Watching your child is NOT babysitting!😡 Going to the store to shop is not quality time for yourself. That's running errands to purchase household needs! It's a chore, not "Mommy" time!!!
@certifiedquality63817 ай бұрын
Yup
@PrimarchRegalious7 ай бұрын
Yeah, that sounds like drug dealing or something shady.
@AlinaKat37 ай бұрын
100%
@InsoIence7 ай бұрын
@@PrimarchRegalious Huh?
@PrimarchRegalious7 ай бұрын
@@InsoIence one is probably in a sad, broken, “middle ground world,” if shopping is a vacation. Your “process stop” is not representative.
@SKOLAH7 ай бұрын
It's NOT just semantics. It's very telling. Saying he babysat his own child? Huge red flag. Huge.
@ghost-husband7 ай бұрын
yeah, i feel like babysitting implies that you're watching someone else's kid
@B0OBIES7 ай бұрын
@@ghost-husbandit does. Watching your own kid is called parenting 😂
@tatiana40507 ай бұрын
@@ghost-husband for me it implies you are doing work that is not your duty. Like paid work or a favour.
@ANYHOO07 ай бұрын
I'm not against all age gap relationships, but this one appears on the surface to be what a lot of them are (especially a 40 year old with a teenager) where the man wants someone they can easily control. And you're right, it seems like they're baiting people for views.
@jsas20477 ай бұрын
Right?? I wouldn't care much if they were 30 and 45 or smth, but to be in a relationship you at least need to be in a similar point in life. Someone who has been an adult for 20 years, has (hopefully) been working and living independently for a number of years, who hasn't been in school for over a decade compared to someone barely out of highschool, who hasn't been living independently, someone who might not even be fully working yet and just getting their degree.. You're not eventuell remotely the same.
@iwanttobeontheisland7 ай бұрын
I agree. At least this guy looks good for his age but still...
@annab49317 ай бұрын
The way the young woman was sounding annoyed/kinda in disbelief when she started that video about the husband "babysitting" as an extra christmas present- it seemed to either completely go over the husbands head, or he was pretending nothing was wrong with that on purpose, and you see the young woman smile/ back down when he says its the "greatest gift" for a wife/ mother and kisses her and his child... Its so sad.
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
It could be her facial expression but hey the fact he’s already timing her for how long she’s out the door-Sis should not post this online and find that cute to laugh at. There’s too many stories of father being lazy and not involved their children life that they force to happen resulting to the women carrying the entire burden of being a parent, making a joke of it on TikTok is not cute.
@missspell48977 ай бұрын
He babysits his own child and marries other peoples child. You can never convince me that he met her when she was of legal age. As a mother to a daughter you would have to rip her from my arms and call the police if a 41 year old wanted to marry her
@shannonrobertson75277 ай бұрын
Dang Girlie that fit is gorgeous 😍
@pixelhunter07 ай бұрын
she looks great o natural
@artsybatsy7 ай бұрын
She really served with this fit!! Gorgeous
@victoriawilliams27867 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree.
@B0OBIES7 ай бұрын
Ikr? Love the hair too 😍
@max-tr8nt7 ай бұрын
I love it too 😍 she's beautiful all around
@Mila-Rosa7 ай бұрын
'When we were young'?? Girl, you're STILL young! And he was ALREADY old!! Wtf
@WhiteCresentKnight7 ай бұрын
It’s always the way older men getting with barely legal teenage girls that I’m always confused why people defend so hard. Like bruh are you under the impression you’re gonna get your own teenager?
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
The whole “they keep me young,”,” need more energy” lol it’s so weird and make no sense to me 😂 since when younger people are entitled to entertain old people or make them feel young it’s a choice to slow down and most young people aren’t even that energize. It’s just to excuse to chase a minor to take control of compare to someone their own age
@cherryflavoredplaylist7537 ай бұрын
Exactlyyy, it’s mostly creeps I hear defending this behavior so hard or women that have parents with an extremely concerning age gap that don’t want to unpack the fact that their mother was groomed
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@cherryflavoredplaylist753most women chase older men for survival reasons pretty much for stability and older men are aware that they are seek for by younger women for their money and what they can offer. But throughout always lead to the women being house locked, dependent, or financially abuse. The TikToker is lucky her income is online because trust being at home with a kid and an absent father isn’t fun to be stuck in.
@Venus-cd1kk7 ай бұрын
All these adult women and they go for a teenager that barely got a taste of freedom 😭
@aksarbengothic7 ай бұрын
@@Venus-cd1kkmakes me think of all the creepy older women on booktok spamming a 16 year old biker
@huekanosedot7 ай бұрын
this was a result of grooming, 100%. he was her high school friend's DAD, and her friend (his daughter) didn't go to the wedding either if that tells you about how it's perceived even by some of HIS family. they "got together at 19" but he knew her as a kid. the most damning part is that they've lied multiple times about their story to try and cover it up. first they told the truth on yt, then they deleted it and made up another story about her meeting him when she did waitress work, and then they lied again and said she met him when she was out at a bar with her friends. so while they're telling the truth about HER family and how they factor in, they're trying to bury his side which is significantly more damning than just a family not approving of their daughter marrying a way older man or something. i don't trust this for jack shit - both from the vibes in those videos, and from the facts.
@ramenaddict16767 ай бұрын
fucking VOMIT. as a dilf lover myself, i logically can't approve of this type of relationship. every time i desire someone older than me, despite my raging hormones, i talk myself out of it and wait til im older. just wish most young women can do the same. sometimes just because a guy is older doesnt mean he's smart. trust me, i was raised by a fucking manchild.
@xLiLlyx987 ай бұрын
I too wouldn't have gone to the wedding of that fucked-up relationship then holy crap 😀
@Jazzymariexx7 ай бұрын
“why are you having children?” Speaking from experience with the “men” i’ve talked to in my life; it’s all about wanting to continue their legacy. However that would insulting to the child lmao. They just want a mini me. They don’t actually want to raise a human
@donovanchilton58177 ай бұрын
Way to generalize half the population. You can’t find a good man because you’re probably insufferable.
@Nero_Jero7 ай бұрын
Ugh the whole legacy bs. You can pass down a legacy to you children; children in of themselves aren't a legacy. If that was the case then what about the "legacy" they were supposed to fulfill for their parents?
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@Nero_Jeroright, what legacy is there to offer? Legacy would be generational wealth not a last name.
@jenjoestar.7 ай бұрын
I can get wanting to continue a legacy, because that’s important for many people and cultures. I just hate when people think it’s not a extreme life changing decision, or they leave everything for the mother to do.
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@jenjoestar. no honestly that’s the major issues in parenting added with America and their “support” for mothers. Promise to god I’ll be in debt if birth a child
@daniellek17997 ай бұрын
At 19, I dated someone much older. I am only 22 now but I hold it as the biggest regret of my life and have a lot of shame over it. I can’t imagine if I married them.
@pinkpanda56967 ай бұрын
Please try not to carry shame because an older person took advantage of you. You didn't do anything wrong and have nothing to be ashamed of. Older people like that know what to say and how to manipulate young people and it's no fault of the young person.
@daniellek17997 ай бұрын
@@pinkpanda5696 thank you, that means a lot. At Christmas he texted me and said “merry Christmas kiddo” I nearly crawled out of my skin. Definitely made me reflect a lot more
@pinkpanda56967 ай бұрын
@@daniellek1799 What a creep! I would block him everywhere and go complete no contact. You're welcome!
@shadowbanned63587 ай бұрын
He keeps interrupting her which is another red flag. His energy is off, something is creepy about him 🫣
@josephbons17 ай бұрын
As a father, I've certainly never viewed spending time with my children as babysitting. If he had sent her on a surprise spa day, then he could call that gift. His father obviously failed in teaching him how to be a man.
@mysticthemanakete7 ай бұрын
I know some of these points are in the video, so consider them an seconding of those issues. 1) You don't 'babysit' your own damn kids, they are YOUR KIDS - don't have them if you don't consider it your job to look after them, whenever or however, because you literally never know when your kid might need you for even the smallest thing. 2) 'Freedom' shouldn't be a fucking GIFT to mothers - even if there's stuff only she can do, and the kid will tend to go to her for stuff, don't make your kid feel like only their mother will listen to them. 3) I confess, maybe I'm reading into this too much and I'm willing to admit this is from a white person's perspective, but anybody else find that phrasing REALLY FREAKING CREEPY coming from a white husband who's old enough to be this black lady's dad? Like, it would be weird and creepy from any older guy to his much younger wife imho, but that particular situation is just like 'ew, why would you EVER say freedom is a 'gift' to them?'
@tatiana40507 ай бұрын
I mean if 2 hours away from the child is half of a Christmas gift, does it mean that its the only time he is taking care of the kid?
@bennygerow7 ай бұрын
RTG is a bombshell. Even without the wigs 😊
@ThestuffthatSaralikes7 ай бұрын
Dude to SAY out into the world “I’m not gonna nor do I wanna have kids!” Is *SO* brave. *ESPECIALLY* as a person with a uterus. BRAVA chickie!! 👏👏👏 Blatant honesty. Another reason I adore you and you’re channel!!
@PrimarchRegalious7 ай бұрын
It Is a very big deal, it matters so much that everybody "be in states that they tend to be relatively far from" because all decisions are real decisions. It's patriarchal cogs slipping over people who don't want kids and nobody else, because people change, we studied biology and know people evolve. 🦉
@shannond15117 ай бұрын
Not really…not in this day and age…
@PrimarchRegalious7 ай бұрын
@@shannond1511 I appreciate your vote. I got a notification for this and I am physically, in my brain pulled to point out that it depends on where we are in objective reality but I do not mean to use this as excuse.
@d1gitalsonder7 ай бұрын
my personal view on this age gap is very biased because i’m 19 and my dad is 42. he was 23 and my mom was 24 when i was born, which may be young to some people, but still, i personally cannot see this without also seeing power dynamics. even if it’s not predatory, most 41 year olds are pretty set in their career and may already have a child from a previous relationship, whereas most 19 year olds are taking a gap year or just begun college. very different life places, but we don’t know these people or their stories.
@Clownbunnycosplay7 ай бұрын
Apparently he does have a daughter his wife’s age, as someone who’s 22 with a dad who’s 44, and has way more life experiences
@dariang47257 ай бұрын
Im a gay guy, and when I was 18 my brothers ex girlfriend hooked me up with a 30 year old sex offender. Was a teacher who got caught with his student. She knew this before she introduced us. He was extremely controlling and abusive. I wasn't allowed to have guy friends, even if they were straight. He went thru my phone on multiple occasions, and found nothing. I was young, and stupid, but I eventually broke it off with him when he threw my phone out the window. After I punched him, and he left me on the side of the road. That age gap was way too much. What does a 30 year old man have in common with a 18 year old kid? It's sick, and I feel embarrassed about it to this day. I think people mature the most 18-24. I dont think anyone over the age of 30 should have anything to do with someone 6 years younger than them. It almost always ends badly. Just like mine did.
@alycaruso36087 ай бұрын
There would have to be such an unlikely set of circumstances occurring for it to be arguable that this relationship is anything but grooming. As a 25 year old dating a 36 year old, I am incredibly aware that it takes a very particular set of circumstances for an age gap to be healthy. I had a life that propelled me into desiring stability and having high expectations that many people in my own age bracket couldn’t meet. At 19 though? With someone actually old enough to be your dad? At 19 I wasn’t mature enough to be dating someone long term, period. And now she’s locked in with a baby and hasn’t even realized what is most likely years of manipulation occurring. The fact also that he was willing to say her mom was scared for her daughters life without feeling the need to clarify, almost sounding proud that the mother was so disturbed? Either they’re trolling or something is very very wrong. I hope this poor woman doesn’t become a dateline episode.
@NotAnotherKuromi7 ай бұрын
That is interesting, thank you for sharing your nuanced opiniom. Perosnlly at 19 I was matute enough to be dating somone but I didn't have enough experience or wisdom to realize that my partner was not mature enough and I deserved better.
@Thecodexnoir7 ай бұрын
No. NO circumstance can make this power imbalance ‘ok’, NONE.
@MsMorgendorffer17 ай бұрын
She 1000% would have known him when she was underage… IMO. He probably would’ve started the grooming while she was underage… so that as soon as she became legal he was, “In there like Flynn”. It takes years to develop a relationship, from the first time you meet up until you actually move in together, get married and have a baby. I’m 39 and this is so, so wrong on so many levels. I can’t fathom stealing a 19 year olds youth and life, let alone deal with the embarrassment about being seen in public with a teenager that I’m exploiting 🤮
@minbyc7 ай бұрын
Oh hey I have a similar age gap! I’m 25 and my partner is 33. It works for us because I have been independent and “out in the world” since I was 18 whereas he grew up quite sheltered. It definitely *can* be weird though- I think once you are over 21 it’s more of a case by case basis though
@h3tur7 ай бұрын
i just started watching ur channel, your tattoos are so pretty 😇 brains don’t fully develop until 25, not to say you can’t make sound decisions beforehand. ofc you can, but i think we can all agree you’re more prone to rash and not fully thought out decisions. a teenager (19) is so impressionable…
@Germania727 ай бұрын
Babysit? That's his own child that he contributed to bring to this world! The heck! Does he want to get to know his child?
@emmaadams59057 ай бұрын
As a somewhat recently divorced 26 year old dating a 42 year old I definitely think where that younger person is in life and mindset play a huge factor. Never thought I'd be in a relationship with someone with such a gap but he and I met as adults I'm a homeowner etc. He meets me where I need stability and maturity wise and it's great but there's been very honest conversations about the issues age gaps can present and we actively communicate on such things. But he also completely understands the nuances of mens predatory behavior towards young women and can identify that and how he would feel if his young daughter once grown up was in a relationship with an age gap like ours
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
The irony that older men don’t want their own daughters being with older men. If it fits for you why can’t for others? Right
@selrox8797 ай бұрын
I am almost 26, i cant see myself with a man in his 40's...while my mom is 53. Just no but you do you
@Clownbunnycosplay7 ай бұрын
But she was nineteen, you’re 26 medically your brain is fully developed and you’re ‘mature’ she’s was a year out of high school,
@idiotically-everything7 ай бұрын
You two, based on only this comment, seem like an example of a functional and sustainable age gap relationship. 18 year old and a 40 year old not so much. You're both independent and have experience in life. 18 or 19 year old not so much, and I am saying this as a 19 year old, who is turning 20 this year. I have no idea what I'm doing, I have no idea what I'm supposed to be doing, and now I have to survive somehow
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@selrox879 i can’t see it because slowly and surely my attraction will failed each year his age decrease while I’m still growing as a person. It’s weird how I’ve met 60 year old men with 20 year old girlfriends and yet they complain all the time of how old they are to do anything … cringe.
@iFlutterbye7 ай бұрын
Okay so I was groomed by an older man from about 16-22. I never knew his real age, he bought me gifts and everything felt conditional. He scared me toward the end cause I wasn’t putting out (I later learned I was asexual). I’m now 35 with a guy that’s 14 years older than me. I have a better sense of self at 35, and there’s just a different air about the one I’m with now. It’s in the lack of leverage it feels like he’s trying to put on me. I’ve been chronically ill all my life to the point everyone is always going to have more experience than me, more money than me (I’m on disability) and stuff… but there is something to say between the night and day behaviors of a groomer and a healthy age gap relationship…
@aubree_edits45207 ай бұрын
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@Lilmisscostumedrama7 ай бұрын
His whole demeanour ewwww. So…looking after his own child is part of her “present”? Was I hearing this correctly?
@markatag26807 ай бұрын
Watching your kid is not a gift... it's a responsibility
@Sweet_Tooth_Art7 ай бұрын
Just after my 20th birthday I met and started dating a 26 year old man. He was manipulative, abusive and cheated on me. At the time the age gap was a little strange but when I turned 26 I realised I would never date a 20 year old. It's also worse because Iv always looked younger them I am. His ouw mother told him I looked 14-16 when she met me. 😵💫
@Marymackthequeenofwack7 ай бұрын
It was 6 years, not 16. Stop defending your poor judgment with "AGE GAP:
@Concretesatanic7 ай бұрын
20 and 26 is a normal age gap.. just stop
@clairebear-967 ай бұрын
Ohhh no their shorts have been popping up in my youtube for like a year now and the guy is genuinely so creepy, some of their videos have such a dark vibe to them like he seems actually scary 💀 and the fact she moved away from all of her family to POLAND with this man…… I get such bad feelings about him
@lunalove37427 ай бұрын
I’m 28 and my boyfriend is 39. Like that works, and we are at a mature level of understanding. Where as a 19 year old and a 41 year old is just wild. She gonna leave his ass lol
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
She’s 4 years in that relationship she’s not going go anywhere except for him since he’ll age away into a wheel chair while she’s 30 wiping his ass.
@cheesyDELISH487 ай бұрын
@melteddarkchocolate000 he'll be in his 50s when she's 30 not 80 😅
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@cheesyDELISH48 i never said 80s. but usually people fall apart when they are 60, thats when they are really old.
@Clownbunnycosplay7 ай бұрын
@@melteddarkchocolate000 What? My moms a home health aide and works with competent people in their 90’s
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@Clownbunnycosplay oh so you’re saying someone in their 90s can use the toilet without the usage of an adult diaper? Like cmon 🙄 are you gonna tell me that babies are able to talk at the speed of rate of a 20 year old?
@jeremyknight99807 ай бұрын
Reminds me of Boogie2988 where he's with a 20 year old woman and he'll be 50 years old in July, he's old enough to be her Father and she has daddy issues. I'm okay with younger/older relationships but there's a limit imo, like 10-ish years.
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
Hell I’m in my 20s and being around men 30 years old is just gross. She’s there for what he offer her but it’s not worth it since he has mental problems and is a fat lazy slob
@Clownbunnycosplay7 ай бұрын
Let’s not say someone has ‘daddy issues’ way to blame a child for a man’s actions
@jeremyknight99807 ай бұрын
@@Clownbunnycosplay She does in fact have Daddy issues, there's a documentary about Boogie called "The Dark, Sad Life of Boogie2988" where she's said that she didn't grow up with a Father, has a fear of being alone, is so scared of him dying from complications and he goes out of his way to tell her like he's going to die soon making her worried sick about him and she started crying.
@BlueHazyDreams7 ай бұрын
@@jeremyknight9980 I think that person wasn't denying that she has daddy issues, but critiquing the way we describe the concept as being on the kid when it's on the parent. I'm not sure how I feel about that as myself having an emotionally abusive/neglectful father is still "my issue" as I'm the only person who can fix it now, but there is some stigma against that phrase I guess and we are coming out of an era where we largely put the blame on young women for what older men did, so I think analyzing how we refer to these things is warranted.
@jeremyknight99807 ай бұрын
@@BlueHazyDreams It clearly isn't her fault and I didn't mean it that way, but it's just creepy to me that Boogie is preying on a woman who has issues and she views him almost like the Dad she wish she had. She got so torn up over the idea of him dying and has a fear of being alone.
@endingsarentnear7 ай бұрын
that shirt really suits you! especially with the short hair
@gabimaza7807 ай бұрын
I think this whole thing reads abusive. He gives me the creeps 😖
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
I just find it annoying how’s there’s a narrative when it comes to age gap relationships is that if you chase an older man he’ll take care of you or if you chase younger women they will keep you young when that’s not even true. Young people are not entitled to make old people feel youthful last time I check that comes within age and just life in general. Plus old people are not Guaranteed to give you an earlier retirement, I mean her giving birth to this guy kid shows what purpose she serve in. I don’t really care much for age gaps relationship because it’s really not my business but to advocate people to go an do that as if this is not the act of a grommer? It’s just very damaging. It’s like promoting every other degenerate narrative that’s celebrated on TikTok when in reality it’s not a fairy tale depending on the person you settle with. It’s just weird.
@c0zycherry7 ай бұрын
sooooo, i had many things that came to mind when seeing the tiktok & knowing the deets: 1. a 40-something father calling taking care of HIS OWN CHILD for a few hours babysitting? and sounding tired/annoyed because of it? 2. her father & brother didn't show up at the wedding and she's flippantly like "whatever", his dad walked me down the isle? i am 100% positive it broke her father's heart. 3. her father most definitely saw the flaring red flags in a FOURTY YEAR OLD man going after his 19 year old daughter. 4. what SANE / MENTALLY STABLE 40+ man marries a barely legal young woman and quickly gets her pregnant? 5. he most definitely wrapped his webs around her BEFORE she became 18... AIN'T NO WAY he didn't get to her when she wasn't a MINOR. age gaps are perfectly fine AFTER the ages of 21-25 to lets say 40 or even 50. but a BARELY LEGAL 19 year old & a 40 year old man? THERE WAS GR00MING INVOLVED.
@Mtv20O17 ай бұрын
Wait why did you say until 50, wouldn’t that 21 year old be able to just date someone older even if that person is are older than 50?? What’s the difference between 50 and 55? I’m genuinely asking.
@c0zycherry7 ай бұрын
@@Mtv20O1it was an example... a 21 year old can date a 50+ man, but even though it's legal, it'd still be a little bit too old (for me at least) i'm a 35 year old woman and my max age difference (whether older or younger than me) is 10 years. older than 45 or 50 is too old, and younger than 21 is downright criminal. of course there are women in their 20s who date 60 & even 70 year old men, but it's mostly for monetary gain and people judge it, despite it being of legal age. in my opinion, maximum age gap should be no more than 20 years old, but to each their own, and as long as there are no kids or minors involved, no one can dictate what others do with their lives.
@Mtv20O17 ай бұрын
@@c0zycherry gotcha! honestly 21 is no different than 20 for me so as long as the younger person is 20+ then they should be allowed to date who ever. 20 years olds are grown adults and they can decide their own decisions.
@c0zycherry7 ай бұрын
@@Mtv20O1 exactly... just have both parties be adults and shit will be avoided
@lisaschwochow49147 ай бұрын
What’s even creepier about this is that he already has a daughter and she’s the age of his now wife!
@laymayday7 ай бұрын
I question why anyone over 34 would date a person that is under 30. It just feels icky. 🤢
@wxwxw88007 ай бұрын
I think 34 and 29 would be totally fine to be honest
@brooklynnbailey43567 ай бұрын
I'm only 25 & wouldn't date under 21 PERIOD. Ppl like this are NASTY AF
@amarisfrede27 ай бұрын
About the rain, yeah your audio is a bit echo-y, but still very understandable, and I'm just happy to see a new video from you, so thank you for the upload!
@sejongunniespistol7 ай бұрын
That guy gives me a bad vibe. He doesn't even let her finish sentences.
@nananinanana6567 ай бұрын
YOU NEED to look into Jessica Kent, she's gone WILD
@andreaaldrich40467 ай бұрын
Unrelated but I think you look great with shoulder length hair!
@yansfor53067 ай бұрын
A lot of guys say that a lot of young girls look for older men because they are looking for stability. Which usually young men don't offer yet and for the most part they want to be messing around with different women before even thinking about settling down. I was 19 when I met a guy who was 30 about to turn 31. My friends were grossed out, but I thought I was just mature. I never had any boyfriends through highschool never dated anyone so he was my first one. It was hell and only as I got older and began to realize he was just manipulating me to fit what he wanted. Since we have been going out a lot I thought that we were girlfriend and boyfriend, but I was so wrong. He knew I had no experience what so ever. He worked with one of my friends and he was flirting with her and other girls. I could clearly hear him. Well when my friend asked him if we were together he said no. That he never asked me to be his girlfriend. So he had the right to be talking to other girls. To say the least I was extremely hurt I cried and by that time I had fallen for him. I had that little girl mentality that we were going to be together forever. It took me awhile before I finally was able to let him go, but through all that time I let him use me, I did as he pleased just so I can be his girlfriend. I later found out he had a 1 or 2 year old son and the mother of his child was one year younger than me (18). Thinking about everything that happened he had so many red flags, but I was just too stupid to see it. He really did get a gullible stupid girl. I regret meeting him and now im just grossed out that I even liked someone that old. Now that im able to see through their bs I tell girls younger than me to be careful and if I see something that is wrong I let them know so they can hopefully think about it. Ladies be careful and don't waste your youth on some of these older men. There is usually a reason why some of these old dudes are single.
@miaomiao54627 ай бұрын
Giulia, I really wish I knew you in real life. I think we would vibe well! Love your content, thank you for making it, I know life isn't easy and you are pushing hard. ❤
@jariqueen7 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, you look so good😭😭😭
@Makeupvine7 ай бұрын
Omg I’m so glad you’re making a video about this!!! Got a reel of this couple in my feed about a week ago and…. Well, I’m glad someone is talking about it.
@jessickalush33057 ай бұрын
Off topic, but you look badass in that outfit 🖤
@mariekitty7 ай бұрын
Love your hair style and color
@Elvoalven7 ай бұрын
This is reminding me of Aaron Taylor-Johnson dating his now-wife when he was 18 and she was 40, which definitely started only then and not a moment before. /s.
@dwhite39377 ай бұрын
This “young wife” and mother always looks mentally disturbed , like her eyes always look like there is a LOT of CRAZY energy behind them, like she’s going to snap at any point and do something incredibly horrific, like stabbing her family to death or something. This couple rubs me the wrong way and annoys me a bit for that reason. I think we will be reading about them in the future and not for good reasons.
@kendrahwhyte99607 ай бұрын
It’s pouring rain here in Boston Massachusetts. You look great
@purple88947 ай бұрын
looking good love the short hair. Rocking it. And the rain adds ambiance 😀
@christineroby9837 ай бұрын
This man has cut her off from her family, all of her friends, and then has her living in that country illegally. It’s an entire mess.
@christineroby9837 ай бұрын
He wouldn’t even let her mom be present at the babies birth and won’t let her family meet the baby
@AnimeArchaeologist7 ай бұрын
When it comes to age gaps, people support it if the woman is older than her guy. Why is that?
@venusretrograde61777 ай бұрын
I’ve had a cautious eye on this couple ever since they started making content when she was pregnant. I could see a mile away that something like this was going to happen. If that much of her family was adamantly against their marriage, it could have been more than just the age gap they were worried about. I’m very suspicious of a man in his 40s who thinks it’s a good idea to peruse a girl who is only 19. A few weeks ago she posted a video that was just her standing in front of the camera with her baby and the caption said “I used to be a hot 19 year old but now I’m a wife and a mom.” That right there really seems to be saying a lot without saying much at all…
@helvetecaLLC7 ай бұрын
I rarely have seen your real hair and you look so BEAUTIFUL!!
@faith2947 ай бұрын
unrelated- your hair looks gorgeous, stunning
@lalayastill6107 ай бұрын
so many of my guy colleagues have said over the years how much they hate being home with the baby. I could never have a baby, never ever, because i don't want to raise it alone, and apparently that's a very big risk
@ciaociara7 ай бұрын
i seriously thought this trend was a joke, making fun of age gap relationships…
@FigmentForever7 ай бұрын
Another reason why I never want kids. That age gap though…Kids Too much of a strain on life, not for me ever, and nothing about a child creates happiness for me. Plus I’m a lesbian so physically impossible to have a child outside of adoption, as we both got “fixed”.
@BrianaCunningham7 ай бұрын
It is not babysitting, its parenting. Its important for ppl to know the difference for sure.
@ldy2hzlft11117 ай бұрын
love your outfit.
@MadameChouette8007 ай бұрын
I'm 41 and thinking of dating a 19 yo is disgusting to me
@karenpaulina88487 ай бұрын
The Charlie reference killed me hahaha. I would also be like him in a situation like this.
@arenasviscatanius7 ай бұрын
I love your outfits and hairs.
@tobiaslawrence89287 ай бұрын
But i think the question should be asked is "Why do young girls love older men so much"?
@READYTOGLARE7 ай бұрын
Based on my personal experience, a lot of the guys I went to high school with seemed immature. That’s not to say they were but they might’ve come off that way at the time. There’s this false hope that the older guys will “get you” or be “more serious.” Of course, I never dated in high school or until I met my late husband so I can’t speak further than what my thoughts were. I’m sure some date older for the benefits (teens who can’t buy alcohol / $$ / etc).
@gypsytears17857 ай бұрын
Money…. They like to be provided for.
@lyndsey44537 ай бұрын
I think it's the illusion of maturity. Young women think that all older men have progressively matured, but it all depends on the man himself.
@annab49317 ай бұрын
I refuse to date men who are younger than me because in my experience, men take a lot longer to mature and become kind/ self-analytical/ grow out of the misogynistic thinking patterns that they picked up as teens. Even so, there have been guys older than me that have still needed mothering or basic empathy lessons. Ofc I think partners should always be growing and changing and learning from eachother, but I'm not looking to raise someone else's grown ass adult. Also society shows aging in men as desirable for the most part (silver fox etc.) And act like aging is the worst thing a woman can do. Which only adds to older men and younger women seeking eachother out.
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@lyndsey4453same with younger guys too
@pixelhunter07 ай бұрын
I was with a 30yr old when I was 19 and he was an awesome guy but I just didn't think we could relate with pop culture and stuff. Not a bad guy at all just thought it would'nt work out.
@lunalove37427 ай бұрын
19 and 30 is acceptable, but 19 and 41 is just…. Too much lmao that’s 21 years apart.
@pablodelsegundo95027 ай бұрын
Same here, I was dating dudes at least 14 years older than me when I was 19-26.
@melteddarkchocolate0007 ай бұрын
@@lunalove3742girl no it’s not. 20s with a 30 year old is fine.
@ii-kk3ke7 ай бұрын
@@lunalove374219 is just getting settled into college and 30 is like full adult…
@mercedesvelasquez87817 ай бұрын
@@melteddarkchocolate000that is your personal opinion and personal opinion alone. I was 19 when I dated a 29year old didn't work out because I wasn't in the right head space I was still just a year fresh off from getting out of a 3in half year relationship.. Yes still friends with him yes he meet my mom on the very first day we went for our first date. Later on that year dated a man who was in late 30's and still friends with him to this day s0 folks need to get the hell over themselves in regards to age gaps..
@MMcCoy-yh4ho7 ай бұрын
OMG YOU ARE SOOOO BEAUTIFUL
@sunshinesideofdarkside7 ай бұрын
Big oof. I think it is weird but sadly legal.
@gabimaza7807 ай бұрын
Sometimes I wonder if the reason people start posting stuff like this is like a cry for help. Or to have evidence if anything ever happens to them… not wishing that on anyone clearly
@alyscanlon47157 ай бұрын
Off topic but this hair is so beautiful on you! 🔥
@frankfontaineofficial7 ай бұрын
this look *chefs kiss*
@idiotically-everything7 ай бұрын
You know, as an 19 year old, well 20 this year. I can safely say I am not at all prepared to br an adult. I am not 100% sure what I'm doing and at this point I am jusy winging it. Like, if I dated someone in their late 40s they would be old enough to be my parents, which is weird as fuck, and we are at totally different parts of our lives. They're busy having their midlife crisis while my brain isn't even fully developed. Also, I can safely say I would not be responsible or finacially stable enough to have a kid, I would be completely financially reliant on an older partner, which on avarage is not a healthy dynamic
@alyscanlon47157 ай бұрын
On topic. If my husband called watching our children babysitting we would have a SERIOUS issue. Shopping for the family alone is NOT free time. Cleaning without kids under your feet is NOT free time, a shower is NOT free time! As a SAHM of two toddlers I can assure you that. So gross!!!!
@RachelIlacqua147 ай бұрын
Also something you didn’t mention is that he has a daughter the wife’s AGE and they did NOT like each other when this all began. There’s even more to the story. 🤦🏻♀️
@dominique86557 ай бұрын
i wanna know how they met. my money’s on a sugar daddy website, or that was some sort of agreement before they became serious. idk what her background is but a lot of these age gap relations between old white men and young black girls/women is bc of that. i know several black girls from college that lived that lifestyle. and yeah you get your money but usually at the cost of your boundaries. and that may not be the case here but it should be a larger conversation than simple “get your bag, sis”
@Ashley-un9rp7 ай бұрын
Great video! Yes the males in the girls life should vet the man she is dating, sounds like they did and saw his bs where she doesn't. Your look is awesome ❤ gorgeous ❤
@unfortunatelyiamsane6 ай бұрын
you look AMAZING with short hair
@kingofallmediums21237 ай бұрын
Hi Glare! 😐🫤😑
@amandaredd30577 ай бұрын
Oh it seriously pisses me off too. Babysitting says to me that the parent who never or rarely takes care of their kid especially alone is doing so and the other parent (the one who is the primary care giver) should be gracious for that little gift. Absolute horse shit but not uncommon
@mariapaz63797 ай бұрын
it feels like these couples make these videos because people already criticize them, so might as well make lemonade. Obviously this looks like grooming and in a few years, when the glamour fades, she will realize that she is married to someone who took advantage of her. She already sounds kind of annoyed at his parenting style, imagine a few years with a little more experience, when she sees her kid become 19 and she realizes "i would never let a man take away my child, how could that even happen to me". These kinds of relationships are always like watching a car crash
@nodoubtmisa7 ай бұрын
It is not babysitting if its your child, im so over this bullshit my god, and the thing of saying its the greatest gift to a woman that she can go grocery shopping without her child wtf
@BumboyWillynut7 ай бұрын
Love your real hair ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@violetmarinaayis7 ай бұрын
I had one of her videos pop up iny insta reels! Bunch of people in the comments were expressing concerns for the woman's safety :(
@johnwerner697 ай бұрын
7:27 And that is why we have been #TeamCharlie since the very start!
@Shannonloveesrock7 ай бұрын
My husband hates it when people call it baby sitting, they're his kids as well
@tiffanydavis17007 ай бұрын
Off topic, I am obsessed with this top! Can someone please tell me where it’s from 😢
@cda65907 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who's actually kinda weirded out by the fact that he's a white dude joking about how he's giving the "gift of freedom" to his black wife who is taking care of his biological child? I mean I'm not even the kind of guy who "makes it into a race thing," but I can't help but wonder what sort of role this woman has in his life.
@brooklynnbailey43567 ай бұрын
The gross typical roll of being a completely 💩 on wife and mother from the looks of it... just wow 😬
@markharrisllb7 ай бұрын
There’s 15 years between my wife and I, when we started dating I was 53 and she was a few days shy of 38. I'd known her for two years before that and as friends I had feelings for her. I never told her how I felt as I didn’t want to creep her out asking her to go on a date. She’s also several grades higher than me in looks, she is almost perfect except for one thing…her taste in men, she asked me to go on a date. This guy seems to act in a very paternal or older brother sort of way. There seemed to be a keenness to get across how much she owes his family. The connection just didn’t seem to be there. I mentioned in a reply to another comment that I think it’s impossible for a father to babysit his own children. He was with them whilst his wife did another important household chore.
@babyruthless96707 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my dad and his now widow...................
@rinwesley30927 ай бұрын
Oh I’ve seen this couple before. I had no idea the age gap was that much. My only concern is for the baby. As long as they treat the baby (and she really does seem to love her daddy) that’s all that matters to me.
@jillkeller89567 ай бұрын
Nothing against her, but I see this in a lot of the young women in age gap relationships. The BF/husband has groomed her by telling her how mature she is and how she's so grown up, that she feels the need to prove how smart and mature she is. Her immaturity is driving the need to prove their relationship. And I think the men go along because they think it somehow absolves them from being seen as pedos.
@Marymackthequeenofwack7 ай бұрын
Do you know what pedophilia is? Apparently not! She's a grown woman. Stop infantilizing women!
@slim_stinaxoxo82267 ай бұрын
Sounded like English was his second language? Maybe that’s why he said “babysit”? However! You don’t say babysit when your own kids….you’re parenting. Just bc the other parent is doing other stuff….doesn’t mean you’re babysitting… Ppl will make videos about any minor inconvenience in their lives…some just need to stay behind closed doors. Not everyone needs to know what you’re doing or getting into arguments about & getting strangers involved with it all…no.
@jeannabeckman74247 ай бұрын
I am not agreeing with this man but I more think he was joking about using the word "babysitting" I mean if you read their emotions you can tell they were joking about it to me at least 🤷🏻♀️
@wild_seabass7 ай бұрын
7:37 Sure but is it okay then to ask why a woman is 41 years old but with no man? Of course not, because they'd tell me it's none of my business.
@maryannemendez70767 ай бұрын
This one was hard to keep focus watching 😅 I am no better than a man.
@kingofallmediums21237 ай бұрын
Glare in leather! 😍🥰😘
@Blck_Ch3rry7 ай бұрын
Hate hate hate when parents say babysitting. Like take some fricken responsibility
@nicoledijkstra71687 ай бұрын
I have seen a video of the couple were it also mentioned I believe that he is from a different country orriginally then her but idk the details anymore as this was ages ago
@wxwxw88007 ай бұрын
I think he’s polish
@KIBASxFAN7 ай бұрын
That shirt looks so bomb on u
@isabellasmith86507 ай бұрын
Am I crazy or is there a high pitched noise in this vid