The Twilight dilemma! 😂

samee, im still looking at names tho, but we've never really had to make a choice

@Maya Loza-Terrill I’m only a child ;-; I’ll ask my parents when I go to a new school next year

@Maya Loza-Terrill non-binary is not a sexuality its you being your truest self.

@Maya Loza-Terrill oh ok!

Thx i feel like this will work for me😊

I'm gonna try this lol thank you :))

Thank you, this helped me a lot :)

This actually helped thanks

Thank you for suggesting this! It’s probably annoying getting comments so long from when you commented but, uh- Just wanted to thank you.

I go by ash btw

Love the name 😘

Ash works

Nice.

:0 that's my name too

Aye! That’s one of my siblings names as their name and pronouns change. Mine is Kai😅

oooo Robin is a great one too! I once knew a couple (a married hetero couple), and they were BOTH named Robin! What are the odds!

@@eijirokirishima372 one of my friend’s name is kai! that’s a pretty cool name

My mom is cishet and her name is Robin lmao

@@maybeiwasboring1389 thanks

Hey look at Envy, being the absolute valid-est enby they can be! 😎

Go by your real name

Envy? ENVY- I’m am envying that name

Same, my Mum swore up and down that she was an ally until i came out, then she showed Her true colours. I hope that your parents will change their mind soon. P.S Envy is a really cool name!

i hate when people say they're supportive.. BUT... it's so annoying just admit you're homophobic/transphobic :/

True tho

Or they make up their own names (I did that, my name is Envon)

@@ares.peralta thats cool

also just birds

I know someone named Teabag

Ahhhhh! What perfect timing!!!

Same :)

same here

i mean... think of random words and write them. it's surprising and kinda weird how many sound like cool names

Sameee

I'm sure it will be okay and I wish you lots of luck with your cool new name Rain!

Love your name! I'm sorry people don't listen to you, that's really annoying😫

That really sucks Rain, I’m sorry :( I hope people start listening to you.

Well I wish you luck, my good pal Rain!

aghhhh samee im 12 so even if i felt safe to come out nobody would trust a 12 yr old also my family are christians and so is my school and theyre all just generally scary... i came out to my bestfriend and they were like "coooool literally same" and i was like 👀👄👀

So ppl say enby ppl don't exists... *but I found this in the closet*

If you would like to try a name out, I have a tip! So I use Duolingo to try to learn a language and I get SPAMMED with emails on a daily basis of Duo telling me to study Italian. I changed my name to Sage in the app and now I get emails with: "Hi Sage! Got 5 minutes? Time for a tiny Italian lesson!" all the time and if you're trying out a new name I think that could really help

same

@@ashnscar21 I’m in the closet as well and sadly I chose to stay in the closet cause I’m in an African American family and of course they don’t support the lgbtq family

@@Im_alivexx

That's honestly a really cool name!

@@sage9653 thank you! I like the name Sage too!!

@@mochi__26 thank you :)

I was named after a noun at birth lol

We call my little brother bean lmao

Salami is the perfect gender-neutral name. You could be Sal/Al some days, Ami others, or just Salami. It’s genius!

OH NOO

Nooooooooo I've got gum in my mouth right now I don't want to swallow it D:

NOO

did you even get to experience what it feels like to chew 5 gum??!??

NOOOO

They're all male names. Not non-binary. I'm really sorry

@@marioluigi9599 And now tell me, who the hell cares?

@@sorren8591 I'm just saying it's important to know the difference especially since non-binary people are a marginalized group. So we should do our best to "big up" non-binary and not confuse people by saying "everything is non-binary" or things like that Of course you can go by whatever name you want to. If you like those male names and you are comfortable with them as a non-binary person, then you should wear them proudly. Nobody says you HAVE TO use non-binary names at all. Again, it's just important to know the difference 👍🙂

@@marioluigi9599 Oh okay, thanks for informing me :0

@@sorren8591 You're welcome, love you 🙂❤️

Idk whether I'm non-binary or demigirl 🙃

Ya, I'm still going through the phases, where I try to find out if I am non binary, demigirl, or just girl in general

I on the other hand am also named Ashley but....I’m a demiboy so the name feels too feminine for me and I don’t like going by ash so I’m just probably going to call myself ether sock, toaster, mustard, rock, bird, green, moss, orange peal, or pockets/pocket lint. Edit: I’m kinda liking pockets now that I hear it...

@@monaalvarez those names are super cool though

@@pourmeaglassofmalkk lmao I chose moss

Blau als Name, Farbe, blau sein oder blau machen.. das kann nur die deutsche Sprache xD Bin zwar nicht geoutet, aber mein Non- Binary Name ist Luan :)

@@luan6833 OH I love your name! It's beautiful :D

😂 geil 👌

You're blue dabedee dabedaaaa

😮thats brilliant i am german and america i can use german name

you are a *treen*

Very earthy and beautiful!

That's such a cool name

I am also a nonbinary teen :) I am currently going by Arson tho I don't think it is the one I want to use anymore :(

Yes, I'm french too, I know the struggle 😔 Especially since names that sound the same for boys and girls aren't written the same way (Like Gabriel / Gabrielle or Daniel / Danielle...) WHY DO WE HAVE TO PUT A GENDER ON EVERYTHING, IT SUCKS 😭

Hey, I'm also French! Tho I'm a trans guy, my name is Alix and it's a neutral name :)

@@alixkun9920 Alix, it's so cool!

@@pren0mn0m91 trois français qui se répondent en anglais XD

In french, you can say féminin or féminine, which are male and female, and I think it's ridiculous

Named after a noun, too 🤚

What a great idea! Really gender neutral! Is the "i" pronounced like "e" or "i"?

@@marioluigi9599 its pronounced like e. Like “mor-e”

@@tk-ol6iv omg that's so cute😃🤗

i did the same thing-- but i go by multiple names, so mori is just one of them--

wait this is actually genius- it’s short, gender neutral, has a _~profound meaning~_ and helps you remember unus annus

I go by Ash too my friends call me that but I'm looking at some other names.

That's appropriate because he's a demi-boy, but it's not actually a truly non-binary name - it's masculine

@@marioluigi9599 It's gender neutral. I've heard of a few girls named Kai.

what a coincidence, I'm a demiboy and I'm named Kai. HmMmm

Sameeee here naming characters are a pain

@@avealex28 Ikr lol

Sam is a very typical unisex name. It's not gender neutral, sorry. The video was wrong

Stop hating💕💛💙 hun, it doesn't have to be what you want

Definitely go for Salem. I like that name. Noah is an established male name and being non-binary we wanna stay away from anything male or female

@@marioluigi9599 Really doesn't matter whether it's technically male or female, in my opinion. As long as whoever bears the name likes it, it's a good name, regardless of gender :)

@@fjakjcwjcjjwjcch this is a video about non-binary names

@@marioluigi9599 any name can be nonbinary it doesnt have to be a made up one or a noun. Telling someone they're name leans too much towards male or female is it's own form of invalidation. Please refrain from doing so its quite disrespectful. Unisex names and typically gendered names can be used by nonbinary people let's not cause discord in one of our few safe spaces😊

@@marioluigi9599 I'm not trying to be rude just trying to explain my point of view. The definition of non binary is basically that it's not exclusive to a system of 2 things (Paraphrasing here) context matters and in the context of name someone can view a name as "nonbinary" like I said before let's not be mean to each other I just want to have a meaningful conversation. Saying unisex isnt nonbinary makes no sense because in this context we're trying to make it so it's not apparent if your a girl or boy yknow? So if it's a name widely used by both girls and boy it makes sense to say it isnt bound to either gender thus nonbinary.

That's not non-binary. It's unisex nowadays ...but I'm pretty sure it was historically male only... because it means wood cutter. Non-binary is things like Bean, pebble or Shadow.

@@marioluigi9599 I strongly disagree. There is not any real names that are specifically non binary. People could use a more masculine or feminine name, but the person is still non binary. Not all embys choose a noun as a name.

@@squaredonut3250 Of course there are real non-binary names. Do your research. Some people on this comments section have non-binary names. Stop invalidating their names! In a society where many people see non-binary as not even real and as "just a joke", we should be bigging up non-binary names instead of saying the opposite like "those names don't even matter". You're literally invalidating non-binary names. That's really bad. Like look at what you're doing. You're a real negative force for non-binary people. It's not good to just tell everyone to get a male or female or unisex name instead. And can you stop saying that I'm saying people HAVE TO go with non-binary names? You're a liar, because if you actually read what I'm saying, you will find that I never said that. I said they should go with whatever name suits them best But I also said, let's do our best to big up actual non-binary names to make them more common throughout society. It doesn't mean non-binary people who don't choose to go with one are invalid. But it DOES validate the ones who do

Sawyer Reitz I actually really love that name :0 it very smooth idk how to explain it XD it’s just very fancy haha

yay!! Thanks for sharing!

@@adesso.laurenzo of course! And omg your fast😳 I also love your TikToks and still glad I found you on KZfaq!

@@lovelydread6182 that would be so cool! And thanks for watching the video❤️

@@lovelydread6182 That's actually a unisex name, originally male, but more feminine leaning nowadays. It's not non-binary

@@marioluigi9599 Any name could be unisex even if its traditionally fem or masc

Danggg that’s cool!

That's Unisex Not non-binary

@@marioluigi9599 what so I can't choose the name I want now? Like...I don't owe you anything so wtf.

I love the name Jamie! I really want to use it but one of my friends has the same name lol Was kinda thinking of going by Leaf or something

@@harutobeanintrovert Ok, what's wrong with you? Why do you feel so threatened by what I say? "I can't choose the name I want now?". Excuse me? When did I say that? Of course you can choose whatever name you want "I don't owe you anything". Excuse me? When did I say you owe me something?

@@harutobeanintrovert Like, why are you assuming this crap about me. That I'm a "particular type of person". I'm not. I only let you know that it's a unisex name, and not non-binary that's all. Doesn't mean you can't use it, does it? Like, a pear is a pear. It's not an apple is it? Doesn't mean you can't eat it, does it? Of course you can eat either one! And I never said you can't. All I said was, don't make the mistake of calling the pear an apple. That's literally all I'm saying. So don't be a Muppet. You're literally just assuming I wanna attack you and so you're being rude to me about it, for no reason. That's out of order

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bread sounds like a really cool name! just use whatever makes you feel comfortable

Gender neutral, 3-letter names or any noun. That's basically what all enby's go by! 😂

@@alexisbroadwaylove8625 I’m Kai...you called me out in that one😅 and honestly, enbies go by gender neutral, ANY 3 letters and nouns. Any noun.

I’m starting to go by Rain...but my other option was Ace 😂

no shame here I wanna name myself Bean

That’s a cool name :)

@@peyton7527 Well it's a cute name... Unfortunately, it's pretty feminine. Hardly even unisex nowadays. And certainly not non-binary

@@marioluigi9599 enby names do not have to be nouns or fall into a certain category. What matters is choosing a name that you feel good about. Non-binary people don't owe you androgyny.

@@peyton7527 What are you talking about Annabel? Why would I want them to be androgynous??? Most non-binary people actually don't present androgynous, you know! And as I say, you can take any name you want. What I'm saying is, you shouldn't expect people to call you by they/them pronouns if you're called JoJo or Annabel. The reality is 99% of people will just call you a she. And I'm sure you know I'm right Now on the other hand, actual non-binary names, WHICH WE SHOULD ACTUALLY BE PROMOTING will certainly make people think twice about your pronouns, because they're not feminised or masculinised names. They are truly gender free. That's the wonderful thing about them. L

@@marioluigi9599 I am really really sorry if I offended you. The reason why I said nb ppl don't owe you androgyny is bc you were criticizing ppls names bc they were too masculine or feminine, or "not actually non-binary. It made me wrongly think that you were someone who thought that nb people had to be androgynous. I am sorry that I assumed that. the reason I go by Annabel is bc I am still in the closet. I am still trying to accept myself. Also I haven't found a name that fits me yet. If i told ppl to use they/them pronouns for me, while still going by annabel, most would try to respect that (at least that is the case for me). Jojo, to me is fairly gender neutral and i hope that everyone would try to respect their name and pronouns. I do agree we should be promoting and validating names that aren't viewed as real names (sock, glass, etc.). These names are more agender/ gender free which is great. the thing I don't like is how you are saying that certain names aren't enby. To me, it feels like you are invalidating someone's name.

I know this is a month old, but a name suggestion would be Marée-Lunaire [Mar/Lune for short?] Its Lunar Tide in French! Or Harmaku, which is derived from Harmaa Kuu [Grey Moon in Finnish]

@@teaspyllz3936 oh my God I love the name Marée-Lunaire, thats the gosh dang prettiest name

That's great. What's your non-binary name? ☺️🙂🙂

@@marioluigi9599 I have been thinking of having a femenine and a masculine name. My birth name is Leslie Tamara, but I use more often the name Tamara. So I want to change Leslie for Leroy. Then I would be Leroy Tamara Maybe it's not a good idea, but I'm still trying

@@wcml4961 ooh cool! Are you still going by that?(haha, I know it’s like 6 months after you posted this comment)

Also Becca is my dead name

@@BECCA-bp2vn ah so we are kind of the same KZfaq wise. My name that I like is Ollie but I am in the closet so I have to have my deadname as my username

@@SticktheTwig yeah

Ayyy another nb Alex! I picked Alex for myself

@@alexdoorn234 ok, just remember guys, that's unisex. Not non-binary

Raine is a feminine name, not really non-binary, sorry

@@marioluigi9599 well i personally like it, and don't really care about the gender assigned to it

I think its an amazing name, it matters more that it feels right to you than the fact that its more masculine or feminine.

@@moxthecat787 That's fine. You should go with whatever name suits you the best. ...but I'm just saying, this video is supposed to be about actual non-binary names

@@squaredonut3250 Thank you!

cricket is fricking adorable

freak

I think wren is a nice name

I love Elliot :)

really late but have you chosen yet?

@@eternalendurance Ah! Yep, I've decided to go with something different- "Near" ! ^^

@@cazererrah dang thats cool 👍

you do you

I love the name Grey!

and I'm grateful that the content is helpful!

@@adesso.laurenzo I really like it too, thank you :)

Grey is good and non-binary Greyson is masculine, sorry

hi gale! im agender, aromantic and bisexual and i just go by dia :)

@@nadeezn hiya

@@nadeezn I really like your name!

The only one out of those that's non-binary is Phoenix Piper is entirely female, Kai is entirely male, and Ash, Alex and Sam are unisex.

I think they're all great names! It doesn't matter if its more feminine or masculine, it matters if it fits you, and you feel good about it! So please stop commenting negative things Mario Luigi.

Hey! If they're open for more suggestions, I'd be happy to help!

yayyy! congrats!

@@adesso.laurenzo :o you replied

You're so welcome!

Totally feminine name though

That's awesome! My parents named me Kaya at birth, but I'm currently questioning genderfluid. I like my name a lot though and I wasn't sure I wanted to change it, but makes me feel more confident about keeping it. Glad someone else likes the name too :D

I searched for a bit and have some options for you. Mavis Morgan Maple Mango Marley Marvel Magic Music Makoto Mal Marin Merle Moon Also included a few nouns, as it is basically enby tradition ;D Hope I could help you a bit

@@PhoenixAusten yo that’s so nice that you went out fo your way for me, i’ve already found my name it’s Mars. i feel so bad that you went out of your way for nothing, im sorry. but thank you so so much!

@@mars8278 I'm happy that you found your name and no need to apologize, really. Your question made me actually realize that I could just make a whole list of name suggestions for every letter.

@@PhoenixAusten thank you! thats a good idea

I do like that my name, Cinders, came to me way, way, waaay before I realised I was Genderqueer myself though hah

I love both of those!

Ah yes, a fander and what a coincidence I named myself virgil from Sanders sides! Woo

If you are non-binary, you should stay away from gendered names such as those. Otherwise people might make fun of you, like you're being just fake and not actually non-binary

Kai is Hawaiian meaning Ocean and also Welsh from "Caius". Yes, the name is often considered unisex, but the vast majority of people with that name are actually male. So it's actually a unisex and male-leaning name, not non-binary, despite being used by so many non-binary people

@@marioluigi9599 ok you've replied to me twice now and i'd prefer if you could kindly stop telling me that Kai is a male name. I am well aware of this and this just brings me down because I know that my mom thinks i'm too young to even be non-binary. So if you would find something else to do, it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

@@-Songbirdd- Ok well I would appreciate it if you don't put false words into my mouth. I never said it was a male name, did I? If you actually go and read what I said, you will find that I said it's a UNISEX name. So there's no reason to lie about what I said. That's just really disingenuous and I would appreciate it greatly if you didn't lie about my words. Kai is definitely a unisex name. What I said was that it's MALE-LEANING. This means that it's PREDOMINANTLY used by males only. And if you check the statistics for babies who are given that name, I think you'll find I'm right and it's predominantly given to male babies. That's just the facts about that name

@@-Songbirdd- That doesn't mean it's a male only name. In fact, it's considered unisex because some girls are also called Kai, but not many. In any case, it's NOT a non-binary name. Non-binary names HAVE NO ASSOCIATION TO MALE OR FEMALE. "Kai" does. That's why it's not a non-binary name. And I'm not telling you this to "hurt" you or whatever ridiculous thing you think I'm doing here. I'm telling you this just to let you know the TRUTH about the name, that it's NOT a non-binary name, but actually UNISEX.

@@-Songbirdd- Hope that helped and just for your information, REAL non-binary names are names like, Bean, Glass, Shadow, sand, Pegasus, Pikachu, Peas, Bread etc. Anything like that, which has no connotations to male or female. Very often they tend to be food names. Of course, if you want to be called Kai, that's fine. You can have a unisex name if you want to, even if you are non-binary. Just don't make the mistake of calling it a "non-binary name" when it's not

Male name

@@marioluigi9599 no it's unisex look it up for yourself also mind your business

@@daspooky1809 Okay, maybe it is... But in either case,.it's definitely not non-binary I would say it's unisex, masculine-leaning

@@daspooky1809 also, there's no need to be rude. You're the one who told your name off to the public. I'm a member of the public simply responding to it. No need to loss your head over it

@@marioluigi9599 you literally tried to invalidate me how am I the rude one?

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@gendernotfound _ I am actually-