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Looking at life with Dee

Looking at life with Dee

5 ай бұрын

A second visit to this subject.
A ploy, a strategy that, with patience and supported by positive self-talk and a reward for good measure, can help with making changes.
#changestartwithyou #makingchanges #fakingit

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@user-ze6bn1rk3f
@user-ze6bn1rk3f Ай бұрын
Do you realise how strong you are? Do you realise how much you are helpimg others by just beimg yourself? You are such a precious soul, you have no idea of your beauty and light. You are a light house. ✨ Just be, you are loved 💚
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for you comment. I really appreciate it as I do my best! D
@Richmond_Hill
@Richmond_Hill Ай бұрын
@@Cheshirelass You are beautiful and shine light in so many lives. From the comments online, it is easy to see your positive impact and that you are held in the highest esteem. No wonder you have so many followers. God bless you in every way. Prayers from Canada 🙏🇨🇦
@sirpat22
@sirpat22 Ай бұрын
Dee you are an inspiration and you ARE that young lass still ....she shines forth from your eyes...age and looks are not the measure...the spirit is....the anxiety is a fear/worry imaginary future based thing...stay in the gift of now...thats why its called the present...tunzaluv to thee
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
@@sirpat22 Thank you for your kind words. D
@learnbyheart7
@learnbyheart7 Ай бұрын
Agreed! Amazing strength and encouragement for us all. Thank you.
@beautifful9514
@beautifful9514 4 күн бұрын
A lot of us is finding this video in June of 2024. I'm also grateful to be brought here too.❤☺️
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 4 күн бұрын
So glad that you found us! D
@mikedenham5882
@mikedenham5882 Ай бұрын
At 72 years I’m finding out that I’m on my own,no wife,never will be again,kids grown,don’t care about me just their lives and families. I’m having to be ok with being alone and learning to be my best friend.
@farah4185
@farah4185 Ай бұрын
Ur Never alone god is always w u
@jolynngood2746
@jolynngood2746 Ай бұрын
I am 72, never married, no children. It is the life I chose. I knew my declining years would be alone. I just did not realize how alone I would be. Sometimes the loneliness gets a little overwhelming but I soldier on. I refuse to give up.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Being on your own has its pluses too, but you do have to be kind to yourself. May I ask - do you have a pet? I love having my cat around - and he's a good listener! I would love you to join us on our video walks out at lovely places - with me chatting away. It would be so good to have your company. Take care. D
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
@@cathycollins9011 Cathy, that is so sad - are there no clubs or happenings for older folk that you could join? Please do keep joining us on here - especially on our walks in lovely places. It would be good to have you come along too. Please do.. D
@laetitialogan2017
@laetitialogan2017 Ай бұрын
​@@cathycollins9011its a bittrr pill....my siblings totally abandoned our Mother also....very harsh to witness....try if possible to get out to meet new faces...❤❤ from Ireland
@Life_Love_and_a_Lens
@Life_Love_and_a_Lens Ай бұрын
A lot of us finding this video in May of 2024 ❤ im grateful to be brought here
@claudiacarvalho2773
@claudiacarvalho2773 Ай бұрын
Me❤
@vivienlee610
@vivienlee610 Ай бұрын
Me too.
@julietk-no8pv
@julietk-no8pv 18 күн бұрын
Here in June 2024
@lm9753
@lm9753 11 күн бұрын
Me, too! Greetings from California!
@user-bl4kj6gv9v
@user-bl4kj6gv9v 11 күн бұрын
תודה לך החוכמה החיוניות ואהבת האדם. את השראה
@nancylafountain1644
@nancylafountain1644 Ай бұрын
You are a flower in the garden of humanity. Beautiful and fresh. Thank you for sharing. I think you’re doing a great service for me and others.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you D
@beatricev2012
@beatricev2012 17 күн бұрын
I suffer from depression I'm 59, and there is no family . Or friends. It's so hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
@Rorybabii777
@Rorybabii777 17 күн бұрын
I'm 36 i suffer from Generalized anxiety disorder and major depression. It's so hard to get through without family or friends "support system" very lonely sometimes:(
@RaffsBooks
@RaffsBooks 17 күн бұрын
Stay strong and try to look for the things that you can be thankful and happy about in life...no matter how small they are. Take care and believe in yourself, everything will get better🫶
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 16 күн бұрын
Do join us on our video walks out in nature. This was my main reason for starting my channel - to help people on their own. It sort of grew from there. I go to lots of different places (check out the playlists) and chat as if people are there with me. That way I don't feel alone either. It would be great if you could come along with us. Take care. D
@silviacristina6680
@silviacristina6680 3 күн бұрын
Please, all of you , you are not alone,❤ 😊!!!!
@sabelg.9398
@sabelg.9398 Ай бұрын
you make me feel better. it''s like I have my grandma again.
@BoobooKikiASMR
@BoobooKikiASMR 17 күн бұрын
Yes I got that feeling as well even though personalities so different. A real presence.
@suz3372
@suz3372 9 күн бұрын
I feel the same way
@caradomingo2813
@caradomingo2813 20 сағат бұрын
Me, too. I lost my grandma last March. And since May, I’m going through a breakup from a long-term relationship 😔 Thank you for this!
@PamelaSmullen-du7mx
@PamelaSmullen-du7mx Ай бұрын
Being able to share your feelings with us just shows how strong and wonderful human being you are.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thnk you so much. D
@user-ne6nk4vd7w
@user-ne6nk4vd7w Ай бұрын
You are such a tonic, thanks Dee x
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
@@user-ne6nk4vd7w Thank you - D
@krystal1111
@krystal1111 8 күн бұрын
@Cheshirelass you are amazing, such a strong, lovely lady. I just wanted to say have you had your b12 levels checked lately as you could be anaemic, a lot of us older ladies suffer from this. Check out symptoms of a b12 deficiency as they definitely cause anxiety, low mood, feeling ‘can’t be bothered’. In the meantime keep on doing what you are doing 😊
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 8 күн бұрын
@@krystal1111 will be checked in August. Thanks for caring. D
@kittyjenkins6750
@kittyjenkins6750 Ай бұрын
Oh my goodness you sweetheart. I hope you are feeling better now (May 2024) What a treat to listen to a wise and gentle soul. I hope you realise, Dee, what a beacon you are, especially to those of us without Mothers and Grandmothers you fill a little void with your lovely messages. Bless you.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you so much - I am back to fine thanks. I do have dips, but know I get through them and keep reminding myself too which helps. D
@Storm545
@Storm545 Ай бұрын
@joanlogan7416
@joanlogan7416 Ай бұрын
God Bless a precious gift to us💕💕
@rodrigues1892
@rodrigues1892 Ай бұрын
@julieanna8495
@julieanna8495 Ай бұрын
Yes. I claim her as my Mother also.❤️🥰🙌😁. Even though she is not much older than myself, she has that innate Motherly way about her. The Mother some of us never had-one that would smile when they saw you, give hugs or say a word of encouragement. I broke that cycle in my own family. My grown Sons always knew each of them was my favorite 💕❤️😂, and I loved them unconditionally. They rewarded me with academic scholarships to state universities, and then degrees from them. Now two of them are married. One left to go.💪🏼. But each knows they are precious. ❤️
@LorraineYork
@LorraineYork Ай бұрын
You are so honest…Ha ha I have been faking it all my life, every job, being a wife motherhood and now faking how happy I am to be alone…I don’t have butterflies in my stomach, I have elephants… you are a bright spot in my life, thank you…
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thanks to you - and your elephants! D
@pondarosalife7790
@pondarosalife7790 Ай бұрын
“I don’t have butterflies” elephants, oh how I understand.
@jeanlilley4149
@jeanlilley4149 Ай бұрын
I’m 76 and I have a little dog. I keep saying I’ll walk her everyday. But only manage about 3 times a week. You’ve encouraged me to go everyday. God bless you xxx your a lovely lady xx
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Whatever is best for you - and your furry friend of course. D
@SIERRATREES
@SIERRATREES Ай бұрын
I'm alone with no kids, but find it can work pretty well with some key elements; ,spirituality, a few acquaintances and friends, learning, and keeping an open mind to try new things. I went to a lecture last weekend that rocked my world in an exciting way. My best wishes to you and your little dog. Best wishes and much happiness to you...
@DisappointingPrawn
@DisappointingPrawn 11 күн бұрын
3 times a week is more than many dogs get in a lifetime! Walking your dog 3 times a week is an accomplishment. You’re doing a wonderful job
@Godisfirst21
@Godisfirst21 Ай бұрын
You have inspired me to make a move now...at 51. I've been frozen long enough. You are beautiful, inside and out. Make yourself go outside every day for 30 minutes. Take vitamin B12, Vitamin A and D3. Best quality you can get.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Well done - I hope you are proud of yourself. D
@SIERRATREES
@SIERRATREES Ай бұрын
What a lovely inspiration youve written here. Thnk you !
@candyneal7077
@candyneal7077 18 күн бұрын
Dealing with grief over the loss of my son. Faking it til I make it every day. Thank you for the encouragement. ❤
@ramoncotton
@ramoncotton 17 күн бұрын
I felt that 🙏
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 17 күн бұрын
Take care - do check out an erlier piece on grief - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rqpgisadt8zecac.html D
@julieellis6793
@julieellis6793 11 күн бұрын
May God comfort you
@mapleext
@mapleext 5 күн бұрын
So very sorry for your loss. It must be overwhelming. Thanks for sharing - sending a hug.
@candyneal7077
@candyneal7077 4 күн бұрын
@@mapleext thank you 💜
@31Alden
@31Alden Ай бұрын
You are a beacon of light and inspiration!
@gllougreig9236
@gllougreig9236 14 күн бұрын
My adult kids are busy too. For me I make up stuff to do everyday. Picked wild grapes,resale shopping, picked up a house plant, dye my comforter different color and so on. Then there are days I just bake brownies and eat the whole thing and not much else that day
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 14 күн бұрын
We develop our coping mechanisms - but don't eat too many brownies! Take care. D
@meganbrogden1171
@meganbrogden1171 Ай бұрын
You put what we all go through into words. Making yourself do things,when you don’t feel like it,is very hard. Sometimes,I have to block what my brain is saying and just start walking.You are inspiring us all. ❤keep up the great work!
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
thank you. D
@donnarinelli
@donnarinelli 20 күн бұрын
Yes, I believe on days when we dont want to get out of bed. From the first time our feet hit the floor, faking starts, but then you find it was the best thing for us.
@christinerichardson673
@christinerichardson673 16 күн бұрын
She feel my void for having old wise aunts and grannies I don’t have anymore such good advice
@cathypreddie98
@cathypreddie98 13 күн бұрын
It’s so sad that after raising and caring for a family life ends in loneliness a lot of times. Not right. It can get hard. Try and stay active and close to nature. You are wonderful ❤
@suegalletly8262
@suegalletly8262 Ай бұрын
Never let the devil steal your joy, peace, and happiness. Children of God can do all things in his strength. We are reminded by Jesus, " Let not your hearts be troubled" and " Peace I leave with you, not as the world giveth" in John 14:1 and 27. And do not be anxious in Luke 12:22-31 ~ You are very much loved ❤😊 ~~~
@c007zy
@c007zy Ай бұрын
Amen sister 🙏
@callycat6660
@callycat6660 29 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@fayemissy1
@fayemissy1 Ай бұрын
Thanks. Im 63 and i make sure i push myself to go out every day.
@whiskeyfoxtrotnovember8888
@whiskeyfoxtrotnovember8888 24 күн бұрын
Thank you for your words, Lady! I'm very glad hearing that... 🙂
@nadiaarbouz94
@nadiaarbouz94 Ай бұрын
Do not resist anxiety or try to get rid of it. Resisting it makes it worse. Meditate and face it by feeling exactly how it feels in the body and where. Invite it and look at it/ feel it with precision and you’ll see that it would disappear. It’s asking to be fully seen and felt and magic happens afterwards. It’s hard, but with practice it gets easier to meet it and transcend it. I wish you the best, you’re a beautiful soul.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Absolutely. D
@as_the_turntables
@as_the_turntables Ай бұрын
I will "make it until i fake it". Thank you for this video!
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
There's alwaays one isn't there!!? D
@gracebeckwith1256
@gracebeckwith1256 Ай бұрын
That is a motto I followed as a young girl who left home at 15. I had to do all the things that grown ups do. It was my survival technique. A Stronghold. I’m glad to have found your page. This video was made three months ago. I hope your anxiety is gone. Thank you for sharing on the tube. You are a light in the darkness. I definitely see you as young, beautiful and spirited. 💕🦋
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
It has gone! Hopefully for a good while. Thank you for your kind words. D
@tracymacdonald24
@tracymacdonald24 Ай бұрын
I have struggled with depression since I was 8yrs old. Darkness seemed to slip in on one family holiday trip to Massachusetts. I can remember when it started so clearly. I am 60 now and I still have to fake it till I make it. And getting out the door can be a right challenge in itself. I pray for rainy days so I do not have to feel guilty for staying in. But there is the trick I am now using, I have decided to not allow myself to feel guilty about the days I cannot move from my own space. When I allow myself to give in I seem to come out of it faster. I also have two wee dogs and a passion for drawing I have rekindled to help creative juices flow. That seems to help some, and I do not have to go outside to create. And you know what else, your youthful beauty still shines through, I see it in your eyes and that will never fade.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you so much - and a huge well done you for listening to, tuning in to your body - and you know if it tells you that you need a day of just 'being' - the world keeps on turning - ready for when you are ok to get out there. Being creative is great - if you have a couple of different things on the go, it gives a choice when your concentration levels are missing in action! Give yourself a pat on the back when you achieve even a short spell of creativity.Do check out my 2 recent pieces on toolkits D
@Richmond_Hill
@Richmond_Hill Ай бұрын
Some days, “doing nothing”, is doing plenty. We need to do “whatever it is” for ourselves. We don’t need to be on a schedule. Do whatever it is that makes you happy. God bless you in abundance and please know that you are not alone.
@lizziejohny8730
@lizziejohny8730 18 күн бұрын
U r a beautiful soul my dear ❤❤❤❤. A motivation for all. Love u
@elliessuperfoods
@elliessuperfoods 27 күн бұрын
I absolutely adore you. It makes me so emotional to watch you, cause I think you are the most warm, compassionate and kindhearted woman. I struggle with anxiety myself and the last helpful thing I heard during the meditation was to ask yourself: "In this moment, right now, are you okay?" It sounds so simple and not valuable, but really when I put that into practise, turns out that 99% of time, I am okay. I have a roof under my head, I ate, I am not alone in this world, I have water and the air, so I am okay. I wish you very much health, joy and peace 🤍
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 27 күн бұрын
I wish the same back to you. D
@baileyvandusen7756
@baileyvandusen7756 4 күн бұрын
Considering the posture of your heart and mind, you are no where faking being a beautiful and young soul. Thank you for positive words and I hope you take care just the same!
@Masque1262
@Masque1262 16 күн бұрын
I hope you smile as much as you've made all of us smile 🩷
@carolynw45
@carolynw45 Ай бұрын
Having a beautiful dog is the best because have to walk it everyday. You can adopt a rescue or just foster one. Its real and you're not faking anything xx
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Agree - certainly gives you a reson to get out. D
@RomyAnton
@RomyAnton Ай бұрын
I'm not certain how the algorithm landed it to suggest your channel, yet anyway I watch. You have a lovely, gentle voice and use words that tickle my soul. I like that you're doing inch by Inch successes and also spread kindness with the people you're meeting even if.. I hope you're feeling better than you were when you recorded Dee!!
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you so much - I am. Thanks for caring - it means a lot. D
@jacqui9176
@jacqui9176 5 ай бұрын
Just keep pushing through Dee until you feel better. When I'm feeling down I listen to music, sing along and have a little dance, it always lifts my spirts. I hope you have a lovely time with your friend. Sending you love and best wishes from Perth Australia. x
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much - that is good advice about the singing and dancing -forgot to mention that! Sadly, the outing didn't happen - this piece was recorded a few days ago and with the storms we have been having, the wind was too strong for recording. I could delete all sound and do voice over but I prefer not to do this. Love and best wishes back to you. Take care. Dee x
@jonno777
@jonno777 Ай бұрын
I know those mornings. Thank you 🙏
@EKuehn85
@EKuehn85 14 күн бұрын
Amen! Yes keep going and faking it I like that!
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 27 күн бұрын
Traumas and griefs that crush us completely are used to find a strength/evolution/healing/faith, beyond ourselves - Also, we can’t see/know/understand our value through someone else’s behavior (or actions...) *That’s the challenge!* 3 men in my life: the first - was just a very GORGEOUS young girl, with zero self esteem, and a much older, uglier, disgusting and VERY abusive man the second - was a symptom of complete and total: self loathing the third - was a result of despair and desperation I PRAY I CHANGE THIS PATTERN I PRAY I HEAL I pray the next man, will be the last one. the true one. the real one. I vibrate * I radiate * I create * AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER: I am one with the Divine. I experience, peace, BLISS, love, and joy: CONSTANTLY AND CONSISTENTLY. I experience everything as grace AND AS LOVE. I am at peace. I honor the Divine within me.
@CraftyKittyVintage
@CraftyKittyVintage Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey with us all. I, as so many of us do, struggle with anxiety. We are better together…supporting and lifting each other up through sharing our experiences. ❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Do check out the piece of guided relaxation I published this morning. Take care D
@yavrum22
@yavrum22 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you for sharing your authentic beautiful soul. 🙋‍♀️💐💐
@styleisinthedetailsblog3430
@styleisinthedetailsblog3430 Ай бұрын
Dear Mrs Dee you are a wonderful person! I am a 34 years old new mom and have severe Ocd, health anxiety and depression to some point. I feel so stressful and scared most of the time. I am afraid that something bad is going to happen to me or to my loved ones. I do scary thoughts and cry and feel hopeless and alone. The fact that you share your feelings makes me feel less alone. Thank you so much!❤❤❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Congratulations on being a mom. I am a hypnobirthing practitioner - love being around bumps and babies. I do hope that you have support. It will be lovely to have you joining us. Take care. D
@khollingsworth35
@khollingsworth35 14 күн бұрын
You are such a beautiful soul in our Lord...Brilliant. Love Jesus and You ❤️
@beautifuloldsoul7388
@beautifuloldsoul7388 Ай бұрын
You’re the grandmother I never had. Thank you for sharing your genuine and inspiring thoughts. Much love to you ❤🙏🏽
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
thank you D
@debjohnson6332
@debjohnson6332 Ай бұрын
Dee, I am so happy to see you out and about! Starting my day with your insightful, soothing words of wisdom has greatly impacted my life. Thankful for you! Happy Mother's Day!
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you - and back to you too. D
@juliechurch1799
@juliechurch1799 Ай бұрын
Hello Dee I spotted your vid when I had prayed and feeling lonely and rejected . Thankyou for reminding me we can fake it till we make it and win this race at life . God bless
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Take care. D
@Soylentology
@Soylentology 9 күн бұрын
Hi Dee. I've just found your channel after Let Them. I am 36 years old, from Melbourne. I have had anxiety since I experienced something traumatic when I was a child. I feel like my entire life has been fake it until you make it. I am not often a positive person and I am surrounded by negative people too. This video is quite lovely. Your wisdom goes beyond that that comes with age. It is wisdom that comes from your soul. You are a beautiful human being. I appreciate you. Thank you for making these videos.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 9 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your words, and your kindness. May I ask if you have had any support with overcoming your anxiety, especially as you can relate it back to a specific event? Sorry, that is the therapist in me! Do checkout my playlists especially the mental health (etc) and relaxation/strategies one. D
@laurahowe5214
@laurahowe5214 5 ай бұрын
It’s hard Dee. Thank you for saying that. 🌦️and thank you for the walk. 🥾
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 5 ай бұрын
It is, butI hope that the acceptance of emotional/mental problems is improving. I have to say that I have burst into tears when people (that I don't know) have been kind/helped me and they were kind and didn't make me feel any more stupid than I already felt!
@lsalinas2573
@lsalinas2573 5 ай бұрын
❤​@@Cheshirelass
@Maarit-ty1cy
@Maarit-ty1cy 15 күн бұрын
Humanity in its core, thank you. It uplifts everybody deep down in struggles and wonders of how it seems to be - a fake world lacking genuinity.
@justpippyj
@justpippyj Ай бұрын
I've never heard, "fake it till you make it" put quite like that. You are an inspiration to those of us, all of us, that get in this funk periodically. As my Nanny used to say, " One day at a time baby, One day at a time." Thank you so much Dee. 💓
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Absolutely D
@ninatervoort9613
@ninatervoort9613 Күн бұрын
You’re so sweet. Also would not mind hearing you sing! Happy Day Mama Big Love to You
@shelleyemond1293
@shelleyemond1293 2 күн бұрын
I undetstand. I'm forcing myself to do everything and each day. Nothing seems to help. Yes I agree. It's a fog of depression for me. All consuming. Thank you for this encouragement. 💕
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 2 күн бұрын
Make sure that you do something that makes you feel content -feeling happy is a bonus! You may only manage a few minutes - but give yourself a pat on the back for that. have several things handy - as what suits you one day could very well not the next! Take care - have you considered therapy - if this has been with you for some time? Take care. D
@michellehabza2290
@michellehabza2290 6 күн бұрын
"Get your walking trousers on..." I think that can be said for so many different times we need that push in our lives. I am so glad to have found this video, to see your face, hear your voice. I am so glad you 'put your walking trousers on today'!! You should put that on a tshirt, merch 😂🙂
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 6 күн бұрын
Love that! D
@marianneniblock8099
@marianneniblock8099 Ай бұрын
Beautiful, inspirational lady, thank you for sharing 💞
@tg4941
@tg4941 Ай бұрын
Hello. I am 65 and I like imagine a lot of people my age are just mentally tired of the world as it is now. I still work and i have anxiety but i fake it too and it is exhausting. I admire you that you push yourself forward and i want to tell you that youre not alone as we are all here with you on this channel. ❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you - I think there are lots of emotionally tired people in this world. D
@nickturnbull4105
@nickturnbull4105 29 күн бұрын
Thankyou so much for making this inspiring , sincere and lovely video ,yes we have to push and pretend with every last bit of energy that we hardly have to push on and not give up ,you are a beautiful soul and I admire your courage and honesty ❤❤😂😂😂
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 29 күн бұрын
@@nickturnbull4105 Thank you so much. D
@anahifrancke3350
@anahifrancke3350 Ай бұрын
i just really really love you
@michaeldivine
@michaeldivine Ай бұрын
well done, you are much stronger than fear. know that the creator loves you unconditionally ❤
@juanvargas3938
@juanvargas3938 5 күн бұрын
Lovely lady,with a warm soul,and very positive outlook,thank you so much for sharing..many blessings to you❤
@candycewindels1337
@candycewindels1337 Ай бұрын
I feel like the last 15 years have been faking it. It gets tiring. Good for you for keeping going.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Take care D
@user-xp7lk7uv5r
@user-xp7lk7uv5r Ай бұрын
You are young and beautiful, keep sharing you inspire me
@lynnwaters
@lynnwaters 19 сағат бұрын
As a recently new follower, I am catching up on some previous posts and am glad to see you happier and brighter in recent posts. As one who has had lifelong struggles with anxiety, it isn't easy to get through at times. Thank you for your kind and helpful videos.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 19 сағат бұрын
It is my pleasure Lynn. Thank you for being with us. I hope that you are enjoying your catching up. You are so right about the struggle. D
@mishyanne
@mishyanne Ай бұрын
Such raw honesty! What a wonderful woman you are...
@taharyasmine5944
@taharyasmine5944 4 күн бұрын
I should tell your soul radiates a big beautiful hora that can be felt through the continents. Love from north Africa
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 4 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. D
@thestumpavarieteeshow
@thestumpavarieteeshow Ай бұрын
I rarely comment but as I watch you are speaking on exactly what I'm thinking, to get out or stay in. Esp after working and dealing with complex energies. So... I'm getting me trousers on and GOING OUT! TY 4 all do from the states and I will continue writing my affirmations for the world 😊🎉❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Well done - so glad that you put your trousers on! D
@khill6510
@khill6510 5 күн бұрын
Numerology has taught me so much. One of the biggest is that people who have a 6 (or multiple 6s) struggle with anxiety more than those who don't. Since all numbers have positive and negative aspects, it's up to us to recognize when we need to flip the energy to positive. How do we do that? Well, the positive side of 6 is creativity and nurturing to name just two. Find a way to be creative or find someone to nurture. I've heard you mention crafting and family so it wouldn't surprise me if you have a 6. Consider it your superpower if you can redirect your energy. I've only just found your channel but I thoroughly enjoy your content. ❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 5 күн бұрын
Interesting - thanks for sharing. D
@donnadornbusch6738
@donnadornbusch6738 6 күн бұрын
Dee, I’m 78 and anxiety is always my ongoing fight( faking it that all is well…) you are so amazing, hangin there .
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 6 күн бұрын
You can sort this - have you tried using affirmations? Or diversion tactics. If I have anywhere to go about which I am anxious - I make up rhymes - doesn't make sense often, but so long as it rhymes - two lines of rhyme, then a line that follows on by context - then rhyme. It really diverts those grey cells! D
@janetmooremendias233
@janetmooremendias233 18 күн бұрын
I am amazed that you went for a walk especially that long. You fought the dark force in the moment, you won. Take great care too. 06/12/24
@kellieborriello9028
@kellieborriello9028 21 күн бұрын
I’ve never seen your channel before…and it’s no coincidence that I saw this at the moment I gave voice to the anxiety. and feelings that I’ve been carrying in my heart. Yes, it’s difficult to smile when you’re hurting inside. Thank you for making this video. God bless your lovely heart.
@user-gn3ed1mg4m
@user-gn3ed1mg4m 11 күн бұрын
You are my inspiration. I am barely hanging on. Thank you for being my trailblazer. God Bless You. From Miami, Florida.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 11 күн бұрын
Take care - one baby step at a time and you will get through. D
@christinahall9258
@christinahall9258 20 күн бұрын
You are a truly inspiring and amazingly strong soul. Thank you from Lawton, Oklahoma USA 💓
@elifcamlkaya9926
@elifcamlkaya9926 25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! You wouldn't believe how much impact you have on my mental wellbeing. I don't know how but youtube algorithms send you to me when I most need your advices. Thank you so much again🥰
@gran-fromg-townhola9429
@gran-fromg-townhola9429 21 күн бұрын
This is the 2nd videos of U that I’ve come across 🙏🙏🙏 thanks so much for sharing & the let them short was a tear awakening I’m Mexican 57 yrs old grandma & I’m homebound I’m working on it thanks again also I’m from Galveston Texas it’s an island 🥰
@abaconeemlimited1435
@abaconeemlimited1435 22 күн бұрын
I think it’s brilliant that you are making these recordings at your age. You are an inspiration. Thank you.
@almazarchetypes
@almazarchetypes 24 күн бұрын
I love watching and listening to you. Thank you for sharing. You are very relatable.
@wisdom6437
@wisdom6437 6 күн бұрын
Thank you Dee for sharing. I think I understand a bit as I live alone too and do feel anxious often but I try to trust the Lord more and it helps.
@lucygayle9052
@lucygayle9052 5 күн бұрын
Your wisdom is great blessing to people. 🎉
@ndobbins58
@ndobbins58 3 күн бұрын
You’re an amazing lady who has inspired so many people. Your thoughts and wisdom have helped me. I have anxiety and it tries to control me but I’m determined to keep it in control!! Love you!! You are beautiful and so much more than you think you are!! ❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 3 күн бұрын
Good for you - we have to make sure that we nurture ourselves and do things that lessen, control our anxiety, D
@TheYummyMummyChannel
@TheYummyMummyChannel Ай бұрын
Your face is eerily like my Mum’s (she passed away nearly eight weeks ago) and when you started to look emotional, I desperately wanted to reach into my‘phone and hug you. We are all here for you, you are NEVER alone. Thank you for your very valued words, you keep me going (I’m a fellow anxiety and depression sufferer) more power to your elbow, take care , you warm and lovely lady xx
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
I am sorry for your loss and grateful for your kind words. Take care D
@janineharding3306
@janineharding3306 25 күн бұрын
I absolutely love your content, you highlight so many profound life lessons. Many people should learn here on your channel and not later. Sending you warm light and hugs!💛🌞
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 25 күн бұрын
I appreciate that! I am a great lover of hugs! D
@elainecongo3827
@elainecongo3827 Ай бұрын
I AGREE 100%...KEEP IT MOVING!
@deirdreg6403
@deirdreg6403 23 күн бұрын
Today I ran across your video and I watched one video after another. I live in Mexico, but I would love to be your neighbor and go on those long walks with you. You are a lovely woman and your voice is very relaxing. I look forward to watching more of your videos. Have a lovely day.❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 22 күн бұрын
Welcome!! And thank you. Your words mean a lot to me. D
@maytruthprevail4668
@maytruthprevail4668 Ай бұрын
Thank you. You are such a lovely person. I hope things are better, and your lovely smile is out often to grace the people you meet. Stay blessed. Namaste.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you so much! D Namaste
@acfiTraining
@acfiTraining Ай бұрын
quietly, patiently, reading ancient zen poetry helps my anxiety. Its because of the insight and wisdom found between the words. Take a book to a beautiful park with a packed lunch. 🌺🐝just to BE
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Simply just being is a wonderful thing to do - especially out in nature - though I find that after the first couple of pages of a book - it is gently closed and set aside so that I can look, listen, touch, smell all of the things around me. Aaaahhh... D
@paulidevoss7249
@paulidevoss7249 5 күн бұрын
You are a lovely lady and I think your videos must be helpful to so many. I sometimes get that feeling too, usually after I’ve eaten something my body’s allergic to. Took me a long time to realise how much my diet affected my mood. Just posting that here in case anyone finds it useful.
@murm-ov8lp
@murm-ov8lp 8 күн бұрын
I love your videos! So much grace and guidance. Young women really appreciate your words, you are improving lives ❤️
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! D
@MultiCinderella23
@MultiCinderella23 17 күн бұрын
I love your short hair! It looks super cute! I am helping my mom as her caregiver. I keep telling my mom that she is a super trooper hanging in there as my dad passed almost two years ago.
@gillc9773
@gillc9773 18 күн бұрын
Keep walking one step at a time. I fake it a lot putting on a brave face when i feel hopeless. You are beautiful as beauty - true beauty - comes from within 🎉 Take good care Dee 🎉
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 17 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. D
@Sitorose
@Sitorose 13 сағат бұрын
Sending a lot of love to you beautiful lady❤
@Mafe5202
@Mafe5202 9 күн бұрын
Great video, as always ❤❤keep going! I really admire you! 💕🥰
@dp12064
@dp12064 5 күн бұрын
Hi Grandma ❤ love from india , i am 20yo but i always felt very procrastinated and laying on bed making excuses to study, but by seeing this video , you got me into reality, grandma u r great , and yes i will fake it until i make it. , i will make myself and my parents proud on me , and i will become a successful doctor ✨❤️
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 5 күн бұрын
Make yourself proud of you and your achievements. D
@lindajames7759
@lindajames7759 17 күн бұрын
Oh I could just give you a long hug. We are all faking it sometime. Join a choir and give yourself a treat ❤❤❤
@hmmemz1654
@hmmemz1654 26 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. You are impacting lives with this 🙏❤️
@ruthc4620
@ruthc4620 Ай бұрын
God bless you. Thank you for sharing yourself so openly with us. I hope the sun has come out for you again.
@Metayi
@Metayi 22 күн бұрын
You are incredible! Thank you for everything, for your words and for your presence on my gray days. You're doing more than fine, I'm happy for you! All the happiness and achievement in the world 💖
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 22 күн бұрын
Take care. D
@charlottehewson9522
@charlottehewson9522 14 күн бұрын
You are a beautiful young thing in this Universe. Thank You for keeping on…
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 14 күн бұрын
Thank you D
@recoverywithme
@recoverywithme Ай бұрын
Thank you for this beautiful, gentle message. Wishing you a wonderful weekend! 🩷
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you! You too! D
@moralebooster8437
@moralebooster8437 Ай бұрын
For me i prefer to sink into my fearful or sad feelings, and understand them as best i can. Things tend to persist much longer if i run from them. And then once i understand and console my feelings, i feel more empowered to make a change either mentally or physically, that helps me feel better. Sometimes that change is as small as choosing a positive focus, but only if that feels helpful at that time 💗 be well everyone. Life can be very challenging, you deserve some gentle loving kindness
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Life can be a challenge and we all find ways through that suit ourselves. Take care. D
@carolinebeck2753
@carolinebeck2753 Ай бұрын
You are simply delightful! Thank you for your beautiful message. I'm also trying to fake certain things in my life. Blessings to you.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
You are welcome - take care and hope you make it soon. D
@jessiewink
@jessiewink Ай бұрын
I also obligate myself to do what I know makes me feel good, I am dealing with depression and even though sometimes crisis are strong, I let them pass and fake it til I make it, I feel like I see you in me, send you love. And thanks for all your wishes ❤️❤️
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Keep on keeping on at a pace and way that is right for you. Take care. D
@chariklaki7627
@chariklaki7627 Ай бұрын
Dear Dee, you are brave, lovely, precious and a beautiful lady, I am happy to have found you on you tube, please bear in mind that the most beautiful souls are targeted hard, keep the faith.
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thank you. I hate nastiness for the sake of nothing but being nasty - we shall see. Take care. D
@Richmond_Hill
@Richmond_Hill Ай бұрын
I just found your channel this morning , I’ve already subscribed and am “ binge watching” your channel. You are so upbeat and positive, totally inspirational. You do not have to fake being beautiful, for you are extraordinarily beautiful inside and out. I wish you lived near me. I know we would be great friends Keep doing what you are doing and may God bless you with joy. Thank you so very, very much. You are such a lovely person. The world could use more people like you. Finding your channel has been a blessing in my day, for which I am so grateful. Please take care and keep smiling your beautiful smile. ❤️❤️❤️
@chariklaki7627
@chariklaki7627 Ай бұрын
@@Richmond_Hill Yes I completely agree with you, beautifully said, the world could use more people like Dee.
@I-ris2023
@I-ris2023 9 күн бұрын
Just stumbled across your videos quite unexpectedly and so very glad of that. It's such a blessing to hear you speak on things with your perspective with such positivity. Thank you for making these videos , so refreshing and gives hope to things most of us experience in life and wonder.
@claraweigele9243
@claraweigele9243 Күн бұрын
Another video of you which feels like a hug. Keep doing what you're doing Dee, you're bringing warmth and hope to so many❤❤❤
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Күн бұрын
Thank you. D
@catherineevans6809
@catherineevans6809 20 күн бұрын
I only recently found you Dee & you truly are a beautiful, kind, warm & gentle soul. If you have children & Grandchildren, they are truly blessed to have you. I miss my lovely Mum terribly. I am struggling an awful lot with depression & horrendous anxiety (possible my age) I put an act on when I'm around people but dear god it's truly exhausting, it really is. I pray that one day I'll feel myself again but it's a long time coming sadly. It's all consuming, depression. Everything is an uphill effort & the "acting" we put on for other people. My favourite word/s when people ask is, fine, I'm fine, you? Thankyou so so much for doing what you do So pleased you feel better ❤️
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass 19 күн бұрын
Take care. D
@MrsBossC
@MrsBossC Ай бұрын
I’m so proud of you and know the feeling you’re referring to! It’s hard but once you’re out it’s better. I pray your anxiety goes away! 🙏🏾
@Cheshirelass
@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын
Thanks - back under control D
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