Seriously I haven't seen such a crapy, trashy and useless video clips like this yet! And you know what?! You don't even deserve a single mother to be with. Because you aren't men enough. Single moms are way strong and independent and that's the reason they don't need a man like you. You should know that doing things around the house doesn't do anything with being with single mom or single women. It's men's job to do it! So stop blushing!!!

Who's just here scrolling down through all the comments?

1 pro of dating a single mom. You'll never make that mistake twice.

I dated a single mom. What a total waste of time and energy. This video is spot on. They are the least independent (more co-dependant). They are not loyal and will gaslight at every chance. I gave a lot. Concreted her back patio. Fixed her broken fridge. Saved her $7,000 on a car by battling the F&I guy. Took her and her daughter on trips. And much more.. Much, much, much more. Nothing in return but problems with her custody battle.. Like I said.. I learned a lot, They are not loyal or monogamous.. They cheat and lie to get what they want for their kids. That's the truth.

Fellas, don't argue with the women. It is Your Right! to want a woman that didn't birth children for another man. They need to understand how big of a deal it is. Most of the women would never give you the time of day if they didn't have kids. They don't want you, they want your help.

I have dated a single mum, and I'm not going back for more. Never again. That's like breaking back in to Alcatraz

I just left a woman I loved very much because of her 3 children. I paid for 80 percent of the household bills... 95 percent of the 18 trips taken in 3.5 years.. and countless other things. She gave 70 percent of her take home pay to her adult sons, and the other 30 percent went for some bills and her cigarettes. When i put my foot down finally, i was told take it or leave it. Needless to say I left it, and im the one with peace in my life, more money, and my 3800 square foot home. Never again.

fuck that shit!! Dating single mom's is like continuing someone else's saved game. No fun from the start. That's hilarious, you didnt even get to see the epic ass beginning cutscenes or story elements, you just straight up fighting some hard boss, don't know the controls either, because you also missed the tutorial stage.

In my experience, single mom's oftentimes are so occupied with work, kids, and dealing with their ex's that they make themselves totally unattractive to me. I want a woman who has time for me to be able to build a strong bond.

I broke up with I single mother once because she told me that she was going to break up with me if I didn't go back to college. She was shocked when I dumped her.

"I can buy my own fruit roll ups" -Entrepreneurs in Cars 2016

If wealthy men won't take them then don't expect regular men to do it.

If you date a single Mom get ready to hear this phrase quite frequently; “Hey, before we go out can you just help me with something real quick?” Your weekend will then vaporize after hours of manual labor….

I've dated two single moms in my life. Everything you've said is absolutely true. The good moms will always choose their kid over you. The ones I dated had very little time to establish a relationship or rapport with me. Most single moms are broke as a joke... and a huge financial drain... wanting you to pay for everything including her bills.

More mature? Really. I see all kinds of single moms out partying and drinking making fools of themselves.

I was with a single mom. This video is 100% accurate. Actually, it's like a recording of my previous life is being played back. Incredible. And sad.

i have no comment, lmfao 100% covered correctly,, the article should have been 4 reasons not to date a single mom

For men, it depends on how old you are and what you want......if you only go for looks, you will only get a nice face and a potentially ugly soul.

I almost settled for dating a single mother. She's a friend of mine who had been flirting with me for awhile and I guess I started liking her because she was the first woman that ever gave me that kind of attention and actually saying I was attractive. We never went out and I'm glad I moved on from that fast.

Another great video, and absolutely right. I'm 46 and dated a 24-year-old single mom for a couple of months, and she was an absolute unorganized mess. There was always some kind of crisis that she needed a solution for that I felt obliged to help with because she was hot and easy, and I'm very organized and truly independent. The ones I have dated are completely dependent on men or the government. Too bad I didn't discover your videos before I talked to her, and I was thinking with the wrong head. These chicks are like the mythological sirens who caused Greek sailors to crash their ships into rocks while focused on them. Never again!

single moms like to be aggressive in bed because it gives them a sense of revenge toward their ex.

Single moms are initially independent, as soon as she settles and discover your financial strength then she becomes as dependent as a typical woman.

One of my friends was desperate and miserable and kept dating single moms. It was non stop drama. I gave him this same advice and he has been a lot happier!

Single mothers = more baggage than the baggage claim at LAX

Horrible with money,and always looking for a guy who can give her and her kids more of his resources,blow their money on fun time and then come to the guy their seeing for the necessary things like gas,food and housing expenses..not mention they are emotional wrecks and play the victim constantly and no matter how much shit you do for her kids they'll turn on you in an instant..been there done that,leave it alone gentlemen it's not worth the trouble

Your brutal honesty is hilarious but wise, I appreciate the content and enjoy your advice bro. Thanks.

Good moms wouldn't have fruit roll ups. Terrible parenting right there.

Single moms are way strong and independent? That’s why she’s so angry and upset that this man is teaching men and warning them about single moms? If she’s so independent and strong, why so upset this man won’t date her . 😂😂😂😂

This man speaks the truth

Dating and married single woman was the biggest mistake in my life , end up dealing with a DEVIL ....

It's like serving a time in prison for the crime you didn't committed 😂😂😂...

Reading the women's comments full of anger and bitterness, it seems the truth still hurts. It's almost impossible to find a women who could admit she's wrong. So sad

Do not have anything more than a short term sexual relationship with single mothers. Don’t get emotionally invested and don’t meet the kids. It’s a GIANT waste for any man.

on my experience single moms has many in love and conditioned male friends for when they can use them, for backup

I love single moms as people. My dad died early and so I was raised by a single mom as well as by a single aunt when she passed away. So, I've come to appreciate them as people, but not as someone I would potentially want to father children with. You will NEVER come first...EVER. I recently dated a single mom and I don't want to repeat that experience again. She cancelled on me at the last minute due to "babysitter issues." Always talked about her ex too and the drama of them getting separated.

No person without a kid should date/marry someone with kids unless they somehow feel they cannot go on without them. Life is not as simple as it seems.

I was married to my husband for 10 years and he left me. Being a single mom is not something I ever wanted to do. I hate going to sleep alone at night. I don't bring men home. Since I'm a minister, I dont bring men home at all. It has been a struggle. My father has been gracious to teach me to find myself and learn who I am apart from the relationship I was in. My kids are 4, 7, and 11 - AND I don't tolerate direspect from them toward any adult. I understand where you are coming from, and your experience was unfair. I watch these videos to learn more how a man thinks and how can I better prepare myself to be a better woman. Also, my kids can be A-holes, I'm not blind to that. My father and mother taught me to put a husband before the kids, and most women don't agree and it's also very difficult to do. What is your advice to single moms who don't want to fit into this idea that we are needy, or what can we do to be better and independent, but still make a man feel needed and wanted? Thanks for these vids.

4 Reasons to NOT date a single mom, ever. 1. With the notable exception of widows, everyone that is a single mom, is so by choice. Meaning she is either a bad judge of character and had kids with a total scumbag or she is so insufferable that an otherwise reasonable man chose to leave his family rather than put up with her shit. 2. She will never see you as anything else than a source of income and support for he and her kids. 3. You are not the kids real dad, she will never sure you know this. She will use you for all your worth but will make sure that you have no right to discipline the children. They kill never respect you. 4. As with any woman, as soon as a better deal become available, she WILL leave you. If regular women as hypergamous by nature, single moms are like the ravenous starving wolves of hypergamy. It doesn't matter what you did for her and her kids, as soon as your output declines or something better comes along, she will jump ship.

I am a single mom and I agree with everything you say except the fact that we are not independent, or maybe I can speak for myself...I am very independent...I have been divorced for 11 years, my daughter was 9 mths old, I have changed careers ( I'm a Dental Hygienist now, former RN), I have bought and sold 5 houses, installed a kitchen (IKEA) by myself, I mow my lawn and snow blow my driveway, I fix whatever I can fix in the house by myself, if I can't I call my contractor...and so on and so forth... But I get that not all single moms are like thatHaving said that however, would it be nice to have a little help ? Perhaps...Oh...and I don't have any fruit rollups in my pantry ...poison for your teeth..lolCheers

I've dated a single mom, and everything you said is true. No time for me, I was always the last thing on her mind, Always repairing stuff, and when things got tough (her workload & kids issues), I was the first thing she dropped because she needed to breath. So no more single moms for me. P.S. she divorced her husband because she always knew he wasn't the right man for her. (?lol)

Started talking to one a month ago. And now I realize whatever attraction she had when she gave me her number is gone. In the end, I dodged a bullet. Two different fathers with three kids.

we're going to see a lot more lonely old women in the future.

I think single mom work best with single dad's. Specially if their kids are in the same age range. Also I don't agree with you complaining about doing things to help your partner which is a single mom. If you love someone you would do things for your partner and she would reciprocate in different ways such as cooking, cleaning or whatever for you. I have been with some girl who are not single mom's and they also expect you to do everything for them.

I'm with a single mom rn and I wasn't unsure about us at all, she gives me arguably more attention than the kid (7y/o). She was cheated on and left, not married. Independent and mature for the most part. We spend a lot of time together and the only problem for me is that I really fucking love this girl and just seeing the child makes me kind of sad bcoz I really want it to be from me and not some deadbeat but her having a child with someone isnt a reason for me not to love her

1. Mature.. Who cares. when the relationship won't work for whatever reason anyway. 2. Fruit Rollups - Plus for me. Definitely more important than so called maturity when the relationship won't work for whatever reason anyway. 3. Independent - that's a Joke. What the hell do you think you're there for? 4. Patient committed or loyal - than why the hell are you there? Why not with their child's dad? Whoever wrote that was a jackass or trying to sell something. The only reason women leave men is because they want another man.. All the Time!!!!! No matter what excuse they give you!!!! They are experts at lying and giving really solid excuses.

I lost my wife to cancer. Been doing the single dad thing for over 8 years. I've found there isn't anything a woman can do for my children that I haven't been able to learn. And my kids aren't snowflakes because I don't shelter them from life's consequences. they are both very capable and I think it's because my "dad love" is doing what's best for them to train them in life, not what makes me feel good like I see so many women doing with their children especially as they age.

So diving in to relationships with a single mom as a first try is a bad idea. Thank you for the enlightenment. Now, if only my logic would not be completely suppressed by emotion every time I talk to her ...

I went out on a date the other day with a women who told me on the date that she was a single mom. After the date, I told her I’d like to see her again. She told me sure, but she can’t do anything with me on weekends because she stays home with her kid. Fuck that. I was put on notice to my low priority immediately.

Maybe there are exceptions, but the following is a rule. This is a response to one of these videos on why to date a single mom. 1) She is not independent. She is looking for a good-sized wallet so she can move her 3 kids out of her parents' house. She will live her life on your dime and she has no financial sense and will spend every penny on her own interests leaving you unable to pursue your own. Any protest by the guy footing the bill and you're "putting her down". She's quite selfish. 2) She's not well-rounded. She has a lot of interests and will pursue them without educating herself. She will ignore science. She will ignore the work of those who preceded her in her chosen endeavor and act like she knows it all after doing her particular activity for two weeks. If you see others who are involved in the activity making fun of her and you try to approach her and recommend that maybe she should educate herself a little more before pontificating on the subject at hand, you're "putting her down". 3) Yeah, she's flexible...at using her position in a relationship to get you to do things you normally wouldn't do and give up the things you were doing when she met you. She does her expensive thing and needs more money? You sell that '67 Mustang you spent 5 years restoring. You quit fishing because she includes you in her obligations without asking you and she starts taking up all your free time. So, you sell your boat to make up more for her expensive endeavor. She quits her job and fraudulently collects 99 weeks of unemployment and berates you when you tell her she's being unethical. You're "putting her down" again. Now, all of your money is tied up in her endeavor so you relent and get involved in it with her. You educate yourself. You enter public competition in that endeavor. You make some changes to her program and it starts to succeed. You begin outdoing her and people start coming to you for education. Well, you just took over that one thing that was HER'S you sorry piece of shit. 4) She doesn't roll with the punches. She throws punches because she's now a pilled-up, boozed-up volatile ball of violence. If by "she rolls with the punches" you mean she won't take any financial responsibility or won't take responsibility for her own actions, including lies and her poor parenting...she just brushes off the effects of her long string of poor decisions (which you have to deal with), then ok...you got me. 5) Yeah she's looking for long-term. Her biological clock is ticking, you have a decent-sized wallet, a nice cock and she knows her chances of trapping a guy for the long-haul once she hits 35 will start to dwindle. She WILL in fact play with your feelings, but she will stop playing with your dangly bits. She is a master manipulator. Yeah she knows what she wants. See all the above. 6) She'll love unconditionally? BULLSHIT. It comes with conditions alright. 7) She has a sexy appeal because she has to. Se all the above. She didn't get good with her mouth by not running through a lot of men to get to you. I've been married to this former single mom for almost 20 years. She has repeated the same pattern of behavior that led to her last divorce. She is 50. I am about to file for divorce. It does my heart good knowing that she will be desperate, run through what limited choices in men she will have after me and wind up old, ugly, poor and alone. I will be able to get back to saving for retirement, working hard and doing things I enjoy. I will enjoy returning to chasing skirts, spending time with my adult children and their families, and will just enjoy life in general until time for my dirt nap. Guys, single moms can be fun to date. Wrap it, or, better yet, have a vasectomy AND wrap it. Have fun with her. She'll be fun as long as you're dating and she thinks she has a shot at a long-term thing. She's pretty raunchy in bed, has probably run through a few guys so she has experience. Be open to things and make sure she's satisfied. As long as you're just dating her, it'll be a lot of fun. Do NOT put a ring on it. You will pay for that shit for the rest of your life or until you've decided you've had enough. There will be severe financial consequences and your sanity will be stretched to the limit if you do.

A lot of men never ever dated and picked any single moms but finally helped the single ladies became the single moms . That's amazing , isn't it ?.

The only thing that I would take issue with is the maturity level of single moms. Maybe compared to teenagers, but most of the single moms that I have dealt with had immature attitudes about the very things that you mentioned. I dated a couple of single moms when I was single, and dealt with them in a professional capacity as a police officer. If they weren't dealing with baby daddy problems they were sorting out relationship issues with multiple ex's, and the majority of them tried hitting on me or my partners because they saw strong, fit, gainfully employed men that could take care of them and rescue them from their poor life choices.

Both of the single moms I've been in relationships with (married one of them) cheated on me once they weren't excited about the relationship anymore. I'm not saying ALL single mothers will cheat but it's also silly to say that they are more loyal than anyone else.

It is ok to date single moms just don't get serious and don't get involved with her kids. No one says you have to move in with them, that's the big mistake! Go out on dates enjoy each other's company and leave it at that.

Dating a singlemom is like spending your life in jail for a crime you did'nt commit

AMEN, brother! Great points (especially your last one, which applies to ALL women, not just those with kids). Anyway, I can think of *no* reason to date a single mom. No way!

"Single moms are patient, committed and loyal." Makes no sense. Then why did they left the man they got the child from?

Most single moms depend on the man they divorced for child support. Not so many single dads got child support from the mom.

I'm dating a single mom and it's fine. No real benefits though. The only real benefits I can think of is that you know for sure she is fertile (if you're planning on kids) and you can see what type of a mom she is before having children with her.

OMG do not date a single mother, period, end of discussion.

If she has fruit roll ups, it's because you bought them! Lmao

Hahahahahahaha that fruit roll up reaction was hilarious, thanks for great videos sir, cheers

I needed to see this. Thank you.

I'm 55 retired never married ,and I totally have my shit together. Believe me it's slim pickings out there. Met a woman 10 years my junior is pretty awesome and has two kids 15 and 10. Can't even get a first date with her even though she says she wants to go and has cancelled once because she couldn't get a babysitter but offered me a rain check. It's already becoming a pain in the ass. I told her to contact me once you have some time.

At first I thought this was gonna be the first video I disagreed with, then you spoke the absolute truth my brother! Amen!

One very good reason to date a single mom: you're a single dad. Let's face it child contact is a whole lot easier if you have an experienced pro at hand.

Totally agree with the 'I can do everything a woman can do except give birth but she can't' - that's totally what I have learnt also.

The Elite Daily is usually pretty disconnected from reality. This is proof. Fruit roll-ups? Seriously?

You sir are spot on. Thanks for the video!

wondering if this video is done on a Canon's auto focus with tracking? does it kill your battery too?

Its not related to the single mom topic but I love your channel(single woman no kids). I find most of your videos realistic and true -even as a woman. I think its important that men talk about these topics. We all deserve happiness and authentic relationships.

I have a few million reason$ not to date a single mom

Thank you for keeping it real brother

How many single women without children, want to marry a guy WITH children, who won't give them any of their own? But ALL of the single mothers want you to marry them and raise another man's children, while REFUSING to give YOU a child of your own. Sounds pretty selfish to me.

My experience with a single mom was that she expected me & I did take her out on dates. She & I kissed & made out a few times, but did not engage sexually. Then I found out she had an 18 year old guy who frequented her apartment just to have sex with on a regular basis. The evening I found out about the 18 year old, I left her in the movie theatre alone after saying I was going to the men's room, & didn't go back.

Hey Richard, I love watching your videos and appreciate your content but I just have one question. What is your opinion about widows with children? I am sure there are some good women who have lost their husbands. I believe they equally long for love and security especially if they lose their husbands at a young age. Does this mean we should never date or marry them? Even if she is a high virtue/low drama woman? Looking forward to your response. Thanks 😊

If you are between the ages of 25 to 40 and a guy its going to be very difficult to even find a single girl without kids.

I have found that single moms are not as mature as women without kids. There might be a reason why they're a single parent and it may not be because of the guy outside of being widowed.

she got fruit roll ups?! well damn... how can i resist!

Women must think ur the antichrist, because u are exposing their wicked ways. Much needed truth...

Great advice every word. Peace Brother.

Well I guess I am the lone wolf here... I am dating a single mom who has three kids One is independently living by herself, and the other two live with her. She is very independent and handles anything and everything by herself, has a mutual relationship with the kids dad for the sake of raising their kids right, he is remarried and has kids of his own too. She has a great career that pays way more than mine and has never asked me for anything. right now we live in two different cities but we see each other as much as we can and I have seen nothing but loyalty and trust from her on both fronts. I grew up knowing her but just recently came together with her. Her hard work and patience with her kids and career as well as me have shown me that all single moms are not evil.

Fruit Roll Ups... I DIED LAUGHING!!!! LIKE if you did.....

Statistically speaking what would be the numbers of the 70-80% of women who instigate divorce that would fall into the 6 types of "women to avoid", you've given advice on!

TRUTH!!! Love the Warbirds in the Background!!!!😁 Subscribed!😀

7:30...I can tell by your smirk you know what you're talking about 😂😂

Hi I've been watching your videos just recently. I'm a single mother and the reason I am watching these videos is to try and help me understand a mans perspective on things and to help myself be a better person and partner in the future because I want to know how my man is feeling and what he wants and how I can just be a better person in general. I would have to say that I'm am finding great value in what you are saying and I freely admit to seeing many characteristics you have mentioned in myself and I value these videos for helping me in my perspective and my journey to becoming a better me. One thing I would like to say though is that I am a very independent person I am very capable of putting my own furniture together, fixing my own broken things and if I can't do something I will pay somebody to do it for me. I find it very hard to ask a man to do those things for me because I like to be self sufficient and independent. I am just curious about this particular thing because I have read that men like to feel needed and useful and like they are helping, I recently asked the guy I am seeing to help put my sons basketball hoop together because I wanted him to feel like he was being helpful and it would also be good for my son and his relationship seeing him do that type of thing. So I stood back and let him build the hoop I did hang around to offer some help but had to leave half way through because he was putting things in the wrong places and I desperately wanted to take control and just do it myself, however I repressed the urge to do that and I asked him if he was ok to finish on his own and just said if you need me I'll be in the kitchen... I really think that you are genuinely under the impression that single mothers aren't independent and while that may be the case for the ones you have dealt with that is not the case with me. Just putting that out there that is not my truth at all and I actually really do find that to be very annoying to be so generalised in such a way. I will continue to watch your videos because you do have some very valid things to say. You needed to be called out on that though in my opinion anyways :) I'll brace myself for the trolls now...

It pisses me off how these women are almost entitled to be the judge, jury and executioner of the ultimate outcome of the relationship. Like they’re a boss. No more.

You guys made me feel better. Knowing you guys dated nightmares like myself. & comments were funny

He brings up the 'remove the dead tree from the yard' example so often, you know it's gotta be a real story that made a serious mark. Every time he mentions it I can just imagine the grim fiasco of the dead tree. Hahaha.

I am not sure why all this hate for single moms, I am one of them and I can guarantee you that i don't rely on any man to do my shit. P.S also I am a successful project manager. It is not nice to generalize. Is it a way for you to get more viewers great for you.

If you date a single mom, understand she will look at you as an ATM, and nothing else, and if you think you will have great intimacy if you date and god forbid marry a single mom, you can forget about sex, as she will be with the child who will probably sleep between the two of you. Why would you want to bring up another man's child ? If you want a baby, then adopt one as a single parent, or marry a woman and have your own ! Either choice is better than marrying a single mom ! Marriage is bad enough for the man, without including another mans' child ! TAKE IT FROM A GUY WHO HAS BEEN AROUND FOR ALMOST 77 YEARS, AND HAVE DATED EVERY KIND OF WOMAN YOU CAN IMAGINE. DATING A SINGLE MOM IS ABOUT THE WORST THING THAT A SINGLE GUY CAN POSSIBLE DO !!!

If you are a father. Leave single childless women alone. That’s period.

6 years old, but still 100percent true. Brothers, take his advice, otherwhise you will learn it with a lot of money and pain.

I agree with you, every word is true. 🖒

There is only 1 "benefit" to dating a single mother......you know she is easy! That's it, everything is a pain in the ass and NOT worth it.

Xi appreciate your video, sounds like you have had a lot of bad experiences unfortunately. I'm curious to know what your opinion on single moms who have grown up children, eg: maybe she married too young. Maybe she misses the companion of a grown man in her life.

Thank you for your video post. I completely agree. Nobody needs that bs especially kids who are going to disrespect you.

I did notice that when I was single, back in my 20s. Single moms were easy pickings. Out at the bars, was pretty easy to reel them in. Always throw them back though! Catch and release! 😎

Im pretty sure a woman wrote those 4 things. Cause i cant believe any guy in his right mind would come up with those reasons.

Haha I knew the fruit roll up one was coming 😅