When God Chooses Someone for You, You Will See . . .

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What will happen when God chooses someone for you? How will you know God's choice for you when it comes to dating and marriage as a Christian single person? Here are 5 things that will happen when God chooses someone for you.
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@candykugel 5 күн бұрын

It can be very hard for us to wait for Gods plan and don't rush forwards. But let's all trust in his good plan for our lifes❤

@Marria-hn8yn 3 күн бұрын

His* ❤

@HijadeDiosS.____.. Күн бұрын

Amen 🙏

@vandamnn3564 2 сағат бұрын

@@candykugel you mean like the good plans He has for all the innocent children's lives that He allows evil wicked satanic people to abuse, molest, torture, malnourish, mistreat, rape, sell, murder, sacrifice, and cannabalize all in the name of "free will" and His "love"?! Bullshit 🤣

@allenabishek1478 Сағат бұрын

Sometimes I think I'll end up like Keanu Reeves waiting. Huh well whats the point of finding someone when you're on your deathbed?

@gailmukisalynfenton3375 5 күн бұрын

About 3yrs ago, I gave this part of my life totally to him, I said I can't choose the right person. So, he brought me to a godly man, and while at times we are not perfect, we have God in the middle and we are now married. Thank you for the confirmation Mark.

@alexben6211 3 күн бұрын

God bless your unión.

@user-kg6go5kj9i 6 күн бұрын

I’m going through a tough time right now, I’m questioning my faith in God every day but I still persevere in hopes that God’s timing will work when I’m on the brink of giving up

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

Amen, stay in the Scriptures and surround yourself with other Christians. The Holy Spirit will guide you!

@JayCansino 5 күн бұрын

Don’t lose faith, and detours happen to place us on the right path. God timing is perfect.

@omegalashin 5 күн бұрын

Take the difficult times as an opportunity to learn. God is trying to teach you something or guide you somewhere. Trust he has a plan and his plan will be the best thing for you.

@deuronntshingila4862 5 күн бұрын

I am currently where you are I respect to fighting to keep the fire of your faith burning. I'm taking it day by day praying and asking God to help strengthen my faith and patience in waiting for God to breakthrough for me. We need to put on the armor of God and spend time in God's presence.

@christinebailey3369 5 күн бұрын

I'm so there bro,

@GJones247 5 күн бұрын

The closed doors that lead to open doors is so real. Major key.

@patrickdavid6525 Күн бұрын

That indeed caught my attention

@brandonoliver5304 5 күн бұрын

I pray for her. I pray for her safety and her health and for God to protect her. I pray for God to fill me with wisdom and self control so I can accept the gift from him whenever he is ready

@truly_yourss 3 күн бұрын

Oh wow... That's my same prayer every morning and night. God bless you.

@leighleigh8725 3 күн бұрын

Stop focusing on me and worry about your own private life ❤

@brandonoliver5304 2 күн бұрын

@@leighleigh8725 😂😂😂 bold haha sounds like. Joke I would make.

@angelafayesims1563 2 күн бұрын

HALLELUJAH ❤❤❤

@IamwhoIam333 5 күн бұрын

I have finally met the man all women dream about and hope and pray for. I wasn't looking when I met my William. We celebate life not struggle through life. Is he perfect , in my eyes even though my heart knows that no one is perfect I had given up looking. God and I have had many conversations regarding relationships. I've been single and celebate for 25 years. Going on 26 years. It was like we knew each other since childhood. We laugh , we cry , we have fun together. At the end of a long day I have him and he has me. One day I hope to be tucked safer in his arms.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 күн бұрын

God bless as you seek the Lord's leading

@IamwhoIam333 5 күн бұрын

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger amen 🙏

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

I hope he pops the question.

@ashleessingingsensations7294 6 күн бұрын

I really needed this confirmation, Mark. Thank you so much. God has been saying yes to my prayers and pointing to all the signs, including one for a godly, future husband. One that only believes in him, worships only him, and loves only him. There were times that I felt like giving up praying for my future husband, but the Holy Spirit told me to keep going. And now, my waiting season is still continuing in God's presence, and so is my future husband's. Thank you so much, Mark.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 күн бұрын

God bless!

@terrytitus5291 4 күн бұрын

I wish my days of singleness would be over soon,been single way too long!!!

@starpooper1681 Күн бұрын

I hear you...

@danilaroche1156 Сағат бұрын

Me too. A very long time.

@AyanaInChrist 5 күн бұрын

#1 was my biggest fear. God has given me peace. He chooses the best for His children

@matthiashepworth6583 2 күн бұрын

Brilliant stuff. So helpful. Imagination, infatuation, idolatry; nailed it bro. Never beg someone to be in your life. If they can't see the gold in you then someone way more suitable surely will. Always remember than no-one is 'out of your league'. They are simply not compatible with YOU.

@Baileypatt97 6 күн бұрын

Thanks Mark. I’ve experienced many of the bad signs and closed doors. The pieces have never really fit together and it was clear when the Lord did not want me with someone. Now, I feel at peace and expectant for what He has in store for me. The Lord has richly blessed my single season and I’ve healed from many things in the past year. My prayer at the end of the day is that God would make me the man He wants me to be and how I ought to be seeking first the kingdom of God and it’s righteousness and all these things will be added unto me.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

Glory to God as you seek the Lord first and foremost!

@debbiebramwell 5 күн бұрын

Amen!

@ninamnaya1411 3 күн бұрын

Some people are meant to be single. That too is God's choice for some. Amen

@yolandagofigure 2 күн бұрын

Some.

@marianaree9967 Күн бұрын

I think I was meant to be single . And I’m okay with it thank God .

@danilaroche1156 Сағат бұрын

Well yes...

@josephpanozzo4815 5 күн бұрын

I've prayed constantly for a Christian girlfriend who will want to be my wife. I've never been on a date. So I have to continue to be patient.

@AshleyHume-bz2id 5 күн бұрын

I've been on dates, I have been in relationships, and I'm still waiting on God's kingdom man for my future husband. So it's ok because I need to be patient too.

@falloutthewindowcrazy7608 5 күн бұрын

Remember to pray for the Will of Jesus Christ's plans for your life

@Saropicardal 5 күн бұрын

May God answer your prayer according to His will.

@Stevo-klo45453 5 күн бұрын

Ashley; I’m sure you will find someone, you have experience. Be patient. As for OP, you do need to try, make effort and show interest in them. Otherwise they will friend zone you or think you’re not interested. Rejection is a very big thing in the dating world. The only way to get on top is by constantly getting rejecte, also you do some of the rejections too. It’s just the way dating works.

@Stevo-klo45453 5 күн бұрын

Op you can’t sit and wait, you need to ask friends to introduce you to the person you fancy, try your luck, ask out people on dates, keep trying. Remember, not fornicating is not a sin; going on dates is fine, you have to make the move. Sitting is for people that give up and need a break from dating, not from those that want to date. Get into gear, start making friends, go to the gym, do boxing classes or go to a church. Do anything that will keep you networking and that may give you more opportunities to get dates. If you’re in your 20’s; this is the best time yo do it! After that ; dating in your 30’s is difficult

@pinkygwanisheni 5 күн бұрын

This is so spot on. I went through all of it but m glad that phase is over. Thank you Mark you couldn't have said it better.

@N4divers 5 күн бұрын

This is great timing. I just got rejected and this whole dating thing feels hopeless. I’ve prayed, reflected, and believe for years that God has someone for me hit I guess I’m just not for anyone. It’s frustrating and self pity but this whole thing feels like you’re told you’d be invite to this party your entire life and the host has a gift for you only to find out you’re told to wait outside in the rain/sleet/snow but don’t worry you’ll be let in at the right time and everyone else is having a good time inside with their gifts meanwhile you’re still outside left wondering with all these promises that haven’t been fulfilled. It’s upsetting.

@debbiebramwell 5 күн бұрын

That's not exactly the right perspective to have, it's a lie from the enemy. Rebuke him!

@danjsilve 5 күн бұрын

Imagination and Infatuation. Yep I have certainly experienced that before. I would prefer the format as shown in Genesis 24 for finding a wife. At 60 there are not many single God fearing ladies within an appropriate age range to meet.I won’t do dating apps, as I prefer to meet people organically, and trust God to make us cross paths. On the flip side, I am prepared to be single for the rest of my life. Jesus, Paul and the Baptist were ok, they did some great work as single men for the Kingdom of God.

@dmydesigns72 5 күн бұрын

❤ God has a plan for us ❤

@dfpolitowski2 3 күн бұрын

Same here.

@Budster8770 5 күн бұрын

I found my 1st true love since my wife passed a few years ago I feel she is definitely God sent bc I wasn't looking and she appeared in my life she is everything I want in a future spouse and she tells me I'm everything she wanted in a future spouse we keep praying together for our relationship to blossom into more. AMEN

@chosennotforsaken 5 күн бұрын

May the Lord bless your union...

@carlosmartinez9676 5 күн бұрын

@@chosennotforsaken That's great!!, Looking/ waiting for that special person too after my wife passed 5 yrs. ago

@dmydesigns72 5 күн бұрын

A blessing for you both. I wait patiently for my future husband. ❤

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

Well if your both clear..propose!

@Budster8770 5 күн бұрын

@danilaroche1156 that's the plan in the near future she don't know it

@sophiacardona2093 5 күн бұрын

I met my person on a dating site, we quickly exchanged numbers soon after matching and we both felt conviction from the Holy Spirit when we spoke on the phone. We never met, we knew nothing about each other and we felt attraction but we are both mature enough to know looks aren’t everything: we’ve both been hurt, married, tried it all.. anyway, it is possible to know who your person is. We’ve been dating and things have been wonderful, not perfect but when faced with a challenge, we have God in the center and are able to work our way through with love and respect. The best connection I’ve ever had. I pray this is Gods will for us and just wanted to share that we both knew instantly. It is the strangest thing he and I ever experienced and many Christians I’ve met have experienced that too (confirmation through the Holy Spirit).

@crystalmetz5946 5 күн бұрын

What site did you use?

@sophiacardona2093 5 күн бұрын

@@crystalmetz5946 We were on Upward

@andreamegec9836 5 күн бұрын

Bless you🙏🏻🙌thats wonderful. Im going through same things ,wondering how did you know, after how many time talking. Did you met? Its interesting we two also met through sister in Christ over phone ,studiyng scripture,became best friends. Conversations went so wonderful, flowing, then we met after few months in public ,and there was so much joy, conviction so wonderful. Like we knew each other lifetime. So scary. Never felt that before . But its complicated since Im in a relationship celibacy, he is single. We are both christians, and Im still in unequally jolked relatinship.

@sophiacardona2093 5 күн бұрын

@@andreamegec9836 yes, we met shortly after the call! For me, it was very bizarre because as I was talking to him on the phone, it was as if he was reading my mind. He was saying everything I was thinking. It was extremely strange and if I wasn’t so into God I would’ve thought this was devil sent. But, what got me to really thinking is that I was feeling very hot, the way that I do when I’m in church while I was talking with him and knew it was the Holy Spirit. I was very happy talking to him, we had so much in common and just very, very similar in mannerisms and just our logic and view of things. I had prayed for that.. I had been fasting for my future husband and I had received numerous confirmations after. God speaks to me through people and that can be in person or via reels or KZfaq channels. It mostly starts with a thought, feeling and then an outward expression or realization, so I know it’s not just me. Every persons experience is different and that is what is amazing about the God we serve; He is very intentional and detailed. So, my story can look very different from others or alike! It’s all about your relationship with Him. You have to know God and spend time with Him to be able to hear Him. But what you are explaining doesn’t seem to be God favored if you are in a relationship already. If you know you aren’t supposed to have an unequally yoked relationship, there is no point in entertaining one. I hope I am understanding what you’re saying correctly for me to make this sort of judgement and it is all with love. Be wise.

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

Well if he knows your the one he should be making his intentions clear. He should be marriage minded. Personally, I think he's playing you.

@marykapalvie5381 5 күн бұрын

G❤D IS FAITHFUL NOW AND FOREVER MORE AMEN AND AMEN! JEREMIAH 29:11❤❤❤

@PurebreedFLA Күн бұрын

Thank you, Brother. May God continue to pour into you and use you for His glory. Amen🙏🏾

@Lavawydd 5 күн бұрын

I think this was one of my favorite videos on this channel it was so right to the point and I think it all was speaking to me! I’m in a waiting season for my future wife and I’m trying to be strong in this wait.

@christydanny8707 5 күн бұрын

Really Helpful mark, God bless you abundantly ❤

@punarinya3598 3 күн бұрын

Ohh thank God for this video....I got the answer... Thank you Lord... You gain 1 follower today...

@FloridaMarlinWrangler 4 күн бұрын

I been a born again christian for a long time and all those points mentioned are an accurate assertion. God put me together with a lady whith whom God blessed our relationship even though we have slightly different theological beliefs. I believe the traditional we are saved by grace doctrine and she believes we humans are divine. Well, i guess both approaches can coexhist because when a sinner becomes a born again believer he/she takes on Gods nature. It is safe to say that once regenerated we do in essence become divine. If this werent true then God wouldnt of blessed me with this wonderful lady. Everytime we talk to each other her and i behave in an integrated fashion. God blessed me so much by bringing her in my life and never knew what a truly beautiful woman was until i met her. She is very divine

@kelligray1848 5 күн бұрын

This is exactly what I needed today.

@Scranton0 5 күн бұрын

This is helpful teaching even in other areas Such as job search and much more. It is imperative to know that God is involved in all aspects of our lives

@CBReal1290 5 күн бұрын

Exactly! Truth interpreted and shared well!

@ninagarcia878 5 күн бұрын

So helpful. Thank you for your wisdom! God bless!

@keddy5627 6 күн бұрын

Mark, this was VERY helpful! Thank you! 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

So glad!

@SleepyFox4000 5 күн бұрын

God blessed me with a vision of my wedding day with my fiance a year ago the Sunday before he asked me out. I was unsure because he was such a good friend. We talked it through together and decided to give it a shot. He's my best friend now. I can't wait for that day to come to pass just as He promised 😊

@willyj7254 5 күн бұрын

Amen. In God's perfect timing

@ashleytucker9472 5 күн бұрын

This was very helpful! Thank you Pastor Mark!

@MsShay316 5 күн бұрын

Thank you, this serves as confirmation… this has blessed me more than you know… I believe it’s so important in the times we live in, that people don’t get caught up on social media personalities making them a fantasy person and mistaking it for being God’s person for them… in a lot of ways technology advancement is good, but then not so good because it has so many ppl in their feelings, projecting a false connection just because that person responds to their comment section to you or speak back doesn’t mean that’s the person for you, especially if they are not approaching you with interest at All…. Sometimes, it would be nice if there was a true break from social media for everyone, that will force ppl to engage the old fashion way sometimes, that way you most definitely will know when someone is interested in you or not… but Oh well, waiting patiently for God to reveal his person to me in the meantime. God Bless you MOG!!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

@585Courtney 5 күн бұрын

Still waiting for Gods chosen guy like he promised for me back in 2023.

@robynsimpson4610 5 күн бұрын

I receive this Word with gladness Amen

@ParthivRongpi 6 күн бұрын

Amen may God bless you and your ministry

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

Thank you and may the Lord bless you too!

@Unveiledtheblog 5 күн бұрын

This channel has been so helpful I love all of these videos!!!

@kylekrommendijk4797 5 күн бұрын

Thank you Mark for the insight, I greatly appreciate it. I needed to hear these words from you.

@rebeccaskalare9445 18 сағат бұрын

Please God, choose a husband for me in the name of Jesus. Amen🙏

@Natalia-xo1yj 5 күн бұрын

Thank you, brother Mark 🤍☀️☁️ This aligns perfectly with what I'm going through. This is confirmation. I feel God is using you to confirm my Goldy relationship.

@Natalia-xo1yj 5 күн бұрын

Godly*

@sed.aba01 4 күн бұрын

Thank you once again 🙏🏿 those 3 I’s are very helpful

@alexben6211 3 күн бұрын

This is Amzing, 😊😊😊, God bless us all, Amen.

@cynthiamapulanga4971 5 күн бұрын

It was very helpful

@TS-fj2lo 6 күн бұрын

Thank you Mark!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

My pleasure!

@alexben6211 3 күн бұрын

Keep up wih the great work .

@juliaoconnor5688 5 күн бұрын

Beautiful

@Alexz5040 4 күн бұрын

Video came at the right timeeee🙏

@3Elisabetta 6 күн бұрын

Thank you so much!!!❤

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

You are so welcome!

@adaobiokobi Күн бұрын

Thank you

@graciebreeden3100 5 күн бұрын

❤❤ this really helped me ❤❤

@honeydominicans-ok8jx 5 күн бұрын

AMEN PRAISE THE LORD!

@D464J 5 күн бұрын

Great video brotha. Hope it’s all been good on your end 👊🏾

@vania698 5 күн бұрын

Thank you!

@Issyindians15 5 күн бұрын

Brothers and Sisters, I say this. If you are trying to make a relationship or a former marriage work and it’s not working that is also something to consider. Throw this at Gods feet and He will be there with you. He will show you if this is what He wants for you.

@bigafrogirl5509 3 күн бұрын

So true ❤

@Kellykittymom 11 сағат бұрын

I'll be 55 next month, & Still single!! Hard to still have hope at this point. I've had a cpl of great guys in my life over the yrs, that were closer to that than any other, but timing was wrong.

@biaaaa1 5 күн бұрын

OMG he is the one ❤

@mayvenedasilvaengelbrecht4256 4 күн бұрын

About 3yrs ago i decided to give it over to God coz ive made mistakes by my own choosing. Been celebate and still waiting on my God sent Kingdom spouse. It can be a bit lonely when you see other couples, so these days i dont go out much, only with close friends and family. Still hoping and have faith that God will send my kingdom spouse, its not easy though.. the Lord is my strength 😅

@HijadeDiosS.____.. 3 күн бұрын

Amen Amen Brother Ty 🙏

@ncherieamour 4 күн бұрын

Thanks

@czntrm 4 күн бұрын

I ignored red flags and married the wrong guy. How do I know he was the wrong guy? He manipulated me and lied to me, then he became abusive, turned his back on and blasphemed God, and then he kicked me and our 2 kids out. Since then, I've never come across anyone that I could trust, who is a strong Christian and interested in me. God blessed me with kids, for which I'm grateful every day, but I don't think there's anyone that is for me.

@godgraceandmercy2684 5 күн бұрын

Amen HALLELUJAH ♥️ 🙏

@sbattle4787 3 күн бұрын

God is Brilliant beyond measure.

@stargazingcatgirl3233 4 күн бұрын

It's almost 5:30 in the morning, but I can't sleep. I'm in tears as I write this. I know that my heart was made for marriage. I want to share my life so much that it hurts. My heart aches so badly that I haven't been able to sleep tonight. I don't understand why... why did God create me for marriage and create me for my soulmate, but not create my soulmate? Or... what if God did create my soulmate, but some other woman stole him before we met? All this passion deferred is pain. My gift is that I feel passion more deeply than any normal human should, but it turns to pain and it makes my heart ache. I don't see how married happiness can happen for me. I can't help how I feel. I want to share my life with my one true soulmate. I want it so bad that it's breaking my heart.

@meganferreira9880 3 сағат бұрын

I know it is hard. I also have a desire for marriage for a long time now. It is difficult to be patience, wait on God's timing and trust him. Especially when it seems like everyone around you is getting married. It is easy to feel we need to do something before God will blessed us. And it does not help that people in relationships can't really relate and by trying to give 'helpful' advice, they make it worse. I don't believe there is just one person for everyone, but rather that God has a person perfectly suited for you. So if someone else 'stole' your spouse as you called it, then it was never God's intended will for you to marry that person. In the meantime, bring you tears, longings, hope and dreams to God, ask him what he is calling you to do in this season, and do it. Surround yourself with godly single people. And pray for your future spouse.

@nicoledennis-lawrence3326 4 күн бұрын

lovely

@TsuriaDragon 5 күн бұрын

Indeed I wanted to be with someone whom I really liked and cared about but this person doesn’t have an desires to be with me so I know this isn’t God’s will it’s painful at times but I’m praying for the peace to let God do what he wants and for me not to worry about this anymore.

@alholbertlim1154 Күн бұрын

Amen ❤🙏

@gavilanes07 Күн бұрын

We were together, A God fearing man and woman. Now she wants space to heal on her own. Should I move on and just stay supportive? We still pray together as friends.

@Majorhavoktv Күн бұрын

God choose me to be single like Paul.

@dianaaavula4306 6 күн бұрын

Master i will be waiting for you still

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

God bless!

@constancereed2796 2 күн бұрын

It is certainly good to know these five points, with not hesitation, confusion, just wait on God’s will to be performed. You don’t have to stand outside with a big sign on . Just wait , if it is so to be good, and if not good.

@mikepowell5094 4 күн бұрын

Just got rid of a lying narcissist woman. Waiting for the lord to send me a good woman. Do not want another bad one. 😊

@Thoth19 3 күн бұрын

ALL Modern Western Women.are like this!!!😢😢😢

@AyeJye 5 күн бұрын

Should we pray for our future spouse even if we don’t know them yet?

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

Yes

@marianaree9967 Күн бұрын

37 years old , never married . Never met the Christian husband I thought. I think is just not God’s plan for me . I’m okay with it .

@victoriarose9090 5 күн бұрын

Amen

@glenerickson358 4 күн бұрын

If it turns into work and frustration, walk away.

@Justin-fi8eo 19 сағат бұрын

At this point I don't care who God chooses for me Im done with relationships..I don't need people messing with me screw everyone who did !

@chadbrunot6905 5 күн бұрын

Does God already have a partner for me to walk with in life and love❤

@LdAmaro71 Күн бұрын

I’d like to say, “this video broke my bondage,” but somehow I’m not 100% sure. Oh, mighty Heavenly Father. When will I know for sure? I know I’ve told you, “I left it in your hands” because I’m tired of it. I don’t want to think of a future that won’t happen and I’ll seek your kingdom first and your justice so everything else would fall in place. If only you can speak to me in dreams as you have done in Biblical times multiple times or by a complete stranger in the streets of this Babylonian city. When I look for an answer in your Living Word I don’t see the answer. 🙏🏼 Oh, Lord, I know You’re working on my blessings, but as I stated, “don’t want to think of that Sister if nothing will happen. By her telling me “she’s emotionally involved with someone whom has been there ever since her kids’ dad passed away,” she “believes You placed him on her path so he can be saved and he’s slowly becoming Christian” “she loves him,” “her confidant,” “special friend” would have been enough to accept this reality, but why can’t I let her go 100%? Just 85% 😢 Is it because of that night when my late wife passed away and prayed, “God, seems I’ll live the life of a widowed man and do as Apostle Paul said, ‘be as me - alone.’ “ Then saw an image of her, but I brushed it off as wishful thinking. Then her image appeared again? Is it? Has me confused and I know you’re not a God of disorder. I asked you to rid off my chest these feelings I have for her, you did, then came back less than before. All I know is that if she’s the one, by the time she corresponds with me I won’t have that same amount of love I had for her. For now, whatever love I have for her is emptying and will love her as I love everybody else - ALL the same. 5:45 Oh, God. 🙏🏼 I was better off not seeing image of her. Many times I wanted to burn my “1,150 Days & Counting” journal so no one else can read it including me.

@hunterlake637 3 күн бұрын

You know, my whole life it feels like all the women I've tried to even get close to and almost date, God slapped me across the face and said "Not this one" and now I'm like "Alright Alright" ❤️🙏

@ICONFESSONEBAPTISM 5 күн бұрын

May I ask what denomination of Christianity you are subscribed to

@alexben6211 3 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 I am so sorry I clicked so many times on Like, it just felt I didn't yet..😋😄😎😂

@zackdelarosa14 4 күн бұрын

I pray for my future wife I pray that God becomes her #1 love and only #1 love that she prioritizes her relationship with Him above all else that nothing below this earth on this earth or beyond this earth ever takes His spot on the throne of her heart and whatever vies for that spot that she calls out and cries out to Him to help her set them in their proper places that she becomes the women of God He called her to be and when she is ready when I'm ready we develop a God centered relationship that flourishes into a marriage and one day have beautiful children we can dedicate to the Lord on His perfectly timing

@susanbrooks3337 5 күн бұрын

Easiest way is to listen to the Holy Spirit. It will guide you.

@sissierakotoarimanana 5 күн бұрын

Last year I went to a youth camp in our church. I met a young man, he has tried to reach me but I said hello and left because there was another man who attracted me more , unfortunately the other man I like is already in a relationship. After the camp I started to find out about the other man I've ignored.. I started to know that we were both Sunday school teachers, then I also knew that he's older than me, I thought he was my younger brother. I fell in love with him..We don't see each other because we're so far apart, he's less active on social medias..Now, I pray for him everyday..Still waiting for God to reveal His will?

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

He can't pick up the phone? He can't find you? You have his number?

@roryshipowick3827 3 күн бұрын

the verse in Deuteronomy 22, says to not fear the prophet if he gets something wrong (KJV), that seems to indicate that a prophet is not to get something wrong to keep his authority

@gsanchez5116 5 күн бұрын

I only have dated 2 people before my “first love” for 3 years and another guy after for a year. Both I could tell were not the one God had for me to marry. Both were painful because I’m sentimental and it’s hard for me to accept those things and it’s hard for me to move on. Now out of fear and exhaustion I don’t really feel like dating. I still think about my first love sometimes though I know God told me at that time to let it go. I don’t want to live in the past but I’m also afraid to move on forward. I don’t feel like giving anybody a chance and I don’t feel like dating. I hope that feeling doesn’t hinder me from marrying the person I am supposed to marry if they exist or that it will hinder them from wanting to marry me. I feel kind of weak and tired of thinking about it though

@MAR24300 2 күн бұрын

You're just emotionally exhausted or burnt out. You probably just need to heal. Nothing wrong with taking time to heal before being ready to try again. Relationships can be exhausting if you are a sensitive person. Nothing wrong with that.

@MAR24300 2 күн бұрын

Its definitely a risk to get into something new. I am going through it now. It takes courage and a lot of faith. Relationships take work. It takes courage to deal with the imperfections of your own and of another. It is draining to open up your heart again. But if you meet someone special, its worth going for it. Don't let the exhaustion cause you to self sabotage.

@adrianbellamy8969 5 күн бұрын

What if one person had a "Supernatural dream" sign but things didn't work out and then they moved on to someone else. And by not working out the other had character flaws that needs to be dealt with but things were going quite well before it ended.

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

The devil can give us dreams & we think it's confirmation. He moved on? Character flaws? I'm doubtful. Don't marry a man unless he's in Christ.

@ashamer7776 6 күн бұрын

"when God choosee someone for you, other relationship opportunities will not be blessed". What about when you marry a non believer and it goes well?

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 6 күн бұрын

just wait...it won't "go well" if your aim is to glorify God in that marriage together

@reubenanaya5438 5 күн бұрын

My aunts husband was an atheist. They've been married over fifty years. Just recently he became a believer. I know my aunt helped bring his heart to God.

@JessicasMagicalTreasures 2 күн бұрын

I always wondered about people who were married and divorced multiple times. My brother-in-law is on his 4th marriage, and is using his wife as a lifeboat. 😂😂😂😂

@vanessamariposalove 5 күн бұрын

I ended a long term relationship even though we tried, God wasn’t in it as much as I forced Him to be 😒 I pray God has a husband for me. Ty! ❤

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

I don't see why God wouldn't. Don't get involved with a man unless he is seeking Christ.

@4d.4c.4b4 Күн бұрын

Can I or he be unsure??

@user-yn3qw5hm4q 36 секунд бұрын

There is anything called twinflame connection or soulmate connection was there ???. Will God send a twin flames as partners?????

@user-tp8dw1xr9n 2 күн бұрын

My last bf talked ugly about me lies it's ok not worry call him no more

@stephenjrivhuerta8760 5 күн бұрын

I had a dream about my girlfriend when I was a little kid, way before I met her.

@iluvhanson 6 күн бұрын

What if the ‘signs’ have lined up and now you’re a couple but one person is experiencing anxiety about the relationship in a God honouring healthy partnership. Is this not Gods choice?

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 5 күн бұрын

Time will tell. If the anxiety is making the person give up on the relationship, it wasn't God's choice

@andreamegec9836 5 күн бұрын

Brother , and what if anxiety remain through months or years, and many strugles in long relationship ,but partnets didnt know it till one became newborn. And now this person has conviction to go out after over ten years? Is this Gods will, or just test?

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

Maybe. Maybe not. Lots of men get cold feet/anxiety. I know this sister at church..her now husband called off the wedding 5 times. FIVE times! They're happily married now serving the Lord.

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

If he's in Christ and he's marriage minded..looks good. If not, don't let him play you because alot of men will do that. String a woman along.

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

My ex boyfriend started out as a friend. He definitely wasn't my type. I thought he was nice but he seemed to be a bit awkward & I could tell he had serious anxiety. About life in general. He did go out of his way to pursue me. We were together about 7 months and he was clear that I was the one. Henwas even talking marriage. He did tell me before we dated that he has OCD. Disabling anxiety. Sooo..we are in love and then he says his fears & mental health prevents him from marrying me. Prevents him from marrying ANYBODY! Mark, I had terrible anxiety..long term 7 years ago. Could not function, much less date or marry. Jesus healed me. He's new in the Lord and he loved me very much. We broke up but his friend called & told me that my ex still loves me. What do u think?

@user-anon 3 күн бұрын

What if she still loved me but broke up because the stress in her life was too much I'm hoping she changes

@danilaroche1156 Сағат бұрын

Kind of sounds like an excuse. I know it hurts. Get busy with God's business & let her alone for now.

@KatherineDuque 17 сағат бұрын

You're handsome

@kathyme2882 5 күн бұрын

I am sorry but I find some of the messages informative yet some are vague and confusing.

@Amy-ys2od 5 күн бұрын

Mark can God choose for you a good man who is not born again yet? There is this man am seeing he has qualities of a good man, provider, protector, selfless, caring but doesn't know Christ yet am afraid because I know i can not change them to know Jesus without their free will first?

@guyincascade 5 күн бұрын

From experience, from the Bible, Jesus said do not be unequally yoked. If that person knows how you feel about them, tell, share with them what the Bible says, about unequally yoked, walk away. God will honor your decision. Also, if you are reading your bible regularly, God will speak through his word. The Word says Blessed are they that Trust Him. Ps 1, Ps 2, Ps 34:8, ps 84:12, Jeremiah 17-7, And this is my Life Verse.. Ps 18:30 God grant you wisdom. Trust the Word of God it never fails.

@andreamegec9836 5 күн бұрын

Psalms are great. What if in long relationship (decade) one person is newborn ,and after a while had conviction that shouldnt go to marriage? And other person wants, but also want to live in ungodly way. Its a struglle

@falloutthewindowcrazy7608 5 күн бұрын

@@andreamegec9836if a believing husband is married to a unbelieving wife but she wants to stay then stay married I've read in the Bible that But Test the spirit

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

If he doesn't want to live a Godly life....leave. That's a recipe for disaster.

@danilaroche1156 5 күн бұрын

Definitely do NOT date him. Anybody can pretend to be a good man. If he isn't saved he's going to play you. KNOW that.