Ha! Love it 😁

Whoa! Can I read minds, or can you tell the future?! 😆

@@Lefie Ingen aning (Sv. "no clue") but I'm loving it! Keep up the great work both on and off KZfaq! I don't know you personally but I'm hella proud of you. (:

Agreed!

😱NEW DISCLAIMER: I claim COMPLETE INNOCENCE for any crimes committed on behalf of this video!

Yes, Lefie does not in any way advocate the COOL crime of robbery!

I too was a working full time single mum of two boys. Work out what is truely essential. Off load as many tasks as possible. Streamline your life. Yeah , yeah, yeah - you've heard all that before - so what does it actually look like? Examples: kids can make their own sandwhiches/ breakfasts and later learn how to use a washing machine. Make your work wardrobe really easy with all tops matching all bottoms and neutral earings/ lipsticks etc. Make everything have a place so you don't waste time searching for it. Is getting rid of that cobweb essential? If you leave it - will the end of the world come or will the cobweb just be there tomorrow? If someone is gonna criticise you for said cobweb. Thank them for pointing it out and hand them a duster. ( thereby off loading a task and streaming your life!) Believe - it works. ( and if hypercritical friend/ relative doesn't come round again then thats one less stress in your life!)

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What about her previous title was click-baiting (I presume you are referring to the one about the card deck)? I watched the video, and the title is 100% true. Plus, that video is building off of a previous video on the same topic, so those of us who have been watching for a while already have the context and know what the video is about. There's no clickbait there. But even if it were clickbait, the fact is that whether we like it or not, the current state of the KZfaq algorithm *requires* that content producers create titles and thumbnails that intentionally create an unresolved cognitive state (aka curiosity, shock, disbelief, concern, etc) that motivates people to click on the video to scratch the itch. Creators who refuse to do so very quickly end up getting "disappeared" by the algorithm, to the point of even disappearing from the feeds of folx who are subscribed to them and on notify, and basically end up killing their channels in terms of maintaining an audience and getting seen. Most of us agree that it's not the best set-up in the history of ever, but playing by KZfaq's rules is a ground state we ALL agree to abide by when we decide to either produce or consume content on this platform. For producers, that means creating titles that drive clicks if they care even the slightest about getting the video seen by someone other than their immediate family or friends. And for consumers (including you) this means not judging creators for doing what is necessary to achieve their goals. Lefie is putting out content designed to *help others,* and no doubt also to build a vibrant, active platform and audience to support her own goals in life, like the ability to pursue and successfully launch that mystery project she alluded to in the previous video (which, as she notes, she would have possibly never taken on without her deck of life-changing cards). And the bottom line is that in order to successfully do that on KZfaq, by definition she needs to play by KZfaq's rules. So it's highly unfair to complain about her for doing a necessary thing that creates no harm, helps her achieve her goals, AND helps everyone who could be helped by her content FIND her content. And complaining about it when she and everyone else on KZfaq is literally providing all of that hard work and content to you for FREE (and that you would almost certainly NEVER have even discovered had the algorithm not decided to show it to you in the first place based on a said algorithmically based decisions)? Well...let's just say that's a behavior you might want to reconsider making a part of your core personality.

Great thoughts from both of you! It’s interesting that what turns certain people away can sometimes help others become interested. In my mind, "clickbait" is when the video doesn't deliver what the title promises - it literally baits you into clicking and then it’s all a lie - and I do try to avoid that at all costs! But to me, the previous title was just the truth: I really DO feel those cards changed my life! And I believe the video delivered on that truth and explained “how.” Sure, it may be emotional rather than descriptive, but as @sonipitts pointed out, I occasionally do this to grasp new viewers, as I’m trying to share this free info with as many people as possible and make the effort of video-making worth my time as well. As you pointed out, not all of my titles are emotional, and not all of them are descriptive. I hope you can forgive me for this! Thank you for the feedback. 🙂

​@@Lefie > In my mind, "clickbait" is when the video doesn't deliver what the title promises This. While any title that actually makes you want to click could be considered "clickbait" by some, the generally accepted definition of is taken to include misleading/deceptive titles, or situations "when the link leads to content of dubious value or interest" (Mirriam-Webster). Which was absolutely not the case here, on either front. And the fact is, boring "just the facts" titles DON'T get views. Which means helpful, valuable and just plain old entertaining content goes unseen by those who would otherwise benefit form it or want to see it, and the producers of that content see no fruits form their labor aside from the literal documentation of it. And besides. Assuming the content lives up to the title, some folx (like myself) PREFER the more "clickbaity" emotional titles, because they generate excitement (both for our own upcoming enjoyment of the content and the engagement with the community around that content, and empathetic excitement for the creator, who's obviously excited about the thing they're talking about/sharing/producing), as well as an enjoyable sense of anticipation and a general feeling that something worth our time is about to go down.