Derrick Jaxn Interview - Explaining Himself | Part 1 | Dear Future Wifey Podcast S7, Ep706

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Derrick Jaxn Says He's Reaping What He Sowed | PART ONE | Dear Future Wifey S7, E706
What happens when the public discovers your private sins? Derrick Jaxn sits down for his most vulnerable conversation yet, discussing accountability and redemption in this episode titled "Reap What You Sow."
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*Timestamps:*
0:00 - Introduction
3:15 - Derrick Jaxn discusses public and private sins
7:30 - The impact of accountability vs. deflection
12:00 - Derrick's most vulnerable conversation
15:45 - The episode's title: "Reap What You Sow"
20:00 - Derrick on the yellow couch: starting the conversation
25:20 - Importance of taking responsibility
30:45 - How Derrick's past actions affected him
35:10 - The role of transparency in healing
40:00 - Derrick talks about his personal growth
45:00 - How public scrutiny influenced Derrick's journey
50:30 - Advice for those facing similar challenges
55:20 - Derrick's message to his future wife
1:00:00 - Conclusion and what's next on Dear Future Wifey
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@viewfromthemancave1092
@viewfromthemancave1092 11 ай бұрын
Regardless of what you think of him I respect the brother for allowing the story to be told from both sides. In the end, this is a Christian based platform. Christianity is about forgiveness, redemption and reformation. If he wasn’t interviewed I would’ve been more shocked.
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 11 ай бұрын
Exactly
@CCJohannaJames
@CCJohannaJames 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@Adrienne.Michelle91
@Adrienne.Michelle91 11 ай бұрын
Well put 💯
@tyannforde2570
@tyannforde2570 11 ай бұрын
Sure it's about forgiveness, but we also need to be real
@viewfromthemancave1092
@viewfromthemancave1092 11 ай бұрын
@@tyannforde2570absolutely. The interview was very real. He wasn’t allowed to paint her in a bad light or make excuses. He provided context. And forgiveness, if given, doesn’t mean forget or be foolish. We still need to have a discerning spirit.
@YoJoRockThaBeat
@YoJoRockThaBeat 11 ай бұрын
Whether he is sorry or not, I don't think he is qualified to give anymore relationship advice ever again.
@theresabutler4553
@theresabutler4553 11 ай бұрын
I agree !
@lai7034
@lai7034 11 ай бұрын
Well said
@MaChula14
@MaChula14 11 ай бұрын
He not sorry he’s sorry he got caught…
@pheoliasmith4325
@pheoliasmith4325 11 ай бұрын
Question, and I mean no disrespect but what DOES qualify a person to give advice? Having a a degree? Having good or bad experience? Having being currently married or divorced? I really just don’t know what it actually needs to be
@lifewithnatu
@lifewithnatu 11 ай бұрын
Agreed
@iamyolandamoore
@iamyolandamoore 11 ай бұрын
I believe NOTHING this man says....NOTHING!! 😂😂😂 He can't even pretend to be sincere
@IntuitiveCoachTheresa
@IntuitiveCoachTheresa 11 ай бұрын
Yes it's kind of nauseating listening to him. I couldn't listen more than a few min.
@marciawynter5155
@marciawynter5155 11 ай бұрын
He is sorry because he was caught in the cookie jar if that wasn't the case no one would know !!!.
@denaynix
@denaynix 11 ай бұрын
Perfect example of “Wolf in sheep’s clothing”
@atasteoftee
@atasteoftee 11 ай бұрын
Even the way he tells his story he give more details and energy to how he built his platform than he does on the early years of their relationships
@kianicole001
@kianicole001 11 ай бұрын
A lot of fast talking. Causing chaos and confusion.
@chitlinjuice
@chitlinjuice 11 ай бұрын
I can't relate to a sociopath. He sat with a bold, straight face everyday appealing to an audience of naive, and thirsty women, only to be cheating on his ex-wife like a dog. I even remember the interview he did with K. Michelle when she said "Men are not good people." And he gaslit the heck out of that woman, saying "it's just the men you deal with"... As if he don't belong in that category himself 🙄😂
@fholland65
@fholland65 11 ай бұрын
TRUTH JUICE
@judgeandjury4681
@judgeandjury4681 11 ай бұрын
💯‼️
@naturallydope6971
@naturallydope6971 11 ай бұрын
That part!!
@nishashawn2021
@nishashawn2021 11 ай бұрын
He was able to relate because he is that guy...he made a job out of warning other women about men like him! He still spoke truth, he never promised to be the good guy lol
@deontaeb.
@deontaeb. 10 ай бұрын
To be honest, as much as I despise Derrick, but K. Michelle was honestly doing the most in that interview she was being resentful and bitter so what Derrick said to her was all facts even though Derrick is a piece of shit himself but at the same time K. Michelle was being childish & immature.
@TinaB111
@TinaB111 11 ай бұрын
Honestly, it's giving narcissistic damage control...but not my place to judge. I hope he gets help for the sake of his children and any future spouse. As a daughter of a narcissistic parent, this hits too close to home, it's triggering. They can be so charming in the public eye and so scary behind closed doors.
@BlaqueRose23
@BlaqueRose23 11 ай бұрын
It's not "giving," it's SCREAMING.
@tarlmabe
@tarlmabe 11 ай бұрын
So trigerring😢
@JTMary
@JTMary 11 ай бұрын
I came to look for this comment because there is no way people can’t see that 🤦🏿‍♀️ I’m glad she’s out and I hope she stays there.
@TinaB111
@TinaB111 11 ай бұрын
​@TooCute1890 the amount of times I rolled my eyes...I didn't believe a second of it.
@TinaB111
@TinaB111 11 ай бұрын
​@TheJessjess this! I especially hate them both sitting there discussing that womans "r-word". Smh...
@criticalthinker8345
@criticalthinker8345 10 ай бұрын
I can’t even make it through the entire interview, this man is leading the interviewer w/ his charismatic , manipulative ways. I can’t!!!! I hope his wife soars and gets the best whole and healthy life that she deserves.
@angeldoyle3990
@angeldoyle3990 Ай бұрын
she's soooo strong for even surviving definitely the strength of God at play here praise be to God for that...I'm currently out of something like that myself I wasn't married thank God but we do have a kid together. I know God is going to do the same.for me. 🙏🏽
@KeishaCharmaine
@KeishaCharmaine 11 ай бұрын
Him mentioning that she got raped again knowing he didn’t get her permission to bring that up is wild, wtf… 🤦🏾‍♀️
@NannaP27
@NannaP27 11 ай бұрын
CHIIIIIILE. I was like ...uh??? But you brought it up?
@Jameschung81
@Jameschung81 6 ай бұрын
Derrick is dirty for that.
@arianaways
@arianaways 3 ай бұрын
YOOO WHAT WAS THAT ABOUT INSANTIYYYY
@electric5hadow
@electric5hadow 11 ай бұрын
Derrick logic. “Give me credit for the 25% of the time I wasn’t cheating. I WAS FAITHFUL.” This ninja 🤣😆😂
@etonyaharris8269
@etonyaharris8269 11 ай бұрын
Derrick stayed in the driver seat & steered this entire interview 😳 the art of fast talking
@aubriellemorgan
@aubriellemorgan 11 ай бұрын
Definitely got the gift of gab
@briannaaPM1927
@briannaaPM1927 11 ай бұрын
No fr
@Natasha-hg4ko
@Natasha-hg4ko 11 ай бұрын
narcissists are great at it!
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova 11 ай бұрын
Exactly
@trafficcontrol2420
@trafficcontrol2420 11 ай бұрын
That's Derrick Jaxn for you.
@daphney_elaine
@daphney_elaine 11 ай бұрын
This interview was simply “damage control” for Derrick. Typical narc behavior to do whatever it takes to preserve one’s image. And while he took accountability for some of his actions, he still played victim at certain moments during the interview. I’m not saying that Da’naia was completely innocent, but her actions to be unfaithful were provoked by his initial unfaithfulness.
@msiryn9151
@msiryn9151 11 ай бұрын
Yeah he came to save face AT ALL COSTS
@kwameoluwasomi
@kwameoluwasomi 11 ай бұрын
Unpacking his trauma's all good, but he's yet to answer for passing judgement on unfaithful men for a living, fashioning himself as the perfect guy and using that pull to continue beating in the background. THERE's real accountability.
@lisacox3750
@lisacox3750 11 ай бұрын
They were BOTH a mess and had trauma. No one was better than the other in this situation. The only ones I feel bad for are the kids.
@ShenG.
@ShenG. 11 ай бұрын
PERIOD
@worldpeace0266
@worldpeace0266 11 ай бұрын
Exactly❤
@Adrienne.Michelle91
@Adrienne.Michelle91 11 ай бұрын
I’m only watching this episode for Laterras. Anything Derrick Jaxn says will be taken with a grain of salt, and that’s being generous
@1addedstipulation
@1addedstipulation 11 ай бұрын
I hope pt 2 has more accountability. Derek should not be praised just because he is admitting some of his stuff, and so called "being honest." HE GOT CAUGHT AGAIN AND AGAIN AND IT MESSED UP HIS MONEY! He has to be forthcoming to preserrve his image and business. But he mishandled his wife with that "bonnet" Facebook live and then he got caught again. Yes, forgiveness is the key, but if you keep violating in the same manner, it speaks to a deep character issue. Yes, Jesus will fix us, if we let Him, but you gotta yield the issue to Him. Cmon Derek, get some real Christ centered accountability and have several seats.
@tinaf600
@tinaf600 11 ай бұрын
All of his mess was put on front street by him. He can't be trusted. I hope God forgives him. His grace is undeserved.
@Antisatan7771
@Antisatan7771 11 ай бұрын
Get out your feelings and quit the women bias. I don’t like his work or content but I was able to listen with an open ear. And now hearing both sides?? BOTH did each other wrong and immature in the whole situation. This is just purely entertainment it seems smh
@prassociates2000
@prassociates2000 11 ай бұрын
For-realz cuz ppl be always performing even thru transparency...women especially young women need to be on guard and beware of men like Derrick Jaxn ...his character traits are NOT to be trusted periodt!
@camy3018
@camy3018 11 ай бұрын
I second that!
@forgivenesstrulyofficial
@forgivenesstrulyofficial 11 ай бұрын
It's amazing how he talks about her "cheating" in DETAIL, with exact locations, place she was working, etc, and yet when he talks about the 100s of women he reportedly slept with, he brushes over his stuff. Just like "Karen" is a thing, I think "Derrick" should be a thing.
@vanessaturner3982
@vanessaturner3982 11 ай бұрын
This dude is saying all the right things so that in the future when the kids see this they will see his version of smoothing over the situation
@IMTinaMarieJ
@IMTinaMarieJ 11 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@nyashagriffith8896
@nyashagriffith8896 11 ай бұрын
💯💯
@mariasimone4141
@mariasimone4141 11 ай бұрын
Master manipulator
@mpoliwamwampashi3387
@mpoliwamwampashi3387 11 ай бұрын
Manipulation at its core
@LisaChanel0212
@LisaChanel0212 11 ай бұрын
Derrick is so good at manipulation that he’s even been able to get to Dear Future Wifey. Smdh. What a disappointment. He is a master manipulator and could never self reflect or feel empathy without long term ongoing intensities therapy to get to the core of his narcissism. I didn’t intend to watch this ONE but I’m hoping more people won’t be lured into Jaxn’s web and give him more narc supply via followers.
@missvalisha
@missvalisha 11 ай бұрын
Bingo! I just commented that he knew what he was doing because he knows who the audience of this podcast is - he’s looking for more women to manipulate.
@0003alp
@0003alp 11 ай бұрын
This this this.
@empreenergy3376
@empreenergy3376 11 ай бұрын
Agreed
@user-rs9ip3hz4k
@user-rs9ip3hz4k 11 ай бұрын
You are right on point..
@lisahaynes3148
@lisahaynes3148 11 ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure if this man didn’t want Derrick on his podcast he wouldn’t be there…
@crystalclearvision_
@crystalclearvision_ 11 ай бұрын
Despite the fact that I question if Derrick has a genuine bone in his body because he's trained himself to say the "right thing" I'll watch. Everyone deserves to tell their story.. Now whether or not we'll believe it is up in the air lol
@DivineGuidanceMarshae
@DivineGuidanceMarshae 11 ай бұрын
This
@AngelaGrant2015
@AngelaGrant2015 11 ай бұрын
Yes, unfortunately he specialize in deceiving. I can learn something new from anyone, even a deceiver.
@DivineGuidanceMarshae
@DivineGuidanceMarshae 11 ай бұрын
@@AngelaGrant2015 same thing I said I never liked him even before that happened his whole demeanor gave “corny guy, that never got girls but now I have a platform” I can promise you he does not regret nothing Atleast not now however 20 years from now when he finds a new wife who will destroy him yea but not now he is just a master at manipulating women and his audience that’s it that’s all he just keeping the ball rolling and is having the time of his life however I don’t feel sorry for the women involved not even the wife
@LisaChanel0212
@LisaChanel0212 11 ай бұрын
And that’s what Lateras should have tried to protect his viewers from.
@stephaniesurratt1473
@stephaniesurratt1473 11 ай бұрын
I don’t believe him…. It feels like a pinch of truth sprinkled with a bunch of untruth…. I was trying to be open and objective but he sounds like a serpent to me…
@jaypremp
@jaypremp 11 ай бұрын
This man is clearly trying to do damage control just like he did with the cheating scandal. The fact that he said he doesnt lie tells me that he's a liar.
@perdybirdie
@perdybirdie 11 ай бұрын
Right like he's clearly a liar...he cheated his whole marriage lol
@FaithandNova
@FaithandNova 11 ай бұрын
I laughed when he said I’m not a liar 😂😂😂
@basicbutcute
@basicbutcute 11 ай бұрын
Right because you got to lie to cheat lol
@AwesomeMe47
@AwesomeMe47 10 ай бұрын
My ex-husband 🎯
@beautifulcp07
@beautifulcp07 10 ай бұрын
Am I the only one that sees his eye twitching while he's telling his side of things 🤔🤔🤔 looks like someone is lying
@alicemiriah
@alicemiriah 11 ай бұрын
You can look at the majority of the comments and tell exactly why narcissists stay evil and selfish. They know there’s always going to be a slew of people with their hearts and arms opened ready to welcome them back into good graces 🤦🏾‍♀️ he’s never going to cut it out with the deceit and evil behavior.
@corasbloom
@corasbloom 11 ай бұрын
Facts. They are so gullible.
@AllThingsSoul
@AllThingsSoul 11 ай бұрын
Our intuition speaks to us but we ignore it because we are tired of waiting on God. Understandable, but it leads to heartache.
@0003alp
@0003alp 11 ай бұрын
THIS!!!!!
@TinaB111
@TinaB111 11 ай бұрын
Unless you have dealt with one it can be difficult to spot.
@TasiaPearson
@TasiaPearson 11 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@godscreation3932
@godscreation3932 11 ай бұрын
I will never trust a word that comes out of this man’s mouth. Ladies beware.. This interview was very strategic.
@Carmen-D-Clinton
@Carmen-D-Clinton 11 ай бұрын
😅YEP. SO MANY LIES AND GAMES! 1:00:05
@annastaciakiama8662
@annastaciakiama8662 2 ай бұрын
Wow this sounds like you have more information 😂😂😂😂😂
@sharesewilliams7811
@sharesewilliams7811 11 ай бұрын
It’s not our responsibility to forgive this man, we have nothing but social media minutes/hours invested in their situation. None of us are perfect. Forgiveness needs to take place between him, his wife and God. Thank you Latteras for creating a platform for him to present his story and be a listening ear. I pray that this couple and their children receive the healing that is needed to move on.
@kayjay4014
@kayjay4014 11 ай бұрын
This ❤
@robinwashington9606
@robinwashington9606 11 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@bubublessing
@bubublessing 11 ай бұрын
How can I like this comment more than once?? 😩❤️
@katereed9491
@katereed9491 11 ай бұрын
​@@bubublessing I was just thinking the same thing!
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 11 ай бұрын
What gets me how professional denae and him talk even when there talking about ghetto stuff 😂😂😂😂 " I didn't hear of her throwing those hands"😂😂
@mogulicioustv6636
@mogulicioustv6636 11 ай бұрын
As a survivor this would feel like a slap in a face. But business wise it’s a smart move. My abuser is just like DJ ( I don’t have proof of any physical cheating) but these type of men are very strategic at storytelling, charismatic, and know all the right things to say and what what faults to share to appear humble. and yes they have wounds and troubles from their childhood that will make anyone for sympathy for them. That’s how us fixers gets deceived. But most “faith filled” ppl will do is throw the blanket of blame on both people. But these deceivers are so good at deceiving they’ll have you questioning everything. I don’t have time but I could break down this interview on how he’s still a wolf. But ladies consult the lord ALWAYS.
@peacefulself7848
@peacefulself7848 11 ай бұрын
Yes, consult the LORD always! Spiritual discernment and intuition is the key!
@QueenKS1012
@QueenKS1012 11 ай бұрын
I agree. I work in DV advocacy and am a DV survivor…. I’d be feeling some kind of way. At least we heard her first. In my opinion, she’s bearing the burden. No judgment on these brothers but we didn’t need this fluff
@Habeshaani
@Habeshaani 10 ай бұрын
You are so right. My abuser was/is the same. I have to deal with him in regards to our child, that's the only reason there is any interaction and that is through Talking Parents or email. He tries to make it difficult every time because he's super vindictive since I left him
@angeledwards7646
@angeledwards7646 9 ай бұрын
Right
@tiaparkerbecomingherwomens7234
@tiaparkerbecomingherwomens7234 9 ай бұрын
It doesn't even take discernment or the gift of prophecy to see CLEARLY this man is TOXIC and a master wordsmith manipulator! SAD!
@noonieb4454
@noonieb4454 10 ай бұрын
Derrick reminds me of my husband...all the gas lighting is beyond sickening. This was CLEARLY damage control. He can't be trusted and surely can't believe anything that comes out of his narc mouth
@ArkiaJhikae
@ArkiaJhikae 11 ай бұрын
Like most relationships, their struggle started with unresolved unaddressed trauma... and they both participated in keeping it going & repeating patterns. They both validated each other's story. I think thats the most important part for me
@leahberry8073
@leahberry8073 11 ай бұрын
Completely agree!! Hurt people hurt people. Not dealing with trauma will often lead to disaster!!
@praizeyah
@praizeyah 11 ай бұрын
Yeah, I didn't see where this interview contradicted anything his ex said. It's just one story. We all have a story.
@t.p.anderson1833
@t.p.anderson1833 11 ай бұрын
Facts!
@tierrabrown1211
@tierrabrown1211 11 ай бұрын
This was a really good interview.! I was so surprised.
@leahberry8073
@leahberry8073 11 ай бұрын
@praizeyah totally agree. It's a tragic story but a necessary one. Their testimony was one for the ages! People need to see what to do and not to do. We all need to learn from other mistakes, or we could end up in a similar situation.
@TheMikeyMikeShow.
@TheMikeyMikeShow. 11 ай бұрын
Can we stop blaming Danea it’s not her fault that someone chose to cheat on her. “Be angry but sin not” I’m married and it gets hard and rough and sometimes even dirty tough and I choose faithfulness. Why? Because It’s not fair to her, my kids, or me to commit something that will tear down the very thing we are trying to build. He’s full of excuses. And that’s what he would say about the men that did exactly what he’s done. And then to do it again he’s definitely thinking with the other head and that is what you call selfish.
@daisha07
@daisha07 11 ай бұрын
Well said, may Jesus bless and strengthen your marriage.
@khandygurl01
@khandygurl01 11 ай бұрын
Finally… Someone in the comments with some sense.
@Judydavis24
@Judydavis24 11 ай бұрын
I agree but I also understand why he chose the infidelity hurt people hurt people and it some may say it’s an excuse but it really was a cry out for help
@TheMikeyMikeShow.
@TheMikeyMikeShow. 11 ай бұрын
@@Judydavis24 that’s bull shit but ok for better or worst he is at fault for bringing other people into the marriage fuck what he did before he committed to the vows.
@summerrain6125
@summerrain6125 11 ай бұрын
It's not her "fault" that he chose to cheat, but she is accountable for choosing to enter into covenant with a cheater and someone who's never been faithful to nor committed to her from the beginning (according to her own story).
@excellentttt
@excellentttt 11 ай бұрын
It was an absolute betrayal for Derrick to disclose that she endured another sexual assault, in such a cavalier way. Everything about this podcast felt glib and unbothered. It’s disappointing to see the interviewer ask questions that are clearly designed to get sound bites (“ when was the first time you had sex?” Really?!) and Derrick intellectualizing… we have so much work to do.
@kyeethomas
@kyeethomas 11 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing because he sais he didn’t want to disclose but disclosed anyways. Very distasteful
@Itisaboutangeltoday
@Itisaboutangeltoday 11 ай бұрын
Yes he is good liar. As a man you are believing him.
@nyashagriffith8896
@nyashagriffith8896 11 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@lovewins4617
@lovewins4617 11 ай бұрын
That was his way of saying it allegedly happened to her twice within one month. And it took her five years to tell him. I don’t think he believes it happened.
@RAJOHN-ke7mc
@RAJOHN-ke7mc 11 ай бұрын
I thought exactly the same. That shit was FOUL!!!
@tonyakenney96
@tonyakenney96 11 ай бұрын
This screams...It is cheaper to keep her and I need to do something to repair the damage to my "brand" so I can continue to secure the bag. My bag now is too small to afford a divorce, alimony and child support. No true remorse expressed in this interview.
@Pj287.
@Pj287. 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Passion84GodAlways
@Passion84GodAlways 11 ай бұрын
I... I'm SPEECHLESS...I was NOT expecting this interview! 😳
@FreedomLane73
@FreedomLane73 11 ай бұрын
It all seems like game and a money grab between Dj and D’Naiah
@DJ-wl9iw
@DJ-wl9iw 11 ай бұрын
@@FreedomLane73I wouldn’t be surprised.
@MrsBaty-wo9jm
@MrsBaty-wo9jm 11 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly!
@SanctifiedLady
@SanctifiedLady 11 ай бұрын
Lol! Why not he’s loves attention, petty, narcissistic… 😂 He have a bit of femininity so he likes talk, lie and get any amount of attention he can get.
@KamikazeSP06
@KamikazeSP06 11 ай бұрын
I’m excited about part 2.
@WhoIsTheeMeister
@WhoIsTheeMeister 11 ай бұрын
We all know he knows what to say, it’s how we know him. With that being said: it’s giving actor. He knows what sounds good. He knows how to be faithful, he chose not to.
@corasbloom
@corasbloom 11 ай бұрын
Facts
@TumiLoveable
@TumiLoveable 11 ай бұрын
Yesss
@FleurRebelle
@FleurRebelle 11 ай бұрын
And he chose her because he needed a tutor, kept her around cause she refused to leave, no matter how he dogged her and only married her because she got pregnant and called his mother
@beautyworks5345
@beautyworks5345 11 ай бұрын
His interview sounds exactly like the one he did on Love me Moore podcast. Actor vibes all the way.
@robertjones8260
@robertjones8260 11 ай бұрын
I’ve always wondered why some women are so gullible as to follow Derrick’s content. He’s clearly telling you EXACTLY what you want to hear. He’s ice cream, not vegetables. He makes you feel good but doesn’t help you GROW. It’s crazy to me that, despite showing the world that he’s the goofball many of us have known him to be, there are STILL women listening to his content and giving him the benefit of the doubt. I guess it pays to look good in a tight-ass t-shirt.
@aubriellemorgan
@aubriellemorgan 11 ай бұрын
That last sentence….yes. Lol
@iamsasky2045
@iamsasky2045 11 ай бұрын
Oh yes. Smh. You know what’s even more crazy? When you as a woman see other women fall for the bait and when they realise you’re not falling for it, they tell you that you need to chill and forgive and “men fall short.” You really wonder if you’re the one tripping sometimes.
@returnofthemack8347
@returnofthemack8347 11 ай бұрын
Black women are always going to give black men chances. He also doesn’t even look good in this shirt.
@mi3helle707
@mi3helle707 11 ай бұрын
@Dimz30
@Dimz30 11 ай бұрын
Because a lot of women don't listen
@alisthomelife
@alisthomelife 11 ай бұрын
No one is saying he is innocent, but it adds perspective hearing his story told. Trauma met Trauma at a young period of their lives and things went South. Hope they can both heal and keep things civil for the sake of their kids.
@lisas8080
@lisas8080 11 ай бұрын
People who have *consistently* proven themselves to be manipulative and untrustworthy shouldn't be interviewed. Lies don't need a platform. It's important to be discerning about what we give voice to and/or how someone may try to use a space to rehab their image and brand.
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 11 ай бұрын
Wisdom.
@naturallaw8377
@naturallaw8377 11 ай бұрын
Naw we need to see how one looks and speaks and moves. This is education at its best . And we need to not ever have sex with anyone outside of the one sent with God’s divine Hand of approval to be our husbands /purpose partners . Abstaining from sex gives us time to see who these vessels really are without that whole soul connection the comes through sex . It’s easier to cut somebody off when you haven’t been having sex with them . Cut them slam off .. these demonic vessels out here trying to take Gods children out but it ain’t working .
@adriannorwood8237
@adriannorwood8237 11 ай бұрын
The girl lied about being with the other man all throughout her interviews. She probably lied about even more men and situations. That was the time she got caught. She probably messed up a lot more than that. I’m sure a lot of people lie in order to protect public image.
@BriaBarrows
@BriaBarrows 11 ай бұрын
Honestly.
@lcam9241
@lcam9241 11 ай бұрын
​@@adriannorwood8237so then, you agree with the original post?? 🤷🏾‍♀️
@lkeyz09
@lkeyz09 11 ай бұрын
As I’m watching this interview, I sat here thinking about how we could resolve issues if we would just express our true feelings.
@sweetmisstea
@sweetmisstea 11 ай бұрын
This thought has been with me for the week, actually. So much I need to authentically show up for. It's scary though.
@sbolingtay06
@sbolingtay06 11 ай бұрын
Right!
@lkeyz09
@lkeyz09 11 ай бұрын
@@sweetmisstea do it!
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely. Authenticity is a must
@relaxlibrary4249
@relaxlibrary4249 11 ай бұрын
It requires vulnerability, which requires a safe space.
@terib5467
@terib5467 11 ай бұрын
When he decided to propose, he wanted a family, but notice....he never said he loved her.
@SierraP
@SierraP 5 ай бұрын
Whew!
@BirdFinder100
@BirdFinder100 11 ай бұрын
This is why communication is so key in a relationship. They both were dealing with traumatic pasts but never explored ways to heal together. Literally living two different realities.
@joy-alyce
@joy-alyce 11 ай бұрын
This episode is just pure entertainment, he’s full of you know what lol
@Tee-Star
@Tee-Star 11 ай бұрын
Both he and her.😂
@ommiohmy
@ommiohmy 11 ай бұрын
Yes!!!! Both of them.... just tacky and messy collectively
@Antisatan7771
@Antisatan7771 11 ай бұрын
I don’t like his content but I genuinely believe him.
@maguiedossantos2925
@maguiedossantos2925 11 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯🎯🎯
@Nothertoat
@Nothertoat 11 ай бұрын
I agree
@zee-zm1io
@zee-zm1io 11 ай бұрын
I wish he addressed why he never went public about the fact that he had a wife. For a long time most people thought he was single
@user-cy3fg4ij4k
@user-cy3fg4ij4k 11 ай бұрын
Revealing this woman's sexual assault is just more abuse from this narc and all that giggling they're doing about abuse is just sickening
@Healthy_Means
@Healthy_Means 11 ай бұрын
She already revealed it in her interview on this platform.
@BlkOnyx0508
@BlkOnyx0508 11 ай бұрын
This! Blk men by majority are continuing to be cottled. This helps no one
@TinaB111
@TinaB111 11 ай бұрын
​@@Healthy_Meansno. She revealed one. He mentioned a 2nd that she didn't mention.
@AwesomeMe47
@AwesomeMe47 10 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!!!
@SolelyYounique
@SolelyYounique 11 ай бұрын
This man is too strategic and calculated…..is he telling the truth ??? Drop part 2 ASAP😩😩
@TiffanyNicholeCatley
@TiffanyNicholeCatley 11 ай бұрын
This gave me chills just realizing how we're all living our own separate realities. I pray they both heal and grow. 🙏🏾
@kenbonke7
@kenbonke7 11 ай бұрын
Fr
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 11 ай бұрын
I have to give it to him he's very eloquent speaker knows how to express his thoughts effectively
@Kay-yk6gb
@Kay-yk6gb 11 ай бұрын
@@godsgirl7201agreed!!
@cupcakepatrice8418
@cupcakepatrice8418 11 ай бұрын
@@godsgirl7201but he’s still placing all the blame on her, he’s not taking responsibility or accountability for his behavior! He’s blaming it on childhood trauma and his wife like lord
@Iam_highmaintenancebeauty
@Iam_highmaintenancebeauty 11 ай бұрын
@@godsgirl7201i mean what is it you’re giving him though? Applauding for the bare minimum of something a grown person basically supppose to do? Smh
@TheFizziologieNetwork
@TheFizziologieNetwork 11 ай бұрын
So the thing is… DJ didn’t just cheat on his wife; he deceived ALL of us by not being who he said he was. He is the boy who cried wolf. As much as I want all of us to grow and evolve and as much as I want to offer grace to everyone, I do not trust that his words will match his actions😉
@ILuvMyBrwnSkin
@ILuvMyBrwnSkin 11 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@TheRealMsBlu
@TheRealMsBlu 11 ай бұрын
No he deceived those who put him on a pedestal. He's just a man. His advice is still 💯 Women need to wise up & learn how to eat the meat and spit out the bones.
@Lodeenie
@Lodeenie 11 ай бұрын
But did he tell us he was the guy he recommended we deal with? He definitely did not tell is his truth but I never felt like he was the ideal partner. Just a man telling truths that other men won't, like how my brother (who is a whole man-whore) schools me to game.
@TheFizziologieNetwork
@TheFizziologieNetwork 11 ай бұрын
@@Lodeenie 😂Well, regarding DJ, if he had said I have done all these things and that’s how I know men are playing you, then I wouldn’t say he was deceptive. But he did a lot of things to his wife he told us a guy who truly loved a woman, would never do. And then he came on the internet and professed his love and recommitment to his wife. And then he cheated again🫠. We all see how sincere he seems, but over and over again he has shown us that his words don’t match his actions. I think everyone is capable of living in true alignment, I’m just not betting my money on DJ today.
@freshdesign2026
@freshdesign2026 11 ай бұрын
You should better take that time to watch YOURSELF and your ways with the people in your life instead of watching D.J. He is not your husband or your brother. Please take it easy. We as Christians should learn to give grace to people. Jesus even on the cross, did it and so did lateras too. He allowed D.J. to defend himself, although he doesn't owe us anything. But as a public personality, he felt like doing it. So let's pray he finds peace and more stability and become even a better person than he is now. Let's behave like christians dear. Remain blessed.
@tamalahenry
@tamalahenry 11 ай бұрын
This dude has the gift of gab. Knows what to say
@AwesomeMe47
@AwesomeMe47 10 ай бұрын
Exactly like my ex-husband.
@corasbloom
@corasbloom 11 ай бұрын
This man's energy does not sit right with me.
@intentionalparenting2605
@intentionalparenting2605 9 ай бұрын
Me either. Years ago I watched a few of his videos, I quickly realized, he was in business only and came off as a 💩 talker😂 so I never watched again. I can’t watch this interview. He’s annoying and fake to me. He seems sick like a psychopath.
@crazedlovve
@crazedlovve 11 ай бұрын
You scrolling through the comments too? 👀😂
@CookWithStephh
@CookWithStephh 11 ай бұрын
Yes I am lol
@Jazzman904
@Jazzman904 11 ай бұрын
I learned from this: 1. Give your children attention when they're young 2. Make sure you have proper boundaries with ppl you have been emotionally attached to or physically involved with to prevent cheating
@AmericanRenaissanceMan
@AmericanRenaissanceMan 11 ай бұрын
And don’t have children out of wedlock. Broken families is the common denominator in all issues in America . Especially black Americans . Black women have damn near all their children out of wedlock
@TBoogie76
@TBoogie76 11 ай бұрын
​@@AmericanRenaissanceMan🎯
@Jazzman904
@Jazzman904 11 ай бұрын
True! We need more 2 parent homes! That's the root issue for that point. Thanks for sharing!@@AmericanRenaissanceMan
@Robloxlegend49
@Robloxlegend49 11 ай бұрын
Me too! I have sons so I need to pay attention.
@AmericanRenaissanceMan
@AmericanRenaissanceMan 11 ай бұрын
@@Robloxlegend49 if you don’t have their father in their life you already failed
@atasteofcherie3970
@atasteofcherie3970 11 ай бұрын
I could absolutely careless about him talking about his trauma because he is intelligent enough to know that intense therapy and resources was needed. He found someone that he saw as a good faithful incubator. He knew from the jump he did not want to be in a committed relationship. I can’t judge him because that’s Gods job. He definitely is dead wrong for what he did to his family and manipulating women on his platforms smh
@f.k.a1010
@f.k.a1010 11 ай бұрын
You can’t expect a 19 year old man who has unresolved trauma to do “the right thing”. Both of them had no business being in relationships.
@balance_andbliss
@balance_andbliss 11 ай бұрын
"I cant judge him.." you say... as you proceed to say some judgemental shit. Be honest! We humans have this inate feature to judge each other. I judged him too. But the grace you would like to be accorded to you (i dont know you so you are probably even worse than he is) , is the same grace you should accord other human beings. The Law of the Universe.
@atasteofcherie3970
@atasteofcherie3970 11 ай бұрын
@@balance_andbliss naw I’m not worse than him. I don’t intentionally deceive ppl. Go for someone else don’t come for me. What he did is horrible to his family and anyone else that he intentionally played with.
@balance_andbliss
@balance_andbliss 11 ай бұрын
@@atasteofcherie3970 It is sad you read to respond and not to understand. I did not accuse you of being worse than him. I said "i dont know you so you are PROBABLY even worse than he is" Sad I had to point that out. Also, you just contradicted yourself. You cannot say "I cant judge him" and proceed to judge him. Makes no sense. What he did was wrong yes. But my thing is, we all have our sins. Including you.
@atasteofcherie3970
@atasteofcherie3970 11 ай бұрын
@@balance_andbliss please go find somebody to play with today and have a blessed day. I know I am
@Justlovinglyfe
@Justlovinglyfe 11 ай бұрын
I walked away with this MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR BOYS… He was just a boy that felt he needed to marry his baby mama that he was stuck in a situationship with. They were never in a relationship and Derrick was not and is still not ready for marriage. We have a lot of Derricks in marriages now & those marriages need to end
@worldpeace0266
@worldpeace0266 11 ай бұрын
Truth indeed.. truth indeed❤❤
@Chancse
@Chancse 11 ай бұрын
It appears that neither was she to be honest. They were both young and filled with unresolved trauma. They both hurt each other and disrespected each other based on the perspectives told.
@Justlovinglyfe
@Justlovinglyfe 11 ай бұрын
@@Chancse very true
@dieufaitecyriaque5275
@dieufaitecyriaque5275 11 ай бұрын
Still a boy
@rosey3664
@rosey3664 8 ай бұрын
U worded this so well 👏🏾👏🏾
@Wiildseed
@Wiildseed 11 ай бұрын
10 MINUTES IN HE IS ALREADY LYING 😂😂😂😂 THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE
@theresabutler4553
@theresabutler4553 11 ай бұрын
I can’t watch because this dude is deceitful. Not here for his fake humility.
@tiffanyawesome936
@tiffanyawesome936 11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@prettycaramel9237
@prettycaramel9237 11 ай бұрын
GIRL!!!😅😅😅😅😅
@aronelrealtygroup2997
@aronelrealtygroup2997 11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@ommiohmy
@ommiohmy 11 ай бұрын
Right!!!😂😂😂
@RoLee705
@RoLee705 11 ай бұрын
I trust nothing remorseful this man has to say…but I’ll watch this bc it’ll amuse me.
@huntershill4131
@huntershill4131 11 ай бұрын
For real 🙄
@FreedomLane73
@FreedomLane73 11 ай бұрын
Exactly, him and his wife are running game, but ok
@haveyoureddittoday
@haveyoureddittoday 11 ай бұрын
Agreed
@itsadeesworld.
@itsadeesworld. 11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂.. U nailed it 👏
@douse89
@douse89 11 ай бұрын
Same.
@makkay100
@makkay100 11 ай бұрын
One thing I got from this MESS, Jaxn is NOT SORRY. Sigh........
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 11 ай бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 11 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@shamekiastephen1218
@shamekiastephen1218 11 ай бұрын
First off what did you do to lose her? Second please don’t use witches and spells to bring a person back. Seek Ye The Lord for guidance. It could not be meant for you two to be together. However, if it’s God’s will it will happen. Again, why did she leave?
@brittblessed
@brittblessed 11 ай бұрын
​@@shamekiastephen1218well said
@weirdvideos8074
@weirdvideos8074 11 ай бұрын
​@shamekiastephen1217 this is an ad. The two guys above are bots.
@suporiaa6826
@suporiaa6826 11 ай бұрын
I just want to point out a nuance - he spent this time saying “I tried my best but she just didn’t comply & I personalized it & reacted”. That is not the perspective of someone who genuinely understands their wrong. I’ve been married - and after divorce, had to say “this was 100% my part”..and end it there. True “repentance” is accountability minus the culpability of the other party. Great interview Laterras. You provide space for people to feel safe. It’s needed.
@malikasampson7673
@malikasampson7673 11 ай бұрын
He's self-centered. Gets into his feelings when he's not getting attention.
@Sjbjo
@Sjbjo 11 ай бұрын
Wrong was done on both side it’s not up to the man to do everything or take accountability for everything she is has much wrong
@DonDivaBitch
@DonDivaBitch 11 ай бұрын
@@Sjbjo She Took Accountability For Her Side Though. It’s Him That Didnt. He Still Is Mainly Blaming Her
@Sjbjo
@Sjbjo 11 ай бұрын
@@DonDivaBitch Not at all
@BusinessAndEntrepreneurship.
@BusinessAndEntrepreneurship. 11 ай бұрын
Laterras, you are turning into our male Oprah with A focus on healing and sobering conversation. You go man 🎊 🎉
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 11 ай бұрын
To God be the glory
@rakeshamurray5603
@rakeshamurray5603 11 ай бұрын
Oprahs rich
@Viva__xo
@Viva__xo 11 ай бұрын
​@@rakeshamurray5603Oprah wasn't always rich
@freshdesign2026
@freshdesign2026 11 ай бұрын
Oprah is not a christian. She is in the circle of epstein and the other children's mo*lesters. Lateras IS NOT anything like OPrah AND should never be like her. He belongs to the kingdom of GOD. Gob bless his heart.
@Chancse
@Chancse 11 ай бұрын
For real, because I was not expecting this! He is doing his thing for sure!
@chelseawilliams8588
@chelseawilliams8588 11 ай бұрын
Ooh, he’s slippery. He said at about the 1 month mark, he felt rejected and then proceeded to cross boundaries. Siiiiiir. That’s absurd.
@briggettmumphrey3226
@briggettmumphrey3226 11 ай бұрын
I see a lot of excuses and blaming and no accountable for his part but classic
@laurenroberts1404
@laurenroberts1404 11 ай бұрын
STOP saying she was doing her thing, while you were doing your thang. That women has never been with anyone else since meeting you. 🙄 The audacity!
@atasteoftee
@atasteoftee 11 ай бұрын
He’s trying to level the playing field while not even taking accountability for how wild he was moving. Even if she “cheated” with the one guy how does that equate to years of cheating with multiple women. this man is ridiculous.
@simplyroyalty7458
@simplyroyalty7458 11 ай бұрын
@@atasteoftee and while married too. He is very ridiculous
@Bald2Crispy
@Bald2Crispy 10 ай бұрын
“If you can’t Convince them, Then Confuse them!”
@yolanda.s7033
@yolanda.s7033 11 ай бұрын
Reading the comments, women are already sold on him. He's not a healed Christian man. My discernment is on 💯 and there's something not right or genuine about this man, and I don't know if he can ever be real or should ever be in a relationship with anyone. He's very self-centered.
@anesumaggy4696
@anesumaggy4696 11 ай бұрын
Please tell them . He is still trash 🚮
@Natashablessed320
@Natashablessed320 11 ай бұрын
💯
@theinfluentialprincess
@theinfluentialprincess 11 ай бұрын
Can't believe this episode is here. And I'm all here for it! 😂😂
@aliciasandy2042
@aliciasandy2042 11 ай бұрын
Right!!! I got my scuba gear ready. I am about to dive in!!
@NaturalBrownCupcake
@NaturalBrownCupcake 11 ай бұрын
​@@aliciasandy2042😂
@dpharrison7
@dpharrison7 11 ай бұрын
Right
@paballomakgopa
@paballomakgopa 11 ай бұрын
Me too 😂😂😂
@CBlackwell
@CBlackwell 11 ай бұрын
Me too. My mouth dropped. Let's hear his side.
@yvonneyvonne8317
@yvonneyvonne8317 11 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but, he had zero accountability. All I saw was deflection and blame. It’s almost as if he hadn’t taken his own advice he gives 🤷🏾‍♀️ That’s just my takeaway. I know God is a forgiver and healer, but I truly believe it take accountability.
@justkimHouston
@justkimHouston 11 ай бұрын
“We remember that differently” is hilarious to me!!!! 😂😂😂😂 Now he ain’t my favorite but I will be taking this and using it lol
@pepper8437
@pepper8437 11 ай бұрын
Whether he is being genuine or not, we need to remember to extend grace. The same grace God gives us for all the horrible sins we commit that just may not be as public. Doesn’t mean accountability, moving different or even cutting people off is not in order, but forgiveness and grace of others needs to be present
@alicemiriah
@alicemiriah 11 ай бұрын
Have at it lol
@milano888
@milano888 11 ай бұрын
The plot twist I didn’t see coming wow 😅😅😅😅😅
@lf3554
@lf3554 11 ай бұрын
😂😂
@ladypace717
@ladypace717 11 ай бұрын
Right?!
@JoSJaNae
@JoSJaNae 11 ай бұрын
I know right lol
@myrnajlife
@myrnajlife 11 ай бұрын
Same!!! Makes up for last week 😂
@arlettemvondo6613
@arlettemvondo6613 11 ай бұрын
​@@myrnajlifeI was thinking the same thing.
@Tee-Star
@Tee-Star 11 ай бұрын
I trust NOTHING the JACKSONS say. 😂😂
@sistrenyogigal3813
@sistrenyogigal3813 11 ай бұрын
Nothing !!
@AllThingsSoul
@AllThingsSoul 11 ай бұрын
Wow, he looks like a body builder. What's that about?
@dsovereignschild
@dsovereignschild 11 ай бұрын
I hear him taking no accountability or responsibility! Even in his foulness, he still blames her! NARCISSISTIC if you ask me😮‍💨🤧
@Wisewomenbuild365
@Wisewomenbuild365 11 ай бұрын
No accountability of actions and an interview filled with deflection.
@Anonymous-cl2es
@Anonymous-cl2es 11 ай бұрын
As a narcissistic abuse survivor, this was very uncomfortable to watch! I am tuning out half way thru bc this hits too close to home.
@jay_hovita
@jay_hovita 11 ай бұрын
I''m about 12 mins in ... haven't even gotten to hearing much of his side of things yet but I'm feeling really cringy. I may have to tap out soon as well. Too triggering already...
@CookWithStephh
@CookWithStephh 11 ай бұрын
Me too I’m so curious to watch but my anxiety is kicking in heavy right now even listening to him speak
@jay_hovita
@jay_hovita 11 ай бұрын
@@CookWithStephh seriously! His voice has me really anxious. I think it’s because he was constantly going viral with his advice on social media and then to find out he was exactly what he was speaking about. That’s exactly what it is. His voice is triggering me…
@CookWithStephh
@CookWithStephh 11 ай бұрын
@@jay_hovita so triggering I can’t even watch it I just put it on speaker Loud so I can hear it but his voice is making me cringe ! Ugh
@bolanlesoares2514
@bolanlesoares2514 11 ай бұрын
It was good he came on the show , i was a little curious what he was going to say. The build was good , we're all human but the last 10mins was a bit on the defense. Glossing over the huge log in your eyes? Knowing who you are , healing your trauma before getting together with anyone cannot be over emphasized
@facebylashellbee7148
@facebylashellbee7148 11 ай бұрын
Being a woman who has experienced some of the things talked about between this couple, I had to learn that everyone’s feelings in a relationship is valid, and it’s important to heal and have a firm foundation. I can respect both sides and see that when their isn’t any healing individually, the relationship is bound to be unstable!
@halahala65
@halahala65 8 ай бұрын
what is he healing from ? the damaged he caused her ? come on dont sound silly
@facebylashellbee7148
@facebylashellbee7148 8 ай бұрын
@@halahala65 apparently you’re trolling… God Bless!
@nioshiepetit-jean137
@nioshiepetit-jean137 11 ай бұрын
He is so programmed. As he speaks it sounds rehearsed. He knows what to say to get the response he gets. He's only taking ownership because no one respects him.
@Highvibethings
@Highvibethings 11 ай бұрын
Some people go to continue manipulation rather than actually heal.
@revacleveland5238
@revacleveland5238 11 ай бұрын
Correct me if I’m wrong but it seems like he’s full of excuses to his cheating behavior
@loliloli6582
@loliloli6582 11 ай бұрын
He is not sorry, he just got caught, shifting gears. 😄
@mariasimone4141
@mariasimone4141 11 ай бұрын
“Inseparable for the first 2 moths” lovebombing stage - typical narc
@ABlackGirlandHerCoffee
@ABlackGirlandHerCoffee 11 ай бұрын
I love the transparency. Dear Wifey Podcast, you did it again. Thank you!
@kaymartin7988
@kaymartin7988 11 ай бұрын
This is damage control. I do not trust anything he says.
@bradleycampbell245
@bradleycampbell245 11 ай бұрын
What Derrick did is not the problem. The fact that he still lied about what he did to protect his brand, he bashed men on his platform while not practicing what he preached pandering to women in exchange for money. Now he wants to act like he’s the victim.
@ILuvMyBrwnSkin
@ILuvMyBrwnSkin 11 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@kristinesmith1665
@kristinesmith1665 11 ай бұрын
Remember, he said I speak the truth. I never lie. His words. Smdh
@ILuvMyBrwnSkin
@ILuvMyBrwnSkin 11 ай бұрын
@@kristinesmith1665 Oh wow
@snsn7251
@snsn7251 11 ай бұрын
Exactly. Nothing genuine about this interview. He is still trying to control. The fact that he couldnt allow her to have this moment and safe space says it all. Constant manipulation.
@adriannorwood8237
@adriannorwood8237 11 ай бұрын
@@snsn7251they asked him to be on here… you didn’t hear him say he inboxed Derrick?
@C-inthelifeofCamri97
@C-inthelifeofCamri97 11 ай бұрын
Derrick is built like a cake 😂😂😂. A wedding cake lol
@BatyahY
@BatyahY 7 ай бұрын
I agree 😂😂😂 … I said why his head so damn small 🤣 looks odd
@crystalgarry2507
@crystalgarry2507 6 ай бұрын
I haven't laughed this hard and over 3 months. Thank you so much! You just blessed my soul. 😭🤣🤣🤣
@brandon2893
@brandon2893 11 ай бұрын
As a man I can certainly see myself in some of DJ's actions. A lack of respect for boundaries is certainly the road the distance in relationship, selfishness is the root of these issues. If you can't see things from your partners perspective, it will be a devastating outcome.
@cherylriley8
@cherylriley8 11 ай бұрын
I pulled a muscle in my side laughing at Laterras when he calmly said, "Tell me how you have whore etiquette." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 11 ай бұрын
You caught that? Lol
@kristinesmith1665
@kristinesmith1665 11 ай бұрын
I had to go back and listen again. I think it went over Derrick's head. Derrick threw a few jabs on about the name DFW being coined by him and jab at the first two counseling sessions he had with Da'Naia. Interesting how he glossed over trying to be a good man by being a provider, being there for the baby etc knowing their primary issue was of him cheating to begin with. Yes, she may have had trauma, but he really never addressed how he would "will" himself to not cheat on her. I guess it may come out in part 2.
@Msnee2022
@Msnee2022 11 ай бұрын
lol… he’s taking notes! Low key wants to know DJ playa playbook.
@ellechance2344
@ellechance2344 11 ай бұрын
46:30. I had to HUNT for this comment to add the time stamp. 😂
@shernellecyrus5133
@shernellecyrus5133 11 ай бұрын
Lollll😂 this made me lol
@TriniYenJen
@TriniYenJen 11 ай бұрын
Mr Laterras, I applaud you for allowing both parties involved to give their visions. Not only about how they felt but how they received it and responded. This gives us an incite on how both men and women can have the same experiences, but it can manifest differently . Can't wait till part 2 🎉
@raeofsunshyne
@raeofsunshyne 11 ай бұрын
Right, I'm excited for part 2 as well. Great interview!
@asantesana5689
@asantesana5689 11 ай бұрын
Ladies never ever reveal that you were assaulted to a future Husband and thank me later.Your secrets will be used against you.Imagine 2 men discussing a woman's assault,that is her story for her to tell not their story🤮
@dimplez79
@dimplez79 Күн бұрын
True story. Happened to me 😢
@theodosad.3135
@theodosad.3135 11 ай бұрын
The power of discernment. We must take our time and wait and watch.
@deedeedunigan3274
@deedeedunigan3274 11 ай бұрын
He's the tallest red flag that I've ever seen. He's dangerous.
@ibiminaabiye257
@ibiminaabiye257 11 ай бұрын
Hehehehe
@rosezetermcclain6560
@rosezetermcclain6560 11 ай бұрын
He’s very good at what he does and he knows that. I don’t believe a word.
@Sjbjo
@Sjbjo 11 ай бұрын
Don’t listen then
@jessicachanae9977
@jessicachanae9977 11 ай бұрын
lol
@rosezetermcclain6560
@rosezetermcclain6560 11 ай бұрын
@@Sjbjo oooohhhh 🤣🤣
@Sjbjo
@Sjbjo 11 ай бұрын
Yeah@@rosezetermcclain6560
@melissaleiba7505
@melissaleiba7505 11 ай бұрын
Wow you have me crying at this last portion of your video about the adoption. Omg. Wow. The love between you all radiates. Gosh. What a beautiful soul you have.
@AmberMellon
@AmberMellon 11 ай бұрын
Love the honesty here 💚💚💚 great conversation on seeing men who have been abandoned and rejected in childhood deal with relationships if they aren’t healed 🔥🔥🔥
@poobycollins
@poobycollins 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for allowing everyone the opportunity to present their perspective.
@876tisha
@876tisha 11 ай бұрын
Listening to both parties show how important it is for people to heal before marrying. Marrying is a commitment and vow before God. We take it so lightly and treat like boyfriend and girlfriend. I am 34 and not married and I am working through my trauma because I don’t want my marriage to pay the price. Myles Munroe said a lot of people are broken up not because they don’t love each other but because they lack knowledge to make the relationship work. These two broken individuals got together requiring each one of them to be responsible for each others healing. 😢😢😢. I hope they both truly face themselves and heal and so in the future can they can properly love someone because they have mastered how to love themselves. 😊
@BriaBarrows
@BriaBarrows 11 ай бұрын
Facts. Marriage is definitely not easy.
@returnofthemack8347
@returnofthemack8347 11 ай бұрын
If I were danaia I would never interview with this man again. He threw danaia under the bus (light skinned dark skinned kids) after acting like he wanted to make her look her best. I don’t know if he meant to or not but he did.. and he also allowed this man to recklessly divulge personal information about his wife’s violation; even in the interview with her he was just out of line; very distasteful. “We’ll SHEEEEE said… well SHEEEEE said.” I don’t trust either of these men.
@nala2736
@nala2736 11 ай бұрын
This is insane that you "interviewed" him, especially after talking to Da'Naia. She said she nearly DIED because of the stress HE caused her and you're asking him how he feels?? And saying it's only fair for him to tell his story?? And you're over here nodding like a bobblehead because he's saying some cliches and laughing at his dumb jokes. Both of y'all are sick. He literally lied and cheated on 11 women including his wife and he's saying "I dont need everyone to like me". AND WHO CARES IF HE HAD A SINGLE MOM. That's no excuse for his disgusting actions.
@londonqueen6210
@londonqueen6210 11 ай бұрын
Him coming on this show…. The only platform his wife has really been on says how narcissistic he is.
@winniejean-pierre9605
@winniejean-pierre9605 11 ай бұрын
I’m Only here for my man Laterras! I knew he’s going to ask all the tough questions.
@niemasaunders7669
@niemasaunders7669 11 ай бұрын
Me too
@tyannforde2570
@tyannforde2570 11 ай бұрын
😂
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey 11 ай бұрын
@winniejean-pierre9605 - Let me know what you think
@tyannforde2570
@tyannforde2570 11 ай бұрын
He use to even look like he had a glow even telling those lies,now he doesn't even have a glow just looks dull,like lights out🥱
@sarcasm176
@sarcasm176 11 ай бұрын
100%
@yannadeee
@yannadeee 11 ай бұрын
He reminds me of my soon-to-be ex husband. My blood crawls at his audacity to come to this interview to make himself look good. I had similar experiences like Da'Naia in my marriage and I am so happy to see her overcome and gain her voice. God bless her! To Mr. Derrick, I pray that God truly changes your heart but I will not be completing this interview.
@heirtotheking5832
@heirtotheking5832 11 ай бұрын
Hearing his side of the story helps me to understand that their experience is fairly typical in off/on relationships. Most of us don't know that this is toxic and makes us incompatible and incapable of sustaining this type of relationship. Especially when dealing with traumas we don't know are traumas at such a young age. It's unfortunate that their story played out in the public eye. I pray solace over them both as they are divorcing. 🙏🏾
@essbenita
@essbenita 11 ай бұрын
Derek is jamaican.. man a gyaliss everything makes sense now 😂
@CookWithStephh
@CookWithStephh 11 ай бұрын
Trust me !!! Lol
@laboursoflove6823
@laboursoflove6823 11 ай бұрын
1. He without sin cast the first stone. 2. He told everyone exactly who he was without telling everyone who he was! Everything he spoke about was from his own experiences. He didn’t disclose he was living lies, but he did say what not to fall for. Experience makes the best teacher. 3. Valuable lessons learned for all willing to learn. Their life their story, the worlds opinion. Grace given for all!! ❤
@mishia3
@mishia3 11 ай бұрын
Amen sister ❤
@ellechance2344
@ellechance2344 11 ай бұрын
Well said! I have (on the front end) and expect to have (on the tail end) this same conclusion.
@doublecuppin20
@doublecuppin20 11 ай бұрын
I Disagree, some things are worse than others. 1 not only did he lie but he did it on scale with millions of followers. Media is a powerful tool 2 the devil will not likely present himself with red horns but disguised as everything a person lusts after.
@2020sweelew
@2020sweelew 11 ай бұрын
AMEN! All the other comments are null and void🤦🏽‍♀️
@TM-se5jf
@TM-se5jf 11 ай бұрын
He fake !
@freethought1953
@freethought1953 3 ай бұрын
I LOVED this interview! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Awesome, extremely engaging, interesting, very telling, depth-oriented, vulnerable, and high in substance. Listen...we've ALL made mistakes...TRUST...even the most convincing liars pay a price. Let GOD be the judge, for he is the ONLY one whose lens is not flawed. We've ALL had to come back from something...most of us are just afforded the ability to struggle to recover privately. This interview, in my opinion, was both brave and bold. The interviewer asked the tough and pertinent questions, and the interviewee answered. Now...On to the second segment of conversation.
@WhoIsTheeMeister
@WhoIsTheeMeister 11 ай бұрын
It ‘twas 5 seconds beyond the hour when Derrick Jaxn said in his head: GOT EM! 1:00:00 Derrick in his head responding defending himself : why would I lie? You can see it in his facial expressions. This man ly👏🏾ING👏🏾
@Natashablessed320
@Natashablessed320 11 ай бұрын
Fr Fr I caught that too. He looked off for a sec
@mjones9714
@mjones9714 11 ай бұрын
Promo for their new book and master class on how they got back together and "made love work" 🤣
@encouragingthesaints
@encouragingthesaints 11 ай бұрын
😭😆🙃
@chantelwilson-ings8402
@chantelwilson-ings8402 11 ай бұрын
Lmbo
@ommiohmy
@ommiohmy 11 ай бұрын
Yep! Exactly!! 😂😂
@cherylpgh9155
@cherylpgh9155 11 ай бұрын
”Narcissism on a budget 101: How to look smooth, apologetic, and sincere while maintaining a ratchet lifestyle” Live seminars available for only $700!
@tecoranoble9939
@tecoranoble9939 11 ай бұрын
This brother is smart! Let the gullible eat it up. But I’m watching and minding my business 😂
@maguiedossantos2925
@maguiedossantos2925 11 ай бұрын
😂😂💯💯
@annie_sayss
@annie_sayss 11 ай бұрын
Right😂
@sistrenyogigal3813
@sistrenyogigal3813 11 ай бұрын
Right they both con artist lol 😂
@unapologetic1413
@unapologetic1413 11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I read comments where the women are clearly gullible! I see why some men see a lot of women as naive and use them up accordingly!
@doriembombo
@doriembombo 11 ай бұрын
The women in the comments definitely ate his words up. They’re even praying for him. This y men get away with so much. Too many man worship bimbos in this world.
@funkneetube
@funkneetube 11 ай бұрын
It’s soooo funny how people throw stones at him… as I look back over my life, I have no stones to throw. Love and light to him
@thyrajoseph2720
@thyrajoseph2720 7 ай бұрын
Laterras, I'm proud of you for doing this interview! You did a great job!❤❤
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