Good luck!

Yay!! You're so welcome

@@adesso.laurenzo I’m trying to figure out what binder to get. What binder do you use?

I want to get a binder but I’m to terrified to ask

@@imaconfusedqueer82 same ;-;

Same here

Im out but my mum wont let me bind

Me too- 😕

same :(

Me too I want one so bad but I’m scared to come out :/

ikr, it sucks basically being given a body that’s like... why? im ace and i get ovulation pain (aka fertility). i hope you look fully male one day :))

@@andii- thanks for the kind comment!

@@alextheguy4253 np :)

It happened the same to me with a friend lol

Yeah today we were running in athletics and we also don’t have lockers cause corona, I was wearing two and I couldn’t breathe for an hour after that so yeah, take it seriously lol

Could you go to the toilet like before and after maybe? Because you might get unconscious if your lungs are not functioning properly:( I can understand you but you need to watch out for your health:(

@@noahuulu I’ve stopped binding on school days but I probably should’ve thought of that, I think it was just that maybe if people saw me running from the bathroom with a handful of bras it could’ve outed me or something, either way it was dumb and uh don’t do it

@@clawsproductions582 I can totally understand that, I'm not exactly in that situation but I can imagine it. The thing is I can't really wear bras at all and sometimes if my chest does bother me or when I need to change with my friends in one room I'm really debating whether to put one on or not and its horrible. That combined with dysphoria must be awful...

Whats binding again?

please be careful, over wearing a binder can lower your chances of getting top

Xx TokyoKillerYT xX I know, I’m a bad example but I’m really trying to remember it more, the binder will probably also last a longer period of time if I wear it less hours each day. The best thing is to just take it off as soon as you get home from work/school (PSA DONT BE LIKE ME. LETS GET BETTER AT THIS TOGETHER AND STAY HEALTHY YALL)

Ugh executive dysfunction is the absolute worst and I hate it (ADHDer with a potential mild case of autism) My advice is to change into your pyjamas, or at least take it off and put on a sports bra, before you flop into bed. Don't let yourself get into bed until you have it off, even if you need to just chill on the floor or on a chair or something. I find it works super well for me, but everyone's different. Hope this helps!

@@fjakjcwjcjjwjcch Yeah that's really good advice! Executive dysfunction sucks ´-`

Be safe pls

We bought a sports bra and its making my chest flat this is so cool

@@madds14 be careful

@@madds14 if you need someone to talk to I'm here. I have instagram account to help the community. put.your.flag.up so dm me there if you need help

Congrats :D

@@adesso.laurenzo Thank you!

@@skyw3419 There's no response? I don't see it, anyways Could you help, please? Because I'm having the same issue as you did Thank you ❤️

@@radioactivepower600nanaspersec I recently came out, so I can help you out if you need it

@@skyw3419 Please do, I don't know how I could ever explain to my parents about what nonbinary is, that it actually exists (and it's not something I suddently had the thought of inventing it outta nowhere, or that its a phase) I'm actually looking for maybe a documentary, or something we could watch together that may explain it to them (the more official, the better) I know about other cultures that have a "third gender", but they may brush it off without even looking at the evidence So yeah, basically I'm very scared and nervious, so please, if you can, help, I'd appreciate it very much

@@radioactivepower600nanaspersec Well, you might wanna try just casually bringing it up first. I did that and my dad seemed a little confused, but once I explained better he kinda got it. I don't really know of many documentaries or shows that have non binary in them. I know Love,Victor does, but it's very brief. Do you at least know whether or not your parents are homophobic or transphobic?

There is an website that is international and for the school problem take a sports bra. After the 8 hours, you can change in the bathroom

Spectrum Outfitters is a UK based company - still expensive but less Tax

Ik I'm like 3 years late, but here's my advice: Get a binder with a zipper (!!IN THE MIDDLE!! binders with zippers on the sides are actually very risky because they don't offer balanced compression and they can be very harmful for your ribcage, lungs, and yout skin tissue!) There are sites that sell binders (assuming you're out to your parents or legal guardians) but I wasn't so I was trying to make diy binders !!DON'T DO THAT EITHER!! while some do work i) if you have a large chest size they don't really bind ii) some can be damaging for the same reasons as binders with side zippers! [I will link the site when I find it again so whoever wants to can buy a binder from there!] If you aren't out and/or your family is transphobic here are some tips I've used/seen other people use: i) if you cosplay say that you want to cosplay as a male character and want to make it believable ii) Go to a trusted adult who is supportive and ask for one iii) If you have a trans masc or nb friend with supportive parents ask for one and offer to give the money back to them (this way you don't come off as rude and you technically are the one using your own money) iv) if you have a friend or significant other who has supportive family members ask for one (again offer to pay) [this is what I did] !REMINDER! >DON'T bind for more then 8 hours >Make sure the binder is the right size for you >Check what materials it's made of to avoid skin rashes >NEVER buy a binder smaller then your size!! This can cause tearing of the skin tissue and with dyspmorph your ribcage!! >Don't forget to stay hydrated, especially while binding during the summer months >NEVER exercise in your binder >NEVER sleep in your binder >Do stretches while taking binder breaks! I cannot stress this enough! Your chest is not the only thing being compressed! Your muscles, bones, and internal organs are too! Take care of yourselves guys, and stay safe out there! ×Your big brother

I messaged her and explained that I was really uncomfortable and it would really help my mental health , and she said she didn’t want to cause it’s too dangerous, so I said we could do it under medical advice and booked a doctors appointment. ( it’s on Friday 😆😆 ) but yeah, just message her and explain abt ur mental health

@@joshnolan1651 ok thank you for the advice! Also good luck with your doctor's appointment! Hope you get your binder

@@littlewriterboy of course!! Let me know how it goes 🙃 ( thankyouuu )

I would say I don't want to identify with either gender, I don't identify with either gender. And talk to them maybe try to find some celebrities or people they may know who identify the same way. I hope this helps

It depends if they are accepting or not

Binder* not under lol

Having a cough after you take your binder is fine your supposed to cough after you take your binder off anyways to help your body breathe again so I wouldn't worry too much okay

WolfePancake thanks so much

@@madds14 if you wear your binder daily, it’s likely that your ribs is sore from the binding and will need a break from it to recover, if it still hurts for Continuing days like a week then you might need to see a doctor, but make sure the pain is completely gone before putting your binder back on just in case, and to prevent further damage if already done so, if you are very dysphoric from your chest then you can wear sports bras if you have any to help but make sure it's not too tight okay? be safe and listen to your body at most.

how- what- “While studies have shown that most people who bind will experience at least one negative physical symptom, such as pain, shortness of breath, or skin infections (19,20), no studies have attributed breast cancer to binding.” (copy and paste)

Avocodaaaaaaa

Same

It's so important to bind safely. If it makes you uncomfortable or if you're in any pain, take it off. The dysporia is, unfortunately, better than back problems later in life. It would be best to go a size up and to only bind for up to 8 hours, taking days off. Don't sleep with it on either. Please don't ignore it, as binding can be done without pain if done correctly

that sounds interesting af ngl

Just saying, there's more than one type of attraction, you should look it up, so no worries :D

Maybe you are bisexual ;) The most important thing is not to press yourself too hard, you'll figure it out, and if you don't, that's also fine! Stay safe 💚

I'm late but what do you want help with and I'll try and help as best as I can

@@thengspjo4716 no you are not it's fine! I don't know where in the internet I find it

A binder is a piece of fabric that compresses your chest to make it look smaller or flatter

You could make your own flag, and try to find a website that doesn't say that the product is a binder and say it's a sports bra!

DON'T COME OUT TO HOMOPHOBIC PEOPLE!

Erica Wilson ohh thank you

sounds like agender

I think your gender is agender! Agender is having no gender and it falls down under the Nonbinary umbrella :D

@@Lara-dr8is I actually figured out I'm gender fluid

@@littlemayhaps905 I found out I'm gender fluid

@@xxkrystynexx5819 I'm so happy for you! Have a great day! :D

It isn’t about being gay tho…?