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IronDad over there like "I could really use a boat right about now..."

It's sad that her mom grew up believing she doesn't deserve nice things :'( Ironmouse you're an amazing daughter!

Ironmom is afraid to find sextoys bills again.

As a parent of newly adult kids, this can be hard. Everything has always flowed from parent to child, and money that comes back the other way just feels wrong. I get Ironmom's feelings.

This is the opposite of those bad parents who demand their kids pay for being raised.

Mouse's mom is living the dream latina mom life, her daughter LITERALLY said all her work is thanks to her, and she rejects it XD

I like how Mouse refers to herself as a latinian and I cant stop using that word anymore.

My mom does that too and I f*cking hate it because all her worries result in is frustrations and limitations for me. She's an absolute genius at justifying her worries and making sure it's impossible for anyone to make her feel better about it, so I don't even try anymore.

W DAD

money has a way of fukin up relationships, I can see why the mom is so careful with the finances

"I DON'T WANT PEACE! I WANT PROBLEMS, ALWAYS!"

A proud Mousey and a proud mom arguing about money in a wholesome way. Mousey has a great support system and community.

Mousey's Mom sounds like an absolute treasure. If I were in Mousey's shoes I would arrange as many direct debits as possible for the household bills as possible just to avoid the fuss. That way the money goes out automatically.

The Opposite of a Child Actor and their Parents :D

I guess we now know where Mousey gets her low self-esteem from. Alright, Famoly, we gotta build up Ironmom too.

Your family sounds so... real. Not just people related by blood but people who really care, it's heartwarming

Based dad.

i understand but your mom doesn't want you to think that shes taking advantage of your kindness as well its a balancing act Gremolin

Her mom is very respectful, but it sounds like she hasn't developed her mothering into a caretaker role yet. Mouse lives with disability and needs help sometimes. I think Mouse has gotten used to making large purchases for work expenses and the little things don't hit as hard as they used to. Her mom isn't in that space and she's probably waiting for the other foot to drop, since she's been around long enough to be called "old" and all this has been happening for less than five years. She probably wants to be sure that if it ends, it ends gracefully; her daughter will be okay.

Ah, I love being a Dad. 😂

Can her entire freaking family get any more heartmeltingly wholesome?

I mean, I think asking (even if she were to know she doesn't need to) is a good thing. Better to be told there is gonna be less money on the account then realizing you don't have enough for something you planned or need, since 2 parties didn't communicate.

Ironmouse is LITERALLY the best!

Put a note on your door 'mom, you have my permission to make yourself happy '

This is a fairly common family trait. One parent is responsible, and uncomfortable asking for help..(usually financial these days), and another is not safe around pocket change.

More IronPapa lore when?

My mom does the same thing, it’s a pride thing

My trick just to let them pay if they want to. And if I intended to pay in full I just keep the portion they paid for emergency and what not. The most you can do is negotiate the spilt when parents insist to pay.

I learned this from an anime (I forgot which one) but is really on point with real life. When you give someone something, a favor or money, you NEED to get a proper compensation back. It doesn't matter how little, you NEED to give them a way or reason to compensate. That way, the person receiving the favor or money won't pity themselves. For example, my sister asked for my help with her project which took a long time, like 3 weeks irl. I really am fine with simply helping her but what do you think she would feel if she realized that affected my work and other stuff? So, what I did is to have her treat me for boba in exchange for that whole three weeks of helping her. That way, she would can tell herself "Well, I gave boba for this so it's kind of fair." This would be same with ironmouse situation. We all understand that since ironmouse earns a lot, her mom doesn't really need to pay her back. But to her mom, I think she would feel pitied (even though that was not true). Her mom is older and should be responsible for the bills or anything she wants and asking her kids for something kicks her pride a bit. What I think Ironmouse should do is to create a compensation for that to make her feel good herself, to think that she worked for that money she borrowed or ironmouse gave her. Maybe ironmouse should say something like, "You don't need to pay me back but can you help me with cleaning my collection for this weekend since i am busy?" I think her mom is feeling that helping her with the bank and stuff is not enough for that amount of money and she is indirectly wants her to give her more work/responsibility for her to feel that she earned the money. Fullmetal Alchemist: "Something cannot be created from nothing and that in order to create something, something of equal value must be exchanged and lost" By something, to this situation is the money, and the equal value her mom could provide is her time. doing the bank stuff must be too easy for the amount of money she is "borrowing" But that's just a theory, a self made theory....

Everything the light touches is yours -mufasa i think

Most parents: let me get your bank details Ironmouse mom: I can't do it

I'm glad that her mom isn't taking advantage of her tbh.

I love you mom!!! She is such a sweetheart!

adorable mother

I'm generally a bit of a pessimist, but something about these stories from Ironmouse bring a tear to my eye. Hearing about her life story and getting to where she is now, actually brings a little hope to my normally jaded heart.

Ironmom's behavior has been trained into her from decades of taking care of her kids. So I'm not surprised it feels weird to her to be on the other end.

HOW FRUSTRATING! MOUSE JUST TRYING TO BE LOVING AND PAYBACK!

This is WICKED common for families of those that class hop DRAMATICALLY in a very short amount of time. Mouse had no middle class, she just SHOT up from poverty TO LEGIT UPPERCLASS. faster than most people finish high school.

I think she should ask before completely unnecessary luxury expenses (can't imagine there's too many of these) and transactions over a certain amount, say $1000. But for small important purchases like groceries and upkeep of the house and car, she should just take the money.

Just give your mom power of attorney, mouse.

Itonmouse is so pure. ❤❤❤

I can honestly understand why Ironmom is worried like that. Especially if she's heard the horror stories on how Parents essentially robbed their own kids of their hard earned money.

Mouse’s family is so wholesome

Sin miedo al exito

An easy work around would be to set up E transfers and then mouse could just send her mom money through transfers. It might make it feel less invasive for her as then she's not going directly into mouses accounts

At least her mom does ask instead of just taking it all and spending it.

Power can be best entrusted to those who don't want it. 😤

I don't know how it works where you live. But here it would have been wise just to officially employ your parents in that scenario. Just for taxes alone. Because that's ~10k subtraction from the taxable amount per person if they have no other income. This sounds like she should get a professional to check her finances. Not me and not any of the bots this will inevitably attract. Check your region.

Yeah it's so hard, had the same issue with my mom with my first job out of Uni, I was earning more than here and she got upset i was buying her fancy care products and taking her out to dinner. Took her ages to get it through her head she'd raised a self sufficient offspring. Dad on the other hand, he didn't take the hint and just kept transferring me money, so i'd transfer it back with extra, which he reciprocated...Parents, man.

i suggest give the allowance for the mom and dad with her own account together with the bills parents who have high sense lf responsibility dont like spending their kids money unless you told them its their in ther bank account it give them the sense of freedom when they earn their money before

Your a good daughter IronMouse

then set a limit on her spending, having an unlimited amount to spend can be intimidating, if she has a limit she might feel better spending it. its a roundabout method but might be worth a shot.

I think as we become adults, we can all agree that our worst fears are anything related to bills.

You're a sweet grateful daughter.

Bro my ma is like that too like ...Ma just take some your my ma damnit

Dads do just be spending some money

My mom does the same with me, she needed some money for dental procedures so she asked me for help which she struggles with. I gave her the money and told to not sweat it but she insisted on returning it no matter what. After she fixed the problem she pretty much didn't spend a dime to save money so she could return the money as soon as possible.

I'm the same with my situation. Handle all my bills and have access

Man, this makes me miss my mom.

She forgot to say girls worry im gie and im care free we just work and let the girls handle the hard stuff

Always be wary of those who desire the 'power'. :D

Hope she sees this

I'm the same way with money. I grew up dirt poor, I still am. Yet there's this strong desire to be able to provide for myself. Money anxiety isnt' something that just goes away, and a lot fo it ties in to her standing as your mom, Im sure.

I can see that. Most adults don't want to go looking through their kids' bank accounts.

I find Mouse’s mom admirable, most parent would just take money and not tell and try to gaslight or get upset when confronted.

This is a double edged sword though. Imagine you had some money ear marked for something. Anything, and folks go and use said money, don't say anything, not even a heads up or write it down somewhere. Then you go to buy whatever it is and Boom, you're hit with a insufficient funds.

Tell her like this: all of her hard work to keep you alove and support you when you started streaming means she well and truly deserves to be looked after. Most people never even get a good mum these days

Similar scenario happen a few weeks back with my Puerto Rican mother

don Ironmouse i need a smoll loan of$5K to settle my debts... JK but this NEEDED some sad Itanian godfather music great work clippers

My mom had her birthday party weeks ago but her birthday wish was we go with her to the Horse Race Track today for Pegasus Cup championship.. she worded it like she’s taking US.. like we would let her pay. Last year we were so worried because she made about $1k worth of bets but she walked out with over $6k… were getting this derp box seats so she can stay away from the crowd

Mom is goat. She might be a little worried and anxious about it but at least she understands boundaries. In a typical context her Mom is 100 percent on point.

God I wish that were my mom...

Okay but for real, don't ever let your mothers get access to your bank account. That is an instance that will never end well.

I can understand how ironmom feels. Whenever I’m in a decently stable spot with my money is in need of some quick cash to pay a bill or something, I want to just give them what they need without asking them to pay me back since I won’t really be missing the money and because I care about them. This is a mistake however. This will make them feel belittled and like they are indebted with no way to repay you. Instead just tell them to pay you back whenever they can since you trust them. Family works differently though and especially with your situation I can see how her feeling like this would upset you. I don’t think how you are approaching this is wrong but I would suggest trying to give task or something from time to time in consideration of her feelings though I wouldn’t have this conversation with her, that would be very uncomfortable for you both.

Mousie has funny parents.

Irondad continues to be based

My mother gave me joint access to pay bills, and she's angry at me for taking money out of her savings. The problem is, I need to pay the house bills with it, while makong sure there's enough money for all her automatic crap to be paid. Once my bills get more under control, i plan on giving her more money, but until then I have to do, what I have to do.

My advice, mousey should just give her mom stuff since her mom is scared of using raw cash. Ironmom deserves more, since she gave us Ironmouse

I love irondad 😂

Ok the wholesomeness going on here has injured my pancreas. A thought: Perhaps think of the account/s as a ship. IronMouse has joined the adults of the family and is now providing for this family- the family is the crew of this ship. A ship's crew is a team, team members communicate the state of the ship. IronMom with never /not/ report to the other team members her observations. Mouse will have to recognize that Moms r gonna Mom. IronMom kinda sees Mouse as the "Captain" here, in which case, point out a Captain needs a Number One. It's cool IronMom has respected boundaries [very very cool] ; work with the 'crew' and redefine the boundaries and /permissions/ verbally and deliberately. And congrats on having a gigacool Mum [And Dad]

Honestly, this is a mom thing, not just a latinian mom thing.

Give mom a salary, will make things go smoothly

Italians argue. Canadians be polite. Puerto Ricans worry.

Mousey: Mom, you've done everything for me you deserved this. Iron Mom: mi querido, this is your fruit of labor and hard work, i don't deserve this Iron Dad: Thus, My Time Hath Cometh !!! Mousey and Iron Mom: NOT YOU!

Mousey and her mom must be protected at all costs.

Better that she's hesitant than be like so many other parents (mostly, Hollywood parents) that took all their child's finances for granted and pissed it away. Mousey's only really been a big earner for a couple of years now; I hope she has the prudence to invest some for when that may not be the case anymore.

I‘m german but when I hear this I think I must be latinian, I wordy about everything too 😂

W mom

Like my parents. Freely giving any amount to us kids (even if they grumble about it) but refusing point blank to take money and only asking for help if they're in desperate need. sigh....

Mouse needs an assistant she can trust to do what is needed. Technically, she can hire someone remotely to do this type of work. Probably through Discord.

My mom would be ALL OVER that sweet sweet streamer money

I'm having the same issue with my mom, I really want to help her out but she seems freaked out to let me do anything ( She got mad because I paid for dinner one night)

my moms the same one time she spilled some info about she wanted and i was : how much i'm giving she : no but this but that me : 😑 i'm waiting for the number

Ironmom: Oh goodness, I...I need to borrow a penny, but I can pay you back a dollar next month Irondad: Did somebody say free money!

The roles are reversed in my home, I just can't spend my own money and my mom gets upset because I need to go buy socks and clothes and I don't want to spend my own money😂😂 Like I just finally bought two packs of socks because I couldn't find a matching pair that didn't have holes in them, so I went to Walmart with mismatched socks 😅

I love mousey and her family ❤ but just small note maybe you need to talk to your mom one to one and ask if it's OK to talk about her and some embarrassing thing like family matters , i think she will tell you she trust you to know what can talk and what cant and if you don't know just ask her if that subject is sensitive or secret between you two and not for outsiders to know , maybe she just don't want her family affaires to be another contant in the stream or for some of the other members of the family to know , many people like to keep away from being talk about , and being weak or poor or need something or sick is something not everyone can be brave to talk about it or keep calm when people or family talk about them even if online or behind their backs and even if not many people know them personally, it's just the nature of some people and moms are especially who like to keep to themselves and feel shame easily and don't like being the news and talk of others

Man.... if my mom had access to my bank account I would be in prison for debts. I would be sold into slavery or something.

Hmm... it's like Ironmouse is the adult and her mom is the child. :? I kind of get that her mom doesn't want to seem selfish or something to just use inherited money that someone else earned, but I think Mouse is thinking of things in a rather sweet way that her money is more like the family treasury or something that can be more or less shared between all of them and she works to support everyone. :p

I don't see how her asking is a problem. It's important to ask someone to use their money otherwise it will all be gone without you knowing.