been like 5 years mkay?? It doesn't matter how long it takes, people, you can always do it! Much love, I love your videos!

we all are united in hands of him, he treats all of us really good

“Let’s say an INFP is growing up in a household where he or she is expected to be more of an ESTJ....” Me: **Looks out from the window**

As an istj I’m definitely in the middle (leaning towards unhealthy) because while I do like freak out at the idea of my sister one day going to collage and leaving me forever, I do think I’ve gotten better at handling SOME more immediate change that I know I just have to accept

This was a really good video, thanks ☺️