I am 55 yrs old. This channel is for youngsters, but I watch all your videos because it makes me feel so reassured. That my beliefs and the way I conduct my life is correct. For example today's topic. Whole of my youth passed away doing things for my loved ones. It is only since last few years that I have prioritised myself and am living the way I want to. Am extremely overwhelmed by this video since I can totally relate to it. Can't thank you enough.

Same, maine bhi ese hi jeene ka faisla le lia tha after pandemic. 1. Reduce stress as much as possible. 2. Avoid people that cause stress. 3. Prioritise my health and sleep over anything else. 4. Focus on Career

I am a mum of 2 kids and a professional too..Hectic Life !! But....4 years back I decided to live for myself and also do allll my duties Efficiently. Living my MYSELF has made me cheerful..younger...and now I really don't care about likes n dislikes of others. My life is BEAUTIFUL 💕 It was soo nice to hear you for the first time sir.

My brother is from SRCC and IIM AHMEDABAD...HE is out of this rat race ..make my trip guy was his batchmate...he is very happy...he has kept a cow at his backyard...he is enjoying his life... people r so surprised when they learn about his achievements.. Even my husband is from IIT DELHI...ALL his life he has worked in senior positions..now,he has left his job and started teaching maths to kids..i can see such a joy. and contentment on his face which is priceless... people call him insane but I know what he has gained..

"IT TAKES A LOT OF NEW LEARNING, AND UNLEARNING, TO LIVE FOR YOURSELF". Simply wow. Thanks

You are amazing sir. I think this issue is the root cause of all the mental health related problems. Very thought provoking video.

For someone living in the rural part of West Bengal with no proper guidance, you are an angel..you're my mentor

i was living for others for 32 years but after my seperation i come to know no one was think about me at all..so i have decided now i will live for myself and make my life more beautiful and happy. Thanks for sharing your story to making me reconfirm that i am going on right direction.

I Never Dreamed About Success. I Work For It.

hello sir, my story is very similar to yours. I was a lecturer of botany for 18 years and living for others and for my image and then left my job and became a you tuber and healer. And Now I am enjoying life and living for myself.

💯 true, I learnt this at the age of 55, after loosing everything at the cost of my health 😭

I am 56 and I started living for myself from the age of 46. And I am perfectly happy with my present life enjoying working, traveling and doing whatever I like. Chetan you are completely right in your sincere view. All the best friend.

Thankyou Chetan sir for giving such superb advice which you learned at 45, but I could learn at 25 , your efforts can save my upcoming years. You motivates us by your own journey you lived so far & you are so true with your words what actually you faced in life. Thanks a ton buddy, you can never imagine how many lives you are improving by your efforts👏. God bless you.

I am 64 after retirement I have started living for myself.i do what I like without caring for others. I do my role in family whatever needed otherwise love to be alone in my own way reading writing swimming listening videos talks . don't take stress and don't bother what others think

जब पहले हम अपने लिए जीयेंगे, जब पहले हम अपना ध्यान रखेंगे तभी तो हम दूसरों के लिए भी जी पाएंगे और उनका ध्यान रख पाएंगे।👍

Living for yourself takes great courage . Awesome advice Sir .😊

While watching this video,I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face.It takes immense courage to admit this,forget about discussing it.The best decision i took a year back was to only listen carefully to all that you say and that just changed so much in me.Thank you so much sir.

Absolutely True !!!! I am 39 Years Old still haven't done this . People around us give us so much pressure and it takes a lot to understand it . Fact is NoBODY Cares aboout You other than YOU !!

Absolutely true... unknowingly we live for others,I really like the ease with which you speak.

पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं आपसे ईमानदारी से कहूं तो मैं पहले कभी आपसे इतना प्रभावित नहीं थी पर अब हूं धन्यवाद इतने महत्वपूर्ण विषय पर इतनी गंभीरता के साथ आत्मीयता से बात करने के लिए आभार🙏

I live for myself, I Priotise Myself, never thinks what people will say and never care about what will they say. Thanks sir, for this amazing content

Yesterday I was living for others, but today onwards I live for myself.i promise you sir I will change my life!!

Chetaaaan sir you have changed a lot since nach baliye ! I was a school girl when I used to watch that show and honestly I didn't like the way you presented yourself in that show. You gave wrong perception of yourself to people. BUT NOW. WOW I can listen you whole day. You are so real now and presenting yourself authentically as you are. Now I respect and adore you for how fearlessly you are expressing yourself, your mistakes, your low and highs ! This is helping me a lot !

I am 35 years of age and i deeply thanking you today itself as i had realised and was half way there in prioritising myself however i was still confused till I watched this video 🤔 you made it crystal clear that i am at the right path 😎🎉❤️ …may god bless you with his best 😇😇

it’s absolutely true… i am following you from the seminar when you were in Patna , I guess in 2013-14 and your each and every word motivates me alot to change my life 👍👍 Thanks a lot 🙏🙏

Absolutely right 🤩 I've recently realised the importance of keeping self in the epicenter of my life rather than always living as per others' way of thinking.

Thank you so much for putting these productive videos in the era of reels and snaps . Really appreciate your time and effort Chetan.

I have recently started watching ur videos and u don't say fake things which I really appreciate... I am in the middle of dilemma about making a life decision and from past 3 years my life is miserable, health degraded badly and I am stressed even in my sleep.... But listening to ur videos help me change my perspective... Thanks a lot..😇

Dear Sir, absolutely right and perfect advice. I am from IIT Kanpur. Please write something on life of researchers and their family members. Lots of things can be written and people need to know about it.

I'm lucky that I am member of this family. You telling in this video , this things realised me about 6 months ago . From that day I'm live for my self ! Life becomes easy & better when anyone start living for their own self !

I saw you on TV years back. You weae specs, u we're having less hair on head. Your we're less alive. I am shocked to see you now. It's you. So young, so alive. No specs, no fear, so much confidence. Wow. You changed for so much better. Keep going. Thanx.

Never discontinue youtube sir. People like me from rural background are also watching you. You are changing people's lifestyle. LOVE YOU

Covid time was very bad for entire world , many lost their close ones. But I think it also gave time to many people to realise their mistakes ,to change their thought process and I'm also one of them . ✨ Thank you for such great contents ! 🔥❤️

Hi Chethan, I'm also learning to live life from my perspective. What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Initially people may think that we are selfish... Let them think. Once we work for our higher purpose, those who can understand will understand. Too much care for others opinions is destructive... Whether it is money or power or anything for that matter... 👍👍👍 Thanks for the wisdom. 🙏🙏

Bilkul sahi btaya h sir aapne….. hum dusro ki soch k according khud ko jeete h khud k liye jeena is so important. You are my ideal sir aapse bhot khuch sikha h maine aur sach khu to after reading your books slow down my life to think for my self and ha m jeene lga hu khud k liye thank u so much for landing on this planet. Happy for you mom and dad.

Your talk remind me of my inner self that i am behaving the same as you lived your life like living for others. Really grateful to talk your heart out about this topic.

It really takes a lot of Guts to tell the truth & to share your life learning with us & to get inspired. Bowing down to you 🙇🙇 for your Honesty ✨💫

Love from Bangladesh Sir....really needed this video . I am in my 20's and I also feel like that I am less living for myself. Though I am aware of this but it is really hard to get over this though I am trying really hard and this video really lighten me up today..thank you

I kind of started living for myself a couple of years back after I read Ayn Rand. She has improved my life just you have sir. Thank you to both of you!

This is the best motivational video i have come across in long time. I have seen it 5 6 times. Every time it rejuvenates me and makes me calmer.

Real life lessons, I always feel connected with your wisdom 🙂

I see you grow tremendously on mental and emotional level. Earlier when you were on nach baliye i saw you quite innocent and naive where other judges were making fun of you, your looks, your hairs, your dancing skills etc but now you are much more mature and peaceful. Hats off to you. You inspire me a lot..

Your each and every word is so soothing and makes me feel light. Feels like a therapy. Can't thank you enough!!

Never heard such real talk.. In no filter mode. Very clean and pious.. Thnk you so much.

Yes uu Always talking about true reality of life 😍❤️ Thanku sir 😇

I'm 29 years old and just realised I don't live for myself. Thank you sir for creating content which is no where on KZfaq, it's nice to know you personally and feels great to become better person from your videos.

Thank you soo much Sir! Loved it!❣️

You look like a new/different person altogether... I mean it in a very good way. It is evident on from your face that you have been living what you are teaching in this video for a substantial time now. Kudos

I have read all your books. Thank you sir. Because of you , i fall in love with reading.😊

I was living for others...but now I'm 24 yrs old ...trying to live for myself...nice video 👍..thanku sir for sharing your life experience ♥️

This is the best advise I have ever got… thank you sir!!!!

Awesome Video Sir🌟 Thank you so much for simply explaining the Importance of Self-priortizing 👍🏼 I watch all your other great content videos 😇

To be honest, it is very scary to start thinking about living life the way we actually want to live, it is very inspiring that popular figure like you are acknowledging real things 👍👍

I also started living for myself in covid times! Great video!

great sir,,,,I think 99 percent people are doing and living this way....u gave us a new dimension of doing and living ...thanks man

You are right sir I should be happy by my own not when she makes me happy.

Before you share love ,store some love for yourlsef!!❤vedio was soo touching thankyouu soo muchh Chetan Sir🙏

You have made money success in life so its easy for you to say it. But if we start living for ourselves. We will be satisfied with very less. We won't grow in life. For ex: If someone is making money to help others. He is living for others. If someone is making money to spend like rich buy expensive things. He is living for others approval. Whatever we do in life it is attached to some purpose. And that purpose involves so many other people. IN any case if we strive to grow and do more in life. We are caring about others. We can't just sit at home and record videos and think we are living for ourselves. You have made money success in life so its for you to say it. You should say live for your family and loving ones. THat makes more sense. Think again. Thank you

Bahut badiya sir ,main to pahle se hi aapne liye jeeta hu. But aapse bahut kuchh aur bhi sikhne ko mila aaj . Thankyou so much chetan sir aise hi value dete rahiye

Helped man! Literally i think for the moment and obviously i will make my life easy

Dropped out of my college because i was not not happy studying what i was studying and the mental breakdowns i was going through for something i didn't care a bit about,Now i am preparing for something i am passionate about and which aligns with my future career.Thanks Chetan i appreciate your efforts for making such great videos.

The Harder You Work, The Luckier You Get.

Genuine and daring opinion 🙏🙏🙏 subscribed as soon as I came across and got a glimpse of your channel sir...... amazing work ..... encouragement se bahra video 👍👍

So true. Thank you for sharing ur thoughts.

Great advice Sir, I could relate to few points as it was going in my head as well regarding living a life of someone else. Keep the guidance going!

Love this new and better version of CB! Can feel the Spurt of energy.

Yes it’s helping. You are doing a great job👍

Thank you for this video Sir! It's really eye opening and shows me the right path at 21

Superb and important topic Nice explain Sir ji

You have validated everything I'm going through currently, having arrived at this point by taking a similar call. Thank you so much for articulating in such a way that resonates with each person on an individual level.

Thanks for this learned and life changing message sir ... Thanks for being there :)🔥🙏

listening to you. has ofcourse had profound effect. I'm pretty much putting everything into execution that i had wanted to ever since i started listening. Keep em coming.

Yes , I started living for myself from this year + lockdown also ... It's really really tough to live for yourself without caring your closest one that what are they ar thinking about us & stopping not to do such things or behave in such a way We daily learn something new with the help of such teacher ( You (great person+ great experience) )

Awesome video👌👏it’s more than a year that I already started living for myself. I really don’t give shit to others. Life is short, so I’ll live it to the fullest. Keep up the good work👍

Actually helping a lot ! Boss ek dam brain and mind me hit hoti aapki baat. Really inspiring 🙏

Great content! Keep up the good work!

Thank you sir for your advice.. I will definitely follow it

Refreshing Chetan! Very profound but very spontaneously said .... I hope younger generation, for that matter person of any age may get clarity and inspiration and start truly living life without baggage!! 🌿

You are doing a great job Chetan Sir. People in this world are still not understanding the value of mental health. Please keep up with your thoughts 🙏

Chetan sir....mai 28 ka ho gya हूँ...29 की ओर अग्रसर हूँ , आज से और अभी से मैं अपनी लाइफ में वो सारे बदलाव लाने की पूरी कोशिश करूँगा...जो मेरी लाइफ को सही दिशा दे सके... Sir मैं एक UPSC Aspirant हूँ अभी तक लाइफ में सफल नहीं हो पाया हूँ...जहां तक मुझे लगता है...मैंने इस journey से अपनी लाइफ में बहुत सी चीजें सीखीं हैं , मेरे cousin brother का गेट Exam qualify हो गया और आज वो एक reputed University से Ph.D pursue कर रहे हैं...मैं मेरी family में उनसे 4 Months छोटा हूँ...आज ऐसा समय आ गया है लोग उनसे Suggestions लेते हैं उनसे बात करना prefer करते हैं...All around मेरे कहने का mean बस इतना है कि आज उनसे मुझे compare किया जाता है और कहीं ना कहीं मुझे सुनाने की भी कोशिश की जाती है जब family मे सभी एक साथ होते हैं तो उनको ज्यादा preference और respect मिलती है...हमे इग्नोर कर दिया जाता है और एक अलग तरह के perspective से देखा जाता है....ये सब देखते हुए बहुत guilty feel होता है सर....लगता है मैं हूँ ही क्यूँ इस family में....but Sir आज की video देखकर आपने काफी कुछ सीखा दिया है..बस उन्हें सही ढंग से implement करने पर अपनी सारी कोशिशें लगा दूँगा.....THANK YOU SO MUCH SIR for being such a nice guider and life mentor .🥰🥰

Thank you sir...much needed this...aaj se sir khud ke liye jiyungi... priority sirf khud ko dungi.

Loved it Sir, very useful, Thank You

Tnq sir, i also experienced it. I think, khud k liye jeena chahiye or mujhe lgta h aapki life m sbse jyada important apke goals hona chahiye jo ki apneaap se bnaya ho n ki kisi or ki opinion pr

Great Sir, this is mind blowing, eye opener video . Thanks Sir Very important invest our time your self . Good Health and happiness always very premium our Life.

Absolutely definitely ...i m married one...i literally told u this is the thing which is everybody think in once a day or so much...... 4 LOG KYA KAHENGE.......pata wo char log aaj tak n mile...or na kisi ko mile hai .....kisi k jeete ji.....milte hai marne ke baar KHANDHA dene k liye.....to kyun marta hai insan ...dusro k liye.. Apne liye jiyo dusra kya sochta hai kya karta hai bhadh me jaye sab.....apne liye jiyo..or unke liye jiyo jo tumhare liye jeete hai.... Thank u sir ....kal kuch hua tha mere sath....apke words ki bahut zaroorat thi....pata hai mujhe bhi ye sab par jab koi aisa jiske words magical hote hai seedhe andar tak tinch karte agar wo wahi bole to baat hi kya hai.......love u sir ..god always bless u..

🙏 honest & much needed youtube channel & one day will be biggest 💌

What an inspirational video.....tnk u sir for making that and share with us.......

A great effort with wonderful attitude 🙏🙏

Awesome 👍 video Chetan sir.... KZfaq per first time aisa laga ...jaise kisi ne sachhe dil aur atma se koi baat kahi ho....I have no words for your advice 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

You know Chetan...ur talking abt subjects that are enlightening us. Making us think n self introspect. It's really helping in sorting out those noises in our head ...that no one helps you with. I'm thankful that uv chosen to talk on topics that are so relevant n needs addressing But most importantly ur speaking from your heart ❤️ N I can see ur wish is only to help others in their journey ..this journey of life. Thank you so much 🙏 I listen to you talk again n again to actually imbibe it n make it get into my head wat ru trying to advise n put it into action rather than sunliya aur phir bhool gaye. Thanks again 🙂

Thanks sir 👍 How purely n beautifully u hve explained ur experiences n thoughts. Keep motivating us.

You are a true and highly motivated person. Earlier I m not used to live for myself but ofcourse, now I live only for myself. I do feel happy. Much love from London Chetan Sir ❤️ God bless you

Sir you are so truthfull thats your specialty. They can say you are not the best writer but they cannot deny the fact that you are the most truthful and practical writer

Yes brother, you are absolutely right.. I am going to live for myself.... Thank you for inspiring me.

You are such a genuine guy. When you used to judge dance reality show , i used to hate you because i thought you don't deserve to be there. When i started watching your videos , i realized how gem kind of person you are. i really like your talks and feel lucky to know these things at 24 yeras of age . Thanks alot man

Lovely video. Thanks Chetan. I read your 5. Someone when I was in my 3rd / 4th year of engineering . Great motivational talk.

Yes It's really helping me. Thank you sir.

Agreed sir, I feel it's like a ladder. Pehle khud ke liye jeena aa jaye and khud ko samajh le, tabhi sahi mayne me family, society or country ke liye jee sakte hain hum...Thanks again!!!

Wow ! I am starting this from today, lucky enough to learn this at 22. BTW, Congrats Chetan for your kheti 😂 Aapki jawaani barkaraar rhe !!!

i nva liked him specially whn he was judge of nach baliye bt the time i heard his mindset for d 1st tym i was like he didnt just wrote india's best selling books bt brought lots of positive changes from those..he is like a big brother to me..sir i respct u alot n thnx for sharing ur honest opinions,stories,past mistakes,learnings,mindset n lots of positive thoughts..its take courage to be a BRAND like him to be a youtuber n connct with million of people n changing their lives