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You are taught by the same books everywhere, the only difference, is who you surround yourself with. Your dad is amazing honey!!!

Thank you for saying all of this. I’ve been told a lot that my expectations are too high but that’s NOT TRUE. I’ll keep working on myself until I find the person who wants to give me the entire world. ❤

Well said!! Not controversial at all. It's pure logic.

Also, your expectations are your expectations. You get what you expect out of life. You WILL find that partner and have that life for your kids. "Seek, and you will find. Knock, and the door will be opened to you." Matthew 7:7

Very true...very basic...a woman should be concerned about the capacity of man to provide for her...

I was raised by poor parents and I haven’t even finished school, but I have to work for money to buy myself food and I am so tired and depressed at that moment, to be honest. I really want to be the part of society you are talking about.

am married since 20 yo. I am 22 now. My husband has been providing for us this whole time because I immigrated into his country. We are lower middle class only. And when I get kids one day, he wants to provide for us too because he want the best person (ME!) to raise his kids

Thankyou Albina for putting this not only high quality content, but elaborated video with deeply crictical thinking and a lot of common sense (which is needed). It’s eye opening to get to listen from your perspective and worldview, this specific topic is so crucial 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼✨✨❤️ I wish more people would get to see this…

Aww this is so cute because even though my parents are rich, they would never give us money. I always felt like I didn’t fit in and something was lacking in my childhood. It was great experiences and money lol.

throughout our childhood my parents went through a lot of financial ups and downs, BUT even in the worst times they prioritized our best education and spend a lot of money on our sports , hobbies extra-activities, which I'm so much grateful for those, made me who I'm today. I can never pay them back what the did for us and still doing.

hi albina ! this really made me tear up because i didn't grow up as privileged as you financially and i didn't have the family dynamic that you had and that i wish i wanted . But my expectations for a marriage and family are very similar to yours despite that, because i realized that i am worth more and i deserve more and i am worth my expectations! It made me feel out of place to have high expectations when the people around me and me included has never seen it in real life and so they tell me that it is unrealistic and i sometimes tell myself that too. I am so happy that i watched this video because i know that it is possible and the way that you are firm on your expectations gives me confidence as well. I want the best for myself and for my future kids and my future kids and i deserve the best of what God has given people ! Education and enjoying learning is soooo important to me and I realized that the expectations that i have require money and rightfully so i have time to choose a man that can and will happily provide that . Thank you for teaching me and giving me confidence!

it's realy healthy attitude.

I love hearing your mindset!! You are helping others who always believed this mindset was possible, weren’t raised around it and wish to adopt it

I totally agree. It took me until I was 40 to find the right man that met my expectations. When I followed peoples ’your expectations are too high’ I ended up dating trash. Know your worth and what you want. You will find it. I would have been totally happy and satisfied if I didn’t find the man that I wanted to have children with and who would be my partner because I had built a life for myself that was what I wanted. Compromise is one thing that is needed in relationships but not giving up what you want and how you want to live is not a compromise it’s a road to misery. What you want, how you want to be treated and living the life you want isn’t selfish or unrealistic it’s what you deserve. Btw I’m no rich nor did I grow up with privilege this message applies to all either way. Thank you for posting this.

I really relate with the affordability of a child in society. I saw too many who aint prepare at all to have childrens (mentally, and financially), that is crazy and after they have terrible attitudes with there childs, like they dont educate them, they dont push them to think to read to create to do something to enjoy life etc.. cause its not even money at this point its trully education and the mental ability (health), to raise children properly, to build them truth there youth, and make sure that at the right age they are accomplished adult and have the ability to fly alone and to find there way in this big world. And again its not even a money problem in this topic (even if of course you have to know that a child cost money and you need to have at least enought to feed, educate and dress this kid and have a little bit of extra money at minimum to be able to make him discovers thing to buy him so toys or video game (cause we are in 2024 lol) and make sure that he can do something with its friend to be able to build friendship and be use to sociability. Its hard to raise children its not ez. For anyone money or not, but as you very well said.. its a choice and you need to be ready to do it.

Hi Albina❤ I'm here from TikTok n just wanted to say that you're such an amazing girl. I really admire you and wanna be like you in the future. You're such a thoughtful, mature, even humble and understanding girl I've ever seen, and I'm so proud that we both are from the same country. I rest when I listen to your videos and you give me an incredible example of relationships between two grown up, mature people by telling us about your parents 🥰 I appreciate how you share with us your stories and thoughts and very happy to listen to them, because they're sooo helpful. Btw, you're so beautiful, my ideal of smart & pretty. I don't even have enough words to appreciate how wonderful you are, but you give me so many points to think about and always help with advices. Love you❤️

Hey, i love that u are more grounded than most "rich" people, and i thank u for all of your life efforts, content, and wisdom!!! Subbed 2 of your channels, watched all videos on other channel 😁

This is the content we need 💓

Love hearing your words ❤

Thank you for putting it straight and as clear as possible, i absolutely agree on every point you mentionned

a big thank you for reminding this ❤

i can hear you talking all day. love the contents!

watching the intro after the rich kid video feels so weird don't know why

I love how you talk about your dad you are so lucky this is what I want and what I am going to get😊

Thank you ❤❤❤ very great video especially in the last part . Your father is indeed a great MAN . My expectations shall stay high

Love you, you are so, so right. Thanks for putting this out there.

Great insightful video.

I love this so much. The algorithm randomly sent this video to me. Thank you.

So inspiring ❤️

Thank you. You have helped me. ❤

love this ♥️

Preach facts!

I love your views, it is a reality. We as women should look for it. Thanks for sharing, greetings from Mexico

I love your channel! Please continue to make more contents. I love your family dynamic. Can you talk about the type of parenting style your had, and wisdom and advice that they gave you overall.

Makes perfect sense :D

Love this

I absolutely agree!

Spot on.

You’re right 1000+%

You are the first person that has the same views/ ideas on my future life with a partner. Sadly, yes, when I've say these things to a person they said it was too much, but I know it exists. It has to. And hearing you makes it known that others expect this as well. This was a great video.

Honestly really enjoy your perspective. Hopefully you do find someone who can give you the best!

Please post more videos, I totally enjoyed today’s episode, where have you been it’s been over 6months 😢.

Right now I shouted out loud 'I love you', I love you' after listening you. This is the third video of you I watched one after the other hanging on your lips and wondering how clear and confident you are! You are 100% right with your attitude and I thank you so much that you remind me of this truth! Watching all this ashaming stuff that are shown everywhere nowadays, there are so many, unfortunately in the younger generation, men - or should I say sissies - who call themselves alphas out there, blaming the women for exploiting them financially. Not knowing they could never be really successful without a woman by their side. And as I almost lost my believe that there could be good guys in this world, I found you! Yes, and I want you to know I LOVE YOU. God bless your parents, they can be proud of you. You could be my daughter but I can learn a lot of you. High value content!

Amazing, your parents knew their roles and seem to have a beautiful relationship, I'm really glad you could experience that

Hells yeah. I’m 34 next month and single. I own my own home, earn my own money and would rather keep it this way than be with a man who can’t financially support me. I think that you speak so eloquently and with so much wisdom for your age and considering your early background of privilege. Kudos to you. I really love listening to your thoughts on things and am learning! Xxx

This video in a nutshell: Money and some values helps you enjoy life

Your standards are good, but according to your standards only the top 20% of people can have children Even the middle class cannot afford such a lifestyle nowadays

What you say is 100% true. My independent woman mentality vanished as soon as I moved abroad.

You know that if you make him wait until he is rich, he might think that you care about him seriously only under that condition . By that time he riches financial success, he might look out for younger woman to make sure they will have plenty of time for children

ALBINA WHAT HAPPENED WE NEED MORE VIDEOS!!!!!

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Imagine if this is all we taught Gen Alpha moving forward… I think we’d live in crystalized cities by 2090.

I believe we need to decultify access to wealth so it is possible for our men to provide and also our sexual and intimate life are healthy (willing consent, good health, happy birthing and parenting experience). This bridge you are co creating between various wealth worlds is bearing this birthing of such world possibilities. 🌎

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Are you asking whether a man who marries you must possess the financial capabilities of your parents, or if he must be able to afford you being a caretaker for your children and provide amenities for the family?

How do we develop the self-assuredness and inner core to know how best to be treated?

I used to be wealthy in my country until my parents divorced, I lucky managed to graduate from my private school, but right now I am on public university and my connections from school do not talk to me anymore and here i know i cannot network since everyone is considerably way humbler than me. I feel like I will never get married because I will not find anyone that will support me as my father does in here, and its discouraging :(

A relationship is a partnership where you both give something to the relationship, you both grow as a consequence of being together. It doesn’t have to be in the same sense (one can be earning all the money if that’s what you both like, for example). My honest question here is, what do you Albina feel/know you would bring to the relationship to say you are in the right to have high expectations? I ask this because, as a default, we women tend to think of earning money as our contribution. This is also because it gives independency, you don’t rely on others to survive. Not your spouse or your parents either. I’m asking this with the best intentions. Hope it reads that way.

Your content it’s helping me so much right now 🥲 thanks for sharing 🙏🏽

We started Long distance relationship not that long ago , hahahaha😅

What about a dad who can't be there all the time, but can provide everything else what you said: (Quality time versus quantity time)

I agree with most of what you say except the private school part. It is natural to want to give your children the most advantages you can, but what you are saying about private school is essentially continuing to hoard your privilege and not share. It is the reason why inequity continues. Your kids get to network with other rich kids, but that just means those poor kids in public school lose out on having you in their network. You are the resource your children bring into a community, and sending them to private school just means you gatekeep your resources into an already well resourced community. That is why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer, because these behaviors are rational (why wouldn’t you want the best for your kid?) but they build walls and perpetuate the divide. Your kids don’t need that network just as you probably didn’t need it-it’s nice to have, but with you and your resources, they already have enough to succeed

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You have NO idea what its liento live on a vudget so ofc youd think, wouldn't say, poor people shouldnt have kids. Okkkahy

your behaviour...

You and many other woman take dying without kids rather lightly, reasoning from a point of view of that places importance on just your experiences in this life, seemingly not caring much, or anything at all, beyond that. You are setting terms and conditions and if those are not met oh well I will have other interesting experiences. I find this deeply antithetical in some ways, the things that matter to you first and foremost are your comforts. Doesn't it bore you to tears? Have you no want and resolve for something greater? It seems so constrained, merely a comfortable cage to linger in, it can be a nice cage and wherever you want sure but is that it? A cage with some fancy trinkets and nicknacks? Is that all it takes? Do you not wish to at least try to conquer eternity? Would you truly decay contently in just these comforts? Don't you want to create something great? Children are more than just an 'oh well maybe" for me. They represent casting your stone yet further into the future towards the conquest of eternity. In maybe a hundred years we may be able to persist consciousness beyond our body in some way and you are like "well maybe if it's not uncomfortable" Where is your will to fight and perpetuate, to persist as an organism. I see no existential pondering in your musings, no will to survive. Why?

And it's horrible! And it's wrong! But that's what I want for my kids🥰 Lol . Confidence that your in the Oppressive Class. Confidence if you run out, your friends and family will just steal more for all of you. Nicee

If you are such a feminist with more money than most men, then why not let the father stay home while you go and continue to make your billions?

Ahahaha this is a typical fake rich person 😂😂😂

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