How To Cope When Your Adult-Child Has Gone No Contact

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@youtubemariemorinestrangement Ай бұрын

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@tammyniswonger3963 Ай бұрын

I find your videos very helpful. Thank you for sharing your insights.

@premierrulz Ай бұрын

My adult son who was 19 at the time stop speaking to me almost 4 years ago and I've never been through so much emotional pain in my life it hurts more than when I got divorced from his mother definitely the pain has lasted longer. Sometimes when I think about it it rushes like a wave through me and it hurts so bad I can't take it then it goes away but it always comes back I think of him everyday and I pray for reconciliation every night. It's so hard because he won't even answer me

@youtubemariemorinestrangement Ай бұрын

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Grief is the most difficult thing we deal with in this life. Often it’s very helpful to get someone to help us. Please consider a therapist to help you process and move forward. It’s slow going and normal for it to come in waves. Keep in touch and let me know how you’re doing. I’m hopeful you will get help.

@premierrulz Ай бұрын

@@youtubemariemorinestrangement thank you I'm so glad I came across your Channel It's hard talking about it to people especially in my family because when I do I start to cry so thank you for listening I'm going to keep watching your videos and will definitely consider therapy it's just hard for me financially but I will definitely check into it because I don't want to hurt like I do until I die

@danielleray394 28 күн бұрын

I truly understand how you feel. The hurt is a physical pain like there is a big hole in my chest

@MollyMolls-lh8fl 4 күн бұрын

As an adult child who has narcissistic parents, I’ve never once seen them “in sorrow” ever sense I went NC. I am trying to find a single video why they continue to reach out, when everything has been laid out so clearly as to why I cannot continue a relationship with them. Looking for a flip side from their POV, but haven’t found one for either opposition.

@danielleray394 2 күн бұрын

@@premierrulz I totally understand

@user-dn1tu1xv3y 24 күн бұрын

Is it ok to openly acknowledge to my 23 yr old daughter that I'm aware that she has gone low contact and that I will respect her decision to do so? But I want to also ask for clarity. It's hard to continue to suggest opportunities for us to have lunch etc. if what she really desires is no contact. I would see her tomorrow or in ten years and love her just as much but being in limbo is exhausting. (I do therapy, exercise and take good care of myself)

@youtubemariemorinestrangement 22 күн бұрын

This is a tough question because there could be a few different things going on. It seems to me that you could be saying first that you understand her distancing and then that you are okay with it because you are not that interested either. Does that make sense? I would ask her what she would like to do and when. I don't know your situation fully but I would let her say first what she needs. I think parents of young adults set the stage by continuing to make time for their kids.

@user-dn1tu1xv3y 22 күн бұрын

Thanks. That's why I don't say it. Don't want her to think I'm not interested. It's so strange, she lives 20 minutes away, haven't seen her in 2 years and don't know the address of her new house. Trying to keep lines of communication open and easy.