I think, it depends on where they're from. If they were deprived from 'exploring' women (due to strict ruling in their home countries) when they were younger, the chance is, they might wanna have 'fun' when they were older. Just based on my observes.

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Hi, how is you,am 23yr, am looking for a man who is God fearing, honest, caring, love, to be friends with him,To share our problems together to solve it, support each other,stand together no matter what come our way,we face it together, age doesn't matter, colour of the skin doesn't matter black or white no problem,,am from Kenya,, serious relationship,,I don't like lie people,

I want a man who is 40yr

Me here l am single and l am searching for a man who is 40+ pliz God help me to get my soulmate from where he is.

@James Bond I didn’t say buys me houses or cars or is rich oe successful or tells me I’m pretty all the time or spends lots of time with me so I must not be a narcissist 😎

@@duckypam I agree with you. I still want my independence.

My man is like that. He's amazing but make sure you give and take too. Never take him for granted as there's not many men would do that for you. He is so worth it.

Yep.. It's absolutely I believe🙏!

Hi nice to meet you here.

Youthful attitude? Cool lol

@@tonillewalsh7796 😜

Taking notes📝, won't drop the ball at all in this regards..... Honey, should we do dancing competition tonight🙃

Hahahahaha.... Is that me??

@@hillaryt7405 yes My Honey😍

You’re blessed honey😍

Lucky you!

That's a 40+ man. 40+ women it's the same. Both parties already did the fooling around for two decades. Haha!

No fair

​​@@andreaberryman5354 I didn't mean to fool around (date till I turned my 40's) and I WANTED to get married by at least 30 but it was very difficult to find Mr.Right!

Awwwwww I love what you said. So true & so Inspiring ❤

@@pomwanwu-2925 🙏🌹

I'm also in my 50's briefly dated someone in their 30's. I say briefly because he ghosted. I now refer to him as Casper, and anyone else who ghost's me.

Lmao

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May your wish come to pass

Sarah Stair,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌺,hope you are with a good man!

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47

100%

39 and have no more patience for boys. I am *TOO OLD* and Life's too hurtful not to want a man to make feel special and to sweep me off my feet! I DESERVE that,I mean other women are able to get it/WERE able to, so why not me?!! 😞

Amen, sista. Confidence, not cockiness. He has to know who he is and sure of himself.

THIS!

A lot of men in their 50''s are players too....

Oh noo hush pinky I know you're a smart beautiful sexy intelligent woman

I’m 42, every man I know is cheating on their significant other. It’s all around the world, dear. If asked, my best advice to anyone is stay single or accept the game.

Ur right, am in 1month relationship here am already bored😞, the guy is over 50 doesn't even reply my chats, we only meet twice a month. I feel cheated I want to breakup. This old men are very cunning and mischievous. 😔😔😔

I like men who are manly. They try to do good and right.

That’s great you found a great guy but you can’t say that all men under 40 are useless. All men are different I’ve met some pretty mature and nice guys under 40 so don’t judge all men because your comment is what makes it sound useless lol

Also, dont dorget for most men sex and touch is their love language and if they love you they basically cant get enough of your touch and sex with you. Its definitely not about being used for sex. Took me too long to learn that x

@@titithetoad yes i completely know what you mean. The way he touches is for more affection and connection that shows love not lust

Agree with you 💗

Lol

I agree

So true!

And how do we tap into this feminine energy

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Lol wrong

All nah the same😛😛

Hahahahaha.... Whatever

@@hillaryt7405 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃😘

Exubérance

Thank you

100% agree

I couldn’t agree more. You are going to meet up with a guy in effort to get to know him and he is bitter and complaining about his ex. Really??? I now ask first how long he has been single, if recently then he is out. I am not anyone’s therapist with benefits.

We all have "baggage". Like, a past. If someone is in his or her 40s, they will have a past. That's life.

@@coreyanderson7424 Yes but negatives need to be left in the past, no point to bitch to your new partner about past failed relationships.

This is one of my fears as a man who is turning 40 and still single. I never was able to attract a woman and now it's going to be harder than ever because I am being measured for the things I have done and the things I may provide in the future. That's not to say I don't have the capabilities because I make a good living and can provide a very nice life to anyone. I feel like on the vice versa if a woman is still single in her 40s, she's not going to really need a man at all. So with that said, I think I am screwed with the idea of finding a woman. I did think a younger woman would be nice, not so much for "sexual gratification" as you say but rather because they're not yet at the point where they want to be single and are looking to be with someone, even with all the baggage. But as I said I don't know since I've been single my entire life. One thing I know youth has its qualities because you don't think about what your life was, but rather what it will be and maybe you won't get there but it's better to be a dreamer than trying to live the dream.

@beautifulstranger5628 •We are ether classed as “Drama “ That means your previous partner was a complete idiot and ran off and got married 3 X -Dodged that bullet .Strangely you have a child regardless of there age -If you wait over a decade to date they automatically assume that “You should not be on the Market and the child is Luggage 🧳 “I choose and still choose to raise my son single handed no man is dating him or will meet him as for being on the “Market “I am not up for sale -I am not in the yellow pages and many men happen to have children far younger than my teenage son would take me along time to let anyone into my sons life I simply don’t think it’s appropriate he was rejected by his Father before he was born he was planned and under no circumstances was I going to ever have a man home or constantly ship him off to family members even now it’s vastly irritating when you arrange to meet up with a man for coffee they ask you and suddenly say they can’t make it when your halfway there I simply do not respond…However I would rather they do not make an excuse I would far prefer that they don’t lie as for someone younger -No .I have actually met someone older .I like him he chats to me for three years most of which where really tough years for me both parents died we have met up once I am in a way better state of mind .I hope he is because to start with he was not he made it clear he liked me looks wise but emotionally I was a darn wreck and he apparently was Emotionally Unavailable “🤣I think someone broke his heart as well 💔❤️‍🩹💔❤️‍🩹Most of us have been there as I said to me him “I was Emotionally and Physically Unavailable “I am just talking things in my stride .Its a risky game is love I can never tell Lust ,or love from a man I just think they think differently regardless of there age ?I don’t think I need marriage I need TRUST and that for me will take time if it ever actually happens,sometimes I just think is it worth taking the risk on this occasion yes I hope so but it needs be 50/50 you need accept that no one is perfect.But if anyone cheated and did not have the honesty to tell me before hand that they no longer felt the same way ?I would not be unset I would actually be really cross I am fed up with people that view you as a mere object of desire rather than someone that will respect them and treat them with loyalty.I would rather personally be single .

Do not leave your husband because of what you just heard on the internet

Oh my godess...you spoke my mind 😲 N I loved ur last line 🙂

@@tambwekazubangakani5389 that is also a good advice.

Your comment is really sad for so many reasons.

One thing you gotta consider is that maybe, whether a man or a woman, they are run down because the relationship they just left ate away at their youthfulness. Chances are if that person is in that bad of physical condition they most likely have baggage from stress over the years. Our are just plain lazy.... just trying to be devil's advocate here. Cheers!

Yes! And for me, add generous, respectful, good sense of humor, open-minded, educated, cultured, well-groomed, and fun.

And witty

Kindness (values women/treats people in general well) Intelligence & funny/witty

@@minav07 Yes, can be. So true. Keep living authentically. Not worth the drama of being with a person who can’t be our equal.

Hello 👋

Oh no!

@@SummerICE2013 right here

Maybe their experience is they think thats what women want and they have to do that to get you. If they learn they are wanted for who they are, maybe they can ease off. If its about ego and control, for sure walk away xxx.

👍🙏

@@sweetwilliams6897 Hello

Some have lost their spouse to death

@@allisonbenesch6962 I havnt dated any widowers... I'm speaking on my experience

It IS exhausting!

You said it!

Same and right here with you!! Men are always looking for a ego fill doesn’t matter what age

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@ez-G he has never given me a dime, prefers to advise instead😛😛😛😛😛😛🙃

Me to l love older men introduce to me pliz blueberry styles l will send you my WhatsApp no.

Indeed. I laughed hard watching this. As for first 2 qualities, yeah, have had them all my life, not a single male has ever cared. Regardless of age. So yeah, how my family raised me was maybe desirable when my parents married but no longer is. What my father appreciated in my mother but not a single male ever in me. So yeah, sayonara to first 2 for sure. As for last one- yeah, "youthful" is true. But not regarding the attitude. Regarding the body. Botox and all over plasitc surgery frenzy I observe in all ladies turning 40 hasn't came from nowhere. As for me, well, now dating younger but he is all about factor 3 really. And I do not really care. As for both first factors- yeah, I can save these for myself and go it alone if needed. If someone is ever gonna notice I posses these qualities I think it's gonna be only me. And maybe my father. But whatever...As for "what males seek" ....passed the age of 29 modern day ladies really could not care less what's the answer to this question. Given what we have endured in youth believing any of these 2 first qualities matter frankly speaking most of us females do not care anymore. Since guess what? Once player's vicitim enough of times, she turns into a player too. Yeah, guys in their 40-ties will definitely reap what they have sown.

Bwahqhahaha exactly...

😂 Right!

@@femmeNikita27 Yes we do … mainly that we can like you could in your 20s. For the woman over 40 the dating game is over.

😂🤣😅🤯🤯🤯 facts

Really? I think that man in their 40 have a lot of baggage and issue with previous relationships, that makes them not to belive in the outcome of new relationship

@@viktoriax8042 yes they are…but they will open up when they think they find their soulmate

@@elisabethadyatmani1628 I have to disagree with you here. Emotionally unavaible people will not find a soulmate as far as they are in an " emotionally unavaible state " . The soulmate is not a " savior" for somebody's life

@@viktoriax8042 I found him and I’m so happy 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

@@elisabethadyatmani1628 i am going through a divorce and i don’t want to be in serious relationship and i will be honest about it but i think after a while and when i find a lady who is kind and loving and understanding i will cherish her a lot.

Allison Jacobs,Hope you are with a good man?

So am not alone,At 43 also dirvoced,but life must go on.

No one wants to be around someone who does not take care of themselves. I workout everyday and eat healthy BUT my hormones have added some weight. I refuse to starve myself or feel down and out because of it though.

May I know you?

May I know you?

You should find a woman who is also divorced, has kids and your age. A lot of great women have no one to be with because they have kids or they are tired single moms and men don't find that "hot"

Amy Hunt,I admire your lovely smile 😊!

@ez-G and why tf is that your business if she’s not dating you?

@ez-G older men are single or divorced for a reason.

watching models on instagram 😂

@@deepdiver849 lol right

If so, u may work on ur subconscious to end the pattern Take good care of yourself and love urself more God cares

I have to tell you a sad fact. The higher quality woman you are, the harder it would be to meet high quality men, and no it’s not about mind set. It’s a fact. But if it’s meant to be it will happen.

@@yemisiaderuku2902 I do love myself and take care of myself, we can’t control that men are like this!

This is it…you said it all 🤣🤣

Why you dating men with small kids tho ?! Only be with a man with grown kids. Owise it's a waste if time for you.

@@misselle1430 I don’t date them, lesson learned 😄 you are 💯 right!!!

The saying goes you are either their purse or nurse. Me I say No to both options

My advice is be cautious. Don't move in too quickly, but when it's been yrs and you've hit a rd block then see whose out there 3 to months is too soon to move in. Remember your not their mother their supposed to be pab equal and bring qualities to the relationship not be a third child. I guess I'm wise I've been through it was married to a man child wasn't good I'm looking for my equal time to go fishing love and Passion I've found there's something beyond that were not teenagers. I love the way men work most or think we operate lol. No fear in commitment not too soon be careful with who you let in especially with children involved test your waters to be sure who they really are.

Give them time. Women mature faster….Men mature further.

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Save his contact and message him on WhatApp for help

Angel I have come across yo comment, that u want honey guy im honey and im single Let's get to know each other

How long are you dating this man? Because the sex thrill will wear off one of these days & you won't even recognize the man you're dating. You should be old enough to know that by now

@@topkat8268 not a nice comment, really not!

I second Ann's comment. Not Nice KitKat! Just because it may have/has happened to you. Doesn't make it fair nor righteous for you to pass on any of your heartache bad experience or opinions onto anyone! Instead offer support in the form of happiness and joy for her sharing her joy with everyone reading all the comments. Congratulations to A Very Happy Couple Love Each Other and Yourself Everybody!

@@annnoelanders3514 Exactly, people think their reality is every other person's own. I laugh , lol

This is brilliant, well done you, enjoy one another 😊 😊😊😊😊😊😊

Want to chat?

@ez-G are you a male or female?

@ez-G I am 40 yr old man

They're not always emotionally mature and stable, thats a myth Im afraid..

What if that is to be a wife and mother?

Working on loving myself

Amanda Harris,Your lovely smile 😊 can make the news!

What about in 60"s

You said it all mama. A simple peaceful life is all that matters

Yesss! Excellent point and this is fact.

They expect us women to treat them like their mommies did. Then expect us to want to have sex with them. Ugh! 🤦

🤣🤣🤣 What a brilliant question! I love your question.

Notice that he hasn't answered the question... That is an answer in itself.

Good question. I’ve experienced this too. I think men get jaded and cautious too. They are afraid of being taken advantage of by women and putting out too much effort and being left with no reward if things go wrong.

Michele Marks,Your lovely smile 😊 can make the news!

@ez-G here younger women are complaining about older broken men with a lot of baggage, have you noticed a girl compared them with damaged goods? Either stay single or accept the game

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