Shocking CONFESSIONS of a HABITUAL CHEATER with Laterras R. Whitfield

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🕘 Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
1:05 Ty & Ryan Kick Off The Show With Powerful Guest Laterras R. Whitfield
2:54 Laterras Confesses The SHOCKING Reason He Cheated on His Ex-Wife
12:30 Confessing Infidelity: How Brutal Honesty TRANSFORMED Laterras' Life
17:56 "I Felt Worthless" - The Gut-Wrenching Aftermath of Laterras' First Affair
27:10 The Feather Story: How A Man's Selfishness Can DESTROY His Marriage
30:34 How Should A Man To LISTEN To His Partner's Unspoken Needs?
44:03 Laterras Challenges Ryan On Double Standards In Dating
49:58 How Much Grace Is Too Much Grace In A Marriage?
1:06:36 Terrifying Wake-Up Call - How Laterras Decided To Go Abstinence

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@HardlyInitiated Ай бұрын

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@g.burney4714 10 ай бұрын

Not sure if I my wife and I fit your demographic but it is possible to to be married and not cheat on your wife. 40 years of marriage, up,s and downs and even being $420,000.00 in debt which left us $93.00 in the bank. So why would I want to cheat on my wife when i took vows that I would honor her? What we must remember is the price for sin is heavy, very heavy. I’m so sorry that this young brother couldn’t keep the vow of his marriage however Gods grace is sufficient. There is no woman walking on the planet that is worth my soul. The $420k debt? Is gone paid in full And through all of that Gods grace kept us

@SpiceItUp_5150 9 ай бұрын

🙏🏾

@1stisraelitessweetness17 9 ай бұрын

Amen... What stood out most is God you know how our father see marriage and how it suppose to be. Bless to you and your wife Amen 🙌🏽💜🙏🏽

@Msspeedywow 9 ай бұрын

You're a Blessing 🙌🏾 in your mindset,for all loyal Women who seek marriage.

@angelagillispie1759 9 ай бұрын

You are a breath of fresh air and you speak with clarity about honoring God. Sad to say a lot of men don't honor God this way. They're bonded in perversion and carnal minded . Getting married is a sacred act of two people taking vows and going before God asking him to bless the marriage. Unfortunately most people leave God out after they get married and that is why marriage doesn't work. God bless you for honoring your vows and staying the course!🙏❤️

@g.burney4714 9 ай бұрын

@@Msspeedywow Miss Sabrina thank you for your kind words means a lot the reason i make such a fuss over my wife ,?Well because I love her and she stuck with me during our financial upheaval we were actually down to $93.00 to our name but she always encouraged me never belittling me in any form. At my highest weight I was 330lbs and during this never heard one hint of sarcasm now that im down to 207lbs she still is the same. Love ❤️ her so very much

@joybethel7849 9 ай бұрын

We always talk about why we cheated no one talk about how the non cheater cope with the cheater after being still living together. It is a psychological trauma difficult to overcome

@meikalioness8869 8 ай бұрын

So true. This what I go thru

@2intriguing1 8 ай бұрын

When I tell you it's difficult. If you ask me to marry again...this same husband, it'd be an unequivocal NO. And I love my child to eternity.

@AnaThaLight 7 ай бұрын

Very difficult. Ppl say just leave. Sometimes you can't just pick up and leave.

@coriettapadilla9977 7 ай бұрын

@2intriguing1 Same here, it has been a very rough almost 3 years.

@2intriguing1 7 ай бұрын

@coriettapadilla9977 hang in there, 15 yrs in, it won't get easier if you don't create a sense of self, boundaries and goals within the marriage. You wanna always make sure you're filling your cup if you're constantly pouring into others🫶🏿

@margareenelson7406 3 ай бұрын

I really don’t think men know how much it hurts to be cheated on. It can leave a person scarred for life.

@themalawiandiner180 2 ай бұрын

It's not men, it's selfish people, there lots of women that cheat too.

@cynthiadickerson5403 9 ай бұрын

The same way a man dates you is the way he is going to be married to you. He cheated on her when he dated her, and he cheated on her when he married her.

@blueseptember2174 8 ай бұрын

Mine was a virgin til marriage then cheated a decade in.

@evedelgado2345 10 ай бұрын

40 year old woman here. Staying single is the best choice I've ever made. I practice celibacy, I still look 30 and I sleep PEACEFULLY every night knowing that no one is making me look like a FOOL out in these streets😆 Life is WONDERFUL when one makes GOOD HEALTHY decisions😊

@beverleyreid7572 10 ай бұрын

Good for you. Don't settle.

@sheriece05ify 10 ай бұрын

Do you not desire to be in a relationship in the future or you’re planning on staying single for life?

@AveryGoodMan 10 ай бұрын

@@beverleyreid7572Don't settle...? Wow that's what you gathered from this meaningful conversation? Men are who we are. At the end of the day, no one cares what other people think. Being single and lonely isn't cool. I'm not saying to be in a dysfunctional relationship. I am saying cheating isn't the reason most people get divorced. Work on the other issues and cheating probably won't happen. Cheating is a symptom, not the disease.

@evedelgado2345 10 ай бұрын

P.S...being single doesn't mean we are lonely! I travel,enjoy lovely dinners and dancing and engage in healthy activities. I despise when people try to put us in the box as being LONELY. SMH. Them people just hate on our peace...lol. I made the decision to not destroy my beauty or peace with children and a husband who is never truly satisfied😄😄

@shenequakimbro5146 10 ай бұрын

@evedelgado2345 You said the key thing that hit the nail and that is "they hate on our peace. " This is so true because most people are so used to drama. I'm in my late 40s and ended up in a toxic situation with a man. Now I cry at night missing the person I was for so many years. Now I have to do double praying as I trust God to continue to heal and restore me. It's not worth it to live in dysfunction just to have someone. Stay in that peaceful place and don't let anyone shame you.

@Tanisha255 10 ай бұрын

Regardless of the platform, you’ve always respected your ex-wife and honored your word. Thank you for your vulnerability and integrity 👏

@jasg8737 9 ай бұрын

Most men tell the other women lies about their wives to justify their cheating.

@laurencameron3150 9 ай бұрын

A man can’t honor his wife AND cheat! It’s one or the other!

@sunkissed6413 8 ай бұрын

WHERE AND HOW SWAY??????? Idk how you got that outta all of what he said. Thats not love.

@vc7770 3 ай бұрын

Pickmesha vibes 😂

@Tanisha255 3 ай бұрын

@@zach3841 I’m confused by your comment as I never mentioned anything about love🤔

@ShonJ93 10 ай бұрын

I love how he still covers her, because its obvious that he was not the only problem but he doesnt put any blame on her

@dagirlgenius 8 ай бұрын

The emotional intelligence and transparency of these men is astounding and refreshing! 🥰

@fw7809 10 ай бұрын

His message on taking accountability rings so true. My ex husband cheated on me in the first year of marriage and my intuition told me. He never admitted it until 10+ years later in marriage counseling when he was trying to manipulate his way out of admitting his present cheating. It hurt me so bad that he was so conniving to admit it to a third party instead of me, solely to get out of being open & honest to address things head on. I knew enough then to decide that was the nail in the coffin for me. I left the marriage and never looked back. Mistakes are mistakes, but accountability helps people own them. Poor behavior patterns go beyond mistakes. Some cheaters fall into the act from a desperate place. Others plan, lie, manipulate, gaslight, etc. to keep cheating as long as they think they can get away with it.

@tinalajoy3290 10 ай бұрын

Well said, totally agree.

@crystalcolon6997 10 ай бұрын

cheating isnt a mistake

@sharonhamilton2038 10 ай бұрын

Share your experience, it's so sad about these ungrateful me

@CriticalTimez 10 ай бұрын

If you're in a sexless marriage for months and months, it's going to be a serious problem. 😒😒😒

@Brook-ct3kk 10 ай бұрын

YOU STUCK AROUND FOR 10 YEARS THEN LISTENED HIM GASLIGHT?? WHEW CHILE

@nenajay3174 10 ай бұрын

At 42::50 Ryan says he’s a firm believer that a good man can cheat. Look up the word cheat. There is no good in the definition of that word. It’s crazy to me that after ALL of these guests and lessons that this is still a belief. There’s a quote that states: When you know better, you do better. What you know, you are accountable for. You have to be VERY careful with your words and what you do to others because it will CERTAINLY come back to you. Those who love themselves and their mate are exclusive with their bodies. Sharing your body outside of your relationship AND standing by a person who does such dishonors you both. It’s a huge risk-health wise, mentally and spirituality. I wish people loved themselves more. We have to do better.

@TamRazz17 10 ай бұрын

!!!

@asiasun839 10 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@teresaintexas 10 ай бұрын

Well said & so true

@JaneDoe-dp6rg 10 ай бұрын

I wonder if he believes good women can cheat? I doubt the answer is yes. I've watched the show a few times and he doesn't think realistically to me. He wants but doesn't give what he wants. Typical of people these days.

@cortezbarrett5826 10 ай бұрын

@@JaneDoe-dp6rg women can’t cheat because they will be tied in emotionally

@JGallis 8 ай бұрын

This man’s story is just like mine smh, men are not thought to have self worth so we look at sex totally different than how women do. Now the journey to becoming that man that understands what it mean to have self worth and to stop sleeping with a bunch of girls is hard work within it self, just looking at girl alone is like second nature to us , growing up as a West Indian man i saw men get praised for sleeping with girls and if you don’t you are called names for it, so now as a grown man it’s hard to break those bad habits that you thought was cool. I am now on this crazy journey that will most likely make me loose friends and that’s ok, respect to this man for sharing his secrets with everyone to indulge in, what he have done is hard and should 🐝 respected.

@blasiankiki7831 7 ай бұрын

Sometimes when you grow and improve and start losing “friends” you’re actually shedding dead weight… keep making you better

@drea0523 8 ай бұрын

Hardly Initiated and the Dear Future Wifey Podcast are two of my favorite podcasts. I love that these podcasts have open discussions with both men and women without the toxic bashing of each other. It's so refreshing. I wish continued growth for both podcasts and that you guys are surrounded by people that will pour positivity into your spirit.

@carolynlong8701 10 ай бұрын

Cheating will destroy your marriage and only God can heal the relationship between wife and husband 🙏🏾

@MaryHudson-dt4gu 10 ай бұрын

True👍

@ResilientIzShe 6 ай бұрын

I appreciate him taking accountability by saying he lacked integrity instead of pointing out a flaw in his partner as an excuse to his infidelity

@stephaniewalker6540 8 ай бұрын

I appreciate this whole thing.. We are constantly torn apart (black relationships) we need to talk.. communication is real! Thank you all for authenticity!🎉

@chrissyw7208 10 ай бұрын

Laterras is so full of wisdom and knowledge. I just love how his words just bring so much depth into the topic.

@Karlabeautifulheir 10 ай бұрын

14 minutes in and my minds 🤯 He keeps it so real. 🙌🏾We need more people in the church to keep it real. Because it definitely goes down in the church 😳 And nobody wants to talk about that.

@shaywatts6338 10 ай бұрын

Dear Future Wifey Day 1 fan here!!! Laterras is a disruptor! He continues to disrupt what the culture views as “normal” (toxicity, improper communication, lack of self-awareness & accountability, double standards & etc.) for the benefit of God’s Kingdom! I am so proud of him!! He represents Christ & the DFW community well!!!!☺️☺️☺️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@DearFutureWifey 10 ай бұрын

Wow! Thank you so much! That means a lot.

@diahannab5072 9 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed watching this. Gotta be honest I was scared to watch because I thought I was gonna be triggered. I see a lot of the same mistakes he mentioned were also made in my marriage early on. I’m very much so like his wife. I wasn’t being fulfilled,appreciated, helped with the kids, prioritized so his sexual fulfillment wasn’t my main concern. The whole painful part in watching this is he’s grown and learned a lot but how much pain has to be inflicted to get the man that he is now. I wanna be loved right the first time.

@MD-zp9fg 9 ай бұрын

This was a great podcast! As a woman... I really appreciate the courage to enter this space, share the journey, inspire hope, and speak to the calling of husbands! Hats off to you gentlemen!

@misstee922 10 ай бұрын

Yaaasssss! About the pre-engagement counseling, pre-marriage, during marriage, post-marriage monthly check-ins! I'm for ALL of it! 👍🏾🙏🏾

@lindarobinson1223 9 ай бұрын

I have been single for many years and I think you can be as beautiful and fo everything to please your mate but if they want to cheat they will and some couples stay together for money issues and do what they want.

@dahmeneekah 9 ай бұрын

I agree.

@Courie11e 10 ай бұрын

Please bring Lateras back. He's awesome and I love his Dear Future Wifey podcasts

@sunkissed6413 8 ай бұрын

What you mean? Did he end his podcast?

@ConcreteRose0219US 8 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed the podcast with Tony Gaskins, and now with Laterras Whitfield. I’m already a subscriber to Tony so I’m about to subscribe to Latteras Whitfield and Hardly Initiated.😊🙏🏽❤️👍🏽

@hair399 10 ай бұрын

ANOTHER ONE!!!!! This was an amazing collab. Laterras was demonstrating so much maturity and authentencity. MEN & WOMEN LISTEN UP!!!

@dahmeneekah 9 ай бұрын

I like how he as a man is being very expressive in steps to healing to be a better man.

@nenajay3174 10 ай бұрын

The Hardly Initiated guys should be guests on the My Future Wifey podcast, or they need to do a solo show with no guests. Laterras has always been transparent about his story. We now want to know Ryan and Tysean’s story, who they are-past and present. We’re curious about possible growth/change of views since starting the podcast

@meenameena-dd2zy 10 ай бұрын

I couldn;t agree with you more!

@Rita-cy3qw 10 ай бұрын

Yeeees!!!!!

@elsieatieno4421 10 ай бұрын

Yess!, people connect to truth and transparency, they need to return the favour.

@cjones2171 10 ай бұрын

That would be nice. But I don't think these young men are not on that mature level yet. They are awesome youtubers who provide a platform for others. But they are not experienced enough to share and don't have the wisdom to be vulnerable yet. It takes time to get there.

@nenajay3174 10 ай бұрын

@@cjones2171 They are in their early and close to mid thirties. I think some of us are still curious about their stories-their experiences and what shaped them, and if this podcast has had any effect on tnem. Also Laterras is good. He asks the right questions and provides great insight. Sometimes speaking through things provides therapy, which can lead to growth.

@joyfraser4214 10 ай бұрын

This discussion proves that we were not built for cheating it is too painful!!

@chenanigans 10 ай бұрын

And stressful. Men always act like it's a natural thing yet that man in southern CA just shot up a bar a couple months ago where his wife worked cuz he got cheated on. It hurts. It's not normal or okay for either sex. Even logically it makes no sense to put yourself and your partner at risk of diseases and such. Monogamy is healthy but it requires us to not be lazy and care for each other's needs.

@myrthanoel2148 10 ай бұрын

"I'm not going to criticize my hand for hurting, I am going to meet the needs of my hand"... great quote

@wandaramos599 8 ай бұрын

This man should give a course on this. If I would of known this before, I would not be divorced. Church’s need to speak more about these thing before any pastors marries anyone anyone . I applaud you my brother. For what God has poured into you.

@user-me3tl6xd9o 10 ай бұрын

Please do another collab! Very authentic conversation that is needed among African-American males.

@beachlover9705 8 ай бұрын

Yep because they cheat like it's the standard .. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@sweetsiren8841 9 ай бұрын

Honest question for women: how are you being a wife, mother, working full time and catering to your man and not being completely drained all the time? Marriage sounds awful for women tbh

@kangel20 9 ай бұрын

It really does. Lol

@rhondabooroyalty1220 9 ай бұрын

It is a lot of work tbh you have to be married to someone who is helpful and fills in when you need a break. You have to definitely have God on the inside of you. Wisdom. Prioritize. And take a day of rest. Take care of yourself also

@vilindaveronica5703 9 ай бұрын

It really was too much for me. He expected EVERYTHING, even 50/50 on bills and gave very little in return. Wanted sex all the time but had a hard time giving me the least emotional support or validation. Not sure I want to marry again. If I do, it will have to be wayyyyyyyy different and he will be a provider.

@Talgi9nv 9 ай бұрын

This is truly an epidemic that’s rarely spoken of, and the danger here is that drained mothers can sometimes lack the strength (and/or the skills) to truly nurture their children… and kids learn their base behaviors and priorities at young ages from their parents. Mothers are usually the primary role models of intimacy, and creating nurturing environments for children. We talk a lot about daddy issues, but don’t talk enough about “mommy issues” that exist in our community, due to the lack of emotional intimacy that is very prevalent and emotionally unavailable men are often a byproduct of emotionally unavailable/drained mothers.

@sinothilebuthelezi7878 9 ай бұрын

It is not if you marry your best friend…be equally yoked. Sometimes women want to do every thing for everyone and I blame society for that. We are only now learning to be soft, vulnerable and allowing ourselves to be tired. Having that conversation BEFORE marriage is very important - what are your expectations, what do you want out of this union…honest conversations that are ONGOING…because life happens sometimes. My husband and I live off the following: When I am weak he is strong, where he is weak I am strong, where we both are weak, we will outsource (get help)- it’s worked perfectly for us and we both are very happy and constantly check in with each other

@mamasaid3 8 ай бұрын

Good informative and very much appreciated. You all opened my eyes to many things that my husband is doing even now. He's also a narcissist, so that's another level issues that he has. And that's driving him even the more to cheat, lie, manipulate, and mistreat his family. But I appreciate your platform and the transparency of your situation. More people need to hear this, especially the cheaters. It may open them up to seek help.

@thoko2541 10 ай бұрын

Wow! What a powerful topic, thank you to the speaker for being vulnerable with us..... And thank you to the host for building men from inside out. Man hold hold power as heads, as long as we have broken men, we will have broken relationships, broken marriages and broken families that will produce broken children and the circle wont stop because it can only stop with Men, healing and taking back/reclaiming their positions as leads

@Pheonix1111 10 ай бұрын

Another one with Laterras Whitfield please! Excellent content on this podcast. Also love the fact that Laterras is honest and is NOT a hypocrite. Love his wisdom about marriage.

@landi777 10 ай бұрын

ANOTHER ONE!! I ❤️ both Laterra's vulnerability and the brothers of Hardly Initiated! Thank you both for your ministry!!!!

@sandraforsythe2079 8 ай бұрын

This is my first time listening to this podcast, and I thoroughly enjoyed this article. Another one, please

@chandrabrown-nelson3986 9 ай бұрын

Very excited about this episode.. I thoroughly love both of these podcasts, and this was a great move! Also, cheating is very painful on both parties, but recovery is possible "when" both partners are willing to do whatever necessary. Marriage is for mature, selfless people.. It requires renewing of mindset and ideas about what marriage should look like. There is always communication , sometimes in a whisper before a scream. We must stay checked into our mates and their needs and communicate what is needed as marriages evolve because leveryone changes!

@danagrappie4942 10 ай бұрын

I love Laterras wisdom and growth. He has evolved tremendously as he transparently share his journey. I’ve been a huge fan of Dear Future Wifey for years and witnessed it. I have enjoyed this collaboration and yes, pleeease do another one! Great job gentlemen ❤❤️

@parthiniatillmon1244 10 ай бұрын

"How do I fault a woman for running into a bunch of mes on the way to me" Mr. Larerras R. Whitfield, sir you just said a whole word right there sir!

@withloveleemu 9 ай бұрын

it is important when the other party takes accountability for ones' action. Thank you, Laterras, for mentioning this because this hit me hard. My ex-husband refused to accept and apologize for the hurt, pain and the infidelities. We have a child together and it has been one of the hardest healing processes for me. I still have to communicate with this man, and it can be very difficult at times. New Subbie here "Hardly Initiated".

@lisasmith-cusaac8004 8 ай бұрын

Another one please ! Thank you for the open honest conversation Mr. Whitfield and to the wonderful team conducting the forum - kudos to you both as well !!!

@daynae8669 10 ай бұрын

This is great! This is so needed for all couples and necessary for premarital counseling

@sonya.anthony 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for being real and sharing wisdom learned over time. This information is so valuable in having a solid marriage. This is wonderful.❤️❤️❤️

@tammyevans5109 9 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this conversation. I learned some things. And some things that I already felt were confirmed. Thanks for this dialogue ❤

@leetamatthews-griffith2706 10 ай бұрын

Another one really enjoy that conversation. I learn a lot. Thanks for sharing. Can’t wait for the next one.❤

@sapphiredelight 10 ай бұрын

This was a great conversation! Laterras has helped me in so many ways! Keep up the great content!

@michellemorris9181 10 ай бұрын

This was so good and it has helped me see I still have some work to do on me because I have hidden somethings that I thought I did not heal from and I need to. You need another collaboration!!

@cheryljohns5868 10 ай бұрын

Why are yall saying marriage brings out the worst in you? I disagree. Marriage brings out who you really are. Marriage is a beautiful thing if you are with the right person, it should bring out the best of you.

@jesstheromantic 25 күн бұрын

I always say this 💀 and maybe it’s a function of my youth but if we got to the point where we’re married, i should know you at your core, our values should align, and I should trust you with my life. Some of these struggles these married couples talk about I’m like .. I don’t even think the foundation of a covenant marriage was truly there.

@skysthelimitforeveryoung3437 9 ай бұрын

ANOTHER ONE ☝🏽 🎉. Thank you for your vulnerability while sharing your testimony. Being introspective through the lens of faith takes courage and accountability. I pray both men and women learn from your story to become more intentional with themselves and their partners. Thank you. 🎊

@bernadettefrancis8190 10 ай бұрын

I love watching both of these podcasts. I love the gems of knowledge being shown on all the episodes. I learn something on each episode. I pray both podcasts be available on open forums as they are for years to come. I’ll always chose to watch these podcasts. Lord bless these men with God fearing, prayer warriors, agape love with the peace of God ladies in all their lives. Please be safe, careful, alert, intentional in your ways in these open platform streets. The Devil is in sheep clothing. People are not whom they seem to be. Stay strong men and peace of Gods coverage on your lives & the good work y’all doing. Please do more collaborations with Mr My Future Wifey! I truly pray your future wifey comes soon.

@bridgetp3989 10 ай бұрын

Love Laterras and his work!!!! Less than a minute into the video and can't wait for the dialogue!

@loladivinity2 10 ай бұрын

Wow, so many intelligent, conscious men in one room. This talk is such a blessing 🙏. Thank you gentlemen.

@lesleyaddison1999 10 ай бұрын

I just subscribed!! Yes Fellas this channel is so needed in our lives. Blessings.

@TanTanWoods 10 ай бұрын

Loved this convo. I can always appreciate truth and transparency ❤

@SheelahA74 10 ай бұрын

Another one…….Laterras is so transparent and I love it. Most people lie to themselves so it’s hard to hear truth. I would love to have a man who was this transparent but is willing to accept my transparency . However, when a woman is this transparent it’s hard for most men to accept it. This was a great episode, you guys asked him so great questions. Bring him back and I pray for your podcast as well🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@cocoblessings 9 ай бұрын

So true!

@departfromevil2000 10 ай бұрын

These was a great conversation, thanks brothas, we need another one!

@terrytrowbridge2730 9 ай бұрын

I came accross this by accident and totally enjoyed listening to you gentlemen. I'm always interested in learning how men think, feel, and interpret things. Because if I'm lucky enough to find that love again in my life I want to be everything he needs. Cause I know pouring into that is the same as investing into myself as well. So thank you for the great information.

@letsbefruitful5457 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for this opportunity to hear messages like this ❤ I’m learning so , much! When I’m ready to step back in the ( when my teenage children are grown up) dating scene 🎬 I will be more active to be a better partner!

@bestyledbystacey 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your vulnerability Bro. L! ❤️🙏🏾 We need this double healing conversation

@shirleycrutison4857 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for being so transparent and sharing your issues. It was very interesting.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

@chantelw.1865 10 ай бұрын

This was the DEEPEST and BEST conversation! 💜

@Coronaboii88 9 ай бұрын

It’s rare to hear somebody be so transparent about their life. Even including their mistakes and learning from them. God bless you brother 🙏🏽

@lesleyaddison1999 10 ай бұрын

Thank U Laterras for always being lit and transparent. You are so awesome brother. Many Many More Blessed Returns 🙌🏾 🎉🌟❤️

@Realness4sho 2 ай бұрын

Yes, you’ll breaking it down.✅💯

@mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919 10 ай бұрын

Deep experience and testimony to inspire sooo many people!! Great discussion!!

@hyacinthmckenzie6822 9 ай бұрын

I was 25 my husband was 53 when we got married he died at the age103 I have never cheated on him

@clarissahoward1901 8 ай бұрын

Thank you gentlemen, this was so eye opening. I was married for 31 years and divorced my husband because of years of infidelity. If only we approached things as shared in the interview maybe we would have had a different outcome. I will know for the future.

@MomentswithTiffany 9 ай бұрын

The fact that he’s still covering her and protecting their business even after the divorce says alot about the man he is! This was good!

@tawainahollis4770 8 ай бұрын

I’m feeling like it’s a marriage that can & should be reconciled.

@CocoaBeauty79 8 ай бұрын

@@tawainahollis4770thank you so much for saying this. I agree that they could be reconciled.

@user-mn7jq3yu5w 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. It makes my healing more possible.

@pmalvo2 9 ай бұрын

Another one. Really learned from this video and it's been really impactful. So many teachings in this video. Good bless

@dorithaskinner4071 10 ай бұрын

I also want relationship check points in my next relationship as well. I think that is the key to a successful relationship/marriage.

@AmarisLW 10 ай бұрын

OMG BOTH MY FAVORITE PODCAST! YESSSSSSS!!!!! This was amazing! And the EDITING!!! Grade A!!! Love this!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@jayf2898 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for being transparent, I really enjoyed the show, great information

@Jaycee472 10 ай бұрын

Nothing but gems dropped. Great conversation. I don’t even know how this ended on my newsfeed, but I’m glad it did.

@chaarate6821 10 ай бұрын

This is right on time... Thank you for this upload... Bro got some jewels relating to cultivating our wives and understanding the want and need dynamic. Thanks again.

@demetriuswilliams5620 9 ай бұрын

I needed this episode badly, thank you men for your honesty!

@19Hollisterchick90 9 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you guys collaborated. I have recommended both channels because there's so many bad things said about Black, male podcast hosts. People don't even realize there's great ones you can actually learn from. DFW is one of the main reasons I attracted the relationship I'm in now versus what I was in last year. It was hard going from an 8 year relationship, to dating an undercover F-boy for three months, to now dating an absolute sweetheart at 32. There are great men out here and thankfully they have you guys to watch and learn from.

@DearFutureWifey 9 ай бұрын

Wow! That just blessed my heart. Thank you

@19Hollisterchick90 9 ай бұрын

@@DearFutureWifey thanks for your sincerity in your work!

@CharCharJars 9 ай бұрын

WoW y’all, thank you for this❤ It’s really hard to point out one thing I loved, it all was phenomenal. Again I say, ANOTHER ONE ☝🏾

@rhondawade9229 10 ай бұрын

This podcast is so Rich Laterras!! Thank you so much for being transparent, vulnerable and Real!! God is truly going to get the glory out of this on so many levels!!❤❤💜💜

@nialewis2017 10 ай бұрын

I know the video hasn’t even dropped yet, however I’m so happy you all finally got him on here I was anticipating this for some time now! Excited 😆

@t7cooley420 10 ай бұрын

You and me together! When I saw his face I’m like “Oh my goodness”! 😮 I’m so looking forward to this conversation and am praying I can catch it live. 😉

@nialewis2017 10 ай бұрын

@@t7cooley420 Me too!! ☺️

@anitraalexander617 10 ай бұрын

Meeee too Sis!!! 🌻

@EuniQview 10 ай бұрын

Me tooooo😅

@ameliajohnson4454 10 ай бұрын

❤😊

@goldenlady1108 10 ай бұрын

Another one please. This was a great mature conversation. Looking forward to the next collaboration 🎉🎉🎉 Maybe a travel live show for the summer! 🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️

@robinturner2317 9 ай бұрын

Love his honesty and transparency!!! Because a lot of men are out here cheating! Not all men but more than most! It’s awesome that a man, a brother is starting this conversation and talking from a man’s point of view and perspective! Not to mention and man of God! This was awesome!!! I pray that men can hear and receive from this brother!

@theauraclesalon 8 ай бұрын

MEN DON'T NEED A WHY TO CHEAT! People don't have a cheating problem, People have a HONOR problem.

@gracea4229 10 ай бұрын

This was very informative. I learned a lot. Thanks

@rochellepratt821 3 ай бұрын

Awesome podcast!! REAL TALK!! Thank you Laterras R. Whitfield for your openness and for sharing such wisdom! God has truly blessed you to be a light, and an instrument used to show other men how to be a kingdom man! I applaud the man of God you are today. You have so much to share that will help both men and women! I pray that God would bless you with an amazing wife! You deserve it, and have so much to give! God bless you!

@jewelssparks3648 8 ай бұрын

This is so great! Especially in light of how men podcast / talk shows degrade women. This was a genuine and honest conversation. I especially appreciated it when he brought to light the hypocrisy and double standard in the "body count" issue. Our bodies are temples, and it's both men and women's responsibility to honor themselves.

@honeymonroe2804 10 ай бұрын

I listen to both podcasts and I Thank YOU for bringing this TOGETHER ❤

@misskaykayRSA 7 ай бұрын

Absolutely loved this episode…. So insightful and informative. Also so uplifting. A God of second chances ❤

@eduoendifreke1960 8 ай бұрын

Laterras has always been very real in all of his conversations, and I respect that about him. Thank you, Great Men, for all you do to touch lives positively.

@dianaazaka7758 9 ай бұрын

Another one!!!! This was such an amazing episode. Wowwww. The level of transparency was amazing to hear. God bless you all.

@jteemer2999 8 ай бұрын

Definitely - ANOTHER ONE! It's so refreshing to see accountability from all sides. The counseling is a must! I'll look forward to the next collab!

@RayGlatt 7 ай бұрын

The ugliest men cheat, how??? I don't want any ugly man talk to me unless he has a nice body.

@tiniesmalls06 10 ай бұрын

Might be one of the best episodes yet! And you all have had many great people on.

@blackqueen67 10 ай бұрын

Another one!!! This was a great interview, love seeing it

@1ladeev 10 ай бұрын

ANOTHER ONE! I appreciate the real conversation and the honesty! I also think it's sad that women nowadays move differently....deceitful. Bless you all and keep the conversation going!