Restart the video and scroll past the part where it stopped. If it stopped at 5:37... restart the video and scroll to 5:40. This worked for me.

“Once you experience real love you will never ever sip from the cup of mediocre love again.” Whew!! I felt that.

Psalms 147:3 He heals the broken-hearted and binds up their wounds😌

Cutting ties is very important. Even during boredom, just wanting to hear their voice, wanting to be taken out. You have to remember why it didn't workout. The fear needs to go away to start over. God didn't give you a spirit of fear. No giving the peach cobbler in anyway. #period

"when you go back a second time, when you give them a second chance, it's double or nothing and it will do twice the amount of damage" damn. i've been missing him but that's some mf truth right there. needed that

So my 6 year old all in my phone goes there goes “ Total gaskin video” 🤣🤣. I said it’s tony gaskin and how you know that. She goes because you always watching it and he’ “says hey this is total gaskin. I smiled I’m proud she won’t be telling ppl I’m watching love and Hip-Hop replays 🤣🤣🤣😩

“Make people respect your peace and your process.” TG

Submitt to god forgive the person move on

People will pack up, relocate & start over in new city, state, county or continent for a job/career opportunity. They will change cell phone companies to get the NEWEST phone and/or services. They will leave cable companies to get better deals. Question, why you have a problem with doing the same in order to HEAL. Make it make sense.

After my recent breakup literally last month, I didn't want to be in another relationship for a longtime. I needed my mind and spirit back

I officially broke up today. This was meant to be!

" A relationship should make you feel free and not like a captive.". Thank you. I really needed this today.

I’m sitting here crying my eyes out. I’m so hurt. After three failed relationships, 2 of them marriages, getting used and cheated on only for them to go to other women and give them all the credit, I’m at my breaking point. They have all came back and said it wasn’t me and that I was perfect. If I’m so perfect why do I keep getting treated like trash? I’m really hurting.

This is the first video of yours I watched! 10 months later I've lost 45 lbs, got accepted into my dream program Sonography AND have remained single... Staying OFF my back! I am a member of the Blessed Tribe, thank you so much for your wisdom, perspective and humor that has helped me learn/lean into Self Love. Blessings to you and your family TG!

Your healing time is the best time to learn all about you! Be compassionate with yourself. Tell yourself that you love yourself daily. ❤

During my break up I thought about all the things I been through. Questioned why did I let all that stuff happen. Never ever again will I lose myself in someone else. All the lies, arguments, cheating, mental and emotional abuse. No No No I realized that it was time to be done.

For the past two months since my breakup I have been doing exactly what you were saying. Listening on my way to work and in my car during lunch. It has truly blessed my life in this season. I know God led me to listen to you. It slapped me back on track to know my purpose thank you!

I’m only young, but I loved him and I thought he loved me, but I’m choosing to move on now. How things were weren’t right and I was not myself, I gave to much to someone else, and in the process I abandoned myself. I don’t hate him, I will never forget him and my love is unconditional . But in this moment in time I need to put myself first and heal.

Let go of the toxic and cheap relationship!! Simples

I'm healed, it happened faster because I did the work. Books,videos, daily affirmations, body back on track and running my small business and working for a company as well. Thanks much. Be blessed.

This is tough for a lot of women especially! I lingered in a 13 year situation because I was addicted! I was guilty of committing idolatry and fornication against God! God HAS TO BE FIRST! Non-negotiable for ANY relationship! If anyone is taking the place of your time with God, they are not your God given mate! God will bless you with a person who loves Him as much as you love Him, and you two will serve God together! 4 plus years CLEAN! Praising God for that deliverance and healing!!! 💯💪🏾🙏🏾😇♥️

You are definitely right about the kind of music you listen to. R&B will have you reminiscing and backtracking to the bs. Forgetting what you just went through 😔.

If I left an ex, even if it were for something petty, if I keep rejecting his advances, if he loves himself, even if he knows I left him prematurely, over something petty, he would walk away and be at peace with that. A person who has self-love will choose self-love over “harassing” the one that they think “got away.” He’d look like a fool running after a woman who is running away from him. Chasing someone who doesn’t want you reminds me of when I was a kid, I grew up on a farm, and we had to chase the chickens, trying to catch the chickens to tie them up to ring their necks and prepare them for dinner. I get the same visual when I think about another human-being “chasing and trying to catch” another human-being who doesn’t want to be “caught”. Don’t pursue someone who doesn’t want you even if you think they left the relationship prematurely.

Love has no pain. Emotionally, physically, mentally, etc. When that is involved the love is not there. You never want to put the person you live through any of that.

I love this video!! I blocked and deleted!!!! He has no access to me!! I wish I saw this video months ago!! Thanks so much!!

Blocked !!! Determined to heal and be where I need to be when God sends what he's got in store for me 🙌

It's upon the individual to decide when it's time to start again. It takes time to heal and rediscover self after a breakup. One must also remember to maintain their individuality while involved in a relationship and even marriage.

“Commercial Break” 😂😂

This is so hard when you have to co-parent with the man who left you and I still have to do 💯 percent of work when it comes to our son and healing at the same time! Gosh it’s hard ladies for me!

“Not many people callin’ you anyways”!!!☠️☠️☠️🤣😂🤣

I needed this so much today...coming outta a 3yr relationship with a narcissist 😖 Things are going well for me finically but I need to get unstuck emotionally and mentally to keep that financial momentum going. Thank you

Fasting and praying can help healing too.

He's absolutely right. Distance helps so much. It's hard but worth it in the end. I had to leave my home, church, friends and his family and distance from my family members that were close to him. Only then did the healing process begin. Forgiveness does not mean you have to reconcile or stick around.

I was in a 5 year hurtful relationship, left two years ago and I’ve been doing lots of self-love work with other groups since April 2019. But I was introduced to your work last month. This blessing that you provide on this channel feels like I’ve struck gold! This wisdom from a valuable Christian view is that important to me!! God bless you as God-fearing man!

So I glad I found this video today. I did a pro /con list to help me identify what was good and bad about the relationship and what I really need to be getting over. Game changer. Realized this wasn’t love. I was tolerating and settling. I need to work on the lack of self respect I must’ve had to allow this relationship to persist. Focusing on me so I can be whole and date with purpose next time around.

I left my bf of nine months because he was inconsistent and "wasn't sure if he was ready" and even though I kept trying to fix it I was doing all the work on my own. He just said that he needed time to heal himself from his trauma and had to do it all alone. Found out that he was back on hinge, 3 days after our break up, and I blocked him on everything. I shouldn't have gone back. Don't do it, ya'll!

Your consistency with the videos is A1💯

I hear you Bro Tony a Relationship should make you feel alive, vigorate, free and make you want to be your best. this is so real and true. Thanks so much Bro Tony you're such a blessing.

Realising that I wasn't actually in love but just attached does help me to let go

Finished a woman's influence & left my 5 star review!

People who think that abuse is love, are sick and misinformed.

Lol!! Tony’s re-enactment of co-workers is spot on 😂😂. I was literally told that I act like a hermit when I chose to remove myself from the office at lunch to pray or get on a call with my coach. And I was also told about the Sonic runs and how they add Vodka to their drinks🤦🏽‍♀️😒

Just broke up an hour ago. This is really helpful thanks man...

the brain, the brand and the body!!

Tony, you speak WISDOM!!! You are wise beyond your years & I APPRECIATE your long videos!!! 💕💥

His family will divorce you too. No matter how much you have helped and been there for them. If he tells them to cut you off, they will. Move on and prepare for better. Trust God. It is coming!

Ask yourself what are you letting go of? Love or self-respect.. I felt that. Thank you sir!

Reporting for class as usual. I was already on here waiting to be blessed!

thanks to Tony, I am healing from a very difficult breakup! Keep on watching these vids for those in similar situation

Thank you Sir. I needed to hear this, my need for masculine energy has caused me to accept unacceptable behavior. I thank you again for this wake up message.🙏🏽

i Left my husband because he never loved me. We bought a house and got married in may 2 years ago and found out he cheated in august and I moved out in September. He’s been fighting to win me back ever since but I’m finally letting him go because it was never love he just was hiding the lies in the beginning.

Thank you!This is life changing for me!I’m about to start my healing journey to now!You said so many key things about cutting all ties,what you watch,what you listening to and who you talk too!

Watching these videos is helping me heal❤️

AS IM COOKING IN THE KITCHEN I PICKED UP MY PHONE TO WATCH ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS AND THEN U DROP THIS VIDEO RIGHT ON TIME! I needed this

I look forward to your videos daily, so much wisdom and knowledge. Thank you for your consistency!

The music part is so true!! When we separated I listened to nothing but heartbreak music that put me into such a depression that it turned me into someone I didn’t even recognize.

Your daily FREE videos/messages/coaching sessions here are LIFE CHANGING...thank you so much Tony! Be blessed.

I remember making the comment last week about you making this video. Thank you so much Tony. Pen and paper in hand for note taking. God bless you!

Be Blessed🙏🏾Thank you for continuing to enlighten& strengthen me❤️

Thank you Tony as always and forever ❣️ I just love to learn but I'm also doing I have 0 tolerance for the negativity love inspiration positivity only the ability to move forward I press on I'm a strong believer in Life goes on and what's for me will find me or we or it will cross paths!!! Thankful to be apart of the Blessed Tribe 🙏

Look forward to your videos everyday, your videos have become a ritual every morning. I wake up excited to hear what Tony has to say today! Thanks Tony. Stay blessed~

Even if I don’t necessarily need the video, I watch it to gain knowledge and to feed my mind. Thank you for the knowledge Tony!

I love this video. Going on 2 1/2 week after a breakup. You are confirming for me that I am on the right path. Thank you

🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank you for everything. It will take me long but I'm on the path to heal... To love myself and to learn to love again. Trust still a long way but I will get there. Thank you for your effort and dedication to help us get where we need to be. Be blessed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

You helped save my life! From the warmest soft spot in my “healing” heart..Thank you Thank you Thank you

I appreciate your time and commitment Tony. Be blessed.

Make people respect your Peace and your Process....loved that

Tony thank you, everything you said it make realized I was holding on to the memories of abuse. And it wasn't even real. I deleted all his pictures finally just now with this video. Thanks God bless you for all the help you provide

Thank you so much Tony..I actually can't remember how i landed on your videos about two or so weeks ago but I believe this was Divine connection. Thank you for these daily videos they are feeding me..I just walked out of an abusive marriage in May last year and am excited to discover that am on the right track to healing..and having your videos now I believe my healing will be so much better as I have authentic information to feed on..Be blessed abundantly

BE BLESSED. LOVING THE KNOWLEDGE. THANK YOU AND THANK YOUR QUEEN AND CHILDREN FOR GIVING YOU TIME TO ENCOURAGE US, GIVE US THE STRENGTH TO WALK OR GOT TO GO OUT OF HERE.

Just needed you to know, you're awesome!!! The level of dedication and sincerity you show is magnificent. You've been a true blessing in my life and I can't wait to read your new book. God bless.

Your videos always post just in time. Most days I listen to your videos on my way and from work. I replaced the sad music with uplifting videos. And it's working

Your videos are really great to listen to when lifting heavy weights. It allows me to focus more, dig deep physically and mentally. 💛

Needed this! Once again, thanks Tony 😇🙏🏾

This was so on time! Thanks Tony! I keep moving ahead, but he always contacts me. I don't contact him back, but I battle the feelings. They are still intense. But it's an addiction, not real love. It's like I'm stuck, but I know I'm not. I know it was fake love, but at the time it seemed so real. It's good to know I'm doing the work! God bless!

Thank you for being a blessing to people everywhere

Here for it!🙏🏽❤️

All I can say it God Bless you and your amazing knowledge and truth on relationships

I really want to thank you Tony! I have been supporting you for quite some time now and Ive bought two books and nearly all your courses for me and my husband but it didn’t work out so now I’m using the courses and books for healing during my divorce now. I did look into your counseling session but I just don’t have it. These videos come right on time everyday for me for like it was tailor-made 😍 Thank you Again!

I let myself grieve. I listened to all the songs that related to me at the time but I also listened to you and knew I needed healing and understand why this happened and why I got where I was. Now I'm so enjoying my healing process. Thank you.

Doing the work everyday, absorbing it all!!

Thanks for today’s message. The new book ‘A woman Influence’ arrived today (live in in London, UK and had pre-ordered the book in February but due to recent events there was a delay in its arrival), anyway looking forward to spending tomorrow focused on reading the book, also just to say the video with Mrs Gaskins was my favourite so far, it was wonderful to see the beautiful energy between the two of you, hoping you can do more videos together. God bless

A Tall glass of ice water 💦 in the Sahara desert 😂

Be Blessed!!!😊😊 Thank you Mr.Tony for this powerful message much needed to hear.

Great video needed to hear this two years ago. I’m so glad that you putting them out learning a lot from them. Keep it up 👍. I appreciate you. Be blessed and stay safe 🙏🏾

Tony the way I jumped on to this as soon as i saw the notification! Definitely getting pen and pad and willing to do the work.

"Lissenn they don't like you"😂😂... Real talk tho!!

God bless you sincerely Tony. You just don’t know how these videos help me. I’m just very grateful that God led me to your channel- thanks for encouraging us to heal and become overall better individuals in the process. I’m going to apply all that you said and become a testament of how your teachings applied with Faith and Hope in God can transform your life for the better.

Tony you're Awesome and your wife is truly blessed to have you.

It takes time deliverance lots of prayer Submitt to god and let go and forgive

"People speak from where they are." 💯

One of my favs on KZfaq- this video is the truth! Love how God is using Tony’

I want a t-shirt that says "point blank period"...

Hi Tony, first time arriving early on one of your videos, so I just wanted to say God bless you and hope you and your family are doing well and staying safe in these times! I've been watching a lot of your videos in the past several days and they have been a great help. Really touched and inspired by your easter video sermon. I'll be taking your free self love course and am working on figuring out my 3 B's! Thank you!

Finally become a member...Thank you so much Tony for your delivery on healing after the break up..I have been so discouraged lately no motivation for anything spirit completely wiped out..But today I had my note pad and pen at hand and i have pin pointed my steps in order for my healing journey to begin..I'm nervous,anxious and scared,but I am ready for this now Tony I'm sick of feeling this way day in and day out..The man I gave my all too for 5years is the cause of my pain but I know it is my responsibility to really heal this time..thanking you again,IM READY!! Be blessed🙏🏽

I appreciate this message. It's so hard to operate in purity when everything around you is not such. This video message affirms that I am walking and thinking the right way. Chaos, drama, negativity, and dysfunction are abnormal. Love, peace, kindness, and positivity is God and I absolutely choose to live that way.

'You gotta be very careful with who you listening to' strong words.

I disagree with changing your number. To me, that shows weakness. Be strong and Just don’t answer the phone.

Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!!! Let Go and Let God renew your heart ❤️ Amen 🙏🏼

Thank you thank you thank you! I appreciate you being Obedient to God for this incredible platform.