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Dad was a narcissist and a degenerate gambler . He was hurt early in his life and suffered from his demons , had to learn to love him, my hard earned boundaries made that possible, RIP Dad❤

Grew up with four sisters and she's right when she says a guy gets to see the world through a female lense. Sometimes it helps (I can read my wife well) sometimes it hinders (waiting to be rescued rather than fighting)

Mothers love their son men raise their sons. Its just a saying don’t attack me

Wonderful, Sadia! You have such great insight into everything!

Sadia is so smart and really makes sense regarding her observations!

Good night my name is Michael I am from Trinidad and Tobago. I just want to thank you for your professional feed back on those topics you are entailing. I strongly believe that your explaining of those things are true against all those other podcast with persons who are not professionals.

💯 👏 Thanks, Sadia, You’ve always stayed true to who you are and what you believe in, re what makes a thriving relationship/ family unit and I want to say THANK YOU for doing so!, Even though I’m sure you get some backlash based on how nuts our western/modern values currently are (which completely change the way men and women are intended to thrive). I appreciate you so much and I pray that God continues to give you strength, guidance, and determination to keep on going forward and sharing your expertise with the world! ❤

I actually disaggree. There is a difference between tough love and banter and NON-sense criticism. It depends from what place that comes from.

I can listen to her all day. Stirling advice

Great points!

Glorious Sadia

On the next video can you please talk about the oldest child taking care of the kids in the house, and having to stay out of school because of that and more about the affect on the oldest child growing up

Thank you for pointing out the things about the son father relation-ship.

Great vid.. next level!

If your definition of a "good dad"' who critisizes raises "feminine" men, then shouldnt that way of raising boys be avoided? Sadia, you like sports anologies. A good coach motivates, uplifts, gives tools to face challenges and in return, creates players with a strong character. If this son were to get teased, I would argue they would have thicker skin and would not be phased because they are resilient and have self confidence. Meanwhile, a coach who yells and is demeening has players develop low self esteem, insecurities and perfectionism. This son would feel the need to bury feelings, constantly wear a mask and feel belittled inside. We need to break the cycle and encourage our children to grow in wisdom and mental and emotional fortitude.

Absolutely brilliant. You are a beautiful inside and out. Thanks for the video. You are different from all the others. You speak the truth

She just described my 2 recent exes! Definitely gonna pay more attention to this when dating

thanks Sadia!

Having seen my sisters and mum get involved with wrong men, i can give a few pointers: i) If he is loud/open with you but quiet/shy in front of your family ii) If he is too good to be true iii) if he is amazingly confident, determine whether he is an unstable or stable extrovert. iV) Know your personality types: you are looking for either: low extrovert/low neurotic (women tend to be favorably biased towards extroverts), or stable extroverts.

Wow, why are u so right 💜my ex had daddy issues and was so insecure and everything wrong

I felt you were talking about me, but my reason to not talking to him is he cheated my mom and on top of that he was abusive as well. Am i doing right? Or how to change this pattern in my behaviour coz I don't wanna be red flag

Both of my parents were nice and pampering. Here I am. Sensitive. Can't take any heat.

2 friends from my past come to mind, they could dish out the banter all day long but as soon as you fired back they would get massively triggered & upset… it was infuriating to the point I stopped hanging out with them, one of them I would constantly point this out to & the response was a denial that he’d said anything bad to anyone… both of them had shitty fathers one of whom died young… it’s something I’ve had to work through also, the problem isn’t constructive criticism from a father, it’s when the criticism is unjustified or not based on reality & comes from their unhappiness… add to that the complete lack of anything else other than that, your not helping you’re just abusing at that point… after time it creates resentment. At least I had the balls to confront my father about it in my early 20’s, most people I know with crap fathers just whine about it but to their face they say nothing.

Nice video cut at the end👍🏻👍🏻

Thank God there are still women in the world like this that don't deny nature, but in fact embrace it

Love you Sadia 😘

I totally agree with you because I’m one of those men that you’re talking about who doesn’t get a long with his father. What is the solution? I think it’s to be more understanding of my father and know that he was coming from a good place. To forgive him and love him more.

I 100% agree on everything you said, by experience!

Thank you I understand now I always thought men were just being critical to me I took it personally..my dad and mom died when I was very young so I had to find out alot of hard things

deadly right i have male friend like this exactly what shadia told 100% accurate

Not all men are hypercritical, cold, and distant. That is incorrect.

Brilliant video

WHEN YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT REAL LOVE,DEFINITELY THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE ARE THERE TOO.

Wowwwwwww you are soooo right

Fathers and sons are to be friends at some point in life so as to upgrade ourselves to the next level...just remember not to cross ur friend ....

Hi Sadia, thank you so much for this video! I have a question please: I just met a guy whose father left his mum when the guy was like 5 yo. So basically he grew up just with his mum and he has a negative opinion about his dad (who actually left the family), so he has a point, I guess? In this situation, should I see this red flag or is it a normal situation and I should proceed with getting to know the guy further? P.S. When we met I noticed his feminine like gestures; I also had given him some constructive feedback that apparently offended him. That is why I ask the question as I seem to be confused if he has this red flag. Thanks! Maryia

David Hammond's video released today supports some of what Sadia says here regarding men only having being fostered by women. It's a video geared towards Men and it's called "Do Not Take Advice From Women". (Don't merely judge the book by the cover, it's Not misogynistic but rather explains that men and women operate by different dynamics)

Your parental relationship is nothing compared to a monetized KZfaq video. The high sub count is directly related to the cuteness.

My ex yes. He said his dad was too harsh which was true but he could not take criticism from me! Spot on. He would silent treatment me

At least you mention people that criticize fathers with substance and addiction/alcoholism as merited though,, many people don’t understand needing to have boundaries witch your parents when they’re like this - addicted/alcoholic and abusive -

Sadia, could you make a video on hypergamy?

Guilty from #1...scared to go on 😢

My dad was a great guy and he wasn’t feminine. He loved and respected his dad and brother but had a close relationship with his mother who was married to his father and there was never a divorce or much tension that I know of; but at times the father was harsh on my dad all that did was have my dad pursue a relationship with a woman (my mom) who was like his father and too tough on him, in my opinion not how a wife should be to their man: I’m disappointed by it and felt my dad deserved better. While that you’re saying is true for some men it really is a case by case thing And should be treated super carefully that both our parents influence us in some way, one parent might have more influence than the other but the issues that are created are unique to the dynamic

Spot on. 100%

Missed the part where the father have to teach the young boy how to be a man, not only criticize, because it will create in him feelings of failure and not being good enough, no matter what he do. Criticism is good to be constructive one, otherwise is useless. Father is protector, but also a mentor. He is stable and not fear the position of being disliked for what he do for the sake of long-term development of the child. No matter how the kid will perceive it initially. That is where explanations come or personal example. Question: let say you are in such position of feminine man, loser, broken, etc. What now? What should you do to fix yourself when you lack unconditional love of your mother and masculine example and mentorship of your father? Easy to point the problem, hard to provide working solution.

I have a question for Sadia is being a very high sensitive person as a man a red flag for women when he's a good person with a nice personality?

i love subtitle

can that be fixed?

You should make most of your content free and sell a book or a course. Or can you please make a book or a course and keep the patron bc I really love your content sadia

Subscribed

I'm a big red flag for women just by myself and I love it so much !

WHILE WORKING AFTER MIDNIGHT WHEN I WAS STOPPED FOR INQUIRY, I DIDN'T SEE ANY REASON TO BE STOPPED, I CALLED 911.

I REMEMBER ONCE, TWO LADIES TRIED IMAM FOR THEIR PART,BUT HE HAD ASSET PROTECTION.

Well said. Guys who have women's perspective have girly attitude

Very impressive video

I BELIEVE THIS KIND OF SNEREO TO ONLY THOSE WHO DON'T CONSULT TO THEIR LAWYERS.

But is there anything wrong with dating a feminine man? I am a bit more on the masculine side and so I think my boyfriend and I complement each other

My father abused me was a meth addict he shot up meth and stayed in his room all weekend doing nasty things, had porn all around the home all the time, for years and years, and was a workaholic, he beat me and my brother, and we were very poor. Ran off my mother when I was 5 years old, and eventually my grandfather got my father a good job, and so my father made lots of money, now he is rich, but he would never help me, always had no time for me, I been disabled since childhood with depression. So I am disabled, never found a healthy loving relationship, hyper sexual wants, addicted to pain meds, due to painful back injuries. I turned out a little like like he was, at his worst, but I never had kids, thank god. I know I have red flags, I'm a mess.

I'd like a show on how to get a good quality woman if I don't make a lot of money. I had a hell of a life so kinda got caught up daily survival rather than concentrating on future success I guess. I work really hard but don't make a lot of money. What the hell does a guy say when meeting someone? Just started listening to you and I think I'll sign up on your site to ask you questions

what is tough love and the difference with abusive father?

ATTRACTIVE THINGS MAKE US TO WRONG OR RIGHT TOO.

ONLY ASSET PROTECTION SAVE WEALTHY MEN AND WOMEN BECAUSE OF GREEDINESS PEOPLE GO AGAINST EACHOTHER, ESPECIALLY AT THE TIME OF CLOSING ON HOUSE DEALS.

MY ONE OF THE DEARS PUT INQUIRY ON ME AND FORGOT I WAS HIS DADY.

i have a question what if hes loyal and shit but when we talk dirty he brings up weird fantasies like gang bang but then he says that he would never do this in real life but only for the sake of making the talk more fun on chatt? is this something to worry about idkkkk we have been dating for nearly 2 years

I STRICTLY STAYED ON SUPPORT OF MY PARENTS,THEIR LOVE ONES FOR LAST 25 YEARS BECAUSE OF SAINTS PRAYERS.

"As soon as a woman belongs to us, we are no longer subject to her." Michel de Montaigne, (Essays, 1580). Sadia, what do you think?

My ex disrespected his dad for this. He would give me the silent treatment for any type of criticism.

This is very good advice

Couldn’t agree more

Where can I learn more about the masculine and feminine versions of love…

Danke!

Fathers can be a voice of guidance, support and practicality but so can mothers. And parents don’t have to be dream killers. There’s a difference. I hear you but at times I think you need to use better examples or words. Locker room talk, to joke around with each other is one thing but to bully is another. The words like “loser” sounds awful. This sounds like it’s proposing machismo and toxic masculinity to be the norm - but where has that got society ? Men who feel they can’t be artistic or express themselves or emotionally respond bc then people like you will say “you’re not a man”. You’re a beautiful and smart woman. You don’t have to cater to male ego. It makes an audience and money, but is it really helpful to society? Men with high suicide rates, depression? We need more men to emotionally express in a heathy way -

Far more complex than that...

After I sent a playlist to Morgan these freaks deleted everything in my KZfaq

i justl clcked the 1k like :D

My dad was a twat

PEOPLE OR GOVERNMENT TRUST MOSQUE FOR CERTAIN LIMITS NOT LONG ENOUGH.

Firstly: I agree with your observation. I noticed the same in friends and acquaintances. My father (sober drunk) was strong, but his mother was a textbook narcissist, and he married a woman that acts similar, my mother (a drunk). Secondly: My father was (is) emotional available and spoke the truth to me. But he also supported me. I love that man. He endured so much shit, bankruptcy, cancer, manipulation, a betrayal by the own brother and psycho terror from his own wife. And he is still the most decent man I have ever known. About locker room talk, masculine behavior, dads and schools: Locker room talk is overrated. I was almost beaten to death three times, because I had red hair. My school time was hell. Everyday beating, real torture (pulled my nails and such shit). The teacher didn't care. But my father was a pacifist, so no violence was allowed. Snitching made it worse, so that was not an option. I had to fight eight guys at once at some days. They tormented others as well, but I went in between and took the beating. Taunt them, that their punches were weak. Yeah, I guess I toughened up or got traumatized, whatever! At the fourth attempt of killing me, school property broke because of me. They tried to crush me between a wooden door and a stone wall. The door broke before I did. Suddenly, I had to pay the door, because I could have said "stop".... That was when I flipped and explained to the principal and all teachers in the near vicinity what was really happening here in this school and that I have the scars to prove it, and when they don't act, I would go to the press. At that day, nothing changed. Then there was a mass shooting in a school in the same state, and suddenly everyone was afraid of me, because I was also a bullied quiet kid. Funny thing is, never fired a shot in my life. Never even held a gun. But I had peace after that. This did not occur in the US.

Life is a experience I believe

Yes

Sadia, if more women would respect their father this world would be better. Thank you for placing sucg an importance on fathers. I am not one, neither do I intend to be one, but as Robert Bly said "There isn't enougy father".

ESPECIALLY PEOPLE FROM OTHER WORLD ARE HERE TO MAKE MONEY NOT TO DONATE MONEY.

Hi Sadia checking in I asked Morgan to get a HOTEL for me her mom and sisters tonight pay upfront until the end of the month karmics freaks here are getting desperate and they have life insurance policies on all of us

🌬✨️yaup🚾😇🪬🌺❤️‍🔥🌴🔮♻️🧘🏽🧞‍♂️🫡🔥 Slow motion that.☮️

True

I feel how a man is to his mother is the bigger indicator to how a guy will treat his wife or girlfriend .

My Father is an honorable Man. 😌

Do you think Karen is Critical?

Well this description of masculinity that was given by you is very attractive.

I get what shes saying.

More common sense from this pretty face. Refreshing.

I wish l had known this before l got married 😢

Sadia woman psychology is not that easy to understand it is very unpredictable.

Let 😅 play 20 questions the game 😅

Hello Madam , where are you. ? Lets build an Order for the good life of coming generations , we dont need political leaders, we need social leaders . I want to come and meet you. 🙏🙏

Green flags in men

1 red flag I hate my dad, and all my step dads

Sadia Kahn , my question is, I'm still impressed by the way you end a video with Sadia talking over Sadia . Ps . Stop communicating like you're just wrapping up the last few days of a lifelong trauma , ( the panicked talking - quick -deep -inhale thing) 👀.

Wtf I grew up knowing I am orphan. I flip everyone's else