Like always, they walk right into the trap...

Disgusting

Well for 1)They never catch on and 2) they also don't care. They're just out living their life to the fullest and not really thinking about another blk person let alone their counterparts. Being empathic and having compassion towards black women is not their strongest virtues and that is one of their downfalls in life.

Black men have white homeboys that agree with them and bash black women it’s colorist and pathetic

@@brandihunter1073 Weak

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Facts were spoken!

😂 that's exactly how the conversation goes! Or of you're too nice they ask the ignorant question of, "do you date white guys?" 😵😩🤦🏽

Right 💀

Oh welp!

and black women getting sick of it, when one black man get kill who got his back a black woman is marching that street for justice, you may she couple if any whites, but 99% is the first mother of earth the black not the other way around weblack women get kill they say her mouth, but the black man have the same mouth.

Exactly

BW Are WORSE BM DON'T TRASH WE LOOKING FOR OUR NATURAL BW///AND BW REFUSE SO.....

You must be out of your goddamn mind black woman been bashing black men for the last 50 years in America Ricki lake Sally Jesse Raphael all you see is black woman bashing and Australian black mens image you are full of it

Where else are black women going. On the whole no other men want them.

Love that response, great description

@@misclaudiarene6752 Thank you dear

@@starelise1387 Girl Power!!!

@@Cassiuss LOL!!! Naker please! 9 times outta 10 y'all are looking for a couch to crash on so don't let the doorknob hit YOU on the way out and take your 3 trash bags with you Tyrone LOL

Yall pushed us away and we left

That's exactly what I tell black women today. She better divest so she no longer needs to suffer under the hands of another insecure bm.

💯

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@@miloudivyne I agree. The only reason bm don’t value bw because they know we’re too committed to our race and is not open to dating outside of our race. Open up your options ladies it’s go time

@@vavavogue4070 and decreasing our existence one swirler at a time. Sweet.

But nope. He stayed and she continued to spend his money. They have several videos like this.

Nah. He probably dropped down on 1 knee and proposed to her after hearing all that 🤣😂🤣😂

What is she doing with him if he isn’t worth the time of day and is seen as an embarrassment in her eyes? Why is he arguing this with her? Which one of them is the bigger fool?😂🤣🤪

@@HB-yk4ut she obviously told the man shes flat out racist and knows being with him,drags her reputation down as white woman while they use them to build theres up. so what other reason could she be with him for other than for her own personal gain?

Wait a minute thats not what she said. She said that other white people (white culture?) judge the situation in that way. She never said that because of his skincolor hes not worthy of her by her personal standards. You just read your own narrative in the situation. She just told him how the world outside of their relationship works. Listen more carefully next time instead of jumping to conclusions.

Bw just like to dream that one day BM will care about them, love them, built for them, stop breaking up the families they create with them, marry them, protect them, respect them, defend them, march for them, provide for them, uplift them as much as they do for them, and it’ll never ever happen. The reality is bm hate bw and this is why bw will not get this treatment from the collective of bm. It may be a few blk couples out there where the man does all these things but it’s not something you see normally, it’s rare. As with other races of men they do all of this for their women and there’s a few bad apples around but not as many as compared to bm. Bw have done nothing bad to bm for them to turn on bw the way they’ve done, and still despite what they’ve done to bw and continue to not do for bw, many bw still support and praise them and get nothing in return of it because bm have already put it on the table they want u to always bring something to, that they are not about to treat bw like princesses and that they hate you the reason they won’t. No matter how feminine u try to be (because they say we are so masculine) you will always have to bring 50% or more to the table for them to even put up with you .

@@samsam-ko3fp EXACTLY

@@samsam-ko3fp because their mothers were extremely toxic and selfish. Emasculating their sons and pretend they didn’t do anything wrong.

@@knatxkyngxkoldofficialpage3020 ...do they hate their fathers?

@@AnNeachDorcha they don’t get to know their fathers because the mother pushed the father away and filled the child’s head up with negative things about him, but don’t mention her bad behavior and how toxic she was in the relationship. That’ll be the only reason they hate their father. It’s too common.

A lot of men still think making women feel like shit about themselves makes them settle. In other words, they settle for chumps, deadbeats, lowlives, mama's boys, and losers because they'll think that's the best they can do. In actuality, women are being empowered more than ever not to settle for less and respect and love themselves.

Yea. I’ve made up mind that they hate us

I think that’s what they want and they’re trying very hard so bw will get it through their minds that they hate them

Not pushing you away tired of the disrespect

@@brittanyallen6074 while at the same time saying we ain't ish. (Not you personally) but I aslo agree woth your point. Hurt people hurt others

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I agree I'm a light skin woman and I will put ANYBODY on blast for colorism. Black is beautiful in all shades

My sister is light skinned and I'm dark skinned. I wish my own sister felt like you do.

Yep. They must know

You're on sisterhood code, I applaud you 👏💖

@Complex Ez ok so this is why they got fired. When you get fired you have to find a new job🤷🏿‍♀️.

​@Complex EzWhen it comes to the welfare system when jobs were scarce and black men were losing jobs left and right (50s and 60s) the government told them that they would take care of their families but the husband had to move out of state leaving his family because he could no longer take care of them and it just spiraled from there. This is how it begin with the break down of the black family which in turn led to most of what is going on today. Black women is not at fault that is what society want people to think and only the weak minded and uneducated (not knowing our history) will fall for it. No offense to anyone because at one point in time i didnt know our history either

@Complex Ez if you can't provide more than welfare than what does that say about you 🤔

@Complex Ez In many cities/states you don't have to have kids to get housing. But i have a bm cousin who has mixed race children (black and white) he taught his boys to hate black women. Have you ever been subjected to anyone like that growing up?

@Complex Ez You gave reasons why you feel BM were justified for leaving BM. I am simply saying well fine regardless they don’t have them anymore so move on. I was being sarcastic but tone doesn’t always translate.

100000000s years ago

That’s why im happy I’ve never been race loyal🤷🏽‍♀️

Thank you! BM don't want to address that part. BM are so furious about K. B. Jackson (Supreme Court Justice) and her having a husband who is a WM and a NEUROSURGEON. BM would have never married her, left a "baby mama", said she was "too dark", and told her: "Aw, b***h! Yo degree don't mean nuttin!" I'm glad she has a man with power, resources, and wealth.

@@roses4me451 FACTS

You’re not lying , the mindset of bm today was the mindset of my grandfather in his younger days. Bm have always been like this.

Your so lucky !!!!!!

Have you for sharing. I feel def black man broken right now.

You had to have done something

You were just married to the wrong man period.

Just know that all black men are not like that and there are good black men out there.

Only took a few several decades.

Exactly . It was about time someone was honest about this .

Yes 👏💓

93% of blk women are married to blk men 4% of blk women are married to Wht men 2& of blk women are married to Hispanic men 1% of blk women are married to other Don't believe the hype this nigga is delusional all races want their own race the most more than any race hands down period. Take this L!

Another damn Derrick jackson clone...he needs to pander to get his money up this pandemic hurt his pockets.

Yep! 😊

Indeed! They also often offer higher respect and honor to their african descended women. Gotta love it💃🏾

Islanders eat us up

Oh yes! Some Asian men now are who admiring and valuing some of us. The younger generations are NOT shy to approach us neither.

Like fo real. Two Asians guys on separate occasions spend mins in the cold helping me with my car. Definitely appreciated it Kings 💪

And guess what, I love it very much. Keep keep encouraging each other, a disrespectful Bm shouldn't have no room on no black woman. If they wanna date a black woman, they should respect her and do their responsibility

The best years are here. Live your life 🧬 free as the 🌬️ wind!

Yassssssss!!!

@Sherley Love and it almost always end bad.

Me too!!

News flash dear, ALL ME ARE HYPER SEXUALIZED. You make other races of men sound scared of pussy or something. However as s a man I know different.

I appreciate you my brother always, thank you. I am a mother of 5 boys and married for 16 years to an African who lied about his entire life . Overall, he married me for citizenship, used me and abuse me in everyway. Took every dollar I saved ,sent to his wife in Africa and kids I knew nothing about. Had sex with friends and family members behind my back . Move back to Africa and Ghost my kids and never looked back . I no longer look at bm period nor African man. It's a cold world for men and women .I gave up and I pray to God that he restore my culture because I have 5 African American sons and I don't want them to be lost . This hurts so much as a mother. I try to push my self to open up but still nothing, out of touch. I can never forget how I was hurting deeply while trying to fight for my life. I had to experience so much in order to learn in which took me to an entire new level in my life for the better. I don't trust people period but I love people. I keep my circle small and focus on loving my boys . I want my boys to know how to love correctly and I pray that my God allow my son's to see what it take to me a real strong man as the leader but a father that knows how to build a foundation no matter what happens. God allow my son to see and learn that he's an African American 👑 who are natural born leaders . Life is what we make it ! Love is the most important thing of our universe and it is definitely needed.i pray that our universe learn how to love each.

What you think testosterone does? 🤔 getting physical is important

@@jarrellstyles shhh! Don't tell them that lol! Apparently White men don't have testosterone according to the sistas.

@@jarrellstyles Having a high sex drive doesn't mean treating people like sex objects, that's called sexual exploitation. Have sex, don't let sex have you!

@@sunkissed.x6229 🤣🤣

Yep

So true lol the ignorance ohh lawd

Truly a disappointment 🤣🤣🤣

I see no lies😂😂😂😂

Y'all acting like white women are the only other women...

@@Emagick77 lol every other race has traces of white supremacy in them that isn’t exclusive for white women.

Hmmm lmaoooo they hate it hearing it

@@dickensanthony again...white women aren't BM only option or first option

right like??? lmao

Same thing happened to me! A black guy was complimenting me asked if I was spanish and when I said no- he then told me I wasn’t his type

@@Bb-jm6wx I have had black men ask if I am Blasian when I say I'm not , the conversation ends.

@@Wonderwoman79G 😞😞😞

The fact that you even got with that peanut brain is disgusting 😩

These comments...I didn't know they were doing this!!

Depends on the black guy ya go for honestly.

@@wiseguy240Winston absolutely

Why do you think most black woman wear weaves? Who told ya'll your hair was ugly? You're funny as shit for that comment . Black men have been team natural for years , but ain't care , but as soon as a white says he likes your natural hair ... lol

@@88meatwad comments like hers are why I don’t check for black women as a black man lol they love white men

Consider it grace that us black women took this long, because now we aren't ever coming back. I hate it had to take this long, I'm ready to see black women shining and happy

Yeeeesssssss Sis! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️

Read the Bible God says that the problem is we don't know ho we are it's Black people book he didn't say anything about the Most High we as a people sure let him direct us not we ourselves he is coming back soon

U say good because u r angry and u don't no Jesus if u do u only want good for your people read his words ask him to come in your life he will

@@anthonysmith4157 darling hop off my comment because I am a Christian and 2. You black men need to stop projecting your anger unto black women when we are literally over here vibing. As a grown black woman i don’t feel obligated to explain my dating choices to anyone so hold several seats and mind your business.

@@anthonysmith4157 please enlighten me to what verse that is in the Bible because the last time I checked, there was no such verse. I would also like verse context, if you would ever be so kind and it’s relevance to this conversation.

Exactly. I would never say.... I won't date a certain race of men, just because of one bad experience. That's crazy. Where is the hope?

Fucking PREACH

Exactly 💯

Best comment ever!!! Don't understand why this hasn't had more likes!!

Amen! Don't idolize any group. Take it on an individual basis.

Congrats!

Yea!!! Congratulations to you.

Congratulations!

Congratulations on that engagement sis! 🙌🏽💜💜 me next!

Why it’s always white peoples we go after?

l knows and this is sad

You won’t regret it, trust me. I was completely trauma-bonded to BM. Now, I’m in the best relationship I’ve ever been in all of my adult life; I’ve never been treated so well, and it makes me want to be better and better for him. He just happens to be a WM. He loves me in DEED and respects me. He sees my inner strength, degree, and career as assets that help Us thrive. He’s smart that way. Together we earn over 6f and we’re happy. I’m grateful for him every day, and it chills us to the bone when we consider how much we have in common and compliment each other yet we may have never even met had I not ventured out of the BM dating pool into the larger dating ocean.

@@pauliciachimihungerford YUP!!

Y'all ain't getting Whyte men y'all act like racism just disappeared and nobody wants you're package deals

@@rockfresh5359 whyte men are actually hetero and attracted to women so yes we are- they actually approach while y’all busy acting like bad b’s

Same sis

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Same here

That sums it up perfectly

Same!

@Joel Montes who

@Joel Montes 💀💀💀

Even bottom shelf Becky and Selena aren’t settling for BM anymore. No one wants BM. EVERYONE WANTS BW. ❤️

Thank you

EXACTLY.

You ain't never lied smh.. The shyt we put up with just trying to hang in there, blk men ain't no way worth the stress they cause. I been out of Blackistan, ain't never going back.

You said it perfectly!! I just had to go through this awakening. I was always Pro black and refuse to date outside race but now I made the decision to choose myself and go where I’m celebrated 💙 It was the hardest decision in my life.

It’s like going through grieving

Facts💯

What hurts?? Only if you attracted to them. It's been a breeze for me.

Facts

What should we dig for? Take crap at the highest price. BW typically give so much for free and not even pebbles in turn. Gold is grand, 💎 is better.

True however, It the why some lot black woman go about it, that give them that label wht are less vocal wanting HVM, And I also think its how blk people see themselves generally. And what we perceive as value .

So true!!!!

White women are gunna learn real quick that they're getting the same black men that we are

This should be applied 2 the hueman race.

Same for black men

Yessss

long time mi a tell dem and they not hearing smh

Sure

Omg 😱 the power of that statement at the END!!!! I felt that to my bones 🦴 “Chilling”

Wow!! Indeed bc without us, they be dead

Wowww this is deep.

Girl shut up, y’all would be ok if you didn’t over hype yourself. Get real

@@MegaLadylove2012 But 65% black men are single and still living, Most black men don't bother anybody or hate anybody, I admit most of us don't care and just mind our business. I personally do not know a black man who hates black women, But instead black men understand how much everyone hates us and just move on in life with no complaints.

This is a fact. It was easy for Black men to get distracted while White and other men pick the best fruit out of their orchard. When they finally wake up it will be too late.

You get the queens you conquer

That part ... really sum to think about. 23, Just started talking to my first WM and he talks marriage/kids and making plans to do so on the reg. BM run from any conversation related to that or make you feel crazy.

Exaaaaactly! I burnt mine and its gone for good!

@@Misschels97 right! I want to be married and have my babies. I’ve had guys tell me they straight up never wanna be married but wanted babies with me. I think TF NOT.

@@1234erica56789 same, me too girl. They act like we got the cooties or sum 😂... or they scared to grow up idk 🤷🏽‍♀️

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How inspiring! I wish you nothing but the very BEST!💖💖🦋💖💖

You are officially my heroine!! Lol I'm turning 42, successful in my field, no children, beautiful little home, money in the bank, 2 cars, held out for that right blk man to build with and ended building by myself! Thanks for sharing! You are inspiring because I get slack for being childless and not married. I guess ppl could sleep better at night if I was a baby momma! No offense to all the woman raising children alone!

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Sis I had tears in my eyes reading your plan..I admire you for courage and strength...I'm right behind you...I'm tired of low value BM who are not marrying material..I'm 40 got it together and keep a weekender in my trunk and a suitcase by my bedroom door. Stay ready ladies! 2021 level up for BW💜

Love this!

This is ugly TRUTH!

@Tré D Tre’🙄😁 Divested BW don’t care what BM (and their preference women) do, say, or think. Find the woman (or man) of YOUR dreams and be happy 👋🏽

Unfortunately that is true for me too. I'm not 100% divesting bc there are some unicorns out there but yea they all get the side eye til they show and prove 🧐

@@alicia_nicole You’re young…there’s more hope and I hope he comes along and is worthy of you. But for me…DIVESTED! 🙏🏽🌹❤️🍷

Same here gal. Me too. Every single one of the most terrible experiences I’ve ever had in my life was linked to a bm

Wow makes sooo much sense

You have to ask yourself why are so many black men having hatred for their mothers? It says something about black womem raising kids does it not?

@@madlaz5795 it certainly does …it says that black woman are challenged with the added workload of their absent partners. It’s amazing we don’t have even higher crime rates, given how lopsided the familial responsibilities are in our community.

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I’m white and I agree with you

Although it is your opinion, what a nice thing to say.

Wow, thank uou so much, it means alot to read this, because we're not used to receiving much support from any group, let alone a bm

Thank you.

93% of blk women are married to blk men 4% of blk women are married to Wht men 2& of blk women are married to Hispanic men 1% of blk women are married to other Don't believe the hype this nigga is delusional all races want their own race the most more than any race hands down period. Take this L! 83% of blk men are married to blk women 9% of blk men are married to wht women Numbers don't lie stop listening to these clowns on KZfaq trying to divide us. Many blk men don't want Wht women compared to our own y'all are tripping!!!

Very true and any "woman " as well

@@dranelgrim women don't drop seeds....

@@adavis2170 women have the choice to engage in relationships in their communities or outside... If bw decide to go another way they are guilty as well

@@dranelgrim look around your community and tell me how many single quality Black women you see? How many want to be married yet still aren't? Now ask yourself why?

@@adavis2170 too funny, but you invite the planter...lol

So cute.

This is my dream. I really want to date Korean or other Asian men

@@maeganjames2490 How bout asking God to send you the Man that's right for you? And he may or may not be foreign.. Sooo...

American black men are blame for everything. I am a black man from Caribbean.

You're both at the VERY BOTTOM of the dating totem pole so it's only right you date but you better be wary when that hot girl summer 304 phase kick in on your a$$😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Exactly!!!!!💯🎯😁💅🏼

Then as usual everyone one else will follow or copy the blueprint. Other races of women will slowly stop liking bm if they notice bw have started to.

Once a black women start a movement. It'll be taken away by white hollywood.

@@deniawiseone95 no

Just look at the BLM matters, started by black women js and here we are today.... 👸🏾 👑

I find this. Black men like women thicker and lighter than me. It's such a waste of my energy to care anymore.

Hey everything you said mirrors my life 100%. My father was so respectful and instilled value in me that a lot of black men didn’t appreciate. I learned early that a lot of men aren’t like my father. Once I opened my options to any race, I didn’t have to audition, compete or try hard to prove my value. Happily married to a white guy for 4 years. I don’t hate black men I just wasn’t fortunate enough to find one who saw enough value in me.

Sad

Exactly!!!

Omg 😳 same. My father treated my mother like a queen and vice versa. That lead me to my awesome husband who happens to be white. Eastern European to be exact.

Girl, I been side eyeing them like crazy these last couple years. My very last attempt to try to be with a black man took me out of the game altogether. They are canceled off my list. I don’t want the lot of them. I date everything except for them.

There’s a lot going on.

It's part of the curse of Christianity.

Sometimes it the choices in the blk men. I seen a lot of white men with blk woman and they would not get a chance if they were blk men equivalent.

@BeebsBonanza You are in all the comments just mad. 😂

@BeebsBonanza You’re mad she leveled up 😂

@BeebsBonanza I’m not saying dating a white man Specifically is leveling up. I’m in 100% support of black women going where they’re wanted and appreciated. There are fewer and fewer black men who actually provide and don’t talk down on our women, so black women are leveling up and not settling for less. I ultimately want to see black folks stick together, but so many of the men in our community are out of touch and we need to start holding each other accountable for the bullshit! Also, I absolutely do not support trump.

BeebsBonanza your a bum that’s mad!😂😂😂

Thissssss!!!! Right here is exactly my point and what I have been saying for a While🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️. Date who you want to but DON’T belittle or disrespect black women in the process of it🙄.

EXO has a Kitten And His Name is Kim MinSeok im saying !!! like we're not even involved, why are u bringing us up 😭

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 I swear 🤦🏽‍♀️😭. Remember that video that went viral on Twitter where the white women grp chat was exposed? BM turned that around on us as well🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️.. Everything is ALWAYS our fault. We’re to blame for Everything wrong never them always Us. It’s sad asf...

EXO has a Kitten And His Name is Kim MinSeok HOMYGOOOD THAT GROUPCHAT 😭 they got their feelings hurt and immediately attacked us 😐 it's honestly horrifying because like we can't even trust our own men :(

My point!

Looking in the wrong areas sis

@@Discipleofyeshuahamaschiach Where you from ? 😂

@@nenenash7 DC why wussup lol

Reading the room and giving a rat's ball sack are two different things, stop waiting on approval.

@eys 292 well said.

I know just open to dating different races

Character is always first...of course. Most BM are whining jealous dangerous insecure mamaboys, even the ones with degrees...BM only want to go back to you to keep the WM away. BW: no more cleanup woman

@eys 292 girl what? she said there are dusties in every race and to love yourself first and this is what you're saying? to go ahead and get yourself a bottomshelf brad because they're better than any black guy could be? yikes...

COINMASTER COMMENT!!💯

Congrats to you! Oh, the movement is on. BM are scared since KBJ got her supreme court justice appointment. When they found out she was MARRIED to a WM NEUROSURGEON, they had a fit! All those: "Nobody don't want ya'll", "You're gonna die alone" lies are out the window. WM are marrying these "diamonds" while BM are left chasing rocks.

@@77kc_77 65 % black men are not dating, we understand the hate for us, trust me we understand it. That 35% of black men are worrying about that marriage bs, But the rest of us are dying solo in peace which is cool. Most black men don't believe in marriages only 35% need Marriage.

@@77kc_77 Within that 65% only 3% go to jail for minor weed charges or such and we don't listen to rap we listen to audiobooks at work

@@77kc_77 What's even more sad the dude on this channel will fight you and protect you, But yet you hate him simply because he's black

right !!!

Funny thing is, they treat them the exact same except now they're not a black woman.

You mean the same music every black woman on social media twerks to so people around the world can see?

@@kingvan143 yet other races of women imitate us whenver we create something new.

@@adventuresociety588 and how yall imitate them with the fake hair on now with the cosmetic surgeries

God bless you both, treat her like a Queen like a King you are👑❤

@Bernkastel Frederica thats right!

....and you live with her on the south side ha ha ha ha

@@taalofaa No, actually we live in a 3700 sq. ft 500 Thousand dollar home, that we have both worked and paid for..and it's on the north side of town.

@@larrylane6025 I am glad you pay taxes living in a home go big and costly

I agree as I use to work in retail in South Africa a predominantly black country and I'd always see BW in the mall with the kids alone or with their female friend or mother. While BM are with they friends in a group and other races the women are with they men and the kids. They was a day in the store where on Valentines day, men from other races had gifts, flowers for their women and black men had nothing but walking around in a group buying alcohol...

Wow that says a lot wow. I’ll keep this in mind

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We coming sis ..no worries ❤

@@jamaicanjoyh6883 You have to date out with the right type of person, not just any man of no color you see. Just take away the race aspect of it. The man must be a good man with a good personality, already established wealth on his own with a game plan for the success of his future lineage. Observe his family, you’ll learn a lot about him through his family’s characteristics (most are a lot alike if they’re a close-nit family). If you spot racist activity with one, cut your losses and move on, there will be more under covers in the family.

@@StopPlayingAtLife that's any man.i vet em but I wanna hear from sistah gurl Edit: came back to revisit your advice. I hold responsibility for my choices 😯 deceived 😢lied to....when I saw who they were I should have ran FASTER ...ill stop there

@@jamaicanjoyh6883 The historical aspect of how white men owned us and took us without us ever having a say has played a part in why it's been difficult getting us Black American women to date white. But ironically due to white supremacist policies and laws, we don't have much of a choice but to move on from Black American men.

Everybody grandparent used to say that. But I agree with your statement tho

..Good, get you a dummy!

... That statement does not go with this topic

@FilaBookworm Please keep speaking to the ones who will listen! We need the brothas to hold other brothas accountable..🙏🙏🙏

@@adavis2170 no way sis. When a brother is a n, he always will be a n on less he gets to know Jesus.

Are you happy to see black men date interracially too😂

Asian men too. Think of the singer Shenessa, her dad is Korean.

Residency on the cheap, not doing the financial investment scheme , i.e. $250k+ for citizenship

Salute. We need to be valued to

Here in Atlanta every single week I am seeing more and more black women in the grocery stores and other stores with white men. I saw two couples yesterday. To see it this much in Black Atlanta says a lot. Black women are tired of the disrespect. The disrespect is horrible here. I find myself hoping guys don't try to talk to me when I'm out and about because they all seems so immature and disrespectful. I don't blame these black women who have found a white man at all. I've never dated a white man, but my eyes have been open to my choices as a stable business woman. If the right white man was to approach me now, I would definitely give it a shot. Never thought I would say that in a million years. I just can't take the disrespect and horrible treatment from black men anymore. I want a man who wants to cater to me just as much as I want to cater to them. In the black community black men consider being a loyal and loving man as being a simp. That logic is too far off for me.

@@NT-rm8jm I’ve always been attracted to white boys, maybe Asians, but mostly white men. I’m so glad I still am.

They won't be missed. I don't need the headache from BW.

As a black woman I would say its more of what we see with celebrities and on social media rather than in real life that influences this thinking. I may be wrong but I live around many happy black couples.

@@eman3414 good, being with a non black man is always an upgrade for black women, being with a trailer park 300 WW, who even their own men don’t want, it’s right on time for some of you Black Sorry Men,

😂😂😂😂 your speaking some real truths. I only hope that the message is being heard by the ppl who truly needs to hear 👂 it, are listening.

@@mfmarshall4478 yet u can't find no scriptures saying the white man is better. But I can show u where God says he hates white men. Romans 9 vs 13

Wow! What a compliment. Latinos take family very seriously, generally speaking. You got an invite to the quinceanera. 😁

@@blaqjade1384 initially I thought that then became upset that others could see the neglect in my marriage. 😫

@@trisha1989 I know...😢

@@justasiam6863 awwww….we (adults) just makes things so complicated! 💕💕💕

I went natural in '03, and I'm telling you THIS is spot on! Everywhere I would go, a white man and white people in general would show fascination and appreciation for my tight coils and curls. But BM would ask me WTF I'm doing with my hair. Even some BW would make comments like, "Oooh, I couldn't wear my hair like that." Just sad.

Facts

Exactly I put waaaaaaay more effort into attracting BM than I ever had with any other man. Hell, it’s was times I was looking my worse and other men still was trying for my attention but like many BW I turned them down but no more.

I'm with you!

@Eprahs it is because you are not that attractive, simple.

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Ikr ? 😂😂😂

Damn ctfu

damn she speaking her truth though!

Don't sis or you'll live to regret it

Girl Yasss!!!

black women are the most celebrated women by black men. if that weren't the case black men would be marring other races of women in large numbers but thats not the case you know why because interracial dating isn't that common and is seen as mostly a fetish by the white population but both the media and y? t? hypes it up to appear that way. But why you may ask it's to help build up white privilege even more. White women don't mind black women talking bad about black men and vice versa, as long as their not talking bad about there men because white men has always from the beginning of time been the heart of the white race rising, white women know this, it's also written in the bible that women who come from all the other nations all are fully aware about the persuasion and trickery that their men possess and it makes them higher up. >>>>>>> Proverbs 3:31 31Envy thou not the oppressor, and choose none of his ways. King James Bible

PREACH

And where is that

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Say it louder sweetie

I wouldn't say they settled. They went to where they were appreciated/love and could feel safe in their femininity to grow.

@Christian you're absolutely right.

Wow, so well said Brotha! As a black woman who has both personally experienced and witnessed this (literally on every continent), it’s nice to hear a black man so eloquently summarize such common themes and key points! Would love to hear more of your perspective and even to interview you at some point!

I wouldn't say settling, more like Leveling up🤣💕💕

We've wanted y'all to do that for so long. Even the ones who were aware chose to stay out of it and just said ignore it. Ignoring it didn't help

Just love whatever woman God sends you.

Thank you!

That part King👑

The fact that you said “i have know idea” is why we are leaving you ingrates in droves 😂

@@blueskyhorizon2308 the same women who birthed them, ironic right ! Bw just don’t see it. The only time you will see it is when the white privilege yall are running to kicks you up the ass. When yall are enjoying it yAll look down on black men.

@@jackcage1964 Go chase a check instead of these comments 🙄

We need a blexit movement for black women who walked away from bm

@@miloudivyne see! You just proved my point. I always love my dark melanin black women, even though you don’t respect us & never liked us. You look beautiful too! Just admit it you never wanted us , you look down on us. You’re just very much attracted to white men & respect him more?

@@miloudivyne I feel you... I divested years ago when I walked away. I even leveled up to where I reside in another country. So there's my blaxit... physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Im glad for you too

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Bol! I almost thought you were my husband posting on here. Your Pic favors him Aaron. And we are a beautiful black couple with a beautiful son and another baby on the way. These comments and this post makes me sad. You and your wife keep being a positive image of black love.

Glad I'm married to a GOOD blk man.

@@qualitybeauty4195 I concur... it's sad and the dating scene currently seems like trash. Too many hurt individuals trying to be together. I'm happy to be married to my black husband as well. I wish the same for my friends, which most have black boyfriends and are black themselves.

Exactly and it’s soo sad like

I pity him tbh

It's that for meeeeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What video was that

Sadly this is the reaction of most blk men. Who find value in another race instead of themselves

I’m glad you found happiness

Awwww....such an all-in-one, painful and sweet testimony....please share your update after you two move to the next step....

This is so cute! I really hope you update!

Good. Wish more BW could achieve this. So many stuck in the toxic ill fated cycle of “black love”

ugly is how you behave, how you smell, what you say

Elohoooooo!!!!!💗💗💗❗❗❗pls do a vid on this

Eloho!!! Beautiful melanin queeen❤.

Eloho❤️

@Eloho, Yes, sis! Reality hits hard. LOVE YOU SIS

Are u doing a reaction queen?

The thing is this black women hate themselves far more than any redpill coach could ever do. Hair fake, fake eyelash , eyebrow fake,breast fake, butt fake and 2 tons of makeup to cover up the face. Your god given body wasn't enough? But the redpill men are wrong.

Wow you commented about what I was going to say about my best friend. She’s dating a white man right now that is treating her like she deserves to be treated. The only difference is that every black man she’s ever dated hurt and abused her some way (mentally, emotionally, and spiritually) and left her broken. It broke my heart seeing her go through that mess with black men. We always joke about how we could write a book about all the stuff she’s been through unfortunately. She’s finally in a healthy relationship with a (white)man that has been very intentional with her from day 1. He has introduced her to his parents and sibling. I’m so happy that you are happy. Blessings on you no matter who you eventually end up with🙏🏽🙏🏽

Its not surprising to me that his friends stated that. A lot of white men are scared to death to approach a black women, in fear that she won't find him desirable or just because they think we have 0 interest in them. A white guy from the UK ask me while we were in a NYC club, why do black men feel they own black women. So then there is that fear as well.

I am living this right now also and share the same sentiments as you. My SO’s friends, shite and black, are impressed that he had the confidence to approach me. Even strangers have responded that way .... which story for another day. My advice to everyone: go where you are appreciated, loved and can build with someone whether they are white, black, Asian, mixed etc.

I love this!! I wish you the best girl!

GOD BLESS YOU SISTER BECAUSE GOD DOESN'T SEE COLOR BUT MADE US ALL HUMAN BEINGS MADE FROM ONE BLOOD..ONE NEVER KNOWS WERR THEY ARE GOING TO FIND LOVE..

Pathetic.

@@Fatima-rz9vt it is pathetic. But I like I said, I don’t agree with it at all. I’ve been married to a black man for 14 years.

Thank you for being honest

@@Fatima-rz9vt How is it pathetic? You have a false sense of reality. Even if she agreed with it, it is her right to do so.

Idk, but I also kind of think that within Black culture it is as well. I wouldn’t say looked down on perse, since white women and culture are still on a pedestal. But I’ve noted and even engaged with the assumption that only a “certain type” of white girl will engage in an interracial relationship with a Black man. I was talking about this with my boyfriend, and it’s absolutely a sensitive subject bc it stereotypes and negatively categorizes many of us, which no one deserves. But it seems to be beneficial to have these conversations bc it’s quite literally affects how we live in and engage with the world

🤣🤣🤣 Yeah they WANT you. Social media got YOU stupid

White men want y’all for one thing, y’all are falling for it.

@@user-rl6px5ob3d all men want us for the same thing but the level of commitment and support had been phenomenal. My brothers have often seemed more indecisive. I'm a business owner and investor. I have 3 sons and have homeschooled them all. Helped them establish credit at 17 and 18. Middle child bought his first house at 22, baby is buying now 25, oldest is avid stock investor and working on his retirement plan. My black son's are not the norm in the black community so women like me don't have time for men who don't have their shit together. Basic credit scores, money in the bank, their own home. Many times my brothers are not saving and investing. For me, and only for me, I can't speak for all women, if we can't talk growth, we can't talk. Have had some experience with all races and just speaking on my experience.

@@og-greenmachine8623 wonderful reply. May I ask what you bring to a black woman's table? How do you improve her circumstances as a male? Would love to dialogue.

@Xynari Peugh lol. Then I think I already met him. Thanks for your comment. You made my day! #womenempowerment

It’s over after that lmao!

BW are the tastemakers we set the tone for so many other races. We just never get credit.

There was a time that Black men were mountains. Those mountains still exists sometimes.

May God bless & protect your beautiful marriage!! 🙏🏿🙏🏾

Believe it or not that kind of guy gets zero love from most black women.

I concur, I was blessed with An Amazing Black Man. I see the dusty derelict Pathology going on with black men. I call it out every time because it disturbs my spirit. The dust mites needs a reality check bad. I give them it to them Unapologetically.

God bless you and your family.

Because we want black children

@@azuredelcielo9151some of you amaze me and are major reasons for NON-PROGRESSION. Do you!

I get wanting to have black children. I truly do. I really want a beautiful dark skin child like me. But as a child of a black father who isn’t around. I rather have a biracial child with a father. Then a black child without a father.

Exactly!!

@RO Dizzle I am divorced. My husband was black. The man I’m dating at the present is German.

One man's trash is another man's treasure. Yes indeed..😁😉

And?

THIS👏👏👏👏👏👏♥️♥️♥️♥️

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Democrats killed black America

Richard Byfield Not as much as black men! We get it y’all hate us:) I’m not mad or bitter just moving on respectfully 🙏🏽

Just lied And you “PROMISED”....😑

But men of other races do the exact same thing to black women? They are just less quiet about it. The amount of guys i've heard talk about all the black women they've conquered sexually & got to sleep with is astounding, they don't do this with asian, hispanic, white women... but having sex with black women is some special accomplishment apparently. It's different if the guy is serious about you and wants marriage.

@@Nicole-si3ck exactly.

Neltins I can only speak on what I see everyday. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️