He wanted you to say you were on the down low too! He wanted you to say ya I’m married, he would’ve been in your bed 🛌 that night 😂

Hi Keven, no need to apologize for recording a video in a Hotel room. Your presence, interaction and thoughts are most important. Sorry that you have these experiences but it says a lot about your kind and approachable personality.

I think it is weird that he asked if you were single out of nowhere. Some guys like the fun of going right up to the line, but not crossing it. Its a flirtatious game where they can feel the excitement of flirting without actually following through on anything. That happened to me when I was younger with another guy. We flirted and did kind of a dance where we never did anything sexual, but the flirtation without actually doing anything was the fun of it. And I was religious and so was he. Same religion. So we knew we couldnt do anything, but we had fun flirting in an innocent way.

Very confusing. I’m not interested in dating anyone who is married and am put off by anyone who is trying to cheat with me.

Hey Kevin, I love that you're uploading more now. No pressure of course. Do it at your own pace. Life and other things dictate what you can do. But I appreciate your uploads. I will comment on the video once I watch it.

Many people are just giving superficial face value these days.

The guy sounds like his self esteem may not be up to par and he's not too sure of himself on taking changes. IDK Sorry you had to hear this from him. You have a really good personality to go with those "bedroom eyes" of yours. You will find someone that appreciates you as you!! .. #COMPLIMENT Take care..

Not only confuse like them, but some DL men are looking for other men ( DL men ) who have the same agenda as them. Base on DL guy i know he said if i checking a guy and we have nothing in common ( for example beein married or in a relationship with a woman ) they will leave you alone.

Straight men are very flirty ngl. It's in their nature to tease us unintentionally. But they are just sexual animals at the end of the day. We pick up on that but its not intended for us.

I’m traveling too and at a non gay bar last night three people asked my sexual orientation weird! Also unnecessary question and kind of rude unless you are trying to get with me or set me up Just like asking if single

Sounds like a bi guy living a double life. I think they get off on feeling sexual attraction from gay men. You could have said to this man "I'm more interested in find a nice gay muslim man". Why not show him what up front honest, authentic communication looks like.

He was just letting you know, I’m discrete but I want you so be chill. It’s always mutual but his lifestyle he won’t change or can’t change but he wants inside you. Now you decide if you want to deal with being his secret, that or sex work and get money for keeping the secret or both. If they do this often, we have the power so get them and the benefits. Don’t shame em, society shames those men and culture says either be out and proud or Straight and bi discretely but “pick a side” sort of attitude. Female sexuality rules and male sexuality is shamed, not everyone can be as proud as us, I accept these men, I get their plight.

I really enjoy watching your videos - a) interesting and b) good english practice….since Im european 😅 So thanks a lot. Greetings from Germany 😊

It’s weird he asked if you were single. That usually implies a follow through. Guys don’t usually ask that unless they are interested. Was he around your age? It’s possible that he is trying to settle down with a woman now but used to date men

....this is totally random, and superficial, but, your eyes are absolutely gorgeous. I wish you the best of luck with your channel - greets from Berlin

Maybe he would’ve hookuped with you if you asked him to or you think not? Also in all seriousness why wouldn’t this guy just get a mail order bride if he’s having that much difficulty? I’m sure there are a ton of nice Muslim girls who would love the green card especially if he’s good looking

Keven.. I know this video is old. It just popped up in my feed on April 7, 2024. I do not know what to say about the sincerity of people. He did all of that talking just to say that. It was not with your time especially you see it for what it is. I just do not have the energy to chase people down. My thing is if someone is not interested, just leave you alone. You do not need that kind of conversation. You want to know where you are before you invest time. He showed you who he is so you know. I see you were in my state too. Take care Keven.

I think this could be a really interesting topic: do you need to disclose your sexuality to your partner if you’re a gay man. It seems like an easy yes/no but there’s some other considerations. Muslims conceptualize gay as more of an action/lifestyle than an identity. So if a Muslim man prefers men, but abstains due to his faith, should he ‘have’ to disclose that to a woman he courts? Even considering the ramifications of letting that be known? At which point?

I've ran into this kind of situation a few times before. Sometimes it's really just straight guys who are oddly friendly. The two instances of this I can think of are guys I have met in Burlington, Vermont. Both I met on the UVM campus, so definitely a space where being gay would be OK. Knowing them for years after also showed no signs of them being on the DL or whatever. I also wonder in this situation if this guy thought he saw another Muslim (you), and wanted to connect?

He probably recognized you from here.

Gaydar can be something to take into consideration, but I think that you needed more to go on re. this guy than that. There are men who give off a deceptive gay vibe and it can be really embarassing to be caught up short cruising a straight guy. Especially when someone is of another culture, you need to be more careful. Muslim men have sensibilities and male behaviour that is not what you expect as an occidental. In Muslim culture, for example, men who are not gay at all get (as it seems to us) very physical with each other, especially in matters like holding hands, touching each other a whole lot, etc. Your dude may not have been gay at all, just fairly typically Muslim.