How to Use Social Media Like a Gentleman

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Navigate social media with dignity and grace by following these 7 steps.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
1:01 Showing off
2:03 Trolls
3:16 Simps
4:03 Privacy
4:57 Force for good
6:47 Addiction
7:35 On your terms
8:36 Force for good

Пікірлер: 85

@josuevalens 22 күн бұрын

My mental health and productivity have vastly improved after deleting my social media. I'll never let it have that power over me ever again.

@benjamingres6307 22 күн бұрын

Same

@Gent.Z 21 күн бұрын

Good for you. If it doesn't serve you, don't use it.

@miguelangelperez2849 13 күн бұрын

Same here ! I mean KZfaq can be considered a social media platform but for my case it has more advantages than downsides.

@theoldman5769 22 күн бұрын

Great looking tie.

@Gent.Z 22 күн бұрын

Thank you. It was a gift from the Gentleman's Gazette so it feels extra special to wear it.

@FelixCosmescu 22 күн бұрын

May I suggest a video? Mental skills of a gentleman, resilience, timing etc.

@WarlockCozy 22 күн бұрын

I’m interested in seeing his take on these as well.

@DurgadeviBhusal-wt5sp 19 күн бұрын

Well it's interesting topic ,hope it come soon

@christiansaravia7865 17 күн бұрын

I'd love to see this

@youtubeus3rname 22 күн бұрын

Oh man. It's so lovely to see how much your channel is growing, both in quantity and quality of content.

@Gent.Z 21 күн бұрын

Thank you very much

@parallaxninja456 22 күн бұрын

Wow, this is something that needs to be taught in school. Especially how you should conduct yourself/not to be rude or disrespectful.

@NameNik223 12 күн бұрын

8:44 "Intentionally, respectfully, but without compromise" - that should be a life motto!

@RickDuarte-wh8dn 22 күн бұрын

Your videos never cease to please me

@sammajor2075 22 күн бұрын

3:35 Perfectly defined. Even your opposite,Andrew Tate,stated that it's not the behavior that's "simping". It's the lack of interest or reciprocity from the woman. This nuance has been lost on some. Suddenly,any act of chivalry or kindness is "simping".

@crystalfrancis3211 22 күн бұрын

I appreciate your definition of “simp.”

@Gent.Z 22 күн бұрын

That’s very true.

@MrAndrea9555 22 күн бұрын

A true gentleman doesn't use Social Media. He doesn't belongs to the herd

@davidbray1536 22 күн бұрын

Well chosen pocket square and a well spoken topic.

@Gent.Z 21 күн бұрын

Thank you, David. Good to see you here.

@AkilaEnglish-lg8cf 20 күн бұрын

Thank you for information.

@mr.100rupees3 22 күн бұрын

Could you do a video on how to have a decorate a bedroom like a gentleman?

@therealdonaldtrump4528 22 күн бұрын

Great video and the fit wqs on point!

@himarkburdett9378 22 күн бұрын

The tie goes well with the Blazer

@andybate9330 21 күн бұрын

You kidding ? it looks awful!

@TheFletcher53 20 күн бұрын

Well done!

@AlejandroRodriguez-gb3cx 21 күн бұрын

Great video!! I would love to see a video done on fragrances! I think every gentleman should tie up his look with a fine fragrance!

@Gent.Z 21 күн бұрын

Thank you. I have a video on fragrances coming next week

@caldarion2506 22 күн бұрын

Pretty smart thoughts. Makes you even more gentlemanly, than just manners and looks alone :>

@thechairman74 22 күн бұрын

I try to be respectful, use proper English and write in complete sentences. I use humor only when it's obvious that it's a humorous situation and I find for the most part that I receive many likes for those comments. Always use humor appropriately. Also, if you ever feel as if any kind of reply or comment will only result in an argument, don't do it.

@sammajor2075 22 күн бұрын

One of the reasons many men have become socially-awkward, is that they go significant time without face-to-face social interactions. While appreciative of the benefits of social media,there is no substitute for actual engagement with the world outside your door.

@Gent.Z 21 күн бұрын

I agree with you. Social media has, unfortunately, lessened the 'need' for face to face interactions which has damaged people's social skills.

@AlexanderCaesarr 21 күн бұрын

We like your channel. Don't forget us when you hit 500k subs.

@Gent.Z 21 күн бұрын

Here's hoping!

@wmfield152 22 күн бұрын

This is excellent advice. I doubt, however, that a gentleman would have much use for social media.

@ireiaand 22 күн бұрын

Wow wonderful video! And can I say beautiful tie! Is that a Fort Belvedere tie? Always wanted to get one of those…

@Gent.Z 22 күн бұрын

Yes it is! I highly recommend.

@amritdhaliwal3492 20 күн бұрын

Would you mind making a video on casual style more specifically wearing jeans but making them more professional

@WarlockCozy 22 күн бұрын

May I suggest a video discussing how a Gentleman may handle different adversaries in life? Such as a breakup with a significant other, negative remarks/opinions from strangers and piers, disrespect from a co-worker or boss, etc. Would be greatly appreciated to be able to hear your thoughts on this. Thanks!

@joewauters9065 22 күн бұрын

Another great video, thank you. Congratulations on achieving your new career. A content request: How to deal with negative attention from the public towards a romantic parter. For example: I took a girlfriend out on the town, and some passers by cat called and wolf whistled in an inappropraite way. I pulled her close with some romantic gestures to distract from the situation, and they moved on. What are the options available to a gentleman in this kind of situation? I'm generally hot tempered, and quick to act against bullies, but I've found street fighting unpredictable and dangerous, especially with a loved one potentially at risk!

@sammajor2075 22 күн бұрын

Sounds like you handled it perfectly. Street fights usually end with someone going to the hospital,jail,or the morgue. It can be a crummy feeling to "back down" from a potential fight,but in the adult world,it's usually the right thing to do.

@sammajor2075 22 күн бұрын

7:22 Another example of James' old soul.

@pietrovallefuoco 20 күн бұрын

Social medias, like instagram, changed in those years. At the first time it was a completely new thing in which you could have fun with friends; but now it shows the worst part of the human being: neked girls, fake success, gurus, hidden advertising ecc...So In this period am trying to quit totally, except for youtube. I think this is the best thing you can do because, sonetimes i think "ok it totally worth it, I can connect with all my friends and discover new stuff", let me tell you, it doesn't worth it. You lose time and focus.

@georgetown8986 22 күн бұрын

Gentlemen and people with real wealth don't use social media. Period. Subtlety is the key.

@luisdetomaso867 22 күн бұрын

There is nothing tackier than a grown man using apps designed for teen girls

@RealLifeRodger 22 күн бұрын

And yet, both of you are here. That’s very imposterish,

@luisdetomaso867 22 күн бұрын

@@RealLifeRodger KZfaq is an online video sharing platform... but nice try

@danelisslow3269 22 күн бұрын

@@RealLifeRodgerI don't necessarily agree with these guys' snobby opinions, but KZfaq has actually useful content like the above video. It's not just flexing and brain rot.

@RealLifeRodger 22 күн бұрын

@@luisdetomaso867 you lose again, but you’re familiar with that feeling. It’s likely why you go faceless. Google or ask AI if KZfaq is a social media platform. The answer will be yes. Nice try.

@boxingmindp4p1 22 күн бұрын

Great video 👍

@Randoverse 22 күн бұрын

How to use Social Media as a sigma: never signed up. :)

@therealdonaldtrump4528 22 күн бұрын

U will j put urself behind

@Randoverse 22 күн бұрын

@@therealdonaldtrump4528 Depends how you live your life.

@officiallydreama4412 22 күн бұрын

@@therealdonaldtrump4528how so?

@danelisslow3269 22 күн бұрын

Cue the sigma music.

@CalebFrikkieBrooks 22 күн бұрын

Based🐺

@generalpurpose6517 22 күн бұрын

Social media needs to be turned off for about a year

@RicardoNascimento-mo5cy 22 күн бұрын

Brazilian i 🇧🇷

@Guilher89 22 күн бұрын

Estou aqui também 😁

@Rayhan-qe2cx 22 күн бұрын

Can you please make a video on men's life phase? Like how the life of a man in his 20s supposed to look like, how for 30s, etc.

@sammajor2075 22 күн бұрын

Great idea. I mentor some younger men,and I am continually surprised that they seem to view their twenties as "late adolescence". There's no such of urgency that these are crucial foundational building years.

@branstone 19 күн бұрын

Now teach us how to play video games as a gentleman

@bigdawgVids-wq4op 15 күн бұрын

lmao

@mickeymouse1398 22 күн бұрын

Sound advice for all, including those of us five times your age who grew up and lived in a more authentic world. As for the effect of remote/anonymous communication on inhibition reduction, I'd suggest to those who can fall prey to this (like me:), remind themselves that behaving as one might be about to, can be regarded as psychotic in a face to face setting, and shouldn't one eliminate 'remote psychosis'? As for privacy, I read once that the the chief security officer at the Cabinet Office advised people not to use their real name on the internet. Maybe don't use an alias like Mickey Mouse - I only set up this account because control freaks at google wouldn't let me use the chromebook I bought without setting up an account!

@phothar93 22 күн бұрын

A true gentleman would include timestamps 💀

@IntellectuallyIvy 22 күн бұрын

Coincidentally, while I have been subscribed to you for a bit, I finished your video "7 Things a Gentleman NEVER Wears" and thought to myself "I wonder if he has a video on social media etiquette." I click on your channel and low & behold... Given that a gentleman should not show off wealth through social media, would it be in poor taste to post a photo of a new instrument? Where would you say the fine line lay between showing off a new addition to one's collection (be it a vehicle or some type of collectible) and being flashy?

@luisdetomaso867 22 күн бұрын

Can you imagine Steve Mcqueen, Clint Eastwood, Warren Buffett, Thomas Jefferson or Howard Hughes posting on SnapChat or TikTok? Leave social media to the low class and the ladies

@hellonihaocomoestas 20 күн бұрын

I feel like some of the negative comments that he's referring to come from me. I feel like his ex girlfriend or current girlfriend was or is cheating on him

@a-bison 22 күн бұрын

You look like you know when and how everyone dies but youre not allowed to tell anyone

@Unerty 22 күн бұрын

Please make a collab with Anastasiia Arora

@ivan.g8477 22 күн бұрын

Don’t sign up, it have no benefit if you don’t have a business

@leslielemmon7729 22 күн бұрын

Harry Kane, why are you sitting here giving fashion advice? You need to concentrate on the European Championship! No wonder England plays rather weak at the moment 😢