6 Signs Someone Fakes Being OK

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Psych2Go

Psych2Go

Күн бұрын

When you hear the word "Depression", do you automatically think of a downturned face or a person sitting alone in the corner crying? If only it were that obvious all the time to see that something is seriously wrong. Unfortunately, it’s not that simple. The mask may be well crafted… but it’s still a mask and they may well need your compassion and understanding. So here are a few common signs someone is faking it.
What about you? Are you doing okay? We also made a video on the signs you're NOT actually "I'm Fine": • 7 Signs You're Not Act...
Writer: Syazwana Amirah
Script Editor: Denise Ding
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera / amandasilvera
Animator: Thư Nguyễn Đoan (new animator)
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Пікірлер: 6 100
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 9 ай бұрын
What does depression mean to you? Share your story here!
@gaelrodregez321
@gaelrodregez321 9 ай бұрын
Ok but why omori
@kianpierce8847
@kianpierce8847 9 ай бұрын
What if you don’t KNOW if your okay. Like you feel sad constantly but it goes away every time you hang out with people special to you. Oh shit I just saw number 3 nvm that’s totally me
@AleksaNestor-py7ww
@AleksaNestor-py7ww 9 ай бұрын
I dont have depression
@Idkanynames6
@Idkanynames6 9 ай бұрын
U helped me a lot to find out who I am
@xuxugamer9670
@xuxugamer9670 9 ай бұрын
I don't know if I have depression but I felt something while wating this video...
@_yuuki_7367
@_yuuki_7367 2 жыл бұрын
"Depression is like living in a body that fights to SURVIVE with a mind that tries to DIE."
@PA78962
@PA78962 2 жыл бұрын
👏yes! True!
@Je11keng
@Je11keng 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Such a good quote!
@handhelder823
@handhelder823 2 жыл бұрын
Weight down by emptiness is my experience with it
@noobio2129
@noobio2129 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds about right
@justjames4
@justjames4 2 жыл бұрын
Great insight. The references to Omori remind me of how great of a story that is that involves someone who is depressed.
@keymash
@keymash 2 жыл бұрын
oyasumi
@angelablacksmith9653
@angelablacksmith9653 2 жыл бұрын
Nature is the best medicine kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ashmgs5-0K3dgnU.html
@Sunny00002
@Sunny00002 2 жыл бұрын
AYO THE PIZZA HERE
@kelismaincharacter4925
@kelismaincharacter4925 2 жыл бұрын
Can we agree to fill this reply section with only OMORI memes? Close
@hithere6576
@hithere6576 2 жыл бұрын
@@kelismaincharacter4925 your eyes, you'll be here soon
@justadailyhenry
@justadailyhenry 4 ай бұрын
"The mask may be well crafted But its still a mask.. " That hits harder
@VERGIL...-
@VERGIL...- Ай бұрын
Watashi wa L
@autumnsmood
@autumnsmood Ай бұрын
​@@VERGIL...-wth 😂
@Nene_Yashiro_DaikonQueen
@Nene_Yashiro_DaikonQueen 9 ай бұрын
“If you are depressed, if you are anxious. You are not weak You are not crazy You’re not in the main, a machine of broken parts You’re a human being with unmet needs”
@VERGIL...-
@VERGIL...- Ай бұрын
On the outside i may be smiling But deep inside IM L
@spade8094
@spade8094 Ай бұрын
Nah, your a machine
@FaunaFae-kz6zg
@FaunaFae-kz6zg Ай бұрын
It's kind of funny because I once said very recently that I feel like a broken piece of a machine, something that keeps breaking if you don't fix it right
@AbhaDave
@AbhaDave 3 күн бұрын
True.
@signedoutsorry
@signedoutsorry Жыл бұрын
"Everything's a joke, and they see themselves as one too." This one hit home way harder than it should've.
@broihavenoname911
@broihavenoname911 Жыл бұрын
oml i just found sans :O
@Abyss8564
@Abyss8564 Жыл бұрын
Comedians are often depressed huh. I was actually thinking about Sans when they said this.
@nightmare8941
@nightmare8941 Жыл бұрын
@@Abyss8564 sans is actually verified of having depression
@NCSGaming15
@NCSGaming15 Жыл бұрын
@@nightmare8941 well wouldn’t you be too if you knew that your choices ultimately meant nothing and everything you have ever amounted to can be wiped away at the beck and call of some external omnipotent force?
@NCSGaming15
@NCSGaming15 Жыл бұрын
Also dude who made the comment, sorry we took the spotlight off your comment and onto sans, just remember that you aren’t a joke, and that you’re special, k?
@HeyItsJustMaple
@HeyItsJustMaple 2 жыл бұрын
Loved the omori references, the deep lore in the game, the history and everything, that you don't understand anything until the end, the changes between reality and real life, that just one thing can break you... the more you hold it and don't let it free.
@h20dynamoisdawae37
@h20dynamoisdawae37 2 жыл бұрын
Ah... SUNNY... It's just you... I'm glad you came. It's... it's so good to see you. It came to you that day... The day MARI died. When MARI... When MARI fell... You... you couldn't have done it. It was something behind you... wasn't it? You're a good person, SUNNY. I know you're a good person! A good person wouldn't do something like that... After all this time... you've finally come back for me. But... tomorrow... you're going away. H-HOW COULD YOU DO THAT?!?! That's mean, SUNNY. That's so mean! Ah... there's something all around us now. Can you see it, SUNNY? There's no way out of this, is there? Where are you going?! Stop trying to leave me! S-stop it! Stop it! Stop it! Stop it! Stop it! Stop it! Stop it! I don't... want to be... alone... not again. You... can't... leave me... again...
@PenguinNoob
@PenguinNoob 2 жыл бұрын
i think you guys should spoiler some things
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Great catch on the reference!
@everykelmemeiscanon3437
@everykelmemeiscanon3437 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go ye! Also kel supremacy
@gav5148
@gav5148 2 жыл бұрын
@@PenguinNoob yea the omori fandom struggles with spoilers sometimes
@Zephyn
@Zephyn 9 ай бұрын
"I'm tired" has always been my response when people asked me how I'm doing. Very few understood and took a minute to talk, which helps sometimes.
@legendarykk9014
@legendarykk9014 9 ай бұрын
Just realise Sunny had the eye patch at the end of the video. That's some extraordinary detail right there.
@yoxhivmoxhi6653
@yoxhivmoxhi6653 2 жыл бұрын
I love the Omori references, they connect so well with the topic, as mental illness is the main part of the game. 3:04 also could have been Aubrey, who was suffering not only from Mari’s death, but also her father and friends deserting her. She covered up her depression with outbursts towards other people and becoming a delinquent, which matches up with the aggressive humor and being a bully in general!
@Sr._Funnerber
@Sr._Funnerber Жыл бұрын
Aubers with Brasil
@soikiiberi410
@soikiiberi410 Жыл бұрын
the whole omori fandom im part of it too
@soikiiberi410
@soikiiberi410 Жыл бұрын
@Yoxhi *v* Moxhi
@ConvexFX
@ConvexFX Жыл бұрын
@@Sr._Funnerber SEND HIM TO BRASIL
@-basiltheflowerboy-7580
@-basiltheflowerboy-7580 Жыл бұрын
@@Sr._Funnerber AAAA
@mrmechpunch4653
@mrmechpunch4653 11 ай бұрын
Hero: The "perfectionist" Basil: The nervous reclusiveness Kel: The "smiler" Sunny: The cold reclusiveness Aubrey: The person who believes nobody cares (this is it's own type (in my opinion) of depression that is very combative and blamepushing (basically tries to find someone to blame for a situation without being able to truly accept it as it is) honestly Aubrey as a whole is a very interesting character) (Honestly Omori doesn't make the tragedy the spotlight point and rather focuses on the current mindset of a person faced with such a situation and how the reaction can differ from each person)
@mariposa7013
@mariposa7013 10 ай бұрын
Mari: 💀💀💀
@sn_nuy
@sn_nuy 10 ай бұрын
@@mariposa7013 the no longer available one
@ConvexFX
@ConvexFX 10 ай бұрын
@@mariposa7013 That's crazy
@boisvert_332
@boisvert_332 10 ай бұрын
This is why I love omori
@NR4-rs9gb
@NR4-rs9gb 9 ай бұрын
I think Mari should be the perfectionist it is even implied in the game that she wanted her recital to be perfect
@jdubb-a-yoo7692
@jdubb-a-yoo7692 Ай бұрын
All I ever wanted was to be listened to....not interrupted, not ridiculed, not blamed or even dismissed. Thats all I wanted...but I don't deserve that.
@blacktan9769
@blacktan9769 Ай бұрын
You do! You deserve everything!
@Osamu_Dazaiii
@Osamu_Dazaiii 15 күн бұрын
I'll hear you out if you still wanna talk about it! And I won't judge!!!
@jacksparow3857
@jacksparow3857 9 ай бұрын
I know it's not healthy to self-diagnose but I might have depression. Most of masking types in the video are the same. I recently found Omori and it made me think a lot, about me, about people, about my feelings and my ways to cope. I'm thankful that you were able to help me open my eyes. People always said that the first step is to acknowledge the problem
@AidenHarteWrites
@AidenHarteWrites 6 ай бұрын
A self diagnosis of depression is pretty valid in my unprofessional opinion, so long as you’re being honest and taking it seriously. Depression isn’t very hard to self diagnose, at least not compared to more complex mental illnesses such as OCD, Bipolar, or Borderline Personality. However if you do believe you have depression, I highly recommend seeking a therapist to help you.
@anabsolutetrashfire1312
@anabsolutetrashfire1312 3 ай бұрын
I have two degrees on the topic, and self diagnosis can be a useful tool that encourages you to seek help. Even if you misdiagnosed yourself, if it gets you to seek help, it's a good thing. Like this video shows, it's not always clear from the outside that something is wrong. Sometimes you are the only one who will know until you go out for help. The other commenter is right though and some things are harder to self-diagnosenthan others, especially personality disorders and things like DDD where altered perception or lack of self-perception to protect oneself stop the person from noting key details.
@Rathenflick
@Rathenflick 2 ай бұрын
if you do (or did as i am seeing this 6 months later) think you have depression you should get therapy because it is truly hard as someone who once had suicidal depression (100% i tried to kms luckily was not depressed enough to try it hard enough) and maybe had depression again a not so long time ago (i am good now... i think) i know it is HARD even if it may not be actual depression and just a self-diagnose it may be something near enough or as bad so most definitely get therapy (truly i hope you already did or you are fine already equally maybe get therapy or talk about it with someone anyways it leaves a mark but this mark can be healed a bit so it doesn't affects you as much)
@808CHAKU
@808CHAKU 2 жыл бұрын
I always say to myself “just cause I’m smiling, doesn’t mean I’m happy”
@PA78962
@PA78962 2 жыл бұрын
True! But I think we all still smile because that's how we're going to be accepted by everyone. 😁😄
@taiga3060
@taiga3060 2 жыл бұрын
“Tired of trying. Sick of crying. Yes, I’m smiling. But inside I’m dying.”
@adamx1314
@adamx1314 2 жыл бұрын
And "if i wait to be happy to smile, then I'll never smile".
@keiron.4612
@keiron.4612 2 жыл бұрын
That's what people don't see how your feeling inside your smiling so everything is great you just smile because that's what people exspect
@11dlwlrma
@11dlwlrma 2 жыл бұрын
@@taiga3060 well we are the same
@aceris5874
@aceris5874 2 жыл бұрын
My mask started crumbling a little more than two years ago. I used to be so good at hiding the pain, now it cracks in little ways everywhere and I hope the wrong people don't notice. But at the same time... I hope the right people do notice.
@samae7319
@samae7319 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like that too, i myself have adhd and i push my feelings away by playing video games, it works for a little and i try to help others as much as i can in both virtual and real world, i have been pointed at recently alot and its been degrading so far ive only talked about this to a single friend of mine, my former girlfriend im glad that she's still there for me even though were not together anymore, im sorry if i made this about myself @Aceris but remember that your not alone in this
@bunsenn5064
@bunsenn5064 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t even try anymore. I lost it long ago. I tend to make it clear by looks alone that I’m not all there.
@isa-gi4wv
@isa-gi4wv 2 жыл бұрын
i feel you, same here :(
@goshu123
@goshu123 2 жыл бұрын
I pUt a maSk witH a SmiLe for HOurs aT a tiMe.
@alexandreaanderson514
@alexandreaanderson514 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@bagellman.
@bagellman. 9 ай бұрын
As someone who has depression, I can confirm that these are indeed mostly true, at least for me. Whenever someone asks me what's wrong, I simply fake a smile and murmur something like "I'm tired" or "I didn't get a lot of sleep last night". Every day, I go to school, fake my smiles and laughter, and then I get home and I have to do the same for my parents and neighbors. In the early mornings, at 12am-3:45am, I let myself sit there in my bed and numbly cry each night. All of my humor is self-deprecating, and my mother finds it slightly concerning. If you see someone with these signs, you don't have to do much. Just give them a smile and see if they need a hug.
@Chillforev-dd9wr
@Chillforev-dd9wr 6 ай бұрын
That’s me except I’m the definition of alone besides my pup I view everyone as the enemy and I view any emotion that I feel is weakness. Never again will someone take advantage of me. I also fake my smiles and laughter. I struggle to get sleep like right now and I don’t see life as worth it anymore.
@LeahRice-fl8lh
@LeahRice-fl8lh 23 күн бұрын
​@@Chillforev-dd9wrThen get help. People care.
@ARCtrooper65
@ARCtrooper65 9 ай бұрын
I hope y'all know that someone out there loves you. Even if you dont know it, or they dont know it. Keep fighting, keep surviving. Y'all a good, real good. Maybe even the best.
@statickitten
@statickitten 2 жыл бұрын
I never realized I fake being okay all the time until I watched this and related to every one. Thank you for for teaching me more about myself
@inkysnaps
@inkysnaps 2 жыл бұрын
If it took a psych2go vid to realise it you really need a hug 😢
@statickitten
@statickitten 2 жыл бұрын
@@inkysnaps I miss hugs ;-;
@chasetoyama8184
@chasetoyama8184 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@NlNDE
@NlNDE 2 жыл бұрын
@@statickitten havent gotten one in 8 years. I really want one, specially when ive struggled with depression for over a year now. Ive hided it and not telling my friends or family about it anymore.
@statickitten
@statickitten 2 жыл бұрын
@@NlNDE Alright we all need to have a group hug
@adri5640
@adri5640 2 жыл бұрын
Hey psych2go are you ok? Your videos are so relatable and help so many people yet I rarely see people asking you if you’re ok.
@Je11keng
@Je11keng 2 жыл бұрын
Its a physcology channel!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
We are not really okay at the moment but we are trying our best! How about you?
@valentintepes8240
@valentintepes8240 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, you're the first one to ask that
@phantasmagorica21
@phantasmagorica21 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go keep on going, i believe in u!! 😄❤️❤️
@soggysatan_
@soggysatan_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go its okay to not be okay. We care about you!
@Halzion_Alpha
@Halzion_Alpha 9 ай бұрын
I hope y'all doing great and well. I'm myself fighting alone (at least in my family and they didn't want to admit that their son is mentally ill) because I have schizoaffective disorder. It's a hard world for me and the more I think the deeper I sink, slowly and surely I'm losing a grasp of reality. I don't know how long I'll be in this world, but, hey, at least I want to leave a good impression Edit: I didn't realize some of the word is rhyming haha
@DS-dc9zh
@DS-dc9zh Ай бұрын
Hey, how are you doing?
@hexxed-ik5dh
@hexxed-ik5dh 9 ай бұрын
I had depression. Nobody really did anything. They asked, they knew, and nothing. They did nothing. I had to fix it with my own hands. From that period of my life, I pushed myself to feel better for myself. Talking to myself in the mirror. Helping people so they don’t go through the same thing I have. I have gotten better. I feel great. I’m happy for moving on, and becoming happier everyday. :)
@JohnSmith-xv2ob
@JohnSmith-xv2ob 17 күн бұрын
Talking to the mirror is such an underrated solution. I went from hating how I look, to actually liking it when I make the effort, and at worst usually being indifferent if I don't.
@KthW
@KthW 2 жыл бұрын
FINALLY AN OMORI REFERENCE I AM SO HAPPY 0:07 Sunny and Basil 0:38 Kel and Hero 1:14 Kel from Headspace and Kel from real world (Kel keeps appearing) 1:48 THAT'S ME! 1:53 Sunny 2:10 Acrophobia 2:13 White Space 2:17 Kel again (Hikikomori Route) 4:55 Hero 5:20 Mari 5:26 FEAR 5:35 Basil 5:41 it's me again 5:50 Free spoilers!
@72FoGGY
@72FoGGY 2 жыл бұрын
Are you behind my back? Or are you just HANGING around?!
@mary75819
@mary75819 2 жыл бұрын
++++++++
@KthW
@KthW 2 жыл бұрын
@@72FoGGY Hanging behind your back
@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa9243
@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa9243 2 жыл бұрын
Kel whitewashed 💀
@Sunny-ci7di
@Sunny-ci7di 2 жыл бұрын
NOmori
@michaelwellen2866
@michaelwellen2866 2 жыл бұрын
"Make everything a joke and thinks of themselves as one too." Ouch, that hit way too close to home.
@justanerd3408
@justanerd3408 2 жыл бұрын
same
@VERGIL...-
@VERGIL...- Ай бұрын
To me that's normal Im the type to joke around whenever i hear the 12th letter of the english alphabet and be like: "NO WAY IS THAT L FROM DEATH NOTE ?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!!!??!??" Helps a lot to cope with feelings of dissatisfaction caused by severe or less severe poverty,which is common in 3rd world countries like at the Balkan peninsula And if ur wondering,yes,poverty can have bad mental effects as you see yourself grow up without things all your friends have and you can get mocked for it as well My parents weren't ever really supportive for my passion in video games and never provided me with such things,whereas my friends did and regularly gamed with each other Yet they had the funds for other things So yes,joking in an incredibly unfunny way and making everything,even myself,a joke,helps me cope as it steers me away from frustrations and rage that are caused and amplified by my dissatisfaction
@cameronstephenson6696
@cameronstephenson6696 9 ай бұрын
this video made me think about my own mental state and made me realise that I use the excuse. I’m tired too much. I want to have very weak depression because I always feel drained and I’m happy on the outside. Normally I act happy happy happy oh let’s go play a game, but I wanna leave my room. Sometimes I just burst out in tears after something tiny thank you for making me think about this also look for these things and others. You are very inspiring to me. What a lovely artist.
@straywolf420
@straywolf420 9 ай бұрын
Everything's gonna be ok Everything's gonna be ok Everything's gonna be ok
@AdiAditii
@AdiAditii 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, buddies ❣️ If someone fakes being okay 1. Their surroundings burn and yet they smile 0:49 2. Constant vague excuses like "I'm busy when invited" 1:54 3. Everything is a joke & they see themselves as one too 2:23 4.Get it all done during the day and then collapse when home 3:33 5. Increased Empathy and desire to help other becuase "they have been there" 4:05 6. When staright up asked what's wrong then again vague excuse like "I'm tired" 4:51 Maybe you can be the help for them Thank you so much for all the works here 💕 psych2go🌱
@Anubonek
@Anubonek 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@cappuccino1389
@cappuccino1389 2 жыл бұрын
How do you type this comment in under a minute?
@sadafsayyada2058
@sadafsayyada2058 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks time traveller🦋😂
@human2733
@human2733 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this was very helpful
@sadafsayyada2058
@sadafsayyada2058 2 жыл бұрын
@@cappuccino1389 bro comment is 1month ago
@elliot8041
@elliot8041 2 жыл бұрын
it makes me very happy to see omori used as a medium for this content, i think its a beautifully crafted game with tons of nuance and relatability in the characters. playing through it reminded me of how i came to terms with some of my own issues, and even refined my view on them a little. thanks for making this great video!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
We are so glad that you enjoyed this animation style!
@oddkiwi3726
@oddkiwi3726 2 жыл бұрын
Same ;)
@oddkiwi3726
@oddkiwi3726 2 жыл бұрын
:)* sorry-
@wanderingpaladin4927
@wanderingpaladin4927 2 жыл бұрын
me too! the game taught me what repression of memories was and helped me realise that i had it
@DarksteelHeart
@DarksteelHeart 2 ай бұрын
Its like an unrelenting gray cloud of fog. Not fear or sadness, just a wave of numbness that pushes the fear, anger, or sadness to a place it doesnt belong, a level it should never reach. A walk through life becomes a slog, and a slog a death march. You are not alone, even when you are. Try writing down the good and the bad, and find some outlet. I know its easier said than done but it worked for me. Much love and all the best.
@shadow112___
@shadow112___ 2 жыл бұрын
1: their surroundings burn, yet they smile(fake smiles) 2:vague excuses when invited out("oh I'm busy") 3:aggressive humor(insulting others) /self-deprecating humor(insulting themselves 4:use all energy during the day, and have none when they are at home 5:high levels of empathy 6: when asked about they're problems, they give vague excuses (oh I'm tired) (sorry if I got any wrong I tried ok qwq)
@truthmerchant1
@truthmerchant1 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙂
@milk-..
@milk-.. 2 жыл бұрын
@AngelinniTortellini
@AngelinniTortellini 2 жыл бұрын
@tzuwee-d6244
@tzuwee-d6244 2 жыл бұрын
Omg i can relate with all of the points 💀 what now?
@pushtopulse2988
@pushtopulse2988 2 жыл бұрын
Going to ignore seeing this
@yay29823
@yay29823 2 жыл бұрын
Yeesss the Omori references :D Edit: YO WHAT THE HELL THIS VIDEO AIRED TODAY???
@adude1784
@adude1784 2 жыл бұрын
Yay Omori
@DoraTheGacha
@DoraTheGacha 2 жыл бұрын
Oyasumi
@oneandonlygooballmekk
@oneandonlygooballmekk 2 жыл бұрын
I love omori
@ThePochiGamerPochi622
@ThePochiGamerPochi622 2 жыл бұрын
WTF TIME TRAVELER?!
@defaultgamer592
@defaultgamer592 2 жыл бұрын
Who?
@BASILFOREVES
@BASILFOREVES 4 ай бұрын
I know half of yall came here for omori 😭😭😭😭
@randomsomone
@randomsomone 4 ай бұрын
OF COURSE
@R_Solace-DiAngelo0713
@R_Solace-DiAngelo0713 Ай бұрын
yeah-
@victorialaing4227
@victorialaing4227 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Amanda. This was so educational and helpful. You are such a wonderful person and thank you for all your videos that help and teach others about psychology. This video can help billions of people. I love your wisdom, compassion and emotional intelligence, your videos are perfect for those who are unable to get therapy
@Chipsanimation
@Chipsanimation 2 жыл бұрын
The Omori references actually made sense in this video
@almostpainful8173
@almostpainful8173 Жыл бұрын
you are so spot on with this. Smiling all day at work, saying "no problem" but really not being able to take on one more thing. check. Self deprecating sense of humor. check. thinking people really don't like you, your not good enough, your not deserving. check. Thanks for being you, and make us fell "normal". Really, thank you!
@ouchpotato2221
@ouchpotato2221 Жыл бұрын
Quick tip. If you smile to hide it. It does absolutely nothing. So smile because of the small things. Be it that its sunny outside and the weathers nice or you get to spend time with friends or that you got lucky and something that could of happened didn't
@HeroFromHeadspace
@HeroFromHeadspace Жыл бұрын
Thank you for simplifying, check all three
@googlebing7431
@googlebing7431 Жыл бұрын
you're*
@Half_of_The_World
@Half_of_The_World 9 ай бұрын
This video is really good, thanks for making an attempt to make it easier for people to spot maskers and try to help them, the comments are right too sometimes just being asked if you're ok is helpful even though (in my case too) the asker will just hear an "I'm fine" or "just tired is all" it's still a little boost to hear it...
@jackhilligoss1773
@jackhilligoss1773 9 ай бұрын
This helped me realize I still have depression. The two main things I do is smile even when I'm hurt, especially when people bully me. And the second thing is I make jokes about myself. I thought this would make it seem like I didn't have depression, like I don't care if people talk bad about me or if I talk bad about myself. I've hid my depression so well that I didn't even realize it was still there.
@alliara289
@alliara289 5 ай бұрын
Hope everything gets better for U.
@splitspark_
@splitspark_ 2 жыл бұрын
I'm really glad that you used Omori as symbolism for this video since it already incorporates themes like depression into the game. Thank you for making this lovely video!
@-Spinach_Soup-
@-Spinach_Soup- 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but now I’m crying
@thecatsbackyard4833
@thecatsbackyard4833 2 жыл бұрын
I like this artwork. My oldest brother gave off some of these signs. I didn't recognize them though. It's a tragedy but a lot of the signs for this and other mental illnesses covered by this channel are probably overlooked until people are older, and it dawns on them through reflection. I didn't even know I had any problems until I came to this channel. I hope knowledge of these issues becomes ubiquitous.
@michaelwellen2866
@michaelwellen2866 2 жыл бұрын
It's based on the game "Omori".
@thecatsbackyard4833
@thecatsbackyard4833 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelwellen2866 Thanks. I'll have to check it out. Just bought Elden Ring. Maybe that'll be fun too.
@michaelwellen2866
@michaelwellen2866 2 жыл бұрын
@@thecatsbackyard4833 I'd recommend checking a walkthrough. There are bad endings you really don't want.
@bluebasil9018
@bluebasil9018 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelwellen2866 nah just follow basil the whole game and you'll be fine
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
So happy you like this animation style! and we are also glad that you found our channel helpful. I agree, mental health is still being over-looked so much :(
@averiltan3761
@averiltan3761 5 ай бұрын
Congrats. You’ve. Just. Summoned. An. Entire. Fandom.
@TheUnholy_Child
@TheUnholy_Child Ай бұрын
No cap you’re videos literally describe my life better than i can describe it myself. This describes me at school every day
@chihuahua0117
@chihuahua0117 2 жыл бұрын
This is coming from someone that never considered themselves depressed or anything of the sorts. I always thought that this is life, and I kind of accepted that. And then I watched this video randomly and all of the signs on this list are just on point in my life. I watched this and when the video ended I just cried. I don't know why. I don't feel depressed (not that I know exactly how to diagnose it), I've been alone for 5 years now, at work I put on that mask and be funny and energetic and stuff and when I get home the whole act drops and I just... don't do anything really. I have a hobby that I love but I don't want to do it if I don't feel like it, which I rarely do these days. Yesterday I finally decided to tell my crush (my coworker) how I feel and I got rejected. She was nice about it, she assured me that it wouldn't get weird between us going forward, and I just put the mask on again and pretend it never happened. I got invited to drink some with my collegues and I came up with the excuse that I already got an appointment with my sister, which I clearly lied about because I'm writing this at home at this moment. And this is just this week. Now, I'm not saying these are so horrible because this is just life, and I'm not excusing myself for not trying to get better mentally, because I'm trying, sort of. Again I don't really think I have depression, this is just... I don't know, sad? I don't have thoughts about not wanting to be here or something, to my standards I get drinks or go out with friends often, but it's just so hard keeping this up for some reason. Maybe I'm just deprived of love. Well whatever it is, if you are reading this sentence after all that rambling then thank you and have a wonderful morning/day/night!!! I hope everyone is doing okay!
@katou3402
@katou3402 Жыл бұрын
not a doctor or anything but to me depression is not necessarily "not wanting to be here" you dont have to be suicidal to have depression... you are describing very similar feel that I had and still kindda have .. i am considering myself as being in a depression (I wouldn't do my hobbies, wouldn't go out as much or even if going out it would drain all my energy, wouldn't do anything at home (I ate pre-made food that heat up in microwave for about 6 month to tell you) had a hard time keeping my house clean cause i didn't feel like doing anything and more) take time for yourself and heal that heart and mind of yours it may take time but it's worth it ! I am finally starting to feel like i'm going out of depression after 2 years
@arminislam6805
@arminislam6805 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you- i also have all of these symptoms- bt still for some reasons i don't know if I'm actually depressed or not- it just seems that everyone's going through these and this is what life is about- i mean i simply can't find any other way of living or doing usual stuffs- and tbh- i really don't even want to get out of this situation- I'm too comfy with my current condition and don't want to chng anything at all- people r saying that i need help bt i don't think so at all- i think I'm perfectly fine and this is what i should be doing-
@petezahut1923
@petezahut1923 Жыл бұрын
you just said what my depressed friend always says
@DarkDaysInPurple
@DarkDaysInPurple Жыл бұрын
Maybe your starting to experience symptoms OF depression instead. Being deprived of love can be one of them too. Everyone wants to be loved dont they? I hope your doing well if yiu ever see this message! ❤
@chihuahua0117
@chihuahua0117 Жыл бұрын
​@@DarkDaysInPurple Thanks for the kind message. I aggree, we are social creatures so in some form everyone craves and wants to be loved. I'm still alone, but since I made the original comment I've been trying really hard to get better mentally. I started to go to the gym months ago and go to more events, spend more time with other people and I feel much much better, but I still have some of the symptoms, often I still just sit at home doing nothing because I don't feel like doing any of the stuff I like doing. BUT I'm trying my best to get out of that mental space and, slowly though, but I feel like I'm making progress. I hope you are doing good as well! :) And I hope everyone is doing well
@mysterious7274
@mysterious7274 Жыл бұрын
as someone who has (and still does) suffer from depression, it really does help if people check if your ok, even if we say we aren't, its still reassuring. we dont get much sleep a lot of the time and it feels like there's a growing weight on our shoulders that doesnt go away, just gets heavier. we look away, try not to make eye contact and try not to get the attention to us. we are in pain we just dont show it, its like we are in an endless void and a world full of people that dont care about us at the same time. we feel we dont matter. if someone is suffering from depression, please help them. its an unbearable pain that wont leave.
@naberius9232
@naberius9232 11 ай бұрын
I can only admit to that. My life is the same and even when I put all my energy together and open up to someone I always get rejected. Than there always come things like "youre overreacting" or "you still smile so i cant be that bad" or "think about (put in some random bad thing) those people". I dont really know what to do anymore. Going to a professional would be good but I cant afford that. The only thing I can do is try to fix my soul by myself and hey, I managed to get away from suicidal all by myself, maybe I can fix the rest too. I still hope that things will get better, but its fading away and I dont know where I end up when its gone. For now... I life a "normal" life while my soul is crying for help. For everyone else with depression: I feel with you For everyone without depression: Listen to people when they open up to you and take it seriously. And when you cant do something for them, give them a hug and say everything is fine. It helps wonders.
@Recuerdosdeseriesjuegos
@Recuerdosdeseriesjuegos 11 ай бұрын
​@@naberius9232mm, la verdad hablo español pero lo intentare, im sorry, i dont.. know you? Pero digo but you can do this, i just wait to you feel better, and please, search help, and this part is in spanish, y aunque no hable tu lengua al 100%, puedo comunicarme contigo, esto es serio pero se que puedes lograrlo, las personas que les importas de seguro estan preocupadas por ti, be stronger, y aunque nunca sabre como es tener deprecion, solo espero que te sientas mejor lo mas pronto posible, la verdad yo apoyo la idea de que busques ayuda pero... uff espero que se entienda porque esta parte es en español, haz lo que puedas para superar todo eso 😟, me dan pena las personas con deprecion porque se que eso puede ser doloroso despues de toda la informacion posible, pero solo espero que logres superarlo, ya no se que mas decir pero espero apoyarte
@mariaflores7070
@mariaflores7070 9 ай бұрын
I try to get the attention I don’t get at home sometimes And try not to get yelled at or slapped
@ikmansinghbawa9299
@ikmansinghbawa9299 9 ай бұрын
man i can relate
@Zack850
@Zack850 9 ай бұрын
Yes I feel the same
@itsrainingtacofasterwow5658
@itsrainingtacofasterwow5658 9 ай бұрын
You just said everything I used to do... But my mind has changed now and I'm a newer and refreshed person!
@MariNomayriWisdomIslamicSchool
@MariNomayriWisdomIslamicSchool 2 ай бұрын
A lot of bullies tend to conceal their depression by regularly trying to make others feel bad to distract themselves from their sorrows
@unity.was.here.
@unity.was.here. 9 ай бұрын
You summoned a whole fandom for 2 reasons... *take a guess*
@The_Oyasumi_girl2
@The_Oyasumi_girl2 5 ай бұрын
omori and...whats the other one!!!
@unity.was.here.
@unity.was.here. 5 ай бұрын
@@The_Oyasumi_girl2 the angst side of omori yk?
@The_Oyasumi_girl2
@The_Oyasumi_girl2 5 ай бұрын
@@unity.was.here. ohz
@ansun1987
@ansun1987 5 ай бұрын
omori
@b-bx1yn
@b-bx1yn 5 ай бұрын
Lmao yes
@CammyTheSportsEntertainer
@CammyTheSportsEntertainer 2 жыл бұрын
I can confirm I relate to all of these. For a long time I have wished I was absent from life. The depression has caused me to feel suicidal, to self-harm and I've tried to end it twice. I see no hope. You do an amazing job, the world needs more people like yourselves.
@birbs6484
@birbs6484 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you have a great day ahead
@pdd8168
@pdd8168 2 жыл бұрын
How did you fail twice genuinely curious how you tried to do it.
@eatyourcereal4747
@eatyourcereal4747 2 жыл бұрын
Hope you are feeling better now
@isabelparrado7718
@isabelparrado7718 2 жыл бұрын
@@pdd8168 Asking why did you fail at suicide is EXTREMELY WRONG!! You don't know what they are going through and you also need to think before you hit reply. I hope you are feeling better, please find an outlet. May it be creative a spark a little happiness in your life, or start jounaling it really helps to release thise negative feelings on paper or even a computer or a smartphone. I do mine in Google keeps. Just an example. If you haven't heard it today: I love you, and you have a purpose!! ❤
@CammyTheSportsEntertainer
@CammyTheSportsEntertainer 2 жыл бұрын
@@pdd8168 please don't ask me that question again. I'm sure you mean well, but it's not a memory lane I'd like to take a trip down.
@LtRee96se
@LtRee96se Ай бұрын
I was taught that you had to smile. It was just part of "what you do". Now I tell friends that I have severe depression. But it makes no difference than what I did before. That mask looks really good to me.
@miranaxxx3942
@miranaxxx3942 10 күн бұрын
I have increased empathy from my depression and used to bring others up. Now I just use how i relate to people's depression to plant the thought into their heads and give them the courage to do what i still couldn't do and just end it all and self-delete
@khalilahd.
@khalilahd. 2 жыл бұрын
Not noticing when a loved one is suffering is one of my biggest fears. I never want to be the person who missed the signs and end up losing someone important to me. This is a great video to combat that so thank you 💜
@fred_g7802
@fred_g7802 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 😍
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars Жыл бұрын
Same. Scares me to think that someone in my life who looks extremely happy and functional could be dealing with a lot of deep and dark things that they aren’t telling me and that one day I’ll just find out when it’s too late and hate myself for it because I didn’t do anything. Like I always want to help people, but when I don’t know how to approach it, I just keep it to myself, because I’d rather not help it all then help and mess it up. And I also don’t know how to make myself look like an approachable person so people feel that they can approach with their problems because helping people makes me feel good and I’m always willing to help you with something.
@subduedhues
@subduedhues 2 жыл бұрын
i find it fitting that there's a lot of omori references in this vid because none of the characters in that game are okay
@AlyxTheProtogen
@AlyxTheProtogen 2 жыл бұрын
Does that mean this video is now canon to the omori universe since kel is in it?
@businessisboomin7252
@businessisboomin7252 2 жыл бұрын
@@AlyxTheProtogen good question....btw damn....1 month old video just getting published
@elizabethramirezthezenshii9691
@elizabethramirezthezenshii9691 2 жыл бұрын
@@businessisboomin7252 All _memes._
@lolmuffen8604
@lolmuffen8604 9 ай бұрын
I very much hate when something hits so deeply into my mind to the point that it is invasive. Nice job!
@davidwhitaker2211
@davidwhitaker2211 3 ай бұрын
I said it once years ago and I'll say it again now: Your voice is so very soothing and You can sing really well. Its just something about your soothing voice? That just makes things feel so much better, at least for a little bit
@bb-ho6eh
@bb-ho6eh 2 жыл бұрын
Time stamps💋: 1. 0:49 Their surroundings burn and yet they smile 2. 1:51 They give excuses whenever invited out 3. 2:22 Everything’s a joke and they see themselves as one too 4. 3:32 Do everything during the day and collapse at home 5. 4:04 They’ve been there before so they try to empower others 6. 4:52 Uses vague excuses when asked “whats wrong?”
@marooniballooni03759
@marooniballooni03759 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, nice Omori refrences! Anyway, I do get the 3rd reason, people making jokes to hide their true feelings, I've seen it happen at least twice before. While comedy is good to have now and then, I don't think it's healthy to use it as a solution to all of the negatives.
@oneandonlygooballmekk
@oneandonlygooballmekk 2 жыл бұрын
kel
@angelablacksmith9653
@angelablacksmith9653 2 жыл бұрын
Nature is the best medicine kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ashmgs5-0K3dgnU.html
@eimin1759
@eimin1759 9 ай бұрын
always love your videos. hope i can use what i learn and help anyone who hide their pain.
@yourpersonaleditor0
@yourpersonaleditor0 9 ай бұрын
You have such a kind, calming and beutifull voice. You should become an musician!
@xNobodyOfConsequenceX
@xNobodyOfConsequenceX 2 жыл бұрын
Depression means putting on a brave face, trying to make others laugh so your brain can make just a bit of serotonin, getting snapping angry for little to no reason, having zero energy, socially withdrawing and sometimes just feeling nothing. At least that's how it is for me.
@damthatssick
@damthatssick 2 жыл бұрын
For me, it's trying to always elevate others to a high pedestal, never wanting anybody to feel bad about themself so I can find my comfort in being the one to help. I can sometimes even be a doormat for admittedly toxic people. I know it doesn't work all the time, but as long as I can help other people, I'll always have something to smile about, whether it's a real or fake one doesn't matter.
@just_ise4418
@just_ise4418 2 жыл бұрын
same here, but being home alone in the morning to even night does not help at all, I constantly talk and shout at myself and anything that I think about or do...
@vov4506
@vov4506 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love these Omori references. Keep up the amazing work.
@user-gc1ro6ey2s
@user-gc1ro6ey2s 3 ай бұрын
Her voice is so comforting and beautiful
@emeliesemeralds2811
@emeliesemeralds2811 Ай бұрын
When the words “I’m just tired.” came up I just paused… I find myself making this same excuse whenever someone asks me how I am.. Some will just nod and accept my answer and there’s some that have said things like, “Of course you are.” And.. I don’t know what to think…
@poupeuu
@poupeuu 2 жыл бұрын
Omori characters in this art style is something I never knew I needed
@Cerulean_XD
@Cerulean_XD Жыл бұрын
I really love that Omori was used as a theme of this video. It really goes with the topic of depression. and some of the categories listed went with the characters.
@yorforgersbestie
@yorforgersbestie 9 ай бұрын
but they whitewashed kellllllll 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@pemanilnoob587
@pemanilnoob587 9 ай бұрын
⁠@@yorforgersbestieeh..? It’s a really small thing, and this video is a year old
@michal_georgomanfan
@michal_georgomanfan 9 ай бұрын
i omor
@yorforgersbestie
@yorforgersbestie 9 ай бұрын
@@pemanilnoob587 😭😭still sad about it
@toogsx6980
@toogsx6980 2 ай бұрын
I never knew “smiling depression” was a thing…and now I’m scared. Also completely unrelated, but you sounded lovely when you sang that Nat King Cole line. You have a very nice voice 💙
@Horsin-around
@Horsin-around 7 ай бұрын
I’m constantly making “jokes” and making myself one too. I’m always tired, and it drains me so much to be around my friends
@rivstarlightt
@rivstarlightt 2 жыл бұрын
The omori references and characters make this so much better
@luminosity2620
@luminosity2620 9 ай бұрын
I am actually going through a very depressing time throughly my life even though IM ELEVEN. basically my parents are going through a hard time and are planning to take a divorce. As you see Im also in a hard time and your video really inspired me to keep going and find help. Thank you and I hope many other people are changed by this informative video. Thank you! 🙂
@leafyprogamer9681
@leafyprogamer9681 9 ай бұрын
Don’t worry… my parents are like that too. I understand you. We are all here for you :)
@liambrixeyanderson3767
@liambrixeyanderson3767 9 ай бұрын
Ya me too I’m 11 and I feel like I can’t talk to anyone without getting laughter at I feel like life sucked and I need to suck it up witch I thought was normal intel I saw a video and ya and I feel more and more depressed every day and it’s still going on so I can relate really well to this vidio😢
@luminosity2620
@luminosity2620 9 ай бұрын
@@liambrixeyanderson3767 I hope you get through your tough time I’m sending all the love to you and everyone in this comment section ❤️❤️❤️
@3twibles4sweetrevenge
@3twibles4sweetrevenge 9 ай бұрын
Enjoy middle school buddy
@PlanklengthGD314
@PlanklengthGD314 9 ай бұрын
I had the same thing happen at 8 now I'm much older and better mentally and physically, just keep moving and never give up
@amberburson2576
@amberburson2576 8 ай бұрын
Your voice is so calming.. While watching this I was crying and then you calmed me.. Me and my my best friend Annie are having suicidal thoughts but you are slowly changing my mind...
@user-to8kb2is6i
@user-to8kb2is6i 8 ай бұрын
Υou have the most calming and beautiful voice your videos help a lot ...THANK YOU SO MUCHHHHH❤❤❤❤
@That_Deuce
@That_Deuce 2 жыл бұрын
This was a great episode, and nice to see Omori get some representation here. Would love to see the references return again in a Trauma subject episode along with PTSD.
@omegasnake18
@omegasnake18 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, someone just recently finished Omori. I did too a couple days ago, really good game. I do like how you used the characters to explain this, as this is basically how they dealt with their depression. Not saying what they are depressed about of course, anyone who reads this comment should honestly play the game or look it up if you don't like psychological horror.
@quietwaterz4533
@quietwaterz4533 2 жыл бұрын
Out of curiosity who did you watch play omori
@Skyisgoingbacktopluto
@Skyisgoingbacktopluto 2 жыл бұрын
@@quietwaterz4533 I personally watched a therapist play it, she was cool.
@omegasnake18
@omegasnake18 2 жыл бұрын
@@quietwaterz4533 I didn't, i played it myself.
@sanfan87
@sanfan87 2 жыл бұрын
@@quietwaterz4533 merg
@quietwaterz4533
@quietwaterz4533 2 жыл бұрын
@@sanfan87 yeah same
@_.Kaelan._
@_.Kaelan._ 20 күн бұрын
For the humor one I’m both aggressive and self-defeating. I also joke about my personal problems with my friends sometimes, it’s become normal to talk about or even joke about with my friends that it comes to the point where I joke about it with other people who aren’t close friends but still friends. I joke about my problems a lot and my friends just began to not find it funny and I don’t know how to stop joking about it.
@chloeisconfused
@chloeisconfused 15 күн бұрын
I'm going to therapy and trying to better my mental health. I've been battling depression ever since I was a toddler. Which sounds crazy but it's true. I've been struggling and I do smile to make sure everyone is alright. I people please too much, almost betraying my own emotions and trying to feel ok. I'm not okay. anyone that reads this and feels the same needs to know...I understand and its difficult. It's seems like it's impossible to get out of bed. Believe I know. But someday, somewhere, it's gonna be okay. Amazing people will come into your life and change it for the better when you think it's all over. Every single day is a struggle, a battle to just be fine. I've gotten so good at it, I forgot what it was like to allow myself to feel my real emotions. I watched this video and started balling my eyes out and crying so loud. Whenever I cry I do it silently so no one can hear, but this is the first time I let myself cry out loud. It felt nice. If you made this far to the comment, thanks for reading and I hope that you feel understood and validated if you feel the same way I do. Having depression is scary especially when you have to do it alone. We gotta stick together and keep going. The future might need us who knows. Have a great day and thanks for reading my comment. ❤
@T0meri
@T0meri 2 жыл бұрын
When you singing a little, it’s so calming, i like ur voice!, is so peaceful :(
@omori.ball.
@omori.ball. 9 ай бұрын
i'm only here because i was laughing hysterically at the thumbnail
@Sheepy16able
@Sheepy16able 9 ай бұрын
Off topic: Your singing voice sounds so beautiful
@kaylasmusic
@kaylasmusic 10 күн бұрын
AHH the Nat King Cole song you put in is so special to me because if was the first song I did with my teacher in my first ever private voice lesson!! It makes me miss that time very much,... DAMNN,. I revisited it recently for an audition but I couldn't bring myself to do it after revisiting it because I have also other better songs too that I have done but this song just will always remind me of the beginning of my voice lessons and real journey as a singer,.. DAMN missing things is no joke but its a good thing to have something like that to feel you are missing,.. It always encourages me to keep at it,.. If I didnt miss it, I would keep at singing,.. but I still lalso really like my teacher I have now since transferring schools but my first ever private voice teacher will never stand a chance on anyone because she was my fist teacher that I ever did private lessons with and spent 2 years with so she will forever be a special teacher to me, and thats no joke. But I always remind myself of her words to me in my last lesson I had with her before transferring "DON'T DOUBLE-BACK ON YOUR PROGRESS WHEN YOU TRANSFER". She inspired me to KEEP AT IT and always revisit what I did with her with my teacher that I have now, and any new teacher I would get in the future, and of course, to always keep her posted becuase phones exist for a reason thankfully!!,
@WarperFlame2YES
@WarperFlame2YES Жыл бұрын
I’ve been dealing depressed lately. I love when other people are happy so I always help or do things for other people. I see how it would make me feel worse if I don’t care about my own feelings, but seeing other people happy makes me happy.
@thekingofsteep5995
@thekingofsteep5995 Жыл бұрын
100 reasons to stay alive: 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favourite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favorite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek). 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64.Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. Pray (if you are religious) 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realizing that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you 75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships. 76. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person. 77. Joy and happiness in the little things. 78. The power to inspire others. 79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression. 80. To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life. 81. To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet. 82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family. 83. Learn new things and develop new skills. 84. Create a legacy that will outlive you. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Cuddles 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favorite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.
@vthisguyisafoolv4574
@vthisguyisafoolv4574 Жыл бұрын
ironically do you have a life why write all that down
@thedarkmonarch
@thedarkmonarch Жыл бұрын
91 of these apply to me. 91 amazing and perfect reasons to live. Here I shall add 9 more to compensate 1. To hear the purr of a kitten 2. Feel the wind against your face 3. to feel the warmth of the sunlight on a chilly morning 4. The smell of your favorite shampoo 5. To see the one you love smile again (this one especially for me) 6. Watch the trees sway in a gentle breeze 7. To watch your favorite show/movie 8. To learn a new hobby (I recently took up quilting and woodcarving. Very fun!) 9. To feel nostalgia of your favorite childhood thing. Thanks for listening! Edit: after 3 months, my outlook on life has changed. Now 99 apply to me. (I don't care about Disneyland)
@victoriaarison8543
@victoriaarison8543 Жыл бұрын
@@vthisguyisafoolv4574 the name says it all 💀
@Black_Knight_-BK-
@Black_Knight_-BK- Жыл бұрын
Sadly only 11 of these apply to me lol. I couldnt care less for the remaining 89
@thedarkmonarch
@thedarkmonarch Жыл бұрын
@@Black_Knight_-BK- then write 89 more that DO apply to you!
@shadow92105
@shadow92105 2 күн бұрын
A wise man once its always the kindest and nicest and heart fullest people to be severely depressed
@TheSkinWalkerIsGonEatYou
@TheSkinWalkerIsGonEatYou 9 ай бұрын
This really made me feel better since im depressed, thank you very much that you understand and you dont joke about it like everyone, saying that im emo and stuff, i just hate it, inwant to have a normal life but i alr have Anxiety
@DaiSuuki
@DaiSuuki 2 жыл бұрын
i can relate to 1, 5, 6. 1st: i usually smile at school and “try” to be social, yet in home, i fight with my family, hurt myself because i feel useless and more.. 5th: i used to have a best friend like a month ago and our friendship was *nice* until she started lying and not doing empathy. i tried to do my best to help her, cause i thought “SHE WAS HERE FOR ME” and did empathy a lot. but no. she was the worst friend I've ever had. she only cared about me because i was the only thing which makes her have fun(?). she never cared about me in overall. i guess i did an bad decision on trying to empathy with that liar. but heh, i ended our friendship by blocking her, because our friendship became 1sided and i was the only one who tried to save it. (we were friends for 3 years btw, i wish we did never met.) now I'm all alone, but it's better than having someone who's a betrayer in my life. 6th: so my friends at school sometimes asks me to go out together, i usually don't accept because i don't feel like it or I'm so upset that i don't want to. they ask me if I'm ok or not and i just say “I'm tired”.. they leave me after without asking me if I'm telling truth or not. so that's it, thanks for reading if you did
@PA78962
@PA78962 2 жыл бұрын
Good thing you cut off that friend of yours..... I wish to do the same with all those "friends" that I have! But guess I don't have the courage yet. I don't wish to be left alone. I have so many "friends", even though they're not here for me in my need! But that's ok!..... They're with me because thay want my help (I'm useful) so I'll try to be useful for however long that I can be. Even if I don't like them, they're the only one's who welcomed me (maybe they wouldn't have, had they known how broken I am) 😅😅! But I can atleast laugh alongside them..... Even if it's me who everyone is laughing at. 🤗hugs* to you...... You'll make some good friends in future for sure.
@IXERUS_7810
@IXERUS_7810 2 жыл бұрын
Take care...
@Je11keng
@Je11keng 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@DaiSuuki
@DaiSuuki 2 жыл бұрын
@@PA78962 thank you for your supportive comment! 🥺💞 and you will gain your courage soon, once they'll start to treat you the worst, you will start to have the courage to leave them. you can't keep them a side when they don't support you and get worse. i was the same back then! (2-5 months ago.) i was very afraid about losing the person I've talked about in my comment but since she became toxic, i thought that cutting her off was the best choice of mine. i never had so much friends (more than 4) in my life. noone of them helped me when i needed them neither. i taught myself to be alone, now I'm doing fine just having nothing more than small anxiety attacks. i was ruining my life with thay person and i didn't even noticed that! and I'm not the best at explaining or understanding but i hope i got you right. again, thank you
@Lunar3clip2e808
@Lunar3clip2e808 Жыл бұрын
It is so hard seeing when someone is actually depressed because a bunch of people claim they are because they want attention. Thanks for making this video to help show the signs! Hopefully someone will notice soon.
@Channelsettingsmom
@Channelsettingsmom 2 ай бұрын
Your the only one that understands what I'm going through thank you
@riley-banana
@riley-banana 9 ай бұрын
I clicked as fast as I could then MARI falling down the stairs, the thumbnail caught my attention.
@emmaturnermusic
@emmaturnermusic 2 жыл бұрын
1:04 - @Psych2Go - I love all your videos - they’re so insightful and keep up the awesome work! Just on an unrelated note, you have a beautiful voice and if you recorded music, I would so buy your album! 😍
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын
Here is her KZfaq Channel! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qtGZnpV81bGUYGw.html
@Bakubro799
@Bakubro799 Жыл бұрын
My favorite quote I’ve ever read that left me sobbing and choking for air because it’s so painfully true… “sometimes when I say ‘I’m ok’ I want someone to look me in the eyes hug me tight and say ‘I know you’re not’”
@tattoolov87
@tattoolov87 10 ай бұрын
No has looked and said that to me since I was 10 or 11 years old now 36 and still those things
@Rin_kashiki
@Rin_kashiki 8 ай бұрын
HELP YOUR VOICE WAS SO BEAUTIFUL WHEN YOU SANG
@HomelessStay
@HomelessStay 9 ай бұрын
YOUR VOICE IS SO CALMING❤❤❤😊
@valentinaaristy8679
@valentinaaristy8679 Жыл бұрын
I never realized that I was a totally different person during the day than at home. Now I truly know that I need to fix this and that I must relieve myself from that mask.
@SelenaWynter0205
@SelenaWynter0205 11 ай бұрын
The video hit close to home way more than I thought it should've... While I don't necessarily have depression like some people here in the comments, I tend to do all these sometimes whenever I just don't feel fine at all. The 5th one is something I really do a lot when it comes to my friends, especially since I can relate to them sometimes.
@lachibolala.army-stay
@lachibolala.army-stay 6 ай бұрын
one of of those friends that act happy all the time and when i tell someone i have anxiety disorder they always say something like, “what do you mean? You smile so much!”. Then when i go home it’s like i take off a mask
@Christopher-dh1kr
@Christopher-dh1kr 9 ай бұрын
Very inspirational yet some don't have or get the helping hand that others get to get better and those that don't are just left behind in the dark abyss calling for help but with no reply .
@BlueSnowBerry
@BlueSnowBerry 2 жыл бұрын
With a mask so well made, people can never really notice that I'm actually not fine cause I get more and more social when I'm not
@pancakepig_9787
@pancakepig_9787 2 жыл бұрын
1:30 THEY DIDNT INCLUDE SOMETHING 💀💀
@Osamu_Dazaiii
@Osamu_Dazaiii 15 күн бұрын
I could relate to this video sm... idk if am depressed but lately I've just been bursting into tears for no reason... and even when am not crying I just dont feel alive (?) Idk how to put it in words... And I've noticed that I've gotten extra cheerful around people, I've been joking around more~ I could literally feel the self defeating humor part (but everyone finds me funny and we always laugh together yay) Honestly... it's just soo soo hard to tell someone that ur struggling... even my parents haven't noticed haha I dont think anyone I know would be able to tell how I'm actually feeling~ and even here I can type this out just because it's anonymous and no one would know who I am Feels very refreshing putting it all into words btw! U guys should try it too!!♡
@meeplymoon8391
@meeplymoon8391 9 ай бұрын
It hits different knowing the voice to these videos is a 'calming mommy' internet personality..
@zachrobinson8357
@zachrobinson8357 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who is coming out the other end of a huge depressive episode (since the beginning of the pandemic really) I clicked on this video because I wanted to confirm that it was depression that I was struggling with and not just adhd. Man I’m thankful that I watched this. Now that I pretty much have that awful weight off my shoulders, I can attest to how true all of these are. It really does feel like a battery that never gets full. It truly feels like there is nothing you can do about it in the moment. But when I took a step back, identified what it is I was dealing with, and treated it as something that wasn’t permanent while not letting it take over my identity, I set up the perfect formula for recovery for my situation. I started letting people take me places, no matter how tired I was. The single most influential moment in this journey was when I let my sisters and Mom take me Black Friday clothes shopping. When I finally had clothes that fit and looked good, it kinda created a positive feedback loop. When I got compliments in my looks for the first time, my self-esteem returned. And it just escalated from there. Going to the movies with a girl in a few days! In my experience (this is not a catch-all piece of advice, probably won’t work for most people) the best way to get out of that depressive mood is to get outside and do stuff, no matter how little energy you have. Doesn’t matter what it is. Take a walk. Work out for once. Hell, even hang out with a group of close friends that you legitimately enjoy being around. That, paired with self-reflection and taking care of myself physically, really got me out of the place I was in. Still got ADHD, but at least I can actually see the benefits of it now.
@pianovii3350
@pianovii3350 11 ай бұрын
Indeed, ADHD has benefits. It can be wielded as a powerful tool, and I believe in you to do exactly that
@RiseOfD3ath
@RiseOfD3ath 2 жыл бұрын
Man, I miss the days where I wouldn’t feel like I experienced any of these points. As I continue aging, I can’t help but feel like I’m further spiraling deeper. I miss peace.
@shannonlycan3292
@shannonlycan3292 Ай бұрын
You have a beautiful voice!
@CretzuGrasu
@CretzuGrasu 9 ай бұрын
Your voice is calming me
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