How Hijackals Hook You - How to Unhook, Step Back and See Clearly

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How Hijackals Hook You - How to Unhook, Step Back and See Clearly

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Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships

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If you've been with a Hijackal or other toxic person for long, you may feel as though you suffer from brain fog. You can't think straight and you're too exhausted to do so anyway. Gain perspective about your situation and best next steps to consider.
* * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.
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@amandatarkington6877 2 жыл бұрын

I truly can't believe these people actally think they can suck you into their lies!

@ForRelationshipHelp 2 жыл бұрын

They not only think they can, they unfortunately do!

@demigaines5644 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS THEY HAVE HELPED ME TREMENDOUSLY. I WAS HORRIBLY ABUSED BY AN OVERT NARCISSISTS. HE BELITTLED ME SO BAD .I DID ALL THE CHASING AND ONCE HE HAS ACCOMPLISHED USING ME GETTING WHAT HE WANTS HE WOULD DISCARD OF ME..GIVING ME MONTHS AND YEARS OF THE SILENT TREATMENT.TREATING ME LIKE I DONT EXIST.. THIS ALMOST CAUSED MY SUICIDE.. IM SO HAPPY THAT IM FINALLY GETTING HELP FROM A LIFE COACH.. NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS THE MOST CRUEL ABUSE TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.

@ForRelationshipHelp 3 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome. It's sad how poorly they treat people, and yet people stay hooked on them. I'm glad to hear that you found your way out.

@demigaines5644 3 жыл бұрын

@@ForRelationshipHelp You Are So Very 🙏 Welcome..YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.. NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS BRUTAL...FROM MY PAINFUL EXPERIENCE..

@sweetbabe3539 3 жыл бұрын

All I got is crumbs for twenty four years and five boys homeschooled. I am a nothing , have no friends, totally ALONE. A hijackaled mom and a hijackled husband. I had on rose colored glasses with my mom, figured her out last year and now I am realizing my husband is a hijackle. Oh my god! Stay at home mom for 19 yrs and because I disagree with his version of Christianity, the demon behavior surfaced. I began working on myself, science, psychology, and childhood programming. This guy is so irrational, a huge trigger. He is the print of my mother, covert. I lived dissociated, living from my lizard brain for 24 yrs. I have been hating myself all my life, knowing something is wrong with me. NOW I KNOW.

@ianarceneaux867 3 жыл бұрын

You know Dr Shaler. Women do the same thing as well. It takes 2 people to achieve a relationship/marriage, by complimenting each through constant support and affection day and night, whether physically together or not throughout those time periods. If there is constant denial of attention on behalf of one or the other in significance, then that's when things start fall apart.

@SoulSpa6835 3 жыл бұрын

Yes abusers come from all walks of life and both genders. But it never ‘takes two’ when abuse in involved, as much as abusers would like to convince people that is the case. In fact, my abuser just said that the other day. I’m sure some believe her but those that do are of no use to survivors.

@sgm6603 3 жыл бұрын

So true.

@ianarceneaux867 3 жыл бұрын

2 people can abuse each other it is very possible. Bringing up past fights as fuel to back there current argument and disregards for the significant other feelings... Dual abuse happens quite often. The objective is to recognize it and take measures to repair it, through a psychological conditioning process, which is profoundly effective and God as the most effective tool..

@ianarceneaux867 3 жыл бұрын

@@SoulSpa6835 2 people can abuse each other it is very possible. Bringing up past fights as fuel to back there current argument and disregards for the significant other feelings... Dual abuse happens quite often. The objective is to recognize it and take measures to repair it, through a psychological conditioning process, which is profoundly effective and God as the most effective tool..

@ForRelationshipHelp 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, as I say often, there are equal numbers of men and women with Hijackal behaviors.

@sgm6603 3 жыл бұрын

Your podcasts are incredible. Very relevant and the tools given invaluable.💝

@ForRelationshipHelp 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

@mynewlife1911 9 ай бұрын

Truth✅💯

@craiglaing8421 2 жыл бұрын

How does divorce typically go with a hijackal?

@juliettanornidante 3 жыл бұрын

these kind of people are everywhere I don't even know one single person who isn't a hijackal? so this means I'm very unfortunate?

@ForRelationshipHelp 3 жыл бұрын

Not one person? It doesn't mean you're unfortunate as much as you may be with people who are unreliable when they tell you things about yourself. Do you believe what they say about you?

@juliettanornidante 3 жыл бұрын

@@ForRelationshipHelp I always do research to find the truth, cause I know everyone can make mistakes.Your podcasts helped me so much, now I know there was nothing wrong with me!!! Of course at first I questioned my self as any healthy person would do. I came to conclusion that, How they form their perception about me has nothing to do with my actual self it's about them. How they keep on misunderstanding on purpose just to irritate the hell out of me? Or to use it for their own benefits?? I would never choose to hurt anyone for whatever benefit it might bring these people are sadistically disrespectful. There is no RECIPROCITY, trace of any respect or understanding in trying to wear someone down for years? I think they actually don't care to know me at all, "their views" or RIGHTNESS are more important than me, I guess I'm too passionate that's my BIG problem!!! HOW CAN I DARE TO QUESTION THE SYSTEM WHEN I SHOULD BE OBEYING??? HA HA HA So a suggestion for next podcasts maybe getting out side the one track labyrinth escape plans? I guess their main issue is about "being in control"? So I guess fighting back with these mentality is a waste of time, you cant change one track minds. So if I'm being used to their benefit is there a way to get any benefit from the parasitic situation? cause for me it's pretty much useless. In science parasites could be beneficial but in real life it's way more complicated. I don't think we benefit from this sort of situations yeah of course I can use these all in creative work etc but preferably I would choose a different experience, a brighter one. Thanks Roberta, heartfelt greetings.

@bodymindsoul60 3 жыл бұрын

@@juliettanornidante RUN!!

@bodymindsoul60 3 жыл бұрын

@@juliettanornidante Stop trying to figure them out ,get away do not be a victim. Build your own life away from toxic individuals. If not, god bless 🙏

@juliettanornidante 3 жыл бұрын

endless benefit of doubt ????????

@ForRelationshipHelp 3 жыл бұрын

That's what #Hijackals want from you: the endless benefit of the doubt, erring on their side. Sad.