How To Talk To Your Crush In Class at School

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The Josh Speaks

The Josh Speaks

4 жыл бұрын

Are you nervous about talking to your crush in class at school? Are you ready to approach your crush and start a conversation? What if they're with their friends? What if you don't know what to say? Here's a step by step guide on what to do so you can talk to your crush in the class with ease.
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@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
QUESTION: What challenges are you facing when it comes to talking to your crush? Leave your story below!
@eeeo2196
@eeeo2196 4 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks dude .. idk why ppl find crushing on someone n crushes are sooo cute n fun. It’s terrifying for me 💔💔 n makes my days worse... I don’t want it but I can’t help it not to get attached n crush on ppl easily.. help fixing my mind pls :) ...
@antism2338
@antism2338 4 жыл бұрын
How do you ask them out in class?
@TeeKBuilds
@TeeKBuilds 4 жыл бұрын
@@camdinacosta7429 11? i think you should waiy till your 13 or 14 bud. I don't think you have hit puberty yet so you don't understand love that much.
@ahmadsolomongamingandcoola4607
@ahmadsolomongamingandcoola4607 4 жыл бұрын
@@TeeKBuilds my problem is conversation topics I don't know what to talk to her about. Any ideas anyone?
@johnk5735
@johnk5735 4 жыл бұрын
My problem is she is always with her friend
@GoldenBen
@GoldenBen 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I've resorted to KZfaq for life advice. Thank God for the internet. It's actually really good advice, thanks dude.
@HexAtom
@HexAtom 3 жыл бұрын
But without the internet it could also be easier...
@no-name5149
@no-name5149 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. My ‘crush’ is kind of difficult to talk to. He seems really cold but once you get to know him, he’s alright but he’s also INCREDIBLY shy and I never know what to say… then I end up repeating myself or talking way to much and saying/going into too much detail and then he thinks I’m weird and it’s just a big mess😂😭😭
@Ant0NE0NE
@Ant0NE0NE 2 жыл бұрын
Bro I need instructions for almost everything
@evangonzaga579
@evangonzaga579 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed internet is one of mankind’s greatest achievements
@Knightgoat
@Knightgoat 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@vezzy1536
@vezzy1536 4 жыл бұрын
Literally the most clutch man I know. Give this man an award
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks fam
@rkt6240
@rkt6240 3 жыл бұрын
For real bro
@shahroseali6147
@shahroseali6147 3 жыл бұрын
For real real bruh
@twainrocks4771
@twainrocks4771 2 жыл бұрын
Best to do is: 1. Be more relaxed when near them, meaning don't laugh loud, don't shout and don't insult others near your crush 2. Say hi and buy to them everyday(for some reason that works for me) 3. Listen into their conversations with their friends (weird). This way you can talk to them about the topics they share with their friends 4. Start a conversation (about what u heard her talking about) 5. Ask for IG or Snapchat 6. Ask for help in class since you have started talking a little bit 7. Compliment how smart she is 8. Carry on with small conversations 9. In the most passive way possible ask to go somewhere with her(like to a pizza place or something) For the guys🧒👦😤 Does not work for gay people sadly
@lazyboi9919
@lazyboi9919 2 жыл бұрын
Yo thnks bro it's working
@HarrisonGoldfarb
@HarrisonGoldfarb Жыл бұрын
just have to be that guy: for list #2, "buy" means to purchase something. The correct word to use is "bye."
@kovu9729
@kovu9729 Жыл бұрын
@@HarrisonGoldfarb Don’t want to be that guy, but you should capitalize at the beginning of each sentence.
@HarrisonGoldfarb
@HarrisonGoldfarb Жыл бұрын
@@kovu9729 But how do we know it is the beginning of a new sentence? Did we see a period or any form of punctuation before it? How can we assume that I didn't just have a whole sentence and it just so happened that this section of it ended up here.
@kovu9729
@kovu9729 Жыл бұрын
@@HarrisonGoldfarb Stage 1: Denial
@rivergooni5128
@rivergooni5128 4 жыл бұрын
I was confused about the poll, cus I said “not at all” and it was 100%.. then I looked at the view count and realized it was only me lol.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Haha you're the first to vote
@gibby2951
@gibby2951 4 жыл бұрын
I was literally asking myself this like 3 hours ago
@Motivation_for_1persent
@Motivation_for_1persent 3 жыл бұрын
really
@squidlovespie1466
@squidlovespie1466 2 жыл бұрын
Gurl same
@pommop4453
@pommop4453 Жыл бұрын
@@squidlovespie1466 boy same.
@Joeg-yz1do
@Joeg-yz1do 2 жыл бұрын
A few weeks ago during my gym class with her she was sitting aside on the tennis court because someone kicked her out of the game and she was just chillin by herself so I decided to man up and talk to her and I’m so glad I did because we went from talking about sports to family and shit like that, been tryna do it again but there’s no scenario where I can actually talk to her Edit: I met a new girl and we’re in love with each other
@BikerSam29
@BikerSam29 2 жыл бұрын
Just sit by her side in class and start talking about some random funny shit, it's the best thing to do. Want an example? Don't ask anything before, just randomly tell her something like this: "I've been thinking about oranges... Is orange orange because of oranges, or are oranges called oranges because they're orange?" The fun in it is the randomness of it, and stuff like that make you seem creative and careless about what others think about you, which is something most of them like. After that, just let the conversation flow, you might get some interesting results lol.
@SinghWhips
@SinghWhips 2 жыл бұрын
@@BikerSam29 cringe lol
@BikerSam29
@BikerSam29 2 жыл бұрын
@@SinghWhips being quiet and not being brave to say anything at all is cringe
@Joeg-yz1do
@Joeg-yz1do 2 жыл бұрын
@@BikerSam29 yea so a little update she starting laughing at me without a mask on so I lost all hope in her
@imthedoctorlol
@imthedoctorlol 2 жыл бұрын
@@BikerSam29 what you said makes you a weirdo
@konstantinostzemopoulos7345
@konstantinostzemopoulos7345 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, Josh! You helped me realize that I talk to the other girls in my class easily, but when it comes to talking with my crush, it feels awkward. Meanwhile, my crush sees me as another boy in our class, she doesn’t find it weird when I go say good morning or when is the next math exam. I can now speak with her without feeling weird.
@aristotelis3824
@aristotelis3824 2 жыл бұрын
My Greek brother🇬🇷
@acepanther9603
@acepanther9603 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh i also experienced this😂
@gigachaf6986
@gigachaf6986 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly it’s so easy to talk to girls but not your crush
@swaythekid
@swaythekid 2 жыл бұрын
So true bro
@rino991
@rino991 Жыл бұрын
Bruh .. did anything happens between u?
@orionthascholar2409
@orionthascholar2409 4 жыл бұрын
Ok so my crush is constantly with her friends at school. The only time I can talk is after school but sometimes she's on the phone or in a rush. I have a class with her but she always talks to her friend. How do I break this barrier?
@jatyria5258
@jatyria5258 4 жыл бұрын
I am a girl and yes, this can be awk but if we don't come up to you and say anything, come up to us and speak. If we're in a group with our friends, just come out of no where and say wassup and if one of the girls in the group likes you, a friend will kick,hit, or bump into her trying to tell her u are here
@zucchi6148
@zucchi6148 4 жыл бұрын
@@jatyria5258 so what about me it's my last year of school before high school and my crush is one year earlier than me😭😭
@revupofficial
@revupofficial 4 жыл бұрын
@@jatyria5258 but what if they don't like u yet but u like them? Plz help
@jemmaj8113
@jemmaj8113 3 жыл бұрын
@@revupofficial talk to them everyday and ask them how they are and say hahah your so funny ect and then tell me how it goes !!!
@elegante8520
@elegante8520 2 жыл бұрын
Same here, but I can't help you because I'm a coward
@GLab_SCP
@GLab_SCP 4 жыл бұрын
My crush is in love with my best friend, and I'm struggling a lot
@papawuise6820
@papawuise6820 4 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up king, your crown is falling.
@zucchi6148
@zucchi6148 4 жыл бұрын
Very very bad for you but at least I'm safe because my crush can not fall in love with my best friend because he has a gf
@revupofficial
@revupofficial 4 жыл бұрын
Pull up /w/ the squad and pop off man! Don't forget to bring at least 10 clips!
@jameswood3012
@jameswood3012 3 жыл бұрын
Me and my 4 friends like my crush but there not that good looking and one already asked her out and she said no
@edithzabala9406
@edithzabala9406 3 жыл бұрын
Ask her out first but if it’s too late......... KILL YOUR BEST FRIEND(obviously a joke, don’t take it seriously)
@prizam4676
@prizam4676 2 жыл бұрын
I’m here watching this vid after having a class with my crush, sitting next to her, and we had a sub so we didn’t do nothing and I did not have a conversation with her. 2 whole ass hours and I folded. Now I’m beating myself up lol
@isabelballard9053
@isabelballard9053 2 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂
@hamiltonkenny629
@hamiltonkenny629 2 жыл бұрын
Mannnn I wish I had that predicament of urs, I sit on the opposite side of my crush bro and u sit right next to her yk how.much easier it is to talk to her, and u had a sub!! Nah bro can't fold it anymore its been a month now so lmk
@prizam4676
@prizam4676 2 жыл бұрын
@@hamiltonkenny629 nah dog I’m a fold. The quarter ended and she moved seats to the other side of the classroom but at least I got her number and we snap each other. Baby steps brother
@Isan_2611
@Isan_2611 2 жыл бұрын
@@prizam4676 baby steps my guy you got this man.
@corbz273
@corbz273 3 жыл бұрын
I sit next to mine in a class that we have two days a week. I always try to talk to her before class, but she and everyone else are pretty much on their phones. So it can usually be pretty dead in the room and nobody else is really talking. And I have a feeling that the people sitting behind us will eavesdrop or something
@chillvibez9319
@chillvibez9319 3 жыл бұрын
Damn bro I’m sorry but that sounds like a really boring class
@AustinJayhawk13
@AustinJayhawk13 Жыл бұрын
Just don’t worry about other people
@UnrealF1IX50
@UnrealF1IX50 Жыл бұрын
I sit by mine currently but my friends ruined it earlier this year and she rejected me because my friends made a big deal about it but I still like her
@GillsHFD
@GillsHFD 4 жыл бұрын
4:10 I love how you used WWE Superstars as examples. That cracked me up! 😂
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
haha I love to throw in little easter eggs like that for fellow WWE fans
@theshiningendereye2260
@theshiningendereye2260 3 жыл бұрын
boys imma keep yall updated first couple weeks: ive started to say hi during the periods we have together, weve had a couple conversations in the halls looking good see ya later
@yixxso
@yixxso 3 жыл бұрын
So how did it go
@theshiningendereye2260
@theshiningendereye2260 3 жыл бұрын
@@yixxso turns out it’s going well I got her number now and we’ve hung out once so time looking good
@yixxso
@yixxso 3 жыл бұрын
@@theshiningendereye2260 that’s nice to know how did u start talking to her
@theshiningendereye2260
@theshiningendereye2260 3 жыл бұрын
@@yixxso to be honest with u dude I didn’t we were in the hall goin back to class she asked me some question like “how was your weekend” I told her I just hung out with friends and stuff like that and she was cool I asked her and from then we just talked in the hall and eventually we were in mid conversation then class bell rang I asked for her number to finish talking later and it worked
@HexAtom
@HexAtom 3 жыл бұрын
@@theshiningendereye2260 updates?
@brotherotaku1522
@brotherotaku1522 4 жыл бұрын
This video was perfectly timed, THANK YOU!
@garyzhu1072
@garyzhu1072 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t have classes with me crush and it’s weird to keep dming
@echidna517
@echidna517 3 жыл бұрын
Yo your a genius the whole debute part is so smart ima try that tomorrow thanks man
@clarkepercivaljaeblood4886
@clarkepercivaljaeblood4886 4 жыл бұрын
Lol he's in all my classes because Phil... Thanks, Josh!
@PracticalInspiration
@PracticalInspiration 4 жыл бұрын
I've paced myself when packing up before lol, it's a great tip, and works well to make an opportunity
@SlyplayzRobloxSPR
@SlyplayzRobloxSPR 4 жыл бұрын
Bro I swear youtube is stalking me I was just going to ask my crush out 100 likes I'll do it with flowers and a bear
@thehourglassfan3515
@thehourglassfan3515 4 жыл бұрын
What do you do if you manage to walk up to them but can’t speak?! 🤣
@Ferguson2169
@Ferguson2169 Жыл бұрын
Bro then ur like Alex wassabi's boxing thing when he walks up to the camera and just stares at you 😂
@rjmooothicalshow4778
@rjmooothicalshow4778 3 жыл бұрын
The one class I have with her, she is always sitting next to one or two of her friends- how am I supposed to expect to get her full attention ever?
@noemeza4556
@noemeza4556 2 жыл бұрын
Fr bruh how tomorrow ima try to break the ice and just say how do you make it look so easy on the dissection lab we’re doing bc she pretty smart
@nightmarefuel331
@nightmarefuel331 4 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on dealing with retroactive jealousy?
@urbanplayz2093
@urbanplayz2093 2 жыл бұрын
Bro you are a life saver. Because of you only i am able to talk to my crush. Thank you bro and keep making awesome videos like these.
@chickenlead7203
@chickenlead7203 4 жыл бұрын
Done all of these and we talk a lot in classes and stuff, I've had her snap for a while and stuff.
@ryanbeckett4527
@ryanbeckett4527 4 жыл бұрын
Chickenlead get to know her more and once you talk to her daily, go for it and ask her out
@Josh-dg8xs
@Josh-dg8xs 4 жыл бұрын
There’s a girl in my Spanish class who i have a pretty bad crush on. I had a class with her last year and occasionally talked to her from time to time, in between that time we’ve snapped each other once, ending in a cold conversation leading up to her leaving me on read. She just got transferred into my class this semester, and now I’m trying to get to know her better. I need some advice on how to stay calm and form a great relationship with her.
@gsdfjkdlgqfdajsklf2838
@gsdfjkdlgqfdajsklf2838 2 жыл бұрын
think of cocks when youre talking to her. become gay in all but your true self. makes conversation flow a lot easier
@ManasCITY
@ManasCITY Жыл бұрын
Give her a 1TB hard drive filled to the brim with dank memes
@abewear2882
@abewear2882 Жыл бұрын
Indeed
@DrMontrays
@DrMontrays Жыл бұрын
3:49 man that's so smart. I know it's worked a little bit before with girls who I have no classes or anything with, it's not like I had a crush on them, it's just that I realize that I barely know them and ended up being near them because of their friends.
@LordFprquad
@LordFprquad 4 жыл бұрын
So my crush is in one of my classes and I sit a little far from her and when class ends I can catch up with her and talk but I still don’t have confidence to do so, like you said in your videos you will always have 1 million excuses to not talk to your crush I need help Josh. Please and thank you🙏
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, check out my video on the 3 second rule. Try to put that into practice when you see her next time
@LordFprquad
@LordFprquad 4 жыл бұрын
The Josh Speaks thanks josh 👌
@LordFprquad
@LordFprquad 4 жыл бұрын
Where’s the video or link perhaps?
@martineden9861
@martineden9861 3 жыл бұрын
iJxnkz did you nail it?
@LordFprquad
@LordFprquad 3 жыл бұрын
@@martineden9861 yessirrrr
@paimon6626
@paimon6626 2 жыл бұрын
My crush is always in the same class with me and I want to talk to him more but I'm afraid of any of my classmates judging me cuz they have nothing else to do smh
@jcboutdatlife1825
@jcboutdatlife1825 2 жыл бұрын
I finally have something to talk about with my crush at school tmr either on work or why they didn’t go to school
@user-wj2lx3pc1l
@user-wj2lx3pc1l 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@box6982
@box6982 2 жыл бұрын
Very clutch.Thanks dude.
@tototima8126
@tototima8126 2 жыл бұрын
Thing is we are always glancing at each other in class but whenever we are dismissed he’s either walking out with his friends or in a rush so this time I made the move asked to be friends via email and he said sure so we’ll see what happens once it’s Monday 👁👄👁
@koktok1844
@koktok1844 2 жыл бұрын
UPDATE ME
@ManasCITY
@ManasCITY Жыл бұрын
Are you 35 years old in high school? Like who tf become friends over email LMAOOO
@Jonathan-tw4xm
@Jonathan-tw4xm Жыл бұрын
@@ManasCITY at least their making progress. you never know they might be engaged by now
@aclamp79
@aclamp79 4 жыл бұрын
You've saved my life.. thank you
@owensmith3271
@owensmith3271 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much mate for this I was dounting myself but now I can probably get to know them even more now.
@juniororellana1739
@juniororellana1739 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tip homi👌👌🏽
@TeeKBuilds
@TeeKBuilds 4 жыл бұрын
Tbh this guy would make a great asmr channel 😂😂
@theeviljinn8030
@theeviljinn8030 2 жыл бұрын
what is asmr
@brynnie8959
@brynnie8959 4 жыл бұрын
These videos help me so much! Thank you!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
awesome, I'm happy they're helpful
@brianmaycock2380
@brianmaycock2380 4 жыл бұрын
First and all he said is very true
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@jqsloading9500
@jqsloading9500 4 жыл бұрын
what are some good questions to ask during, before or after class? Keep up the good work!
@jatyria5258
@jatyria5258 4 жыл бұрын
Before: Any compliment or say nice outfit. During: What do you think about----- teacher's name------? After: :What class do you have after this?" "I heard it was a fun/boring class." Or "is the class fun or boring?"
@Ily__lyrics.
@Ily__lyrics. Жыл бұрын
@@jatyria5258 but we both are in same class and i know all teachers names and our school have fixed outfit
@Samuel-qc7kg
@Samuel-qc7kg Жыл бұрын
@@Ily__lyrics. Same, and I don't know if keep asking things related to classes will work properly in the long run.
@cycic4412
@cycic4412 Жыл бұрын
@@Samuel-qc7kg they mean morely just as a way to get a bit more friendly with them you can ask about more personal or off topic questions the more you get to know them
@DrMontrays
@DrMontrays Жыл бұрын
Alright guys, if anyone is still here. I'm 14, shes probably is too, I feel like everyone in our grade is equally mature. Going across the classroom to talk to this girl about her "outfit" is just so random, I also feel like she would not wanna talk about her outfit either. The best way I'd naturally talk to her is if I was in a circle conversating with one of my friends, and she happened to be in it: This way I could include her in a polite way whilst also talking to her. This scenario is rare because she's kind of new and pretty much has only made friends with girls who I don't 100% talk to.
@vegitoxtra2945
@vegitoxtra2945 4 жыл бұрын
You know what sucks I only have my crush in 1 period
@CalebDoane
@CalebDoane 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man, thanks for making this video! My crush is new to my school and I want to talk to her
@roadtomillion9499
@roadtomillion9499 3 жыл бұрын
Man, I'm keep on missing golden opportunity every time to her Even though she sits beside me.
@8daudio1hour
@8daudio1hour 3 жыл бұрын
Same dude
@gshsenpai6446
@gshsenpai6446 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@gshsenpai6446
@gshsenpai6446 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t find the courage to talk to her in face to face Yet we used talk online and sometimes (rarely)in class
@stanky6131
@stanky6131 2 жыл бұрын
Same bruh
@kinis_kin
@kinis_kin 2 жыл бұрын
That's lucky, mine is not in the same class and we both Haven't talk for a a while... Its kind weird if I just randomly talk to him
@mahmudii2081
@mahmudii2081 Жыл бұрын
So there's this one girl in my algebra II class named Erin. She looks cute and kind (my friends/acquaintances say she can be a jerk sometimes but I haven't seen that) I've talked to her briefly before multiple times throughout the schoolyear so far and I have gotten comfortable enough to get her phone #. Now the hard part is getting her number around her friends (which all are near her in he class) and doing so without it looking awkward and the guys don't start calling me out on it. I also requested my teacher to put me near her for the next seating arrangement and she said "I'll see what I can do" and she did so. I play music in the halls during passing period for fun/entertainment sometimes and when she encounters me playing music, she says "oh yeah (my name)" or "yeah (my name)" or "crank it up!" Since I've noticed her for awhile doing this I think she is interested in me. So I need your guys' help on what to do for the next step which is to get her phone # without it being awkward and "secretly." Sorry for my long essay comment but I hope you guys can help me out. I would appreciate it tremendously.
@seekingdeen.
@seekingdeen. Жыл бұрын
Damn you brave to tell your teacher that she's your crush you can be brave enough to ask her out dude
@thethinkinlad
@thethinkinlad 4 жыл бұрын
So this is the problem regarding my crush... She’s in the “girl” gang and I’m in the “front row” gang. The third gang is the “jock” gang and they interact with the girl gang half the time. But my front row gang might as well not be considered part of the same class as the other two. How can I talk to her when she’s always with the girl gang that I know for sure (trust me) will judge me?
@lucakiami8988
@lucakiami8988 4 жыл бұрын
I have two classes with her, and I still don’t feel certain if I like her, even though we’re also in the same HOME ROOM!!! Needless to say, I have no idea what to do here.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
I think the best thing to do would be to get to know her as a friend. That way you'll see naturally if you gravitate more towards romantic feelings or friendship vibes.
@lucakiami8988
@lucakiami8988 4 жыл бұрын
Perhaps I should be a bit more descriptive. First off, I think the reason I’m having such a difficult time with whether I REALLY like her or not is because I view her as someone who is a sweet, optimistic person who could brighten up anyone’s mood. At the same time, a lot of her interests are different towards mine, which is now making me ask myself “Is her big heart enough?” Also, we actually got to know each other well last year and have actually had several good discussions. Only problem is... almost all of them haven’t lasted a minute. Thoughts now, Josh??
@Fade_ToBlack
@Fade_ToBlack 4 жыл бұрын
My man, if you have to ask yourself that question, then you already know the answer deep down. If you truly romantically like someone, you don’t “doubt” it.
@ethanolol3895
@ethanolol3895 4 жыл бұрын
I used to watch you a lot and i tried to actively use your tips but honestly, letting the information sink in was better and now i have a beautiful girlfriend :) we’ve been dating for 9 months. Thank u, Josh!!!❤️
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
That's so awesome Ethan, I'm proud of you! Glad to see you back here in the comments
@prairiedog2514
@prairiedog2514 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome channel!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, glad you like it!
@fluffyboi758
@fluffyboi758 4 жыл бұрын
Hi! i think i might have a challenge for you. So, I have a mutual friend with a guy i like, and she sent me their snap. After i introduced myself to them, i tried to keep a conversation going but everything i throw at them to break the ice is met with a quick 3 or 4 word sentence. Obviously something wasn't going right... SOOOO i walked up to then in the halls and said hi, re-introduced myself (as they had not seen me before irl) which turned into gibberish, and all the gave me was an over the shoulder smile and then kept on walking. I've been told that they are a shy person, but i honestly feel like i blew my shot.
@addycionn
@addycionn 3 жыл бұрын
My crush was right infront of me when I was watching this video 😭😂😂😂
@pommop4453
@pommop4453 Жыл бұрын
Don’t.
@stupidbear6508
@stupidbear6508 4 жыл бұрын
Your a godddd omg thank you imma use thia to help me get with my "crush"
@Lagegooper1989
@Lagegooper1989 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Josh love ya vids!
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Gabriel
@geanthonysilvestre3844
@geanthonysilvestre3844 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this help a lot I make sure to try and talk to her if i get the chance
@benkohalmi8152
@benkohalmi8152 2 жыл бұрын
ty so much bro
@chyannehall9491
@chyannehall9491 4 жыл бұрын
I was going to do that today, but I chickened out. So tomorrow I'm thinking about saying "Hey I remember you from 6th grade" Because we were friends in middle school but I haven't seen him in 4 years. My only fear is that he won't remember me. And my other fear is if he does, there will be nothing to talk about.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
I would go for it Chyanne, just focus on learning about his interests and hobbies if it becomes awkward after you both acknowledge that you do or do not remember one another.
@AceFilmss
@AceFilmss 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou 10/10
@jcboutdatlife1825
@jcboutdatlife1825 2 жыл бұрын
Told her I liked her backpack then ran into something I wonder if she laughed or not
@ameliajane4497
@ameliajane4497 4 жыл бұрын
Here before no thumbs down Hi btw
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Jasmine
@Noone-zm3zb
@Noone-zm3zb 4 жыл бұрын
Can’t talk to her, schools closed because of corona
@revupofficial
@revupofficial 4 жыл бұрын
😭 thought the same thing!
@Terbangbebas975
@Terbangbebas975 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh same Asking and approaching her just became 10x harder 😐😥
@LastBaws
@LastBaws 3 жыл бұрын
unlucky you people , im in school :D
@oohboi214
@oohboi214 4 жыл бұрын
Man I wish you made this last year 😔
@carsonrae6980
@carsonrae6980 4 жыл бұрын
So I have a problem. My friend told her friend who I like. Let’s call him Max. So Max, was told by my friends friend, let’s call her Emma. Emma asked Max out for me. He said yeah. I did not want her to do so. I wanted to work on my self confidence first. So now I am in a relationship where I can’t talk to my own boyfriend. Yeah. 😔
@nidhim.4863
@nidhim.4863 4 жыл бұрын
Dang that sucks. Don’t worry, you can do this :) plus, now you’re one step closer and won’t have to make the first move
@davidjean-louis7647
@davidjean-louis7647 2 жыл бұрын
nice vid bro ! i know how im gonna talk to mine now
@zohraousf2380
@zohraousf2380 4 жыл бұрын
From morocco love you bro
@manjushreemanju907
@manjushreemanju907 2 жыл бұрын
Tq Bro I will try it from today it self. Am getting afraid 😨 😱 now. But I will do it. Thank you so much 💓 💗 Bro
@yenroegbedi4284
@yenroegbedi4284 Жыл бұрын
Bro talking to my crush is like a nightmare to me
@booty9069
@booty9069 2 жыл бұрын
bouta try this wish me luck 🤞
@firstresponders3228
@firstresponders3228 2 жыл бұрын
Ok I just started school and I just saw this girl who was my type but I didn't have the courage to talk to her I watched this Ima try to start off cool playing some games with her and know a little about her i will show some stuff I learned about her wish me luck.
@fantasticyuvi8104
@fantasticyuvi8104 3 жыл бұрын
she is always with her friends before and after class but i will try to find a moment when she is alone and ill definetly approach her this time
@BlackstaV1
@BlackstaV1 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I could talk to her, but I don't have her in a class anymore.
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Hmm is there any other way you can connect with her?
@BlackstaV1
@BlackstaV1 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshSpeaks She recently invited me to a board game club, I use to talk to her when I had summer school
@iwantdie3545
@iwantdie3545 4 жыл бұрын
trash what a neerd
@prashantgurung7484
@prashantgurung7484 2 жыл бұрын
if i try to talk to her she’s gonna not be able to hear me bc she always be wearing those apple earbuds in class 😂
@sopadss
@sopadss 4 жыл бұрын
social anxiety check
@stealthx2008
@stealthx2008 4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@joelsletten3386
@joelsletten3386 3 жыл бұрын
Ya know what? I trust this dude more than anyone else. Do not take this the wrong way but he is not one of thoSe super handsome fit guys that tell you this shit. But josh looks like anyone else and that is why i listen to him the most
@FakeDriver2030
@FakeDriver2030 2 жыл бұрын
The icebreakers are op dude i havent done it because we arent in the same homeroom but maybe next year
@ChefSporty
@ChefSporty 4 жыл бұрын
Me and my crush share 7 classes and there’s 8 in total at my school (:
@xtrxod9125
@xtrxod9125 4 жыл бұрын
LUCKY
@thescarryworld5950
@thescarryworld5950 2 жыл бұрын
Ok I will try this
@thememeboy7568
@thememeboy7568 2 жыл бұрын
Me: approaches to talk to my crush My class teacher: from this moment onwards I want every boy to adress the girls as sisters while talking to them Me: not talking will probably increase my chance then.
@drowzee6076
@drowzee6076 4 жыл бұрын
The problem for me is that it’s my home room and it’s really quiet and I don’t want everyone just staring at me if I talk to them. Also it’ll just be weird to randomly sit next to them
@pgtrends
@pgtrends 2 жыл бұрын
She both rushes out of class and shes always with her friends
@elcuh8047
@elcuh8047 4 жыл бұрын
He always posts videos in the right moment👌
@TheJoshSpeaks
@TheJoshSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
I got you covered
@owenluo3244
@owenluo3244 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheJoshSpeaks yeah like school just started for me
@donaldonabajo989
@donaldonabajo989 Жыл бұрын
Guysss am back it all worked atleast most of it
@JyD26gg
@JyD26gg 4 ай бұрын
Bro whyyy! she sits on the other side of my classroom!! The bright side is that my teacher is going to change the seating chart so im hoping rn.
@Lily-ow5wm
@Lily-ow5wm 3 ай бұрын
Mine sits right beside me. We luckily get to choose where we sit, and desks are in pair of two but I’m so scared and don’t know what to say
@JyD26gg
@JyD26gg 3 ай бұрын
@Lily-ow5wm Well lucky you, he hasn't changed my seats yet 😭
@gigachad94
@gigachad94 Жыл бұрын
Sounds realstic
@ItsNmaGYouHeard
@ItsNmaGYouHeard Жыл бұрын
My crush is talking to me but my anxiety kicking in
@youngmelo7612
@youngmelo7612 4 жыл бұрын
I got a question Josh . She’s knows I like her because my friends told her and we have had really awkward moments where they made us hug and stuff, but I don’t really know her that well.
@piney_studios
@piney_studios 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much josh. I have a gf now, and yeah Im bisexual. But this worked great, and we bonded together and had a lot of the same Interests!
@UglyhorseMC
@UglyhorseMC Жыл бұрын
Josh is my favorite yt
@bakeythesnake7211
@bakeythesnake7211 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Josh Speaks I met this SUPER pretty girl in school and she sits right next to me in chemistry class. She seems nice but for some reason, I don't know what to say. People say I'm handsome and nice but I'm still scared she'll reject me. She seems super smart and I am too. What do you recommend that I try to talk about with her because I've never talked with her and I don't want to wait too long to talk to her. Thank you
@e9nk
@e9nk 4 жыл бұрын
Ok I really need your help and I’m gonna admit I’ve finally managed to go out with my crush but we’ve never actually spoke 🤦
@themonotoneflute
@themonotoneflute 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen a video with one thousand views and zero thumbs down.
@djfjfififofo9fof
@djfjfififofo9fof 21 күн бұрын
Yo, can I have the Galactus Action FIgure?
@dasinduhewagamage5949
@dasinduhewagamage5949 3 жыл бұрын
I am having relation with My crush since 2 yrs but I got to know she have a one out side !!!
@ashleyramirez4198
@ashleyramirez4198 11 ай бұрын
Ive developed a crush on this guy in my class & I ended up finding out that he’s in my same major, now we’re texting but idk how he feels 😂I don’t wanna make it awkward.
@Frank-st7ku
@Frank-st7ku 4 жыл бұрын
The thing is, my crush is one of my friends. She is only in one class of mine, also she doesn't have lunch with me. (I have a different time lunch) We always glance at each other when we pass in the halls. We also do this in class a little bit. I'm not sure how or when to tell her i like her...
@ROFLewis
@ROFLewis 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve got the exact same thing now,she is in my group for a lesson for the next few weeks but I don’t know whether to tell her or not
@lofisamples4212
@lofisamples4212 3 жыл бұрын
me in hybrid school when theres pretty much just me and her in a class:
@haidenenglutt6247
@haidenenglutt6247 Жыл бұрын
I’ll try
@austinwood2470
@austinwood2470 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t have classes with her but she hangs around the people I hang around and I’m new to the friend group
@plugwalk8419
@plugwalk8419 3 жыл бұрын
me and my crush like each other but were both awkward when we talk, so i how do i keep the conversation going w her??
@Escob79
@Escob79 3 жыл бұрын
My question is how do I start talking to that girl but I had beef with her other friend ?
@banjaxed73
@banjaxed73 Жыл бұрын
"Have a conversation!" *fill in the details of the conversation for yourself* Very helpful... "Let's say you've broken the ice, you've talked to them every so often, you guys are familiar with each other..." Yeah, OK. Let's say THAT. WOW. What advice.
@pommop4453
@pommop4453 Жыл бұрын
M^45
@pommop4453
@pommop4453 Жыл бұрын
Mpo
@AdityaKumar-bk7eu
@AdityaKumar-bk7eu Жыл бұрын
she's a junior and her class is on the opposite end of the school...
@favageseline2081
@favageseline2081 2 жыл бұрын
My problem is that I’m probably gonna move to another country in like 3-4 months, I don’t mind taking small steps I really don’t. The issue is that if I do have some kind of familiarity with them, how do I maintain it long distance because I really REALLY like them.
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