Me neither. I enjoyed this video, immensely.

Yeah most things make people with BPD look psychotic and only really talk about the manipulative weirdos and completely dysfunctional people. The rest of us that are sane, respectful, and quiet never get talked about. We just need some guidance so we don't turn into the dysfunctional ones xP

💕💝🌎Thanks 2 Psych2go ☺️☺️🙏🏻

Same, I’m in the process of getting formally diagnosed but my specialist said that she’s leaning into the fact that I do have this condition. The hyper-empathy and loyalty here is super real, because I always strive to see the best in people regardless of their rocky past, however, I’m working on seeing myself in the same way.

I think I might have bpd. I've been thinking this since the age of 20. I'll be 23 this year. My boyfriend thinks I might have it too after doing his own research based off of my behavior. I want to get a diagnosis and I don't know where to go

Most borderlines abuse people closest to them (at the time at least) and then proceed themselves empathetic?

It makes our life easier knowing this. But unfortunately getting a job with this level is so hard. People judge you. Not knowing what it is, is scary for them as if u will beat up their clients or something, cannot be trusted with vulnerable young or old unfortunately.

Me too, I was so relieved. ❤

I was so relieved as well... at least now I know that not everything is my mistake; the hurtful problems exist and aren't just my fault or just an inception.

I always knew that something about me was really off, and it wasn't just because I had ADHD. When my BPD was at its worst, I knew that I needed to do something ASAP because I needed to know what was wrong with me, so I decided to admit myself to the psych ward and when I finally got my diagnosis, everything clicked in my head. And what helped even more was that my best friend also had BPD, and I knew that he was a great person because he was so supportive of me before my diagnosis, so it made it much less scary for me. Getting the diagnosis explained SO much though and it was very relieving to know that there was a reason why I acted the way I did, and that I can completely heal from it eventually. It's been a really difficult 2 years since my hospital stay, but I've learned so much about myself and learn how to manage my symptoms more and more every single day. And now I can even see the positive traits in myself that were described in the video and it makes me feel good because I know I'll always be one of the best people anyone could meet and befriend because I care so deeply about people and do my best to always make them feel good about themselves and supported.

i was not so reliefed. it completly changed my life from being succesfull and having ''friends'' into a downwards spiral with negative feelings about my self. idk if we lack professional help in my country but most professional help and meds seemed to make me feel wurse. its only recent (15 years later) i start to realize where it came from and that i accept that its not my self i need to hate. infact i should love my self for surviving and still standing, this recent feeling of acceptance is only the start of me learning how to coop with this disorder. i try to do self reflection on every scenario that triggers me or can trigger me. and it seems to help me alot. this video is only a bit of light in the dark, i love the positive side of this video, but being unable to coop with BPD is most deffinatly not a blessing

I had a right wing phase about two years ago and sometimes memories of my cringiness comes back to me and i feel like it’ll haunt me for years im so embarrassed P:

Yeah bpd makes me hate everything about me and tells I'm a failure. I've been stuck in a rut for months unable to move forward. It can be a blessing but it can also definitely be a CURSE 😓

same !!

It will, it did the same for me and like your friend I at times feel the same about myself and also thanks for being their friend and supporting them U the best!!!

You are an amazing friend for being there for her and uplifting her when she needs it. I truly struggle receiving any praise b/c more often than not I always see myself as a failure/ugly. The logical part of my mind tells me that is an irrational emotion and to not harp on it, for it won't do me or anyone any favors, but.. for me.. it feels like forever living in a dark hole. One that I can never shake. I am glad that your friend has you in her life. Thank you for being a kindhearted person 💗.

Agree since I was recently diagnosed with this

I was thinking th same thing ! I too have BPD and this is actually reakky on point !

I think I have BPD... Im gonna find a doctor to help me out

I save it when it's uploaded now I'm watching. 😝😂😘😇

I was trying to defend bpd in a Tumblr post and got kicked out

they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here. and mushrooms are one of the most amazing things on this planet i wish people would all realize. they could solve a lot of problems, more than just mental treatments, environmental clean up; the possibilities are endless with fungus.

Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

YES very sure of Dr.alishrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

I hate that psilocybin gets grouped with drugs like cocaine and heroin. Mushrooms are a remedy, not a vice! I went on a microdose treatment for a couple of months and within the first week, every sight of a cigarette got me questioning why I was doing all that to myself. It really works.

How do i reach out to him? Is he on instgram

Radical acceptance will help you so much.

​@@DetriotQueenBeeNikkieDee "Radical acceptance" Stop getting all your ideas from the internet

It helps me I use it every day they teach it to you in dbt, I highly suggest you so dbt.

​@@DetriotQueenBeeNikkieDee what's that gonna do radical acceptance don't exist

@@Amfortas Imagine taking the time to criticize someone over the origin of their semantics. They mean well, let it be.

From what I have read, if you were traumatized as a child, chances are higher to have bpd.

Me, too. My mom definitely had it and I’m pretty sure I do too. This was really nice to hear the positive aspects and I agree with them all. 💕

@@tornadocupcake I didn’t know that, but that makes sense. Thanks.

Since U was a Kid? BPD often shows not until you grow up. Most ppl get symptoms when there 20 or older. BPD signs are often confused with other common illnesses like ADHS / (c)ptsd / autism / BAS. Pls dont self diagnos yourself and Go see a therapist :) (sry for my english, i tried my best)

@@mandelkk2200 by kid I mean when I was teenager into my early 20s. Also, I am not self diagnosing because there's a good chance I could be wrong, but I could right too. Either Way, it is just a feeling that maybe...

Nothing wrong with been BPD, is part of our reuro diversity. We need to learn to navigate in our modern society. This video is amazing, we have a lot of positive trails, people learn to love you for what you’re. Everyone has baggage and we accept them. I try to be a better person every day but other must try too. I send you a lot of support and encourage. My only advice, say I’m sorry as soon as you realize you hurt someone with your mood swings. Sometimes we say things that we don’t mean it, and I can’t why I said it.

Thank u much. I feel so thankful that U make Videos about: What is positive about this and that, coz mostly IT seems Like "Bad Stigma" but that is Just one Side of those Humans. Some of them are so calm and understanding, Empaths...and so much more (Depression 4 example). But If Most Just (ad the selves) See that stuff Just as "Bad" they might Not feel Well and heal, plus Others would be able Go Look at all Things in a broader spectrum way. 🌎🌱🕊️ Thx so much dears 💕

Energetic, but only when you're not feeling empty!😊

I wonder what the link between creativity and emotional instability is

There is a narcissist that I know. Absolute drama, all the damn time. All you need to do is remember to breathe and know there are people out there ten times worse than you think of yourself.

You should seek therapy or constant supervision if you're in doubt

You are strong, remember that your mind is stronger than everything, so practice ways to cure what you can with thoughts, manifestation and positive energy. So your way through this becomes easier, happier and it might even cure you faster, I believe you can control many aspects of your body with your mind (it takes time, believing and practice)

@@anthonyszymon3032 Thank you for sharing. Over the last 50 years, I've lots of experience with loved ones having cancer and hiv, I've seen information & support help immensely. Treatment has improved a lot. I hope your treatments go well. a friend of mine recommended a healer and caster for me, she helped me out.

@@nancysainhigh1354 wow, how can i get in touch, does she cure other sickness?

@@justinclynes481 yes, name is Luana Kae Branigan

@@nancysainhigh1354 wow, found her website, thank you very much for this.

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I needed to hear/read this ♥️

Thank you

This is retarded. BPD doesn't result in increasing those traits. BPD changes emotional parameters... Yes. However, it is no "superpower". Safe drugs and mushrooms can give you those benefits with the crazed, evil disorder. Btw, did you know that borderlines and ENTP-narcissits started the wild fire in Hawaii? Most ENTP 'literally' secretly have narcissitic personality disorder! They micro-manage via subtly manipulating how other people view them.

you will come out of this with more light, more love and more healing towards yourself and people involve in this process... Love light and blessings:)

Being diagnosed so early in your life is such a blessing! I myself have struggled unknowingly for many many years and am relieved now knowing what's going on and wish I had known it earlier! ☀️

chilee 🤝 warm hugss

Don't. BPD is no "superpower". Since when is a negative disability beneficial? That is twisted, borderline-esque logic right there! Especially since "evil for the sake of evil" is the innate modus operandi of BPD, and narcissits (defence against their extremely fragile, delusional, empty-ego)! Personality offsets the extent of the disorders, hence it manifests differently.

​@@Human_01 I think you need to go to the ward yourself with that shit talking buddy

Jim Carrey has spoken about depression before many times and lives with it but he'll always make us smile no matter what with BPD without being diagnosed officially.

BPDs are funny they do just about anything for attention lmao

We just over here trying at lyfe still xD

@@goddosyourself7970what is your problem with people with BPD? I’ve seen you reply negative things about BPD multiple times.

@@Frostfern94 if I told you then youtube would probably block the message so you couldnt know

im also a man with bpd!

He was but I believe he had Bipolar Disorder rather than Borderline. Edit: My bad. Wrote this before finishing the clip. The video suggested that he may have had it but wasn't been officially diagnosed.

It's because BPD is traditionally seen as one of the "dangerous" diagnoses. It's us, antisocials and schizophrenics that are considered dangerous and therefore stigmatised something awful...

It often gets mis diagnosed as bipolar

​@@DetriotQueenBeeNikkieDee bipolar have more mood swings and can't control their emotions usually when they go to those manic highs and lows. BPD usually knows what's going on but can't help it. Honesty they are more similar to hyper sensitive people.

No, they don't I have both and I always struggle more with bpd.

​@@keip4568 BPD has more mood swings than bipolar. Bipolar mood swings *at most* occur in the span of weeks. Borderline mood swings can occur within seconds. Borderline is also much more difficult to live with. I say live with, because unlike bipolar, medication doesn't help regulate BPD. You just have to learn to deal with it, and it's pointless trying to fight the mood swings. Note: I'm not saying that bipolar is, nor that any mental illness is easy to live with, just that medication doesn't really help with Borderline.

@S P Smith medication won't help bpd only therapy does. Dbt.

You have to test people for their value because it takes a special someone to realise your true worth. If they haven't the intelligence to identify your true worth, they are not really complex enough to comprehend how special you are. I am sorry that you have no therapy though. That is so messed up. I mean.. who do you turn to for support? This world needs to recognise that you are isolated and that we all need connection to other people with similar values.

I empathize because I remember what it was like having this before therapy. All I can say is there are great workbooks out there and try to not take too seriously that voice in your head that says you're no good. Because you are. Half of the battle is learning to not hate ourselves

That is SO true. I was baffled when I discovered other people didn't feel so strongly about their friends and relationships in general. I discovered I am more sensitive to light than (apparently) most. And a little to sound as well. I don't feel the need to label myself anything but hypersensitive at this point. Because I feel like if someone close to me had taken the time to help me with these strong emotions and sensations.. And through other traumatic events.. This disorder wouldn't have happened. I think deep down we are all like the video describes. And then the way the world has dealt with our intensity, and vice versa, is what made us sick. We have such incredible minds, open, creative, feeling..

@@guesswho5790 prefacing this by saying: hoo boy this turned into the most bpdhd rant of all time about the nature of the human condition, i wouldn't blame you if you don't want to read through it. I almost erased it and started over but eh, what the hell. original comment: mhm! for example, adhd was likely a desirable trait in humans before we became settlers. hypersensitivity also doubles as high sensory perception, people with adhd tend to intuitively catch on to skills that require working with one's hands, intuition, and senses such as tool crafting, foraging, and hunting. I believe bpd symptoms could potentially be much the same, and the negative ones are a product of the way we live now. black and white thinking could lead to a strong sense of solidarity within the group that they are part of, while being less hesitant to act on perceived outside threat. I think the issue is that we live in a very disconnected society. that applies to interpersonal connections, as well as the existance of smaller, more closely knit groups having some benefits we've given up for the sake of modernization. the biggest i can think of is allowing people to work in ways they're actually good at, rather than forcing every lower class worker's nose into the same, or very similar grindstone unless they're fortunate enough to be able to make it through self employment. I'm by no means a primitivist, i think the ways humans have advanced are absolutely incredible, though I do have to think that honestly MUCH of psychiatry is a result of neurodivergence that was once accepted with compassion, largely regardless of if it gave specialized abilities or was disabling, now being indicative of a defective drone. As someone who is also transgender, I choose to believe in the relative compassion of all working class people, even those who want me dead. of course, if someone is a physical threat to my safety because i dared to exist in public they are still scum, but I'm not sure I can blame them entirely either. it's the fault of the ruling class who have a vested financial interest in cultivating an oppressed class through directly producing ableist, racist, xenophobic, sexist, homophobic, and transphobic propaganda. we live in a global economy built on war and cheap thrills for those of us just trying to get by, of course we're all mentally ill. both those who are fighting for acceptance and those who are fighting for some perverted concept of tradition they've been brainwashed into have a lot of the same problems. we all divide ourselves and others into smaller demographics until we don't have enough people fighting with us to do anything meaningful. to do anything productive we have to band together in our humanity, shed these preconceived bigotries, forgive those who have taken those steps to educate themselves and change for the better, and stand together as people who refuse to be divided and made to fight against each other any longer. but that feels so insurmountable. i think in that hopelessness, it's really important for people to create, unapologetically, with no expectation to be compensated. I'm too scared right now, but I think street art is one of the most amazing forms of art in the world. the idea that it cost someone their material safety to put there, in the hopes that someone or anyone would be moved by it, knowing they would never even know that person's name

Some friendships might not last for long. And even though it feels hard to let go of someone with whome you shared multiple good memories with is not an easy thing, sometimes it could be for the good of both you and him. And ofcourse when something like this happens, sometimes it feels like you did something wrong, its normal to have doubts. But eventually, after sometime you need to start accepting that the friendship is over. Slowly but surely, let go of it, since constantly overthinking about it will bring nothing but pain. And haveing these mental health condition is out of your control, you didnt chose to have them so try not to feel guilty about. Accept yourself the way you are. If these conditions interfere in your daily life, inquiring advices on how to manage them from a proffesional will be good for you. I hope your doing good now. Take your time, its ok, slowly let go of the frienship. Hope you have/had a great day

@@babybear3430 thank you so much for your kind words. I'm actively in therapy and pharmacological treatment for years. This situation escalated when I started developing this strong social anxiety. But more than guilt is really hard to process that someone gave up on you (paraphrasing a little). Is damn hard. And I keep stumbling up with some pictures or messages. Stuff that reminded me that I had a strong relationship of friendship, but it fractured in such a place... I feel his pain but I also feel mine and is rough to keep going, but I am. Thank you so much.

@@Mtz2604 I see If they gave up on such a wonderful person like you, then they missed a great oppurtunity to be friends with you. It might be hard to accept but they didnt see your worth and deliberately cutting ties with you suddenly like that....its better to not assosciate with someone like that. Not many people stick around to see your true great potential. The hurtful feeling of loss might not permanantly leave you but with practice and motivation it will hurt a lot less and after some more time what happened will just be one bad memory. Seeing how geniunly you cared about the friendship its clear it isnt your fault. Some friendships even the strongest can suddenly end, with or without a reason as to why. Ofcourse lettng someone you were that close with isnt easy but its not impossible. I am glad you yourself is determined to let go, it takes a lot of effort to attempt. Whenever your reminded of the friendship don't think a lot about it, just smile and relish the good memories you had with them and be happy while you had the friendship you cherished each and every moment. I wish you well in your journey to letting go.

@@babybear3430 thank you for your kind words and care. Yeap, is gonna take a while to digest 9 years of friendship. I keep the door open for him in case we see each other again, in a future moment, and just say hi. I cherish a lot of things from that friendship and for him as the brother from another mother that he was. I know that therapy will help me to cope with this in a healthier way, since the primal intense fear of abandonment is t inforced with it very loss you can experience. I have some PTSD from deaths that happened since I was 13, and each one has a component of trauma to add on. Us with BPD experience already a hard time with understanding our social and inner identity, things are perceived in a distorted way. When you experience a loss, it shakes that notion of identity, because you try to understand your part in this situation. Instead of hopelessly waiting for validation from this person about the type of friend I was, I need to find that validation within myself. I'm willing to take this pqin away from me. At least to lose the guilt qnd shame, because what you're telling me is right, some people just don't have the same level of commitment or they just grow apart. Instead of noticing this and try to nourish the relationship, they let it starve and just one person cannot provide enough for that relationship to survive. Thanks again for your consoling words. I wish you the best ❤️

@@Mtz2604 Im glad your understanding the situation very well your really mature. Im not much familiar with Bipolar disorder I just... roughly know their emotions are...how do I say it...induced differently (?) . You seem to already be on the final stages of letting go and your trying to help yourself in a healthy way. I appreciate you for that. And thanks, I wish you the best too

Omg!! Your coment made my day... you made me feel that the same level of intense and empathic person as of me is sending me a warm hug through their kind words.. Love light and blessings your way thank you for your comment it felt like a warm hug to me..😇🤗

What is the treatment please! It is the first time I have heard the wonderful side of myself that I have always liked and it is the side that has always gotten on my parents nerves…so sad so I closed this side of myself since childhood, so happy to hear this! It might help me get the courage to open to my funny and artist side, finally! 😊 thank you so much!♥️🥰

@@christinewilcox6857 well, each bpd person have particularity. In my case I use a medicine to stabilize my humor and a anti-anxiety medicine. But only medicine is not enough, Is also good lots of self care, online study and look for videos that help to deal with emotions. I use internet a lot to help me, I write my feelings with details until I get tired and realize that... I don't care, Is so silly to spend so much on that! A jornal help me a lot. Each person find their way... but you have to look and try to improve. Medicines and therapy are great, I truly don't think I could live without my medicines. I always take them with care, and if I use anything that interact with them (energetics, alcohol...) I see the difference. Eat well, sleep well, take your medicine and accept yourself. Be your own best friend, encourage you, also remind yourself that you don't need to be more than you are, that you are doing your best and respecting your limits. That each mistake is a learning chance and that people are able to forget and forgive. And, if they are not, why do you need them in your life? Life naturally filtrate who stays... work hard on being your self support, and surround yourself of people who can appreciate you... but remember that you have to do the same for them. Internet have all kinds of asmr and raike videos that calm me a lot... And I think that is it for me. Just... I don't do therapy. I would like to, I would like to improve... but I didn't find someone that I like... this is terrible to say, I know, but therapy helped me a lot in the beginning. Oh! Also, find what is really bringing you your intense feelings! Understand yourself is REALLY important, for you and for others. Even with the medicines, once my father moved a plant from the kitchen window to the window by my bed. He said that I was not watering on the window but by my bed I would do that. I snapped and get irrationally angry at him that day (I usually hate when people move my stuff aroud and my dad does not live with me, but even though was too much anger), then I had time by myself and realized... I was not angry because he move my plant! I was angry because I live in the house that my grandmother used to live when she was alive.... and that was the place where she put this specific plant: by the window kitchen. As soon my grandma died the house change a lot, they exchange the mobile, etc... her room was not there anymore, her sofa, her... but there was where she put that kind of plant, and was a plant I use to buy for her. Being able to understand I felt lass crazy and unfair, I was also able to explain my reaction to my father and he even thanked me. My grandma was his beloved mother. Now that plant is always by the window, and even if she is dry, she will always stay there... and when I look at her I realize how this is important to me... and feel that my grandma is still around. That plant give me a sense of normality. And I don't feel embarrassed by my reaction anymore. How we feel, how we react... there is always a reason, and we need to get over the embarrassment and think about the feeling, understand it. Sometimes you realize is something selfish and silly... but the reason is always easier to deal than a "irrational" feeling or reaction. This for me is really important. Love yourself is not about have a great self-esteem, Is about support. Is about be patient with yourself, understand yourself, forgive yourself... be to yourself the same that you would be for the person you love the most. This kind of care will make you love yourself. And will make you love others more... also, will make you protect yourself from people that is no worthy, the same way you protect a friend

had to add, the best people for jobs like doctors, and surgeons because of the "lack of empathy" and the drive to do the best job and not get emotional, (and other jobs that are necessary for society) and there is A LOT of the population with this diagnosis in the society that no one will suspect they have it- especially because of the high-status jobs and logic and i think self-control more than most regular people because of the self-aware, statistic everyone knows someone who has it. the stigma is only because the diagnosis is in the public eyes connected with those who commit crimes (those who also suffer from trauma and bad childhood) so it's known to the media. and most of the diagnoses are for people that search for help for depression and found out they have an anti-personal disorder. if i will be sick and needed a doctor to save my life i would absolutely trust more of a doctor with this diagnosis. (i have bpd, its not a biased opinion, just something I'm interested in and done my research, it's very unfair to watch) so agree 100% ! sorry for the misspells, I'm not an american.

I definitely agree!!

I find people without empathy but still care somehow to be the most fascinating thing ever xD Unfortunately I'm pretty sure ASPD only comes as a diagnosis after a crime has been committed right? They sure kinda screw people over with most disorders that are just trying to live decent, Normal lives.

@@RaptureDragon1 Its morso that our empathy works differently. Some sociopaths do care about a select few people like family, friends, pets, maybe even groups of people like the homeless while also being able to treat everyone else like chess pieces without remorse. Even those we actually care about, I could move on quickly if they died. I have softer spots for people who have autism and are HSP, in a way where I should coach them on how to survive in this cutthroat world, doesn't mean I wont try to con them out of 10 dollars though.

@@yeajjjjjj sociopath is a loaded and misunderstood word. as BPD technically im a sociopath too because i can just choose to do horrible things at any moment if i wanted to lol. used to not be that way but society and commie politics have made me that way (I FOOOKING HATEEE COMMIES REEE especially the CCP right now.) i remember watching a documentary about a guy with ASPD and he was describing his dads death that same way, he knew he was gone forever and never coming back, but he didnt feel bad about it, he just thought "thats the way things are now" its such a foreign concept to me because i get emotional over the stupidest shit as a guy because the BPD. i shed tears over the dumbest movies sometimes xD