Why don't young men bother learning 'game' anymore and what are the consequences: www.patreon.com/posts/82312853?

"I was recording a TikTok and..." This line should have marked the end of the relationship.

The worst thing a man could ever do is be the puppy dog of a low quality woman. Fully agree on this.

its a truly dangerous and insane thing to marry or even be in a relationship with a woman who clearly doesn't love you. its so destructive.

"We don't talk that way to each other" But it's OK to secretly record each other to watch their response. He deserves better than her. She thinks so little of him that she would do that.

A few years ago, I was spending time with a girl. She was going to help a coworker organize a party and she invited me. In the middle of it, she took off with a couple of friends and left me there in the middle of a group of people I didn't know. I never talked to her again. Now jump forward about 3 years. I bumped into a former coworker who also knew her. He told me that the had said that she regretted doing that to me, still missed and wished to see me again. All I did was shrug me shoulders and said nothing. I had no intention of having anything to do with her again. This happened long before I knew anything about setting limits on a woman's actions but it was still disrespectful. It was her loss. Now I do know the impact of walking away and have done it several times. Don't know how it made them feel and honestly, don't really care. Once again, it was their loss.

I would walk away if woman was testing me like that. Why the hell would I want to "pass" some crazy tiktok-test?

They need to make your content a mandatory class for late teens to early 20's youth around the world. Alexander Grace is freeing young men and women from society's indoctrination one video at a time!

If a woman uses you for tictok clout leave. Any woman who does this has proved to you that she is undeserving protection.

No cohabitation No marriage No divorce No Alimony No child support Result happy life..😎😁

I like the analogy of Uber vs train. One more element I can see: An Uber is completely in the service of that one passenger. The train has a lot of passengers, no one passenger is the complete focus. So a man should not only be on track going where he’s going, but he should also be immersed in his own social connections of different sorts.

Tik Tok is making stupid people stupid....er . If a partner did a ''Tik Tok test'' on me it would be over.

Recording a candid camera type of Tik Tok without prior talk/consent between both partners is a MAJOR RED FLAG! When your woman cares more about clout than your relationship you are very easily expandable. I have nothing against couple channels where both partners are have talked and set boundaries and rules. But a relationship for me should be peace, comfort, laughter. I don't want to be constantly stressed and walking on egg shells. And to constantly question her reactions and emotions. Is this the real her or Tik Tok her. No thank you! We don't do this at my house.

That is weird to show that to everybody. Pranks are all good but this was pretty cringy.

No tik tok in relationships. It will screw up the marriage sooner or later.

Standard should be maintained. Noted 👌

The best situation a man can be in is having nobody to walk away from.

Regarding this woman's behavior, this displays the inherently sadistic gauge of men's commitment some women harbor which I made a video on. All I'll say is, this form of behavior only continues if you're not punished (i.e., abandoned) for it.

I genuinely feel like you're too smart for your own good, too smart for many people to not understand that you're *not* a misogynist. You're simply just too smart / intelligent for many to grasp your true words and intentions.

I don't agree with your interpretation of the Tik Tok. The man was way too accommodating and the wife gives off _very_ strong 'unfaithful' vibes. I can't imagine that she's not cheating or planning to cheat on her husband. On another note, the neglect/abandonment thing is very real with women. Many of them are in relationships or married mostly because they're afraid to be alone. I pick up on that and while I don't play the push-pull games, I don't want women who want me mostly because they don't want to feel alone, neglected, and abandoned.

He did tolerate the poor behavior. He needed sternly tell her that is not ok, then turn and walk off. Ignore anything she has to say.

I went to prison because of this same situation. I came home after a long days work and my ex started to yell. I shot her. Gosh this behavior is so irritating

There're reasons why lot of women desires their "toxic" ex over their current partner. She might complain her ex was controlling, always put his foot down, and never took any disrespect but he still misses him. While the current partner is really nice, takes care of her needs and emotionally supportive. At time he's her emotional punching bag. Now that's really bad. That's where she loses all respect for him. In all such cases she romanticise and misses the sex with ex lot more than in current relationship.

That's why dating happens too fast nowadays. I went on MANY dates with my missus, and we both went home alone to our respective homes at the end of the date. She looked forward to the next date (the next time we could see each other) every time. For a short while she had me; my attention, good conversation, good fun, and someone to hold on to. Then it all disappered and she went back to her solo life... and realised how much she hated living solo. We did this until she had finally had enough and made the decision to leave her home (and her solo life) and to come and be with me. And we've been together ever since. 😌

My problem with his response is that he apologized. Never apologize when someone else is misbehaving.

It is very important I understand this correctly: The woman in this video is fully aware, that she is not behaving all-right....and yet it is still the mans responsibility to 1) Know she does not mean it, 2) behave completly balanced and polite tell her it is not allright how she behaves,3) not have any emotional reaction ( Be pissed of) 4) and afterwards forget it because she did not mean it and 5) next time she behaves like this again know she doesnt mean it unless 6) if she is seriosly then take her seriosly.......... And off topic: 7) no matter how bad a woman behaves still find her attractive... Have I understood it correctly? Because then these mindgames is nothing for me. Psychogames are for psychopats.

For me its just hard to not want some sort of justice

I don’t agree. This is totally inappropriate. If your girl is pranking you for likes, get rid of her

Theres also a positive side to this. If she acts particularly kind and sweet, its time to REWARD HER. Best reward is attention. No need for big money gifts. Just spark some positive emotion in her, if shes yours youll know how to

3 days ago I discovered your youtube channel and I can not stop to watch your videos. Thanks a lot for sharing your knowledge and live experience! Even I am a just a scientist :-) I am very happy to have understood, that my thoughts and observations have been evidenced by your videos and presented studies. On top I have got to know, that I have intuitively married a high quality women. Thanks god! Over the last 35 years I have lived in several countries and had to learn to understand other cultures. The way you describe female nature is an obvious and indisputable fact in some none western cultures. There is no misled and fake narrative about the female and male natures. Most of the people have accepted the reality and are dealing with it accordingly, nevertheless I could observe the growing influence of Hollywood and Disney projection of fake romantic and binary view of good and evil.. :-( !

I’m tired of all the stupid mind games you have to play. Is it even worthy it ?

The point you made at 5:05 was actually something a guy friend did to me. I'm a guy btw. I allowed someone to interrupt our conversation and he felt disrespected so he did that little move on me when I was about to get back to our conversation. It was subtle, but I definitely got his message. It was very socially adept of him. Definitely showed his social prowess

While i appreciate your takes, i definitely disagree with your interperetation of the clip. Where you see good husband game, i see blatant disrespect for the sake of a non-consentual tiktok, followed by him apologizing for "rushing" her. And finally he softens the boundry he sets by including himself in the pronoun, "WE dont talk to each other that way", as if he particpated. Thats not a firm stance in my world. Its more like how i'd discipline a young child.

Thanks. I love the analogy between Train and Uber!

Agreed, there were times that I lost my cool and it was definitely because I was more angry with myself for the situations I had allowed myself to be placed into or the people that I had allowed to take up my time. Not having a secure frame in place for ones self only leads to self-destruction.

i loved the Uber vs Train metaphor Interesting !!!

definitely done this already. greetings from Romania 🇷🇴

He handled it nearly perfectly. The only thing I'd add is no more weird pranks like that. That may have been discussed off cam if this for sure wasn't staged. Some women are too Caught up in following trends & social media. Or he could have shown weakness another time. There was no need for him to say sorry either. He could have rephrased not trying to rush her. But we're all humans here.

Most probably this is fake

You are such an eloquent speaker

Straight women here, i think you're spot on

I've come across their videos before, that guy is honestly awesome. He dodges and weaves with a dash of humor. Much respect.

I've said this many times before, and some people see it as insecure but imo I just have zero tolerance for BS. If I was spoken to disrespectfully I'd calmly ask her to leave and I'd say the relationship is over. Not with any intention of making her feel a certain way - simply because I'm done. I'd educate my partner on how we should speak to one another and if we're frustrated, to take a few breaths before speaking, stay silent or walk away; never be abusive or disrespectful as to do so is grounds for ending the relationship (I have a track record of doing so - so they know I don't bluff).

He has no reason to be upset since he's not in mortal danger, but he has reason to slow her roll and inquire what is the context of this unexplained mood, exactly as he did. Cheers to him.

Brilliant analogy with Uber vs Train. All aboard!

Really great video. One of the best in the latter times of the channel

So I'm speaking from experience here and I believe that the way the guy handled this conflict in the video is perfect. If he's interested to have a long-term relationship, you have to handle conflict like this in a calm way. If you're ever in a conflict where one of the two people are too emotional or too angry you immediately have to put the conversation and conflict on ice and take it up again... maybe the next day when everybody's calmed down. I think 'never go to bed angry' is terrible advice. Conflicts need to be solved but a huge blowout will damage the relationship

He knew it wasn’t her usual way of talking, he reacted with surprise and bewilderment, because she isn’t really like that at all.

So what I'm hearing, which seems to be a common theme even outside this channel, is that too get a girl, she has to not mean anything to you. Might work for a hook up, but I don't see how you could build, much less maintain a real relationship. If I'm that disinterested, I'm not gonna even care about talking to her. I'm not that guy and don't want to be. If I have to put on an act to be in a relationship, what's the point? And if you really are willing to walk away from someone that easy, why would you want to get into a long term relationship with them.

Im not usually one to learn tacky gimmicks to have more success in the dating world But dammit, im tired of being open without boundaries just to get used then abandoned with nobody to nurture my hurt as I just did for hers

Having the strength to walk away and never look back. Thats a thing i learned from correy wayne's 3% man

REALLY BADLY STAGED! The fact that he's perfectly in frame is one of many dead giveaways.

For me, my normal mode of interaction with women is one of polite indifference. Being biologically hard-wired to seek attention and validation, l think it sometimes piques their curiosity about you when you seem to be more involved in something else and are socially oblivious to their presence.

the train/uber analogy is perfectly on point !

The girlfriend recorded him to see his reaction to test him. How many more tests will there be? Speaks volumes. He should have also said, "Play stupid games win stupid prizes. We are breaking up."

When you say women do not want the power its very true. I've enjoyed dominatrix's and ect but they're exceptions most women genuinely want to be submissive in the bed room and i was shocked by this being raised as a feminist it took a while for me to be comfortable going so rough. But wow I look back at how I was raised and I'm like yeah feminism goes against everything that women find attractive. Most male feminists are conditioned to seek another mother and they're often confused and constrained yes I blame the women not the men because like me these men were lied to from childhood

Great "Train" and "Uber" comparison.

You read my mind! I was just going to comment that he was not stern enough and then you explained it right while i was writing my comment 😂 makes sense now

The comparison of the train and the uber was magic

Why was she talking to him like that while she was recording? What was going to be her point on the video? How she talks to her man and he just puts up with it? Had he not came in there to confront her, what was the point of the outburst going to be?

The push-pull is also really effective when she experiences last minute resistance in the bedroom.

Men also have that fear of abandonment but they have been trained to own that feeling, to claim ownership and be accountable for it. Women aren't expected to have this.

Super advise.

Just walk away... Then a couple of days later, set up your camera and give her a slap when she walks into frame. Then just laugh it off, give her a hug and say, its ok, I was just making a TikTok video. Problem solved!

that train vs uber analogy is *chefs kiss* muah

That video was fake, rehearsed...

Good example, we all need to be more like that. That being said that guy could definitely do better.

The guy was so calm and handled it so well. Admirable.

Ok so he states his boundaries. In a way I would if Im stressed. My mom would yell a lot , so before I used to act aggressive. But telling her nicely she wouldn't listen. Like I would have to repeat myself like 10 times then she would change. Putting fear of life takes like 1 second. There's very few scenarios where I'll do this to a stranger, almost did it to ny teacher . But I don't feel like a man , because they are weaker than me , ofc they would be scared . If I feel like someone stronger than me , I'll be on a "unalive" phase where I don't care what will happen to me if I can do 1% damage to them and 99% on me or if I get unalived in the process it's a win to me. However, then I learned about the ways of cartels , and I really don't want to continue this mode . Im stooping to their level. So now what Im doing is I go in this "unalive" phase and try to do my best to do the right thing.

Your advice is solid. With that said I don’t have the energy to deal with someone that does not know how to be a normal God fearing human. I don’t know when this behavior became normal but I refuse to play.

Brootal looksmatched couple in 2023

omg I just love your uber/train analogy. Now my childhood dream can come true. I wanna be a TRAIN

uber/train analogy, love it, that about sums it up ⏱😎

My GF has the advantage of having WORKED for TikTok. Nobody hates it more than her, after she was forced to watch 1,000 of their videos a day, and then chewed out repeatedly by her boss for simultaneously not watching MORE videos in a day, and also not being MOPRE careful in her review of said videos lol.

Totally agree with this. It becomes a problem though, if you're married. You can't just walk away. It will take time, effort and especially a lot of money. Bottom line? Don't get married. UNFORTUNATELY, the type of woman that we are all most interested in, feminine, agreeable (I prefer the FFM trait 'agreeableness' to 'submissiveness'), emotionally stable, and not impulsive, is more likely to be interested in marriage. So at the very least, keep things within your control and get a prenup. tl;dr marriage makes the ability to 'just walk away' extremely difficult. A prenup should lessen that difficulty some, so at the very least, get a prenup.

WALK AWAY AND SAVE YOUR LIFE FROM THOSE INSANE PEOPLE

I pushed and pulled unintentionaly. and she calls me manipulator. then I intentionaly leave. cause apearently she doesnt want me. then 2 months later asks me to choose her

From what I noticed, women like to get told what to do but not forced to do anything.

"I apologize for existing" The funniest sht I've heard all day..got a free laugh out of the video.

You should clarify that doing this won't attract a woman you would want to marry, it's good to know the basics of what is going on in a woman's head, but having to play games all the time to get women is a pretty fast way to an unhappy life!

Even tho it looks like cruel technique i knew this naturally when i was 10. Always talked to all the girls in the room but the one i really wanted. And worked every single time. Its just later on in life i thought that i was using a cheat code, maybe being honest is better. Well tried it. Its not. Once you become yes man and honest 100% of the time you are boring the them. And no matter her character and background they are all the same.

He neither said he'd walk away, nor implied it.

Well. While there is undoubtedly much to be said on this topic that gets my blood "BOILING", I doubt there's much I can say that all of you in this comment section has not already said... However. As far as my own personal convictions go all I will say on the matter is, an "AUTHENTICALLY GOOD WOMEN", will work to bring peace, love and altogether fulfillment to your life so long as you bring safety, security and altogether abundance to hers. I understand women's need to feel secure in the presence of the man there with, BUT! Going out of their way to deliberately target men's insecurities to get them to lose control and potentially run the risk of landing him in prison on false charges when she in fact was the initiator, all for the sake of testing the strength of his frame is NO EXCUSE. Regardless of ones nature, we all still have a choice, and we are what we choose to be, and if what we choose to be is a deliberate manipulator, scammer, deceiver and altogether hypergamy leech, then I am sorry, but such an individual imo does not apply for a man's love or protection; certainly not at the expense of both his own wellbeing and even very life... I'm just struggling to understand how a man can not only sacrifice a life of peace and freedom where he can use his: time, money, strength, energy, desire, resources, love and ambition to being the best version of himself he wants to be, and if he's both done the work and done it right do whatever he so chooses, and has his pick of the litter concerning women (where he can acquire sex for free for the rest of his life) why he would choose to settle down for just one girl who actively not only make his life an unnecessary living hell, but also has the legal power to destroy him upon a single word and render him disposable... And yet we as men are expected to genuinely love these creatures almost unconditionally without complaint or protest. How...? Maybe I'm being too harsh, but that's my closing question. How are we supposed to love the unlovable...?

I’m talking to a female friend who is currently wound up over a guy who is making her wait for a reply. Didn’t you tell me you weren’t interested in him? I asked. Ya, but I still want him to pay attention…

From Where can I learn the game?

Love that guy too!

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🚶‍♂️ Emphasizes the power of walking away from confrontational situations with women. 00:13 🤔 Highlights the importance of maintaining standards and communication in relationships. 01:17 ✅ Asserts that responding maturely and assertively to tests or challenges in a relationship is crucial for respect and attraction. 01:44 🚫 Discusses the inefficacy of overreacting when setting boundaries in relationships. 02:13 💪 Suggests that a calm and confident demeanor when enforcing boundaries indicates strength and self-assurance. 02:56 🚶 Emphasizes walking away as an effective response to conflict, rather than engaging in anger or arguments. 03:08 😨 Describes the innate fear of abandonment many women experience and its evolutionary roots. 04:16 🥶 Discusses social dynamics and fear of being ostracized within female social circles. 04:45 🔄 Explains the "Push Pull" technique used to generate attraction by alternating between showing interest and disinterest. 06:24 🎢 Illustrates how emotional highs and lows can increase a man's attractiveness by being the source of a woman's emotional states. 07:35 💁‍♂️ Argues that a man's willingness to walk away showcases his high quality and is attractive to women. 08:04 🚫 Critiques men who exhibit clingy, needy behavior, asserting that it is unattractive to women. 08:32 🎮 Social skills and Game Theory are crucial for young men's development; skipping this step is detrimental. 09:01 🎭 Practical experience complements theoretical knowledge in social dynamics and dating. 09:16 🚶‍♂️ Exiting a conversation at its peak can increase attraction and prevent appearing needy. 10:12 💭 A scarcity mindset prevents men from walking away, potentially reducing their desirability. 10:54 🚂 Being decisive and directional like a train, not accommodating like an Uber, is more attractive to women. 11:50 🛤️ A man should be purpose-driven and not overly influenced by a woman's presence or absence. 12:44 ✊ Women lose attraction to men they perceive as having too much influence over. 13:25 🗣️ Effective communication and setting standards in a relationship are critical; being overly accommodating is not respected. 15:00 💪 Women respect and are attracted to men with strong personal standards and the ability to uphold them. Made with HARPA AI

Alexander you did a great job at explaining the situation.

This really happens. My gf at the time shouted for NO reason. I learnt back in 2000 how to hold frame. BUT what I should have done was brek up. These wonen are crazy and stay crazy.

What’s most comical about people who get angry is they think they are powerful by displaying it when it actually shows they are unable to control it and therefore are weak.

I have no trouble turning my back and walking away from a woman when I cold approach...because I can't really think of anything worthwhile to say after the initial icebreaker. :(

FYI when you point tothe corner "click here" nothing is popping up.

You can walk away, at most, twice. Usually it’s a one time event that works. Keep that in mind.

Trains run on their own time. They come and go when they want, not when they're called (they might have a published schedule, or some public transportation subways just show up every so often). The passengers wait at the station to make sure they're not left behind. The train never comes faster because someone's in a rush, never stays longer because someone's running late. Be a train.

When you use such gaslighting , dont blame someone who is using it against you.

Have you started reposting or revisiting videos from the past? The last few I swear I recall from a couple years ago..

It certainly appears like they have a good relationship.

All well and done, until she has serious mental health issues that prevent her from shooting for the standards you set and she agreed on. Like my ex GF and still neighbor. Twice she ended it during a depressive phase and we both know we cannot go for a third try before she dealt with her issues. We talked it through two days ago. So I have the very unfortunate situation of the almost perfect woman for me living just above me and not being able to get together with her for a long time. Same on her side. She could also be thousands of kilometers away. If that is motivation for her to really go for it I don't know, we keep our contact to a minimum to not fall for each other again too soon. The incredible strong attraction between us is still there. That sucks on so many levels. Life is no RomCom.

Now this is what I can't stand about women. These tests. Why cant I just be chill and do my thing without having to deal with this artificial hostility. Glad im single 😎

I wouldn't even bother raising my voice or communicating boundaries. If a woman gives me any hassle, I bounce.