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@lekeshiacole90653 жыл бұрын
Her desperation for a man needs to be healed and put in check immediately
@IamKarryanne3 жыл бұрын
Asap
@chynadoll77cyn593 жыл бұрын
That part 💯💯
@paulettec35613 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Lord please HELP her
@crystalmarcia26143 жыл бұрын
Insecurity will have you doing things for a man that is out of this world. I pray that she gets coaching and start realizing her worth.
@christinewarren81343 жыл бұрын
Girl you ain't never lied
@crystalmarcia26143 жыл бұрын
@@christinewarren8134 Trust me I have been there! Once you regain your worth as a woman you are unstoppable. She can do it !!
@christinewarren81343 жыл бұрын
@@crystalmarcia2614 🙏 😃
@takeauthority303 жыл бұрын
It's a red flag whenever a man moves this fast. Let God be your Father sweetheart. Unequally yoked .....leave him alone. Get some time alone and seek counseling.
@martinefort83 жыл бұрын
Same, let's all pray for her.
@rosellarosetyson8693 жыл бұрын
Please ladies, listen to what Tony is saying. My first cousin met a man in the military. I am not for sure how long they dated but he eventually got stationed in another area. She up and moved her and her children to where he was stationed. She moved in with him. One day, she left her two young girls with this man to go and run an errand. She thought she really knew him. This man ended up killing her youngest daughter. He got so mad at the daughter that he ended up killing her. The baby was only 4 at the time. This happened in the mid 90's. He ended up being convicted and went to federal prison. About a year ago, he came up for parole and was denied. He is still in prison today! He has been locked up now for over 20 years. Ladies, I have to say this, but he was a brother. Please take this serious! If I told you the guy's name, you can look him up on google and read all about it! This story made headline news! I am only sharing this story because I want you ladies to be careful and PLEASE STOP TAKING YOUR CHILDREN AROUND MEN YOU DON'T KNOW! God bless you all!!!
@katrinabrown78713 жыл бұрын
That is so sad😞
@jussjess28293 жыл бұрын
Wow Rosella. This is so horrible. You are so right. I just seen an article today about a black man the dropped his daughter off at the emergency room and left. She died from severe head injuries. This stop just makes me so upset. This women that wrote in to Tony has lost her mind. But women do this all the time. Smh
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your cousin’s story. Women with children need to be continually reminded about the dangers of shacking up with the wrong men. No man can ever replace a child. I hope your cousin is doing better, because my heart hurts reading this.
@chrissy14483 жыл бұрын
@@jussjess2829 I saw this and this clown was the bio father. I just don’t understand.
@patwilson12573 жыл бұрын
My granddaughters boyfriend killed her daughter. This thing is REAL.
@Fasting_Decluttering_Elevating3 жыл бұрын
I'm seeing far too many mothers being much too loose with the safety and well being of their kids 😢
@weareuniqueforareason75033 жыл бұрын
Yes sis I agree wholeheartedly
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
It's terrifying and disgusting! This is how children get molested in their own homes!
@weareuniqueforareason75033 жыл бұрын
@@PeaceBeStill- facts 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@vamanm3 жыл бұрын
I really wish every single female in the world knew who Tony Gaskins was. This man has taught me so much. The number of toxic, grown boys i have blocked from my life since i started watching Tony Gaskins.. omg. Thank you TONY!!
@onlyonekiney Жыл бұрын
Good for you beloved. Get this knowledge of the real game. Yeah we all gotta stop listening to our heart and listen to the discernment God gave us as women. Ive been married twice and Im just getting it with a family full of women and men. What the heck happening! I have grandchildren, stepchildren and a biological daughter. Be smart, be better than us, I’m 61. Pour love into you!!! Find God through Jesus Christ, that will keep you grounded!! Wishing you well.
@coachpatty18653 жыл бұрын
Sis, a real man will take the lead when he truly loves. You won’t have to uproot you’re life or chase after him, which is why you must take you’re time to see any red flags. If you are too willing or over zealous it sends him a message , “oh she desperate.” This is how he knew he could treat you whatever way he wants. He was running game the entire time. You’ll be alright. Ask God before you make any decision with men. Discernment will either tell you yes, no, or wait. Peace will be evident when the right man comes into you’re life. Praying blessings for you and your children.
@roseaduke88353 жыл бұрын
She certainly needs a renewing of her mind that only GOD can give as a matter of urgency. Else she may descend to a place where she's lost count!
@bridgethampton39323 жыл бұрын
Never Inconvenience Your Children For A Man..
@KnollyJamesandJoJoOreo3 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@ulricka21313 жыл бұрын
Tony this situation saddened the Holy Spirit. That is why tears filled your eyes. The Lord planned better for his daughter (even if she's been living in sin and self hate). Sis: if nobody told today, we love you❤ and so does Jesus🙏🏾🙏🏾
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
Amen! I loved the way you didn't belittle her, as if any of us have had perfect relationships with men! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@saywhatondat3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@irmanellheard66203 жыл бұрын
They don't do anything but drink and party at club like we used to do before we got saved.
@roseaduke88353 жыл бұрын
@@PeaceBeStill- @Dikéle Keeping it real with someone is not "belittling" especially if you "haven't had perfect relationships with men" AND learnt something AND grown from it. You can't jolt someone out of a stupor with a massage. Just don't me careless, unkind or hypocritical.
@latonyabell95513 жыл бұрын
Our poor lil babies how they suffer at the hand of immature empty aldults. GET HEALED PLEASE!!!
@meauxjojo3 жыл бұрын
Sis, he liked the idea of being with YOU when it was convenient for HIM, not you and the kids that he never met...
@ShesAbsurd3 жыл бұрын
I don’t mean to sound judgemental but I can’t believe women are this careless with their children.
@lyfesaquarium3 жыл бұрын
Believe it sis. Some women do anything for a man. It is SAD
@2010buttabrowncups3 жыл бұрын
I Can!
@dantelong31233 жыл бұрын
I can, look at the men they make fathers, the fact they hardly ever marry and the fact they barely cohabitate long enough for their kids to remember a two-parent home with their bio dad present.
@RoZzieAwake3 жыл бұрын
They deserve to be judged sis!!!. It's a shame.
@ShesAbsurd3 жыл бұрын
@@RoZzieAwake honestly they do. Hopefully it helps them make better decisions.
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
It hurts.... To look in the mirror and come to terms with everything you allowed, survived and permitted. It's embarrassing... There will be times of shame, tears and heartbreak. Go through it. On the other side is clarity. Self forgiveness, promises to yourself and your children for better. To do better. To realign yourself for your legacy. Put your all into your children. Practice self care. You'll find peace and help others from your experiences. Blessing to you and yours 💞
@l.campbell18913 жыл бұрын
So true..it. Beautiful and inspiring what you put in words. Still self-forgiving. I am a survivor. Thank you. I needed your comment.
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
@@l.campbell1891 God bless you 💯💯💯
@missunderstood37213 жыл бұрын
That was everything thank you sis.
@reinaquisha94183 жыл бұрын
@@missunderstood3721 you're welcome. I speak from experience. Blessings to you and yours.
@precious8573 жыл бұрын
When Tony was on that phone telling them children to shut up 🤣 if he ain't the truth!! That dern Tony smh! somebody send me his cash app, I ain't neva met a man so real and I love his heart. All I see is love in his videos. I see so many people on youtube gifted and talented but the Bible even says you can have all the gifts and talents but if you don't have love, you don't have nothen. The greatest of all is love. God bless you Tony 💯
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
$TonyGaskins! Bless you Sis! I commented the other day asking for those that can to send Tony an offering for his ministry work on these videos. God has called him to this, but oh man, it ain’t easy. You can see it is is face. Sisters, let’s also pray for Tony and his family. Ask God to put a hedge of protection around them.🙏🏾
@iamsadeashley3 жыл бұрын
I beg you women PLEASE STOP HAVING MEN AND WOMEN AROUND YOUR CHILDREN!!!! I prayed today over a teen girl contemplating suicide because of mom's boyfriend. Please stop traumatizing these kids!!
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
All in the name of having man?? 😌
@weareuniqueforareason75033 жыл бұрын
I promise. My mother did the same, had me looking at her like 😐 so just fuck your children's safty right 😐? All for the sake of a man 😩 my God.
@patriciawatkins82483 жыл бұрын
Yes. Please !!! Having a man is not that serious!!
@officialwatchamber3 жыл бұрын
Sis!!! I’ve been in a long distance relationship. We all make mistakes in the name of love. Out of desperation, insecurity, fear, lust.. etc. So there is no judgement. However.. it’s time to MOVE ON! This person is obviously a grown boy who is extremely toxic!! He needs help. Turn him over to the lord. And like Tony recommended... YOU NEED A LIFE COACH (I say it in love) I’m a coach on My Mentor. One of my topics is Break Ups... I’d love to talk further. We are here as a community to support! We have to do better & it takes a village!! Stay encouraged and choose YOU!!! God Bless!!!!
@rakeshamurray56033 жыл бұрын
How do I get on. You could help me.
@X.O.1433 жыл бұрын
I have a friend that loves online dating. I swear every other week she’s telling me she thinks she’s found the one. The desperation is real. She’s makes great money and if only she could put that same energy into traveling and loving herself she would be okay.
@chynadoll77cyn593 жыл бұрын
Girl me too I’ll talk to every 2 weeks and it’s a different man, she also the one who likes to shoot her shot , she is look challenged. Doesn’t work just online all day everyday looking for a man.
@mahletalem3 жыл бұрын
"Marriage is not going to save you".........such a revelation. Thanks Tony!!!!!!
@ashleycbla3 жыл бұрын
“You lying 😒” 😂 that look was hilarious.
@brendajones91103 жыл бұрын
Tony This is very disturbing and hope her angels are safe. I hope she's listening to your much needed information. Bless you.
@kimberlyp19573 жыл бұрын
Sister, I suggest not dating for a good while and really, really dive deep into the meaning of self-love, what it is, looks like, feels like, etc. You cannot fathom how much God loves you if you do not love yourself. You must get new knowledge EVERYDAY for at least a year! It’s that serious for your healing! I wouldn’t suggest something that I haven’t done. God Bless!
@officialwatchamber3 жыл бұрын
Funny Moment: We he checked the time stamp on the email and said she was lying 😩😅😂👀
@ataboofamily3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@roseaduke88353 жыл бұрын
As they say: You attract what you are. Whether you're conscious of it or not. EDIT: it's interesting that my comment-dropped enroute- aligns with Tony's conclusions.
@officialwatchamber3 жыл бұрын
@@ataboofamily tears 😂😂
@vchild3 жыл бұрын
Tony I can feel your emotions reading this. I know it's hard to keep seeing ladies getting used and abused. I just pray she heeds your advice. God open her eyes. Amen
@phinesseriley75613 жыл бұрын
Amen
@virtuouswoman18463 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Pinkdiamond123 жыл бұрын
Tony told the whole truth on this one. The woman is going to be crying in the car.
@irmanellheard66203 жыл бұрын
Not me I did that one time I will not do it again.
@carolynwilliams49263 жыл бұрын
Lady act like he dead. Block and delete him.
@lizzylewis57933 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the kids, they are the innocent ones in all of this. Women have to wisen up and put your kids first period! They rely on you to be stable in mind not adjust your life based on the whims of a man or your emotions.
@sylviasalcedo85693 жыл бұрын
When Tony said, "he's Jehovah Witness and I'm Christian",,,GOT TO GO!! What a hot mess we put our selves in! Wow!! That hole in our hearts that we fill with a man, will never do. God our Father is the only one that can fill our empty cisterns. Thank you Tony again for truth!
@JustBeYouTy3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. God is giving her all the reasons to leave.
@joellgilbert95883 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🥴
@Barr.JoyO.2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@jasonsanchez65953 жыл бұрын
I’m here as man bro! I’m changing it’s a long road but I’m becoming a real man . Everything you explain here is so real , wish me luck , may I get her back. I have faith in god
@annettec82612 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Be blessed.🙏
@heathermixson12653 жыл бұрын
And I'm ONLY saying that bc I WAS PLAYED for 27 years.......DO NOT wait that long!!!! Please!!!!!!
@IamKarryanne3 жыл бұрын
15:45 I am in tears 😂😂😂😂 Put that brake petal in your purse sis 😭😭
@aliciag9463 жыл бұрын
For me it was call DCF on yourself 😭
@mymakersdaughter60413 жыл бұрын
Both of those, plus find and fine yourself😅😂🤣😆!!!
@tyeshaturner24453 жыл бұрын
I was on the FLO😂😂😂😂😂
@888hereandnow3 жыл бұрын
Hahah one of my favorites!😆😅🤣😂
@Shiamixx3 жыл бұрын
That part!! 😂😂😩
@taelormade23 жыл бұрын
Not trying to judge. But a real relationship is needed with God. Not a form of Godliness. I think she needs to master being alone and enjoying her children first, then your true Man of God will find you ma’am. I agree with Tony this is a grown boy but you appear to be a grown girl. Sis love yourself and your children. Take your mind off a Man. I’m single with four children and still praying and waiting on God to send me the Man for me. It’s not easy but I know it will be well worth it. Btw my children are teenagers and young adults. So sis renew your mindset and get a new focus. Love you! ❤️💯
@patriciawilliams55193 жыл бұрын
Amen!! Be encouraged! Encourage yourself! Read God's word. Embrace his love letter! Don't give any energy to the clown who creeped in!! It does not determine your worth, define you! You have a now & a future!! Thank heaven he's revealed he's not qualified to be a candidate for a child of God! These wicked individuals have not grown up. Don't desire to really live life honestly, purely, with contentment in the Lord! Peace, joy, self control, love, (Galatians 5:22,23)and all 9 fruit of the spirit come from the Lord, from within and a relationship with the creator of who you were meant to be in the earth! Pray, cry and move forward women, especially mom's with precious little children! Watch daddy's little girls. The women of Brewster Place? Not sure of this title; also, No Good deed!!!! Tragic but true stories for many😔. Pray against the murderous spirits! Wake up 💎 all and stay woke!! The sex, games, deception, lies, drama, nor STDs are not worth the time wasted!! Nothing is. Accept what is revealed. Lesson learned😇. Much, much love🧸.
@co-trika46903 жыл бұрын
Okay this is a lot and being an empath, I can feel her pain. The disturbing part is that she was love bombed by a flaming Narcissist. Sis work on healing and yourself worth. 3 months was way to brief to uproot yourself for a man that has no actual relationship with you let alone your children. Cut him off, this is a form of control and abuse! Forgive yourself and reset.
@RubyRoxxie3 жыл бұрын
I believe what you’re feeling is compassion from the Holy Spirit, regardless of the scenario. Just confirmation this is your ministry right here. If a minister lacks compassion, he/she has no business being in ministry. This was great to see in all honesty. I love seeing servants of God moved by the Holy Spirit because it shows the goodness of God, the very heart of the Father. You are truly called and a blessing to us all, brother. God bless. 🙏🏽
@QuitaGee6173 жыл бұрын
I sense a huge lack of self-esteem and yearning for love from a man that she never got from her dad. So sad! Focus on yourself sis! You need to deal with your unresolved trauma so you can be better to yourself and for your children before you even think about bringing another man in the mix. No man near or far can save you, you need to save yourself!
@indyTyson3 жыл бұрын
Sis, just take the L, get on your knees and thank our Heavenly Father you dodged that bullet!! God is protecting you and your children..you'll b aight love ❤🙌🏾🙏🏾
@intentionalhome73573 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is she didn't dodge it. No matter what Tony has told her she too desperate she would ignore all the signs and still marry that fool.
@indyTyson3 жыл бұрын
@@intentionalhome7357 Things could've went on way longer than they were supposed to and ended way worse. That grown boy already showed his true colors and she knows he dont want her at all so there is nothing to go back to. Hopefully she will take ALL the advice from Tony and everyone else, telling her she needs to love herself and wait on God cuz that one was NOT it
@TheComeUpStraightUp3 жыл бұрын
If you are looking for loving advice, please do not read this comment because you will not find it here I also receive these types of letters and they blow my mind. It never ceases to amaze the depths some women will sink to in order to keep a trifling, broke man. You want to know why so many black kids are screwed up these days? Look at their (mostly single) mothers. This woman moved her kids to live with a man they had never met, a man she only knew for a hot minute. He could have been a child molester, but protecting them clearly never crossed her mind. She's an unfit mother who is selfish, desperate, delusional and has no self esteem. I would have called DCFS on her too! When I do this kind of coaching, I'm like Tony. I can only be so sympathetic to women like this. How can you have such disregard for the lives and well being of your children? This woman DESPERATELY needs counseling.
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
Sis this was loving advice! The truth is always loving whether it hurts or not!
@4EverLisaTSS3 жыл бұрын
You find some woman like to rush into a relationship, some don't care if he is still married or not. But once she start loving herself first, I believe she will make better decisions. Awesome video. Stay Bless and Safe.
@lovingme1st9733 жыл бұрын
She sounds like the type of woman that will leave her children for a man.
@tiffw19423 жыл бұрын
I see alot of women allowing guys to come around their kids and barely know them. I know a woman that gave keys to her place after 45days and she has two daughters. 🤦🏽♀️
@PeaceBeStill-3 жыл бұрын
The daughters will end up in therapy as adults.
@AllThingsTiffanyTV3 жыл бұрын
They don’t care. They are lonely. Especially since COVID-19. Ppl are moving in fast
@tiffw19423 жыл бұрын
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV This was in 2016 and I still see it in 2020. 😔
@Kellergirl3 жыл бұрын
Tony, I know you joke about retiring from life coaching because of some of the questions you get. But this situation right here is why God called you to do this. I know it's frustrating. But people need you. It's hard to see outside of a situation when you're in it. I thank God for you. Please keep up the work God called you to do.
@AidaRivera3 жыл бұрын
Feel like a lot of women are desperate for love. Don’t mean any harm by saying this because I use to be that woman falling for anything and everything..thank God for growth & for your channel Tony. 🙏🏽
@YouAreWorthy4083 жыл бұрын
He is truly a blessing 🙏🏽
@alanerogers71773 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. Desperation for love gets a lot of us in trouble.
@roja_xo55273 жыл бұрын
A dude told me he wanted a pic of me to show my future mama law. I said dang at least buy me dinner first and cut his behind off. Wasn't finna have me hanging from the highest tree.
@bethanynabors46353 жыл бұрын
I pray this woman realizes that she is a Queen and to always put your kids first sis dont ever put a Man before God or your kids. This man is definitely a Grown Boy. My suggestion is to love yourself and put your energy into your kids.
@sheloves36633 жыл бұрын
There has to be balanced - moving too fast can only make you a stuck victim of love bombing. Let the honeymoon phase wear off before you make heavy commitments 💯
@belitr59153 жыл бұрын
Speaking as someone who was raised a Witness (no longer though): if that man claims that faith and is trying to have sex before marriage, he could get dis-fellowshipped. If you're a serious Witness fornication is big no.
@chandrarobinson34383 жыл бұрын
So tru!
@roseaduke88353 жыл бұрын
They already had sex hence why she threatened him with pregnancy & child-support. The guy was just playing. He is everything & nothing all at once! 🙂 Obviously, he never wanted to marry her or could easily have said he was also a Christian. What he didn't bargain for was that she didn't care 'bout all that!
@nancyb65973 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@Aquariuslady-dq9ek3 жыл бұрын
Too soon to move your kids in with a man. I knew a man 2 full years before I realized he was as crazy. These women be soooo quick and thirsty to want a man. She done threw all caution to the side. Smh
@Glamrocs3 жыл бұрын
Aquarius ♒️❤️
@ThoroughbredDiva3 жыл бұрын
💎Come through DRIP!💎 That's my Brotha right there!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 It's okay to flex a lil bit.💪🏾 Only jealous & insecure folks gon' hate.
@marilynwright88673 жыл бұрын
"Desperation"" Is Never the Way!!! SLOW YOUR ROLE ...NO SEX PERIOD...
@EdemAf3 жыл бұрын
OMG! She uprooted her kids for a man :(. Let's pray that she leaves and she learns her lesson!
@robintruelove7773 жыл бұрын
Prayed for you sweet girl you deserve better
@elainepjones24783 жыл бұрын
Sis if he loves you today he will love you in the future. Don't be in a hurry. Remember to keep yourself and your children safe first and foremost. Love yourself and know that you are worth more and you and your children deserve better. Read Tony's books and watch his videos daily! God bless you. God will bring you through! Its not too late to make better choices.
@askalicensedcosmetologist25173 жыл бұрын
Tony I know these stories are sad and help is needed, but I can't help but laugh at your facial expressions LOL. I just choked on my food when you said commercial break!!!! I'm so sorry to the sister that is going through prayers up for you and your kids. you have to take care of yourself and kid, that you have now and definitely no fornication God will not honor that sis. Until you heal from within you will never be able to love someone else or recognize love when it does come. Trust God and remember there are no boyfriends and girlfriends in the Bible, only wives and husbands, set yourself up to be a wife, a great mother and a righteous example to your kids.
@uzougwu15113 жыл бұрын
Righttt me too His facial expression killssss mee .Tony is a clown
@RoZzieAwake3 жыл бұрын
Lol. Ikr. I had to check my phone to make sure my video hadn't stopped.
@marywessling6523 жыл бұрын
Sister, we love you and support you.
@jenniferthompson51463 жыл бұрын
We women need to be wise and not get played but men need to stop promising the moon and stars. And then getting angry when women get caught up in chasing the fantasy. We both need to learn our lessons and do better. I was planning on moving for my boyfriend and then STILL moved AFTER he BROKE UP with me. After a 2 year situationship, lots of stress, confusion and heartbreak, I really hope I've learned my lesson!
@xgs90513 жыл бұрын
Facts
@gudetamakid90913 жыл бұрын
Tony...I grew up as Jehovah's witness. They do not celebrate any holiday holidays except for Easter. But they aren't supposed to even date outside their religion and sex outside of marriage will get you disfellowshiped..so this guy is definitely sus on all levels...keep giving that knowledge!
@caseyj55972 жыл бұрын
Jehovah's Witnesses do not celebrate Easter, they celebrate the memorial of Jesus Christ's death. It's not the same thing even though it's around the same time period.
@elizabethschilling71783 жыл бұрын
Invest in yourself, read books, watch Tony's videos. There are alot of women moving across the country to be with a man... No, no, no please if anything do it for your kids. 🙏
@zuphurialoveriecutscoupons3 жыл бұрын
That sign language he uses for tossing and flipping. Hilarious!
@puchuossomane5193 жыл бұрын
You have the gift of saying the Harsh Truth and being hilarious at the same Time ! 😆😆😆 Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Greetings from France 🇫🇷
@MoodyA19993 жыл бұрын
Damn sis, tighten up! Love yourself, God bless 😘❤️
@ewomick3 жыл бұрын
It’s the jehovah witness scene for me. “visualizing Christmas trees, and I was born but don’t have a birthday.”Listen I laughed the whole way through this video. 😂 . But seriously I have been in the Shoes of all these women who write in. But Thank God for Tony’s teaching, I’ve learned all the red flags and games. However, I will keep learning because when you stop learning you stop growing
@SoultanicalsTube3 жыл бұрын
He said” When’s your birthday? I don’t know. How old is everybody in the class?” Took me out! 🤣🤣🤣
@tyeshaturner24453 жыл бұрын
Me toooo I was dying.. up at 1230 laughing loud in the house 😂😂😂
@ericacrayton86153 жыл бұрын
Man I'm in my car with tears in my eyes crying at tony..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he is hilarious..
@iAMtheYELLOWrose3 жыл бұрын
Baby girl... please let this man go. Work on you. Self-healing is key!!
@Godsonechild3 жыл бұрын
His examples are hilarious..I couldn't stop laughing. He said buy a brake pedal....I can't. Sometimes we don't realize what we're doing while we're in it. But when it's over, we can see clearly. I hope she keeps it moving and heals from this grownboy.
@10nicity3 жыл бұрын
This heartbreaking Sis. I pray for your mind, body, spirit, and Godly Wisdom. I plead the Blood of Jesus over you and your children. I pray that God place people in your path that will edify your spirit and strengthen your inner man. Bless the fruit of her womb Father. I pray this in Jesus name. A-men.
@cherh3 жыл бұрын
Whew, help Lord 🙏🏾 strength, peace, & self love.
@nesha82293 жыл бұрын
You can believe in a religion but if u not living the lifestyle u are not a Christian/ Witness. It’s too many people who have put in that work and gave themselves to God for just anyone to be claiming they are Christian or a Witness. You may study it or believe it but it’s the lifestyle and relationship with God. 💯💯💯
@tinajones19323 жыл бұрын
....It's good that you reached out for help, you can recover from this. However, you have to put in the work. Take a few coaching sessions with Tony Gaskins, it will be a great investment in you. For now stay strong and do the " inner" work for your children as well. God bless you sis.
@anajulien60673 жыл бұрын
Dear lady, this is a turning point, if you are smart. Thank God that he didn't hurt your kids first and yourself. Love your self first and pay attention and love to your children. That's is your job. Love yourself.
@twilliams36003 жыл бұрын
She really moved way too fast and he could have been a serial killer. She put herself and her children in potential harm.
@younaatz3 жыл бұрын
Your empathy evoked mine and I cried while you were reading this. God help this lady and her children 🖤
@CoachLove3 жыл бұрын
Well, I can fully stamp that a long distance relationship is NOT real. I survived one. Since I'm retired and my time is mine, we agreed I could move versus him relocating his job. He lived closer to the beach; always wanted to live within a mile of a beach. I went to visit for a week and his mask came off. Not only was he trying to force himself inside of me with his vastly utilized community "body," he abused me in other ways.... I lowered my worth. I can do better alone than be with some broken person for the sake of saying that I have a "man." Thank God her children were not physically harmed. I wonder if she's sat down and talked with them about their feelings on that situation?
@missme48623 жыл бұрын
My advice to her, 1. Forgive yourself for making the wrong choices and forgive anyone who has hurt you in the past. 2. Go to therapy(8 session)and get a life coach (12 sessions) 3. Focus on your children ,don't make the mistake of hurting by focusing too much on men. Children know everything and it can effect them for life. 4. Take a break from dating until you have healed and you have fallen in love with yourself again. Take this time to invest in your growth
@aliciag9463 жыл бұрын
Tony I am wiping my face too, not crying but I am scratching my head🤔.... The commercial break for me 🙈
@MissSonyaT3 жыл бұрын
Hey Dr. Gaskins! Dont make no excuses for the blessings. Well deserved.🙏
@lashondarochell75843 жыл бұрын
Sis make sure you don't put your precious children in potentially harmful situation, Praise GOD nothing happened to you and your children, Go too The Lord and Repent and also forgive yourself. I will be praying for you and your children in the Spirit my heart is heavy towards you 🙏 Blessings to you 🙏❤️
@tlfernandez91113 жыл бұрын
Waymint...July 2020-October 2020? Maybe that’s a typo😱😱 Moving & trusting too fast Sis
@zuphurialoveriecutscoupons3 жыл бұрын
lol! i love how you spelled wait a minute. we say it like that in the south
@aliciag9463 жыл бұрын
... And planned a baby in that time 😳
@intentionalhome73573 жыл бұрын
@@aliciag946 exactly plus she already has 3 kids. I guess she love that single mother life she about to repeat that cycle again if she marry this fool.
@Glamrocs3 жыл бұрын
Tony disappears at 6:30 🤣😂 Jimmy doesn’t know his birthday 😶 Don’t do holidays but sure do fornication 💀
@cherh3 жыл бұрын
😄Good looking out
@Glamrocs3 жыл бұрын
@@cherh 😂😂😂
@resilientwoman73313 жыл бұрын
🤣😂😆
@flymetothemoon95413 жыл бұрын
😂!!
@denellrae-59583 жыл бұрын
That part took me out! 🤣🤣😂
@VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын
I really hope this woman gets counseling and is able to heal from this. 🙏🏾💕
@arij.28213 жыл бұрын
That man that were reading about is bringing reproach on Jehovah's name. Jw is an organization. Christian is lifestyle. And about this letter. Man. Smh you have a point... this is a hard pill to swallow.. we've all been there no matter where we are spiritually. Because we're imperfect. And it's to each a zone about the holidays no matter what religion you are. The world we live in is commercialized. The seasons are beautiful.. but a gift should be given any time from the heart. Ps. Tony please dont block me. I enjoy your videos on the game of men.
@Meishababe3 жыл бұрын
“I was born but I don’t have a birthday” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg his facial expressions yo, hilarious.
@CoachLove3 жыл бұрын
Oh lawd! I clicked so fast because I did this nonsense...Cost me so much and what I walked into was not kosher... Whew. I'll post again at the end.
@yolamayo26893 жыл бұрын
Ladies get the knowledge long-distance relationships do not work put God first love yourself and don’t be thirsty and desperate for any man🙂
@victoriahopeis3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂.."I don't know. How old is everybody else in the class?"
@candidlycamille2 жыл бұрын
I’m at work hollering listening to these videos 😂 uncle Tony kills me with his voices
@TrustJesusfolks3 жыл бұрын
You have to be careful about lying about being pregnant when you are not this can be very dangerous people have lost their lives doing that! Get God in your life let him be your leader, get a coach seek help
@peacescott41233 жыл бұрын
I lost it when Tony said “FIND yourself and FINE yourself” 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@pat4eva093 жыл бұрын
I'm screaming, 😂😂😂....Tony: Okay, she from the hood." Wheeeww Chile....that question, plus grammar, was all over the place. I CANNOT!!!!! Why girl, just WHY???!!!
@jaimesweetin27173 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you can know him before the distance and it still not be real. My wasn't, went to school with him all my life.
@Bohemiangoddess2223 жыл бұрын
She was chasing love. If it seems to good to be true, it is
@taga80063 жыл бұрын
Yeah, sad but true. I used to move in with a man as soon as weeks and days before I found this channel. Now I won't step into his house before wedding day. Sister, God bless you! There's always healing from God!
@Destinee363 жыл бұрын
Get your track shoes sis!🙏🏾🙏🏾 up for you!
@lyfesaquarium3 жыл бұрын
Most women doing this need help deeper than Tony. IT IS DEEP. Hopefully his talks will hasten them to take the right steps. Lawd Jesus!!!!!!!
@audreycathcart36853 жыл бұрын
I feel for this woman and her children. I hope see play this video over and over and let it sink in that she’s going to be able to see red flags and learn how to not be so anxious to get a man and to always put her children first and protect them. I wishing and praying nothing but the best for this woman.♥️
@prestigiouswisdom12833 жыл бұрын
Listen ladies ...men who don’t have your same faith belief repeat it will not work! No Matter how nice they are If you a real child of God....he won’t allow you stay with that person (spiritual levels)
@AidaRivera3 жыл бұрын
“He do not like you” -TG 💯
@mschat87763 жыл бұрын
TONY said “ You Are so Thirsty - you need water and Gatorade on both hands 🙌🏽 Pour the water on your head down your back like the marathon people“ he took me out! Lol 😂 keep it real straight to the point
@diminicaCMB4093 жыл бұрын
That "You should of known better" expression pause you took made me giggle for some reason 🤦 I luv how real and honest you are.
@xannairriaware42513 жыл бұрын
😂 “Swagoo” 😂😂😂. I’m from Fl too and that’s just the culture to be iced out. Even our babies have chains 🤷🏿♀️😭. So, we get it Tony do ya thang!
@andreabrown49473 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to her. She’s in the right place asking for help! Hopefully she takes withTG is saying!
@kristinaherrejon71813 жыл бұрын
Goodness I love Tony. So much wisdom and deep belly laughs to be had.
@jacquelynlinn15053 жыл бұрын
Mr Tony. Your emotions while reading and speaking is called being a decent and integral person!!! God bless you!!!
@chariennekhan92593 жыл бұрын
I wish I discovered you ages ago...I would have avoided alot of mistakes...I am single and staying that way...less stressful...and enjoying the peace!...and getting myself together...I enjoy your messages!...
@n.Lenice3 жыл бұрын
I think they had, had sex, but when he was talking about engagement, but started to complain about finances and 'being rushed' she said she wanted to be abstinent until they married. She was grasping at straws to help coax him to get married quicker, but he was just talking. Smh. I hope she heard this message and gets help.