Being Abused (Part 2) | Nouman Ali Khan

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@islamicroad4531 Жыл бұрын

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@henrytuedor2650 11 ай бұрын

i was abused by narcisstic sister i love allah but pain is too much pray for me

@bemindfulmuslimah 7 ай бұрын

Is there a full version of this video?

@islamicroad4531 7 ай бұрын

@@bemindfulmuslimah Full video link - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8tjn62k1dXaZIE.html Or search : S. Yusuf, 58-61: I Know You But You Don't Know Me

@sadiasstyle2773 11 ай бұрын

Just seeing them can give u panic attack😢😢😢so true

@SitiAisyah-ul7sv 6 ай бұрын

My husband give me panic attack someday sometimes i have 1 son that why I can divorce him I really care for my. Son

@positivevibes9964 4 ай бұрын

I feel it 😭

@nazneensheikh377 4 ай бұрын

Can you add full vedeo link here

@monikadwivedi1993 2 ай бұрын

My mother in law gives me panic attacks

@aimantahir12 2 ай бұрын

So truee. I experienced today :')

@fehmidamahmood8883 10 ай бұрын

They dont even acknowledge let alone say sorry. So how do you heal without acknowledgement. They know very well what they did. But their ego and pride doesnt allow them to acknowledge 😢

@vawor4471 6 ай бұрын

You don't need acknowledgement to heal. Give it to yourself.. and then start your healing journey.

@Bookworm-tk5qr 5 ай бұрын

They do not realize that they're doing wrong. They've got serious problem with their cognitive distortions. Needs cognitive behavioral therapy. Some parents, if they really want to change themselves, they have to realize that they have cognitive distortions if they think they’re not wrong. They have to have cognitive behavioral therapy and have to think deeply about their past and how they’ve been treating people and how was their relationship with their parents, their children, and they have to write each and every event of their life, how they behaved, how they felt, what hurted them, how they reduced their stress and so on. Toxic parents have to question their each and every way of thinking and values and have to do reassessment of it trying not to be biased. That’s the only way they can realize that they were actually wrong and that’s why their children hate them. If someone really wanna change them, they should go to counseling to professional psychiatrist and fix their problem. I need more people talking about what can those parents do, who are told that they’re toxic and abusive by their children and they wanna change themselves. --------------- Having emotional intelligence and communication skills is so crucial in parenting and toxic parents lack both.

@Gehjekeosns 2 ай бұрын

The fact that when you try to tell them they get on you and blame u and tell u that youre gonna go to hell

@nadyaabdullah8387 4 ай бұрын

So true ya sheikh. I was emotionally abused by parents and physically and verbally by my father. I still cant forget the abuse and cant stand seeing my father. But I am a mother now, I dont treat my child as such. My father till this day never acknoledges it and still arrogant

@umiix 7 ай бұрын

The most unfortunate situation is when ur abusers are ur own parents. At least if it’s spouse or friends u can cut that relationship and you have a way out. But (being a girl especially) having abusive parents as a child you are utterly helpless and even dependent upon them. You cannot do anything. I don’t wish such pain upon anyone ever

@MsSecretbitch 7 ай бұрын

True

@rifahsanjida6387 Ай бұрын

So true. I hope everyone heals from the trauma they don’t talk about.

@SinhaShambhawi 7 күн бұрын

Same. Hope We Will able to heal in future❤.

@aicha9pinkpretty Жыл бұрын

My mom has changed me and my life because of her I am numb to everything and especially love.

@lynndais3783 11 ай бұрын

Been there, still am. I hope your life turns out to the best, just never lose hope nor faith.

@eliteandroidgamer732 10 ай бұрын

I deeply resonate with what you've shared. My father's yelling, belittling, beatings, and name-calling left indelible marks on my soul. It crushed my confidence and stole the warmth of love from me. In many ways, I feel like I'll forever be numb, a void that's hard to fill. Yet every day, I force myself to feel, to let a glimmer of emotion peek through the cracks. It's the innocent laughter and gentle touch of my children that bring color to my otherwise gray world. They make me feel everything, even when I thought I'd lost the capacity to. If ever you need someone to lean on, someone who understands, I'm here.

@aicha9pinkpretty 10 ай бұрын

@@eliteandroidgamer732 thank you so much this message was heart melting and I hope you get through this INSHALLAH

@aicha9pinkpretty 10 ай бұрын

@@lynndais3783 me too I even wanted to move out but I can’t. You know how the Muslim families are.

@eliteandroidgamer732 10 ай бұрын

@@aicha9pinkpretty Reading about your struggles genuinely tugs at my heartstrings. The day I left home remains etched in my memory as the most heart-wrenching. Witnessing my mother's tears, feeling the weight of her sorrow, and hearing her cries was almost unbearable. But I had to make that incredibly difficult decision to protect my own well-being and future. Today, I often find solace in the love and warmth of my wife and kids. They have brought emotions to the surface that I had either forgotten or never imagined I could feel. Their presence has illuminated the darkest corners of my heart, and for that, I'm eternally grateful. One day, you will find peace, love, and happiness. There will undoubtedly be hard days ahead; it won’t always be easy, but remember that you have already survived so much. Inshallah, I will pray for you, asking Allah to grant you happiness and strength during the darker days.

@SophiaTME 7 ай бұрын

This is so true. And they are a narcissist so they acknowledge nothing.

@grigotts Жыл бұрын

I asked her and she said " No , I did nothing" I shattered..... shattered that day.

@n.d.2429 Жыл бұрын

Because the truth destroys a person so they deny it instead of accepting it, apologize, making tauba and start from zero. Shaitans plan messed this people up while this people followed shaitans advice instead of Allahs advice.

@TutorialsandDIYs Жыл бұрын

I didn't understand ur comment

@TutorialsandDIYs Жыл бұрын

@@n.d.2429 what is that person speaking about

@reny583 Жыл бұрын

@@TutorialsandDIYs They were saying that instead of apologising for what they've done, making tawba and seeking the forgiveness of the person they hurt as well as Allah Almighty, they instead choose to follow Shaytaan and be ignorant or deny what they've done Sometimes it's genuine arrogance and other times it's because they don't want to accept the consequences of what they've done Hope that made sense :)

@areebarasheedd Жыл бұрын

My said the same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@verucasalt6519 Жыл бұрын

Facts. We need to talk about THIS way more in our community.

@mohammadibrahim5253 11 ай бұрын

But sometimes they don't care. We can't even talk like that

@ruksarhaider1567 5 ай бұрын

Very true.. just seeing the person or hear that person who hurt you deeply it gives panic attack and bring all the things they have said to you in your mind..and again you go throug same situations.. in short whenever you see that person you feel same thing same anxity same trauma again and again...😢😢😢😢

@Sarosh943 2 ай бұрын

Suffered and abused by narcissistic father alot , ruined the childhood. But no other option , just tolerate tolerate bcz after all ,he is father.But sometimes it became very difficult to stand his very very shallow mentality, specially about female .And he couldn't digest that his daughter take stand against the husband like him, so now a new form of torture. Seriously Saleh parents are biggest blessing if someone have 🥺. May Allah protect us from being sinful 🤲🏻

@maheennoor7408 9 ай бұрын

I don't know about the panic attack but honestly when I see that human looming around me 24/7 I feel disgusted

@animalsofyoutube6240 Жыл бұрын

Tryna get rid of my parents anyone want them?

@henrytuedor2650 11 ай бұрын

no one wants a narcisst they even hit animals

@hafsakhan9567 11 ай бұрын

You want mine?

@omartrachen6794 2 ай бұрын

My mom is for sale, i would give you money to take her

@hafsakhan9567 11 ай бұрын

What to do if your mother gives you trauma?

@LearnoPhysicswithsara7446 Жыл бұрын

What should a person think if he or she has gone through trauma because of people around them many times in life.

@alifanjum1769 9 ай бұрын

what if someone intentionally hurts you? intentionally tortures you ? what if someone find victory in tormenting you , what if someones keep lurking for a chance to pull you down and attack you in evry and worst possible ways ?

@zackhunter8364 7 ай бұрын

Bruh , i am abused as a child and adult , i got beat as a child and when i was an adult i got so many fitnah from my parents , i went to imams and they so dismissive about this , i was affraid what would my parents do to my kid

@ColbyMacken36 7 ай бұрын

Allah make it easy for you brother

@ayshakhatun8337 Жыл бұрын

May Allah have mercy on them and forgive them give them hidayah to understand peopls feelings!

@habibahdawodu5067 Жыл бұрын

Aameen, yaa Rabb ❤

@henrytuedor2650 11 ай бұрын

@@loveletters24i am a narcisst victim ebery abuser can be forgiven but not narcisst

@ZeeKay1430 10 ай бұрын

As-Salaam Wah-Lekum Wah-Rahmat-Allahi Wah-Barra-khaatu, To all my brothers and sisters, i urge you all to learn and teach your parents and children the quran and the way and life of our Prophet Muhammad S.A.W, as in this dunya there is no cure other than Allah, his quran and the Sunnah. I beg you my brothers and sisters, i understand there are parents who have taken discipline to a different level weather it was because they were uneducated, ego, pride, arrogance, no religion in their life, cultural reasons or they themselves were victims of the same or similar abuse, or something else, I beg you for the sake of Allah that in your heart of hearts "Forgive Them" not because they deserve it, but because YOU do. I'm in no way making excuses for any actions that a parent has done, but I think we both know that nothing they say or do will fix the trauma, that's something Allah can only fix, The fact you are all here shows that imaan is strong in your heart, especially when you feel like if you speak to them about it, you may be punished for it, Or it just feels wrong islamically to bring it up or you worry that after so long it may hurt them or embarrass them, or whatever holds you back, THIS IS IMAAN! Forgiveness starts the process to recovery. I hope this helps in some way, and if it didn't, my apologies. I pray may Allah ease the pain in your hearts and grant you peace and ease, Amin! As-Salaam Wah-Lekum Wah-Rahmat-Allahi Wah-Barra-khaatu

@Hubb_al_Quran Ай бұрын

The problem is that they never even apologize for the hurt they caused...... Let alone apologize they never acknowledge it.....

@rashedahmedrahat4834 Жыл бұрын

My wife abuses me, my parents, and my family members. It's not like always there is a valid major reason, in fact on a silly matter even without reason she abuses me, talks very bad things about me and my family members. It really hurts specially when it comes to parents. Day in day out i'm going through it. I don't want separation but can't live like this. It's been 4yr of our marriage. My pain can't be described in few words how much im going through. What should i do? How can i overcome from this?

@SanPot123 Жыл бұрын

My wife and her parents harrassed my father and mother. Now my father is diagnosed with ALS which is worst form of disease probably caused due to emotional trauma of all these quarells.. i have 2 kids and separated from my parents ..donno what to do😢

@eliteandroidgamer732 Жыл бұрын

Leave them wallahi I felt so much better after I divorced my abusive wife I know it's so hard to separate and I know this because I was just like you the idea of separation was so hard for me and it wasn't an easy decision but it was the best decision that I ever made alhamdulillah today I'm in a healthy relationship with women who loves, adores and respects me so much and she is so kind to my mother I promise you will find someone better Never let someone abuse you I regret not leaving sooner it took me 5 years of abuse to finally realize that I deserve better and alhamdulillah I never looked back the only relationship that me and her have is our kids that is it

@kanzanaveed 11 ай бұрын

Maybe seek help from a renowned therapist, who can actually help, some of them themselves need help and also be a man, you literally are a man. Stand for yourself and your parents, listen more to this man. He will help you learn how Quran guides us to stand for ourselves while staying respectful and wise.

@Millielai12 Күн бұрын

Make taubah and seek forgiveness from ALLAH. Ask ALLAH true guidance what to do in this situation and surrender totally to Him alone and wait.Keep prayers on time,improve your solah,Qur'an and go get Islamic studies and pray tahajjud. Feed the poor,sponsor orphans,hafiz/hafizah,widows,lost travellers and make lots of zikr on your lips and tongue and send selawat. In sha Allah ypur life will change for the better. ALLAH knows what is going on with your life. Make the 40 Rabbana doas as often as possible for pious wife and coolness to the eyes and ypu become keader to the pious ones. Only ALLAH'S promises are true. Trust in Him to guide you. May ALLAH forgive you and her and both of your parents. Aamin.

@hudajamil3890 6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@buttermepancake3613 2 ай бұрын

Im a trans guy and my mother has emotionally abused me since i was a kid. I finally broke free and cut ties. I had to do it for my mental health and mental healing.

@Sarasara-mr7zn 5 ай бұрын

To every abuser who has used his power on women and children I have one phrase. Every pharaoh has his Moses. For every injustice done there is someone out there that will bring back justice. And I find it’s now the women who are are doing that for not only themselves but also for their children. May Allah keep us away from shayatin l’ins.

@K-G-S_66 10 ай бұрын

Do you Know sir The person I'd like to tell this truth To he won't even stand still even a minute Just so I can let them know But I'll wait may Allah grant all of us ease

@abdualrefaee109 Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah

@sarim5237 Жыл бұрын

Niceeee

@Lex-rc1gr 2 ай бұрын

My parents have abused me my whole life and when I cry or get mad back at them, they blame me for escalating the problem, but my reaction is basically just from my PTSD now. it comes over me talking never worked always had to fight for myself. they call me the problem for yelling at them in whatever but that’s only reaction to whatever they do to me. It’s almost natural now.I’ve developed anger issues now because my body just responding. That why I can’t even control it anymore at the slightest sign of disrespect. I immediately go into flight or fight mode my PTSD is so severe from them. are used to never be like this. I used to be such a happy child. it breaks me how much I have changed and how it’s only watched myself become a monster just like them. with they are to blame for the way I am now they’re the ones who needed therapy

@Millielai12 Күн бұрын

Bro,when heart starts to beat faster say 'Audzu Billahi Minash Shaytan Nir Rajeem' and seek refuge in ALLAH from being amongst lying and wicked ones. O ALLAH, I know nothing about controlling this emotions help me for I do not know how to process this. O ALLAH I want to be obedient to You so help me to keep my qalb(heart) free from ill feelings-I surrender all worries to you and only You can remove all my distress. If you still dont stay calm,recite ayat Kursi and focus on it and not what they are saying. Usually shaytan and its army will leave. May ALLAH forgive us and help us mend our ways. Aamin.

@terrymeat 7 ай бұрын

More Muslims should acknowledge what you are saying

@fizaakashif4720 8 ай бұрын

My husband married a woman at his work place. She was divorced by her Husband suspecting their affair. And now I m hurt😢 I can't stand him anymore for this betrayal n I was in dark fir so many years. And he denied love on grounds of stress at work

@Angie1991Khaled 3 ай бұрын

I have 100 panic attacks a day

@noorulwarakhan8065 Ай бұрын

Can you share the full vedio

@islamicroad4531 Ай бұрын

video link - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8tjn62k1dXaZIE.html search: S. Yusuf, 58-61: I Know You But You Don't Know Me

@faith7291 3 ай бұрын

I wish I could tell him what his put me through, but his turned his back on me

@aimenwarsi8461 Жыл бұрын

How do i send this to my mother?

@aribakhan9214 Жыл бұрын

Will you please give me the qhutba name it will be really helpful for me

@islamicroad4531 Жыл бұрын

The link is in the description

@noorulwarakhan8065 Ай бұрын

But what about a narcissist..they will never accept their mistakes even after 20 years you tell them they will manipulate....

@ahlamouladali6216 Жыл бұрын

Can someone please subtitle this to arabic?

@Wormzzzzz 4 ай бұрын

What surah is the brother referencing in this talk?

@islamicroad4531 4 ай бұрын

search: S. Yusuf, 58-61: I Know You But You Don't Know Me Link : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8tjn62k1dXaZIE.html

@faridaharon8856 9 күн бұрын

Somebody i know...her husband verbal abuse her...but he s a loving father to our children..what can she do please advice...she wants to keep her marriage for she still loves him

@nazneensheikh377 4 ай бұрын

Can someone add full vedeo link here

@islamicroad4531 4 ай бұрын

Full video link - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8tjn62k1dXaZIE.html search: S. Yusuf, 58-61: I Know You But You Don't Know Me

@marziaahmadzai4565 6 ай бұрын

he insulted me again today cuz I want a wedding

@nayeemularefinnayeem9023 3 ай бұрын

Can anyone give me the link of full video of it?

@islamicroad4531 3 ай бұрын

Full video link - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8tjn62k1dXaZIE.html search: S. Yusuf, 58-61: I Know You But You Don't Know Me

@acesmith7995 Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😖😖😖

@strivingmuslimah-ds3gr 4 ай бұрын

What if the trauma is from husband

@camouflagebyshafaq5184 9 ай бұрын

I need the full video where can i I find it

@islamicroad4531 9 ай бұрын

Search "S. Yusuf, 58-61: I Know You But You Don't Know Me" In KZfaq...

@rilotrill9345 25 күн бұрын

Is it haram to expose them?

@asmanawaz1128 3 ай бұрын

Sometimes I doubt whether I was abused or not because of their confidence.. but was I abused? Tell me.. someone.. 1. My mom made faces when she said I should reduce some weight.. she always gave examples of other girls looking prettier.. still does after my depression.. she used to always favour my other sister after a fight even without listening to what I had to say..I did every household chore for her.. but she never acknowledged.. even after I, A small child used to get tired and used to sit study she qould keep distracting with this is not done that is not done.. maybe I was abused. Writing this I guess I was :/ wish I followed my dreams and didn't go on pleasing my mother because I didn't understand Islam.. and thought. Helping her woukd take me to paradise :( while I never focused on studies and kept falling behind. Sed life.

@islamicroad4531 3 ай бұрын

May Allah(SWT) grand you jannatul ferdous for all the hardships and pain you had to go through....

@asmanawaz1128 3 ай бұрын

Jazak Allah means a lot.. Allah is the ultimate helper.@@islamicroad4531

@candy6744 Жыл бұрын

which lecture is this?

@islamicroad4531 Жыл бұрын

The full video link is in the description...

@hannahadhi940 Жыл бұрын

Full lecture ??

@islamicroad4531 Жыл бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8tjn62k1dXaZIE.html

@areebahayat1308 Жыл бұрын

where can i find this podcast

@islamicroad4531 Жыл бұрын

In the description....

@umarmushtaq559 9 ай бұрын

Link to full video?

@islamicroad4531 9 ай бұрын

KZfaq kinda disabled link feature due to scammers Search : S. Yusuf, 58-61: I Know You But You Don't Know Me

@Muslimah63379 5 ай бұрын

Please anyone reply Can i talk about my childhood abuse to my future husband or what should i do?

@islamicroad4531 5 ай бұрын

It would be best to consult a female phycologist If she is a Muslim it would be more better... She could give you the solution you are looking for In sha Allah Jazakallah khair