Freeloading Sister Demand I Leave My House On Xmas So She Can Be Alone w/ Her Husband... AITA

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Freeloading Sister Demand I Leave My House On Xmas So She Can Be Alone w/ Her Husband... AITA

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My (26F) sister, who I’ll call Emily moved in with her husband (29M), who I’ll call Roger two years back. Emily and I were never very close, but we were family nonetheless.
Recently, they decided to get their house renovated and because it’s been quite disastrous at their place, they asked if they could move in with me last week, I was a little shocked because we haven’t spoken in a while but I said it would be fine with me.
Emily wanted to have a talk - She asked if her and Roger could have the place to themselves on Christmas Day and Christmas Eve. I asked where she thinks I can go, her response? “I don’t know, get a motel.” She continued to tell me how I can afford a couple days in a motel and it won’t kill me.
Story 1:
UPDATE: AITA for asking my sister to leave after she tried to kick me out of my own house?
Story 2:
UPDATE - AITA for not financially helping family and friends - despite being able to?
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@redditoutloudrelationships1430 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: UPDATE 2:47 UPDATE: AITA for asking my sister to leave after she tried to kick me out of my own house? Story 2: 6:20 UPDATE 11:59 UPDATE - AITA for not financially helping family and friends - despite being able to?

@r1pster05 3 жыл бұрын

So your parents told you to "let nature ride and just try for another child", and are now upset that you won't share your success? Tell them to try for another child, maybe that one will be a more compliant doormat.

@ngpdreamteam2k4 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@Mscrimsondragon 3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼

@novanoir8309 3 жыл бұрын

lmao

@TipTheScales27 3 жыл бұрын

I will never understand people who trash people’s houses they’re letting them stay in. I’ve been diagnosed with severe depression, but I still wouldn’t dream of being a slob in someone else’s home!

@maximodomiguez4079 3 жыл бұрын

Sadly some people are just assholes and they just want to blame whatever they got going on instead

@shannonbullock2202 3 жыл бұрын

Same here I totally get what you're saying. In someone else's home you'd push yourself no matter what to clean up behind yourself. Even on the worst of days when you'd tell yourself "tomorrow" if you were in your own home.

@jennymunday7913 3 жыл бұрын

I'm very severely depressed as well and I like cleaning up after myself in other peoples homes. It makes me feel better about myself and its the decent thing to do.

@fmercury6770 Жыл бұрын

Right! But when I saw that video I understand more.. I was shocked that it’s possible.. That story is unreal but it was kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gtOYq7OY27fZgGg.html What do you think?

@dadgod3615 3 жыл бұрын

"We have traditions" yeah well I have a house

@anonmouse15 3 жыл бұрын

The tradition was changing the locks and stealing the furniture.

@fenrirswolh3 2 жыл бұрын

Welp. Since my mental narrator is Morgan Freeman,your comment was 100x funnier than intended. Thanks!

@jessicafain6630 3 жыл бұрын

Wtf!? People started badgering this dude for money!? Why would they even think he might? He was literally saying he won't help his own parents or brother (totally justified btw). How in the world do people feel entitled to a strangers money? I'm baffled by this.

@michele33s68 3 жыл бұрын

You'd be surprised how many people have no class or morals.

@carolynw8614 3 жыл бұрын

@@michele33s68 there are limitations regarding intellect but I've seen stupidity has no bounds!

@fruxo4218 3 жыл бұрын

Stupidity isn't a virus, but it sure spreads like one!

@Alissandre_Iskander 3 жыл бұрын

Story one: At least Emily didn't paint OP in a negative light to the parents the second time... that's something. But the woman needs professional help.

@kaplislemesis4789 3 жыл бұрын

yeat that was pleasantly unexpected, looks like she was sort of turning the tide then, becoming aware of her issues, clearly not addressing them, but still progress at the time.

@mrgyani 3 жыл бұрын

I don't think she does (for what? For keeping the place dirty and making a single stain on some pillow?). The OP is 'petty' for sure though.

@tabortoothtiger7580 Жыл бұрын

@@mrgyani Why the hell do you think it's okay for someone to go into someone else's house and leave their room an absolute mess that OP now has to clean up? OP's sister was asked to do one thing to stay in the house for FREE, and she couldn't even do that. OP is not her sister's mama. She's not obligated to put up with it. She gave her sister a second chance, and sister blew it. It's not petty to not want to deal with someone else's mess in your own fucking home. Especially when you're letting that person stay there for free and probably eat your food and use your utilities for free. It wasn't just a single stain on a pillow. Did you not see that OP said the room smelled disgusting? Clearly either sister has depression and needs serious help to get through it, or she is purposefully being lazy and not following house rules. Either way, it's left OP to clean up a mess that is not her own, IN HER OWN HOME. If you can't be a good guest, don't stay in other people's homes and expect them to put up with it. Again, OP is not her mama. So, if this grown woman can't get to the point where she can take care of herself and keep her area that she lives in for free clean, then she needs to go back and live with her actual mama. If it's petty to not want to deal with someone else's disgustingness, then I guess myself and OP are petty. OP tried to be kind and let her stay in her house, even after the stunt she pulled, but sister couldn't even follow a simple house rule. After being told time and time again at that. I'd be acting petty too if I were OP. (and also, before someone comes at me about mental health, I am a sufferer of mental illness. Hell, I'm legally mentally disabled. But I don't go into other people's houses and shit all over them just because I'm going through a tough time. My mental illness is on me. Not anybody else. I have to take care of myself. Not expect everybody to cater to me. Hell, my mom had chronic depression and PTSD among other things. And she never went into somebodies house and left it a pigsty. She was raised with manners at least. She cleaned up after herself in other people's houses. If it's your own house, great, do what you have to, but don't go into other people's houses and shit all over their hospitality and generosity. Whether you're mentally unwell or not, that makes you an asshole.)

@koditheexhaustedcryptid4193 3 жыл бұрын

omg op really let that sister back in her house? I would’ve never

@MrBeevee5 3 жыл бұрын

Without the husband, they might have had a chance, but it sounds like the sister is the problem.

@williamj.dovejr.8613 3 жыл бұрын

You want to lose a friend? Loan them money.

@Kurare2 3 жыл бұрын

It's more "if you want to test a friend..." while risking they might show their true colors

@Kurare2 3 жыл бұрын

@pnorbert2222 That is genious. Now I hope one of my brothers will some day ask me for money. Couldn’t imagine investing money better than to get rid of this asshole.

@Kurare2 3 жыл бұрын

@@trashgarbage7234 can't argue with that I’m afraid

@bluesapphire4262 3 жыл бұрын

@@Kurare2 Frequently asked him to pay, make some subtle comments about paying. The more you pushed him to pay, the more he'll run away from you 😂😂

@fmercury6770 Жыл бұрын

Right! But when I saw that video I understand more.. I was shocked that it’s possible.. That story is unreal but it was kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gtOYq7OY27fZgGg.html What do you think?

@johnf.kennedy7683 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: I hate stories like this. Everyone loves complaining when someone kicks people out of their home, but they never want to offer up their own homes to the freeloaders.

@kateemma22 3 жыл бұрын

The second one... jeez. Mate, I’m glad you found a new life in the western world if your parents think ‘just let him die and have a new baby’ is their mindset and they think fighting for your children is a western thing.

@thegayestgoth 3 жыл бұрын

That first story: 😂

@trublacking8572 3 жыл бұрын

Im tell you

@willnailer2118 3 жыл бұрын

I know the nerve.

@thtvh1 3 жыл бұрын

More like 🤡✨

@shirin9452 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao agree what the hell was that 😂😂🤣🤣

@fmercury6770 Жыл бұрын

Right! But when I saw that video I understand more.. I was shocked that it’s possible.. That story is unreal but it was kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gtOYq7OY27fZgGg.html What do you think?

@chihuahuasrule1175 3 жыл бұрын

Story one: Sometimes relationships, especially with family members, are more harmonious when they don't live together. 😆

@DrownedInExile 3 жыл бұрын

"The secret to our marriage's success, is our lack of communication!" - Babylon 5

@GabrielleHayes1921 3 жыл бұрын

I get along better with my dad now that we don't live together lol

@stillvisibletoallusers 3 жыл бұрын

That's me and all of my siblings (I have 8 all up, separated parents) and none of us can live together. Personalities are too big lol.

@waltdoherty540 3 жыл бұрын

Someone said to offer your parents $100 towards their financial problems. But, I think the irony of that would just go over their heads.

@murielross9288 3 жыл бұрын

As that poster said himself, If it was ingrained in the culture your in-laws and friend would not have given you the money. Think about that.

@Nico6th 3 жыл бұрын

1st Story: Apart from kicking OP out of her own home: "you can afford a hotel"??? How about, dear sister, I will pay for a fancy hotel & spa for you on Christmas in exchange for having the house for two days?

@shirin9452 3 жыл бұрын

Why pay for anything for them though??? I think they have to lay in the bed they made lmao

@Nico6th 3 жыл бұрын

@@shirin9452 Not OP paying for them. Them paying for Op - if Op can/is willing to look past the audacity of them asking to have the house to themselves...

@shirin9452 3 жыл бұрын

@@Nico6th ohhhh I see that makes a lot more sense! 😂

@fmercury6770 Жыл бұрын

Right! But when I saw that video I understand more.. I was shocked that it’s possible.. That story is unreal but it was kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gtOYq7OY27fZgGg.html What do you think?

@stephanc6138 3 жыл бұрын

nope. the sister AND husband are TAH. they should be the one getting a motel or PAY for her stay. emotional manipulation. wanna bet THAT could be part of the reason for seperation?

@ShaunHensley 3 жыл бұрын

What did the husband do?

@frozenkilt 3 жыл бұрын

@@ShaunHensley Right? After the update, I'm pretty sure I know who made the first request AND why they're getting divorced.

@NerdishGeekish 3 жыл бұрын

First story: yeah, sounds like the sister just never got over her spoiled brat phase. Doesn't mean you have to hate her or hold a grudge against her, but being civil is the most OP should do there, nothing more.

@tgbedini 3 жыл бұрын

I think the telling thing is that the sister doesn't acknowledge that the reason they can't be friends is because she is an a-hole. OP gives her a free place to stay, and she craps on her every time, then acts the victim.

@tonyjones1560 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: "Let me get this straight. You want ME to check into a hotel for a couple of days so you can be alone with your husband in MY house on MY dime at Christmas time and you're mad 'cause I won't? Get yourself into rehab before you OD on whatever it is you're smoking, snorting or shooting up...you need help."

@fyoutube9410 3 жыл бұрын

Dayum, being asked to leave your own house. Glad my family is not insane enough to try that with me.

@bdbandit5636 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: what saddens me about our society is that people have forgotten how to show and feel gratitude. If someone opens up their home to you and you don't know how to appreciate that level of kindness then you don't deserve it. NTA

@goodmooneung 3 жыл бұрын

Parents get mad at you when you say your sister and husband can leave YOUR HOUSE after they try to kick you out and make YOU pay for a motel. Yeah we know who the favorite sibling is. Dump that family asap. I think it's okay to have a favorite child as long as you try to love them equally but that is a level of toxicity ugh I can't.

@barbaradufek9669 3 жыл бұрын

For that stained quilt? Soak in OXY,(laundry detergent additive) in cold water for a few hours. Stain with come out. Wash in cold water, cold water rinse, gentle cycle. If greasy oily stain, use a bit of Dawn dish soap on stain, soak, and wash as above. You can use both the OXY and Dawn at the same time.

@malcolmholder3149 3 жыл бұрын

Emily seems to have a lot of problems, she can't see that she boundary crosses without thought, her husband has separated from her (for whatever reason) and now she can't even keep clean and tidy like a normal person. Being civil is the best OP will ever get out of this relationship. Maybe the occasional overnight sleepover just as girls but nothing long term, she can't be trusted.

@mrgyani 3 жыл бұрын

So much judgement.. And the OP automatically becomes the one who ppl support, because that's how reddit works. I think the sister is actually the normal one here, while OP lacks empathy.. NOTHING mentioned in the story seems that big a deal (except the first incident for which she actually apologized). In fact making a big deal out of those issues is such a dick move. Can't wait for the day OP is down & needs the sisters help.

@malcolmholder3149 3 жыл бұрын

@@mrgyani Did you actually listen to the post and the update? What do you not get? She moved in with OP 2 years ago then got kicked out because she wanted OP to move out of HER OWN HOUSE OVER CHRISTMAS! Then comes back and is slovenly, disrespectful, dirty and a leech. Where is the lack of empathy? Twice OP has opened her house to the sister and both times has been abused. I think you need a reality check here if you think that this behaviour is acceptable. As for OP needing the sisters help I don't think that is on the horizon as Op is a stable person where as the sister is not.

@zibix4562 2 жыл бұрын

@@mrgyani doooooormat

@fighthypocrites7036 3 жыл бұрын

Re: The Sisters. Nothing in the story proves that they can't be friends. They just can't live together.

@juliebrown422 3 жыл бұрын

Last Story: Rock on I'm happy that your son is doing so well. Continue to support those people that supported you and family at your lowest, they are your real "Family". As for everyone else, you reap what you sow. Even after all they have done, I am happy you have chosen to take the "high road" with the rest of your relations, kept them at arms length, but still offered support when needed, not necessarily monetary. The world needs more people of compassion. Rock on and continue to do you!

@samanthavanscoder9536 3 жыл бұрын

I'm really happy that guy is helping his niece and willing to support his family if needed. It seems like the kindest option.

@trublacking8572 3 жыл бұрын

Bro is that even a question about the first story the Galls this woman has to ask me to get out the house so she I can't even talk that piss me off

@BIGEAGLEDUDE 3 жыл бұрын

With the Second Story you forgive but you don't forget in addition I also get the feeling that you're niece pretty much is not in the wrong for you no paying for her own rehab but I do have to wonder what made her drink in the first place. Especially since it seems to me that she may have gone through some form of trauma that made her drink in the first place. Hopefully she stays sober and hopefully your family realizes that they'll be there for you this time when you go to another hard time if you go to another hard time other than that I'm glad that you are staying focused

@bluesapphire4262 3 жыл бұрын

Well, his niece did do wrong by drunk driving, but if she's 20 now, then she definitely was innocent in the whole debacle when her dad abandoned OP and, personally, didn't deserved retribution for that. So in the niece matter, it's simply just would an aunt and uncle help the niece they're not so close with? I'm glad OP helped her though. She seemed to be decent and responsible enough by recognizing that she had problem, wanting to rehab herself and paying for it herself. And as a 20 years old girl with physical and mental problem, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be able to earn enough money for the surgery herself without resorting to harmful or illegal way so OP's help could be a nice gift for her.

@mesquitemagic 3 жыл бұрын

It's really kind of you to take care of your niece. I think you are a really good person.

@NeoLotex 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: I get that she had a lot to deal with the seperation and all that, but come on .. keeping your room clean and not stinking up the whole place is the bare minimum here. She should definitely get help though.

@derekhageman8537 3 жыл бұрын

The second guys story about his son needing a surgery and only his best friend being there to help him is very moving, he came out a multi millionaire and everyone starts asking him for handouts when they were willing to let his child die instead of donating some money to help, he is completely justified

@derekhageman8537 3 жыл бұрын

And the inlaws that sold their apartment

@XxXShevampXxX 3 жыл бұрын

Man....I REALLY NEED to know what those Christmas "traditions" even are. Not knowing is bugging the crap outta my nosy ass. I'm dying to know.

@WardenSpectreCommander 3 жыл бұрын

If stand up guy had a picture , it'd be OP2 . You're a good man, despite how they turned away from you. We all can take humanity and humility lessons from you.

@richardmyhan3369 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, the balls on his sister!! And the fact that the parents backup the sister is so messed up. What would ever possess them to think such a thing is remotely acceptable??

@jc1400 3 жыл бұрын

For the sister - did the parents offer to go to a motel so they could have their private christmas? If not then they have no business telling anyone else to do the same thing

@chaosreaver3597 3 жыл бұрын

Second story, OP is a better man than me. I cut contact with one of my friends because they stole a beer from me 12 years ago, then refused to replace it or apologise (it was a principle thing, I'll forgive anyone who makes up for their mistakes broadly speaking, but her point of view was "I could afford it" so it didn't matter).

@jazziemundo21 3 жыл бұрын

Second story: if its apart of your culture to help then why didnt they help you. Im glad op treasures those who helped them

@Callimo 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it seems that some older generations throw out the "but but faaaaamily" or "TRADITION" when it comes to getting what they want, but are all of sudden super Western and independent when someone needs something from them 🤣

@jazziemundo21 3 жыл бұрын

@@Callimo 🤣🤣

@MorgaineRiddlePrince 3 жыл бұрын

Who plans a big interior renovation during the winter? All I know knows to do it during the warm months.

@dublk5593 3 жыл бұрын

Reddit never fails to amaze me with the audacity of these people from entitlement to cheating etc

@MrBeevee5 3 жыл бұрын

I was amused when he told the scammers not to write him for money. That tickled me. The sister sounded bi-polar to me. Reasonable one moment and not the next.

@DrownedInExile 3 жыл бұрын

Story2: Massive NTA. Where were the parents when OP needed help? They only want to play the Culture card when it's convenient for them. OP should give the parents exactly what he got: $100. Play stupid games, etc. At least OP knows who his true family is. Just one correction for the niece: Drinking and driving is never a mistake. It's a choice, one that could have cost her and other people their lives. I hope OP remembers that. And the people begging OP for money can go fourth and multiply with themselves.

@tokyosan7906 3 жыл бұрын

First story... sis has some serious mental situation going on. It is wisest to keep distance since weren’t close to begin with. Parents should be providing help if they are so judgement so and taking sides. I hope the sis gets the help she needs but if I was OP I’d stay out of it.

@tinawilson2160 3 жыл бұрын

forgiveness and mercy shown to others - nice to see as some days I wonder about the hate , anger and greed people show towards others - we all in this life together and its what we do or not do that makes the difference in life....

@manganiphiri4331 3 жыл бұрын

Story two, awesome.

@jojobeetch 3 жыл бұрын

First story: They could have rented their own motel room lmao

@terrimitchell6694 3 жыл бұрын

OMG people have really asked you for money! Wow I’m shocked. I’m sorry for all you’ve been thru. Your strong just remember that and you will do great.

@unbornredzero 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1 You are NTA, but you are the The Doormat.

@sugar4me225 3 жыл бұрын

First story, op is NTA before the update. op YTA after the update. Because op freaking KNEW better but still let the sister back in!!!!!!!!!

@nightcapmom 3 жыл бұрын

Forget forgiveness exit her out of your life permanently and block her numbers

@StrawberryAria 3 жыл бұрын

The first story Jesus. Why couldn't they get a hotel for each other

@jamarr27 3 жыл бұрын

The inlaws and that friend would be eating for life after that, they showed unwavering loyalty

@hothotheat3000 3 жыл бұрын

She waved a red flag and you let her back in again. Don’t do it again.

@malcolmholder3149 3 жыл бұрын

Story 2. Glad things worked out, Re Parents I can sympathise knowing those types of cultures, go that you will be the safety net for them. Re Niece stupid action but she seems to realise and good she wants to go to rehab, with the surgery make sure that brother holds up his end. Sorry some people thought it was acceptable to hit you up for money I sometimes despair of the human race. Stay strong live well be happy.

@DrownedInExile 3 жыл бұрын

I was raised in a culture like that. I know that people play the culture card, when it's convenient for them. Like OP's parents did. It's just straight-up manipulation.

@isiaadiel3468 3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't want those grandparents, only that in blood, near a child they were willing to let die for them to hold a few dollars to their chest. Hope they enjoy a shameful time in retirement.

@thedukeofskull1383 3 жыл бұрын

My "mom" was in an accident once and received a $10,000 settlement. With in 1 month she got a call from an old class mate in the 3rd grade ! She was asking for $2,000 for a surgery...she didn't get get a cent from her.

@TRAVAINE5000 3 жыл бұрын

I have family members that are disrespectful like that. Whatever they're going through doesn't mean they keep a nasty home that's not theirs. Sister is a bump. She feels entitled.

@raven2795 3 жыл бұрын

Written contract, even family. You have to protect yourself with a family member like that cause it can escalate quickly.

@Roin0525 3 жыл бұрын

Making demands in someone else's house lmao. At least she apologized, that's a lot more than other people get. Sad to see it took another weird turn.

@SomeBlackDude26 3 жыл бұрын

He should've let his niece live with the scars. They are a permanent reminder to make better choices.

@cisio64123 3 жыл бұрын

That's what I thought too. Having someone else pay remove them does not teach her responsibility for her actions. If she wants the scars removed then she should bear the burden of paying for it . Having her family pay to have them removed does not teach her that she is fully responsible for her decisions and she must be the one to deal with her bad decisions . Her realizing her problem and paying for her rehab is a good first step but she really needs her family to let her have the full weight of her bad choice put on her shoulders so she will know not to expect her family to bail her out or shelter her from her choices therefor she really needs to get her act together ASAP . It might sound heartless to some but you can't enable bad behavior with family if you really love them.

@seraglioborneo2803 3 жыл бұрын

First: And people who are married and supposed to be adults are childish enough to go crying to "family", lying and exaggerating so that they can curse and shout at OP? OP should post a detailed email to every family member incl parents. Anyone who still shouts at OP needs to put on a NC diet!

@seraglioborneo2803 3 жыл бұрын

4:00 This OP is dumb! Needs to eat a lot of fish and become smart quickly! Why not say "NO!" and send sister to her loving parents who treat her as their GOLDEN CHILD?

@mariapaz6379 3 жыл бұрын

2nd story: that horrible part of OP's life helped him realize who are the good people in his life. In a way, his success has been thanks to them, a best friend that has his back, a wife who believes in him and in-laws that trust him and support him. I don't really think its a story about people not caring when he is at his lowest but wanting to be part of his success. I think its a story of helping each other and finding success together.

@DrownedInExile 3 жыл бұрын

Title story: Massive NTA. Emily's demand was outrageous. I have to wonder if she is the Golden Child, used to always getting her way? Sorry to hear about her issues, and if this is depression, hope she gets help. But regardless, if she can't respect OP's space, she doesn't belong there.

@peanutgallery4159 3 жыл бұрын

Kick entitled sis out now! It's your home she can go to hotel!

@CaulkMongler 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: should have said, so does tradition mean you’re gonna kick specifically me out of my own home for Christmas each year now, or will any ole family member do?

@solidmoon8266 3 жыл бұрын

First story, nta, the sister repeatedly disrespected her and her property. There's only so much that can be considered excusable before they gotta get their own crap sorted out. Second story, they abandoned OP in his time of need while op literally sold everything and sacrificed everything to save his son. Now the shoe is on the other foot, and the issues were self inflicted rather then something nobody could control or normally expect. They deserve the same treatment they gave OP, nothing. The in-laws and friend are the only people that deserve to share in OP's happiness.

@JennyfaninSweden 3 жыл бұрын

First story *woman moment* If your family treats you like that, cut them out off your life

@CensorshipVictim 2 жыл бұрын

Story 1: NTA now we know why OP's sister's husband left.

@Safaridor 3 жыл бұрын

“She knows we can never be friends” To me, this is emotional blackmail, or in layman’s terms: a guilt trip. I doubt she realizes she does it, because it seems to be a habit learned from results not study. My experience based on relationships with family, friends, co-workers, partners, and strangers. When they say: “I don’t think we can be friends.” It makes you ask yourself of you share that opinion. Usually, the answer to that hyperbole changes their response: “No, I think we could be friends” is met with conditions for the friendship. EG. “A friend would have...” “Yeah, you’re probably right” is met with A replacement for the relationship that still requires something from you. EG. “I hope we can be civil” “...” is responded to with one of the steps of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance). The last one is really surprising, because the grief implies that they did believe the opposite of what they said to be true.

@perryhenderson9242 3 жыл бұрын

Story 2: You are a good wise man. You obviously were born ay night; But not last night.😁 Live life to it's fullest; Help where you can; when it is truly needed. I wish every joy in this world on you and yours.

@XxXShevampXxX 3 жыл бұрын

I remember when the original was first posted (the Christmas one) but I didn't know there was an update until now. Hell yeah. Edit after hearing the update: Nevermind the "hell yeah". What a crappy boring update.

@ninacruz5592 2 жыл бұрын

RENOVATED DURING THE HOLIDAYS??? YOUR HOME 🏡 WAS THEIR PLAN 2 TAKE OVER YOUR HOUSE , THE WHOLE TIME. KNOWING YOU WILL BE AFRAID 2 SAY NO. ALWAYS BEEN HER PERSONAL DOORMAT

@marshamercer876 3 жыл бұрын

Well let the parents get a hotel room at Christmas.

@nothumanff5900 3 жыл бұрын

Now I realised why they separated lol

@randawilliams9243 3 жыл бұрын

Tell her sister to go to a hotel. Definitely NOT AH!!

@jennycraigo2297 3 жыл бұрын

How could people you don't jnow ask you for money

@peanutgallery4159 3 жыл бұрын

Dude these ppl are not your responsibility n it seems they're only family wen they need something. They didn't help you wen you needed it...

@kanteannightmare 3 жыл бұрын

They weren't even actually homeless? Wow....

@Catherine.Dorian. 3 жыл бұрын

People seriously asked a redditor for money? What the hell is wrong with people

@christyclarissemercier6359 3 жыл бұрын

FINALLY THE UPDATE AAAAAAA

@Senor_resendiz 3 жыл бұрын

That one person said get rid of your friends because they suggested op 1 was being harsh on her sister. Wtf how????

@draconisdragonheart4248 Жыл бұрын

Story 1: Her sister is nuts! They have NO RIGHT TO KICK HER OUT!

@middi6 Жыл бұрын

Not the A hole they tried to boot you out of your own home that is not OK.

@rezarfar 3 жыл бұрын

Your sister has depression, you should be a lot more understanding and forgiving.

@musclesmouse 3 жыл бұрын

wow, didnt know there would be an update.

@tamaramcrae4037 3 жыл бұрын

Family makes you related ONLY, you don’t have be loyal to anyone. This person needs to drop her friends and a lot of her family. Clearly they don’t understand/cared how people treat her. The second story, idc for him. He said “17 year old he gives advice”. Man whatever he’s not an asshole but that was an asshole-ish comment.

@newguy3588 2 жыл бұрын

Damn #2 is a wild ride. F those scumbags. Everyone got what they deserved in that story. Jesus... I can't believe the beggers online after finding out he's got some jing. Crazy. I found a cool dude online that made millions on crypto, I only gave him advice when everyone else was asking for money. How shameless. I get being desperate, but ffs people.

@otocon25 3 жыл бұрын

Not gonna lie, my biggest wtf moment as far as food goes is when i learn guinea pigs were regularly consumed in south america.

@unluckypuppy13 3 жыл бұрын

Back in Sparta if there was something wrong with the child physically or developmentally they just released them into the woods. This way they rationalize that they weren't directly killing them and that there was a chance. they would come back in a year and if the kid managed to live through it then they were accepted back.

@RandomTrinidadian 3 жыл бұрын

I think i know why OP sister and her husband seperated. OP was being too kind by letter the sister move back in. But at least the "parents" aint giving them grief this time for kicking her out again.

@skibootdier9488 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 He posted a situation, people only heard he has money, and started hitting him up for cash.. Lesson learned; Never ever tell (or show) people you're rich..

@gretasstolendreams2154 3 жыл бұрын

The audacity

@josephbrown9665 3 жыл бұрын

I donate money to St Jude children’s hospital. I don’t give money to anyone who is not a 501c and people who call me begging for money normally get hung up on

@jamesk8891 3 жыл бұрын

Oooh this is juicy remember this story from months ago! Update yeahhhh

@ssplague 3 жыл бұрын

Really wish you would compile your vids into a podcast! You’d probably get more viewers that way too. It’s annoying to have an IPhone and not have KZfaq red or whatever, I have to have the app open to play videos.

@novanoir8309 3 жыл бұрын

# 1 Now, what kind of Christmas tradition that force you to kick out your family. The whole point of celebrating it was to get together with as much as family you can. Don't tell me that they both had swinger gangbang party planned, dear Lord... at least that was the only reason why you wouldn't want a family member in your house during Xmas. Or maybe i was thinking too far, but in my defense, it's modern society we're talking about # 2 "In our culture, you'd expected to support your family and community" Oh boy here we go, idk where you live sir, but where i lived we do have the same culture as you said. But, i chose to not follow it, because most of the time the people i help dont even return the favor, im not talking as if these people don't paid me back in the same length, but it's the kind of thing that they can absolutely do, they can afford to, but they chose not to, that gave me a hard slap to reality, if they weren't even want to help me, why bother? They only ask, not give. So i learnt my lesson,

@animetalk6722 3 жыл бұрын

Right

@terrylong9059 3 жыл бұрын

Last story..REALLY!!! People frm reddit asking for money??? LOL

@jamesteegardner2273 3 жыл бұрын

The second story was horrible. If their culture was really about helping each other out in times of need then they should've helped this man when he needed it. Now that he's rolling in it he should go out of his way to help them with trivial bullshit? Screw that!

@VaBeachBeach2971 3 жыл бұрын

Damn dude goes on Reddit to get advice and people start asking for money. Lol!

@threeducks157 3 жыл бұрын

I drive rather fancy cars don't judge me too harshly lol it's the only thing I splurge on, based on that and the fact that I'm well know in the town I get at least 1 or 2 emails with sob stories every day asking for money, tbh it's annoying I do help the community by funding a free clinic that specializes in woman and children, but it doesn't turn men down they just have to make an appointment for certain days it's not sexist it's just alot of women are victims of domestic violence, also I own a methadone clinic I like to help in those kinds of ways cause I know my money is being put to use for it's intended purpose and 2 I'm no wait I also benefit from the public image they portrait.