Courtney Ryan Talks Women's Accountability, Modern Men Struggles, Recognizing Red Flags + More

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@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

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@flexusanm 3 жыл бұрын

No thx

@valaileng 3 жыл бұрын

Subtitle please

@fedditpiccolo1642 3 жыл бұрын

Oneitis - When a guy has fallen in love with a woman in the same way a boy loves his mother. He obsesses about her, but she does not reciprocate.

@juanwononeyuan 3 жыл бұрын

please add timestamps!! this is too long without knowing what i'm getting into. i often listen to a segment i'm interested in then listen to whole thing if a segment or two was interesting. love u guys!!

@souldier2875 3 жыл бұрын

Tbh I work out regularly and I still have to fight to pull off and follow through with even two just dates in a week. Normally I can average 1. I'm being objective in saying that I'm a solid 7 working on becoming an 8. I go after 6 to 7's typically and my God gentleman. It's like you have to beg which I won't to take a 3 on an actual date.

@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын

It was an absolute pleasure meeting you, Hafeez! Thanks again for having me on the show and coming to the not so glamorous city of Cleveland 😂👏🏼

@charlech 3 жыл бұрын

My fav crossover

@best___0999 3 жыл бұрын

Yess finally u came to this Channel too💯🔥🔥🔥

@fedditpiccolo1642 3 жыл бұрын

@CAPO X Yes 💯

@fedditpiccolo1642 3 жыл бұрын

@@devankurmitra4118 redpill ideology ain't bad but MIG-TOW is

@Aggie4life77 3 жыл бұрын

Glad to see you doing callabs Courtney! Keep spreading your positive message! We need more women like you!

@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын

Any time some woman whines "where are all the good men?", I always answer "they're with the good women."

@Luxinance 3 жыл бұрын

DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN, thats a good one

@sithlordshaun_ 3 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын

@I spamsalot good morning my fellow comrade, early bed early to rise keeps a man healthy young & wise. Keep it up bro 👍.

@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын

@@Luxinance 💯

@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын

@@sithlordshaun_ ✊

@virtual240 3 жыл бұрын

Another problem with dating: most women like Courtney aren't single.

@mciejgda88 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe but still no reason to settle for bad ones if you can't find good one. Better to be alone than with someone toxic.

@missmarsz1771 3 жыл бұрын

A dime a dozen my friend but as long as you keep living and shining you two will find each other

@SS-ly2bn 3 жыл бұрын

Or, they don’t put themselves out there.

@wiktorwektor123 3 жыл бұрын

For family courts there is no difference between quality of woman. Remember the woman you're divorcing is not the same person you getting married. Even if she isn't crazy she have power of goverment and biased laws to destroy your life. I don't care who she is while we have this laws in place. Enjoy your cats and wine while I will be enjoing my: bikes, motorcycles, telescopes and life free from constant stress of being accused of something I didn't do and have to proove it in court. This is bs every man is getting into when he decides have relationshit or marriage.

@charliedallachie3539 3 жыл бұрын

There’s also not many women like her. Like finding a diamond in the woods attractive both inside and out. Lucky dude. Dating super attractive women could be stressful I guess if other guys are constantly checking out your girl.

@stanislavspon6846 2 жыл бұрын

I love her soft voice. Talking about submissive women, she would be a role model. Soft spoken, can hold an intelligent conversation, respectful, diplomatic. Can you imagine if the world was full of men and women like her? Because let's keep it real, it's not like the world is full of great men either.

@beautifulspirit7420 2 жыл бұрын

💯 Stan, I tell my daughters aged 20 & 18 that they are looking for the 5% of men. Those that are stable, mature and have good values.

@stanislavspon6846 2 жыл бұрын

@Cat 123 society holds men to the same standards but here you are complaining when a man likes submissive and soft spoken women. A man is expected to be a hero, a leader, a provider, a handy man, a protector and a comedian too. When men say we want submissive woman we aren’t saying we want a slave. We just want to enjoy someone who isn’t argumentative, someone who has a caring heart and is forgiving, not selfish and self centered. Just to be clear I don’t speak for all men, I speak in generalities. It’s all about your attitude. It would have been so much easier to approach women if they were friendlier. This is why most men don’t approach women unless they can read an interest in woman’s body language.

@ozziemalassy8668 2 жыл бұрын

@@stanislavspon6846 facts spoken like three wise men

@bennyboy2446 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t by it she’s not telling the truth. If a woman is submissive,smart, good looking, traditional she would be married by now because a lot of good man would have married her by now but there’s a missing peace we don’t know about.

@therealist2000 2 жыл бұрын

I think people who aren't like this, there's nothing wrong with them at all but they should really only date themselves as the two just cannot mix and it will never work.

@suleiman1520 2 жыл бұрын

She's just 25??? Crazy how mature and well-spoken she is. What a gem of a woman.

@markymarknj Жыл бұрын

TOTALLY 100%!

@kamosebeats3118 Жыл бұрын

Let her husband say that cheif😂

@Yggdrasill8 Жыл бұрын

Yep, she is a golden needle in a stack of copper needles

@michaelbrown5768 3 жыл бұрын

When you can silence your ego, you will create the ability to discuss the tough topics, and solving problems in your life will become much easier.

@macktheripper7454 3 жыл бұрын

It always makes me laugh when people talk about dissolving the ego. Anatta in Buddhism. But they truly lack the understanding of what it means

@michaelbrown5768 3 жыл бұрын

@@macktheripper7454 I refer to the silencing of my ego in terms of stoicism as a practice and not under the religious practice of Buddhism.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Michael

@deedcg577 3 жыл бұрын

One of the most amazing moments about healing is when you start taking accountability it will all make sense it’s like a putting a puzzle together. And you will find closure in many areas of your life.

@keithmoriyama5421 3 жыл бұрын

Your preaching to the choir. Men are clobbered in the face with accountability from the age of 4.

@Aidhab2222 3 жыл бұрын

She speaks so beautifully. I’m going to start speaking softer like her💗

@austinmathews7062 2 жыл бұрын

😌

@jaymywills 3 жыл бұрын

This was an EXCELLENT interview! She’s the role model young women deserve!

@jambajoby32 3 жыл бұрын

Aye no cap men need a positive female role model too Also If I ever have a wife or daughter I want someone great for them to look up to too

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jeremy

@3zooz17 3 жыл бұрын

How old is she

@kugelschreiber5678 3 жыл бұрын

@@3zooz17 27 or 28

@fohnacidemooky-mooks4796 3 жыл бұрын

represents the ''Becky" very very well......

@TigerHawX 3 жыл бұрын

You guys know what comes after hot girl summer??? Single mother winter.

@Daouz1 3 жыл бұрын

This is gold 😆

@fedditpiccolo1642 3 жыл бұрын

Lmfao 🤣😂

@TigerHawX 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah man I told this girl that after she requested we play WAP at my job she responded with after the summer comes the fall dumbness and I said yeah but it takes 9 months for your mistake to be born...She was not a happy camper.

@smoowear 3 жыл бұрын

And child support from the fathers lol

@adamromero 3 жыл бұрын

Winter is coming...

@mahoganymillworks7156 3 жыл бұрын

Courtney is well beyond her years in maturity. Not only beautiful, but level headed, with good morals and a realistic outlook on life and relationships. It was a pleasant surprise seeing you both collaborate together.

@nyahhbinghi 2 жыл бұрын

nuff said 💯

@chrisfisher4503 3 жыл бұрын

Courtney, "I feel a lot of women are not what men want." NAILED IT! That's the vast majority of them it seems. They completely lack self-awareness. What's worse is they don't care either.

@educationalporpoises9592 3 жыл бұрын

Not a vast majority, but probably a majority

@nowaynowau 3 жыл бұрын

Candace Owens said the same thing. I think most women know how women are - we do need some accountability in our gender

@MattGarcyaDC 3 жыл бұрын

Mintue?

@muraismybby4617 3 жыл бұрын

I get that but why do the women have to change themselves for men? Maybe I'm not understanding idk this is millinieals problems .

@nowaynowau 3 жыл бұрын

@@muraismybby4617 I think women have to change bc 3rd wave feminism turned us against the family, motherhood, and being good wives. Men need to change too. They need to hold women accountable and stop dating and marrying women who are poor mothers and wives. In other words, men need to be men again and women need to be woman again

@MrsCMack 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for having this intelligent woman on the show. Very refreshing.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

@Dee-zx9zm 3 жыл бұрын

Sooo refreshing ! Tired of seeing the same exact “304” girls that they scout that all have the same personality.

@davidpietarila699 2 жыл бұрын

Just an observation... You called Courtney a woman, and she frequently referred to herself as a girl. The females on Fresh and Fit get offended when you call them a girl and demand that you call them women. You are absolutely right Courtney is a WOMAN, because she also values being a girl.

@jairizard 3 жыл бұрын

She is literally saying everything Kevin Samuels says, but in a palpable way for women to accept.

@DamianSabre 3 жыл бұрын

Palleteable*, but yes.

@shipjumper6068 3 жыл бұрын

Today’s women still won’t accept it regardless of how it’s delivered

@user-pr6pb2hf4i 3 жыл бұрын

I asked her what she thinks of kevin samuels in one of her recent videos and she said she doesn't watch him.

@olympusentertainment2638 3 жыл бұрын

@@user-pr6pb2hf4i Yeah, people always tell the truth, ESPECIALLY if they get called out ESPECIALLY when they are a VV.....men.

@yvonnet6399 3 жыл бұрын

@@user-pr6pb2hf4i i don’t know why people watch him. He’s one of those toxic channels

@annatar6453 3 жыл бұрын

I love how women always blame "society" but don't realize that they are also part of society lol

@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee 3 жыл бұрын

@Jaylen Smith Facts 💯

@JessMan508 3 жыл бұрын

Who else is part of society?

@annatar6453 3 жыл бұрын

@Jaylen Smith also there is more women on this planet than men

@salut4396 3 жыл бұрын

That’s what feminism does

@gamewizard1760 3 жыл бұрын

They're actually more than half of society, so the problem is mostly their fault.

@joshuamartinez2427 3 жыл бұрын

“I’m a relationship type of girl” = A good quality women.

@kemsolid 3 жыл бұрын

It's good that you brought Courtney on your show. She's someone I recently stumbled upon independently and appreciate that she's one of a few women who will hold women accountable same as men. Highly appreciate this episode!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Clintpoon 3 жыл бұрын

We need more women like Courtney. The dating market right now is atrocious

@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын

But isn't she the norm out in the real world. Plus if that's what some man want were are those most men chase the few crazies.

@ScrewFearMe 3 жыл бұрын

@@bunnyboo6295 She isnt the norm, she is a needle in a haystack

@kiwi2364 3 жыл бұрын

Some men have to be willing to change themselves to better if they want a women who is better.

@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын

@Frank Rauen That sucks

@badgerden7080 2 жыл бұрын

I hope it completely dies one day.

@p.s.b.k447 3 жыл бұрын

I think she is a wonderful person with strong morals naturally. She is definitely a role model for good women out there. This lady restores my faith in modern women!

@davidbigd9047 3 жыл бұрын

What I've noticed, when men and women date, they don't talk about the important life topics until they're about to get married. I believe you should figure out your own core values and ask the same about your potential partner in the 1st week of meeting. After I turned 26, I worked on my values and my "deal-breaker" list of questions which I always ask the woman I'm interested in.

@ducdu4136 3 жыл бұрын

what are those core values and deal breakers of yours? I tend to fall in love too quickly and never asked those hard questions. I need to make a list as well before i get into another relationships.

@davidbigd9047 3 жыл бұрын

@@ducdu4136 everyone is going to be different. You just need to figure out what’s most important for you in a intimate relationship and what you want the most out of your life. Your values come from the adults in your environment when growing up, as well as, your past experiences. Just look at your goals and your current lifestyle. It will take time and patience, but, you’ll figure it out in the end.

@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын

Good idea you can spend time getting attached then find out there values don't match

@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын

@@ducdu4136 That's not something you can copy and paste if your the one in the relationship they need to match your values and life style. Some important one if your religious are they and do they follow it if you do. How many kids if they want them and how they believe they should be raised. Where they are comfortable living. Life goals being inline. How you spend or save money. Just Think about how you live and want to live would that person fit into your life style. Getting along with your close friends and family if they are a big part of your life. Politics is another big one that can cause fight if you both feel strong about opposite views.

@mustang66312 3 жыл бұрын

Never get married

@clintfrancispodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for having a guest that is the classic "girl next door" type. So many podcasts like this only show or discuss the opposite. She seems feminine, sweet and smart. She has preserved her dignity and it comes through in the interview.

@fennecinspace 3 жыл бұрын

"Girl's talk" -> this is why i would rather die alone ... Whenever i'm talking to a woman i feel like whatever i tell her ... her entire friends will know.

@infam0usP 3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@Brothaman 3 жыл бұрын

They will lol. It’s unavoidable. The only time the talking stops is when you are upgraded in her social hierarchy. That’s why it’s best to not tell them much during the talking phase. Let her talk.

@shawnhansen1669 3 жыл бұрын

Giving up is not a solution!

@jameslebeau7078 3 жыл бұрын

Always say hi to her friends when you're texting her, cause she's gonna show them the convo

@markosabdallah4796 3 жыл бұрын

So don’t fkn tell her😂 tell your boys instead.

@MrDarkweaver 3 жыл бұрын

The reason why Courtney appears older, is a combination of self-confidence, maturity, and a level of humility that is rarely found in people of either gender at her age. Don't worry, it's not physical appearance, it about how you hold yourself, and the fact that you are articulate, and don't speak "street" or use a lot of slang that many younger people do. The best part of appearing a little older now, is that assuming you look after yourself, you are likely to age very well, everyone will always compare your older self to how you are now, and there will be very little difference and you'll appear as if you have aged very little. Really enjoyed listening to the conversation. :)

@user-mi2jj5iw2x 3 жыл бұрын

Hafeez dressed like he’s about to go fight for my rights lol. Sharp attire.

@purplegirl8036 3 жыл бұрын

😂 😂 😂

@italkshyt14 3 жыл бұрын

Power to the people my brotha. ✊🏾

@cabal4171 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@redpillras3456 3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣

@Tential1 3 жыл бұрын

He just got back from his blade movie casting

@Nopumpfakes 3 жыл бұрын

Fellas please don’t think b/c a woman lives in Idaho, that she has a better mentality than one from Miami. We have the Internet and social media. Who do you think are taking the trips to Miami lol

@jambajoby32 3 жыл бұрын

Lol Florida & idahos are 🗑

@strawberryinthesky607 3 жыл бұрын

tfw Florida man was Idaho man on vacation this whole time

@fohnacidemooky-mooks4796 3 жыл бұрын

well said & 100.....social media helps SPREAD the evil of egotisic materialism. Now... ANY LADY CAN BE A '''PRINCESS!!" living in delusion

@fohnacidemooky-mooks4796 3 жыл бұрын

& it was *OHIO* not Idaho......peace

@Nopumpfakes 3 жыл бұрын

@Serena Chairs exactly

@MajesticFerret 3 жыл бұрын

Some constructive criticism: I would take a page from Fresh&Fit and time stamp discussion points in your longer video. It's one of the things that makes their much longer videos manageable and it allows these much longer videos to be more easily digestible.

@fedditpiccolo1642 3 жыл бұрын

Facts 💯time stamp and make a separate channel for the clips

@dailybikes668 3 жыл бұрын

@@fedditpiccolo1642 yeapp!👍🏽

@bandiddid8583 3 жыл бұрын

i understand that F&F is probably the first place where you saw that feature for the first time but its not a page from fresh&Fit. Its literally a youtube feature that plenty of content creators, have used before and use from time to time. But there are those, that don't prefer to use that feature.

@TheNextManimal 3 жыл бұрын

Tbf they’ll probably post some smaller clips from the entire interview

@HenryDube72 3 жыл бұрын

@@bandiddid8583 they are probably just lazy to try it.

@marcuslorenzo9705 3 жыл бұрын

I feel that Courtney's channel is special because, unlike many of the "Men's Lifestyle/Dating" channels, she doesn't place blame or make excuses one way or another. She openly admits/explores an issue/answers a question to a best of her ability. She also doesn't flaunt what she obviously has (on social media - I follow her in instagram); she doesn't need to over-compensate in order to appear attractive. How could a man not respect that?

@DanielMartinez-qp7vn 3 жыл бұрын

I find it way MORE attractive that she doesn't flaunt what she has

@themoderndayhippie8149 3 жыл бұрын

Well said 👏🏼👏🏼

@antonchigur4299 3 жыл бұрын

I can't ever take a chick talking about men's lifestyle seriously really. You're not a dude so I can't listen to you giving men advice on being a man. Same way chicks feel insulted if men even as much as hint at giving women advice on women's issues.

@beac8238 3 жыл бұрын

@@antonchigur4299 her advice is primarily focused on male dating & fashion. In that regard, you’re trying to impress women. It’s best to have a balanced perspective.

@illwitness 3 жыл бұрын

We need female allies for sure. I’m still making up my mind about her. I’m not entirely convinced that she’s genuine but we’ll see. Time will eventually tell.

@Arizen735 3 жыл бұрын

Women are so obsessed with guys having to be the best version of themselves, that they think having a cute butt and putting makeup on is their best version. Most happy and married women are NOT the 10's, cause they know they can't fool around until 40. Really attractive women often realize too late that men are simple and don't insist on you having a certain career or having superficial things. At the end of the day, we can't change anything about it but we can hope for future generations to be more educated about these topics.

@denniscorvin415 3 жыл бұрын

Only in the tiny bubble of rich western countries. Everywhere else the prime directive for women is landing a provider male. The beautiful ones like my wife marry off at 19, or by early 20's at the least. There is something you can do about it, namely marrying foreign girls who make fantastic wives and mothers.

@Arizen735 3 жыл бұрын

@@denniscorvin415 I actually 100% argue with you on this one, I forgot about that possibility before posting my comment.

@cevanille1104 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you, but I want a man with value too, he should work on himself, be clean, and I don't want him if he has a porn addiction. It is very hard to find men like that. I see it all around me, men cheating on my friends, men who look at me in the streets when they are in their families, men in the office complaining about their marriage but being obviously low value, men at work who have money trying to cheat, and most of them watch violent porn. I would feel sullied if touched by them.

@Nah-ah 2 жыл бұрын

@@denniscorvin415 this 💯 agree with you! It’s more the western women who do this.

@JoseRamirez-ew7vq 2 жыл бұрын

@@cevanille1104 Yup you're definitely gonna end up alone. Good luck with that

@TorrinSol 3 жыл бұрын

AMAZING Conversation! Thank you for this

@BasedZillenial 3 жыл бұрын

24:40 “I think I am an exception to a lot of girls my age - I think I act more like girls that are 30.” At 22, I feel this so much. It’s not that I don’t enjoy being young, it’s just that my mindset is not typical for people my age when it comes to marriage, planning for the future, habits, tendencies, how I present myself, etc. This podcast was incredible.

@LSSYLondon 2 жыл бұрын

At 18 I had her mindset. Now in my 30's I look at her and see how much she needs to get out and learn. She is buying into a trope that one day will make her miserable.

@BasedZillenial 2 жыл бұрын

@For yt K 👍

@slavi7191 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for interviewing Courtney. She is such a great example of a high quality woman! She's beautiful and so classy.

@nightmarefiles1 3 жыл бұрын

I’d love talking with the Roommates

@fedditpiccolo1642 3 жыл бұрын

Check out fresh and fit Miami podcast 🔥

@jackwhite8238 3 жыл бұрын

Yea I would to, I would rip all this feel good bullshit apart in seconds

@darklaw7635 3 жыл бұрын

Oh man. Wait until you see fresh and fit

@YourWeirdoMJ 3 жыл бұрын

what you doing here bro!?

@nightmarefiles1 3 жыл бұрын

@@YourWeirdoMJ whatever brought you to this side of KZfaq, more than likely brought me here too.

@Macheako 3 жыл бұрын

“You can only control yourself” Unless you’re a hot chick, then you can control men 😂✌️🇺🇸 just not the men you want 😂😂😂

@Darth_Bateman 3 жыл бұрын

No hot chick controls a strong man.

@noneofyourbuizness 3 жыл бұрын

Unless you are a strong man that dont get fooled by looks . Beauty is everywhere. Educate your ego and you wont be weak anymore

@avasdasgupta1657 3 жыл бұрын

@@noneofyourbuizness thats why he said not the men u want

@BeyonKasual 3 жыл бұрын

@@avasdasgupta1657 exactly. People really need to start comprehending before they post comments.🤦🏿‍♀️

@DanteWesker612 3 жыл бұрын

I am strong in both mind and body. I do full-body workouts at the gym, seven days a week. And I don't stop pushing when my muscles start hurtin' because I live by a code: "My strength is pain, I will never give in". I also meditate and study the art of Kung Fu. But do I pay attention to women? No, I do not. I refuse to give them any validation. If they want validation from me, they're gonna have to work for it. And I will make sure that it is near impossible for a girl to win my affections. But even in a relationship, I will not go soft. My mental exterior is still gonna be as hard as Titanium

@themorningsky2632 3 жыл бұрын

It is great to see you guys collaborate. I am a fan of both of your podcasts. I will definitely listen to this tomorrow.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@therabidpancake1 3 жыл бұрын

The reason that guys come off as needy is because they don't have as many options as women . Where women can go from one relationship to another almost over night a man is going to be single for months or years at a time .

@briar35981 3 жыл бұрын

Helluva comment !!!!!!

@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын

Hey ain't easy being a redhead

@zendayaraluezike104 3 жыл бұрын

And Women aren’t brought up or used to the idea of they themselves approaching men instead of the other way round.......

@jeffglasman19 3 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly, That's why men have pre Ejeck issues , its because when he finally gets to see and feel and touch a beautiful wahmen it can be years, so controlling his excitement is difficult. Women go through many men in one month, so being a starfish is easy.

@anthonygato407 2 жыл бұрын

they arent confident in their ability to sling dick. the bed and the dancefloor are where a mans status is attained not assigned.

@georgeserrano1139 3 жыл бұрын

YEESSSSSS! Yo I've been calling her to go on the podcasts for weeks and months. Her content and her channel goes so well with the Roommates’ message

@estellep1391 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been waiting for this collab, and it came without me asking ? Love to see it 😭👏🏽

@Shreadington 3 жыл бұрын

At 23 that's where I was. Focusing on my goals and career then she showed up. We were both at the point of pushing forward on life and we did it together. It happened when we both least expected it. We're both business professionals married for 18 years.

@levibondjr4650 2 жыл бұрын

That is so beautiful. Congrats. What made her stand out?

@Shreadington 2 жыл бұрын

@@levibondjr4650 thank you Sir! She wasn't like other girls. A bit reserved and mysterious but with a welcoming smile and demeanor. In depth conversations that lasted for hours. We're both "old souls" in that regard. Good credit, financially minded, driven, similar beliefs, religious/traditional upbringing, etc. Beautiful inside and out. We have fun together. After a few glasses of wine she's not shy to get on the dance floor and do the Stanky Leg better than any other girl out there. She can dance! I get a kick out of watching her lol. Then there's the 5'1",105lbs, 34/24/32 part that was quite nice and ties it altogether. We were connected through our large social circle at the time. We were fortunate to come together when we did and we've made a great team. There's been tough times but we've been committed to not ending up divorced like our parents because we both remember what that was like. Anything that's worth it never comes easy.

@levibondjr4650 2 жыл бұрын

@@Shreadington Your very welcome. That is so beautiful. I really appreciate you sharing. You found her because you stayed true to yourself. I’m a old soul myself. This is inspiring. If more people did what y’all did, they would find true love/happiness. Peace and blessings to you and your family.

@Shreadington 2 жыл бұрын

@@levibondjr4650 absolutely. It was very natural/organic and genuine. Though we didn't spend a day apart after the first week we never smothered each other. We allowed each other to remain our own person and connected later in the day. We still do the same now after 20 years. It's important to give each other that space to keep continuing to grow as an individual and a couple.

@levibondjr4650 2 жыл бұрын

@@Shreadington That’s beautiful. This is what it’s about. Honor and love, but also having the courage and vulnerability to trust them to be their own person. This is very healthy. 🙏🏽💎

@unstoppablefrank 2 жыл бұрын

Great conversation! I'm glad you guys did a collab. This is the type of discussion that needs to be out there more.

@abhishektrivedi1278 3 жыл бұрын

Courtney Ryan do be underrated Good thing that the Roommates found her and gave her the recognition Also hope that I receive a heart😅 True fan from India

@feminismiscancer3193 3 жыл бұрын

Nice to have a fellow 🇮🇳 here

@sj-pd6mh 3 жыл бұрын

Another one from 🇮🇳

@terraventusaqua123 3 жыл бұрын

Not from India, but I want to feel included.

@bookofeli4867 3 жыл бұрын

This lady is just another of those good looking “female dating coach” or “female gamer” women get into male spaces and use their looks to make money. She won’t talk about real things like paternity fraud, crazy family court laws, alimony, female violence in relationships, abortion and much more. Only the safe obvious topics.

@ignitetheinferno1858 3 жыл бұрын

@@bookofeli4867 yeah, she lacks charisma, her voice is so soft it’s actually hard to remain invested in what she’s saying and her main pull is her looks. However, she is one of those women who can see the validity of men’s opinions and doesn’t automatically dismiss them, which is her biggest strength.

@jefrokatai5418 3 жыл бұрын

Looking forward to chopping up the gems on this one. Much love from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪.

@cat2413 3 жыл бұрын

Undoubtedly, if you ever want an example of an excellent woman. Listen to how Courtney draws that personal story out, she listens and Hafeez keeps on talking and sharing. Both are full of wonderful information.

@jmarc9111 2 жыл бұрын

loved this conversation, having someone calm and collective to have a conversation with is exactly what people need to watch, points on both sides, blaming both sides, very constructive love to see it! so much true spoken in this video!

@warriorking72 3 жыл бұрын

I glad you two collaborated this was an excellent interview from two great people

@ryanbarker3978 3 жыл бұрын

There's one crossover I didn't see coming. Looking forward to checking this out.

@RodovalPTY 3 жыл бұрын

I said this all the time, we are living in the future. Unlimited access to knowledge, epic crossovers, interactions that in years ago would have been almost impossible.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Hope you enjoy

@ryanbarker3978 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheRoommatesPodcast Certainly did! Incredibly insightful as always.

@Anandroid 3 жыл бұрын

This podcast was so important. These two provide a lot of hope. What a breath of fresh air. One of the best podcasts I have seen yet. Protect Hafeez and Courtney at all costs!

@infinitedurr 3 жыл бұрын

This is such an awesome conversation. You both were ON POINT, connecting really well, and articulating your ideas beautifully. I'm a watcher of both channels, and I love where you both are coming from and the back and forth here. It really makes for an easy watching experience. Lots of candor and honesty, lots of positivity. This is just a great vibe. Thank you both for making this. I really appreciate the positive content you're both putting out. It may not get the views, but it's IMPORTANT. Big respect to you both!

@TheActualKingSmith 3 жыл бұрын

21:40 It’s unfortunate that stable is considered “boring” by a good majority. It’s my opinion that most men want peace in their lives. Chaos adds stress and the less stress I have to manage…the happier I am.

@imdavidhammond 3 жыл бұрын

This is awesome 💯💯

@activelifeg5237 3 жыл бұрын

What up bro

@sumitkumarroy8645 3 жыл бұрын

all my fav motivational people together.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@chinmaybhabadYT 3 жыл бұрын

I am your sub.whattsup?

@alexmakovicky7844 3 жыл бұрын

@@chinmaybhabadYT Hi your sub iam sheeno

@williah9597 2 жыл бұрын

Yo!! What an incredible podcast. Solid info, Hard truths but so many good feels. One of my favorite listens of 2021

@jonathanameyo3608 3 жыл бұрын

A joke we said with my brother "women and accountability is like superman and kryptonite." But I always say men go through the red pill rage because now they are told how women really are and the lies they have been told haven't been working. And most channels usually use the bad women and usually say women are like this and that. They always get the negative women and they will see them negatively. But when you find a channel that doesn't focus on one side of the story is really good.

@MatthewJParker 3 жыл бұрын

Needed this collaboration 🔥

@loaded45th 3 жыл бұрын

She seems like a really nice and genuine person but the objection from men would be there is a visible gap between women say they want and what they really want.

@Nopumpfakes 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I stop listening half way. A 25 yr old who used to date bad boys, now all of a sudden change 🙄. Men stop listening to women about relationships. Going to hurt you in the long run.

@loaded45th 3 жыл бұрын

@Jaylen Smith I’m not going to say she’s a full blown womanist. I mean she claims she wants to take time off from work to take care of kids and such. My only issue was she giving advice that not practical on the dating scene. She’s basically saying to deal in what women say they want and be the nice but in reality women want things that fail to vocalize which is why we need to first understand their nature then try to date.

@Ddog785 3 жыл бұрын

exactly....they say be a gentlemen, be strong, communicate,,,,be honest,,,, yet they go for the hot guy chad who is still living with his mother and has a felony. or better yet how many times men have you heard a women complain about their guy being abusive,,,yet they stay with him. While good hard working men are being thrown under the bus and not even being noticed

@Ddog785 3 жыл бұрын

i know what they want,,,,according to dr walsh all across the world they want your money !!!!!!!! sorry all you hard working 40 to 80k workers.. they want 100k which has nothing to do with the man himself...they just want your money Period

@loaded45th 3 жыл бұрын

@Jaylen Smith oh I smell that could be the case. She’s just not coming with the feminist rhetoric like others like the girls on the real or something so I won’t hit her too hard with that. I believe she may just be naive on what women want and that’s my issue.

@kjhuang 3 жыл бұрын

I was already a fan of Courtney Ryan but this was my first time watching The Roommates, and now I'm hooked! I really liked Hafeez's interview approach of asking simple and on-target questions one after the other. This was a pleasure to listen to!

@NikitaMaxwell 3 жыл бұрын

Great convo! I love her energy😍🙌🏽 And yes there are more women like her. It’s just very rare to find these days....

@inadays8999 3 жыл бұрын

It is hard to meet that rare gem stone.

@mpcref 3 жыл бұрын

Any hints where to find them? 😉

@timothycorless7286 2 жыл бұрын

Women can't find a good man because they friendzoned/cheated on the "nice/good" men when most women were out chasing the Chad Thunder C's, FWBs, F'boys, F buddy, and after being burn't and end up single mothers, high notch count, or now want kids expect that man to be available. These guys have been rejected so many times they've put up a wall and don't want a relationship.

@sirro4362 2 жыл бұрын

Its not hard its just that they get overlooked everybody wants a insta model with a big ass (which is not even real) these days.

@timothycorless7286 2 жыл бұрын

@Erza Scarlet Neither do good men.

@active4delta 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly surprised by this collab. It was a good conversation!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@terraventusaqua123 3 жыл бұрын

Hafeez really do be going above and beyond to find as many people as possible. People were surprised when he got an interview with Candace Owens.

@ivanavila4674 3 жыл бұрын

To my youngsters, Gentlemen please understand that there is huge cultural differences depending on where you are located in this country, its mind blowing how there really is.

@chriscodling6573 3 жыл бұрын

Oh travel alot for work so I know, women who live in smaller towns tend to be married and pregnant much earlier.

@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын

That explains the crazy women men talk of that I discover during the pandemic .

@rollingtinfist 3 жыл бұрын

This is spot on. I learned this most during my time in the service. A young woman from Lincoln, Nebraska, is very different from a young woman from Miami, Florida.

@ivanavila4674 3 жыл бұрын

Yes the ethnic communities as well they're very family oriented and if and when raised on 2 parent household and oh my goodness have dated the women that had solid father's in their lives, just oozing in her feminine Swaggoo and cooked up something wicked my son husband still a ton like a little bish of a boy I was not notionally ready for it, but there out there Gentlemen. You have to put yourself in their alignment. If your looking on IG looking for looks then that's what you gonna find. As men, we cannot have it all either. Choices and trade offs. I will go down a little bit in looks when I can connect with a women and create space where the respect of each other and the content of her personable character offers a whole of lot more than just beyond the looks that fade and the noonoo. That she keeps a solid home that she protects in her role as the women of the household and matriarch of the familial tree and legacy we want to leave. But that's jus me..

@xraceboyex 2 жыл бұрын

@@ivanavila4674 I dont give a f about looks, but I refuse to date obese women. Thats pretty much all i ask, just be relatively healthy and kind. Too much to ask, though, i guess

@joeofcourse 3 жыл бұрын

I love both of you. I'm so hyped about this episode

@heart_of_freedom_idan 3 жыл бұрын

Great content and collaboration.. Thanks guys!

@IAEPT 3 жыл бұрын

Thank - Fuckin - God you two came together! Cannot wait to hear this! 🙌🏽

@extradipofhoney6189 3 жыл бұрын

Glad to see Courtney here, she's been grinding nonstop. You need to put the link to her YT channel in your description

@4Maestro1 3 жыл бұрын

I love your positive message. It was right on target. And you are right about there needing to be more of these kinds of messages, and being supported. I am happy to do so. Keep up the good work.

@MrWatsa 3 жыл бұрын

One of the best and biggest crossovers in the history of crossovers ever! Love this content!

@DJWenlowe 3 жыл бұрын

What an amazing interview, Courtney is pure class , really enjoyed this one 👍👍

@tybaf_a056siddhantkamble7 3 жыл бұрын

Seeing Courtney Ryan here really made me happy ☺️.I always knew she would be recognised.

@susandodson1234 3 жыл бұрын

The most truthful thing she said was , "most women" wants a man that makes more than her! Facts!! I 💯 agree.

@virtual240 3 жыл бұрын

This is one of the problems with today's women.

@susandodson1234 3 жыл бұрын

@@virtual240 how so? My beliefs are women were put on this planet as a helpmate! Men are financial providers. It's ok if that is not your beliefs. Not saying rich just make more

@strategic1710 3 жыл бұрын

Until they reach their early 30s, have some money, and feel the biological clock ticking.

@thenoobwilliam5300 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome video, every second is pure quality, I replayed the last 5 minutes whenever I heard something informative. Thank you

@lugadoo 3 жыл бұрын

EEEJ COURTNEY RYAN!!! Love the collab! :) Been following you both for a while now! :)

@nicholaspowell9309 3 жыл бұрын

I seen this collab coming, great conversation 💪

@2209beata 2 жыл бұрын

Hats off to you both That was the realest and most intelligent conversation that I've heard in a long time. 👏👏

@RodrigoLaiho7 3 жыл бұрын

Substantial and honest content! I am glad that this video appeared for me and I felt compelled by the sincere conversation you both had. Thank you for doing a good job balancing our own responsabilities between men and women, it is a mature perpsective.

@nashespiritu 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely fantastic episode! Shoutouts from South Africa

@fedditpiccolo1642 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂🇿🇦

@Brendanmuema 3 жыл бұрын

This is growing to be great conversation!!!! Thanks Roomates.

@happygitana 3 жыл бұрын

Harmonious and beautiful chat full of wisdom, thank you both

@GeorgeOu 3 жыл бұрын

Men can learn from Courtney Ryan the same way Women can learn from Kevin Samuel. It never hurts to listen to different points of view with an open mind.

@insiderinside1905 3 жыл бұрын

Samuels has a cool grace that KS lacks. Watch Jordan peterson and use your time applying what you learn from jp instead of watching ks.

@izzyiz8265 3 жыл бұрын

The back end of this interview is definitely god tier !!!

@christinajason5629 3 жыл бұрын

I really loved this, I'm so glad this content exists on KZfaq. Thank you truly.

@newgenerationmanwithsegunbash 3 жыл бұрын

Hafeez my man!!!. Thank you so much for any amazing Episode. Always helping us to grow.

@robertlorenz2492 3 жыл бұрын

Oh I love it!!!! Been watching both of you for the last 2-3 months

@ErnestAdewoyin 3 жыл бұрын

This woman’s voice is so feminine- whoever wife’d her up is a DAMN lucky man! Plus she has brains too!? There is hope in this world

@yaircelis1175 3 жыл бұрын

Yo! I felt her vibe and her voice I immediately thought, “this woman is feminine”

@bunnyboo6295 3 жыл бұрын

My bro got one there is plenty out there they are not going to be found on social media

@shreddedmetal2526 3 жыл бұрын

Watch out for the Chameleons. This could all be a facade, just like Tomi Lahren.

@yaircelis1175 3 жыл бұрын

@@shreddedmetal2526 i mean i don’t really know her content, might have to check it out for myself.

@bla-bla-bla8881 3 жыл бұрын

Lol you’re easily fooled

@Captain0Newman 3 жыл бұрын

They say: “I regret it.” What they mean is: “I got herpes.” Keepin it real

@BoostedPastime 3 жыл бұрын

Shhhhhh Telling the truth!

@fox1actual 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@PricelessBinkey1337 3 жыл бұрын

There are some communities in America and where a quarter of women are running around with herpes

@onlylauren4712 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂you wrong for that

@dmystfy 3 жыл бұрын

1 in 6 people have it. Really not so uncommon

@adampedro6498 3 жыл бұрын

Hafeez: I didn't have my first girlfriend till I was 28. Me: I'm getting there too my brother

@fohnacidemooky-mooks4796 3 жыл бұрын

parasites.....succubus spirit everywhere!!

@johnames6430 3 жыл бұрын

@Matthew Andrade ouch!

@PackaGame 3 жыл бұрын

@Matthew Andrade 100% true. I'd rather have work and independence for the rest of my life than these crazy ass modern hos.

@michaelwilliamson70 3 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this conversation. Big props to you both for the honest discussion.

@theindecisivegamer5036 3 жыл бұрын

This video did alot for me. It made me realize I need to focus on me before I can focus on anyone else

@xraceboyex 2 жыл бұрын

Ive been working on myself and nothing has changed. Trust it wont work in this market. I took all of her advice years ago and have just been working on myself, got a trade job, increased my income to almost 100k a year, kept myself in shape, learned about the world and have dived deep into hobbies and helping family/friends, invested in my future, bought a house. Nothing has changed, I actually get less attention from women than i did five years ago when I was working in retail living at my parents

@ng_jr0096 3 жыл бұрын

That jacket is lit my dude🔥💯 I'm gonna hunt for it now lol😂

@hakeeem-hw3mr 3 жыл бұрын

did during the video lmaooo

@rubykhan2294 3 жыл бұрын

Ahhhhh I loved this!! Totally gained a new follower Courtney!! Been needing some positive feminine energy and different perspectives on self improvement! This episode really was relatable for women like myself who were wiser at a young age and shared perspectives like Courtney. She was the voice for us quiet ones 😃 Much respect!! Loved this content!

@jackf498 3 жыл бұрын

a quiet unicorn.....i must meet you.......where are you

@craigwillms61 2 жыл бұрын

She understands the art of being pleasant. I personally am not interested in loud obnoxious women. That doesn't mean she's weak, she's not, in fact she's powerful. Her outward beauty makes her attractive, but it's her inward beauty is what makes her special.

@dcprudence144 3 жыл бұрын

Great interview!!

@casualgerm 3 жыл бұрын

“Cleveland really sucks....I’ve never heard anybody say, ‘I’m going to Cleveland on vacation.’ What’s so good about Cleveland?” - Joakim Noah

@DanLagos28 3 жыл бұрын

You know what ? I haven't thought about that 😂

@stevemcrichards8768 3 жыл бұрын

Was he a philosopher?

@Cruelidea69 3 жыл бұрын

The Cleveland rocks song?

@bmwright1991 3 жыл бұрын

Joakim Noah was an NBA player.

@TericT 3 жыл бұрын

Yo, thanks for having her on. I don't always agree with what you guys preach on the channel, but I'll definitely check out her videos.

@producedbykhireyakeem4340 3 жыл бұрын

This was an incredible episode! By far my favorite

@adrianobarboza 3 жыл бұрын

Courtney has such a unique and pragmatic perspective. Her channel is definitely one of my favorites!

@Siiello 3 жыл бұрын

I love Courtney Ryan!! Her soft feminine voice is so soothing. Bring back the live show!!

@shonjhaw 3 жыл бұрын

I loved this, I dig both of your content so it was nice to see the two of you talk in depth.

@smrod1224 3 жыл бұрын

This was therapeutic honestly. Relate a lot to Hafeez. I too am a oneitis survivor. Fighting the oneitis right now honestly. It’s such a easy trap to fall into.

@biabia421 2 жыл бұрын

Glad I bumped into this refreshing channel. It's exhausting hearing all the negativity on social media. Real, true conversations!

@Dfikes81 3 жыл бұрын

This is crazy!! The Roommates and Courtney dropping gems 💎 I’ve known Courtney for a very long time and she’s always been like this! Her mindset is just different from most women in modern times 💯 keep up the hard work guys 🙌🏽

@ScrewFearMe 3 жыл бұрын

Shes a needle in a haystack

@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT 2 жыл бұрын

Raised well you think or just born like this? 😏

@techguy651 2 жыл бұрын

I’m about 20 minutes in and You’re talking about women getting bored without the drama and the chase. Communicating with my wife was very difficult in the first few years of our marriage (as it always is). I was never the type to stand up for my position and it made my wife lose interest in me. As she and I were watching some trashy TV, it suddenly dawned on me that this is what she was expecting her relationship to be like. When I came at her with facts and nonchalance, it made her feel insecure. When I started channeling the better men in those shows and standing my ground based on emotional reasoning (“I feel this was and I’m right!”), things really started turning around. It was incredibly difficult to get into fights with my wife, but having just a little bit of drama actually helped her come back to the table as a rational partner.