I'm genderfluid, and typically more feminine presenting but a lot of time I use he\they, and I'm scared a lot of my friends are going to start rejecting me when they find out, but this makes me feel a lot better.

Ah yes, a video to comfort me for my gender confusion (identified as a trans boy but now i have no idea what my gender is and just slapped the non binary band-aid on that mess) Edit: okay so its been a year! I figured it out y'all, im agender :D

I'm genuinely curious of how it feels to be aligned with your gender assigned at birth , like , no questions asked, just , comfort

I’ve been struggling with gender dysphoria for so long, I know I’m not a boy I don’t like even the idea of that. But sometimes I do consider it. But at the same time I like being a girl a feminine girl. But then again I like being neither it feels comfortable. So I’m GirlFlux. :) I thought I was just gender fluid with a lack of male feeling but no, I’m girlflux. I like being a girl sometimes but then again I like being something else. Its weird but feeling like this is comforting.

"Whay are you crying? You're such a smart, nice, pretty girl!" That's the problem. I don't want to be a smart girl. I don't want to be a nice girl. I don't want to be a pretty girl I don't want to be a dumb girl or a mean girl or an ugly girl. *I don't want to be a girl.* Please, understand that.

I'm transmasc and I understand completely about having unsupportive people in my life but I'm grateful for my amazing teachers and class for using my preferred pronouns and name (I only came out 2 days ago) And he even changed my name on the class role and I was so afraid but it turned out amazing and I hope all of the creators in the video get the love and support they all deserve for having to go through all of that I love you all

i hate how relatable all of these are, but at least im not alone in my struggles

You can’t be fixed because you’re not broken… however, you can be helped. Sometimes you have to help yourself and that is really hard. But there also people who can help you. Whether it’s people online, people at school, family members etc… just always be careful! I can’t say whether the internet is more dangerous than real life, visa versa, *just always be careful!!!* ❤️❤️❤️

Sometimes I can't even look at my self in the mirror or in the shower bc it hurts to be in a body u don't like I'm non binary I will still try to keep calm when almost everyone still missgenders me I didn't wanna be associated with male or female since I was like 10💀💀

I'm genderfluid and I looked very feminine cause I'm not in a safe enough environment to present different. I use he/they/it pronouns. One of my friends keeps using she/her pronouns for me even tho I correct her. She has a bad memory so I try to blame that but I feel that she just doesn't care enough to use my preferred pronouns. If you read this, thank you

I relate to this video so much. I'm a transgender male and I've identified as transgender for about 2 years now. Dysphoria sucks.

"Omg ur so pretty!" "I love ur daughter." "Mama look at that girl!" "Excuse me ma'am?" I'm a boy....

Vent, TW Warning: The Thing Is, I HATE How My Body Looks. I HATE That This Is My Body. I WISH This Isn’t My Body. I’m Very Uncomfortable With Myself Being In This Body And I Wish I Wasn’t. I’m A Female At Birth But I’ve Never Wish To Be One. Nor A Dude. People Calling Me A She/Her Is… God, I Wish I Don’t Look Feminine At All. I Wish I’ve Looked More Masculine But Not Too Masculine ‘Cause, Like I Said. I Don’t Want To Look Like A Girl Nor A Boy. I Wish My Family Would’ve Been Supportive. Unless You Live In A Toxic Household And Won’t Able To Tell Them. I Wish, I Never Was Like This. Hell, If I Wasn’t Born. I Would’ve Liked Being A Girl But Again, I Can’t Swap Places With My Brother (Dead).

I'm scared for next school year, it's only a few weeks away and I do t even know who I am so how am I going to to explain it to people I don't know, I'm scared of what they'll think of me and I don't know how to ell my family much less kids that I'm gonna see every day but don't know. How am I supposed to tell people I sorta trust much less people I just met and what if the teacher tell my mom. How will I deal with everyone calling me someone I'm not. I don't know who I am but they think they know and I don't know what to do or how to deal with it, kids are gonna bully me and it could be mental but it could be physical and I can't tell anyone cause then they'll judge me and probably makee do things I'll regret so much. I hope I'll be able to make friends to keep me on my feet but all my old friends are either going online or getting held back and I'll be the only one going into school alone, not even my favorite art teacher will be there since she's switching schools it'll be like I moved to a new school again, a not so fresh start and to make thing worse my mom know my science teacher so she'll make high standards for me but I can't even do well with the standards I have now. I'm gonna fail and it's all because my mom makes friends with the teachers thinking it will help but it'll just make things worse and I'm scared, I'm really scared of what's gonna happen and I don't know how to fix it or how to cope. I just want things to stop going down hill for once since I was fucking 5, I things haven't stopped and it just keeps going fast and I loose track of time and the year go by so quick they used to be so slow and I miss that and the only reason I can remember yesterday was because I was being yelled at constantly to clean I didn't even get to eat I was woken up and told to clean immediately while I was in fucking tears, if it weren't for that I wouldn't remember it at all because I know I can't remember what happened the day before. I know I'm talking a lot but this month has been shit and I just wanted to talk about my week since I don't have my vent book. I'm crying dry tears and it stings, I just want to be in control for a day in my life, that's all I want and need right now. I want to be me once I can fucking figure that out. I'm sorry if I took time out of your day or night because you read this I just needed to get this off my chest

hello! if you have the time or energy to make one could you make a compilation of autism vent tik toks? i’ve recently found out that i might be autistic and i’m getting invalidated for it so hopefully that might make me feel less alone

I was taking a shower, and… I fell to the floor sobbing, my cat was behind the curtain and was meowing in fear. “I can’t live with this body!” I was whisper screaming to myself. Once I got out of the shower, I made myself a binder, it’s safe, and works

Hey if anyone wants to talk or vent im here dysphoria is terrible and hard if you want to talk or vent this can be your safe space if comfortable anytime!

This is exactly how I feel everyday. I'm trans but only my friends and one of my stepsisters know. My aunt does too but I don't think she understands. I've been wearing the same exact sweater for around close a week now because if I don't I will feel dysphoria about my chest. I honestly don't know what to do.

I've recently started coming out to my friends as nonbinary, saying I use she/they/he pronouns, but they all still mainly call me she/her pronouns. I haven't even bothered telling them my chosen name because I'm scared that they won't use it, or think it's stupid. I know my family won't support it, so I'm being very... hesitant on telling them. I'm sorry if anyone else has to go through similar things, which I'm sure there's at least similar stories to mine and it breaks my heart.

I loved the first artist first, same art style

In all honesty when a farmer called me my moms son, I just felt happy. That’s why I like to make any of my video game characters gender fluid or nonbinary. I did that to my character in Roblox and a player called me sir so happy about that. Even if it’s just a game. (I was born female and I use they them pronouns and I think I’m aroace? I haven’t told my parents because my mom is judgemental and my dad doesn’t really do anything to help me)

I came out to my parents as a trans guy four months ago. *four months ago* The farthest I’ve gotten is my dad calling me handsome every one in a millennia, and finally getting some men’s shorts a few days ago. It’s so confusing because my mom says stuff like “you should just enjoy being a kid, you shouldn’t worry about this” but then turns around and says “if you are a boy why did you never want to be a boy when you were little?” and it’s so confusing. And it’s really scary, because recently, my mom has started going down a pretty transphobic rabbit hole. She’s talked about how “so many girls nowadays want to not be girls, and it’s happening all over the world and there’s articles about it” and talks about people who have de-transitioned, like if I ever medically transition I’ll regret it too. Hell, once when we were having a conversation about lgbtq rep in media, she said verbatim “I just wish they didn’t shove it down our throats all the time” I really don’t know what to do, and I’ve been tempted to start SHing again, if anyone has some help or advise, please let me know, I am really lost with this

1:40 is area is me like I get so dysphoric in public if anyone might perceive me as female but when I’m alone I’m the only one who can perceive me and I know I’m male and I can wear makeup and stuff and still know I’m a dude

gender is so confusing man. all i know is that i am not a cis girl 🥲

The look who’s inside again made me cry

Gender has become so confusing that whenever I even question it I just ignore it and convince myself I’m cis just so I don’t have to deal with the train wreck that is gender. I feel like everything and nothing at the same time. I love wearing oversized masculine clothing but I also love presenting myself in a feminine and classy manner. I don’t care about the pronouns people use for me but I can’t even know that for sure since people only use she/her pronouns when talking about me. Basically, I just don’t care about gender but I convince myself I’m cis anyways. :) Update even though no one cares: I’m genderfluid :) 💗🤍💜🖤💙 Another update that no one cares about: I’m nonbinary and use they/them 💛🤍💜🖤

I’m Agender (They/Xe/ey) It’s confuting to see that I’m not alone in all this. I’m livening in constant pain all day everyday. And it doesn’t really help when my parents doesn’t accept that I that I want to change my name and that they don’t use my pronouns at all they don’t even try. they say that their trying but do I see it? No.never. My dad said this straight to my face: “if you hate the name your parents gave you then There is something wrong with you” I didn’t even know what to say, I just look at him trying not to cry or show it and my mom just sat there and looked at me like she was almost as if she was agreeing with him. I am selfsupporting myself every single day, trying to assure me that my identity is valid. I try but it’s getting to the point that It’s impossible…. And then my body dysphoria giving me hell, god… it’s draining me everyday and I hate it! I literally don’t want to exist anymore. I am not even sure if Im even going to make it anymore because I have been holding on for so long and nothing has happened and the proses to fix this? God…. That can take a whole another 3 years or even more.. And I don’t even know If I will even get to that point because It has gone to the point where it’s so bad that I can’t even take this anymore!! I’m done….. I can’t… But I’m stubborn as hell so that why I’m still here.. but Still do I want to live In hell any longer no. I’m just trying to survive for the 1000th time… I hate myself for this. I hate myself for everything. I hate how I am. I hate that am Angry all the god damn time! I hate it!!!! I hate that I snap at people for no reason, I hate that I do that even the actual person that am mad at is me! I HATE THIS!!! Yes I’m getting help for this but It is not helping at all. because they don’t understand what I’m talking about. I’m… just so done. Goodbye…

As a trans masc I was crying though out the video ✋😩 bc that's what I do

As a enby (others share you experiences) that when you read gender us that the best way I can explain how it feels to me at least is when you think you see a moving spider but then realise it isn't a spider but without the relief

I don’t understand my gender, it’s all pretty confusing. That’s all from me, have a good day 😁

Listen your gender is your choice god said in the bible that no matter what he will love you and he will never be mad at you if someone uses incorrect gender pronouns know that its not your gender it never was that was a faze this is your life if you realize your a boy if you realize your a girl your a girl! That is your true gender your jest in the wrong body❤️ i hope this made you feel at least a little better bai!

Im non binary, I own a binder but don’t wear it all the time and I’m kinda comfy w out it but then I feel invalid because I don’t have dysphoria all the time but then when someone says “she” it’s like someone has just stabbed me and I feel like shit bc just bc I present feminine doesn’t mean I’m a girl or want to be seen as a girl, I wanna be able to go outside and confuse people when they look at me and be one of those people where you have to sit there for a good 10 minutes deciding “are they a girl or a boy?” And I feel bad for my dad because I’ve always been his little girl I know he’s trying but he doesn’t understand very well wear as my mum she understands but still uses she/her even after I told her :/

"She/ her." tw: Body dysphoria? BRO, I'VE HAD ENOUGH OF ALSO BEING CALLED A GIRL, IM NON- BINARY?! (Serious.) I GO BY THEY/THEM I'm kinda srs rn but my mom doesn't allow me this pronouns, I'm tired of her calling me this sh!t.

Totally not sitting in my bed rn dumbfounded at the fact that my mom's friend just described being trans an "identity crisis" when talking about her friend's trans son. I fucking hate it because my mom and her friend both refuse to take being trans seriously, I don't get called by my prefered name or pronouns at all even though I've cried and begged for them not to use my deadname. I'm not allowed to get upset or angry about it either.

my family and friends keep referring to me as "she/her" when i asked to be referred to as "they/them." i keep wanting to correct them but every time i try to, i lose the nerve. i feel like they'll just get annoyed with me :')

Not feeling it at all right now , I have many struggles going on that doesn't just include me have dysphoria , this is making me feel better thanks

I can't be the only one crying my eyes out rn lmao

Ugh I hate trans dyphoria but what i most hate when people say trans dyphoria is a disability its not!! Its what we go through

3:45 I am a trans guy who can't transition due to a possibly non supportive and toxic family. A couple years back, I did plan out though when I'd cut my hair, buy binders and all that stuff. Well along with all that, I picked the name Charlie. Watching this tiktok, I knew it wasn't to me and wont be for awhile but I couldn't help but think "This is exactly how it's gonna go, isn't it?"

I don’t experience gender dysmorphia to much as a demigirl but sometimes I’m called a man and feel like crying I just really hate being seen as a male

I can relate to one oft the videos especially I said to my mom I want to be called Jax from now on and she said no your name is [*deadname*] and it always will be not jax

0:50 hits hard

:D Tysm!

3:04 is so relatable like 4th grade me with bisexual being like "I'm so confused" and me now years later with transmasc gender fluid biromantic poly and gray asexual be like " shut the fuck up"

The one where it was saying “you’ll never be Charlie” made me cry because I chose the name Charlie and there are people like this who I have come out to

I wish to send this to me gf so she knows she is not alone in this, but she dosent have connection :[

Being trans can be so damn hard sometimes

This makes me want to go hug my trans friend. I myself am ✨gender confused✨ but not in the way where it makes me feel bad, just confused.

frog_fever I have never related to something more

I literally fucking hate myself. When people ask why, I say “I don’t know.” I must seem like an attention seeker. I feel like I boy. Then again, I feel like nothing. I hate being called genderfluid, but that’s what it seems like I am. I’m not fully a boy, not fully a girl, not fully non binary. I never feel full anything. I won’t look masculine enough. But of course, I can seem very feminine. A fucking curse. Labels scare me when it comes to gender. I need to seem masculine, I need to be seen as if nobody knows what gender I am. I need help. I’m too scared to come out. I would look stupid. That’s basically how I seem to my family and friends. No support. How can people ever see me as a person who looks like they aren’t anything? I couldn’t pull that off. I hate myself because of this. Because of everything about me. I feel stupid. Maybe if I’m dead, people could dress me as how I always wanted to. When you’re 6 feet under, nobody cares about your gender. Not even you. I feel like I’m drowning in a deep void that I can’t swim out of.

I love this art but I wish I knew what kind of art style these characters are . So many people draw their characters like this

0:50 I almost cried at this one....

As someone who has mild Body dysmorphia I completely understand and relate to this TikTok’s. I hate when people don’t use my he/Them pronouns and just use She/Her. It’s so annoying and even tho I’ve told them a millon times they still don’t understand. My brother and dad don’t even try. I feel like I can’t breath

You should do some of blackspacebasil, theirs are good vents.

So let me set a scene for you imagine to parents are on a face time call with one of the parents mothers and the parents are trying to explain the grandma that their youngest child uses they/them pronouns, The parents say "________ uses they/them pronouns, and the grandma responds with "Oh, yes, SHE mentioned something about that to me the last time SHE were here". And when the children and their two sisters go to those grandparents house the only thing the child hears is "SHE" "HER" "THE GIRLS" And such the youngest child tells their grandma and corrects her A LOT but the grandma still says Female pronouns. Now I would like to mention my grandma isn't homophobic but she just doesn't get even though I tell her every time "they, not she" My grandmother is very passive aggressive so yeah. This has been going on since I was ten just to mention I won't say my age but it's been going on for a while. my grandma said if I get an eyebrow piercing she won't be able to look at me so I know what I want for my birthday. And guess what I hate myself! This is the longest comment I have ever written.

I’m a girl. I was Born a Girl. But sometimes i wanna be a boy. I wanna be masculine and hang out with men and have short fluffy hair I can ruffle my fingers through, i don’t wanna worry about my chest,m. But other times I like being a girl, i love wearing makeup and putting on long flowly dresses i love Talking with other girls. Sometimes i don’t know how I feel. I just feel confused. I don’t know. I want to be a boy. But I like being a girl. :(((

Ah…i remember when I used to have it…im trans and when I was 10 i used to question myself all the time, honestly, it was hell.

tw:vent I feel like I’ll never pass no matter what I do. my thighs touch and my chest isn’t flat enough. my mom is homophobic and my family other family is religious so they will try to change me and tell me it’s just a phase I don’t understand why people say “oh just don’t be trans if you don’t like to feel that way” being trans isn’t a fucking choice and it has never been.I was ducking born like that and no amount of bible verses can change that.I fucking hate it and I wish I could just be a cis boy I literally feel like I don’t belong in my body and that everyone judges I am not passing and I feel like I will never be The last time I felt masculine was 4 days ago wen my friend said my clothes were very boyish and cute And that feeling was awesome

I’m agender and I’m going to come out soon. My parents are super supportive of trans, gay, and pretty much any identity as long as it isn’t hurting anyone. I’m still scared tho but I’m gonna do it

What's the name of the creator of the tiktok at 2:26

I'm trans FTM with a father that REFUSES to respect my preferred name and pronouns, I relate to all of this so much.

The non-binary one hit close to home

Can you pls do more of these it helps me out a lot

Im a trans boy, but for no reason I'd like to see more trans girls' vent tiktoks o-o

Yeah I identify at genderfluid but i am biologically female and ive only told 1 person but tbh i think they forgot lately she/her pronouns have been making me feel really uncomfortable and stuff :)

Do you ever feel like you dont deserve the person yoo are trying tobecome and the people thay support you? So many days i wonder if i should be here or should i be happy because it doesn’t always feel that way even though I haven’t done anything wrong

The fact that everyone(trans people) in this one video, they said "I only lasted a week" and this was everyone(I have made it 2 months)

i have one thing to say: ..........mood.

i hate it. I HATE IT. why does my body want to feel like a boy sometimes? im obviously not im obviously a girl. and anytime i try to even style my hair to make me more comfortable when i feel masc it never works. i just spent prob OVER an hour trying to style my hair all for it to look stupid. i thought “hmm maybe brushing it out will make it look better” AND NOW ITS STRAIGHT AGAIN. HOW. i hate every single thing. i also cant cut it rly any shorter because itll look all poofy because my hair is so thick.

i don’t really know for sure if i am trans but i think i’m transmasc or trans man but i don’t know, but either way i hate it so much because i feel like i will never be able to fall in love with someone like if i like someone there is no way they will like a trans person like me especially if they like me at the state i’m in right now which is not what i want to be completely. it’s so discouraging

I think I’m trans idk though i wish I was just born a boy and none of this shit was happening right now 😭😭

I can relate to all of them bc I'm trans

I went to a public pool today and before eyou went in you and to shower without clothes in front of everyone and they seperate boys and girls and my parents don't know I'm non binary (girl body) it was terrible. And I had to wear a swimsuit and I'm very insecure I wish my parents understand me😢😢

Ah yes, the word 'girl'. I am a trans man, when will ppl understand.

VENT- bro literally no one i know will ever understand how i feel right now. i just had a minor panic attack at the thought of coming out to my friends and family.. but it’s so weird because half of me is like “no one will ever see you that way, there’s no reason to do it. it’s too scary, too new.. don’t.” and the other half says “dude this is what makes you feel comfortable you should do it. who cares what people think, be you!” i know people on here get it, don’t you- but no one i know will. i can’t tell people how i’m feeling and shit because it’s too scary. i might just come out as non-binary (i use he/him and they/them pronouns, so they won’t be technically misgendering me). but then there’s my family- my mom actually knows i’m trans, but when she found out (i didn’t tell her, she read my texts. i came out to another trans friend) she just went off on “how am i a boy when i like wearing skirts” etc etc and told me not to tell any friends. so only these 2 friends and my boyfriend know. and that wasn’t even when i was a full boy, that was when i was bigender. i don’t know what to do. i really wanna start telling people because it’s not fair that i’m just forcing myself to be okay with people calling me what i’m not- i just don’t know what to do and none of my friends/family can help me figure it out :(

I thought I could take the reality of being a trans male in general I can’t. It’s happening again I’m slipping but this time it feels different more severe. I’m closeted and I know it needs to stay that way for my safety but I don’t know if I can take it anymore. I can’t reach out because I don’t want to hurt anyone or make them feel uncomfortable r smt so I’m just suffering

I'm non-binary but I'm currently questioning my gender identity and my mom said that I was having an identity crisis when I told her I was non binary and everyone calls me by the wrong pronouns and I can't tell them my pronouns are they/he and I feel uncomfortable with my chest size because even though I'm still developing I feel uncomfortable with my chest and I'm on the verge of tears writing this and idk what to do so can someone pls give me some advice?

1 :20 my mom saw my yt Description and it says "my pronouns and she/they please :3" and my mom still calls my a she and her and ect-

⚠️trans masc vent⚠️ Hi, I'm currently not out to anyone and I have a boyfriend. I started dating him before I even found out I'm trans, and so I tried to talk to him about it, I didn't directly tell him I'm a trans boy, but I asked him "would you still love me if I was a boy? " he said no, and it's really not his fault, I understand not everyone is comfortable with still dating someone even after they came out, but that hurt. I don't know what to do, he's a really great guy, and I love him a lot. I don't want to break up with him but I also want to be me and not have to hide that. I don't know if I should try to explain, or just break up with him etc. I really don't want to lose him, but I also don't want to have to stay a girl just because I don't wanna leave him.

I feel like it would 100x easier it I wasn't non binary but at the same time I love that part of me and it wouldn't feel right not having it yk?

i just put soap on my toothbrush instead of toothpaste…I’m fucking done man

i dont know but as a trans girl i feel so alone all the time

I told my dad I was having a gender crisis and that I felt like a boy and he blamed it on the internet >:( he said it was a phenomenon and I was like bitch I don’t feel right can’t you just be there for me

Can somebody give me a explanation on what gender dysphoria means cause I’m kind of confused about it. Isn’t it where you just feel uncomfortable in your body because I have that

Hey you. I've got something to tell you. Yeah you, reading this. I probably know why you're here. You're transgender, but you haven't felt much about your gender. Being called your agab isn't giving you dysphoria, or being called your preferred gender isn't giving you euphoria. So you're second guessing yourself and coming here to cry. Was I right? If not don't continue reading, but if so, please stay here. If you're a trans woman, scroll down to the second paragraph. Trans men just keep reading. And anyone else, go to the very bottom. Hey there dude, how're you? My gosh you look so freaking handsome today. You seriously look so masculine :0 keep going my guy, you've got this! Thats all I've got to say, but you can vent in the replies if you need to :) from one trans guy to another, you're doing great, king. Hi there ma'am. Can I just point out how beautiful you are? Like omg, who gave you permission to be this gorgeous??? You are one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen ❤ Thats all I've got to say, but you can vent in the replies if you need to :) from one trans person to another, you're doing great, queen. Well hello there :) wow, can I just say, you look astonishing today. Seriously, you are so amazing- wow. I've never seen such a pretty person in my life :) Thats all I've got to say, but you can vent in the replies if you need to :) from one trans person to another, you're doing great, my friend ❤

WHERE ARE MY NB DYSPHORIA PEOPLE AT??? ;u;

1:04 That’s exactly what happened to me except I go by he/they pronouns

I hate thati look so feminine I have to for school witch means I'm growing my hair out... I'm so sad like it's like an akee like this isn't who I am... I may be gender-queer butthat doesn't mean I don't get disphoria

Why do transgender people make me feel so unreletaded and misunderstood but also comforting? I'm a therian and “what the fuck gender am i? Def not girl, but also slight, not genderfluid or trans tho wtf is going on?” gender lmao, LOTS 'N LOTS OF DYSPHORIA yk? :,) species dysphoria n gender dysphoria don't mix well- i'm not agender but i thought i was at one point n told that to my “toxic friendship” friend abt it cuz she knows alot abt genders, ( i don't) and now she's STRAIGHT back to she/her pronouns 😭

I’m gender-fluid but I don’t feel valid bc im fem presenting.

Vid starts at 0:22 lol

Your intro and outro are TOOO LOONGG

Yo cool I’m trans 🏳️‍⚧️

Its not ez trying to tell your parents your sexuality or gender....

oh my god i accidently disliked forgive me