Chloe as a 16 year old you've taught me soo muchh, I'm about to graduate from highschool, wish me luckk!!!! :)))

*I'm 30 and I can say one thing that I can say is do not be afraid of push back. Once other women see you stepping into your feminine, you will naturally convict their masculine energy. I have lost several friends in my 20s* because, I don't fight, I don't provide & I look presentable every time I leave my house and this will get you labelled as "high maintenance" which to me is a compliment.

I'm only 28 but here's something ppl should def telling younger women while dating: Never audition for a role in a man's life. You don't have to 'prove' that you 'deserve' to be anything to a man when he wants you. He will only put you in that position when he doesn't know what he wants or running game to put you in the masculine role. If he needs convincing, the answer is no.

young ladies, its okay to be different, ratchet behavior is overly glamorized they make you think your missing out by being a lady, trust me your not, ratchets only attract f-boys, dusties and psychopaths-yes. Keep your self esteem high, look good and choose men based on effort not words. Your older self will thank you.❤❤

I wish that I was taught that NOT sticking to my boundaries and listening to my instincts is just me disrespecting myself!

For women under 25: Never be a “pick me”. You do the choosing. Also, know when to walk away after the very first red flag. Do not paint the flag white. Do not allow a man to guilt trip you into something that does not sit right w/your soul. Always remember, YOU are the prize! And he’s lucky to have you. XOXO - a feminine woman, 28

Also young ladies, if some want to call you boring bcuz u do not engage in certain sexual behaviors, drinking and/or drugs, etc., toss them away and leave them behind. They do not want the best for you.

Stay away from the “as a black women you can’t” crowd. They’ll have you thinking everything is a micro aggression and you’ll become miserable. Always believe you attract the best in life and it WILL happen

I wish someone had told me not to waste my fertile years on a dusty who was still trying to figure out life even after he graduated college. I should’ve cut my losses after the third maybe fourth year… I gave him 7!!!! It doesn’t take seven years to know if you want to marry. I met my current husband and we were married a year after we met. This will be our 13th year. When it’s right, it’s right!!!

As a 40 years old housewife, I can say everything Chloe said is true. When I quit my job during pregnancy, many friends and relatives said things like "you have a masters degree, highly educated, speak 3 languages fluently and are going to stay at home!? You're crazy, such a waste and blablabla". But I never minded about their opinion, because my life is not theirs. Period. Now, 10 years later, those same friends (with a S) are bitter, always exhausted because they have to provide for their dusties and kids. And me and my friends who are feminine, fit housewives have all the freedom to live our feminity and inspire our providing husbands.

I wish I was taught that I didn’t have to wait for a man to be ready…. If he isn’t ready he is not the one, move on!!!

Stop waiting for bad relationships or situations to improve. You can’t date or marry someone’s potential.

I wish that I was taught-- just because the guy is nice doesn't mean he's good for you

I do not have not a single feminine woman in my entire family. Seems like a generational curse to me. I was made fun of when I was younger if tried to even venture into my feminine side. I would have been mocked and and told I was not bougie or a princess. All the women in my family have weak men they can boss around, most of these men just drown them selves in alcohol to deal with them. I am 37 years old. I always knew I wanted to be more feminine but it was discouraged. I wish I knew what I know today about men. That I did not have to ever chase them and prove my worth, that it was my right to walk away if marriage was not on the table and I did not have to work so hard. I wish I knew it was not my responsibility to help a man feel better when he was down and broken. Today I have kicked all that to the curb. Being feminine in and out is my birth right as a woman, my mom has also started to be on her journey too and seem so much softer. Guys are even staring her down when she’s out. Young ladies, I am cheering for you to be the most feminine woman you can be. That’s the best gift you can give to yourself. Your life will be so much happier, other people will be so much nicer to you and good things will be drawn to you. Little children smile at me all the time and that tells me am doing it the right way this time. Being a woman is so beautiful, always remember you are beautiful 🌺💖 Remember💖🌺

I wish someone had taught me to prioritize MYSELF and my happiness like men do!! 🤣🤣

Please don’t try to “sell” yourself to a man. I used to try to explain to men why they should “choose” me. He should be trying to sell himself and show YOU why he deserves you!!

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️

My tip is to wait as long as possible before sleeping with a guy you're dating. I noticed that you can vet him with a cool head not when you're full of endorphins and attachment hormones that make you easily fooled.

Very True! Due to pandemic daycares were closed and i became a stay at homes wife, let me tell you that i was still going to school for may law degree and being a housewife. My husband took care of everything and even gives me a weekly allowance. He loved me being a stay at homewife because he said the food tasted more delicious because i had time, the house was cleaner because I deep cleaned and i took care of all the little tasks that he would sometimes due. Trust me he doesn’t take me for granted or disrespects me. He loves that my child is reaching all the milestones on time and he can come home and relax. On Saturdays i go get my nails, hair done and i study for the bar exam. That doesn’t mean i overspend everything he gives me, i opened a secret bank account and put away everything he gives me just in case. 🦋

Exercise, exercise, exercise girls!

I wish that my family and friends would have preached to "raise a family" instead of asking "when you gone have a baby?" There's a huge difference. Raising a family requires a plan, having a baby is just that. We need to encourage young girls the steps in raising a family instead of just getting pregnant.

“get a job and stack your money in secrecy” THIS, you said it perfectly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 saving money is so important but also knowing when to keep your mouth shut. even if you have supportive family, move in silence and let the results do the talking.

I am 40 years old and everything Chloe is saying is true. Take this advice to heart. I wish I had this kind of advice when I was 20.

As someone who was a stay at home wife TWICE my advice is to always have a part time job. He needs to know you CAN leave and not get so comfortable that his behavior takes a turn for the worst, bolstered by the fact you can't leave. NEVER let a man or a bank talk you into signing away your interest in property (yes, this happened to me....Once) men will promise the world when they are trying to get you... and there's no real way to know who will be consistent and who will "flip" because they know they "have" you. For some it's marriage, for other's it's having children. If a man mentions having children tell him you don't believe in having illegitimate children so marriage comes first. If he objects to that TRUST AND BELIEVE he sees his children as disposable anchors to keep women around him without risking his assets. I learned most of this the hard way. But then again, I got the ring, custody, the house, car....he got the satisfaction of his dysfunction 😉

I wish the women in my family taught me self-care, setting boundaries, how to vet men since I was raised in a dysfunctional abusive family, never sacrificing yourself for others especially family members. I was also never taught how to be feminine, soft, or how to be a woman and I was rough and tough because of past traumas and had a bad attitude about men since most women in my family didn’t have the right relationships with men and was abused by my father. Now that I’m in my 30s, I’m learning this on my own, lost weight, cleaned up my diet, cook more at home, learning makeup, hair care, skincare, nail care, and body care on KZfaq, spoil myself with a feminine self-care routine 2xs a week, cut off people that I went to therapy over and grateful that I have a chance to turn things around. Women that are over 25, it’s not too late to get yourself together. You still breathing and have a chance to want better and do better.

Meet your husband in college was something I was never told.

I wish someone had told me that being nice doesn’t save you from anything. It doesn’t mean people will be nice back to you and it doesn’t mean people won’t take advantage of you. On the contrary, people are more than happy to take from someone who is nice and willing to help. Kindness is about your karma, but without boundaries kindness really isn’t a virtue. No virtue stands alone as a true virtue without boundaries. Last, but not least, you’re the prize. Period. Keep going.

Say no w/o explaining/ apologizing. Put yourself first! 💄

Do not feel guilty by family members because you refuse to financially help the men in your family. That includes fathers, uncles, brothers, cousins, play cousins, etc.

If I had a nickel for every time someone told me that I should keep going to school and get a good job because I can't depend on a man to take care of me...🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️ I'd be rich!!

I am 25 but I wish someone would have taught me that the man you’re dealing with needs you more than you need them they come and go don’t waste your time on one man and don’t ever be afraid to say no for anything you don’t have to do or be anywhere you don’t want to your time is all you have and it’s valuable!

I wish I had a woman. Any woman tell me that “Its okay to be soft. It’s okay to be gentle. It’s okay to not lead and dominate the way my father taught me. It’s okay to allow a man to guide But ONLY once you see he is a provider and knows how to take care and provide for you the way a Man should. It’s okay to be Calm. It’s okay to not have all the answers. You don’t have to be a STRONG BLACK WOMAN. You can relax beautiful.” That’s what I wish I heard growing up.

Becoming a stay at home wife and mother was a PROMOTION for me ✨ I was a professor last year, burnt out, missing my toddler, and constantly in a power struggle with my spouse. It took a long time for me to truly understand Chloe’s videos and to figure out what I wanted. I grew up a Tomboy, a people pleaser, and a striver so I didn’t think I could be a stay at home wife and mother. Once I admitted to myself and my spouse that that’s exactly what I wanted, my life has changed for the better. I am peaceful, sexy, and doted on by my spouse. There are haters but also people who show us love ❤️

The older ladies have a responsibility to teach the young women with love. They need it more than ever. Don’t let nobody steal your crown 👑

Asking a girl/woman “can she fight?!” is also very masculine and ratchet, especially when it is not in the context of self defense classes, etc, that Chloe mentioned.

I fumbled several good bags attached to good men in my 20s because I wanted my “freedom.” I wish I’d realized that you don’t give up “freedom” in the right relationship. You still get to be yourself and grow. If a good one comes along and you’re compatible then I’d definitely consider settling down early. I should have chosen a husband and starting a family instead of student loan debt and “freedom.”

I wish someone taught me how to love myself and take care of myself, exercise, eat well, do facial, sleep well, dress classy, how to save money, how to set and achieve goals etc.

I am almost 40, I was only taught that pregnancy was bad, don't be "fast" & go to school. That first heatbreak feels like death- as noone prepared me that is will happen or even that men lie! Girls are honestly not taught emotional life skills, sad. This is why these channels are so popular and needed!

I'm 26 and have been on a journey since 22 trying to get myself trained to learn to protect myself and embrace my feminine nature. The biggest lie I was told was that I had to get tough to take on the world, and that's not the case. When I am in a spiritual place of receiving, in my feminine, I am just as successful in life, if not more so because my energy is so magnetic in this hyper masculine society.

When I reflect on my past, I regret not being better with money, being a masculina, not maintaining my normal weight, and being a people pleaser. Young Ladies, save your money and say no to giving/loaning YOUR money without guilt. You owe it to your young self to be your best now.

« Get a job and stack your money in secrecy » THIS !!!! I learned to never tell a soul about my salary even my parents because they tend to have an eye on it. My father humiliated me because I used all my money for clothes that are more fitting to my morphology. He said that I’ll never help him and I am selfish for eating my money alone. Since then, I sweared to myself to never EVER tell my family about the money I have.

As a man, there is nothing sexy like being in a relationship with a feminine woman! It's easy to love a woman that is in her faminine energy! It's just beautiful. The relationship becames effortless!

The females in my family were cape-wearing mules and actively pushed mule, cape mentality--filled with jealousy. Many were not married but had children and justified being single mothers over marriage. I wish I was taught how beautiful I was, to trust my instincts and to not waste time on a man with 'potential.' Chloe please write a book on the feminine & masculine principle.

I just had my first child and although I’m an RN and have a masters in nursing, I’m now a stay-at-home-mom. Having a child shifted my mindset. I’m fortunate to have a husband who can take care of us and understands my need to be with our son. These tips are truly for women of all ages. It’s refreshing. Great video!

I was never taught this, I’m 50 years old and never was taught this🙃 I had always hung around broke guys that felt that a woman should protect the man also. I don’t know if any young women in my family that practice this. Worth sharing, so many women in my family that are single parents and working overtime to provide. I was only taught to go to school 🙂 I love your content thank you

I’m a 23 year old African young woman and this channel has quite literally saved my life , I grew up with a resistance to the opposite sex because of the way they approached was for a lack of a better word below par and at the same time majority of my peers made me feel like I had no enthusiasm towards dating and I was almost about to fall for the vicious trap of settling . Basically this channel reassured me and put in words what the real problem was , my standards were never too high and I will be actively choosing better for myself and changing my masculina ways♥️

This is great advice for older women also. Saying the word "no" with no explanations is one of the best things you can teach young women.

I wish I had been taught to run away from men who need my help to survive or be successful. My mother taught me the exact opposite.

I wish I would’ve learn about self care, it’s okay to say no, and the importance of being fit!

I always felt ugly since a little girl and therefore used masculine energy to feel accomplished. But I want to love myself and find my beauty inside and out. There comes a point where a woman needs true confidence, and I need that. Femininity is the way, everything else comes with it.

10:43 this is a big one! When I was younger I had a lot of friends who were energy vampires and all around dysfunctional people. I was very codependent at the time and I felt guilty cutting these people off or even distancing myself from them, so I deemed myself Captain-Save-A-Friend. Well after years of being disrespected by these same people, I finally made the decision to cut them off and now I'm in therapy trying to heal myself from my mental health issues (btw MOST of these dysfunctional friends did not get any better, in fact many of them got worse!) The company you keep is VERY important and who you choose to keep around you says a lot of about you, remember that! If you're a captain save a friend like I was, STOP! It's not your job to save everyone and anyone. They don't want to be saved and most of the time they're not grateful for your help anyway.

I wish my mom and grandma taught me how to vet men out. I was taught literally what Chloe said in this video; go to school, get a good job so you can support yourself! Now I’m 41, educated, single with zero kids. I spent too much time with the wrong type of men. I was so naive!! I thought, if only they can see how great I am and how well I treat them, then I’ll get the same treatment in return. WRONG! ❌❌❌ and my father is a bible verse reciting Rastafarian who never married any of the women he made children with so I definitely had no help there. I had to learn everything very late in life after many hurtful experiences. I finally had to take a hard look at myself and unlearn everything that I thought to be true. My problem wasn’t lack of femininity, it was insecurity and lack of self worth.

I wish someone would’ve talked to me about managing my finances properly. 😕 I learned the hard way.

I also wanted to mention something important that I see a lot of young women especially black women doing (heck all ages). Do not make your insecurities and your setbacks your identity! I see so many young black girls and even women making their issues the first, last and only thing you know about and see them as. Low self esteem should not be your character description in the story that is your life. It is something you are going through but it’s not the only thing and shouldn’t be all there is to know about you. Also stop looking for men and friends using your insecurities as the bond that keeps you together. That’s how you have trauma bonding and get with low vibrational people that will never wish you well or help you because your problems are what keep you from leaving them behind. I’m starting to suspect that some of these women see broadcasting their personal issues makes them seem relatable and humble but that couldn’t be further from the truth. Sometimes people will hate you specifically because you remind them of the insecurities they hate about themselves! Also having everything understood about you by someone you don’t know is dangerous because predators have no empathy!

I'm 17 years old and before I discovered femininity content I was going in the wrong direction. I was insecure, I was having mental breakdowns all the time, I'll just be crying for no reason and wouldn't understand why. majority of the women in my family although there's some of them who have good "qualities" they're not feminine and they don't teach me these things. A lot of times they teach me how to suppress my emotions and just only focus in "school". Making me feel like I need to be taking on so much responsibility and saying " oh I have to be a provider" to take care of family members who are not doing well. it's not that I don't want to take care of my family ! but it's so much pressure on me and I would always feel overwhelmed. once I started watching femininity content it felt like a Relief ! because before when I was in my masculine energy I always thought that I was designed to take on everybody's pain and stress to make their own lives easier while giving up my own happines and comfortability soooo thank you Femininity for the positive impact on my life.🥳🥳🥳 Bonus: I've been on my FEMININITY journey for 1 year now and I still have a long way to go.

It's important to be mindful of who you keep company either even in your teen years. My friends were all extra dusty and baby mama's from their teens and decades later they have kids with multiple men. I'll give most of them credit for their struggle but because I was surrounded by a bunch of struggle people I was envied and not supported and therefore isolated. If you're more ambitious then your friend group, break away

Men will spike weed with pills, crack, and cocaine. If you didn’t see him roll it up, don’t smoke it. Supply your own high! 👌🏾

You deserve a million subscribers.

I’m 29, and I truly appreciate this video. One thing I will share is to dedicate self-care. Everyone will ask for your time, but the only one owe time is you and your Creator. It’s only til a year ago I had time to pause and realign with what I’ve always wanted, being a stay at home mom. It’s easy being beyond 25 to grow bitterness of what could have been, but I’ve learn to be grateful and help those younger to practice gratitude from every experience. My 24 year old friend ask for advice, and one thing I told her is “Don’t grow bitter, it’s a easy but destructive route. Live in gratitude.” Going to find a therapist as well and been so excited in this journey!

I'm 22 and a stay at home wife and I'm living my best life. Very insightful video, chloe! 🧡

I was definitely lost in my 20s. Thank God for better years.

Chloe, you are truly doing God’s work. Taking pain and transforming it into a lesson we can all learn. I had heartbreak after heartbreak in high school and at times I thought there was no hope for me in love, but I discovered your channel in my senior year. I watched one video and was immediately blown away how you described exactly each behavior I did wrong. I’ve still got a lot to learn, thank you from the bottom of my heart how much you have taught me already! I watch your videos with my mother as well and we are both breaking the generational curse of being a doormat to men.

I'm turning 40, in a few months and everything Chloe has stated on the list, is indeed true. Especially, taking care of your mental health, the company you keep, dressing feminine and understanding & respecting the masculine /feminine principles. Happy Sunday🍸

I'm 34 years old and always playing Superwoman in my masculine. I was never taught how to be feminine. I am trying to get better but it's hard being a single black woman. Every Sunday, I always watch your videos to put me in my place.

I wish my mother taught me standards and boundaries when I was a teenager. I recommend therapy for any girl who went through a lot of trauma in her youth or journaling. I didn’t start my journey until I was 25 but this advice still works for anyone who is starting out and this journey can be lonely because a lot of women are in their masculine but always remember the right ppl will come your way when you put the work in and put yourself out there. I wish you young girls the best of luck on this journey and know that you are loved.💙

My mother had a rough life growing up, so her mantra was being "independent" and she never taught me how to be feminine and soft for men. I was taught to provide for myself so that is what I did. I'm 50 years old just learning about feminity ....

Thankfully, my parents taught me most the ways listed here. My parents worked in law enforcement, my mother worked at a prison and was a "masculina" when it came to here job. Outside of work, she's very feminine and told not to work in "masculine occupations" lol. My father (a US Marine) taught me to vet men and taught me how to fight lol. Their law enforcement backgrounds came in handy!

Chloe thank you for your videos. I’m currently in Madrid, Spain for an internship and I’ve learned so much about art and history, even learning Spanish! I’ve met so many masculine men here! Your advice has really helped me!

I wish self love would have been stressed as my foundation to my success.

Learning how to walk away really stuck with me💕 I met my soon to be ex husband while I was in college... I realized I attracted him because I had low self esteem about myself to the point where he seemed so amazing for doing things for me and I did not regard the fact that he couldn’t provide for me financially. I eventually walked away after we got married because I realized he was keeping me through false hopes and promises and our relationship was heading towards a struggle love. Some of his family tried to guilt trap me but I know my worth now. I’m only 23 and I’m happy that I have people in my life who reminded me to work on being a better feminine woman and not being afraid of walking away. This video was super encouraging to watch 💗💗

She's right. I'm now 24 and I've been able to stay at home with my son, and do whatever I want (college, real estate school, travel). I'm grateful to have a taste of a high value man who provides and is very supportive of my career, goal, and me as an individual. 🥰 All the women in my family are getting on to the hypergamous lifestyle. Thanks Chloe!

#12 was my biggest struggle. Always self sacrificing to avoid conflict with negative people. I've learned that I have to deal with those people from a distance and to NOT share my personal struggles, happiness, accomplishments, or goals with those who I feel may react negative towards me. Best decision I have ever made!

I wished my family would have touched on finding a good partner even while working on getting your degree. I look back and see how many people found a good partner because they actually put themselves out there and looked while I was busy being focused and studying. We push having money and a great job to gain happiness when in reality it's the people you surround yourself with

I wish I had this advice in my 20's. I especially wish I was encouraged to let go when it does not serve me. This can save you from spending years with the wrong person and limiting your opportunities and growth.

Chloe, as a 22 years old, I thank God for bringing your channel into my recommandations one year ago. I was a dumb girl who thought that being on Onlyfans selling nudes was the way to go. Since I watch your videos, I am a transformed young woman. I still struggle with self confidence because I am fat but I tend to act more lady like and feminine which really make me desirable to men. I really thank you for the work you are doing. You saved me from the shackles of Onlyfans.

I’m turning 32 in a few months and I wish someone told me how precious and valuable I was and to treat myself with care😌 I didn’t know how valuable I was as a young girl resulting in me treated myself harshly and allowing others to do the same.

I wish someone taught me how to speak up. My mother always told me to keep quiet partially so she could bully her daughters. I wish I was taught boundaries early on. I wish I was taught to not be a people pleaser and to stand up for myself. But I am learning now.

I am 25 years old stay at home mom, married to a wonderful provider husband 🥰 I am also a degree holder. But am so happy with my life, As a housewife. Mrs Chloe is teaching me so much. Thank you so much

I'm 43 & was not taught any of this but I have been learning & teaching my daughter, Hadassah, EVERYTHING I did not know. Sometimes I would worry if she is listening but I realised when I operate in my full feminine energy she becomes fascinated & mimick my actions. I tell her she is BEAUTIFUL, feminine energy, intelligent, GOD'S choosen vessel, loved, the PRIZE & who a man should be: provider, protector, praying leader. She will navigate LIFE knowledgeable.

One thing that I wish I had known back then, is that everyone is different and will behave differently. This is so due to the household from which the person came from and the environment in which they were nurtured. So if they treat me in a way I don't like, it is not my fault and they don't know any other way.

I am a 54 year old woman that has learned so much from this channel. I have a provider, traditional husband and I am planning my resignation to be a stay at home wife...kids are grown and gone... I already have a side hustle. I plan to increase my clientele slightly there..and open a small business..but my main purpose will be to take care of me, my husband and our home... I anticipate the freedom and my husband is ready for it... Thank you Chloe for all you do .. Much love

I am a happy stay at home wife and mother with an awesome provider man who treats me like a Queen. I came from dusty struggle love that I am slowly forgetting but have learned a lot from. So it is possible, stop accepting shit ladies.

I'm 20. I'm very grateful for this community and all the ladies who are willing to teach us and help us. ❤❤

Something I wish I would’ve been taught is that it’s ok to receive. Women are anatomically made to receive therefore we should be comfortable receiving gifts without feeling we have to give anything up.

I’m 26 years old. The advice of it is not Your responsibility to help a man feel better when he is down and broken homes with me! Especially these older men when they suddenly hit a tiff with their financials.

This Is so on point! I've moved to an entirely new state to remove myself from stagnant energy!!! I honestly attend events and lounges alone now. I would Invite a female relative or associate to brunch and golf clubs and not only would they always show up late, they would tell me not to dress up because they're wearing something casual. I would also get fake compliments such as, "you look nice" with a frown on their face. They would rush to leave my "bougie lounge", to go to a ratchet club or bar so that they can have their HENNESSEY. (I drink sparkling wine.) I also refuse to have children until I am married so they assumed that I would pay for the TABS!!! I had one family member ask me If I could watch her children so that she can go to Tulum for the weekend, because her baby daddy changed his mind! I can go on for days, but nonetheless I no longer associate with any of them, family or not.

I'm 31 and just started my feminine journey. I'm enjoying every moment of it. It's never too late, my mom in her 60's & started the same.

I am a wife and a mommy and that it ... along with having an MBA and. Small wellness business wrking from home and that’s final 🆓🧘🏽‍♀️😎

Wish someone would have taught me how to balance between career aspirations, boundaries and femininity. I learned and am continuing to progress, but really wished a vehicle like the Hypergamous Life was available to me in my 20s, and 30s. 1. Move in silence IS Golden. 2. Be mindful the company that you keep 3. Include Therapy into your annual Healthcare routine like your annual physical

I’m well over 25 but this information is STILL helpful for me atp 😊❤️Thanks again Chloe 🥰🥰

I am 40 and newly divorced and will reimplement these suggestions in my life.

My grandmother told me to make sure a guy has a job but she never told me to make sure he is a provider even though she was a stay at home mom. I just wish she'd told me WHY it is so important. I also wish I learned how to properly vet men. But I know now and that's all that matters. Thanks Chloe!

I'm a 24yr old Med student from a European country. I have been watching your videos for a while now. I can't describe how much you have helped me. In my field we are taught that being masculine is the best way to get where you want to be. You are constantly "fighting" for your spot and constantly trying to prove that you deserve to be here. After my 3rd year I felt like I somehow lost my feminine energy and started to feel lost and insecure. That's when I discovered your channel. It was like a breath of fresh air. I went out with this man a few weeks ago and received the best compliments ever. He told me he really loved and admired my feminine energy and it was super rare to find it nowadays. I can't describe the feeling after hearing this. Thank you for everything! May God bless your life! Diana

I am going to listen to this as a 29 year old woman, in case I can catch something useful to me as well

I wish my mum taught me the importance of dating and the right way how to do it. I had very low self esteem and didn't date or event speak to a man until I was 28 soon to be 29! I struggled obviously did everything wrong. Wish I was encouraged and supported more.

I’m 22 and I’m so glad that I found your channel, I’ve been really processing what you’ve been saying and I used to just want to be single with a career but now after working in the real world I’ve learned that I don’t want that. I’ve been taking your advice to becoming a feminine woman and I’ve realized my mom was very masculine and she has taught me just go to school. Thanks to you I’m no longer a dust bunny attracting dusties

I wish that I had been taught that my emotions and feelings actually matter.

I wish someone taught me that it was ok to have standards. I used to work so hard to get the attention of low caliber men because subconsciously I thought they were all I deserved.

I'm 29, will be 30 in November, and I've learned so much from watching this channel. I wish my mother taught me how to be feminine. She was a very feminine woman, but for some reason believed I should have been able to learn on my own. I can remember as a young teen asking her to teach me how to apply makeup and her response was "you're an (visual) artist, you should just know how to do it". It was this way with everything, hair care included. I'm forever grateful to have found this channel, it's helped open my eyes WIDE and address things that were prohibiting my growth. Thank you Chloe, you're a life saver for women, and girls, young and old.

Being a man these comments are very insightful on knowing how to be a better partner for woman.....man desire for women exactly how chole is talking abt.. Heres how a man thinks... Short story:-In college (i was 18 never really had any big experience with a girl) i had this big crush on girl who was all this stylish fit and everything she wore or had was like an art to me...i know every guy on my class crushing on her......unknowingly we became lab partners and exchanged phn no..3 days into knowing each other she gives a call in the morning asking to bring her a gum in collage..... i asked why? she replied i will tell in college... all exicted i went to a store and bought her like a bunch of choclates and gums with all money i had in the pocket...On arriving at college i gave her this small hand bag full of gums and chocolate.....she starts laughing and tells me that all she wanted was a ment gum coz she didnt get to brush teeth of an early program lecture she was attending that morning.... Moral:- its an instinct in males (especially in primates) that says the way in for men is to provide and protect females dominate other males(or make a pact) and show how worthy his genes are to transferred to future generation...in mordern times these instincts search for women who presents herself as this true femininess that man sees potential in and are the one he approaches and is willing to provide and protect...i saw that potential in that girl i tried to give her everything i had... Another story:- once i went out with a girl who used to think very low of herself abt not being attractive (Although i found her attractive) she was happy for just being with me....she gave me this vibe that i can find a better girl than her..i had to leave her coz she never valued herself... she had a more decent job and made more money than i did but still i cannot see any femininess in her only misery Moral:- Even if you feel unattractive or unwanted... thinking high of yourself, mainting your feminity, mainting that i am not an easy mark logo being confident is the key ladies .. man dance around girl like these...