How to Rekindle Love: Starting Over with Your Ex

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@DDartlover8888 Ай бұрын

Making progress. Yes, that takes time. Lots of good advice in this video

@EmilyGloeggler7984 Ай бұрын

If they reject you again, move on.

@fabiansutton5072 Ай бұрын

This was real special insight to moving forward positively, thank you

@richmckeemusic Ай бұрын

Such an articulate and poignant video, thank you so much once again ! I think it’s too late for me but this was very helpful

@norswil8763 Ай бұрын

Very in-depth and informative, thank you Alexis.

@elenahannon741 Ай бұрын

Great video- super helpful Thank you Alexis!

@martynmargaret69 Ай бұрын

Superb analysis and advice. Practical steps to recovery and growth ❤

@Cre8Fire34 Ай бұрын

Two months broken up. I haven't slept since then. My ruminating is endless. This sucks. I have a life to live and am not living it.I'd love to develop a more secure attachment style. I am mostly secure, but man, her inconsistency and dishonesty triggered me at times.

@norswil8763 Ай бұрын

Is that 2 months also with no contact? If there was a genuine love and you guys ended things well, you might be in better shape than you think. Do you want your ex back? After 2 months you should have made progress on the issues and grown within yourself to become more attractive. If you haven’t been to therapy, go, that’s a massive mistake not to and it sounds as if you have things to work through and discover.

@desertbluesplaylist7550 Ай бұрын

@@norswil8763 Great advice

@Cre8Fire34 Ай бұрын

@@norswil8763 no contact for two months - though she sent a self-absorbed email that I never responded to. Yes, I'm in therapy working on my issues. We didn't end things well. I took her on a ski trip in April where she was a constantly shrill and angry person...I had to end it when we got back because I refuse to be disrespected and unappreciated

@RobbiJamesVogt Ай бұрын

You’ll get over it man. Trust me.

@Cre8Fire34 Ай бұрын

@@norswil8763 I started therapy before the breakup to work on issues of mine before they sabotaged relationship. We can't get together - she's 1 of the most dysfunctional, toxic, beings I've ever met - immature ( she's 50) and traumatized, with no ability to self reflect. I gave it my best, loved/valued and provided her with masculine containment for her chaotic damsel-in-distress. She gave NOTHING in return- doesn't deserve me.

@cherylthompson5171 Ай бұрын

That was great

@karenho7702 Ай бұрын

I've watched a lot of your videos and learnt a lot, and this one too gave me new insights. I know that meeting my avoidant ex in person would help so much but can you please offer tips for long distance situations? He is halfway across the world! I believe there's still a chance at starting again as he still checks out my social media and has responded nicely to my texts when I reached out after 5 months of no contact. My plan is to move from texting to a video call to assess if there's any interest to start again. But I'm totally stuck on what words to use when texting :(

@andybiddle9088 Ай бұрын

Since my DA dumped me in February and universally blocked me in March. Ive been going to my other happy place....My Tattooist. As happy as it makes me, its costing me more money than if i had a bloody girlfriend!!!! (Fortunately, my ex likes tattoos and im MOSTLY tattooed!)

@gregorystinette8271 Ай бұрын

So you want to be a clown ??

@LorenaBerrenbaum Ай бұрын

Do you really liked to be tattooed or your doing it for her to like you?

@andybiddle9088 Ай бұрын

@@LorenaBerrenbaum I was already heavily tattooed when I met her. Just so happened she likes tattoos

@gregorystinette8271 Ай бұрын

Why do you want to look like a clown ?

@andybiddle9088 Ай бұрын

@@gregorystinette8271 Cor! You're funny!!! 🙄

@awerten3746 Ай бұрын

Since he broke up with me 2 months ago, I found out that there are attachment styles that I completely ignored before. So I learnt that my avoidant Ex is a dismissive avoidant. I'm in nc since the breakup but if he'll recontact me and maybe we'll restart a new relationship, I know that I need to change the way how to communicate with him and also to set boundaries which I hadn't done before. The wrong communication was the reason of the break up because I triggered his fear of being controlled. For the moment, my plan is to stay in nc. I know that he'll contact me because he still has some of his stuff at my place. And once we have seen again, who knows, either we both are willing to build up a new relationship or not.

@rscholey85 Ай бұрын

Can never over value family, 12 years , 3 kids, fixed everything according to her and I truly believe I have but she doesn’t want to come back , she monkey branched and it’s been 5 month she took the kids after 2 months of living with me alone, she is in love with the rebound 😬