This is a lesson that we should always listen to the two sides b4 we judge anyone, I’m so sorry for this man and I’m so sorry for insulting him before hearing him out, some women can give you a hell on earth.

It is better to live in the desert than to live with this type of woman.

This man speaks so good😊

I really love Mr. Bello, he is really someone who keeps details. This is one story that supported my stand that a man should not be handed 100% blame in a divorce case. Looking at Mrs. Bello's countenance its obvious she is a troublesome woman. Look at her, she never mentioned all her bad side and that is the same story she will be playing into people's brain to make her man bad. Sames goes to every woman who has been involved in divorce. You cant claim to be a victim in a situation you join to create.

when a good man is fed up, nothing anyone can do about it.

The gentleness of Emma Bello flows in the blood stream of his family. I remember the younger brother, Anthony Bello of blessed memory, their father a jovial old man. Emmanuel was my model of gentleness. I loved to see him around during any of our religious gatherings. Watching you on this episode of justice court has made me ponder on the irony of life. 'This life no balance at all'. Every good woman would have love to have you as a husband but unfortunately, your Marital life has been hell from your explanation. I pray that God will give you peace of mind. Brother! Emmanuel Bello as we used to call you back in the day, you're one of those that taught me gentleness. I also remember your adage; everybody's goat is nobody's 🐐 and that goat will either die of hunger or gluttony.

Unhappy marriages are so sad! I pray they both find peace.

Her body language says it all, she is a piece of work

Chai!!!! We men are going through a lot. Thank God Hakimi paid back. Just 1 time but gives us a sigh of relief.

I can just imagine how justified and relieved her former lover feels now watching this. Once a person is damaged or battered from a previous relationship, marrying her may be suicidal. Such a person is likely to avenge all pains of that previous relationship on you. Marrying out of pity is destructive. Anyways, the main issue here is the welfare of the kids as the marriage is definitely gone. However, paternity test is required for all 4 children to truly ascertain that those are his children. I comment my full reserve for now until final episode. Gracias!

You see ladies with this type of stature and size, I dey fear them oo.

So happy to see Judge Funmi doing what she knows how to do best

She does not want to grow and mature. He is an older and humble person who wants a quiet life while she still wants to go out and explore. I believe she got with him because he felt pity on her and she knows he would provide. She certaintly is not ready to be monogamist

Anybody complaining about abuses in their previous relationship before they meet you, u need to make a rigorous background check before you proceed with the relationship with them because most times they're actually the abuser.

This is what you get when you marry out of pity. He met a single mother struggling to provide for her son he helped and affection grew.

Woman and their "weakest point" moves. She a smart woman, see her narrative how she went straight to the kids and build it with emotions and pity while she the fire cracker in the marriage

I can relate very well, the man should find a life again.

may God not allow us to settle down with a wrong partner , they were not made to be together💔💔😢😢

I am ashamed becos before the husband spoke I was cursing him. As soon as he spoke to tell his side I knew he was a good man. Yes he should move on with his life

Husbands even if you are not interested in the marriage please don't let it affect the welfare of the children.

Look at how she kept her neck when he was talking 😂. Suspicious

Some women will make you run away even from your shadow. Seriously I fear Nigerian women.

He needs a DNA please, all i can see in her is narcissistic behavior.

One of the Nigerian program that makes me happy ☺️☺️

My brother run ooo run ooo

The most important part is the upkeep of your children

It is really unfortunate that Mrs Bello is unable to control herself during Mr Bello's testimony as her body language really indicates that she has an anger management issues. Her Husband was very quiet during her testimony. Mrs Bello is unable refute the allegation about her violence towards her Husband or her various neighbours including possible adultery. She should go for anger management, and also should include her husband in relationship counselling. I reserve my further comments until the conclusion of the case.

She beat someone's child and mistreated them!!!!!??? She deserves what she gets

i have been in such a situation and i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i could not let the love of my life go

May God have mercy on this troublesome woman

This life no balance truly. Some women are virtuous women but just enduring their relationship. But this woman has her man but the man is the one enduring it

Oh no. May he run far away from this woman and never look back. I even feel bad for him, he has to tolerate her until the kids are 18 years.

There IS Always two sides to a story.. I started hating on the man when She gave her own verdict... NOW SEE all he said 🙄

Courtship in relationship is as important as marriage NEVER ignored signs if you can't manage courtship you are 99% likely not going to manage your marriage...

Peace is a very valuable asset. Everybody needs peace. *Note* my comment was written before I heard Oga Bello talk and he proved my comment right.

Juggling between emotional display while speaking to get sympathy and signs of disgust and rage while he speaks says a lot. If you don't know what narcissistic behaviours are, you are not truly safe.

I laughed hard when Akin said Priscilla Ojo 😂,he must be a big fan of Priscy;Iyabo Ojo’s daughter

The body language of that woman justified the man's statement. The woman onws the man a lot of honour for ever accepting her with a son that's not his biological child. If the woman is not problematic, I believe there wouldn't be any cause for alarm.

Damn this man is real gentle man

The way she first petitioned her case as if she was innocent.

That lady might look all calm & collected...but I see a very violent & problematic person in her. The man has a commendable calm & humble demeanor. POV: In whatever you do, never settle with the wrong partner. Pray for Grace!! Kudos to Judge Funmi ❤️ Looking forward to part2 🤞🏽

This woman is something else !!

I can't stop enjoying the disposition of this beautiful cool young judge.

Mere looking at her face one would know she is contentious and confrontational.they love taking advantage of a gentleman.

Mrs Bello needs to go for anger management workshop. I pray her husband forgives her because he has already had enough.

this man is too learned for this lady

Perfect place to make peace ✌️

Now I understand why the Bible says " it is better to live alone in the corner of the roof than live with a quarrelsome wife in a mansion " Proverbs 25:24

i know her type...the need DNA to even confirm those children....

I love the man’s eloquence 💋💋

Happy to see Justice court notification E dey give me joy And . learning alot Thank you ma God bless you The man is from same state as me wow

I understand how it may not be fair that the children are affected but this man is severely traumatised by this woman that he is willing to avoid her by all means. He said her phone number gives him bad memories, that's a sign of severe trauma and that was totally disregarded in this proceeding. I feel so much for this man eventhough I blame him for staying to the point where he became traumatised. He should have left at the first sight of violence, someone is violent and you still decided to marry her.

Alot of people here won't understand what the man is going through. Immediately you marry a wrong partner....boom your hell start here on earth

Ma'am you're the best lawyer in the whole wide world 😌♥️♥️ I love you..I wish you more wisdom, knowledge and prosperity ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼❣️

That man is a good man. God bless you judge funmi

Is always good to hear from both side

I see a man who left all the love of his children with his wife,they are closer to her, she's turning them against him ..

Third party is the worst thing that can happen in a marriage

Shes so immature.... she's still feeling fine girl and can do life. Accepting money from a man outside without the consent of your husband. Bro leave her tf alone.

Both are eloquent and are able to express themselves clearly, no further comment till next week. God bless Judge Funmi.

If it were those days the children will always be in their father's side while the mother will be visiting... My dad/mom separated when we're very tender (4, 6,9yrs old) and three of us was moved to father's side while our mom used to visit us. What a terrible moment though 😭😭😭 and I don't pray that any child should experience it.

My candid advise to the is that regardless...show your children love and be responsible.

Watching from U.K. much luv to the amazing judge 👩‍⚖️🇳🇬💐💐

From my personal opinion, and base on the testimony from the couples, the woman does not deserve this man. The man is too soft and gentle hence she took advantage of that to live the type of life she want. Sad!😔

ThIs woman is a curse upon this gentle calm man & it's his decency & calmness that this heartless woman is using against him & even taking advantage of as well... She's simply evil & doesn't deserve such a responsible man... She has no respect for her husband.. As a lady, I wish the man can divorce her to have peace of mind...

Paternity test is necessary in this case before the next step

This is a spiritual problem and the solution is deliverance.

Oh Lord give this innocent man peace of mind, women! Women!! Women!!! Una matter dey God ✋

The plaintiff is a typical angry mother. Just how she stands, chewing gum in the court shows lack of respect. I know the defendant is frustrated. He should seek a lawyer to organize the upkeep for the kids should be done. I pray the kids make something of their lives or are able to live with their father eventually.

From her action, The lady is violent. Chief move on, just try and provide for your kids. That lady is not a wife material, someone that gave your son his surname. You are still abusing him.

Well God is the ultimate judge but I believe the man more than the woman

Calm couples in speech but only God knows how their tolerance cycle is. But I think judge funmi is doing a great job.

This is a hard one, but the man is more believable than the lady. The worst thing is to marry a narcissist. The trauma alone is mind addling.

I can really relate to this story, the woman loves the man and the man loves the children. It's not easy to talk to such a woman, she has manipulative character. The man is going thru a lot

A real gentleman!

This woman is a case oo jesus 😭 see soft spoken man, caring and a provider gosh

As much as I sympathise with this man, he should NEVER have deserted his children including his step son. So sad when marriages don't work, there's a lot more to this story, you can't understand in one sitting, people shouldn't be too quick to judge.

That girl is the trouble maker. She's not ready for marriage and she's the one destroying the family. She doesn't want the man to take the children to his parents while she took them to her parent's house.

Is always good to end this thing before kids get involved.

People with hot temper should please go sort a solution. I dated a girl who had a very high one...thank God im free today

her body language says a lot already

Even if the woman is problematic as he claims, that is not a good enough excuse to neglect your kids! Judge Funmi will correct him next episode!

This calm and gentle man just ended up with a very wrong partner…it’s a pity

The Lady is collected as well and seem to be calm even when the man was explaining his side of the story. Please takecare of your kids

Peace of mind is important 😌

The woman is the problem , women make homes so hostile the man had no choice but to leave for his sanity . That woman is a big problem you can tell

He should take care of his children and let this woman go her way.she s taking advantage of the man

God bless you judge for your great widom

My suggestion is, Please the court should help this man with the DNA test for the children. This lady is something else o. We from the northern part of Nigeria people always take advantage of us because we're calm. They think they are wiser, even in offices it's the same. Please the honorable judge Fumi. Your honor Ma, help this man he had suffered in the hand of this ungrateful woman. Not because he's from the North like me, but let justice be done we all deserve justice. Thanks 🙏🙏

The issue is with the care of the children not your marital history. Take care of your children period.

Dear young men ....stay away from single mothers oooooo

Always vet people properly before allowing them into your life!

As a single man, stay away for single mothers for your own sanity, u don’t know why the baby’s father left

Justice funmi should make this more of a conversation after getting the full story behind the scene so that we the viewers can get the full story also. It feels like an incomplete story because the plaintiff didn't get to defend her story

It's good to listen to the two people o. This man has been through alot. Chai

That lady with gold short hair always present In court....her facial expression tho😆

All these long story sef🤦the lady didn't come for marriage settlement, she came for the kids and to think I almost pitied you only to hear you saw your children last 2019 Jeez!!! Even if your wife treated you badly or vice versa, it is not right to pour out all frustration on the kids *your flesh and blood* How can you be comfortable not seeing your children since 2019, no effort at all. If you cherished your kids enough you should have fought for them just as she's doing now ... Pls if your marriage doesn't work out.. Fine, just don't punish innocent kids or better still if you see early signs of "I can't live with this person" Don't make babies together!

Huuummnnn For the fact that Mrs Bello confirmed that her husband accepted her child from her previous marriage shows his love and compassion to her, taking responsibility of the child from another marriage shows how responsible he is. His current reaction must be borne out of frustration from a troublesome, insatiable and nagging wife. A woman who can go outside of her matrimonial home to collect gift from another man,travel for days with same man now runs to Court to ask for endless money from her husband that she never respect or love under the guess of children welfare. She ran here simply because she knew Justice Funmi will always have sympathy for children in cases like this. Though the children welfare is the prayer before the court, it will be nice to look into the allegation of violence and infidelity levied against her which she never refuted. The man should equally ask for the custody of all the children that are above 7 years. Chikena NEVER MARRY OUT OF PITY. This has always been my counsel to the upcoming young ones .

Ashawo still Dey this woman eye😂😂😂 I come in peace

As a man,It really hurts so much when your partner cheats on you,Often time it can also make you start transferring agression to the kids. Each time we talk about issueslike these,it will also be good if we can go to the grassroots of the problem,But because kids are involved,So we must focus more on the kids warfare first. but to my own understanding,i believe it will be of no good to include your innocent kids in your beef with their mother.