@BenjaminABoyce I just wanted to say a huge thank you for having me on your channel. Your thoughtful questions and genuine curiosity truly made the conversation feel enriching! I feel like I gained more than I gave from our discussion.Thanks again for creating such a welcoming and engaging space for these important conversations.

"I had a California accent". Lol, call me crazy but I swear, the Cali accent became nationally feminine-coded, and Mid-Atlantic nationally masculine-coded, seems like almost exactly 20 yrs ago, and most ppl combine the two (with just a touch of the old regionalisms). Psycholinguistics solved. Nominates self for Nobel Prize *error 404 Nobel Prize not found*

Can everyone quit being rude and disrespectful to the guests that Boyce has on? MAYBE even treat them like real people? I feel like this has been getting worse for a long time now. It is simply cruel to meet someone’s vulnerability with these nasty comments and it’s ultimately going to lead to less people wanting to share their stories for those who actually need to hear it AKA not you. Jeeeeeez.

There seems to be very little help for dysphoria apart from affirmation, it might be interesting to explore how dysphoria might have developed and why deciding to take on a role where he will be ridiculed was the best solution , it's almost as if feeling humiliated is part of the AGP.

Schyler, thank you for this interview. And Benjamin Boyce, too. I think you’re great. Honest and smart. That being said, you present as male, honey. People know. Women know. Some might lie to you and placate you, but people can tell. I hope you find acceptance. You can be whoever you want to be. You are beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤

Schyler, thank you for your honesty amd youbare clearly self reflecting and intelligent. I still w9sh and pray ypu fond peace with who you are though, with who you were born as. It must be a difficult journey and i see you genuinely seek answers, but i still pray yu find peace one day with yourself.

Wow! What a great interview, feels like her mindset and past experiences mimics largely of mine, definitely served as a good voice for me 🙏

Great interview, thank you.

Some of this dovetails with the Philosophy Babble episode I just watched with Iain McGilchrist and Mark Solms.

I'm getting more of an impression of repressed homosexuality from Skye rather than AGP...

Oh dear, after listening to all of this. I still think you're trying to convince yourself and everyone else that this is NORMAL and that it is it good and expansive. I am sure the struggles you felt as a male were real, but it still sounds as though you want the best of both worlds. We all have to settle for what we are born with and lead how to deal with that. You want men, you want women, you want to be male, you want to be female, you want to renal terms to suit yourself, you want a child so YOU can grow bit what about the child?? Do you you ever think about what this will do to a child? I'm sorry, I still think the best way through this is self acceptance of who you are and as the rest of is, struggle with a bit of suffering and self sacrifice. I wish all the best and I wish you Truth. I have sent this in love, but I still think you need to work THROUGH ypur narcissim and homosexuality .❤

Yessss it is all about taking time

Good interview, she gives an insightful account of the trans experience.

Damn, the chat was like Fight Club.

27:31 uh-oh, I did this too. I would pace and fantasize, usually not out loud. So did my spectrumy lesbian friend in high school.

Lots of interesting social and psychological dimensions mentioned in this one.

Im old school, could someone tell me if Schyler is a male or female? Im confused.

It's not about _using_ of the word (agp) that is to shame. It's simply that what is referred to by that word, the signified, is, at its core, something to be ashamed about. It used to simply called deviance and looked as such. If anything, employing the word agp aided in somewhat 'normalizing' as a form of sexuality.

If you're making the drastic decision to live this kind of alternate lifestyle, bringing children into it would be a huge mistake.

The interviewer is a VERY handsome man!!!! 😘

Very Interesting interview. Never hear any men with gender identity disorder (GID) expressing this way. I have the feeling Schyler is gay and was easier this way to accept his sexuality, and his problem with testosterone is that the libido is higher, so the struggle is bigger against your sex interest, if you come from a very religious background where particularly homosexuality is harder to accept. But what do I know... that's my personal opinion. Also, to be clear, not every person with gender identity disorder (GID) has autogynephilia. I think there are many different cases that can cause people to experience GID.

I've improved upon the Blanchardian typology: _There is one type of trans, characterized by intrusive thoughts about one's sex, with or without erotic fixations or various elaborated culture-bound syndromes adopted to explain the intrusive thoughts._

12 cats, I see you've accepted the Benjamin challenge. "Herding cats, never gonna work bruh". Benjamin: "hold my beer, indefinitely".

Open inquiry is medicine, that's great.

Identity crisis, euphoria my ass!!!

Very interesting and positive from Schyler. Now she's back with the Christians I'm wondering what the reactions are from them. I doubt they'd appreciate the female-female marriage or the male trans-female either.

12 cats? 12 ?! That's shocking . 🐿

"I told my parents on Easter night of 2018 that I thought I was transgender” ... “I slept the best I'd ever slept that night” Schyler, ask your parents how long it was before they slept through the night? Ask your 3 younger brothers, too.

I think I'm even more confused now.

I’m just a few seconds in, and yes…I did think it was gonna be about a trans cat 🤦‍♀️

Sacha Bailey is a detransitioner a very good story to listen too.

Another great video. Transgender is real, but not at the current rate. It's mostly girls, and I understand it, since I had always wished I'd have been born a boy. Unfortunately, you cannot really change genders.

Must have a tolerant wife.

What’s wrong with his cheeks? Why are they so red? Rash?

Puddycats in the jungle and on the hunt.

Sounds like saying, we should be more ok with trans. If adults want to dress a certain way or get elective surgeries, I don't particularly think that's my business, for the most part. But beyond laws or harsh stigmas, if we're talking abt general NON-COERCIVE normative/cultural expectations, what abt the whole "erasing gayness" thing? It seems more reasonable to me for most ppl to assume as a default, that culture should just be sufficiently comfortable with "gayness" (I thought we were, but I don't even know now) and treat most trans ppl (especially young) as probably just needing to become more comfortable with being gay ppl in their 'original bodies' in the social sphere, rather than altering themselves, unless some of them occasionally remain convinced they need to go pay money in their 20's for some surgery so they don't spaz-out.

She seems cool but something about a transwomen raising kids just for those kids to grow up and realise that one of their moms is not only a man but their biological father who provided absolutely no fatherly role.. big oof…

It's important to realize too that while we're serving others and learning to serve others and learning to craft our craft around others.... It leads to money and business and service business and capitalism.

#38👍💨

When you refer to your guest as "they" you are actually talking about one person. Why cave in to this bs?

Thanks for banning my comments . you're the best.

Halfway in, and one of the most boring episodes so far. So much pseudo-theoretizing and rationalisations and just rambling about God knows what. Came here hear their actual story, not the random pseudo-philosophical opinions. If I'd want to make sense of it on a philosophical/theological level, I'd turn to actual scholars or pastors, here I just want to hear the story, concrete, not philosophizing justifications.

Me, me, me…🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Great guest! Sky's story is important to humanise and destigmatize trans experience, because they are so eloquent, respectful and balanced. I don't understand why they identify as AGP... they strike me as the homo/bisexual type according to Blanchard. I wish the best for the cool and lovely couple, if parenthood is on the stars it will happen.

shes not really agp because agp is being so in love with women that you want to be that which you are attracted to the most .. im not getting that message here at all.

Shes cute for a He/She☺️💨

Title #9🖕💨

Is that a bullet hole on his chest?

Sky had me at cat mommy 🥰