Definitely is but the more you practice it the better you’ll get
@eury495911 ай бұрын
of course. like many things though, it really is trainable. if you really cant start with people, try pictures or pets! He may have advertised it as maybe something you can do overnight but it's a scripted skecth so ye... It's acheivable. Funnily enough I got so much better at eye contact during the pandemic because of zoom classes!
@brokeboiacey567411 ай бұрын
@@dalatiA good way to practice this is to talk to the wall out loud while looking at a certain point of the wall.
@krisr522811 ай бұрын
It's only hard if you think about it, just do it a couple times and it becomes natural.
@masterblaster615411 ай бұрын
@@dalati😈 not hard for a demon
@President_Homie8 ай бұрын
This guy just pops out of nowhere and tells the most valuable shit anyone ever needed, straight up no and bs 🗿🙏
@graveyardgorillaz14089 ай бұрын
Holy shit I just realized how soothing his voice is slower. I tried it with a friend and it felt so soothing and relaxed
@KajeKit Жыл бұрын
I also had a problem with keeping eye contact with anyone but one day I met a friend who I havent met for a long time and she noticed that I was trying to avoid eye contact with whoever since I used to get so nervous and scared so she was like "Look at me in the eyes when you speak" and I did EXACTLY that. Now, it's become a habit and I no longer have to force it anymore! I am so thankful for that friend. She a real one.
@VGR.11 ай бұрын
I like how you show the unconfident character have a massive difference in the beggining and the end in the confidence part
@fillo176211 ай бұрын
You’re videos are true gems, thanks man for making us being better human beings everyday
@StrangerDanger101 Жыл бұрын
Bro these tips really works tanx💯
@metro_heroup6 ай бұрын
Yo it's really helped me to be more confident. I just tried this steps whole week. First days were really hard but im not give up on it. Thanks man, you helped a lot
@yyoungyellow9 ай бұрын
Eye contact is so hard😭and it’s weird because I jus end up looking at one eye🤣
@Ballin_clips9 ай бұрын
That happens with me too
@GezerGozer7 ай бұрын
switch every few seconds between their eyes and mouth
@MichaelOxLong1767 ай бұрын
Eye contact is really important, when I met my gf’s dad he said I had better eye contact then people who pitch him ideas at his job, like that stuff totally works ong
@hailer6398 ай бұрын
I found a nice way to practice eye contact is just looking at your teachers eyes at school during lessons even when they are not looking at you and when they look at you just keep it for like 2 more seconds and break it because you dont want to seem more powerful than your teachers, which may lead to them linking you with negative emotions which may reflect in your grades and relations with teachers (dont try to be more powerful than people above you. Its somewhere in the book „48 laws of power” I belive)
@germanguywithamoustache Жыл бұрын
Did anyone noticed he looked down saying "where should I look"💀
@MDPro101 Жыл бұрын
💀
@ItzTheLoser Жыл бұрын
I do the same thing but not like that broo 💀💀
@HowToEatChihuahua8 ай бұрын
Obviously, I would too, he made me lose nnn
@_QaysSs_8 ай бұрын
@@HowToEatChihuahua💀
@complex36378 ай бұрын
how is that funny
@realpotatogaming9 ай бұрын
By the way, if you can't stand eye contact, try to look at the spot between their eyebrows, it looks the same to them.
@mr.shielder83188 ай бұрын
I can finally talk to my grandma properly
@theanadelimaaraujo40548 ай бұрын
I find eye contact uncomfortable because I feel like everyone is judging me. If you relate, just remember that everyone is a weirdo that wonders the same thing. Suddenly, it's not so daunting. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves to care about judging you.
@eliyawaters90756 ай бұрын
My tip for practising is to make an eye contact with people that pass you on the street. And if you feel like it, give them a smile. Helps you notice that people are less malicious than you think they are. Most will smile back at you. You may be scared of their expression, but just look and you'll see they aren't what you expect.
@indranilhazra19925 ай бұрын
mate i just found out ur channel a few days ago and all i would say u earned my respect and Sub
@sirdroplet97638 ай бұрын
some more about eye contact: break eye contact every so often for a second to break the tension, so it doesnt look like youre staring at them. slightly raise your eyebrows to show that youre listening as well
@zephyr_741211 ай бұрын
bro is our saviour
@willmadden600211 ай бұрын
I can say with absolute certain this is a perfect place to start with confidence
@jesteric70356 ай бұрын
I like how he had all 3 problems at the very beggining
@matthewsagar94409 ай бұрын
if you really don't know what to do with your hands then pockets isn't all bad, but make sure you maintain good posture
@Karma77113 ай бұрын
This was very wholesome
@SUPREME_NARUTARD5 ай бұрын
“look them in the eyes it makes them understand what you’re saying better” nah i get too self aware and forget what they say instantly 💀
@Fried_cheese49 ай бұрын
This channel is awesome
@panther3618 Жыл бұрын
Bro's acting is pretty good
@spewky29559 ай бұрын
I try so hard to keep eye contact. I have no clue why I just CANT but for the last like 5 years I been trying and I’m still shit at it. It just feels uncomfortable as hell like they’re not gonna bite me or anything it’s just weird to me
@user-tj6co3zb1k3 ай бұрын
Thank you I gained the confidence to ask out my crush and she said yes 🙂
@Unlocked9852 ай бұрын
The problem is the constant social situations with adults gets me pretty annoyed there’s always a a lot of doctors around cause my dad’s a technician for dental
@water35628 ай бұрын
posture is important too
@Fire-dy7tw5 ай бұрын
I have a problem because keeping eye contact doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable but the people that I speak to always look away.
@iconiverse8 ай бұрын
I wish i learnt this 🎉 tips when i was in high school
@Kaspeerlbc4 ай бұрын
Everyone I look at someone’s eyes while there talking to me it feels like I’m staring right into there soul
@toxixbob83757 ай бұрын
Eye contact goes straight out the window when its pretty girl😂
@whatup80047 ай бұрын
About the pockets it's just really cold at times
@Hellu234 ай бұрын
I remember reading somewhere that holding eye contact is unpleasant from the biological perspective. Thats just something animals do when assarting dominance, fighting between each other (for example like cats) and so on. Therefore i belive that cultures that dont try to hold eye contact have a way more logical position in this sense.
@JUSTSKILLEDCLASSIC6 ай бұрын
Dads be like but with the belt 💀💀😭😭😭😭
@ahmoodi0104 Жыл бұрын
Arigatto
@xxxbaldwin6 ай бұрын
even tho I keep eye contact, they always look away (maybe they thought I was staring at them or weird)
@benest25178 ай бұрын
**Talk slowly and calm** People from Chile: 💀
@uhhhhhhh_smh11 ай бұрын
I can’t do eye contact when I do that I feel less confident for some reason
@MorphinGaming9 ай бұрын
Man I look people dead in the eye if I’m ever talking to them without trying and I feel weird if I’m not looking at them lmao , it’s like part of me is ignoring them if I don’t
@shep41845 ай бұрын
Me watching this with my hand in my pocket 💀
@christiantorres773611 ай бұрын
putting my hands in my pockets is like my default stance. it makes me feel uncomfortable if i dont do it. how do i fix this?
@fnordranger386511 ай бұрын
ty bro
@JanaAlSabahi8 ай бұрын
I took my hands out my pocket, I’m still shy and not confident either
@syedrag52329 ай бұрын
ayo pierre give us some back ecercises
@nightlane13111 ай бұрын
4th thing is Posture.
@cgp27279 ай бұрын
Cause nah he teaching more than school
@siddharthajilal33787 ай бұрын
Surprisingly I don't have no problem with communications
@stuffthatsall35988 ай бұрын
I hate doing eye contact. I feel like I’m being really creepy. Just looking at someone’s eyeballs.
@simoncarrillo73788 ай бұрын
You’re not trust, it’s tough to get used to but believe me, making eye contact is a great way to seem more involved in any conversation
@emilbroseliger85065 ай бұрын
If you need eye contact tips, just stare down cyclists, cause they probably won’t get off their bikes to ask, and you’ll likely still feel the same way with them👍🏼 Worked for me
@spencer43749 ай бұрын
i dont know how to maintain eye contact, its not like i can do it if i am with friends or smth but if im talking to someone older then i feel that it comes off as rude
@Cssisabeautifulthang7 ай бұрын
I blame eye contact on autism. I will get it down soon though
@Robz8558 ай бұрын
im just realizing how hardnit is to talk with my hands like what positions do i put them in
@Bordz_OG11 ай бұрын
Tip from my parents: When looking at a girl, or a boy mid conversation, or whatever, be aware of who you’re talking to. If you like them, then try to signal them by having more eye contact with them, if not, then don’t. Vise versa.
@freakinnightmare38369 ай бұрын
Thanks. Now I look at a wall behind me when my math teacher is talking to me🙏
@SpiritualWorks202411 ай бұрын
it works when talking to a bro but when its a shorty ahhhh HEELLL nah
@chillfrost317011 ай бұрын
if you feel scared looking in someone's eyes, look at their forehead. It really looks like you are looking at them in the eyes
@josephm798811 ай бұрын
not putting my hands in my pockets seems so weird
@coachchidi16 ай бұрын
Brooo🎉
@Jumpy_80709 ай бұрын
Which eye do you look into? I can't focus on both of should I focus on the gap in between?
@LincolnWilcox-mp3nu2 ай бұрын
Hands are really important for communication ME:🖕🏿
@botdante59945 ай бұрын
I cant keep eye contact with anyone i will end up by looking to the floor
@Nazir..prodz279 ай бұрын
I feel like slouching makes you less assertive
@kawffie9 ай бұрын
also makes you look crippled
@JanaAlSabahi8 ай бұрын
When I make eye contact ppl get creeped out as I stare into their soul , I’ve never met someone who makes eye contact it’s weird
@indexoptions Жыл бұрын
❤
@reapzz-_-890411 ай бұрын
4. Posture keep your chin up, shoulders squared witty your chest out. It helps alot
@MShenanigans9 ай бұрын
I already do all these but am still not confident
@SATOR__UU8 ай бұрын
Bro you missed *yo pierre*
@Mr_silly_guy7 ай бұрын
What if its crowd? Or more of a classroom?
@D3f4ult_exe11 ай бұрын
in which eye should I look
@4147.8 ай бұрын
bro eye contact is so awkward
@rubenjanssens14167 ай бұрын
I am autistic and i must say looking people in the eyes is realy hard
@Gigachadashlum4 ай бұрын
Trick to i eye contact look in his eyes but look right and left sometimes don t just stare in his soul
@mayankkumar6dpahal3c72 Жыл бұрын
God
@FirstFishDonut8 ай бұрын
What if you do all of these already and have been for years but still seems like people are afraid/intimidated by me, im nice and honest and i always make people feel like they can talk to me. I just assume people are just scarey nowadays
@Reel_nation3109 ай бұрын
How do you continue texting someone when you don’t know what to say
@bruhboi835611 ай бұрын
I have a problem where i get nervous and red when talking to other people how can i fix that
@mykolas85759 ай бұрын
the hand gestures is a whole new 900000 chinese-character language 💀
@masonfilms01official11 ай бұрын
which eye though?
@run4walk11 ай бұрын
You answered the wrong question. While these will certainly make you come across as more confident, they won't help someone FEEL more confident.
@riyadhzenith8539 ай бұрын
Instead of eye contact, look at their forehead. It will give off the impression you are looking into their eyes
@bemimu9 ай бұрын
Or just don't be a wimp and look at their eyes.
@Senzai7272 ай бұрын
Dawg I’m too autistic for this
@maiahN Жыл бұрын
Him: “Just look me in the eyes” me: confused in autistic 😂
@Saamu16129 ай бұрын
hate dudes that seem to know every single thing
@11yIcyRL9 ай бұрын
Well what about my crush i get loat in her eyes what do i do? Whaaaaaat why you making fun of me
@damon69118 ай бұрын
its very akward to keep my hands out of my pockets
@doiz-gd85055 ай бұрын
Body language Eye contact Posture Dont talk too fast