Do I have to use they/them pronouns?

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adesso.laurenzo

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Do I have to use they/them pronouns?
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@djrinard6395
@djrinard6395 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! I fall under the non-binary umbrella, and I use he/them pronouns (he/him or they/them). Your videos have helped me so much! ❤❤❤
@Jester_Circus
@Jester_Circus 3 жыл бұрын
I'm also non-binary and told my mum I am going to start using they/them pronouns and she was understanding... Still haven't told dad though-
@moonlitmoss_
@moonlitmoss_ 3 жыл бұрын
i found you from instagram and you are so so amazing. i'm also nonbinary and I haven't really seen another nonbinary person on here, theyre so hard to find. thank you so much, your videos are extremley extreemley helpful
@yesmynameisacorn3904
@yesmynameisacorn3904 3 жыл бұрын
Hi kai
@moonlitmoss_
@moonlitmoss_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@yesmynameisacorn3904 hi :0
@HQLau
@HQLau 3 жыл бұрын
I have a dumb question but since non binary people don’t have to use they/them, does that mean cis people and binary people can use they/them?
@beatriz7629
@beatriz7629 3 жыл бұрын
your pronouns doesn't define your gender, so yeah
@ellie7115
@ellie7115 3 жыл бұрын
yeah! i’m a cis girl and i use they/them pronouns!
@reallytired27
@reallytired27 3 жыл бұрын
i love neopronouns tbh they seem cool
@elsagordon3073
@elsagordon3073 3 жыл бұрын
Laurenzo makes my day!!😁❤️
@arerally
@arerally 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! Thanks for your help!!!❤️
@navailhaider7930
@navailhaider7930 3 жыл бұрын
This is so, SO helpful. Thank you Laurenzo!
@SPECIALNINJACASSA
@SPECIALNINJACASSA 3 жыл бұрын
I want to support and respect people who use neoprounons, how do I make sure that it's grammatically correct
@SPECIALNINJACASSA
@SPECIALNINJACASSA 3 жыл бұрын
@-Avery- yes I did mean grammatically sorry about that and thank you for your help
@quakkattack6537
@quakkattack6537 3 жыл бұрын
If you still need to know this website has a few of them wou.edu/wp/safezone/pronouns/
@TheNitpickChick
@TheNitpickChick 3 жыл бұрын
A couple websites that have helped me are “Practice with Pronouns” and the “Pronoun Dressing Room.” You can pick a pronoun set from the lists they have, or you can fill the pronouns in manually. I’ve found them to be super helpful in putting neopronouns in grammatical context. 😊 Here’s Practice with Pronouns www.practicewithpronouns.com/ And here’s the pronoun dressing room www.pronouns.failedslacker.com/
@alexmichelle.44
@alexmichelle.44 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much!! i knew this already, but it’s amazing to see it spreading for awareness. i’m non binary, yet i use he/him pronouns.. this video made me very happy. keep up the good work and i love your videos
@Abigail-po1wd
@Abigail-po1wd 3 жыл бұрын
So this might be kinda dumb to ask but can i be genderfluid and nonbinary? I wear masculine clothes someday and more feminine clothes on others and androgens styles and I want a binder. Also I use they/them pronouns. But would or could I also be considered nonbinary?
@TheNitpickChick
@TheNitpickChick 3 жыл бұрын
I know this comment is old, but to answer your question, yes absolutely you can identify/be considered both gender fluid and nonbinary! 😊 Nonbinary is generally considered an umbrella term for anyone who does not fit into the binary of man or woman. Some people use nonbinary as their only gender label while some use a more specific label under the nonbinary umbrella, such as gender fluid. So, yes, if you identify as gender fluid you can absolutely also identify as nonbinary, and vice versa. ☺️
@avocadochipped
@avocadochipped Жыл бұрын
such a great teacher
@sisi7304
@sisi7304 3 жыл бұрын
I think the 75% who use only he/him or she/her (basically the binary pronouns) are cis lesbians, gays, bisexuals, pansexuals, aspec people, etc, etc (basically cis not straight people) or are binary trans people, if you surveyed just non-binary people, it will show different (more accurate imo) results. There are so many people who use she/they, he/they, he/they/she (like me), or other combinations within the non-binary community, but there are also those who use just she/her or just he/him or just they/them, and there's plenty of people who use a whole range of neo pronouns (or just one set of neo pronouns)
@insertnamewithmaybepunhere8235
@insertnamewithmaybepunhere8235 3 жыл бұрын
i go by all, but please use e/ey to someone who doesnt know me,
@fleurdeliet2490
@fleurdeliet2490 Жыл бұрын
For other languages they them can be not as natural as in English. I'm using Czech and Russian more often than English. In those languages it's more comfortable to me to use both she/her and he/him, when in English it's ok for me to use she/he/they. Just wanted to mention that languages are also different and it depends on your language also
@blindvenus6972
@blindvenus6972 3 жыл бұрын
I love them so much ❤❤
@TheRobinSystem
@TheRobinSystem 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, thank you for this video. I’ve been trying to get my sister to use they/them but I think she’s doing it on purpose. What do I do?
@avidagamegerl1081
@avidagamegerl1081 3 жыл бұрын
Would you mind if you provide some context with this comment please? Thanks~
@Salt_Master_Queue
@Salt_Master_Queue Жыл бұрын
I am Non Binary, and I use he/him and they/them pronouns.
@hitoshishinsou7515
@hitoshishinsou7515 3 жыл бұрын
How do i get a binder without having my family know? My family is pretty homophobic and i cant get one.
@ajtaylor7905
@ajtaylor7905 3 жыл бұрын
There are some places that give them away for just this purpose! You can look those up but they're usually lottery based. If you have a bank account and $30 you can buy one online and have it sent to a friends house. If you don't have a bank account have a supportive adult buy it then pay them back with cash. There is another option which is lie to your parents about what a binder is and have them buy it. For this you'll need to find a page (probably on Amazon not gc2b or any reputable websites) that has a binder listed without saying what it's for or having "tomboy, lesbian, transgender" which are things Amazon puts in binder titles, in the title. Then tell your parents that it's shapewear like spanx and that you're trying to be more feminine. Then be a good liar I guess.
@ajtaylor7905
@ajtaylor7905 3 жыл бұрын
Also don't ship it to your house if your parents don't know. Ship it to a friends house.
@hitoshishinsou7515
@hitoshishinsou7515 3 жыл бұрын
AJ Taylor Thank you, i will take both into consideration, but seeing as its hard to lie to my parents about that for reasons..but i will try. Again, thank you very much
@hitoshishinsou7515
@hitoshishinsou7515 3 жыл бұрын
adesso.laurenzo I have...and I will try those options but it probably wont work. I was kind of forced out of the closet because my mom went through my phone, she read all of my texts, and went through everything else. She says she accepts me but makes no effort to try im going to use the options i have, but i wont be able to get one until im older
@NatureLover-pj2qe
@NatureLover-pj2qe 3 жыл бұрын
Same. I’m non-binary and I really want a binder but my parents are transphobic.
@charliebaker966
@charliebaker966 3 жыл бұрын
how do i get my friends and family to use they them pronouns everyone is using my old name first
@kirstenblackwell9915
@kirstenblackwell9915 3 жыл бұрын
What’s the most annoying experience you’ve had with an LGBT-phobic person?
@AlxBot
@AlxBot 2 жыл бұрын
i dont know what i am
@eanimali3301
@eanimali3301 3 жыл бұрын
I was wondering if fae/faer is neopronuns bc my friend uses them I’ve never know what it is actually called-
@ellie7115
@ellie7115 3 жыл бұрын
it is neopronouns!
@eanimali3301
@eanimali3301 3 жыл бұрын
elizabeth !! Thanks!
@lanie5759
@lanie5759 3 жыл бұрын
yes it is a neopronoun! its actually the pronouns that i use myself. and its nice to see that there are others too
@eanimali3301
@eanimali3301 3 жыл бұрын
@@lanie5759 when you ask something ages ago then end up using them your self (I use Xey/Xem)
@lanie5759
@lanie5759 3 жыл бұрын
@@eanimali3301 aw im glad you found pronouns that work !! mean while i have a horrible bout of doubt on whether or not i should be using neopronouns. especially with the controversy around fae/faer pronouns:/
@-.-._---_--_._-
@-.-._---_--_._- 3 жыл бұрын
Short answer: no
@ugh-ugly
@ugh-ugly 3 жыл бұрын
I think I like Xe/Xer
@kitkatmelon
@kitkatmelon 2 жыл бұрын
But what if your language has a male and female version of they
@judasiscariot561
@judasiscariot561 3 жыл бұрын
hi i just want to know if i can use they/them pronouns even if i am a cis female?
@Chelaysiahsaturn
@Chelaysiahsaturn 3 жыл бұрын
Yes ofcourse.you can whatever.mAkes.you feel comfortable
@judasiscariot561
@judasiscariot561 3 жыл бұрын
thank u :))
@ellie7115
@ellie7115 3 жыл бұрын
i use the exact same pronouns and i’m a cis girl aswell.
@bquillaguyd2940
@bquillaguyd2940 3 ай бұрын
Simple answer: Absolutely not.
@loolataro1916
@loolataro1916 3 жыл бұрын
Hey I was just wondering if using she/them pronouns is a thing that happens and something I can do Also could anyone help me understand a bit more she/they I mean so disrespect I just need some education
@MeiMei06150
@MeiMei06150 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah using she/them pronouns is a thing
@loolataro1916
@loolataro1916 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeiMei06150 thanks I think I might want to use them
@noefarid1591
@noefarid1591 3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry I respect your pronouns
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