How To Be More Confident When Talking To Others

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Pierre Dalati

Pierre Dalati

Жыл бұрын

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@zeljkomuzdeka3174
@zeljkomuzdeka3174 Жыл бұрын
Eye contact is harder than it sounds
@dalati
@dalati Жыл бұрын
Definitely is but the more you practice it the better you’ll get
@eury4959
@eury4959 11 ай бұрын
of course. like many things though, it really is trainable. if you really cant start with people, try pictures or pets! He may have advertised it as maybe something you can do overnight but it's a scripted skecth so ye... It's acheivable. Funnily enough I got so much better at eye contact during the pandemic because of zoom classes!
@brokeboiacey5674
@brokeboiacey5674 11 ай бұрын
⁠@@dalatiA good way to practice this is to talk to the wall out loud while looking at a certain point of the wall.
@krisr5228
@krisr5228 11 ай бұрын
It's only hard if you think about it, just do it a couple times and it becomes natural.
@masterblaster6154
@masterblaster6154 11 ай бұрын
​@@dalati😈 not hard for a demon
@President_Homie
@President_Homie 8 ай бұрын
This guy just pops out of nowhere and tells the most valuable shit anyone ever needed, straight up no and bs 🗿🙏
@graveyardgorillaz1408
@graveyardgorillaz1408 9 ай бұрын
Holy shit I just realized how soothing his voice is slower. I tried it with a friend and it felt so soothing and relaxed
@KajeKit
@KajeKit Жыл бұрын
I also had a problem with keeping eye contact with anyone but one day I met a friend who I havent met for a long time and she noticed that I was trying to avoid eye contact with whoever since I used to get so nervous and scared so she was like "Look at me in the eyes when you speak" and I did EXACTLY that. Now, it's become a habit and I no longer have to force it anymore! I am so thankful for that friend. She a real one.
@VGR.
@VGR. 11 ай бұрын
I like how you show the unconfident character have a massive difference in the beggining and the end in the confidence part
@fillo1762
@fillo1762 11 ай бұрын
You’re videos are true gems, thanks man for making us being better human beings everyday
@StrangerDanger101
@StrangerDanger101 Жыл бұрын
Bro these tips really works tanx💯
@metro_heroup
@metro_heroup 6 ай бұрын
Yo it's really helped me to be more confident. I just tried this steps whole week. First days were really hard but im not give up on it. Thanks man, you helped a lot
@yyoungyellow
@yyoungyellow 9 ай бұрын
Eye contact is so hard😭and it’s weird because I jus end up looking at one eye🤣
@Ballin_clips
@Ballin_clips 9 ай бұрын
That happens with me too
@GezerGozer
@GezerGozer 7 ай бұрын
switch every few seconds between their eyes and mouth
@MichaelOxLong176
@MichaelOxLong176 7 ай бұрын
Eye contact is really important, when I met my gf’s dad he said I had better eye contact then people who pitch him ideas at his job, like that stuff totally works ong
@hailer639
@hailer639 8 ай бұрын
I found a nice way to practice eye contact is just looking at your teachers eyes at school during lessons even when they are not looking at you and when they look at you just keep it for like 2 more seconds and break it because you dont want to seem more powerful than your teachers, which may lead to them linking you with negative emotions which may reflect in your grades and relations with teachers (dont try to be more powerful than people above you. Its somewhere in the book „48 laws of power” I belive)
@germanguywithamoustache
@germanguywithamoustache Жыл бұрын
Did anyone noticed he looked down saying "where should I look"💀
@MDPro101
@MDPro101 Жыл бұрын
💀
@ItzTheLoser
@ItzTheLoser Жыл бұрын
I do the same thing but not like that broo 💀💀
@HowToEatChihuahua
@HowToEatChihuahua 8 ай бұрын
Obviously, I would too, he made me lose nnn
@_QaysSs_
@_QaysSs_ 8 ай бұрын
​@@HowToEatChihuahua💀
@complex3637
@complex3637 8 ай бұрын
how is that funny
@realpotatogaming
@realpotatogaming 9 ай бұрын
By the way, if you can't stand eye contact, try to look at the spot between their eyebrows, it looks the same to them.
@mr.shielder8318
@mr.shielder8318 8 ай бұрын
I can finally talk to my grandma properly
@theanadelimaaraujo4054
@theanadelimaaraujo4054 8 ай бұрын
I find eye contact uncomfortable because I feel like everyone is judging me. If you relate, just remember that everyone is a weirdo that wonders the same thing. Suddenly, it's not so daunting. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves to care about judging you.
@eliyawaters9075
@eliyawaters9075 6 ай бұрын
My tip for practising is to make an eye contact with people that pass you on the street. And if you feel like it, give them a smile. Helps you notice that people are less malicious than you think they are. Most will smile back at you. You may be scared of their expression, but just look and you'll see they aren't what you expect.
@indranilhazra1992
@indranilhazra1992 5 ай бұрын
mate i just found out ur channel a few days ago and all i would say u earned my respect and Sub
@sirdroplet9763
@sirdroplet9763 8 ай бұрын
some more about eye contact: break eye contact every so often for a second to break the tension, so it doesnt look like youre staring at them. slightly raise your eyebrows to show that youre listening as well
@zephyr_7412
@zephyr_7412 11 ай бұрын
bro is our saviour
@willmadden6002
@willmadden6002 11 ай бұрын
I can say with absolute certain this is a perfect place to start with confidence
@jesteric7035
@jesteric7035 6 ай бұрын
I like how he had all 3 problems at the very beggining
@matthewsagar9440
@matthewsagar9440 9 ай бұрын
if you really don't know what to do with your hands then pockets isn't all bad, but make sure you maintain good posture
@Karma7711
@Karma7711 3 ай бұрын
This was very wholesome
@SUPREME_NARUTARD
@SUPREME_NARUTARD 5 ай бұрын
“look them in the eyes it makes them understand what you’re saying better” nah i get too self aware and forget what they say instantly 💀
@Fried_cheese4
@Fried_cheese4 9 ай бұрын
This channel is awesome
@panther3618
@panther3618 Жыл бұрын
Bro's acting is pretty good
@spewky2955
@spewky2955 9 ай бұрын
I try so hard to keep eye contact. I have no clue why I just CANT but for the last like 5 years I been trying and I’m still shit at it. It just feels uncomfortable as hell like they’re not gonna bite me or anything it’s just weird to me
@user-tj6co3zb1k
@user-tj6co3zb1k 3 ай бұрын
Thank you I gained the confidence to ask out my crush and she said yes 🙂
@Unlocked985
@Unlocked985 2 ай бұрын
The problem is the constant social situations with adults gets me pretty annoyed there’s always a a lot of doctors around cause my dad’s a technician for dental
@water3562
@water3562 8 ай бұрын
posture is important too
@Fire-dy7tw
@Fire-dy7tw 5 ай бұрын
I have a problem because keeping eye contact doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable but the people that I speak to always look away.
@iconiverse
@iconiverse 8 ай бұрын
I wish i learnt this 🎉 tips when i was in high school
@Kaspeerlbc
@Kaspeerlbc 4 ай бұрын
Everyone I look at someone’s eyes while there talking to me it feels like I’m staring right into there soul
@toxixbob8375
@toxixbob8375 7 ай бұрын
Eye contact goes straight out the window when its pretty girl😂
@whatup8004
@whatup8004 7 ай бұрын
About the pockets it's just really cold at times
@Hellu23
@Hellu23 4 ай бұрын
I remember reading somewhere that holding eye contact is unpleasant from the biological perspective. Thats just something animals do when assarting dominance, fighting between each other (for example like cats) and so on. Therefore i belive that cultures that dont try to hold eye contact have a way more logical position in this sense.
@JUSTSKILLEDCLASSIC
@JUSTSKILLEDCLASSIC 6 ай бұрын
Dads be like but with the belt 💀💀😭😭😭😭
@ahmoodi0104
@ahmoodi0104 Жыл бұрын
Arigatto
@xxxbaldwin
@xxxbaldwin 6 ай бұрын
even tho I keep eye contact, they always look away (maybe they thought I was staring at them or weird)
@benest2517
@benest2517 8 ай бұрын
**Talk slowly and calm** People from Chile: 💀
@uhhhhhhh_smh
@uhhhhhhh_smh 11 ай бұрын
I can’t do eye contact when I do that I feel less confident for some reason
@MorphinGaming
@MorphinGaming 9 ай бұрын
Man I look people dead in the eye if I’m ever talking to them without trying and I feel weird if I’m not looking at them lmao , it’s like part of me is ignoring them if I don’t
@shep4184
@shep4184 5 ай бұрын
Me watching this with my hand in my pocket 💀
@christiantorres7736
@christiantorres7736 11 ай бұрын
putting my hands in my pockets is like my default stance. it makes me feel uncomfortable if i dont do it. how do i fix this?
@fnordranger3865
@fnordranger3865 11 ай бұрын
ty bro
@JanaAlSabahi
@JanaAlSabahi 8 ай бұрын
I took my hands out my pocket, I’m still shy and not confident either
@syedrag5232
@syedrag5232 9 ай бұрын
ayo pierre give us some back ecercises
@nightlane131
@nightlane131 11 ай бұрын
4th thing is Posture.
@cgp2727
@cgp2727 9 ай бұрын
Cause nah he teaching more than school
@siddharthajilal3378
@siddharthajilal3378 7 ай бұрын
Surprisingly I don't have no problem with communications
@stuffthatsall3598
@stuffthatsall3598 8 ай бұрын
I hate doing eye contact. I feel like I’m being really creepy. Just looking at someone’s eyeballs.
@simoncarrillo7378
@simoncarrillo7378 8 ай бұрын
You’re not trust, it’s tough to get used to but believe me, making eye contact is a great way to seem more involved in any conversation
@emilbroseliger8506
@emilbroseliger8506 5 ай бұрын
If you need eye contact tips, just stare down cyclists, cause they probably won’t get off their bikes to ask, and you’ll likely still feel the same way with them👍🏼 Worked for me
@spencer4374
@spencer4374 9 ай бұрын
i dont know how to maintain eye contact, its not like i can do it if i am with friends or smth but if im talking to someone older then i feel that it comes off as rude
@Cssisabeautifulthang
@Cssisabeautifulthang 7 ай бұрын
I blame eye contact on autism. I will get it down soon though
@Robz855
@Robz855 8 ай бұрын
im just realizing how hardnit is to talk with my hands like what positions do i put them in
@Bordz_OG
@Bordz_OG 11 ай бұрын
Tip from my parents: When looking at a girl, or a boy mid conversation, or whatever, be aware of who you’re talking to. If you like them, then try to signal them by having more eye contact with them, if not, then don’t. Vise versa.
@freakinnightmare3836
@freakinnightmare3836 9 ай бұрын
Thanks. Now I look at a wall behind me when my math teacher is talking to me🙏
@SpiritualWorks2024
@SpiritualWorks2024 11 ай бұрын
it works when talking to a bro but when its a shorty ahhhh HEELLL nah
@chillfrost3170
@chillfrost3170 11 ай бұрын
if you feel scared looking in someone's eyes, look at their forehead. It really looks like you are looking at them in the eyes
@josephm7988
@josephm7988 11 ай бұрын
not putting my hands in my pockets seems so weird
@coachchidi1
@coachchidi1 6 ай бұрын
Brooo🎉
@Jumpy_8070
@Jumpy_8070 9 ай бұрын
Which eye do you look into? I can't focus on both of should I focus on the gap in between?
@LincolnWilcox-mp3nu
@LincolnWilcox-mp3nu 2 ай бұрын
Hands are really important for communication ME:🖕🏿
@botdante5994
@botdante5994 5 ай бұрын
I cant keep eye contact with anyone i will end up by looking to the floor
@Nazir..prodz27
@Nazir..prodz27 9 ай бұрын
I feel like slouching makes you less assertive
@kawffie
@kawffie 9 ай бұрын
also makes you look crippled
@JanaAlSabahi
@JanaAlSabahi 8 ай бұрын
When I make eye contact ppl get creeped out as I stare into their soul , I’ve never met someone who makes eye contact it’s weird
@indexoptions
@indexoptions Жыл бұрын
@reapzz-_-8904
@reapzz-_-8904 11 ай бұрын
4. Posture keep your chin up, shoulders squared witty your chest out. It helps alot
@MShenanigans
@MShenanigans 9 ай бұрын
I already do all these but am still not confident
@SATOR__UU
@SATOR__UU 8 ай бұрын
Bro you missed *yo pierre*
@Mr_silly_guy
@Mr_silly_guy 7 ай бұрын
What if its crowd? Or more of a classroom?
@D3f4ult_exe
@D3f4ult_exe 11 ай бұрын
in which eye should I look
@4147.
@4147. 8 ай бұрын
bro eye contact is so awkward
@rubenjanssens1416
@rubenjanssens1416 7 ай бұрын
I am autistic and i must say looking people in the eyes is realy hard
@Gigachadashlum
@Gigachadashlum 4 ай бұрын
Trick to i eye contact look in his eyes but look right and left sometimes don t just stare in his soul
@mayankkumar6dpahal3c72
@mayankkumar6dpahal3c72 Жыл бұрын
God
@FirstFishDonut
@FirstFishDonut 8 ай бұрын
What if you do all of these already and have been for years but still seems like people are afraid/intimidated by me, im nice and honest and i always make people feel like they can talk to me. I just assume people are just scarey nowadays
@Reel_nation310
@Reel_nation310 9 ай бұрын
How do you continue texting someone when you don’t know what to say
@bruhboi8356
@bruhboi8356 11 ай бұрын
I have a problem where i get nervous and red when talking to other people how can i fix that
@mykolas8575
@mykolas8575 9 ай бұрын
the hand gestures is a whole new 900000 chinese-character language 💀
@masonfilms01official
@masonfilms01official 11 ай бұрын
which eye though?
@run4walk
@run4walk 11 ай бұрын
You answered the wrong question. While these will certainly make you come across as more confident, they won't help someone FEEL more confident.
@riyadhzenith853
@riyadhzenith853 9 ай бұрын
Instead of eye contact, look at their forehead. It will give off the impression you are looking into their eyes
@bemimu
@bemimu 9 ай бұрын
Or just don't be a wimp and look at their eyes.
@Senzai727
@Senzai727 2 ай бұрын
Dawg I’m too autistic for this
@maiahN
@maiahN Жыл бұрын
Him: “Just look me in the eyes” me: confused in autistic 😂
@Saamu1612
@Saamu1612 9 ай бұрын
hate dudes that seem to know every single thing
@11yIcyRL
@11yIcyRL 9 ай бұрын
Well what about my crush i get loat in her eyes what do i do? Whaaaaaat why you making fun of me
@damon6911
@damon6911 8 ай бұрын
its very akward to keep my hands out of my pockets
@doiz-gd8505
@doiz-gd8505 5 ай бұрын
Body language Eye contact Posture Dont talk too fast
@holografy9940
@holografy9940 11 ай бұрын
instead, you can look at the nose or ears,
@ReubenBBX
@ReubenBBX 8 ай бұрын
hello
@azdeentalukder8414
@azdeentalukder8414 5 ай бұрын
Bro is talking to himself.
@MIRAGE217
@MIRAGE217 9 ай бұрын
Rule 4: Just stop fapping
@Stitches_719
@Stitches_719 Ай бұрын
Now do it on a woman
@turtleandwolfgaming8737
@turtleandwolfgaming8737 8 ай бұрын
Dalit I is really one of the best guys out there.
@diversity1984
@diversity1984 11 ай бұрын
cut your curly girly hair first …
@xjaypure
@xjaypure 11 ай бұрын
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