I went on my first date at 26!

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Dan

11 ай бұрын

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@Upfrontgameplay 11 ай бұрын

Well done on going on your first date, everyone drop a massive W in the comments for Dan!

@jack3d899 10 ай бұрын

@HeWhoSpeaks I actually feel sorry for you, your express your insecurities onto this guy KZfaq channel just because your can't control your own life and try and put this guy down to make yourself feel better,

@jack3d899 10 ай бұрын

@HeWhoSpeaks hope you sort out your own mess up life, stop judging people and work on yourself,

@jack3d899 10 ай бұрын

@HeWhoSpeaks you must be going thru some bad stuff in your life to say this, but really you just too scared to judge yourself, you need to dissolve your ego and do at least 5g of psycliobin in silent darkness

@ryangreenberg1187 11 ай бұрын

i’ve been subbed for a little while and seeing this pop up in my feed honestly made me so happy. i’m glad you seem to be doing well

@timothyslaughter476 10 ай бұрын

Yes I just left a comment on his video from about 6 months ago that popped up. Great news on the date. You can do this. It's really not about finding a girlfriend now and really that shouldn't be the ultimate goal it will happen in a substantial way in due time. This is,about you gaining the confidence and self pride you deserve. My advice before was hit the gym and get in shape because that gives any man confidence. Keep reading and getting smarter. Another confidence boost. Stay off the video games and other idle entertainment methods or at least cut down. Get out there and meet people. You're young. You got this.

@Kozanik 8 ай бұрын

Son of the mountain! Our hearts sing to your glory, noble champion!

@PyramidHeadLovesYou 11 ай бұрын

Dan brother this is the best news I could ever hear. Don't let this first date phase you. You did everything well let this just be your first stepping stone on your way to happiness. Never give up keep moving forward you WILL achieve your goals.

@HardcoreNewbz0r 11 ай бұрын

You seem more honest and confident with yourself. I assume it is from making great progress. Thank you for sharing 🙏

@jaimeminaya4679 11 ай бұрын

LET’S GO DUDE!! I started following back during the pandemic and it’s good to see you doing well.

@GameGlobalOfficial 11 ай бұрын

This video popped up on my KZfaq home page. I watched it and you seem like a regular guy. Then I browsed your channel and saw your other videos. And you've made some great progress with how you look and speak to the camera. Way to go 👏 There are so many guys that are in your position when it comes to their social lives, but most of them don't make any positive efforts to change anything. Nothing but respect to you 👊🏻 - Joe

@MiamEggTart 11 ай бұрын

Congrats on your first date!! I think most girls are probably not going to text you first after a date, even if they are super interested! They're waiting for the man to write first, it's all part of courting. If you wait too long after the date to write, you may lose the momentum. If the discussion was good, then maybe ask her out for a second date. My friend is getting married next week and she said her fiancee really grew on her after 3 dates, the first one was ordinary but pleasant, and that's all you need for a first date.

@whoever79 10 ай бұрын

Fuck yeah! You have my total respect! Great work dude!

@Duzgun2002 11 ай бұрын

I have been watching your videos from the beginning im very happy you are achieving your goals it proves how if we have something on mind it is not impossible to acheive

@octavian9168 10 ай бұрын

Congrats! We believe in you! And the most important is that you believe in yourself!

@guilhermegomes1314 11 ай бұрын

good job! that's the way to go, you are doing great!

@TAXFRAUD-sx3ge 8 ай бұрын

im rooting for you dan, you give me hope

@legend0r 5 ай бұрын

You got this Dan! Definitely will take some time to get adjusted to dating, stay relaxed and laugh if things go wrong! There is always the next date. That sounds like an awesome first date

@jst102295 9 ай бұрын

Good for you brother, I’m happy for you! Keep it up.

@carl8830 9 ай бұрын

Good for you man!

@stephfinny 10 ай бұрын

so happy for you man

@SlickBoiMoi 11 ай бұрын

This video was on my suggested list and title caught my attention. Congrats man, keep putting yourself out there. Next time I would suggest you to hug your date first thing when you see her. And ask questions about her during the date. Cheers

@ben5154 10 ай бұрын

Awesome man. Good luck.

@abathens 10 ай бұрын

That's great that you finally went for it! As someone who has been on a lot of first dates, there will always be awkward moments.

@C4mpyGames 8 ай бұрын

Found the update! So happy for you!

@yumingzai3441 11 ай бұрын

Well done man! More to come ;)

@Jdcv99 11 ай бұрын

Congratulations 👏🏽

@sleepyd 11 ай бұрын

just found this channel today and im inspired by ur progress man. keep going! i subbed and will keep following ur growth 🔥

@prodstvnk 11 ай бұрын

yooooooooooo so proud of u my guy .

@mimikutu 11 ай бұрын

Happy for you Dan 🩷

@tahsanahmed8269 11 ай бұрын

Well done man 🥳🥳💯🎉

@MrBuzzzzz 10 ай бұрын

Well I made you a video before I saw this one but this made my day, awesome dude, you did great and now you'll have more confidence. Still, don't forget the advice I gave you in the video I made. When you're ready for the girl of your dreams to show up, stop thinking about it so the natural flow can occur. All the best man!

@smackdownhotel7232 10 ай бұрын

Hey just wanted to say after watching your videos that you've made amazing progress. It's actually insane how much has changed in 3 years. Usually when you see people who are behind in life they're just bitter and resentful. There was one youtuber I watched who had similar issues as you. He dropped out of college after 1 year because it wasn't for him, stayed at home from 19 and played video games until he was 25; he ended up homeless when his mother had a stroke and the house was repossessed by adult protective services, and now he's 29 years old. Problem with him is he's still the same person and hasn't improved himself at all. He still looks and acts like a kid, and doesn't do self reflection to change his life. He too wants a girlfriend but I can see he's hopeless because he doesn't want to self reflect. Anyways, you're doing great. Here are some constrictive criticisms to help you out. Eliminate the word "Wound up" from your vocabulary. It's just a superfluous filler word that doesn't add any impact to your verbal communication. When it comes to communication, less is more and using "Wound Up" just doesn't sound that great. Other than that you talk pretty fluidly without awkward stutters. Don't worry about social media or Facebook friends. What you will realize is by the time you're 30, most people are too busy to be connecting with social media friends. You really only need 2-5 actual friends in real life. Your look is also good. It's amazing how much a simple haircut and proper grooming can change someone. I would say work towards a career goal next. Focus on what you want to do but IT or Business are good ones to get into. Provided you don't get into too much debt and you're able to do it, it's fine to take out 50-60K in student loans for a degree in one of those fields because the ROI will still be there. Just keep working on your mannerisms, and you're headed in a good place in the next year or two.

@octavian9168 10 ай бұрын

Or WGU it.

@abox6562 11 ай бұрын

Bro the best advice I can give you. Talk to girls in public like college or university. Heck even at a Starbucks barista. Make small talk like how’s the day. Small victories lead to success in a big battles. It takes time. My time in college helped me become successful with women and know my worth. But trust me. Years and years of failures is what happened.

@trowwzers5057 6 күн бұрын

Congrats man! I’m very happy you had luck with dating

@victor_ca 10 ай бұрын

Big W bro, keep going

@malka8191 11 ай бұрын

good boy. keep up the good work

@iwantyourcookiesnow 8 ай бұрын

You can do it Dan!

@leejee88 10 ай бұрын

first dates are awkward but you handled it very well just use each interaction with women as a learning experience both for yourself and with how you handle being with women

@kingsguard5614 11 ай бұрын

Hey I went on my first date just a few weeks ago with 27 after beeing in a relationship for 8 years with no dating experience prior. Dating apps still overhelm me a bit and im sure im still bit akward but the girls on there are usually nice.

@vicious398 11 ай бұрын

Congratulations

@troll2050 10 ай бұрын

Let'ttts go brother 🔥🔥🔥

@edpone8600 8 ай бұрын

Nice, go on to the next girl. Pile up the experience!

@w9s992 10 ай бұрын

what mobile app did u use for parking

@looking_33 11 ай бұрын

W 🔥🔥

@gregoriosoutelo414 11 ай бұрын

I already know this video is going to be a banger in views some years from now, it has that viral feeling to it.

@Doughyy736 8 ай бұрын

hell yeah that's good progress!! keep it up Dan! you're gonna make it!

@rogerheisler2554 9 ай бұрын

Too far away for starters! Just try to get experience with zero expectations. When in doubt, leave it out as far as apologies go! Good job so far! 👍

@elasticharmony 10 ай бұрын

You ought to get as many as possible you can always have two girls if you find better. One thing ive learnd about women is dont end up regreting not taking action.

@zenmindgreenthumbful 11 ай бұрын

good job Dan man

@IraSol37 11 ай бұрын

Well, all I can advise you is to keep your head and feet on the ground, which means this is a human being you are dating, not a list of stereotypes to check. Be yourself, be natural. If there is affinity and chemistry between you, fine! But if it doesn't, it's not the end of the world!

@megamonstercookies 11 ай бұрын

We have the same bed frame, lol.

@ashwynee9602 11 ай бұрын

yay dan!

@vdb1920 11 ай бұрын

good for you lad

@CrimsonUniverse22 11 ай бұрын

I’m 30 and have yet to go on a date yet. 😢

@manosijroy8282 11 ай бұрын

I am a 22 year old guy but I never had a girlfriend before and its definitely bothering me. I got rejected by 4 girls recently. I asked out my childhood friend 2 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she agreed to meet up and again didn't reply for over a month about when we can meet up until today and she asked me when can I meet and I said we can meet on some weekend maybe when we both are full free as I have some exams going on now but idk when she will reply again tho. I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023. She is 19 now and she used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat daily and she shares everything to me and I do the same too and we even send each other virtual hugs but there is still no flirting yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but I am nervous especially after getting rejected 4 times recently. Is a month long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not?

@prodstvnk 11 ай бұрын

@@manosijroy8282 ask her out man, it wont kill you . id rather live with being sad they said no then regretting i didnt ask em. hope it goes well for ya

@vimukthimanodya7954 11 ай бұрын

@@manosijroy8282 bro what happened did it went well??

@manosijroy8282 11 ай бұрын

@@vimukthimanodya7954 nothing yet. My childhood friend is just too inactive on Instagram so still no reply yet about the exact date when we can meet. The other girl who is 19 is having exam in her college so we didn't chat for the past 2 days.

@filthycasual4636 10 ай бұрын

Remember though, you can't force attraction

@ligadgini9309 10 ай бұрын

KING

@jezusrune 11 ай бұрын

Hey, hallelujah, man! So, you did look into faith? I remember suggesting that to you maybe a year or so ago I think you mentioned Mass in this video or something? Are you Catholic now? Is there a video that you did on this? Sorry, I haven't kept up-to-date recently on your content, but I was thinking of you recently and this video title caught my eye. Glad you're doing well, bro! Yay! That makes me happy. God bless you.

@oliver2855 12 күн бұрын

Not bad- the trick is to smile to attract.

@Razumihinsplitsyou 10 ай бұрын

W Dan

@ashwynee9602 11 ай бұрын

LETS GOOOOO

@fangshurt 11 ай бұрын

LETS GOOOOOOOO

@tsunamidev 7 ай бұрын

thats a W on my books

@user-jq6be2vz7u 7 ай бұрын

@JohnSmith-fs8bu 11 ай бұрын

Let’s goooooo

@fangshurt 11 ай бұрын

YEAHHHHHHHHHHH

@elasticharmony 10 ай бұрын

You ought to get as many as possible you can always have two girls if you find better. One thing ive learnd about women is font end up regreting not taking action.

@SHELUV69259 9 ай бұрын

Ill be ur friend bro

@jazdj04 4 ай бұрын

sounds like a nice date to me.

@toma3447 8 ай бұрын

This is great. Now go for the kiss on every single first date. If she kisses back then you’ll know she has romantic interest. If not then she only sees you as a friend. Part of being a man is taking what you want and making the first move. Be a leader. Lead them into your bedroom.

@norge696 11 ай бұрын

Want to play OSRS?

@Atha303 8 ай бұрын

you're a nice guy , just don't call them chicks

@YusufHaddad 9 ай бұрын

Brother, drop the professional picture idea, it could have a negative impact at the meeting. Just be yourself, chill out, the secret is not to have expectation, be cool and know that every woman have a certain time of the month that they just won't say no. Dating sites i wouldn't recommend either. Best places to meet girls are in churches and supermarkets. Treat a girl that you fancy as you treat one of your coworkers, be cool, be yourself. Get some italian clothes, a different haircut, leather shoes and pretend that you are in the matrix. It's hard for intelligent men to get girls, we know better what we ant from them and it feels awkward to approach with that in mind, it's almost like an insult. For that reason, again, you must be cool and drop expectations. Look for a friend girl, the girlfriend comes after. Good luck, Dan.

@YusufHaddad 9 ай бұрын

Oh, one more thing, when you talk to the girl, look her in the eyes, always, don't give her a chance to wonder her eyes off, make her see your soul. One way i was very lucky on social media is dirty talk, tell a few of them how would you ravish them in a poetic way, how they wake your most primitive desires, you know, stuff like that. Women loves to feel pretty. make sure to bring that subject with conviction, without a shadow of shyness, the hair, the eyes, the hands...pick a body part and capitalize it. Remember, you don't want her, she wants you. But i must warn you, women usually don't bring happiness, only moments of addicting pleasure.Don't' think for a second that you willl be fulfilled after the fist marriage or the first night, but if you must realize you are better of playing video-games after going trough the mating process, go for it, but never take it too serious, remember, every girl that goes trough your like will be ''the one''. Never think that another won't make you happy, that is the lie that every man tells himself after being drunk in the pleasures of a woman.