Familia! We are thankful y'all are joining us during this 30 min mash up! We hope you enjoy it! Do yourself a favor and buy Ryan's book! 👇🏾 www.amazon.com/Single-Today-Conquer-Yesterdays-Tomorrows-ebook/dp/B0CCNGN612 Want to financially support B-Side? www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp Join our Discord: discord.gg/NRHEm73BB4 Sub to The B-Side Channel youtube.com/@TheB-SideAPP?si=EImX0JC1F2bBzxlr LOVE YOU ALL!!! Order my book TODAY: www.upsettheworld.com/welcometothebasementbook#Retailer-Links Apple: Download The B-Side App TODAY: apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Android: Download The B-Side App TODAY: play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US linktr.ee/timross Musicbed IDs: MB01IRXMHDRVRCJ

Ryan won’t be single for long after this interview 😂

"Intensity is the counterfeit cousin of intimacy" that really spoke to me. The world makes you feel like you are crazy for desiring intimacy. It's all about intensity .

Just broke up and am now single, who else NEED this word!?

44 and still single.. love this interview

I honestly loved this video. Preparing to attend a wedding as a single person in my 30s later this year. This brings inspiration ,hope and a new perspective to me. Thank you. 😊

The Lord really knew I needed this word. What a blessing. I have been single for three years since giving my Life to Christ and broke up with my ex who was an atheist. Sometimes I get really sad waiting for my husband. I have been moving my house and business this past month. Literally the most difficult time of my life and I felt the enemy attacking me on how easy it would be if I had a man to help me with this move. And I have been crying out to God on his timing like God you know a man would be super helpful right now moving this couch. This message reminded me that in all of this, we are a living testimony and someone is looking at us seeing Jesus or Satan depending on what we show them. I have been trying to stay grateful even in this because its made me stronger and closer to deepening on God. Thanks for this message brothers!

Single since my divorce 35 years. A Christian where intimacy is biblical only with a marriage. Celibacy has however bought me closer and without compromise, my beautiful relationship with God

ugh why couldn’t this be longer it was sooo good 😩👏🏼👏🏼

I have never clicked on a video so fast in my life 😂😂😂

Interested in this, I'm 37, have always been single, it will be nice to see this from a man's perspective!

Showing up as a blessing and not a burden…my goodness!!! Thank you for sharing this portion! Such newness to this single-life with my three blessings. 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾

“I’m not going to bring a dark cloud, I’m going to bring the wine (the celebration).” Noted!

Marriage can be a beautiful thing. As a widow I have learned and accepted the fact I didn't want to remarry again. Perhaps it easy for me to say this because I was blessed once to have a good marriage (not a perfect marriage). Marry couples can have a let to offer but single people also have a lot to offer too. So, either married or single embrace where you are in the season of life. One last thing the only disciple that was married accordingly to scripture was Peter all the others were single.

I hollered when Tim said Ballin 😂. This young man mental and spiritual maturity is outstanding. Stay the course Sir 👏🏾🙏🏾

Hey, great discussion, and expression for single people, especially connect with the piece about weddings and how we show up. I’m 47 and single most of my life, I think the church but many people in general have not understood the triggers single people go through. It’s not just the weddings, it’s also the hen nights, baby showers, kids birthdays etc. I once saw a tiktok where a lady said single people invest way more in married friends so it’s never balanced because we attend all these events but if we are lucky get a birthday. Single people in the work place are expected to do more over time because we have no life apparently and now are also expected to invest more of this free time in the church. I think this is why there is a rise in self care or self focus because single people have been ignored for a long time, work benefits like maternity / paternity l/ kids leave don’t apply to us. singles ministries have been dwindling with lots more focus on marriage counselling. There is a deeper conversation about this perceived selfishness which honestly in my case and I know many others is as a result of exhaustion from support we give others working like crazy, but are not supported in the same way, so we need to be careful we don’t push this narrative. As a single man Jesus went away from his disciples many times to be alone with God 😊 we need that too. Thanks 🙏🏾

Selfless over Selfish 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

"I'm not going to bring a dark cloud...I'm going to bring the wine!" Woooo!! I felt that!! I'm going to bring the wine!

Can we please see this entire interview? This was a blessing to me, thank you Tim and Ryan.❤.

Its the when God makes it OBVIOUS the thoughts I'm having are from HIM!!

Amen. I am a mother, a grandmother and a sower in my years of post divorce singlehood.

That is bananas. My dad moved us around a lot when he worked for General Motors too and I never met anyone with the same story. It's always hard answering that question: where are you from and where were you raised... No, not a military brat... AND I moved to Austin sight unseen. Left the city years ago but I will need to visit Red Rocks next time I'm back.

I am not single and happily married - but I am still gonna watch this.. 🤣🤣🤣😜😜

This was so needed!

Man this blessed me thank you B-Side

Really looking forward to seeing more people use the phrase, "however long you are single/married/divorced" in the church. Covers a lot of situations and seasons

Oh Ryan! I know you’re gonna kill this 🔥🔥

Wow beautifully said. That’s what I needed to hear 😢🤗❤️

This blessed me! I have a wedding coming up in a few weeks for one of my best friends. I am going to make sure I remove myself from it and bring the wine!

❤❤❤❤❤ this is so powerful

Exactly why I always say attention is not connection.

Thank you for this. I appreciate that it's a perspective I never even knew I needed and could have.

this is so good! I love his heart and insight about the word of God. Truly beautiful! I want more conversations of him, thank you for putting him on the Pod!

So good!

This was soooo Good….

Let’s getiiii. Ryan repping Red Rocks‼️

This pod was a Powerful perspective shift and blessing!

This is beautiful🌹

❤😊, awesome and informative information

30 and still single? That's like saying I can type. Most ppl are still single at 30.

Let's go Ryan!!

62….2018 last true relationship….although I’m in my middle age considering God has blessed us to live 120years….i refuse to just live a life that is not honoring my God.❤🙏🏾

Wow wow wow wow. So good, I'm speechless!

This deserves millions of views

Once again this is so powerful. wow, wow, wow, the miracle of the wine

So encouraging

Let's gooooo🎉🚀🚀

Listennnnning

WOW. 🙌🏾

Great conversation. I have to check out the book. B-SIDE 🅱️👈🏿

Such a beautiful perspective of singleness. The only thing is throw 5 boys in the equation 😮‍💨 God knows I’m trying my best after a year breakup ❤️

28:00 making disciples is the race we should be running.

I’m 36 single and abstinent lol I get it!

This guy.. where did he come from? How come he articulates everything so perfectly? Jesus!!

I go to Red Rocks Church this is awesome

I’ve been single my whole life. I spent a lot of that time doing quite a bit of the things that are iterated in this 30 minute clip, and honestly, I’m tired of doing stuff by myself…transparency. At a certain point, it felt like there was no purpose being served anymore. I guess I’m just confused as to what purpose my singleness is supposed to serve because often times it feels like it’s not serving a purpose at all. And I’m not really sure how I feel about it or what to do next.

Dude I literally was telling my family that weddings feel like a funeral and it’s really hard because it feels like there’s a small death happening in the my relationships. I’m fine now but it was so rough for me when my mom and best friend got married within a year of each other and moved away or out of the house. 😢

He’s so cute! (Sorry, great message) but have to be real 😂

40 and single here

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

Literally 30 and single

And how do I deal when the Church as a whole present marriage like it is the end of the race? Like we are less without it??

18:54- 19:12 spot on.

It’s crazy how we really be so hurt by things the Bible says to rejoice over..I’m not saying it’s easy, it’s extremely complicated and nuanced but man when is the breakthrough. Rest is the finish line though In the complete presence of God

I receive the rebuke to not make the wedding about you. But the bible also says to not lie. So if I as a single person am invited to a wedding and it disturbs me to attend them, should I decline the invitation so as to not bring that cloud? I am asking for those who can't bring the "wine" to the wedding, even though I can and will.

I’m actually 30 and single so this is weird 😂😂😂

Even widowhood is a blessing. Thank you for this perspective.

Skip to 15:00 for the topic.

And is everyone called to be parents and spouses?

27:01 “There’s no one that has ever articulated this!” Nah, y’all just don’t listen. With the stats he shared, the church is still in the 50’s in how we treat one another based on marital status.

wow.

If you ever want to have a interesting conversatiion with a woman. Tell her it might not be God's will for her to be married.

"Selfish with their time..." this is convicting, but only to an extent. I might just have to speak to the exception on this. So when we as single people take care of the ailing parents or grandparents with little to no help, but every body comes lining up.for the will to be read, what then? Even Ryan's "by in large" segue was not satisfactory enough for me. I may need to get on this show. It may never happen, but still...

My future husband is a faith based person located in Orange County are you my husband? WTFreak, a coincidence. 🤭

Wow men sitting around talking about Gods blessing then flipping the script and talking about “signal life” as a brag! I’m confused! It’s he a “teacher” of God word?

Hallelujah!!! I’m favored and blessed with $60,000 every week! Now I can afford anything and also support the work of God and the church.