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1. Courts you from the very beginning 2. Plans ahead like a boss 3. He's responsive to your needs and desires 4. He plays with you (teasing, challenging, laughing) 5. He treats you like his partner in shine 6. He wants to share you with his world

Omg!!! I’ve hit the jackpot. I am a widow and he is a widower. We found each other and sparks flew!! After three months he shows all these signs. We’re a lucky couple with another chance for love

Never dated a guy that ticked all of these until now. We haven't been together super long but we are so well suited to each other ❤️

🥺🥺🥺 this video just saved me. I thought my boyfriend wasn't emotionally invested in me but after i watched it. My new statement is " my boyfriend is emotionally invested, I just didn't know how men show it. He checked all the boxes expect shine i need more clarity. I have an amazing partner. Not understanding how men are, almost cost me a great relationship. I thought me and him weren't connecting

My now fiance said that after each of our dates in the beginning of our relationship his face hurt from laughing so much. I am so proud of that ❤ I'm not exceptionally funny, he actually is, but we had FUN ❤🥰

I'm in my second year of uni and I see a lot of my classmates rushing to get into a relationship. I currently don't want to go through a relationship because of trauma I'm healing from and the guys I see around me are just not it. After seeing this video, I realized I am right for waiting for a man that would treat me right and that I'm willing to give that love and respect back. Thank you so much

Great positive video Mat - thanks 😀 Love that shirt on you!!!

Great video and this is a very helpful overall Matt

Very helpful video. Thanks, Mat! 😊

Such a refreshing take. You’re awesome Matt!

Thank you very much…. You do such a great job on the videos. Much appreciated. ❤

Partner in shine - this is so beautiful, Mat.

This was a GREAT VIDEO

ONE OF YOUR BEST VIDEOS! LOVE YOUR VIDEOS ❤️THANK YOU

I’ve been following your channel because I enjoy your content and delivery. Thank you for that. Now to hear your an Austinite too, makes me an even bigger fan!

When you said you take your blender outside to the garage I thought awwwwwwww

Thank you for sharing this and i love your hair!!! Looks so soft and smooth. Perhaps you could share hair tips next time 😄

Love this video Mat❤

Everything u mentioned here is happening for me right now, thanku for the confirmation. However ,as for the #1: sign we both don't believe in sharing everything on social media.. It's better 2 keep some things private.

Your advice on surrendering to his plan for us was so life changing for me. Thank you

I love the office , so funny Mat. Ps. You look so happy ☺

This is so wholesome and pure! I’ve just subscribed. Thank you so much for this beautiful, positive, optimistic content 🥹🙏✨

This video is amazing

Brilliantly helpful video.. I’ve bern badly hurt in the past and tend to be insecure, but by watching Matt’s videos this has helped me to understand myself better, and thereby I’m more able to understand relations more. My boyfriend is not a romantic person (just occasionally!) but he’s ticked all the boxes in your video and this has really encouraged me as it’s helped me to see and understand the love my boyfriend has for me, and I for him! Thanks Matt.

I needed this intel on pretty much right on signs a guy is invested in us ladies. We don't want to be a secret or a side piece. Awesome video. Thank you!!

Taking a blender out into the garage in the morning 😭 That says a lot 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

You look great Mat!!!❤️

Thank you for sharing these tips. It really helps to see things from a guys perspective instead of what we (women) always think snd want.

What a helpful vídeo! Thank you SO much Mat 🌼!

I think this video is super helpful, both for realizing that "he's just not that into you", but also for realizing that he IS, particularly when you're dating one of the no-emotion-talk specimens. When my bf and I started dating, I used to wonder why I felt so secure and sure that he liked me and was all in even though he never said it and wasn't doing any of the "romcom courting behaviors" like buying flowers or sweet talking or singing underneath my window at night. :D Turns out he ticked all the boxes on this list and I must have subconsciously felt it.

Thanks Matt.

Thanks Mat I tend to watch these now for the flood of old happy memories but turned sad for awhile but you say so many old funny memories for me and well if it wasnt for you I wouldnt of meet that diamond and helped me to create those funny moments.especially when I get the uh ha moments and the ooops is that how that happened and I start laughing about it and then it hits the realisation how I ended up with the first moC kids ooops haha. That part about the blender I could help but burst out laughing it made me think of something that David used to do before he passed but the silly thing forgot to shut the door and woke me anyway haha. Thanks I needed these. Mat whats with men doing the whole 10 year plan half way through a first date all about? you tell us not to do it but the guy I'm now with and yes I am 5 weeks away from being his wife and couldn't be happier dispite this little flaw because I over looked it because I found the splitting resemblance in personality like I adored with my first diamond and well he was also like a little school boy when I first met him like my first diamond but I agreed to a first date because I loved it and it made me smile but when I first meet him the first date was going well then half way through he started the whole 5 and 10 year plan and started to ask me mine but like I told him I don't plan ahead I take a second by second and not day by day. Well 3 years later and well I still get the butterflies like I used to get with the first but what's with the 5 and 20 year life plan or the resume as you called it on a first date. Would you call it a red flag or keep over looking it

Great videos always enjoy listening to you and learn Just wanted to shoot a compliment for your hair I have not seen your videos for a while and the long hair really suits you ❣️

Wow....well that was really interesting.... Nice. Job.

I have enjoyed you. I guess I was too busy at work to notice your hair. Wow! Two thumbs way up!!!!!

Thank you so much sir for this Vdo. Except the last point almost everything matched. So I think and hope he is feeling the same way as I am feeling for him. Got hurt before so I am scared now.

I always love 💘 your videos. I always watch till the end even though you number them. You are the best. You don't make me wait to know and I watch till the end.

Loving the long hair 😍

You’re a good egg, Charlie Brown. Pray my daughter finds a a keeper like you! 💙

Thank you!

OMG I have really hit the jackpot with my man. He is great. I love him very much❤❤❤❤

YOU!!! Such a sweetheart! Tajw the blender in the garage! Awe...I'm melting right now. 😊

Yes the Backstreet Boys are touring this year 😊

4:40 + love this!

~Nice list!!!~

U good good advise

This makes me full great. He’s already shared things about me with his boss, co worker, sister, kids… everyone in his world knows about me.

Great video, thank you! Unfortunately, none of these lol

Thank you

Please make more.

I'm invested in your hair.

Thank you so much for the truth

Thanks. You are cool

We've got most of the signs. ❤❤

Everything except #3 and that's what led to the breakup.....still hurts because he was great otherwise...he just attended to his friend's emotional needs that he didn't have any room for mine.

Matt I used to do that too. Garage blender when my then, husband was sleeping in

Well, we knew about one another in high jr. & sr high school a long time ago, exchanging glances. Asked for my number at class reunion. I took his, waiting 10 days. Yes. Been seeing each other a few months. Now he’s invited me to Super Bowl Sunday party at a close friends couple’s home w/30 people to meet. I’m very deeply touched & excited. We are in 60’s, but life does not end there. He is Avoidance type, me a bit anxious. This will be fun!

Don't cut your hair I love it just be you 🥰❤️

Those are very interesting signs. I was so guarded from being hurt in past relationships that in my last relationship I missed those signs. We dated for roughly a year. Just as I felt myself opening up and letting myself trust him, he did an about face. He said he wanted to date other women. He was already on dating sites. I really liked him.

How sweet, making sure there's no noise in the morning to allow her to sleep. I've been married for 35 years, my husband makes so much noise in the morning, sometimes I have to get up and growl at him and even then he'll continue to be loud and annoying.

All these happened in my last relationship of 10 months and then out of no where broke things off saying he wasn’t in it

I’m happy to have all of those positive signs from my man. We are engaged after only four months and are currently living together. He is 12 years younger than me and he doesn’t think about it or care. I do look young for my age but deep down I’m concerned as I’m not as firm as he is. Am I wrong to worry?

You look very nice with the long hair 👍

The man I have been seeing for 6 weeks now has done all but #1. Although it has been a short time and we may be older than some others on here. We are both 54. We both have 2 grown daughters and it has been 2 years since his divorce after 26yrs of marriage and it has been 2 years since my last relationship of 6 years. We have agreed that we are only going to date each other and are going to take it slow. Neither of us want to marry again at this point. GOOD? 😇

Matt you look so handsome Whatever you're doing it's working really well

100% ..😂😂😂...Thank You

I had this at the start but we had three breaks last one after my birthday we broke up now I am healing

The thingns you mentiobed are just normal things. I expect them from every mam I start dating. It is not emitional investmentt. It is just being polite, nice, interested in somebody. I think being emitionally involved means much more.

I was with my boyfriend for two years then he became my husband August 19th

Why did you go from lawyer to love coach I think you would be great at both from oregon thanks again

I have a guy that did all of these, but has suddenly disappeared completely. He paid attention to everything I said, he noticed the small things, he teased me all the time, shared his daughter that passed away with me, all the little things, now he’s just gone

If he plans but doesn't follow through then doesn't feel safe

Shit, these are good and it looks like my partner isn’t doing anything on the list, and we’ve been together for 2 years. But seeing this all on someone else though. Yay confusion

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.

I checked all except No. 1 ... ha ha

Covid 19 has stopped all of the dating in public. I am 62& he is 67. We have dinner and a movie at my house.

What if he has all the signs yet I'm still scared what would I need to work on to not be scared I really care about him and love him I have just been hurt a lot in the past relationships and I don't want to bring that into my current I think I still need time to heal because when i fall I fall hard and fast I don't think I give my heart enough time to catch up with my head

I love your surname Mat 🥰

Mat. Need advice what's with the 5 and 10 year plan half way through the first date ? Just another question are you and Cali busy on the 30th of October

lol...I have not watched you in a while. #MatShaffer I actually did not recognize you with the 'HAIR".

He doesn't , have a big family, his parents pass away but he wants to get to know my family. His only child, he planned everything for that I am his Queen, soulmate, his everything, & he would take bullets for me when I'm in danger. It's sweet, but at the same time, I feel like that only happens in movies. Sometime I just amazed hearing all he wants to plan for us in the future.

Aside from the great video, it's a shame that a man should have such gorgeous curly/wavy hair; especially when I must work so hard to get the same affect. Would love to run my fingers through hair like that! 🙂

Question: How do go make your curls soo nice… lol… just jk :p thanks for the great video!

I’ve been single & divorced for a while now (8 years now) I dated a guy for about a year in the middle there . I want to know how to make conversation with a guy that isn’t dumb or just idle chat. Do guys like women that approach them first ??

I got 5/6 number 1 he doesn't want it especially social media big NO

Hi i have a question. Does this apply for men over 40? I get the impression that in most cases, men will only invest in you if they want children and you are young enough to have them. Could you talk about older people please, Im sure it must be different. Thanks.

You want to listen to a friendly smiling lawyer for advice 😃

Most of these signs I see in the guy I've been dating he's 65 years old and has been married three times and he is very very gun shy at this moment

How do u know if he's who he says he is and not a scammer

We're at 2nd point... But there's so many complications... I feel confused myself. And idk what to do

So what happens if after you guys broke and reconnected and are wanting to reestablish this type of emotional connection?

Mat,what does it mean when a man I am dating says to lower my expectations?

What are the best qualities to mention on a dating app?

Does he have to tick all boxes?

What if you're long distance and over 50?

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He's doing all the signs except fo the no.1. What can i do about it?

I've been talking to this guy for a week now and he shows most of these signs. Is that a good thing or is he kind of love bombing me

How about if he doesn't give you money but he always said if you need anything please let me know asap. He messages every morning and after he closed at work he called but sometimes he said he's busy schedule but he makes time to see each other once in a week