The difference between Sexuality and Identity is something very simple yet something alot of people dont understand. I remember my mom being very very confused that if your nonbinary how could someone be bisexual. Or the difference between Bisexual and Bigender. So really, pay attention to the word "sexual" and "gender" at the end of every lgbtq+ labels.

Me: *Already Biromantic Asexual and has come out to my parents* Also me: oooo! Interesting!

I'm graysexual, I experience only mild sexual attraction. I've had to explain graysexuality to many people but I'm true to myself so I don't really care about having to explain myself whenever I tell someone I'm graysexual.

I’m not homosexual, I’m not bisexual, I’m not heterosexual, I’m not asexual, I’m not pan sexual, I’m not questioning, and I’m definitely not a label! I like whoever I like, and I support whoever you are! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Personally, I identify as aromantic and bisexual. Not sure what else to say other than thanks Lorenzo.

Reminder: its fine to be gay, lesbian, bi, pan, straight, trans, cis, ace, allo, poly, NB, objectum, demi, grey, ficto, or anything else except harmful or insincere. You are valid and great as you are. And if you ever change then thats valid and fine too.

I’m 15 year old guy, and I’m pretty confident that I’m straight, but I think I might be bi. This video definitely helped.

I am a non binary pansexual mess that is being forced into the closet...

I’m trying to figure out if I’m bisexual or straight? I don’t know what tf I am-

I used to confuse wanting male attention with being attracted to them, the lesbian masterdoc really helped me.

I’m not sure if I’m ace or not. I definitely feel attraction and I’d like to cuddle maybe, but I just don’t feel sexual attraction. So far I’ve been “the only straight child in my family” (Bi, pan, aromantic, and me). I want a relationship, but I’ve always classified things like hugging as romantic and don’t hug family members because hugs are about as special as I can be with a person. My family thinks it’s some weird PTSD, which is why I’ve been so skeptical of if I’m actually ace or not. I mean, I was young when the incident they’re referencing happened (11-ish), it was long before a person would feel sexual attraction. I’ve never been able to convince my family and friends that I’m actually ace because they know about “the issue.”

I finally found my sexuality- I’m an omniromantic pansexual-

I figured out that Im Bi and that I am falling hard for my best friend (girl). Im scared that if i told her i have feelings for her, she might be straight and that would end up ruining our friendship-

idk if im bisexual and have a strong preference for women, or im just a lesbian lmao

Im ace. 😁

Ok I'm going to guess something because I'm a bit confused and correct me if I am wrong. So, I know asexual is when you feel no sexual attraction to anyone, so I'm going to guess aromantic is when you feel no romantic feelings toward anybody? If so then I think I've found what I identify as, even if I'm only on step 2 at the moment. I'm gonna finish the video. lol Edit: Now I'm a little confused.. so, you can be romantically attracted to someone and sexually attracted to someone. But in my situation I really feel neither of these things toward anyone.. so now I don't know anymore... Please help p-q Edit 2: Read a comment. No longer confused. I identify as asexual and aromantic :>

Um i don't know if. Im bi or not and i 11 pretty young when i saw this girl something felt like i liked her or something tingled in my stomach.

1:59 thanks for this! This is the thing my mom was most confused about when I came out as bi. I’m romantically attracted not sexually. I’m to young for that.

I've been exploring my sexuality a lot recently and for now I've "declared" myself as Demisexual and Biromantic because it's the most fitting for me. This video really helped me understand sexualities and almost confirm mine!

Is nobody going to talk about how much they are cute? Also, my grammar be like : goodbye my lover, goodbye my friend-

Depending on ur age, u will be at different stages on this journey. Really. *me figuring out I was lesbian at ten years of age and already having 3 exes at 12:*

This is a great video! I'm panromantic and asexual; I first identified as asexual when I was around 13, and at the time I had trouble differentiating between romantic and sexual attraction (which can obviously be explained by the fact that to this day I still have never felt sexual attraction), so I identified as aromantic as well for a short while. Most of the people around me would generally dismiss me when I came out (gotta love ace erasure), and around the age of 15 I had convinced myself that I was a panromantic pansexual as a result of both my internal difficulty differentiating between orientations as well as others' expectations of me. I only recently embraced my asexuality again in late 2019, and it's been quite liberating to allow myself to use labels I'm comfortable with rather than debate with myself like I have been for several years now. Everyone, please remember that romantic and sexual orientations are completely fluid; if you don't feel comfortable with a label for yourself, that's entirely valid. Don't force yourself to be someone you're not, and please stay safe in the process. :)

I’m personally ace and biro I’ve questioned my sexuality throughout my life but I eventually realized that I was just trying to fit in. I love your view on gender orientation & sexuality with children every time I see one of your videos or KZfaq shorts I usually agree with your perspective and it’s interesting to learn how other people think on controversial topics

it sure took me long ass time to realize i'm asexual and aromantic. it was hard but i'm glad that i love no one 😩

Me: *when you're 18 and questioning your sexuality because you're parent(s) taught you "Guys date girls, girls date guys, and everyone is born with their gender. There is no changing any of this." and you were too scared to question them* Um. . .

Thank you for this. I was questioning whether I was Bi with a preference of men or straight. I think I might have had it cleared up now, thanks

I liked my friend because she’s quite beautiful in my vision, we are both artistic. We stick around each other most in school (because idk her address) we help each other when hurt, I’m pretty sure she has a crush on me to, but I’m still not sure. She does call me traitor when I play with someone else at school. Please tell me if that would be a sign of love in the comments.

after watching this, i'm not sure whether i'm pansexual or panromantic + asexual. but thanks anyway :')

me, a pansexual who didnt need help figuring out my sexuality: *My goals are beyond your understanding*

Thank god there are people like you online to help 11 year olds figure out their gender and sexual identity!!! So helpful, so educational!

Thank you as person who has been questioning if I'm pan or bi or straight or lesbain or other this really help

so far I only know I am not hetero. I still in confusion and unable to get appropriate labels on me about these. I feel complicated about myself and not fit in typical cases on web. When searching in web for info, the more I read I more is feel stressful and dizzy. I know what I want and feel, but describe it need lots of words. My parents not much care and simply reply 'labeling is bad, no one is always fit. person are unique. just live happily' And I went dial to LGBT+ support hotline, the guy on other side said, "labels will not make your life easier and happier. and your parents are right. since you have no issue with ppl around you, just live whatever you want" So, I am not exactly coming out, also not really in closet. But I feel a bit insecure about these. Idk what I am. I fear I will hurt my future potential partner if I meet someone good. I feel so hard to explain. I worry that maybe all my issue is just me having too much fantasy. Or, I just sub consciously want to be special? I just mess up. my mind mangled.

I literally just woke up with the tiniest seed of doubt and now I’m just watching every video

I like that there are a variety of people here in the comments It makes me feel welcomed

This video is great laurenzo!! Great great job!! ❤️❤️

i find it so pleasing for no reason that the length of the video is an angel number

Thank you for this video recently I’ve came out as Bi but I’ve felt kind of different but I didn’t know what else I could be. I still don’t know what sexuality I am but this is putting me in the right direction of finding it

That was one of the most perplexing videos I've ever come across. A lot of TV media has broadened my horizons on different sexual orientations, but I prefer dating men. Besides, I've never been in a serious relationship with one, because I can be slightly timid around people I don't know well.

I am still questioning if I'm bi but I'm 90% sure I am! Thank you!!!

Thank you so much this helped me a ton ☺️

I am so freaking lucky I found this video... young and confused 🤔 Thank you so much laurenzo

Thank you for this video ❤️ I think I'm demisexual as well but am sooooooooooo unsure about that and all in all just confused. But your Video helped me so much

I just came out as bi to my friend today and she was so excited!! Thanks for you previous tips larenzo

I'm at an age where pretty much everyone knows who their romantically attracted to, but I have mild philophobia (the fear of being in a romantic relationship), so I'm not sure if I'm aro or my brain just rejects all crushes and stuff. Any advice for this situation? Thanks!

How do you know if you're attracted to someone (romantically or sexually) or whether you just find them nice or aesthetically pleasing? (I'm 14)

this has helped me so much and now i figured out that i am demi and bi so thank you

i love you so so much you are so helpful to me while figuring out who i am bc my mom doesnt understand that if i dont explore now at my age, 11 y/o, ill never know and just be a straight ally probably and stuff so you are the most helpful person i have ever found so far even with all my bggbf's-best gay guardian best friend's, help to find people it never helped or worked so you are so amazing.

KZfaq rlly said “recommended “

I’m so glad this has an accepting comments section, really anywhere else I would not feel comfortable saying this, but I am Either Gay or Bi

I’m demisexual biromantic :> I came out to my 2 best friends and they both came out as bisexual to me :D we call ourselves the bi gang now lol

I just turned 12 and I started middle school this year and this has definitely been a question for me. I am obviously still experimenting. But this is something to come back to for me in a while.

It took me 2 years to realise that I am abro cause I changed between pan lesbian and bi and straight

This is really helpful, thank you!

This helped, I have always had the idea that as a cisgender female most words were labels, and they box you in. Reading the comments and watching this video kind of relieved some of that tension. Still not sure about identifying my sexual orientation yet though. I really HATE labels. But, as a friend of a lot of people in the LGBTQ+ community, this video is amazing. I think I'm for now just identifying as a bicurious lesbian, and see where I go from there.

I'm still trying to work out where I am on the asexuality spectrum (Imma call it that cause that's kinda what it is) and I'm still unsure of it how its due to trauma or because I genuinely don't feel sexually attracted to people but it's getting there slowly.

Panromantic and Pansexual Woman, and I wish that resources and understanding like this were available when I was figuring myself out originally! Thank you!

I'm a Bi and first I was truly confused . I was like 17 when I first experienced it. This video really helped though

I want to come out to my family and friends, but I just don’t know what I am. I’m still very young, and I’ve never really given myself a label for my sexuality. The only thing my friends know is that I’m not heterosexual. Should I just go with that for the rest of my life? “Not heterosexual”?

I’ve been thinking I’m aro or ace But at the same time I think women are pretty so I might be lesbian But then there is a very specific type of men that I find pretty so I might be bi Ugh I have no idea 😖

I’m a girl (at the moment- I’m struggling to figure out if I’m non-binary or not), and in-between sapiosexual and pansexual, because sapiosexual is liking people based on their intelligence, and pansexual is liking girls, boys, non-binarys, etc., but I like people more on their personality than their intelligence, so I’m not 100% sure what I am.

my sexuality changes all the time where even i am suspiscious of myself now. it went from straight - pan - bi leaning to girls - bi leaning to boys - suddenly not feeling any attraction. it also doesnt help that i am very young. it makes me wonder whether im really a part of the community of just "following the trend" (which should not even be a trend AT ALL)

Thanks so much for this video it helped me to realize that I am Bisexual/pansexual

I'm nonbinary and omnisexual! thank you for helping me find out im demisexual too!

I’ve been stuck at the “attraction” thing. I don’t know if i feel that or not (=if I think that the person is aesthetically good looking or I feel attracted to them)🤷‍♀️

heyyy I keep scrolling through videos because I’m struggling with finding out my sexuality. I’m a Christian cis female and have kept switching between bi, straight and ace. A big part of my attractions are that I’m not sure whether it’s platonic or romantic. I say that because I’m a shy person and whenever anyone gives me attention, I automatically go to thinking I have a crush on them.

I am also demi I realized that I was because after looking at the definition I realized I was also demi.

This video really helps thanks.

I'm a bicurious ace. I've only been romantically attracted to men up until now but I might've had a crush on a girl before. I definitely want to try experimenting but societal norms in my country do not allow people to be open about their sexuality or gender identity which makes it difficult even to figure out whom to be with.

I first suspected that I'm ace when I was 16. Five years on that label hasn't changed at all, but I still haven't quite figured out my romantic orientation! Probably leaning towards arospec, but haven't found the one label that resonates yet.

I personally am unsure at the moment i do know I’m bisexual but I might be more than just that so I’m just going with the flow lol. Love ya’ll

I am lesbian and I have recently told my friends and watching your videos have really helped me out through this and one of friends is bisexual but idk how to come out to my parents

I watched an anime which at first i liked but didn’t notice the meaning. Turns out whether intentional or not, it was about finding out your sexuality. I think thats pretty cool :)

Pride is not the opposite of shame, but it's source. True humility is the only antidote to shame.

This will help me so much!

*Even more puzzling* Anyway yes I actually really need this video and I am going to finish watching it now Hm... Very interesting I shall now spiral even deeper into questioning

It didn’t take me long to figure out I was a pansexual, though my real issue is my sexual orientation. I’ve kinda been wondering if I was was just more masculine at time and more feminine at times , or if I was a Demigirl.

How I found about mine was kinda difficult. I never really had a crush on anyone. My friends would ship me with other boys due to me not liking any boy. So then I figured out that I’m ase but I have catholic parents so I won’t come out for a very long time..

I'm just rocking default settings rn.

So, I go to full time online school and we have this group my teacher made. One of them is named (let’s just say her name is Maya). Maya is a very sweet girl (my bestie we were getting to know each other at the time)and she needed support bc she has gon through a lot. One time in our friend groups chat idk why but I just said “LGBTQ+ RIGHTSSSSS!!!!!” And they were like yassss and my other friend told me she is LGBTQ+ (I’m still getting to know her) and me and Maya told each other we are questioning...XD

I think I'm bi and I clicked on this just to make sure I already know and implement the first two points as well as self reflection as a sub for experimenting (because I can't for now) so I still think I'm bi

What if you are already in a relationship and you are wondering if you are bisexual or not? Is there anyway for me to find out?

I am a girl I'm only twelve years old and I have a haircut like a 'boy' and everybody is like are you transgender and stuff and I'm not really sure about my sexuality so I'm really confused but your videos help so much . Thank you ❤❤

I have a question, if i only feel attraction to woman(demigirl,….) and nonbinary(agender,gender neutral,….)then wut sexuality label should i use?🌝thank youuuu

Ok I’m thirteen and ideas about how to “explore” that stuff because im super scared for multiple reasons

I say to my friends that im pan but in reality I'm not really sure, When I see a guy I get attracted but sometimes I don't and its the same with girls, But I'm very sure I like femboys or tomboys, I also more like romantic attraction first before sexuality attraction, I don't talk about this with my mother for my mom's not homo but my sister went the wrong path and more chosen her gf than family so my mom doesn't want me to go the same path, I'm still young and trying to find out my own flag so I think this was a bit of a help, Thank you

Ik this is completely off topic but how should I come out to my mom that I’m lesbian she always talks about me with guys and I get worried she won’t support

HELP I GOT THE “GAY TEST” AD UNDER THE VIDEO ITS PERFECT-💀✋

I’ve just gotten to the point now that I don’t care, I’m probably somewhere on the ace/aro spectrum but that could change. As I’m a trans guy in a predominantly female space as I go to a co-Ed Sixth form attached to an ‘all girls’ school. Meaning I’m not around many other masculine presenting people.

Can you please answer me? If I liked a girl before and a boy am I bisexual?

Thank you 💓☺️

Hey Y'all, I need help. So I am a girl who likes mostly girls, and have had a couple crushes on guys. I don't think I really have a preference for a gender I just feel attracted to someone without thinking about gender.... Any suggestions for a label?

“My general audience age is *11 to 12* to like early 20’s” KZfaq polices: “wait that’s illegal”

Im still trying to find out if im bi or les.thanks though!

If am bi and trans what does that mean?

i know my sexuality, its uranicromantic and heterosexual, but i am still questioning if i'm polyamorous. the only reason i'm questioning is cause i have a sort of obsession i guess? to 2 characters. i pretend that im dating them ig? (i dont own them, btw! im just a simp) and they're from the same show, so ofc i have seen nsfw (sometimes unwillingly) of them together, yet it doesnt bother me as long as i get to both simp for them its sorta weird

I started middle school and I didn’t really think of who I liked basically but I saw this boy and I felt something and I don’t know what to do

I'm 14 and even though I have doupted myself in the recent years, I'm noqw a 100% sure that I'm a cis and a hetero, so yeah, cool video for people who have their own doupts or want to know a bit more!

Wow this is helpful

i am pretty sure i am pansexual i was confused for a bit thinking i was bisexual now all i have to do is come out to my parents. i also have a story about how i told my best friend who is a girl me being also a girl that i had feelings for her she then avoided me for a day then came up to me after and asked if we were still friends. to that i said yes just in case but also because were friends.

My friend is having a hard time going through changing their sexual identity(Female to Male) Lorenzo please reply what I can do to help them get through this and I feel bad for them because I know they are having a hard time getting use to it and making friends so if anyone can reply that would help me and them a lot thank you